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Because most men just want an easy partner, without actually having to work too hard themselves. That’s what he was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:59 AM
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Because you also have to add benefit to a woman’s life, it is not one sided which that comment seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:10 AM
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but I don’t always wanna eat healthy, there’s no enjoyment to life without eating fun food in moderation the grocery analogy is so immature lol dates are free but sex is expected and a given according to men, what about my safety, what about not wanting to be a fucktoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:26 PM
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Because you said so, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:19 AM
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More than aware Love me a “good” nerd personally that worships me, unlike men who want to be equal in every way even if they don’t bring equalness to the table lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:39 AM
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100% ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:30 AM
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nobody is lying about being into average men, men are also not into average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:29 AM
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why should we be attracted to average lets be real there’s >4 billion men what makes a man stand out from average?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:27 AM
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lmao tangential delusions from a schizophrenic talking to himself good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:23 AM
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going on dates with people is quite literally giving them a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:22 AM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:20 AM
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lol considering I’ve given two short men a shot and they refused to let me wear heels and get in an insecure little fit, I’ll pass on lower than my height of 5’7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:20 AM
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huh? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:18 AM
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lmao 1 of my exes has, the other no, I like my height or taller (5’7) which is doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:16 AM
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body count only matters to insecure losers idk what u mean by “refuses to fuck you”, sexual compatibility is integral to any relationship, women don’t withhold sex out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:16 AM
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says the man with no experience 🥴 none of the men I have been interested in/dated have made 6 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:15 AM
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…by being good in all the other aspects you can control? grooming/hygiene, clothing, fitness and health, intelligence, charisma, stable job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:14 AM
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most women’s standards are just a man that isn’t a HOBOsexual that will treat her as a bang maid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:13 AM
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yeah because all those dms are incels just wanting their incel queen, thinking they don’t have standards and are sex starved as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:09 AM
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Ugh shut up This is all so subjective. Of course if you’re a fat incel that lives with your parents you’re gonna be “lonely” - this also applies to women. Most women just get to fixing these problems whereas men hope someone else will fix it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:08 AM
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I have no idea how you drew that conclusion from what I’ve said LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:08 AM
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Yes I’m asking YOU, what do you do to make a woman’s life easier if you will only settle for a woman that makes your life easier? Considering you would be working with or without a partner, you don’t get brownie points simply for working a job anymore. It isn’t sacrificing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:07 AM
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lmao and how do YOU make the woman’s life easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:16 AM
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lmao taken care of? You realise the men do nothing different to what they’d do single, right? Everyone works - it doesn’t deserve a medal. He’d be working with or without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:15 AM
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Bang maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:45 AM
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There already is job training - see internships and university degrees and scholarships. Mental health support - see psychologists and psychiatrists. You’re “not in a position to answer that well” because it’s honestly truly nobody’s problem except the people who feel “lonely” and “ostracised”. Do something about it YOURSELF. Women when they have a problem typically cry, and then think there’s no point crying anymore, time for me to fix it. Men cry, (or don’t, because reasons), and then think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:14 AM
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That doesn’t answer the question. How do we “make men feel like they have a stake in their community”. They, like every other successful woman and man, have to do that themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:09 AM
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Again. Individually or collectively, what do you SUGGEST we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:03 AM
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LMFAO it’s the same as a normal flu, if you test it’ll be positive for influenza A/B. suck it up, testosterone doesn’t “weaken” the immune system and if that was the case men would be sick 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:02 AM
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No, it’s not my problem whatsoever. Again. What do you expect women to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:55 AM
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lol except you’re comparing “starving” (not having food, a basic human need) to sex/relationships (wants and a plus, but not a need)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:47 AM
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Deaths of despair aren’t women’s problem lol How do you suggest we give these people an “easier time”? By giving them sex, and settling? How about no 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:45 AM
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No? Why would we care about “overall happiness”? Majority of people are still happy. If not, that’s up to them to make themselves happy. There’s no excuse for violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:33 AM
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… learn the skill set just like young women did. you aren’t gonna be spoon fed, and younger women are realising older men pursuing them is grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:46 PM
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Boo you can’t get pregnant, cry about a tiny piece of skin. Comparing apples and fucking oranges is absurd in 2026 with all the information we have Also, it takes two to tango. Considering most women take the pill, have the rod or IUD, and opt for condoms whereas men do fuck all, the responsibility of pregnancy also falls on the man. Luckily child support laws support this ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:10 PM
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for real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:13 PM
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lmaoooo no, we don’t, we really don’t, they just… are incompetent! simple as that. doesn’t matter how many times you explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:13 PM
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Oh no! Circumcision! Something that affects BABIES and not you as an adult (I hope) on reddit, that you can blame your parents for. My body my choice refers to not having to pop out babies you don’t want. Which men don’t do, thus cannot equate to circumcision. So wtf are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:12 PM
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It’s not a baby until it’s born lmfao it’s a foetus, and “killing” it when it’s a parasite before viability (24 weeks) is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:20 AM
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Lmfao okay so infants, because their parents choose to mutilate them. That’s totally “no bodily autonomy” mate piss off with ya crack up bs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:20 AM
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LMFAO there’s always mentions of the Ukraine draft as if the MALE gov didn’t decide that for the men there Women don’t have any rights in some countries, and USA is now refusing healthcare (abortions) in most states to women. So how is that the “right”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:20 AM
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The feminist movement is in the USA? And literally every other western country? Explain how men don’t have bodily autonomy 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:46 AM
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The right to do with their body as they wish - bodily autonomy, in MOST states of the USA. See Afghanistan, most African countries, and Islamic rule countries - no rights for women, not even to leave the house, or contest abuse. Fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:17 AM
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Feminism = misandry? Cause we just want the same rights 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:14 AM
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No. I’m saying the men here commenting on this post crying they don’t have any positive experiences. Correction is, if you don’t get past hi or bye you have 0 experience in “dating” thus cannot say you’ve had negative experiences because you don’t know the nuances of dating, sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:54 AM
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what? are you schizo? who are u talking to and what r u talking about rn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:43 AM
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Lmao yes negative experiences of getting REJECTED. Not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:08 AM
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Dating. To date you have to have your approaches accepted. If you don’t even get past hi and bye, you have 0 experience. We don’t include “approaches” and “interaction” as dating experience therefore how can you comment on dating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:00 AM
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Well, we are referring to actual dating / sex / relationship experience. Of which the men here don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:29 AM
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mate you can’t even spell faeces correctly so who doesn’t know English?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:45 AM
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You’re delusional here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:58 PM
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lol wtf r u doing commenting on a 5 day old comment like a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:19 PM
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Most*
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:45 PM
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Why’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:31 AM
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No, I just remembered your username from some absurd post. Took one click to confirm my thoughts. 🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:24 AM
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No, it says more about you. You are some random dude who says men aren’t capable of romantic love. You’re not exactly smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:20 AM
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lmfao not the chat GPT “synonym” words to make yourself seem intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:16 AM
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Isn’t basic grammar mandatory in primary and highschool? It’s “weren’t”. “Weren’t statistics mandatory”. Yes. They are. And statistics now say we both pay the SAME amount of tax and earn the same amount of tax per dollar / super/retirement benefits. Nursing numbers skyrocketed, because women enjoy the independence and freedom the job and income provides. I have my own house and go on 2 holidays a year minimum. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:19 AM
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Can YOU? What job do YOU do that includes any of these things? Cause for me, I save lives. Can you do that? I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:17 AM
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I know 🤣 “when I started abusing them they were drooling after me and couldn’t get enough!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:24 AM
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Mate I have never seen any woman say that here ever 🫩🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:24 AM
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Yeah… we definitely aren’t interested anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:16 AM
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Huh? Are you trying to say that’s what I am? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:10 AM
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Marriage IS the commitment. An engagement is the part of it that shows that initial commitment. It’s fine not to get married in this day and age, because weddings cost >20k on a budget, easily. A ring is reasonable. Idk any woman demanding it. I know women who get upset if their partners haven’t proposed by year 3-5, because it feels like they’re a placeholder and the partner is waiting for someone better, or the grass to be greener with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:08 AM
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I’m answering your question as to why “women demand it”. They are not demanding marriage, but commitment from their long term partner. A few years in you should know if you want to marry her or not and getting a ring on her finger shouldn’t be an issue. Men definitely need and WANT marriage more than women. Yes most women want to be married but not with the wrong person. They want that show of commitment and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:03 AM
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2 years is considering you are actually in a mature ADULT relationship that moves relatively “quick”, most couples move in around 1 year together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:52 AM
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that’s why I said a year or two. two is more than enough, one year is okay if you’re both mature and it isn’t your first rodeo (typically happens in your older relationships) any more than two and you’re still “unsure” is just crazy and only keeping someone around as a placeholder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:48 AM
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because typically you know if you want to marry them after a year or two. 5-8+ years being “unsure” is absolutely ridiculous honestly. if you have any uncertainty about her being the “right woman”, you should simply leave her rather than waiting around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:45 AM
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What do you mean, why? Why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:43 AM
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Source: trust me bro I get so much pussy now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:42 AM
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Because if you wanna be with a woman, you shouldn’t be needing years to decide if you want to marry her. You don’t have to marry straight away, but a few years in you should definitely know if she’s the one and be WANTING to put a ring on her finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:41 AM
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lmao yes they are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:24 AM
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You realise, everyone will be forced if it is necessary, right? They’re at war. Thats what war is. They don’t have a choice, because nobody WANTS to go to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:13 AM
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Believe it or not, men are stronger than women. Men are also typically raped DRASTICALLY less as prisoners of war. Men can also not get pregnant, and Ukraine is in need of efforts to increase the population. Men also don’t want to do women dominated jobs - such as nursing, childcare, teaching, aged care and disability care, so if women got conscripted, who would do all these jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:12 AM
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You mean - so women don’t become war slaves to be raped and impregnated, and so women stay in country to do jobs men Don’t want to do like nursing/aged care/disability care/child care? And to reproduce considering so many have died?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:01 AM
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because members of the house don’t say “I’m gonna conscript men” when it’s time to vote. Just like trump didn’t say he was gonna set off bombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:00 AM
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lmao, except, the fact that it’s 2026 would stop it. Women would begin killing themselves or others en masse. You just don’t realise it. None of us are going back to having no rights - not over our bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:53 AM
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well, the conscription was. It was not voted upon by the general public, it was a vote passed in house. The house has approx 20% women last time I checked. So even if every one of those women voted yes, let’s conscript men, it still wouldn’t have passed without at least 31% men voting yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:45 AM
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lmfao and do you truly think that would work, in 2026?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:44 AM
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lmfao IT is such a generic, easy course that most self proclaimed “nerds” who wanted to be graphic/game designers in highschool pursued. it’s so over saturated that it has lost its usefulness, and with AI it’s basically almost a redundant job
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:40 AM
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lmfao yep, except, like most countries, an election only takes place every >4 years. like most countries, half of those votes are always gonna be men. therefore, how is it dependent on women? I don’t know any woman who lives in Ukraine who is actually THANKFUL the men are conscripted. the country is at WAR. They don’t have a choice much like nobody in any western country would have a choice if it came to it. Their population is already diminished because of this war, thus they value women’s repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:28 AM
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“building software” 🤓🤓🤓 mate you did a certificate in IT and youre trying to call yourself an engineer. IT is the most generic, over saturated job field there is that doesn’t actually contribute much benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 AM
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My fake job? A level 1 trauma centre emergency nurse? You mean - a job men don’t ever want to do, cause they think bodily fluids and caring for people is below them? Men and women pay the SAME amount of taxes. WOMEN run companies, and are politicians. WOMEN work in productive sectors, including food, water, electricity and building infrastructure. It’s not the 1900s. Women work in all of these roles now and more. We have rights. We pay the SAME amount of taxes and earn the same amount of super/r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 AM
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No, we really don’t. It is great to not have to rely on men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:21 AM
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Explain how I’m reliant lmao Oppression has nothing to do with “living longer”, and everything to do with societal norms, harassment and violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:39 AM
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Yes. We were oppressed. And we still are. We are no longer reliant on men. And thank god for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:32 AM
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Because it’s not a fucking talking point It has absolutely nothing to do with women CONSIDERING THEIR GOVERNMENT DECIDED IT, AND THEIR GOV IS ONLY 20% WOMEN IN HOUSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:31 AM
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lmao even more broken English
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:19 AM
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your English is so bad man and you want to “debate” we all see that youre just complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:17 AM
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Great. Can we ban Ukraine comments too? Considering men think to use it as an argument only when women are talking about how we are oppressed - forgetting the FACTUAL evidence that the Ukrainian government, composed of >70% MEN, decided that for them - not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:02 AM
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Nurses too pls. Signed a nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:56 AM
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“Can be”. You realise, even if a woman “can be” - one man is strong enough to take down even one of the strongest females. That there is evidence enough that WOMEN ARE OPPRESSED.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:34 AM
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Bruh, it’s always the blatant misogynists that say women are not oppressed Of course you think that, cause you are a man with no natural predator. Women’s only natural predator IS MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:31 AM
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“Women are not oppressed”, says the oppressor. It’s easy to say that as a man. Women’s only natural predator is men. Men have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:27 AM
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Natural selection is based on personal features, not based on something such as sex. Pretty simple concept to grasp. Women are definitely oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:21 AM
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Well yes. Men aren’t an oppressed minority. Women are. Just like orphans are fostered for survival, women are offered DV shelters. And guess who from? MEN!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:14 AM
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Why? What oppression do men face? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:12 AM
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by choice? or because nobody wants you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:52 AM
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Just say you’re insecure and bad at oral
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:51 AM
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LOL what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:50 AM
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how? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:46 AM
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You don’t make any sense whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:45 AM
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??? Those people are just doing their job. You realise it’s not female specific right? And when did I mention children in this equation? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:43 AM
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No, I’m asking you, who tf cares about women consistently clubbing or being hyper sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:41 AM
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You are included in society. But nobody is gonna force you to be a valuable member of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:39 AM
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Who tf cares
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:39 AM
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Nah. Natural selection. Once your parents die you’re on your own if you don’t figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:38 AM
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No, she hesitates because you don’t trust her. I would be insulted, and consider breaking up. I have never lusted nor given the impression that I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:32 AM
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Okay? Thats not what we’re talking about though lol At the end of the day men are more violent and cause death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:00 AM
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lmfao crazy talk, it’s almost like people change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:30 PM
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because they attracted someone who, initially, wasn’t shit, and turned into shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:19 PM
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No, it applies to shit people. Victims aren’t shit people. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:05 PM
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Shit attracts shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:03 PM
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Typical man and crying woe is me and other men, only when women speak of their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:45 PM
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You mean, fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:27 PM
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Well, you don’t get empathy when you speak about it only to shut down when women are speaking about it. Tell me how misandry kills? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:26 PM
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As always. Misandry sucks, misogyny kills. One is much worse than the other and men only cry about how misandry “kills” (via suicide, that is somehow women’s fault?) when we speak up about misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:19 PM
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Oh no! It’s almost like women have a negative view of men because we live in fucking fear of them! Who woulda thought? Now have a look at the stats on crimes committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:18 PM
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In what fucking world? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:17 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA It’s actually MISOGYNY kills, misandry just sucks. Misandry doesn’t kill. Men kill men, or men kill themselves - that has nothing to do with misandry babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:17 PM
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Even if every male did report and come clean that they are a victim, the scale would still be heavily in women’s favour. You just don’t realise that, and that there is also a massive amount of women who don’t report either due to shame and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:16 PM
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Ugh. This only ever comes up when women are out here talking about their issues. Suddenly y’all are like “men are assaulted too” only when women speak about the stats against them. Nobody is saying women can’t also be perpetrators of abuse/SA. But the stats speak for themselves in the fact that >80% of perpetrators are men in terms of violent crimes, SA/DV, and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:15 PM
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Oh yeah, the thing is men have fine social skills with their friends, coworkers and boss. The one they “struggle” with is mummy and their partner, because they expect spoon feeding. But they’d NEVER act socially inept around their buds and boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:46 PM
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Why? You work the same hours. One just earns more therefore they should contribute more financially. Your job is not harder than hers just because you earn more - in fact women dominated fields are typically paid less, but are harder; see nursing, and aged care workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:13 PM
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what the… that’s exactly how it SHOULD work if you make more than her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:57 PM
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no, the issue is that men expect mummy and their partner to go get the ice cream out of the freezer, put it in a bowl, bring it to them and feed them with a silver spoon. whereas most women know how to make the ice cream from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:32 PM
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Nothing about this post is “man hate” (lol). If anything, a majority of the comments are just misogynistic in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:09 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA are you on PPD or Inkyverse? This forum is LITERALLY for gender debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:45 AM
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Women are stereotypically more social, and also more bullied and singled out in highschool, as well as victims of abuse. So we learn this shit early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:45 AM
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Yeah like why tf do men expect us to spoon feed them information and social/communication cues us women learnt as teens? dear lord
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:30 AM
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Send us the link then, because all factual research shows otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:00 AM
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According to whom, chat GPT? Or inkyverse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:57 AM
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Where the fuck did you get those numbers lmaooooo “Men barely lead in ANY violence” do you live under a rock? >90% of SA/DV perpetrators ARE MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:51 AM
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LOL how does misandry kill millions 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:45 AM
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This doesn’t make sense. Men want women who want them - why do you think women don’t “want” an average man on par with their looks? And why are men only chasing Stacy even if they aren’t a chad - what if women just want to be wanted, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:37 AM
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Course I know what it is, but it’s stupid to use on fucking reddit just to make yourself seem smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:48 AM
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wot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:17 PM
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damn bro folded by deleting his acc rq
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:16 PM
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“low intelligence” 🤓 alright big boy, what uni did you go to? do you have a degree or even a masters? let’s chat after you have one of those
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:27 AM
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The Ukrainian government, made of >75% men in the in house chairs, decided that though. It wasn’t the women. You realise this, yes? It’s not women’s fault men are being conscripted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:26 AM
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“ideologues” 😭🤣 you are trying SO hard to seem smarter than you are, it’s like a kid making up random words to their friends to seem 🆒
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:24 AM
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omg, ONE radical feminist! the world is so full of misandry! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:21 AM
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HAHAHAHA not the chat GPT generated terms to make yourself seem like some sort of phd student, you sound like an absolute baboon, this is reddit not Yale
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:19 AM
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“These anachronistic times” - what, 2026, where women have rights and there’s no gender pay gap? Explain how 2026 is so “anachronistic”, if anything it is the most free generation (apart from the USA going backwards). The provider “burden” is completely optional now, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:34 AM
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What do women DIRECTLY cause that’s bad, then? You speak of murder only, as if other male crimes don’t also drastically affect women such as rape/assault, DV and harassment. Those are all misogynistic. If you use your power as a man to assault and abuse women verbally, physically, and sexually, that is inherently misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:30 AM
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Inb4 the Ukraine comments as if the Ukrainian government isn’t compromised of 80% men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:28 AM
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What are the “superficial success boxes” you speak of? Pretty sure those also apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:31 AM
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Explain how misandry causes direct death. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:25 AM
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Well as you said, sex drive is a big factor. Men will simp for sex, and get it. The ones that want to “have self respect” will be the ones that don’t get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:16 AM
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Most men do get self respect and honour in a relationship, it’s about getting into the relationship and having that opportunity in the first place that you need to work hard for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:45 AM
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Okay? It’s only a loss for the guys who aren’t doing it. A man who yearns is a man who earns.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:37 AM
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lmao no, women don’t blame men for their suicide. It’s only the inverse. Again, how is it women’s fault, that men commit suicide? Out of depression and loneliness? Men aren’t entitled to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:56 AM
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I have scars - and they’re called self harm scars, not “suicide” scars. It is 100% my fault, for not having healthier coping mechanisms. I now have those. Again. How is it women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:54 AM
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The men. How can women be to blame that men are committing suicide? Go to therapy and learn healthy coping mechanisms. A woman won’t fix your depression or suicidal thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:53 AM
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Misandry is not killing the men who choose to commit suicide rather than seek therapy, if anything it’s the men doing that themselves thinking that they can’t cry and engaging in toxic “men don’t cry” behaviours. It’s also not women’s fault men choose harder jobs or go off to war/are conscripted. The conscription in Ukraine was not voted on by the general public, it was passed on in house. The house is largely men, from memory it is made up of about 20-25% women out of 420 or so seats. Maybe rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:14 AM
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??? that’s not women’s fault 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:11 AM
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Okay. Those are completely different issues though, which doesn’t address that misandry just sucks whereas misogyny kills. There is no female equivalent to misogyny that results in the amount of hate crimes and violence against the other gender, or any other party. Men lead all violence statistics - as perpetrators, as victims from violence from other men, suicide rates (not women’s fault btw), and ALSO male sexual assaulters/rapists/abusers/DV/child abusers. So. Just because men in Ukraine are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:50 AM
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Misandry sucks, misogyny kills. Y’all forget that far too often. Women DO need to decenter men. I have done so and I’m happy as fuck, much happier than when I am actively dating or seeking a relationship. I won’t allow a low effort man into my life ever again because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:37 AM
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u rn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:30 AM
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You’re misunderstanding. These people have intent, to hurt, harm, and assert dominance. It’s a choice to rape someone. So whatever you are thinking is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:19 AM
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HAHAHA yeah and that’s called abuse and or being a rapist. Consent is the deciding factor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:03 AM
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LMFAO at the end of the day bro, you’re already at a loss. If you don’t do it, someone else will, and it’s that simple. Chivalry or being a “simp” is genuinely the only shot for blokes like yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:01 AM
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It isn’t an intention to harm? Rape is LITERALLY harm. The worst kind of way you can harm somebody. The fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:56 PM
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Ever heard the saying misandry sucks, misogyny kills? Thats our why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:55 PM
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Yeah, because that person isn’t trying to fuck her and use her for sex, children and household duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:40 PM
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Of course I’m aware. But a lot of those women seek a better life that they don’t mind paying for with sex and false love. A lot of people cannot move countries without sponsorship via marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:29 PM
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lmao except that’s exactly what YOU meant by saying “exotic”. You’re referring to women from poorer countries for a reason. Because women with enough smarts and logic typically won’t settle for a loser, whereas those women will do anything to get out of their country and live their lives not impoverished.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:13 PM
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not here bud, I’ve not seen it and Ive been perusing here for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:10 PM
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Because it’s the power imbalance? You’re going to another country to basically sequest a poor, uneducated woman to be a bang maid that pops out your kids and doesn’t cheat because no women at home want you as is. Talk about loser material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:09 PM
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lmfao because it doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:03 PM
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no, men just call women subhuman women here just point that out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:59 PM
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It’s not about acting uninterested…? It’s about having standards and timelines. Does the guy want to simply pump and dump you, or does he see waiting a month or two as worth it? Is he getting angry or toxic that he hasn’t fucked you yet, after a few dates? Shit like that reveals a man’s character before you even commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:29 PM
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Both are stupid, but women are moreso told to not put out to men who don’t deserve it thus “withholding” sex (perfectly fine, because consent and standards is a thing) whereas men’s ideology is about getting as much pussy with as little effort as possible and thinking you are owed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:16 PM
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lmfao they just talk as if we are subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:04 PM
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ugh bro missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:27 AM
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I literally said men who go their own way as such “claim” to be incels, because they cannot get sex thus are forced to MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:34 PM
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My exes and I have always gone go for go - I’ll get this one, you get next, or I’ll get movie tickets you get popcorn. I always insist on splitting for first dates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:38 PM
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Okay gang that’s obviously not what it fucking means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:25 PM
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bruh it’s a statement 🤣🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:03 PM
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Do I really need to womansplain biology? Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:00 PM
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lmfao, it’s called reproduction - a reproductive cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:45 PM
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where did I say that, who are you quoting, reply to OP not me WOMEN are the givers of life, actually. Without women, men’s sperm is just that. Sperm. Not a fertilised egg. The men have an enjoyable orgasm and the woman does the hard yards, first for 40 weeks then when it’s born, because, you know, biology. Men only deserve women and sex if they have something that is valuable, such as women’s inherent value in their childrearing capacity, and their sexual organs including tits and ass that is ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:20 PM
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lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:05 PM
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Missed the point and not at all what I said. Men cry and whinge if they don’t get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:44 PM
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Because why would they, when they have nothing else to offer? That’s not how it works, inversely men would also never settle down with infertile women back in the day - because what’s in it for them??? It’s not like men can have children, and be the child rearers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:36 PM
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Not you again. You’re so entitled, you aren’t owed anything, you have to be worth a woman’s time, effort and love to get one in the first place. Just as women once were worth that to men, because of children, staying at home and being a bang maid basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:30 PM
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men clearly do not rather prefer living in a 1 bedroom place playing games because they then claim they’re incels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:28 PM
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Nobody said anything about entitlement. lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:45 PM
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I have so much fun with men who don’t see me as someone they want to fuck. Gay men especially. They’re the best friends you can have
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:39 PM
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no, real decent men can distinguish between friends and romantic interests
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:10 PM
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You realise the issue right? You asked her out instead of just being friends with her. Thats completely different. I have many male friends and we are just friends, they don’t pursue me because I don’t want that, nor would they - I am currently single and they know I don’t want anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:02 PM
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You don’t have to, but it certainly adds fulfilment and increases your dating and sexual prospects. Any woman can vouch for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:45 PM
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yeah cause fuck women who are human beings with their own characters and personalities, right? fuck just having platonic meaningful relationships with women because all you can think about is wanting to rail the shit out of them. You and any other man that truly think that way are a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:34 PM
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I agree except most men don’t know how to have that healthy boundary of having female friends but not wanting to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:05 PM
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yeah because women are girls girls, whereas men are out here trying to fuck me and will do whatever it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:28 AM
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Oh yes let me wear a sign that says “men fuck off” simply because men don’t know the definition of respect and consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:15 AM
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no, idk why you would assume that, and try and say I’m wrong when it’s literally my experience they will usually have a good opener sentence in response to my profile (hinge), and then it is dry as fuck when I respond with an answer and another open ended question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:56 PM
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“heeey”, “aha”, “hru”, “wyd later”, “lol” yes some of those are “questions”, but that’s not what I mean, I mean questions trying to get to know me and not just wanna fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:48 PM
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Yes some I don’t disagree with you there hence my words “most”, because the good ones are a fucking rarity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:42 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:41 PM
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Possibly broad, but given my experience, I’d say it’s across the board for me. If they can’t even ask me a single question in the first 5-10 messages, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:47 PM
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lmao and that means lying and using other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:40 PM
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lol what? how is starting any relationship by lying, even casual, healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:23 PM
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Most “good” men past the age of 25 are in long term relationships. I found one on the app after months and that was my ex, years ago, and we ended amicably. None anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:00 PM
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Both there are no “good men” on dating apps, and the ones there are just seeking sex or “figuring out my dating goals” at the ripe old age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:32 PM
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what do you mean “a much better life”? how is that relevant to moving countries for the sole intention of marrying someone of a lower socioeconomic status? how does that give you “a much better life” exactly???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:57 PM
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??? this is my first comment to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:53 PM
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If it’s happened to you, truly, then why are you so against women bringing it up in discussions Honestly sounds like you’re lying to try and insert your “but men get raped too!” comments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:56 PM
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Well do you? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:54 PM
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The difference is women who hit on other women can take a no and leave it at that. You’re never particularly worried about a woman spiking your drink or assaulting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:49 PM
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As a woman who has solo travelled… what???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:51 AM
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Asking what someone brings to the table is definitely not irrational. If a man doesn’t add benefit to my life why would I want him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:23 AM
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It’s only pleasant if the man knows what he’s doing or you know him well and have that deep connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:22 AM
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If you were blocked the post wouldn’t come up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:34 AM
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And does that not apply to women as well? Are you daft?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:33 AM
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Are you heroic? What are you doing to keep the world/society from collapsing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:11 AM
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Haha it’s also their fault for choosing me. I chose better in the end by dropping them before they even got the chance, least I got a few free meals
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:05 PM
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Yep. A lot of them are extremely charming and charismatic, and intellectual. Know how to make you laugh and smile and feel amazing. The abuse doesn’t start off as abuse outright, it starts as testing your boundaries and seeing what you will put up with in the honeymoon stage. This progresses to true behaviours, and a year or two down the track out of the honeymoon period or when locked down with a ring/marriage/kids, abuse. It’s about not looking through the rose tinted glasses and voicing conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:05 AM
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The job market is determined by job experience, jobs available, finances, and inflation. Women are just human beings and each one is different and not defined by these.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:16 PM
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Me too! Men are pretty selfish creatures, half the time they don’t even care about trying to make me orgasm. Can’t even buy me flowers or plan a nice date, just expect sex. So, I’d say it’s them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:58 PM
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Yes, I’m aware of extremes, hence why I also mentioned this sub itself. It’s in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:31 PM
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By your logic, your screenshot also isn’t evidence then. Next point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:25 PM
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Yearning has nothing to do with money. If you won’t, someone else will. Simple as that. Men greatly outnumber women in prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:25 PM
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Literally all the men complaining here and on incel forums IS your evidence. Search by controversial/hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:15 PM
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Except one is a job that actually fluctuates across the board, and one is dating unique individuals. Can’t compare the two babes, apples and oranges analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:14 PM
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As always a man who yearns is a man who earns. If you don’t want to, there’s plenty of others who will. They just don’t get that we aren’t going to settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:13 PM
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🤣😭😭 I have never had a man “give” more than he takes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:33 AM
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It is. Because when you see us as sexual opportunities and not people, that is the definition of objectification. If we saw men as breadwinners and providers only that would similarly be objectification. You remove the humanity and only focus on the benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:25 PM
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Sex doesn’t give you meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:04 PM
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Oh no! How duly sad! What on earth are we going to do that men are so miserable without sex and women because they do nothing to be worth said sex and women? Instead of fucking crying about it, maybe men should just do something to earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:59 PM
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No. The incentive is money - that’s the whole fucking point of a job, in its entirety. To earn money and live outside of your job - not living to work, working to live. The incentive has never been, and never will be women. You are not owed sex, a traditional woman and children because you chose to work a hard job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:56 PM
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You sound like an interesting bloke, I like it. This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:52 PM
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there is no collapse of society from this lol Just men crying and moaning and bitching they can no longer have a wife as an unpaid child bearer, chef, maid and sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:51 PM
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You’re generalising women. Those women that get likes say that outlandish shit simply for engagement and views which creates profit. The women in particular that are for red/black pill are also viewed negatively by most women which in turn creates more profit - it’s all about business for them much like male RPers that make content, only a very few of them actually believe the shit they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:49 PM
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lmfao WHATTTT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:43 PM
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Because I ask them what they do to contribute to society. And they deflect and say “that’s not the question!” “I’m referring to men in general not me” “that’s personal”. A quick look at their profile history, hidden or no, is also telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:41 PM
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Always the men that actually don’t work in the so called “dangerous, entrepreneurship, and major scientific advancements” roles, or any job whatsoever, that are tooting and hollering how men are still the creators and upholders of society therefore owed sex/relationships/a wife and kids. Whilst they themselves do nothing to contribute to society to such an extent, to the point that some (most…) of the men on here don’t work a job or pay tax whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:38 PM
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Nobody is pointing a gun at these men’s heads saying they must work a dangerous job, be an entrepreneur or make major scientific advancements. You realise this, right? It is purely a choice. Women in STEM roles are increasing every single day, contributing just as much if not more to the advancement of our world. Just because you are a man that works a job (like all of us btw, and typically the ones that are here screaming about how men dominate these roles are the ones that DONT work in these r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:35 PM
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You realise an egg is not life right? They’ve been able to do that for decades. It is nothing without myosis from sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:15 PM
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it will take centuries, because there is no technology, not even AI, that can replicate a womb, and the nourishment, nutrients, electrolyte and acquired immunity from the mother to the child. without acquired immunity, the foetus would die as soon as it’s exposed to air.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:49 PM
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It will take many centuries mate. Lambs like “foetuses” don’t matter, because they will just be killed if they turn into a genetic nightmare. It will never be allowed legally as it goes against sanctions of human ethics. Sex bots, sure, maybe in our lifetime. Fully developing foetuses - absolutely not, and anyone who thinks so is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:08 PM
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Having mental health problems doesn’t make you not a “catch” lmao I assure you more men have mental health/gambling/drug/alcohol/smoking problems than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:05 PM
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lmao you must be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:34 PM
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Mate I did. If you removed women’s uniqueness, as in our sex characteristics, none of us would exist. We are both human, just with different sex organs. So what do you mean, if we removed our sex organs we’d be ignored? We wouldn’t exist if that was removed. It’s not a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:29 AM
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if we removed what makes women unique we simply wouldn’t exist? we are unique because we have a uterus and ovaries/ovum. that’s it. men have testes, the penis and sperm. both are unique so what are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:20 AM
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Men have the choice now to get surrogates or adopt. What does men having the opportunity to have children accomplish? How does it displace hierarchy? You will still never birth children, and women will always be biologically superior in that regard even if tech advances as such - because why pay millions for a tech baby when you can go all natural yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:07 AM
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What benefits do we get lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:51 AM
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It doesn’t matter if they don’t wanna have kids. It’s not your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:49 AM
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Who the fuck wants an artificial baby though lmao why do that when you can just do it naturally instead of paying millions for something that may be defective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:41 AM
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AI and technology advancements still won’t be able to grow and handle the healthy development of a foetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:06 AM
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60% of women globally 🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:55 AM
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Go and adopt?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:54 AM
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Ugh. I knew it was you as soon as I saw the title. Artificial wombs are coming… in 3036. Not 2026. It is single-handedly the most complex technology you would ever have to make and it certainly isn’t happening for a few more centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:54 AM
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Both parties in a relationship should be putting their partner on a pedestal honestly. It should be reciprocal I am moreso referring to opening doors, pulling out chairs, walking on the road side of the pathway, saying something if a man in their vicinity says something inappropriate, shit like that that is extremely gentlemanly and respectful of women. I’ve listed these examples here and been told it’s simping “because what do men get in return”. To me it’s just basic respect for a naturally op…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:37 AM
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They are definitely what initially attracts. But so does confidence, humour, respect (“simping” red pillers call it but I’ll be damned it fucking works), intelligence, a good job and a good head screwed on. I would prefer all of the above over an attractive guy with none of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:27 AM
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Yes, because if I find a man that ticks all of my boxes at the end of the day, I can overlook looks as can most women. But most unattractive men that scream “nobody will give me a chance” actually end up the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:28 AM
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Honestly as a decently attractive person why would I settle for less than what I rate myself on the scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:20 AM
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They aren’t that important when it comes down to comparability and long term relationships. But dating apps are literally window shopping. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:11 AM
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lmfao what How does that make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:59 PM
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but OP is literally the one who said “I couldn’t date someone I’m not attracted to” Neither can most women. And why should we? Dating apps are window shopping. Why would we go in the store to ask the price of something in the window if we didn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:51 PM
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common decency is also accepting no and accepting rejection just like you would accept job application rejections. You aren’t owed decency nor respect - that is earnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:34 PM
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Then stop feeling like a negative person. Be happy and proud you’re not part of the statistics, instead of being insecure and saying woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:33 PM
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Yeah men are the majority of homicide victims, from who? You guessed it - other men. It’s not just women but it’s men too therefore men are just collectively seen as bad. Sexual is literally the most important. But okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:28 PM
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Well nobody here genuinely assumes all men are rapists or murderers. It’s just the stats being >90% of male perpetrators. And… one is murder and rape. The other is rejection. Cry about it genuinely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:25 PM
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ah yes generalising women as a monolith as always
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:09 PM
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…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:34 PM
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no 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:56 PM
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Ah yes let’s just argue about thoughtless rhetoric instead of the actual topic, considering you can’t debate anything I said. Either debate, or go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:49 PM
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Ever heard of basic communication? I’m saying, “I mean”, to insert myself into the conversation. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:42 PM
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What did she “do” to you apart from reject you? Just take a no and move on. Why let yourself get worked up about it? That’s exactly the problem we women worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:17 PM
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what’s the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:16 PM
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If two eggs out of a dozen were rotten, wouldn’t you assume the other 10 eggs are bad too? Outright rudeness isn’t okay, yes, but most women remain civil in the fear that the man may escalate it, so we say no thanks, or laugh it off. We are protecting our own best interests and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:16 PM
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“How can I be the victim in this scenario” Most women aren’t mean. We are just naturally defensive to protect our own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:13 PM
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I mean, I don’t have a mortal terror of being approached, but I do have anxiety about a man not taking a no, or escalating because I said no. And also the risks of SA and stalking/harassment as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:10 PM
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That’s not at all what I’m referring to. I’m referring to the guys on short guy forums, incels, and genuine 1-3/10s that can’t even get sex, but for some reason still want children more than anything to fulfill some sort of “biological duty”. See natalists and their crazy logic. I’m not saying don’t. I’m just saying they should maybe think about it and think if they would like to pass along their unattractiveness and misfortune to their children just to end up bullied, harassed and lonely. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:17 AM
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no? that’s not my problem 🤣 that’s what eugenics is and I am not for that I am just morally against it, I wouldn’t do it personally, but everyone is free to do what they want as long as they’re aware of the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:53 PM
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a query is a question btw there’s more than enough info to answer, it’s just the classic, oh, she asked a question that I actually can’t logically avoid, let me avoid it by asking her one instead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:51 PM
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yeah except I’m not here gassing people am I I’m not forcing anyone or not forcing anyone to do bugger all and that’s the difference I am questioning people’s morals, that’s it, not saying you can’t breed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:50 PM
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Love me a dad bod personally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:28 PM
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1000% and it’s a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:27 PM
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answer the question before asking another one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:26 PM
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the answer is not at all and that’s what these people are against, because why should they not procreate like everyone else! uh… morals? not being selfish? not wanting your offspring to suffer the way you did? just to name a few
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:26 PM
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yeah if we wanna talk extremes like the commenter that’d be the solution 100% lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:25 PM
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yeah he took a weird turn I think I misconstrued his entire post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:24 PM
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wtf does extolling mean suggesting people with disabilities or simply awful genes have you know, morals, and not want to inflict pain and suffering on toward their offspring, does not mean I am pro eugenics I am pro morality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:22 PM
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yeah, like why would you want to pass on YOUR eternal suffering to your children if you have bad genes to the point that you have no dating/sex options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:14 PM
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A law sanctioning women to have children or else be deported is forcing them to procreate to stay in their safe haven. Do men get the same treatment? If they don’t pop out a baby with someone, they are deported? Or is it just women you reduce to property, like most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:39 PM
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Again. Never said shouldn’t. Yes people who are disabled are inferior in society and I do believe that that should be limited within reason so as to not pass on disability just to add to taxpayer burden. I don’t care about unattractive people having kids. It’s just more suffering for those folks and their kids though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:32 PM
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not proven btw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:51 PM
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yes, marriage, congrats - that’s been around for yonks. not forced into child rearing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:50 PM
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in a way eugenics is good in the fact that we can reduce disability and health conditions in children I don’t care about appearances though. if you’re ugly and wanna have a kid, that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:49 PM
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Honestly did not construe what you said the way you intended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:48 PM
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yeah because you need to work to live anyway? May as well do so in a free country you don’t however need to procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:47 PM
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I never said anything about removing anybody. So… what? I’m just saying it’s contradictory to complain about your genes but also REALLY want to procreate and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:44 PM
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That’s never gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:44 PM
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Advocating means actively encouraging and promoting. I’m just saying it’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:43 PM
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lmfao who is fantasising about that what on earth goes through your head to come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:43 PM
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What? That’s not what you’ve said at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:41 PM
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Because why would you be deported?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:38 PM
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Never gonna happen, because you’re basically forcing women to pump out babies in order to have a safe haven.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:38 PM
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That’s not your debate here though. You are debating that psychologically unwell people shouldn’t have children and it’s a good thing they aren’t. Not that children brings psychological happiness. Let’s not change the goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:37 PM
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I’m not advocating or not advocating for anything. I’m just saying it’s a good thing, and that the same men that complain they are ugly, short or defective are completely contradictory towards themselves. They believe that their life is suffering because of their genes. Yet don’t think twice about passing those genes on, because they want to fulfill some sort of moral purpose or role when really it will just create another being like them with bad genes just to suffer like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:35 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:17 PM
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A lot of men don’t realise it’s a good thing. All the men here claiming that they’re so sad nobody will choose them, or want to have sex or date them because of their unfavourable genes. Yet they don’t see the logic when it comes to children, they’d happily pass along their bad genes that they themselves have suffered with, without a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:08 PM
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Probably because a lot of Thai women marry into other countries to get out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:07 PM
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lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:25 AM
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Uhhh I don’t like cold approaches so I don’t have much experience to tell from you cause I flat out reject and got out of a LTR recently. But some are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:21 AM
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No. Women don’t need to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:07 AM
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This post is just screaming “approach me because I’m too insecure and lazy to approach you!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:03 AM
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Yes very possible but doesn’t mean you’re entitled to it… regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:32 AM
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But she doesn’t want to do it?!? Why doesn’t that matter?!? If she has established she doesn’t like anal from her experience, why would she do it with you? Why do you feel entitled to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:30 AM
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Who cares? People can change their mind and say no to whatever they like. If a woman didn’t like anal but did it with her ex bf, why would you assume she would do it with you if she knows she doesn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:28 AM
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Bro doesn’t realise that women can try these acts with previous sexual partners and NOT ENJOY IT. But because they tried it with previous partners, OP thinks he’s entitled to it. It’s a crazy take that only men who never get sex are hard on. Most (healthy, successful) men are happy with sex with an enthusiastic partner and don’t worry about their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:27 AM
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“I have higher standards” screams the average male with nothing going for him. You aren’t entitled to the sexual acts anyone did with anyone in the past. People can try things with certain people and end up not liking them such as anal, orgies, fisting. Why do you think you’re entitled to that experience from such a woman if she knows she already doesn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:26 AM
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People can try it once with someone and END UP NOT LIKING it though. Why would that entitle you to them trying with you? If they know they don’t like it already?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:24 AM
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These men aren’t entering relationships or having sex period lets be real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:22 AM
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I don’t know why you think you are entitled to whatever type of sex women had with previous partners. People and preferences change. Ever thought about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:21 AM
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the porn addiction is getting to bro, thinking sex is perfect and you will always get the kinkiest girl down to do anything at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:18 AM
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Not in long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:17 AM
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Sometimes. As I said, MOST women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:14 AM
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So basically “I’m insecure that I’m ugly and that she can do better than me, therefore i wont date someone who has done better than me, even though my options are already limited”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:08 AM
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Most people, especially women, don’t kiss and tell. It won’t come out out of respect to the people you’ve fucked, and especially if the woman has changed and no longer wants to do specific sexually explicit things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:06 AM
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Oh my god I didn’t say they correlate. I said topics such as violence, cheating, addiction (drugs, alcohol, gambling) - you have more than enough rights to reasonably expect knowing and being entitled to knowing about anything related to that. Sexual promiscuity/past however, such as the examples I listed, you have no right to know about though. Sexual promiscuity ≠ actually cheating, btw and there is no evidence to suggest as such. Even if she said “I slept with 200 people”, that’s all you’re e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:04 AM
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Yup… but he apparently has oh so much experience… I’m calling it that he doesn’t. He says he now has women bc he is “high middle class” as if women would sexually pursue an “average” 5’9 man with a middle class amount of money for sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:48 AM
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He has his “methods”, yet won’t explain what they are despite saying “I have them!” In every comment. Claiming it’s too personal, even though he’s the one who hinted he has “methods”. Bro does not have any methods. Bro does not have any experience, and is just roleplaying that he does because he’s 5’9, fit and apparently makes “a lot” of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:45 AM
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Of course it’s violence. I never said women aren’t “off limits” to this, what on earth do you mean? I even specified both genders are entitled to know about violence and cheating. Of course this includes other important things like drugs, alcohol, gambling, addictions… Sexual promiscuity and past has nothing to do with those though which is specifically what I’m referencing. You’re just bringing up random things to try and make an argument as to why you believe you’re entitled to know EVERYTHING…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:44 AM
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Nobody deserves to know about anybody’s past unless there was cheating or violence involved. It applies to both genders. Saying you were promiscuous or did anal/threesomes/orgies with your ex is not akin to that, you aren’t entitled to that information, you ARE entitled to know about cheating or violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:35 AM
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Sex isn’t a right, it’s a privilege. Having it is better than not having it all or getting in your head that she isn’t giving you the experiences she gave others. It isn’t up to women to make you feel desired or vice versa. If you weren’t desired, you wouldn’t be having consensual sex. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:17 AM
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My guy, you are one of the unselected men you complain about in all of your posts. You have no experience, yet you are saying you “have your ways”. You don’t have any experience - so what “ways” are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:16 AM
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Any respectful woman just doesn’t kiss and tell about her previous experiences. There’s no way to “do it”, so you can say “different men have different ways”, it means nothing bc there is only two ways and that’s either asking her or finding out incidentally through someone she’s fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:03 AM
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lol so you convince yourself they’re unenthusiastic bc they aren’t comfortable giving you the sex they gave previous male partners? what a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:52 AM
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You’re not saying your way cause you don’t have one. There is no chance women are even looking your way with your amount of insecurity bleeding through your post and comments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:38 AM
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They don’t. They just assume. NO woman is out here telling their future partner they were a slut in college, or had threesomes and foursomes with their previous partners. Nobody is privy to that information nor will you ever find out through her. And if you find out through someone else, that’s just grounds for breaking up because you’re intentionally seeking information about her from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:37 AM
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I don’t know why men assume that women are even going to talk about their previous experiences with other men. You aren’t entitled to that information. You aren’t entitled to things women did in the past. Nor will you ever find out about them through her. It’s always the men that get absolutely no women or sex that are always complaining about this shit. If you got a woman, you’d honestly be happy with whatever she gives you. Stop ruminating on experiences that aren’t yours to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:35 AM
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Whats there to be jealous of when it’s very obvious you’ve never been in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:23 PM
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According to who you just replied to, it’s just pixels and “not real”! So I agree with you. They hate their logic being used against them Porn addicts are bottom feeders
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:58 PM
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But it’s just pixels bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:57 PM
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the game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:41 PM
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It ain’t pixels, it’s a real human. Thats like saying talking to people online isn’t cheating because the texts and nudes are just pixels!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:37 AM
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I wouldn’t break up with them - I just wouldn’t date them in the first place babe It’s not the theatre of his own mind if he watches media to bring him to completion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:32 AM
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Yes I can! Cause I’m a free woman. It doesn’t affect you because myself and other women wouldn’t date men that are addicted to porn and are cheaters. It IS cheating if you’re watching the same type of porn with a specific body type or a specific sexual act that isn’t someone I look like or something I’d do. It’s fulfilling sexual desires that I’m not comfortable with. Absolutely not. As I said, it doesn’t impact you. It doesn’t matter what you think is or isn’t cheating, considering a lot of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:31 AM
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It’s not rational. It’s an unhinged addiction. You don’t need to watch the same porn, as I said I’m more than okay if he’s watching random videos but the same pattern/style/type of sexual content or type of woman videos is when it becomes a problem. If he wants porn like that we can make some.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:28 AM
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It’s cheating to me and a majority of other women feel the same. Sooo. I don’t care about your opinion. If he wants pornographic content he can watch random videos, or he can use me as the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:27 AM
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Don’t care. My and other women’s opinion, not yours, and a deal breaker for me. Mwah x
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:26 AM
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lol that’s not what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:55 AM
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I have done kinky stuff, I enjoyed it then I no longer enjoy it because it actually feels using/degrading. So what’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:42 AM
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What? No it doesn’t. I’m incredibly vanilla tbh doesn’t mean I’m not enthusiastic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:09 AM
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Nope. It’s a form of cheating if you have very distinct preferences and are codependent on it. Not insecure, just not fostering addiction. 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:49 AM
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“How do you get/find a xyz”. Just a simple example
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:35 AM
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That’s okay, you don’t have to understand it - nor will you ever. Women understand it, and good men who aren’t porn addicted also understand it, thus we don’t have an issue most of the time because it never arises. Women in porn are real. Body types and preferences are real. Sexual acts I and other women don’t want to do are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:34 AM
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…okay? still a choice to use specific words that demeans us as if we are a grocery item to be bought in a weekly shop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:12 AM
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So you’re a bludger and leech off of your parents, but are complaining that women don’t contribute to tax/it’s unfair. My guy, we do, we pay just as much tax as any man; including on the things you listed like fuels and groceries. My guy you live with your parents. You can’t comment that it’s not fair when you don’t contribute anything yourself and you’re just a waste of air currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:31 AM
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This is the exact thing we mean when we say treat women as human. You have dehumanised us and group us altogether as having infinite options and plenty of men to choose from. You define sexual options as success. To 90% of women that isn’t success considering easily 70-80% of said “options” are not options at all - they just want a quick root, to orgasm, and to leave us after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:26 AM
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Okay, so not a crime. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:02 AM
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How do women kill/abuse children… give us stats please lmao Also make sure it’s a westernised country stat as a lot of you making this point reference African countries of which have no access to childcare or medical abortions or sexual protection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:49 PM
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That’s why you make him make you come first. 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:47 PM
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You can definitely be utter garbage at oral. It’s nothing on the recipient
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:47 PM
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Okay? What do women do that’s bad to SOCIETY? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:46 PM
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100%, it’s great to be with a guy that cares
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:46 AM
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Explain how women murder their sons due to misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:31 AM
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no shit? it’s more a matter of wrong person wrong time. a lot of these women also fear their friends would judge them or report their partner when they think it’s not too bad or they don’t want their partner getting in trouble. It’s wholly complex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:45 AM
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Of course there is always negligibles lmao but one misandrist killing a man out of misandry doesn’t make it anywhere near the fact that the violence stats are >90% male perpetrators Or did we forget that women can also commit violence? Just nowhere near as many as men, in a million years?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:43 AM
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Nobody pushes anyone to suicide. Nobody is literally there in your face telling you to jump, with a gun at your head. It’s not women’s fault fragile men are so depressed without sex and women in his circle. Killing someone is not akin to suicide idk what you’re on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:42 AM
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bruh thinks he is some bro with a phd or a philosopher with the way he writes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:31 AM
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What about weapons used in violence? Women can use guns just as much as men can. Other tools like knives, machetes, brass knuckles. Yet; you still don’t see women being violent towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:30 AM
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I went to an all girls school. Never had any fights or SAs. Peaceful apart from bitching between the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:29 AM
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Awww! So cute! One chat GPT generated example! Try finding more than one that might bring down the fact that men are >90% of abusers! x
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:28 AM
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Okay, sure! But again, women hating men doesn’t cause any crimes. Unlike men hating women, that does cause crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:27 AM
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Except, suicide isn’t a crime. Men committing suicide because they are oh so lonely isn’t women’s fault nor is it our problem to magically fix by settling for these men that are so sad thinking women/sex will be a bandaid for their problems. So, if you wanna debate, as I stated, tell me of crimes committed by misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:26 AM
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Except… there are no crimes committed from misandry. Almost all crimes committed by men against women are from misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:50 AM
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Yup… we aren’t out here screaming that men won’t choose us, won’t give us sex, won’t give us a chance. That’s the huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:50 AM
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Okay, if that’s the bare minimum, what do YOU do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:19 AM
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what do you contribute to society as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:55 AM
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Physical defence from what, though? You guessed it… other men! haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:54 AM
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They literally watch the handmaids tale and think it’s an ideal world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:54 AM
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You wanna know the difference between misogyny and misandry? Misandry is from women complaining about oppression, and all of the violence statistics being led by men. Misogyny is actually hatred of women despite being the very oppressor we cry about, which fosters resentment and further violence towards women. One is complaining, one actually results in harm. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:54 AM
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Yeah I agree, unlike someone commenting here saying it’s ALWAYS the woman’s fault for choosing poorly - even if the man does it years down the track, it’s somehow her fault still.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:28 AM
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bruh wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:38 AM
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Well yeah, there’s no technique to pounding... You have to hit the right spot. For me I am particular and can only be pounded with my legs up cause that’s the only way it feels good for me, otherwise I dry up because I’m just waiting for it to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:46 AM
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So glad you’re out of that. It wasn’t your fault, it never is our fault. I hope your kiddo grows up to be everything he wasn’t to you. Kind and good hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:36 AM
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She’s not at fault whatsoever considering no woman gets in a relationship with an abuser off the bat, unless coerced or forced into it. These abusers start their abusing later on. Not the initial first few months to years. So how is it their fault for “choosing poorly” when they actually chose an entirely different person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:10 AM
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Lmfaooooo, yes, in a sense. Explain how it’s women’s fault that they are murdered by their male partner. Explain how it’s somehow her fault, and not the man’s. Explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:07 AM
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So, kids that are murdered as well, what about them? Was it their fault? Or their parents’? The logic is insane. It’s never the victims fault in any circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:05 AM
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Again ignoring the point that most abusive men don’t show these behaviours til looooong into a relationship. So explain how that’s them choosing bad if they aren’t like that in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:11 AM
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Oh yes Blame the women for getting murdered, not the murderer You’re genuinely a psychopath
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:03 AM
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How is it a skill issue when these men say they’re sober and in fact aren’t? How are inexperienced women meant to know better? You can also be chronically addicted to games, social media, reddit, and control, as reflected by the men who post here religiously it seems, but nobody talks about that as they aren’t recognised as addictions despite also having awful effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:57 AM
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Sunken cost fallacy. Also, a lot of these men only start these behaviours once they know she can’t walk away. Ignorant comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:56 AM
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My ex did it a few weeks after we moved in together. We lasted not even 6 months after that. I was psychotic. He sent me into psychosis to the point that I was about to be admitted to hospital. Yet he played the part perfectly for 2.5 years before that. How was I supposed to know? There were a few things scattered throughout, little blow ups, but we went to therapy and all was well. And even now we are still friends because we get along nicely, and care about each other. We just can’t DATE, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:54 AM
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No, those women just let it “slide” because they think it’s NORMAL. They don’t have any experience with men to tell them otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:52 AM
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Yup - once they know she can’t run away. Especially once they move in, get married, or have a kid and he has isolated her from finances (by insisting she can stay at home with the kid) and family/friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:50 AM
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How is it our fault if these men only show these bad behaviours once you’re too far in, and want to try for the relationship? Once you’re living together, married, with child? You realise that’s the case with a lot of this hypothetical scenario, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:50 AM
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I don’t like it, because most men have a type of porn they want to watch - such as anal, cnc content, deep throat - because I don’t do those. At all. So it makes me feel as if I am inadequate, because I won’t do those things. Also if he’s watching a particular model, or the same type of woman (petite, blonde, bbw, brunette, Asian, Latino, etc). That to me feels like cheating if it’s not me. If it’s only an every now and again thing such as once a week, on a random video he just picked from the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:45 AM
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It does well represent men… it is an every day thing… It is a conversation about raping as a behaviour IN MEN… considering they account for >90% of all violence statistics including rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:42 AM
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No. Both parties are to blame… but past experiences in women (abuse, DV, SA, etc) contribute a lot as to why women “pick” bad men (and why men don’t show that they’re bad until they’re too far in bc of sunken cost fallacy) because it feels normal to them. My first relationship was great in the beginning but I definitely missed red flags… which ended as his avoidant attachment, saying I deserved better but not being better, saying he is “trying so hard” but not actually improving… yeah. That wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:41 AM
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I wouldn’t say it’s so much as a skill issue, but it comes down to the man hiding the undesirable traits through manipulation and narcissism until you’re too far in to just walk away. A lot of these men start showing these traits after you move in together, or there’s a ring, marriage, or a kid has been brought into your lives. That’s not on the woman - it’s on the man for knowing that no woman will want him if he showed this in the beginning. If he shows his true self and brings down his facade…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:38 AM
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…what that’s not what blue pill is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:49 AM
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But you aren’t owed someone who finds you attractive… you realise that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:22 AM
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DARVO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:56 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA Yes, they provide a sex worker. The sex worker is PAID a very good amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:36 AM
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Oh yes I’m SURE people are using AI to generate a simple fucking comment saying you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:36 AM
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What mistakes and shortcomings 🤣 you aren’t owed sex, women aren’t going to “settle” for you even if we for some unbeknownst to god reason you think removing social welfare payments and concessions will make women want to give you pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:35 AM
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LMFAOOOOOO bro is obviously 18 and has never used em dashes in literature
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:34 AM
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The DARVO/gaslighting combo here is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:28 AM
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I love how you just… reverse it on me and say “that’s not what I asked”! When you literally asked a BROAD question “evidence men are MORE VIOLENT TOWARDS WOMEN when they CANT GET SEX FROM THEM?” You asked. Someone answered. Now, find any woman who has committed such violent crimes on the basis of not getting sex or being a “femcel”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:05 AM
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bruh. Five people? Five men, you mean. List five women who have committed the same for simply not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:59 AM
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lol… plenty if you look it up, but I ain’t here to spoon feed you like your mummy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:26 AM
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To me it’s moreso your social and emotional confidence and communication. You can be a gorgeous Leonardo De Caprio but if you’re a misogynist or also insecure and want to control me, I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:56 AM
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Well, 2 of those 3 things you can actually change. Lose weight and get fit, go and get a hair transplant or rock the bald look. You can’t expect to get women if you’re fat, at any weight, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:55 AM
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Honestly my ex and I aimed for once a week - and nothing fancy, we would just go get dinner or ice cream somewhere, sometimes watch a movie if we could afford that in our fun money, or take my dog to the park. We went on 3 holidays in our 3 years - I aim for a holiday every 6-8 months but it wasn’t practical in our first 1.5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:15 AM
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then stay away? Go fuck a flesh light?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:58 AM
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Lmfao what
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:57 AM
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Okay? But how many of those “likes” are actually worth it? Because most women don’t see sex alone as worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:57 AM
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Uhuh… okay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:56 AM
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Then go post on incel forums?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:54 AM
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Because women protect other women, considering men won’t protect us or speak up for us. Men won’t even speak up for us if it’s their girlfriend/fiance/wife/daughter right in front of them. Why would there not be women who protect other women’s interests if this is how it’s been our whole lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:54 AM
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what the fuck is a Ginaworld Vagina? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:53 AM
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So you just answered your own question. You said it was all about sex, indirectly. Thats all it boils down to - you don’t have to say “it’s only about sex” for it to come through in your beliefs and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:52 AM
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That answer is easy. Sex! That’s all it boils down to. We are just unpaid sex workers/maids/nannies to them that may do the household chores and pay half the bills and pop out kids for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:50 AM
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that’s not how that works… you literally generalised, it’s not our responsibility to provide research and information for you to attempt to burst your little bubble to no avail. You’re in an echo chamber mate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:49 AM
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I truly wonder how it’s working out for them, thinking delusional that is, that they are a god, and women must bow before them. Truly schizo behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:45 AM
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Okay, apart from men being more violent towards women through their misogyny and not getting as much sex as back in the day, how is this actually affecting anybody? What is the “war” about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:44 AM
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All the men who abhor ugly women here despite being ugly themselves “because I can’t be attracted to them” say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:26 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:06 AM
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Help them how? What do you suggest? You aren’t deserving of attention and love and respect just because you were born. You work hard and earn it. Some people have to work harder than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:05 AM
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NAHHHH. I’m a firm believer in not giving “nice guys” a chance. I paid my dues with two of them. They’re incompetent and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:04 AM
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It doesn’t matter - you don’t need sex to release testosterone. Real men use their hand instead of whinging and whining about something they aren’t getting, but don’t do anything to deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:49 PM
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Okay, good, because the “sensitive men” are typically the emotionally immature and childish ones that we don’t want anyway… Every one of yall say you are a “nice guy” and just need to be given “a chance”. I did my fair share with “nice guys” twice and it turns out you aren’t nice at all. Turns out you have no experience in anything (including sex, and unwilling to learn), are selfish, cannot communicate, cannot regulate emotions, cannot manage relationship stressors and cannot be an independent …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:42 PM
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??? Of course they are. All you need to do is get one, and shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:35 AM
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bro what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:35 AM
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“See this person”. Wow. One woman! Out of 90% of assault perpetrators being men!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:02 AM
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lol wut give each other positions? are you in some kind of sect? What’s going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:01 AM
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Because “male spaces” openly are resentful, and completely hating on women. Full of toxic misogyny and echo chambers. Of which fosters violence. Of which should be stopped. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:00 AM
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No, typically only misogynists question women about misandry. Because they only care about misandry all of a sudden when a woman is speaking about misogyny. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:59 AM
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No idea what a 4B is or lysistrate is bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:51 AM
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Then those are the ones we aren’t talking about. Most MGTOW are crying and whining they are forced to, well, GTOW, through their own faults and society now having standards and decentreing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:26 AM
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looool maybe for sex but not for relationships!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:17 AM
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No, because they aren’t giving up. It’s the “involuntary” that defines it, they don’t have a choice. And in their “MGTOW” journey, they just foster resentment and hatred of women. Which leads to violence. Any type of incel, coveted or not, is too dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:17 AM
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They just want to protect the “gold” that they don’t have from “gold diggers” lol. Then they’ll cry when the woman actually earns or contributed more, and thus gets a bigger payout than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:49 AM
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nope! there’s a disproportionate amount of MEN on dating apps compared to women. Some say it’s even 4:1. So, not bad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:20 AM
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That men also only target the top 25% of women in their swiping. Even if they’re in the bottom % themselves as they say. There’s just not enough data on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:56 AM
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It’s “not as extreme” yet most women don’t give a shit about these stats therefore don’t upload their data. So how would you know, truly? If you ask me I won’t date lower than a 4/10. I instantly swipe no the minute someone gives me the ick in a single photo or statement on their profile. I know Men do the same thing as I’ve been at parties where we swipe and they go off only the single photo and don’t check the rest of the profile whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:17 AM
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An AI data aggregator. But sure. I’d love to see just how many people use it, and how many sample groups this data is pulled from. Everyone knows the reality of dating apps. It’s just people on here claiming all women say “looks don’t matter!” that cry about it. My friend looks definitely do matter and nobody with common sense denies it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:08 AM
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yeah it’s an AI analytics platform. AI still collates all the data. You aren’t getting any data from successful people as well, just the ones complaining about their lack of matches. Still doesn’t address the point. Dating apps are window shopping. Why do you think anyone should enquire into something they aren’t interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:59 AM
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We see these posts all the time. Sure - just remember an AI on “swipe stats” isn’t accurate exactly, and you forget all the female bot accounts in these stats that swipe on everyone. Also, men do the exact same thing, but I guess that’s not as commonly reported. At the end of the day, dating apps are like window shopping. If you’re window shopping, you’re not gonna ask the price on something you don’t actually like, right? You’d only go in and ask the price if you were interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:50 AM
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lol until he no longer wants it! too much work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:26 AM
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who gives a fuck about economic revenue that’s not our problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:11 AM
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I don’t find it funny either but you are correct, even if it was it’s not career ending
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:11 AM
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what’s consumer spending got anything to do with it? and you have to specify what you mean by “shifting cultural dynamics along political lines” cause that’s a whole sentence that doesn’t make any sense without context
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:04 AM
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well yeah but that doesn’t mean it’s a double standard it just wouldn’t happen in the first place because it happens too prevalently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:03 AM
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…it is sexual harassment, but the whole thing is a performance act meant to make people laugh it wouldn’t be career ending for a man, considering it’s a performance…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:00 AM
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There’s plenty of long term relationships, not everyone wants to get married - it’s expensive, annoying and stressful as opposed to just remaining de facto or eloping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:34 AM
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Nobody is pushing for higher rates of marriages? What economic and cultural fears are you even referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:24 AM
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nah this is bullshit. You should never date someone the exact same as you. You each need your own hobbies and friend circles. The issue is that people become complacent. Men stop “pursuing” their partner because they already have her, thus no dates, effort or showing of appreciation. This fosters resentment. The most stable relationships keep dating each other like they did in the beginning even through trials and stresses. In distress, one picks up the slack of which should be returned if the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:28 AM
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By mood swings you mean dangerous anger, and brooding over not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:37 AM
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No it’s not. You can’t akin a woman going to the club dressed nice (because who goes to the club not looking nice, be for real?) to men chatting up other women to accrue “options”. Accruing “options” is an invitation to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:21 AM
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lol I am obviously not talking about mood swings resulting in abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:59 PM
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Yes? Anyone who loves their partner is okay to deal with it. In sickness and in health includes mental health. You won’t find a relationship if you don’t care about the other person’s feelings and try to help any way you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:56 PM
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You mean, who would go 50/50, and take on emotional labour in a relationship? Almost all healthy adult relationships would - that’s who.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:53 PM
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yes and no? It’s a hypothetical. Men may approach but does the woman want that or is she just out having fun? It’s not passive, it’s lust from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:52 PM
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It is nonsense. Hypotheticals galore that will never happen. A genders or individual’s ineptness is not the fault of the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:47 PM
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yeah no it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:43 PM
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You realise you have to work to be “pursuable”, right? I don’t just sit there and look pretty like a trophy. Besides the point - I obviously do more than sit there in order to be pursued and “worth” it. I cook, clean, do laundry, whatever you think. I am smart, funny, considerate, caring and chill. I’m financially independent and own a house despite a majority of men my age… not owning, or even having saved a deposit, and still living with mum and dad. But yes, in relationships, there’s no point…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:43 PM
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No - asexual literally just means you aren’t SEXUALLY attracted to people. Plenty of asexual people, including myself if I have it, have and enjoy sex, but it’s not necessary for them and they could happily go without it. You can change your ugliness though just like I did. Get fit, eat healthy, groom your hair and facial hair, get a great job and a big friend circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:39 PM
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“The psychology of women is dark and *bothers men*”. So stop being bothered by it? Crazy idea, right? Focus on yourself. I’ve never let a man pay for me on a first date so idk what you’re on about - and we always went go for go paying in relationships. I’m a big girl and don’t need no man like you claim I do. What I bring is maturity, stability, connection, and logic - a lot of things men don’t have. Re: the criminal, you realise very few of them would want to date him beyond a quick root - unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:36 PM
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Obviously I don’t expect them to do all the work. 50/50 and more on days I feel like shit, yes, of course (and vice versa). What’s the point of a relationship if I am caring and doing labour for both of us instead of just myself? For men it’s just sex - for women it’s moreso companionship, and coupling for finances and labour in stressful adulthood. Men should pursue, yes, considering they are the ones desperate for sex/relationships more than women. The one that wins in the women’s eyes at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:25 PM
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Yes I understand analogies but you can’t compare slavery (illegal) to personal preference. It’s that simple. The analogy you provided is simple as it doesn’t compare anything illegal/not illegal. The former doesn’t always win. You’re nuts. Nobody wants to fuck hitler or a psycho or a deadbeat. The one with the great personality that ticks all the other boxes is the one that wins - you are just too chronically online to think outside of the box for a sec It’s also not my fault men fucking suck. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:21 PM
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No… nobody. I was an isolated, bullied kid because I was ugly, no friends in highschool. Lost weight, got a degree and good job, groomed myself and now I get a bit of “attention” but honestly still not much outside of men wanting a quick root. I’m also pretty sure I’m asexual because physical appearance has never mattered to me, so saying I only dated attractive men is a stretch when they were both 5-6/10. Like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:19 PM
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So… men can’t have female friendships then? Cause they’ll just want to fuck them or date them? Is that what you’re saying? Kinda proves the reason why we can’t show any friendliness and be ourselves don’t you think? Also, no, women don’t treat their male friends the same way they treat their partners. Crazy concept, that you are misperceiving them being nice and caring for them being interested in you. There’s no point in complaining about “mixed signals” when you should have a semblance of a br…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:17 PM
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I don’t get to be picky considering all the men my age are incompetent and lazy. There’s nothing to want, there. I’d rather be by myself. But to answer your other statement saying no woman struggles - nobody wanted to even go on a date with me until I was 20. Apart from 2 long term relationships and several dates I’ve not had anyone actually “want” me until I dolled myself up, lost weight, got a degree and a house. So
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:13 PM
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Typically because men still want sex and benefits without putting in the work, and they’ll bitch and moan about it, but women are okay going without that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:04 PM
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nah… a majority of men literally are too much work in both the emotional and physical sense. Men consider women too much work in the emotional sense - they want sex and benefits, but don’t want to deal with her mood swings, or take on financial and physical responsibilities. Male “keepers” are super uncommon, a lot of them have had bad behaviour enabled their entire lives by school mates and family, and expect that to last in adulthood. Look at Mumma’s boys, and the fact that a lot of these boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:02 PM
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Oh? Did the redpill creator tell you that explicitly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:56 PM
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Being confident in your own body as a woman and showing off your hard work in dedication is a “passive phenomenon”, now? Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:54 PM
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Another bigoted take. Nobody is advertising themselves unless they are sex workers/only fans. Stop being so insecure, and comparing cheating to a woman just being confident in her own body. It’s not “advertising”, it’s confidence and freedom to wear and do whatever the fuck we want. Speaking to other women with the sole intention of getting back at your woman because she is “advertising” (lmfao bigot) is cheating and you can’t compare the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:53 PM
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Responding “this way” to analogies? You mean, pointing out you’re comparing attraction/preferences to an inhumane and illegal act and say it comes down to “honesty”? Righto There are unfair beauty standards, thanks to porn, modelling and social media. And men want that and not a chubby girl, typically, because they think thats the norm. It is both looks and personality. If you are attractive but your personality is dog shit, you won’t be getting anything more than quick pussy. If you are decent …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:51 PM
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Men definitely DO do things like that. They aren’t less shallow. If you’re unattractive to men you won’t even be glanced at, maybe just for a quick root. Life as a woman is always “easy mode” to a man but every day I wish I was born as a man because this shit isn’t easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:24 PM
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I like tall guys. Many other women like tall guys. But it’s not a deal breaker if the guy ticks my other boxes. Women will never be labeled as “manly” because regardless of height or physical characteristics/attributes or lack thereof, they still want us for sex and companionship. Women don’t NEED that as much as men claim it is a “need”, thus we are allowed to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:57 PM
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This is crazy logic, how are you comparing slavery to attraction? Women having preferences and being attracted to specific traits is not a “horrific truth”. What issues would women have with male sexuality - what on earth do you mean? And saying women are downplaying looks - not a single one of them has said looks DON’T matter but if you’re lacking in that regard you have to make up for it with your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:56 PM
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… because you men are the ones attacking us? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:27 AM
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If I was a man I’d want kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:07 AM
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what’s with all the random spelling errors yes, there is two types of MGTOW - MGTOW who do it because they don’t care/aren’t seeking relationships or sex, and MGTOW who don’t have a choice and simply have no sex thus state they are MGTOW because they are incels, and keep hating women for “making” them MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:07 AM
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??? men have zero… what? zero what? the right to their own bodies aren’t being taken away from them so what are you saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:33 PM
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nobody actually says that though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:32 PM
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respectable men whom don’t want relationships and don’t complain about it or lack of sex is the key difference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:25 PM
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lol there is nothing in the body that compels you to copulate and procreate. it is just your ego. It’s not a need, it’s a desire. You confuse benefits with actual life necessities and scream that you’re desperate despite likely never having kissed nor touched a female yourself, so clearly, it isn’t a need because you haven’t died yet. not all women can find men btw. you forget this the rules are there for a reason, because blatant sexism and hatred isn’t allowed and that’s exactly what you’re tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:01 PM
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your “biological” urge has nothing to do with us you aren’t owed women simply for being born a man I don’t need men on my side when they’re the same ones oppressing me if men control us one day, women would just off themselves rather than deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:53 PM
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there’s a fine line between MGTOW and going your own way because you’re an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:48 PM
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okay gang 🥀 you truly have no idea what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:47 PM
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What policy changes? What do you propose? What rights do we need to champion? You should give two shits about women if you’re a decent human being, but also a straight man who wants to have sex/relationships/children with women. Or loves their mother. Considering women are genuinely being legally oppressed and we are going backwards, you should care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:41 PM
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lmao the main part of a modern man’s struggle isn’t women’s fault, though? you may not believe in it. It can for sure be a “main struggle” but it’s not our fault whatsoever. it’s literally only ever the man’s fault that he has no poom poom “there’s no oppression in first world countries” - are you living under a rock? look in the USA. we are going backwards. Aus is thinking of adopting it also, and the bill almost passed in one of our states by one vote out. but sure, we ain’t oppressed - keep t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:40 PM
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Yeah others in our immediate circle and those who are genuinely oppressed by laws, crime and war… but again, to an extent. The examples OP listed aren’t due to any laws, they aren’t oppressed, it is entirely individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:26 PM
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“anti male bias” in courts lol where the fuck do you live if that was the case the abortion bill wouldn’t have passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:13 PM
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100%. Like… who cares about other people? Yes some care about women legally being oppressed and going backwards (anti abortion in USA as an example) is justified, as it would be if men faced any such legal/ethical issue, but at the end of the day you should only focus on those in your circle and not others who don’t affect you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:12 PM
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maybe because men’s rights actually aren’t being oppressed! whereas women aren’t even seen as people in some countries and some countries are actually going backwards in female rights - looking at you, USA! of course there’s no focus on Men! Because the men only complain when the focus is on Women! If you want the focus shifted, be the change and start making videos talking about it. Just don’t start talking about how your life SUCKS because the focus is on women. Nobody cares about that and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:09 PM
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Well yes if a woman you personally know has her period you should care. Women also care about men they know having personal issues so long as it doesn’t boil down to “nobody wants to have sex with me and it’s yours/women’s fault”. Men are supposed to care that women are being oppressed and being dehumanised (see new anti abortion laws in most USA states now?). All of the examples OP listed about women not caring about is because it’s not actually law based but individualistic and not across the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:03 PM
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Okay? There’s a point to me ignoring them. What does women caring about male victims in violence, deaths in war and homelessness do? Whats the actual solution you are expecting from us? Unless it impacts someone I know personally, no, I don’t care, because it’s not a human rights issue but rather an individualistic issue, and you shouldn’t care about people not in your circle. What are you expecting women to do about those issues, exactly? What will their “care” accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:59 PM
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Because what else is the struggle? That is what it comes down to. There is no empathy to be had when men start to BLAME WOMEN for their own personal issues as if it’s somehow women’s fault as a collective. I have empathy about men’s struggles. Real struggles that have nothing to do with women, and nothing to do with a lack of poom poom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:53 PM
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what “point” I’m proving the point by saying men only care when women have it easier for them in some regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:47 PM
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oh yes except still not having you know, basic bodily autonomy in a lot of countries? a majority of being graped/assaulted/abused and the perpetrators going unpunished? some women in some countries not having any rights whatsoever to the point they can’t go outside? not being able to access abortion which is healthcare even if it will kill you if you don’t? you just THINK we are doing better than men in every other area in life just because we are sexually appealing and any man will want us no m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:46 PM
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“Put words in my mouth”, you literally said “you sound angry”. You’re a joke. Debate or don’t reply to the comment on YOUR debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:32 PM
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lol you say that as we as woman STILL don’t have equality despite the efforts of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:31 PM
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Answer the question instead of deflecting. This is your debate, yet you aren’t debating anything and just saying “nah” to everyone debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:30 PM
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Women have a strong tendency to not care about men’s struggles because a majority of men’s struggles are simply “woe is me, nobody finds me attractive, I can’t get pussy like Chad can”. Why would we worry about that? It’s a you issue and it’s burdening us as if it’s somehow women’s fault in any way for having preferences, much like men having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:29 PM
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insecurity is where it’s coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:05 PM
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Again with the women only go after chads and I, as a “man”, won’t settle for less than anything she gave them! Get over yourself. Get over IT. Find someone you are compatible with and love each other for the sake of loving each other. Stop being so fearful and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:05 PM
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Men run on a 24hr hormonal cycle (as they only have testosterone - and the others in very small amounts) whereas women have eostrogen/progesterone/testosterone (testosterone in smaller amounts). Women’s hormones fluctuate over 4 cycles in a 28 day period (menstrual cycle). Men however are much simpler, and with a normal circadian rhythm, start their day with a surge in testosterone and cortisol which improves energy, cognition, endurance and typically invokes arousal. This surge peaks at midday …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:32 AM
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We probably “would be better off with a woman” but that isn’t what influences women to become lesbian. I know I’d 100% be better off with a woman but I am not sexually nor physically attracted to women apart from admiring beauty from time to time. So it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:37 PM
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public referendum/voting DID NOT OCCUR, it was a unilateral decision made by the government. Ukraine’s government, Verkhovna Rada, made of 450 deputies, is approximately 21% women. You cannot say it was solely their decision as even if every woman voted yes, it wouldn’t have been passed if the men voted no. It was not passed onto the people, it was made legislation in house. Also consider that Ukraine has different cultural norms much like Afghani women not having rights and not being able to vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:44 PM
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but they did not do the draft, that was decided by the government ya numpty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:33 PM
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Why are you paranoid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:33 PM
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Yup. Cause waiting 6-8 weeks is such an impossible task lol. How abhorrent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:02 PM
3

don’t worry nobody is gonna want children with you anyway boo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:00 PM
2

No, no… why would you want that? Then you would have nobody to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:59 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 those mean nothing in court
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:37 PM
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“She took MY kids”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:24 PM
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No, if you find a man that doesn’t make you a slave. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:45 AM
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With the right man. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:39 AM
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Maybe it’s just my Aussie culture but a lot of guys still expect that cause their mums serve them hand and foot and feed them with a silver spoon til they decide to leave the nest at 30 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:36 AM
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even if I have been, nobody here would believe it and would go “oh that’s just your experience though”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:29 AM
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Ughhhhh… tell that to all the dates I’ve been on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:27 AM
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It’s slavery in the sense that men do nothing and women pick up the brunt of the household labour, plus communication, emotional regulation, sex, child rearing all whilst also working themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:08 AM
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Men still think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:08 AM
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I’m mid 20s it is very common, that or they haven’t got their life together and they’re almost 30 yet still live with parents, with no plans to move… shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:56 AM
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🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:45 AM
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they definitely do less gang 😭 all the anti gentleman / simp movements
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:45 AM
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Tis a rare type of love these days. Good for you man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:34 AM
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Because some women want to have kids and be a mother. No shame in wanting that and also wanting to be provided for whilst you do to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:25 AM
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Yup, that’s what happens when you open the relationship - you get your flings, the woman gets her flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:19 AM
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For sex. And house work. And bills. That’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:17 AM
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they get upset because you aren’t showing commitment so far in and are still indecisive. Realistically if you’ve been together 3-4+ years you should be popping the question. Less time the more you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:16 AM
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Because if you get to have an open relationship, so does the woman. Maybe those men will give me money or something extra of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:10 AM
2

lol then you have to accept your woman having other men too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:00 AM
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Marriage, to a man, is the means by which even the poorest man can have a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:56 AM
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Why say “women have two cycles” and not expect to be corrected if you’re absolutely wrong? Why say anything at all if you have no idea what you’re talking about? Men do not understand libido mismatch as they do operate on a 24hr cycle - with a surge of testosterone every morning, that gives them energy and invokes horniness and sexual desire. Women’s fluctuate through the 4 cycles over a 28 day period on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:49 AM
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No. A need is something you fundamentally cannot live without and will likely die without. Maybe look it up. It’s a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:47 AM
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Obviously? What other phase could I possibly be referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:33 AM
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Four, babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:29 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA awwwwww you want to fuck women anally but won’t take it up the ass yourself? Be a man and grit your teeth and bear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:09 AM
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Trying to be a man? lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:03 AM
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Considering a woman is the one dealing with being vaginally / anally / orally penetrated, I would say her sexual needs and preferences are much greater than that of the man’s. Food for thought. Once you clean up semen out of your vagina and have to sit on the toilet for a while after a man has dumped their load in you, or have a slight tingle of wee in the morning, or have a pregnancy scare, maybe you can comment on equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:59 AM
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Yes, except, some animal species such as female ferrets die without sex/reproducing. Humans have evolved to not need sex, it is just a desire, a want, and a plus to have. It’s not even “sex” that men “need” - it is just the sensation to ejaculate and release hormones and semen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:57 AM
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Good. If my guy lets me peg him, then we can have sex if it’s all “equal”. If not, then stew in your bitterness. Only once your holes have been ravaged can you comment on whose needs should be “equal”. None of you have to deal with the mess and complications of sex with a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:55 AM
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“Basic right”. LMFAOOOO. Sex is not a human right, nor is it a need. It’s a want and privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:52 AM
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Of course it’s never optimal for men lmao, they’re all horn dogs - look on deadbedrooms at the amount of HLM and LLF. I’m speaking for a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:52 AM
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It’s companionship, having a “partner” for life to depend on and them you, be friends, have fun and not be lonely. Companionship doesn’t equal sex in every instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:47 AM
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wooow, a sample group of 47… what did these people do for work? do they have kids? what are their ages? Does their male partner meet their other needs and fulfill them emotionally and physically? Are they mentally stable and happy? All things you have to consider with libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:32 AM
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But then that’s the fault of the man for over compensating and pulling out all stops?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:15 AM
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Yeah, IF THE MAN IS MADE OF MONEY. No average woman is staying with an average bloke if she doesn’t love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:09 AM
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why would I stay with someone pretending to love them? You’re too online. That rarely happens unless he’s made of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:08 AM
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God forbid men who are successful in relationships actually want to provide, and do things for the woman they love. Foreign concept to you I’m guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:03 AM
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🤣😭🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:02 AM
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No, it’s a, “men are selfish and immature and unable to pull their weight in adult relationships” issue. I’m not gonna be happy if I have to act as a man’s mother. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:54 AM
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It is for most women. It would be for dead bedroom redditors. 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:54 AM
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Yeah it’s fucking 2026 we don’t have a choice, idk what OP is on 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:53 AM
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It’s literally the average for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:51 AM
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Yeah, the inverse is true and they HATE when you say it. YOUR PARTNER’s NEEDS SHOULD COME AT THE TOP - EXACTLY! BY NOT FORCING HER TO HAVE SEX AND FOSTERING RESENTMENT!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:48 AM
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Congrats! You are not the average!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:47 AM
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Enjoyable for them, it’s not enjoyable for me if I’m not in the moment and too stressed out. The inverse is true. Y’all forget that. If you have to force your partner into sex to be happy, maybe THEY should reevaluate your commitment to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:46 AM
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Bit different when women go through and lose so much physically, emotionally and financially by having children. Physical - changes to her body, growing a child for 9 months (exhaustion, cramps, oedema, HR / BP changes, sleep disturbances, increased appetite and weight gain, etc), breast feeding with sore, tender breasts and milk duct clogs, physical detriment during childbirth via vaginal (tears), or C section (muscle repair = longer) Emotional - hormonal fluctuations, losing a majority of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:34 AM
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I honestly don’t see any of the women on here saying “all men”, I think we are all pretty reasonable knowing it’s not “all” lol but just “most” when it comes to statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:30 AM
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Love language as “touch” gives me the biggest ick when they actually just mean “sex”. The actual creator of love languages excluded sex from the physical touch love language - it moreso means hugs, cuddles, holding hands, back rubs, physical closeness without sex. I see men say it on dating apps all the time and argue with them about it. I have low libido but it will be non existent if I feel forced or uncomfortable because of the man pushing it and proclaiming it’s his love language/“need”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:29 AM
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they’re just a bit of a pick me, definitely not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:27 AM
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Except we also need to work, pay bills, pay taxes, vote, do chores, ya know… being human
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:25 AM
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Yep, fosters soooo much resentment if you ask me. And people then say “if you cared about your partner you’d fulfill your needs” - the inverse is true, if they cared about me they’d not force me to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:24 AM
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Yes, and the inverse is true. Your partners needs (lower libido) should come at the top and that means not having sex if they aren’t up to it. Else you’re just in for a world of fostering resentment and unhappiness. Use your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:23 AM
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🤣 The difference between animals and children is that they don’t have to go to work, pay the bills and pay tax. They eat, drink, shit/piss, sleep and reproduce. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:22 AM
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Not all men, they say most men - the ones that say all are just those radical feminists not worth discussing with. But that’s a different debate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:19 AM
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Yes also in the west… hence the USA… 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:18 AM
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??? They don’t have a choice if no man steps up to provide for them. You’re confused
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:18 AM
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Bro’s post history is crazy 😭 13 May 2026: “So called 'hantavirus' is the result of 26ghz (5g) activating the nanotechnology in the covid injections.” 6 April 2026: “There are now several studies that show that the covid shots damage the brain, resulting in psychological issues.” 16 March 2026: “I can't be the only one who has noticed personality changes in people who got the covid fake vaccines.” 9 March 2026: “If men focused more on personality and character, women would have alot less options…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:18 AM
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A lot in the past few years, yes. A lot in undeveloped countries due to forced marriages, incest, access to medical care, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:14 AM
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Okay, so if women don’t have to have children, then stop looking for women that want children perhaps? Choose a child free life, where you will be free of your internal obligations of not wanting to be a provider for anyone including someone you love dearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:14 AM
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I mean, when does that happen? Unless you’re referring to the man or the bear, which is not comparing them but saying women would choose the bear. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:13 AM
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that’s… not all it is about the 4 different stages each have their own hormonal fluctuations. Ovulation naturally increases horniness, but the other stages cause exhaustion, soreness, lethargy, etc. which for most women reduces libido drastically If you’re also not using protection you’re limited as to when you can have sex naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:13 AM
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Correction, how it works for most working women in adult relationships - if all their needs are met they are keen to have sex. I would be too. But no man has ever fulfilled my needs to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:11 AM
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They don’t want to but a large part of where women live aren’t given a choice to get rid of said children (abortion - illegal in US and developing countries, where women don’t have rights!) The birth rate has DRASTICALLY declined. So what are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:09 AM
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This is a bit much though… comparing women to animals? I didn’t know animals had to work, pay the bills and pay taxes these days. Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:08 AM
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…what No woman chooses to have a bad birth or emergency C section. No woman chooses to have a prolonged recovery. And you say they don’t have to do it - who else is gonna look after the kid if you can’t afford day care, and can’t even support her? You realise it takes months to return to work postpartum right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:06 AM
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If you want kids with a woman you NEED to be able to provide long enough for growth, birth and many months postpartum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:04 AM
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What? What about the woman and all she sacrifices - physically, emotionally, financially? Bigoted take
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:04 AM
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Thank god for that. He’d probably expect his future mother of his children to go back to work a few days post partum cause “it’s not that serious” and “animals do it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:03 AM
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Who else is gonna pay for the kid whilst she can’t work though after birth let’s be real. Or if they don’t want to send the kid to daycare 🤣 What a joke. Women having kids “shouldn’t” expect to be provided for even though we grow the kid, birth it, sometimes breastfeed it, and have to recover from the birth and sometimes stay home and lose income, job experience and super for retirement in the process. Abysmal that we expect to be provided for whilst sacrificing our physical health with a high r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:59 AM
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Comparing women and birth to “animals” as well, what the fuck? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:57 AM
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They don’t give a fuck that a woman goes through growing the baby for 9 months, breastfeeding, recovery from C section/vaginal tears, and it’s more financially advisable for a parent to stay home with the kid than it is to send them to daycare… But them expecting to be provided for whilst any of the above happens is just abysmal, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:57 AM
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I feel like they confuse the gold digger women with women who just want to have a family and have themselves and their children financially looked after whilst doing so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:56 AM
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“Which even animals can do”… what kinda animal pops out human kids? lmfao Yes, if you want kids you need to have the ability to be a “provider”. What if she dies in childbirth? Has antepartum or postpartum issues and can’t work? What about close to a year OR MORE if you choose to have her stay at home to save money instead of sending the kid to childcare that she’s losing in PERSONAL income, JOB EXPERIENCE and having to explain a large gap in her resume, and super for her retirement (pretty sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:51 AM
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It’s very uncommon tbh, I agree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:34 AM
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That’s not how it works? But sure, keep trying to explain how it works for ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:32 AM
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not for me 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:30 AM
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Probably because your partner fulfills your other needs I suppose. Most men these days don’t do that. Sex is the first thing that goes out the window for me when exhausted/stressed/needs not met and it’s the last thing to come back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:26 AM
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Attraction is fine, but honestly when I’m exhausted or even slightly stressed, I don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:25 AM
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Once a week is optimal in any relationship and most men don’t understand that, because they work on a 24 hour cycle whereas women work on 28 days. And also, anyone who works a hard job knows that sometimes sex is the last thing you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:20 AM
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yeah except you just start to resent women because YOU are bad so either way you aren’t going to make much progress with that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:33 PM
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no she won’t, because women in general hate cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:26 PM
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One worded answers / staring at their phone is a cue they are uncomfortable. If you aren’t doing it right you’re doing it wrong and should just not try until you perfect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:23 PM
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Okay? Don’t put in the work for us then - nobody is forcing you at gun point. The men who put in the “legwork” as you call it are the ones that win though. You aren’t owed anything from women. Women aren’t going to make it “obvious” to be “easier” for the men that don’t understand, cause you can just be a big boy and figure out social cues and communication by yourself. FYI, approaching women is nowhere near submissive. It shows confidence and a big ego which translates to dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:18 PM
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Show me then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:37 AM
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Shhhh don’t let them know, that’s common sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:02 AM
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That doesn’t mean those guys are good at relationships, or I am. And that view is so conceited and invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:59 AM
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Idk, police profile everyone. Doesn’t mean they’re gonna get charged so I don’t see anything wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:17 PM
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Profiling?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:13 PM
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Nobody does this lmfao rarely any women goon mate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:43 PM
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yes, women should treat any man they don’t know or trust as if they have the potential to be violent. considering they are our only natural predator in this world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:58 PM
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“13% of 50%”… so, 6.5% total out of 100%?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:57 PM
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… okay? doesn’t change the fact that men are naturally stronger and bigger than women… so yes, we should exercise caution
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:56 PM
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Nobody is saying it’s a majority of men… are you daft? It’s saying that the people who do commit the violent crimes are largely, by a majority, men. Not that a majority of men commit crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:37 PM
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lmao just ignored everything I said to tout the same bs in different paragraphs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:36 PM
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Yes, considering there’s no stats to support that statement Whereas there’s plenty stating >90% of violent crimes are committed by men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:34 PM
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Oh my god that’s common sense… it’s 90% of the violent crimes committed are committed by men, not 90% of men commit violent crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:33 PM
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Nobody said they’re the majority my guy… they’re the majority in leading statistics, not as a whole in the male populous. Not sure what your question is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:39 PM
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Yep, and now the male uber drivers are crying because uber now has a female driver for female passengers only option. But not all men, right? We are too out of line to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:38 PM
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Yup. 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:36 PM
0

??? I don’t see your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:35 PM
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So, you send me one article (not study or statistic) stating that male victims access crisis services less? Have you ever thought that that’s because male victims don’t report, or feel the need to access services? And yet, there are still so many women that don’t report, and they still lead the fucking numbers. Crazy, right? The number of genders accessing crisis services is not an indicator of total gender victims, just fyi. Regarding your second link - said study is from fucking Africa, in 200…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:34 PM
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it’s really not, what I’ve said does not correlate to racism or any other statistic considering it cannot be compared to such
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:27 PM
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Because we are subhuman to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:26 PM
2

Righto so saying “not all men but mostly men” is somehow the equivalent of racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:24 PM
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Still didn’t explain how in “misusing” statistics. Yawn. Do show me the more “even split” statistics when it comes to DV. I’d be keen to peruse your sources. Not sure what infanticide or child abuse has to do with this but I also assure you men lead the statistics as well. Ask anybody - would they trust a 40 year old male teacher with 10 years of teaching experience completely competent in first aid or a teenage girl with no experience to babysit their child? The answer will always be women, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:23 PM
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If you aren’t one of the men that commits violent crimes, then you have no reason to be insulted. You aren’t part of the demographic. Nobody is blaming you, women are just exercising caution around men - considering sexual assault statistics from men are typically from the people closest to them including family members and partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:20 PM
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he’s just gaslighting you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:19 PM
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Chosen specifics? As in, a very large issue (any form of assault and domestic violence)? Explain how I’m missing the statistics? If there’s another demographic with such prevalent statistics, do feel free to show me and maybe my views will sway. But there’s not. There’s definitely no statistics that say “women melt down at anyone that shines poorly on them”, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:18 PM
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You did. “The question is, when are we gonna discuss any real solutions to that broad problem of some men behaving badly?” That is you asking, and saying, why are all men grouped as bad, because of the actions of a few, and how can men who aren’t bad benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:15 PM
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lol what 😭😭😭 you are spending too much time looking into radical feminism if that’s what you truly believe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:14 PM
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nobody is blaming ALL men let’s be real. If it’s “not all men”, then maybe use your logic and start thinking “not all women” blame all men, are sluts with high body counts, gold diggers or only go after chads for example. Men love to interject on women’s lived experiences only when it affects us. But I don’t see any of you using that logic when it comes to perceiving women as people, and not generalised stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:13 PM
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Because men only bring up “not all men” when women are talking about issues that affect them at large such as rape and DV. Only when we say things about men do men suddenly care and say “oh, but not ALL men”. But you guys won’t use the same logic for “not all women”. Not all women are sluts, gold diggers and go for chads for example. Stop interjecting upon women’s lived experiences. No woman is genuinely going around thinking ALL men are the same and are all rapists/abusers, we know there are go…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:11 PM
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If you aren’t one of those bad men, why are you bothered? Genuinely how does it affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:09 PM
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You can’t say “most men don’t rape”, because that’s not related to the topic. It’s not about how many men do or don’t do xyz. It’s about the statistics in DV, murder, physical and verbal assault being led by men in most cases >80%. That’s not saying most men do it - it’s saying that most people that DO do it are men. What do you have to take responsibility for if you aren’t one of the men that do it? Men that get defensive in this topic typically are the offenders/misognyists, or the same people…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:08 PM
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Except there is no other group, apart from men, in statistics that remains this bad across the board regardless of country, socioeconomic status and culture/religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:05 PM
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not saying I’m prejudiced, just explaining why other women think that way. doesn’t mean I’m out here being a misandrist. it’s just factual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:50 PM
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but racism stereotyping is not >80% of particular statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:50 PM
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yea because news flash men lead the statistics in both murder and sexual assault regardless of the victim’s gender. so yes, it’s not all men, but it is mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:44 PM
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I’m neurodivergent and still learnt in highschool… it’s not an excuse tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:27 PM
2

95% of people are plenty nice from the get go… just maybe not your boss or coworkers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:26 PM
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There ain’t any, he’s just addicted to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:14 PM
9

For sure, because they (men) can’t do that. They’re sexually attracted or not at all. And if they even think their bros look nice, that’s “gay”. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:56 AM
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I genuinely can’t wrap my head around what you’re trying to debate here Genuine nice guys don’t have to insist they are nice to get a chance with women. You could also be nice as pie but not capable of pulling your weight in a relationship, communicating and regulating yourself and not being selfish - it just doesn’t work that way. Niceness doesn’t guarantee you relationship success, same applies to attractiveness. Personally I will not give “nice guys” that have nothing else going for them a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:53 AM
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This post is just trying to fulfill your lesbian porn fetish. I am a woman and I am NOT attracted to women, but I can admire their beauty. Doesn’t mean I want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:09 AM
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what 😂 crazy fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:09 AM
3

… how’s that women’s fault when it was men’s decision
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:46 AM
2

💖💖💖 spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:45 AM
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How are they “coming” for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:43 AM
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Idk why you consider social/relationship/sexual success for men = narcissism. That is not what narcissism is. It is not dependent on looks but rather behaviour and ingrained beliefs and attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:37 AM
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why do people need to lower their standards? looool Do you mean women need to accept men that don’t meet their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:35 AM
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cause you literally just want the power imbalance dynamic of providing for and supporting a woman from a developing country. that IS weird and it’s not a “type”, it’s just no woman your age or demographic wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:44 AM
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Yes, insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:52 PM
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Are you daft? It’s not like men go around and openly disclose their history. Thats not something you find out until later down the track if they are good at covering it. How is that women’s fault for choosing bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:47 PM
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Ugh shut uppppppp lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:45 PM
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that’s not what I meant by winning. I meant that women will choose the one who puts in effort, therefore they win. As you just described, women will choose who make them happiest and align with what they want and for a lot of us it’s effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:50 AM
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well yeah that’s how any transactional relationship works… the woman is okay to have it either way, but the one who wins will be the one who puts in work
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 08:27 AM
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you realise I, and everyone else on reddit, can see my private posts/comments, right? all it takes is common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:39 PM
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??? nothing on reddit is private bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:10 PM
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“She either does or doesn’t” - shouts the guy who has never had his dick sucked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:35 PM
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if you’ve made it you wouldn’t have those opinions 😂😭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:34 PM
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??? But why do you make it sexual? like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:27 PM
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they just don’t get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:27 PM
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ok bro (top 1% poster btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:26 PM
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Except most of us here are for shits and gigs yet most of the men here are to find reasons to blame women for their shortcomings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:26 PM
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Nobody is gaslighting anybody what are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:25 PM
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Congrats, you are part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:24 PM
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You can 100% tell if they’re unattractive just through their comments / post history
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:46 PM
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They never mentioned having a problem saying someone is ugly on the internet. It’s about safety in person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:44 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:42 PM
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We would, it’s just that it’s too risky as most men don’t take rejection very well, in any context. It’s just not safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:42 PM
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It’s not my responsibility to give unattractive, socially and emotionally inept guys a chance. I did my fair share, never again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:21 AM
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Call it whatever you want it’s just the truth aye. Doesn’t matter. If you aren’t confident in your social skills, it doesn’t matter how attractive you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:59 PM
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That is not true, considering I was not initially attracted but grew attracted once I knew him. It is narrow minded and the words of someone inexperienced to believe love cannot exist without initial attraction because it definitely can.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:11 PM
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Of course. I also dated an attractive man who did not treat me great. So two sides to a coin and I have experienced both as have most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:06 PM
2

…why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:49 PM
1

oooh this is a controversial comment and you know it girl lol - confident, intelligent, gentleman - empathetic and in tune with emotions - funny, knows how to make me laugh and also when not to make me laugh - stable job, with good prospects of stability and progression in the future - similar to job, stable financial situation with no debts or impulse spending - the same height, or taller than me (5’8) - dad bod, medium length hair or dirty mullet preferably dark blonde/brunette - knows how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:44 PM
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I have no counters? Oh boy, do I have news for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:39 PM
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No. I fell in love with his “witty” personality over his looks, and grew attracted to him. But I was young and naive and inexperienced and thought that games and anime is a personality, when it’s not. I stayed through rose tinted glasses until I realised I’m the best thing in his life and he’s an absolute loser older than me with no adult skills and experience to his name. Sorry. It’s an experience for myself and most other girls. We try to give them a chance and fall in love with all parts of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:34 PM
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Based on everything they post here, indicating most of them have no social skills and have no ability to be an independent and well functioning adult. Based on myself from one person older than me when we dated, and my friends who have been in almost identical situation. It’s not worth it. I’m sorry. If you can prove your social skills, confidence and personality the second I meet you, of course it’s considerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:32 PM
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you cannot apply that in social situations? nobody asks consent to speak to you over the phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:28 PM
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Sorry, but I’m a firm believer on not giving the “ugly” guy a chance. I did once, and it was disastrous. No social skills, no emotional regulation skills, no ability to communicate due to complete lack of experience. Insecure to the point he would constantly say I deserved better, yet abuse me and treat me like shit. Yes, pursuing a woman when you do not know how to do so is creepy. It’s creepy as fuck. Attractive men typically are more well versed therefore, it is not as creepy. But both men al…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:22 PM
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you realise a woman can choose what desire is acceptable to her right? she doesn’t have to lower her standards for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:15 PM
1

That’s nothing to do with women and everything to do with manipulation, trauma bonding and toxic attachment. A man could be beating a woman with anxious attachment daily, and she is trauma bonded to him. She is scared to leave and convinces herself it is out of love in order to deal with her circumstances. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:05 AM
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so… self proclaimed and proud incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:42 AM
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bro just saying a bunch of nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:41 AM
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u seem hot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:39 AM
1

Yes, you have eyes, but you can’t base it on attraction alone and assume all attractive guys or “chads” are bad for them and it’s simply them choosing poorly. Ugly guys are bad too, I won’t give a chance to an ugly guy considering when I did it was the worst experience I ever had as his lack of experience, social skills and emotional regulation and complete insecurity when it came to me ended up being toxic as fuck and destroyed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:46 AM
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If you were worth choosing you would’ve been chosen by now. You have no idea what women choose considering you haven’t been chosen yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:35 AM
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Believe it or not women don’t typically want desire, we want natural and long lasting fulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:29 PM
2

Except dating is optional. You don’t need it to survive, like you do money. You are comparing apples and oranges. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:54 PM
2

How stupid. Most men don’t even know where the clit is. All women have to do is suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:53 PM
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If you have to endlessly convince women that you’re a good dude and nobody is giving you a chance, and resent women for it, you’re actually not a very good dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:37 PM
2

Yeah except women aren’t dating or marrying weird fucking mutated men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:33 PM
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So basically, “women should settle”. Thats what you’re saying. How about no? How about men just become something worth choosing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:55 PM
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