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yeah what the actual fuck I completely disagree with OP men aren’t seen as “not men” if they are short. wtaf. such a wild take
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:43 AM
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Because most men just want an easy partner, without actually having to work too hard themselves. That’s what he was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:59 AM
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Because you also have to add benefit to a woman’s life, it is not one sided which that comment seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:10 AM
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this is the jokes section
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:20 AM
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Nobody is pushing that agenda. People are pushing that you need to be able to pull your weight, and not stop looking after yourself and your body/chores/finances simply because you have a partner and have settled down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:19 AM
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what lmao that’s not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:26 AM
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I’d say if he doesn’t have a decent job, he’s actually a loser. But dork works as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:49 PM
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Hell naw I love me a nerdy man but a good nerd who is also articulate and manages as an adult just fine. Not the basement dwelling fat NEET who lives with mum and dad, and can’t do anything himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:48 PM
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Yep, these short guys don’t realise it. If they didn’t have an issue it wouldn’t be a problem but they are so insecure and project so much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:16 PM
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It’s almost like dating is exactly that - giving people a chance to see if you click, and if not, bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:01 PM
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to you, not to anyone else I know I’m Aussie and we say give it a shot to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:53 PM
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but I don’t always wanna eat healthy, there’s no enjoyment to life without eating fun food in moderation the grocery analogy is so immature lol dates are free but sex is expected and a given according to men, what about my safety, what about not wanting to be a fucktoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:26 PM
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Because you said so, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:19 AM
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“What was your experience” tells my experience “I doubt that” LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:45 AM
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No, considering I haven’t been on that many dates because I’ve mostly been in LTR. There was definitely a tall bloke who was just a dumbass that tried to take me to Mexican despite me saying I hate Mexican the day prior. I also won’t date fat blokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:41 AM
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More than aware Love me a “good” nerd personally that worships me, unlike men who want to be equal in every way even if they don’t bring equalness to the table lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:39 AM
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I’m saying what - as in, YOU refuse women with body counts? Or others? Because you don’t make grammatical sense
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:37 AM
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when did I mention anything about them being off putting, I swear yall pull strings out of your ass and hold on for dear life you have to go on a DATE with someone to know if they’re off putting, or talk to them online for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:37 AM
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lmao I know, but honestly, it’s not that big of an ask I’m decently attractive, I have a low body count (2), I have my own house with a good paying job. I can be picky because I’m “above average”, and saying I prefer 5’7 or hell even 5’10 isn’t an issue for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:36 AM
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brother I already told you, two I went on dates with had fits I wore heels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:35 AM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:34 AM
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says the men here refusing to have women with a body count lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:30 AM
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100% ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:30 AM
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lmfao yes I would, considering all first dates with people you don’t know is giving it a crack with a random stranger and taking a risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:29 AM
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nobody is lying about being into average men, men are also not into average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:29 AM
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Brother, going on a date with someone I don’t know is “trying something new for the first time” 😭🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:27 AM
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why should we be attracted to average lets be real there’s >4 billion men what makes a man stand out from average?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:27 AM
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as I just said… my height or taller (5’7)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:23 AM
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lmao tangential delusions from a schizophrenic talking to himself good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:23 AM
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going on dates with people is quite literally giving them a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:22 AM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:20 AM
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it literally is that way 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:20 AM
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lol considering I’ve given two short men a shot and they refused to let me wear heels and get in an insecure little fit, I’ll pass on lower than my height of 5’7
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:20 AM
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huh? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:18 AM
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A man that knows how to clean up after himself, cook, and manage himself as an adult tbh I like me a man who is a nerd, dad bod, well kempt, funny and charismatic, and knows how to use his hands (sexually and around the house cause the best I can do is flat packs and painting lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:18 AM
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lmao 1 of my exes has, the other no, I like my height or taller (5’7) which is doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:16 AM
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body count only matters to insecure losers idk what u mean by “refuses to fuck you”, sexual compatibility is integral to any relationship, women don’t withhold sex out of spite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:16 AM
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says the man with no experience 🥴 none of the men I have been interested in/dated have made 6 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:15 AM
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…by being good in all the other aspects you can control? grooming/hygiene, clothing, fitness and health, intelligence, charisma, stable job
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:14 AM
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most women’s standards are just a man that isn’t a HOBOsexual that will treat her as a bang maid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:13 AM
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yeah because all those dms are incels just wanting their incel queen, thinking they don’t have standards and are sex starved as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:09 AM
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Ugh shut up This is all so subjective. Of course if you’re a fat incel that lives with your parents you’re gonna be “lonely” - this also applies to women. Most women just get to fixing these problems whereas men hope someone else will fix it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:08 AM
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I have no idea how you drew that conclusion from what I’ve said LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:08 AM
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Yes I’m asking YOU, what do you do to make a woman’s life easier if you will only settle for a woman that makes your life easier? Considering you would be working with or without a partner, you don’t get brownie points simply for working a job anymore. It isn’t sacrificing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:07 AM
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lmao and how do YOU make the woman’s life easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:16 AM
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lmao taken care of? You realise the men do nothing different to what they’d do single, right? Everyone works - it doesn’t deserve a medal. He’d be working with or without a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:15 AM
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Bang maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:45 AM
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are you male or female? you have posts saying you’re married with a husband, but all your other posts are from a bigoted male POV. troll account
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:08 AM
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Islam run countries, obviously 🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:06 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 you must live in Islam or something. This is not how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:04 AM
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Who the fuck is “we”? you aren’t part of any government decisions, you’re just a basement dweller the government decided this because they actually have rational knowledge on how to handle war and the best decisions to ensure longevity, survival and health and safety for their population.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:02 AM
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NO WOMAN IS GONNA IMMIGRATE TO A WAR TORN COUNTRY WHERE THEY ARE USED TO BREED lmaoooooo you say this as if the MEN in the government didn’t vote for their countries’ MEN to be conscripted and to leave the women out of it. Clearly you have no rational sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:01 AM
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Lmao that’s not how it works, nobody is gonna immigrate to a war torn country Cry about it, it’s simply biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:52 AM
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Ignored all my other points Okay, conscript men AND women Who stays behind? Does all the cares for elderly, children and unwell? Reproduces for the population so that we can have a younger generation to look after US when we are older? Answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:51 AM
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lmao you realise women aren’t conscripted for so many reasons that don’t equate to “discrimination“, correct? - Women make up female dominated workforces that run the world; nursing, disability care, aged care, child care, teaching, of which men would refuse to do as they think cleaning up bodily fluids and “caring” is below them - so conscript women, and who would be left to fulfill these critical duties? - Women are biologically and anatomically WEAKER, and do not have the strength even if tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:48 AM
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It’s really not? Explain how it’s discrimination? you mention all these things but don’t provide any stats to support your claims that there is such disparity in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:34 AM
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“make it illegal to discriminate against men”, stated multiple times throughout your post pray tell how are men discriminated against lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:32 AM
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lol so basically “men are superior, women bad”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:27 AM
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It’s nobody’s fault, especially women’s that “societal distress” is increasing. That’s just an excuse for men not bettering themselves and expecting women and the people around them to settle when they don’t do anything deserving of love and affection and belonging.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:50 AM
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When did I say how burnt out I was? I love my job to bits, it’s fun and interesting and never a dull moment - and I am actually valued. Speaking of projection 🥴 I’m saying men don’t deserve opportunities or information if they don’t work for it. Nobody is gonna help those “late bloomer” men figure out how to be adults except mummy and themselves if they ever do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:07 AM
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im not even at work atm and if i was id be too busy why are you so mad? take a benzo darling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:20 AM
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No dissing. Just saying that palliative care isn’t “frontline”. Front line are your emergency/ICU/OT nurses, paramedics, firies and cops. There’s very easily a difference in scope, and that classifies what is / isn’t frontline. But it’s okay if you don’t understand that. xx My personal life is very fulfilling. Hence why I like to say nobody, especially men, deserves handouts or opportunities they aren’t willing to work for. 💖 Seems you’re the one who may need therapy, if you’re so mad over reddi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:14 AM
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lmao you’re not “front line” if you work geris / aged care, you’re doing a job that requires no knowledge or skill. come step into my domain of emergency darl, id say it’s pretty special actually using your brain and saving people at work idk about you tho keep being a pick me ig, nobody deserves handouts, you actually have to work hard like everyone else 💖
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:54 AM
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lmao do you think you’re some kind of pick me, thinking men will choose you if you agree that they deserve being spoon fed information and opportunities instead of working for them like every other adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:42 AM
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“I’m a nurse” cries the PCA. Uhuh I’m saying those who aren’t active members of society aren’t deserving of being spoon fed information and opportunities, of which OP and other commenters are implying late bloomers and less “privileged” men should be “entitled” to. The answer is no. Yes, Sydney is the most expensive city. I live in South Western Sydney, which is still part of Sydney but not in a major city area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:28 AM
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What? It’s like you have this idea that everyone grew up the same way. Yes, 9 times out of 10 NOBODY, not even the government is going to spoon feed you information and help you get out in the world - part of doing that is being an adult, you have to do it for yourself at some stage. I’m not a mean girl. Just hardened through my trauma and experience. You stop caring about others when you do it all day every day as a job, and realise people don’t deserve that outside of it, if they can’t even be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:43 AM
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No. It won’t. And if it does, via SUICIDE and nothing else, that’s on them for not seeking adjustment via therapy, medications and socialisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:43 AM
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Yes and the heirarcjy of needs is a “ideal” life, food, water, shelter and temperature control being the most important to actually live. You aren’t owed love and belonging just because you were born. You actually have to earn that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:42 AM
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oh no a small percent of “long term chronic pain” and “increased prostate cancer risk”. absolute bs btw. what about the increased effects of infertility and cervical cancer in women with literally any form of birth control 🤣 if they aren’t reversible, sperm banks exist. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:41 AM
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Actually - I had to work jobs whilst doing my nursing degree to make ends meet. I don’t have to pay upfront like Americans because Australia has a thing called HECS debt but I still did 1000 hours unpaid over 3 years. I don’t live in a metro city I live rural. I am barely able to afford a house and had to wait for government incentives and save for many years. I DIDNT have support systems hence me living alone - no friends, my family sucks and are abusive. If I didn’t have access to any of that …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:39 AM
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contraceptive isn’t 100% effective, nor are condoms, and that’s a risk you take. but condoms are much more effective if used correctly AND women don’t have to suffer the effects of birth control using condoms also, tube tying isn’t reversible and is actually a major open surgery… a vasectomy isn’t. hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:51 PM
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Yes her body her choice. But it takes two to tango and you take that risk if you don’t wear condoms or have a vasectomy ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:47 PM
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what opportunities do people not have? I live in the second most expensive city in the world yet I am able to own a house on my measly nurse salary. So what are yall even on about…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:35 PM
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Because your views are bullshit. You expect the responsibility for men feeling lonely and not being active members of society to somehow fall on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:50 AM
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I ain’t reading that bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:48 AM
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Okay but that affects everyone? So how is that male specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:24 AM
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What systemic barriers are there 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:24 AM
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Yeah men do not have that right considering they aren’t the ones growing it in their uterus lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:23 AM
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No. In that situation it’s still a parasite/foetus*/clump of cells. But it is purely the woman’s decision if such does become a life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:16 AM
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That’s exactly what I do but these commenters are expecting WOMEN to spoon feed solutions to MEN’s problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:14 AM
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There already is job training - see internships and university degrees and scholarships. Mental health support - see psychologists and psychiatrists. You’re “not in a position to answer that well” because it’s honestly truly nobody’s problem except the people who feel “lonely” and “ostracised”. Do something about it YOURSELF. Women when they have a problem typically cry, and then think there’s no point crying anymore, time for me to fix it. Men cry, (or don’t, because reasons), and then think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:14 AM
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That doesn’t answer the question. How do we “make men feel like they have a stake in their community”. They, like every other successful woman and man, have to do that themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:09 AM
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Again. Individually or collectively, what do you SUGGEST we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:03 AM
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LMFAO it’s the same as a normal flu, if you test it’ll be positive for influenza A/B. suck it up, testosterone doesn’t “weaken” the immune system and if that was the case men would be sick 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:02 AM
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No, it’s not my problem whatsoever. Again. What do you expect women to do about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:55 AM
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lol except you’re comparing “starving” (not having food, a basic human need) to sex/relationships (wants and a plus, but not a need)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:47 AM
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Deaths of despair aren’t women’s problem lol How do you suggest we give these people an “easier time”? By giving them sex, and settling? How about no 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:45 AM
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No? Why would we care about “overall happiness”? Majority of people are still happy. If not, that’s up to them to make themselves happy. There’s no excuse for violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:33 AM
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Account is 4 days old you just answered your question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:29 AM
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… learn the skill set just like young women did. you aren’t gonna be spoon fed, and younger women are realising older men pursuing them is grooming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:46 PM
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lmao my grandchildren will be laughing at the men holding out for sex bots and artificial wombs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:45 PM
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yeah except no amount of technology can grow a perfect foetus with chromosomes, DNA, hormones, essential acids, nutrients, vitamins and most importantly ACQUIRED IMMUNITY. It doesn’t matter. It’s not happening for a few centuries because it’s not important when we have women who will have children with loving partners. The right to “kill” a “potential human being” aka foetus lies with the mother who is growing it. When men can some say some how grow children in their own bodies, they can comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:34 PM
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nope! because that’s not happening for another few centuries, and again, it is still dependent on the mother to form in the first place ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:19 PM
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Boo you can’t get pregnant, cry about a tiny piece of skin. Comparing apples and fucking oranges is absurd in 2026 with all the information we have Also, it takes two to tango. Considering most women take the pill, have the rod or IUD, and opt for condoms whereas men do fuck all, the responsibility of pregnancy also falls on the man. Luckily child support laws support this ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:10 PM
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lol. again. no. because the foetus is dependent on the host. it’s parasitic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:56 PM
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Yes but that’s a bit extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:52 PM
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yes lmao considering said “potential human life” is completely dependent on the host until >24 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:51 PM
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for real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:13 PM
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lmaoooo no, we don’t, we really don’t, they just… are incompetent! simple as that. doesn’t matter how many times you explain it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:13 PM
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No. The woman decides if the life is one she wants to foster and develop. That decision lies with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:12 PM
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Oh no! Circumcision! Something that affects BABIES and not you as an adult (I hope) on reddit, that you can blame your parents for. My body my choice refers to not having to pop out babies you don’t want. Which men don’t do, thus cannot equate to circumcision. So wtf are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:12 PM
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lmfao obviously nobody is inhumane enough to say that but we are speaking factually and scientifically here babe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:11 PM
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Because they took HER life, that was also coincidentally growing what WOULD eventually be a life? Like - you removed her choice. It was not her choice, as it should be, because it is her body. They took it from her. Most countries also no longer do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:22 PM
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it’s a parasite mate, it’s not a life until it can survive outside of the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:27 AM
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It’s not a baby until it’s born lmfao it’s a foetus, and “killing” it when it’s a parasite before viability (24 weeks) is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:20 AM
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Lmfao okay so infants, because their parents choose to mutilate them. That’s totally “no bodily autonomy” mate piss off with ya crack up bs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:20 AM
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LMFAO there’s always mentions of the Ukraine draft as if the MALE gov didn’t decide that for the men there Women don’t have any rights in some countries, and USA is now refusing healthcare (abortions) in most states to women. So how is that the “right”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:20 AM
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The feminist movement is in the USA? And literally every other western country? Explain how men don’t have bodily autonomy 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:46 AM
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The right to do with their body as they wish - bodily autonomy, in MOST states of the USA. See Afghanistan, most African countries, and Islamic rule countries - no rights for women, not even to leave the house, or contest abuse. Fucking hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:17 AM
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Feminism = misandry? Cause we just want the same rights 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:14 AM
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No. I’m saying the men here commenting on this post crying they don’t have any positive experiences. Correction is, if you don’t get past hi or bye you have 0 experience in “dating” thus cannot say you’ve had negative experiences because you don’t know the nuances of dating, sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:54 AM
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what? are you schizo? who are u talking to and what r u talking about rn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:43 AM
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Lmao yes negative experiences of getting REJECTED. Not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:08 AM
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Dating. To date you have to have your approaches accepted. If you don’t even get past hi and bye, you have 0 experience. We don’t include “approaches” and “interaction” as dating experience therefore how can you comment on dating in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:00 AM
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Well, we are referring to actual dating / sex / relationship experience. Of which the men here don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:29 AM
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mate you can’t even spell faeces correctly so who doesn’t know English?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:45 AM
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You’re delusional here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:58 PM
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lol wtf r u doing commenting on a 5 day old comment like a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:19 PM
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Most*
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:45 PM
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Why’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:31 AM
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No, I just remembered your username from some absurd post. Took one click to confirm my thoughts. 🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:24 AM
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No, it says more about you. You are some random dude who says men aren’t capable of romantic love. You’re not exactly smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:20 AM
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lmfao not the chat GPT “synonym” words to make yourself seem intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:16 AM
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Ah, no, just didn’t realise I was talking to the same “IT bro” who thinks he’s as good as an engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:58 AM
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Yeah cause mummy and daddy aren’t around to help them. They don’t even know how to clean up after themselves, live alone, manage a household and cook for yourself EVERY MEAL, work a stressful high stakes job, and have a smile on your face whilst doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:39 AM
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Again avoiding answering the question. It’s ALWAYS the men that DON’T have a job that genuinely contributes anything to society (or at all) that say women don’t work in these roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:23 AM
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Again, avoiding answering the real questions. What do you do for work? What do you contribute to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:21 AM
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No, you couldn’t even build a motor. Thats the point. Whats your job? Considering all men are SO useful?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:20 AM
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Isn’t basic grammar mandatory in primary and highschool? It’s “weren’t”. “Weren’t statistics mandatory”. Yes. They are. And statistics now say we both pay the SAME amount of tax and earn the same amount of tax per dollar / super/retirement benefits. Nursing numbers skyrocketed, because women enjoy the independence and freedom the job and income provides. I have my own house and go on 2 holidays a year minimum. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:19 AM
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Can YOU? What job do YOU do that includes any of these things? Cause for me, I save lives. Can you do that? I don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:17 AM
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I know 🤣 “when I started abusing them they were drooling after me and couldn’t get enough!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:24 AM
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Mate I have never seen any woman say that here ever 🫩🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:24 AM
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Yeah… we definitely aren’t interested anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:16 AM
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Huh? Are you trying to say that’s what I am? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:10 AM
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Marriage IS the commitment. An engagement is the part of it that shows that initial commitment. It’s fine not to get married in this day and age, because weddings cost >20k on a budget, easily. A ring is reasonable. Idk any woman demanding it. I know women who get upset if their partners haven’t proposed by year 3-5, because it feels like they’re a placeholder and the partner is waiting for someone better, or the grass to be greener with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:08 AM
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I’m answering your question as to why “women demand it”. They are not demanding marriage, but commitment from their long term partner. A few years in you should know if you want to marry her or not and getting a ring on her finger shouldn’t be an issue. Men definitely need and WANT marriage more than women. Yes most women want to be married but not with the wrong person. They want that show of commitment and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:03 AM
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Huh? I never said propose in 1-2 years. I said in 1-2 years you should know if she’s the one you want to marry and have kids with. With that information, getting a ring in the next year or two should be on the table. That’s what I mean. If not, it’s time to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:01 AM
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2 years is considering you are actually in a mature ADULT relationship that moves relatively “quick”, most couples move in around 1 year together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:52 AM
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that’s why I said a year or two. two is more than enough, one year is okay if you’re both mature and it isn’t your first rodeo (typically happens in your older relationships) any more than two and you’re still “unsure” is just crazy and only keeping someone around as a placeholder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:48 AM
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because typically you know if you want to marry them after a year or two. 5-8+ years being “unsure” is absolutely ridiculous honestly. if you have any uncertainty about her being the “right woman”, you should simply leave her rather than waiting around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:45 AM
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What do you mean, why? Why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:43 AM
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Source: trust me bro I get so much pussy now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:42 AM
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Because if you wanna be with a woman, you shouldn’t be needing years to decide if you want to marry her. You don’t have to marry straight away, but a few years in you should definitely know if she’s the one and be WANTING to put a ring on her finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:41 AM
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lmao yes they are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:24 AM
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You realise, everyone will be forced if it is necessary, right? They’re at war. Thats what war is. They don’t have a choice, because nobody WANTS to go to war.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:13 AM
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Believe it or not, men are stronger than women. Men are also typically raped DRASTICALLY less as prisoners of war. Men can also not get pregnant, and Ukraine is in need of efforts to increase the population. Men also don’t want to do women dominated jobs - such as nursing, childcare, teaching, aged care and disability care, so if women got conscripted, who would do all these jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:12 AM
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You mean - so women don’t become war slaves to be raped and impregnated, and so women stay in country to do jobs men Don’t want to do like nursing/aged care/disability care/child care? And to reproduce considering so many have died?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:01 AM
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because members of the house don’t say “I’m gonna conscript men” when it’s time to vote. Just like trump didn’t say he was gonna set off bombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:00 AM
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No man, that’s engineering you’re thinking of. But nice try.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:59 AM
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lmao, except, the fact that it’s 2026 would stop it. Women would begin killing themselves or others en masse. You just don’t realise it. None of us are going back to having no rights - not over our bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:53 AM
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well, the conscription was. It was not voted upon by the general public, it was a vote passed in house. The house has approx 20% women last time I checked. So even if every one of those women voted yes, let’s conscript men, it still wouldn’t have passed without at least 31% men voting yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:45 AM
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lmfao and do you truly think that would work, in 2026?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:44 AM
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lmfao IT is such a generic, easy course that most self proclaimed “nerds” who wanted to be graphic/game designers in highschool pursued. it’s so over saturated that it has lost its usefulness, and with AI it’s basically almost a redundant job
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:40 AM
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lmfao yep, except, like most countries, an election only takes place every >4 years. like most countries, half of those votes are always gonna be men. therefore, how is it dependent on women? I don’t know any woman who lives in Ukraine who is actually THANKFUL the men are conscripted. the country is at WAR. They don’t have a choice much like nobody in any western country would have a choice if it came to it. Their population is already diminished because of this war, thus they value women’s repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:28 AM
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“building software” 🤓🤓🤓 mate you did a certificate in IT and youre trying to call yourself an engineer. IT is the most generic, over saturated job field there is that doesn’t actually contribute much benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 AM
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My fake job? A level 1 trauma centre emergency nurse? You mean - a job men don’t ever want to do, cause they think bodily fluids and caring for people is below them? Men and women pay the SAME amount of taxes. WOMEN run companies, and are politicians. WOMEN work in productive sectors, including food, water, electricity and building infrastructure. It’s not the 1900s. Women work in all of these roles now and more. We have rights. We pay the SAME amount of taxes and earn the same amount of super/r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:24 AM
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No, we really don’t. It is great to not have to rely on men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:21 AM
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Explain how I’m reliant lmao Oppression has nothing to do with “living longer”, and everything to do with societal norms, harassment and violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:39 AM
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Yes. We were oppressed. And we still are. We are no longer reliant on men. And thank god for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:32 AM
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Because it’s not a fucking talking point It has absolutely nothing to do with women CONSIDERING THEIR GOVERNMENT DECIDED IT, AND THEIR GOV IS ONLY 20% WOMEN IN HOUSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:31 AM
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lmao even more broken English
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:19 AM
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your English is so bad man and you want to “debate” we all see that youre just complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:17 AM
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That’s not how it works. She is definitely not on his level, considering “levels” base it off individual persons and all their uniqueness. Who wants to date someone the exact same as them, anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:15 AM
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Great. Can we ban Ukraine comments too? Considering men think to use it as an argument only when women are talking about how we are oppressed - forgetting the FACTUAL evidence that the Ukrainian government, composed of >70% MEN, decided that for them - not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:02 AM
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mate, you don’t even work, you truly have no idea how the world works. Nurses run the hospital, not doctors. Nurses do the cares, not doctors. Without us, the system collapses. I’m not your “stereotypical” nurse - I’m a level 1 trauma centre emergency department nurse. So, when you have your masters in emergency nursing and can intubate, sedate, and crack people open, let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:25 PM
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that’s okay, I’m perfectly fine with the fact that you know absolutely nothing outside of reddit and your little pea brain when you step into my domain, you’d shut up when you see the kinda shit I do working in emergency but you right, just poop and needles n stuff 🤓🤓🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:41 AM
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Oh baby. You have no idea x
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:38 AM
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when did I say I’m more important 🤣 certainly a more important job than yours, if you even work (because I’ve asked 5 times and you still won’t say what you do)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:56 AM
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okay I’ll tell the doctor it was their job to notice ur blood results next time u have a critical potassium and ur about to code xxx matter of fact the doctor can do the cpr and the drugs considering we are useless I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:43 AM
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hahahahaha says the one with no job. If you think doctors are the ones doing the saving, you must truly know nothing about the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:01 AM
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Do you even work any job? 🤣 You’re here critiquing me as a nurse but you yourself do not do anything useful for society, whereas I save lives every day at my job. We ain’t in the 1900s anymore, so no DEI policies will be taking effect. Cope harder though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:26 AM
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“I win” just tells me you’re a fucking teenager that doesn’t even work a single one of these “hard jobs that women don’t do” I said nobody is holding ANYONE at gun point for NORMAL JOBS. YOU are the one that moved goal posts, and your incredulous immaturity is really shining. The Ukraine conscription was actually voted on in house, it was not passed to the general public. The house, last time I checked, was approx 25% women at the time of voting. Even if every one of those women voted yes, it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:43 AM
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Oh pray tell, what job do you do? If any?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:35 AM
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Yeah, the MALE DOMINATED government chose that for them I knew something about Ukraine was coming, because you have no counter arguments about the fact that men CHOOSE those jobs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:32 AM
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but you realise, men CHOOSE to do those jobs right? Nobody is forcing them. Nobody is holding them at gunpoint. You don’t deserve a medal just because you chose to do a harder job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:25 AM
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Do you live in Afghanistan where women don’t have rights or something? ts is hilarious, it’s like you aren’t an adult in the big wide world yet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:12 AM
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nothing funny about it, what kinda world do you live in thinking women don’t do these jobs lmao also completely ignored all the jobs women dominate that men want nothing to do with - proved my point, simpleton brain only know simple thangs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:57 AM
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Nurses too pls. Signed a nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:56 AM
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“Nothing that supports society”. Oh, so when you’re sick and need to go to hospital, I guess you just won’t? Considering it doesn’t help you? I guess your mum and dad will just end up on the street because nursing homes aren’t helpful? Women also fight at the frontlines bro. Women also drill oil bro. Nobody is here pointing guns to men’s heads saying they MUST WORK A TIRING, LABORIOUS JOB. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:45 AM
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lmao, except, even with the same access to weapons such as knives and guns that men have in the big old 2026, you hardly ever see any women actually attacking men Men on the other hand tho? hmmmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:41 AM
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You realise women also do labour now, especially the labour men don’t want to do (see vets, nurses, aged care and disability techs, childcare) and also pay just as much tax as men. Right? Again. Natural selection cannot select out XX or XY chromosomes. Yes, it can select out traits which is what I’m trying to explain in preschooler terms. I can still breed with whoever I want, whenever I want, considering there are plentiful choices afforded to me. So I doubt I am getting “naturally selected” ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:39 AM
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“Can be”. You realise, even if a woman “can be” - one man is strong enough to take down even one of the strongest females. That there is evidence enough that WOMEN ARE OPPRESSED.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:34 AM
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…yes. That’s precisely how natural selection works. No matter how many centuries go by, you cannot “naturally select” out XX or XY chromosomes. They will always be present. Traits, however, such as antisocial tendencies, short heights, or unattractive features CAN and ARE naturally selected out through the simple process of women no longer choosing said men and not “breeding” with them. You’re just being intentionally stupid at this point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:34 AM
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Bruh, it’s always the blatant misogynists that say women are not oppressed Of course you think that, cause you are a man with no natural predator. Women’s only natural predator IS MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:31 AM
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Oh yes, let’s oppress the one group that can bring more people into the world. Thats not how it works. You’re a bigot. All you need to do is look it up - you cannot be “naturally selected” out of your own gender, for that is simply determined by an XY or XX chromosome. Social traits, attractiveness, height, inherited mental health however you can definitely “naturally select” out. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:30 AM
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“Women are not oppressed”, says the oppressor. It’s easy to say that as a man. Women’s only natural predator is men. Men have none.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:27 AM
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Natural selection is based on personal features, not based on something such as sex. Pretty simple concept to grasp. Women are definitely oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:21 AM
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Well yes. Men aren’t an oppressed minority. Women are. Just like orphans are fostered for survival, women are offered DV shelters. And guess who from? MEN!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:14 AM
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Why? What oppression do men face? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:12 AM
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by choice? or because nobody wants you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:52 AM
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Just say you’re insecure and bad at oral
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:51 AM
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LOL what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:50 AM
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how? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:46 AM
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You don’t make any sense whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:45 AM
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??? Those people are just doing their job. You realise it’s not female specific right? And when did I mention children in this equation? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:43 AM
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No, I’m asking you, who tf cares about women consistently clubbing or being hyper sexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:41 AM
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You are included in society. But nobody is gonna force you to be a valuable member of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:39 AM
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Who tf cares
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:39 AM
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Nah. Natural selection. Once your parents die you’re on your own if you don’t figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:38 AM
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No, she hesitates because you don’t trust her. I would be insulted, and consider breaking up. I have never lusted nor given the impression that I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:32 AM
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lmfao if you hate it so much, leave
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:22 AM
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YES, shit men end up with shit women. “Attract” is off the bat - if you’re shit from the start, all you will get is shit. Lmaooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:11 AM
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LMFAOOOO dodging accountability righto it’s almost like people are dynamic and not static, their personalities and tendencies change. Shit can be “excreted” later, they were just constipated. xxx
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:09 AM
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oh no! a woman who married and have kids with a man is somehow SHIT because he decided to become shit after he had her locked down! Logic amirite? Shit attracts shit in the initial dating stage. People can BECOME shit, it doesn’t mean that person chose shit. Learn how to think outside of the box, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:01 AM
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Okay? Thats not what we’re talking about though lol At the end of the day men are more violent and cause death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:00 AM
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lmfao crazy talk, it’s almost like people change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:30 PM
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because they attracted someone who, initially, wasn’t shit, and turned into shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:19 PM
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No, it applies to shit people. Victims aren’t shit people. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:05 PM
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Yeah, for the average guy, apps are great. Except average differs for most women. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:03 PM
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Shit attracts shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:03 PM
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Typical man and crying woe is me and other men, only when women speak of their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:45 PM
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You mean, fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:27 PM
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Well, you don’t get empathy when you speak about it only to shut down when women are speaking about it. Tell me how misandry kills? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:26 PM
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As always. Misandry sucks, misogyny kills. One is much worse than the other and men only cry about how misandry “kills” (via suicide, that is somehow women’s fault?) when we speak up about misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:19 PM
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Oh no! It’s almost like women have a negative view of men because we live in fucking fear of them! Who woulda thought? Now have a look at the stats on crimes committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:18 PM
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In what fucking world? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:17 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA It’s actually MISOGYNY kills, misandry just sucks. Misandry doesn’t kill. Men kill men, or men kill themselves - that has nothing to do with misandry babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:17 PM
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Even if every male did report and come clean that they are a victim, the scale would still be heavily in women’s favour. You just don’t realise that, and that there is also a massive amount of women who don’t report either due to shame and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:16 PM
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Ugh. This only ever comes up when women are out here talking about their issues. Suddenly y’all are like “men are assaulted too” only when women speak about the stats against them. Nobody is saying women can’t also be perpetrators of abuse/SA. But the stats speak for themselves in the fact that >80% of perpetrators are men in terms of violent crimes, SA/DV, and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:15 PM
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Oh yeah, the thing is men have fine social skills with their friends, coworkers and boss. The one they “struggle” with is mummy and their partner, because they expect spoon feeding. But they’d NEVER act socially inept around their buds and boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:46 PM
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Why? You work the same hours. One just earns more therefore they should contribute more financially. Your job is not harder than hers just because you earn more - in fact women dominated fields are typically paid less, but are harder; see nursing, and aged care workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:13 PM
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what the… that’s exactly how it SHOULD work if you make more than her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:57 PM
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no, the issue is that men expect mummy and their partner to go get the ice cream out of the freezer, put it in a bowl, bring it to them and feed them with a silver spoon. whereas most women know how to make the ice cream from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 12:32 PM
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Nothing about this post is “man hate” (lol). If anything, a majority of the comments are just misogynistic in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:09 AM
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Nawww, it’s almost like I provided other sources too 🤓🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:51 AM
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you didn’t even open them 🤣 not you trying to say United Nations isn’t fucking credible good lord, you’re rage baiting and making a fool of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:46 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA are you on PPD or Inkyverse? This forum is LITERALLY for gender debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:45 AM
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Women are stereotypically more social, and also more bullied and singled out in highschool, as well as victims of abuse. So we learn this shit early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:45 AM
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Here you go pookie, many credible sources that ACTUALLY talk about true violence between the genders, from a worldwide perspective considering your study is US only. A simple to read sheet about Australian statistics, for simpletons like yourself - https://noviolence.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/Whataboutmen.pdf HOMICIDE FOCUSED - https://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/data-and-analysis/global-study-on-homicide-2019.html - “About 90 per cent of all homicides recorded worldwide were committed by mal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:44 AM
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gang it’s literally in the title “Differences in Frequency of Violence and Reported Injury Between Relationships With Reciprocal and Nonreciprocal Intimate Partner Violence” **“**Objectives. We sought to examine the prevalence of reciprocal (i.e., perpetrated by both partners) and nonreciprocal intimate partner violence and to determine whether reciprocity is related to violence frequency and injury.” Now who’s the one who can’t read?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:34 AM
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Nawww. You can’t find a credible study (within 5 years) on “overall” statistics, not just a specific statistic focus. 🥺🫶🏻🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:31 AM
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Yeah like why tf do men expect us to spoon feed them information and social/communication cues us women learnt as teens? dear lord
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:30 AM
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HAHAHAHA I love it. A 2011 study focused on “reciprocal” violence, not “overall” violence. Next source, one that actually looks at the broader picture rather than whatever you want to pull out of your ass to say “women just as bad as men” - news flash, they ain’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:29 AM
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Show me the link of that “source” 🤣🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:22 AM
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lmao, still cannot provide one link to back up your specific claims. So, you’re the uneducated one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:21 AM
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Because your stats are just chat GPT generated, and or pulled out of your ass. LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:10 AM
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Again - no links, not credible. Come refute my stats when you have links.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:07 AM
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Send us the link then, because all factual research shows otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:00 AM
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According to whom, chat GPT? Or inkyverse?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:57 AM
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Where the fuck did you get those numbers lmaooooo “Men barely lead in ANY violence” do you live under a rock? >90% of SA/DV perpetrators ARE MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:51 AM
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LOL how does misandry kill millions 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:45 AM
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if you’re married why are you on here complaining about your life? if you’re older than I’ve been alive why are you on here at all? go get your knees replaced or something idk 🫩🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:22 AM
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gang, how is it obsessing. Takes 30 seconds to search up your username in the top little search button 🤣🤣🤣 Again, I rarely read smut. But keep thinking that. You’re probably 40+ years of age but still single and crying about it. Oh boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:19 AM
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All I had to do was look at the first page without scrolling to see you genuinely have no life. I always do it if I get suspicion the person I’m talking to is a loser. I’m always correct. It’s an ego boost 🥴🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:15 AM
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Bro? How is it “finding out stuff about strangers” - YOU put it on Reddit, thinking it’s private. Ah, here I was thinking I was talking to a teenager. Turns out you’re a boomer which is even sadder. Naw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:07 AM
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It’s creepy? Da hell? It’s reddit. You post, anything is visible - to anybody, you realise, even if you private your post and comment history from your actual profile, shit can still be found. So if you don’t want it seen - that’s completely on you. I’m unintelligent yet you’re still stuck at home playing games all day, whereas I’ve just bought a house for 700k. Righto.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:57 AM
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Nobody’s post history is hidden, are you daft? One search of your username is all you need 🤣 Yeah, it’s fine for authors to have interests, but most of them actually spend a majority of their time writing books. Not engaging in PPD forums 24/7, and also playing games for hours on end for years as per your posts. Typical boy also thinking women can’t enjoy any books apart from smut, such as LOTR, THG, GOT, red rising… oh boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:49 AM
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horny barely literate readers 🤣 mate I read high fantasy and sci-fi as my mains 50 shades got publicity AFTER it was taken on and trad published I do read 100+ books a year, most 500+ pages as well. I’ve so far read 36 books this year as per my good reads with 208 days left - a little bit behind schedule tho as I’m buying a house currently and working extra hard 🤓🙂🫶🏻 I stand by the fact that no self proclaimed author is on here 24/7 (or at all) or plays games for several hours a day as per your …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:29 AM
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Yeah, nobody believes you. Because no renowned author that has had their books read on “every continent” (which means fuck all btw) does not go to publishers. No renowned author with a successful book is here crying and whining on a PPD forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:11 AM
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Okay bud 🤣 if the average is 4.2 then you would be keen to show us?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:39 AM
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This doesn’t make sense. Men want women who want them - why do you think women don’t “want” an average man on par with their looks? And why are men only chasing Stacy even if they aren’t a chad - what if women just want to be wanted, too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:37 AM
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Ohhh, so you wrote fanfiction with your own made up characters. I was correct. It wasn’t even trad published. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:16 AM
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Course I know what it is, but it’s stupid to use on fucking reddit just to make yourself seem smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:48 AM
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lmao bro you do not write books tell me your books I’d love to peruse them considering I read over 100 books a year
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:48 AM
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written fanfiction you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:31 PM
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Projection, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:31 PM
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wot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:17 PM
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damn bro folded by deleting his acc rq
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:16 PM
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Xenophobe? Racist? Where’d ya get to that conclusion from?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:14 PM
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You’re literally from Pakistan and you’re trying to act as if you’re some sort of philosopher with your big fancy words that chat GPT generated you from synonyms and antonyms. You know the funny part? I always get an inkling to check the profiles of boys like you. And they’re always part of Inkyverse and other inceldom subs. Point proven. Come back to the table with your fancy words once you have a degree of some kind, or even a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:35 AM
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lmfao and that reason is due to two men fighting. Because men can’t control their oh so big emotions. Who woulda thought, that it’s not women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:31 AM
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go on then! At least by that confirmation I know you don’t have a degree, and are just probably searching up “synonyms of ideas” lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:28 AM
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“low intelligence” 🤓 alright big boy, what uni did you go to? do you have a degree or even a masters? let’s chat after you have one of those
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:27 AM
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The Ukrainian government, made of >75% men in the in house chairs, decided that though. It wasn’t the women. You realise this, yes? It’s not women’s fault men are being conscripted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:26 AM
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“ideologues” 😭🤣 you are trying SO hard to seem smarter than you are, it’s like a kid making up random words to their friends to seem 🆒
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:24 AM
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omg, ONE radical feminist! the world is so full of misandry! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:21 AM
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HAHAHAHA not the chat GPT generated terms to make yourself seem like some sort of phd student, you sound like an absolute baboon, this is reddit not Yale
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 11:19 AM
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“These anachronistic times” - what, 2026, where women have rights and there’s no gender pay gap? Explain how 2026 is so “anachronistic”, if anything it is the most free generation (apart from the USA going backwards). The provider “burden” is completely optional now, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:34 AM
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What do women DIRECTLY cause that’s bad, then? You speak of murder only, as if other male crimes don’t also drastically affect women such as rape/assault, DV and harassment. Those are all misogynistic. If you use your power as a man to assault and abuse women verbally, physically, and sexually, that is inherently misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:30 AM
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Inb4 the Ukraine comments as if the Ukrainian government isn’t compromised of 80% men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 10:28 AM
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What are the “superficial success boxes” you speak of? Pretty sure those also apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:31 AM
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Explain how misandry causes direct death. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:25 AM
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Well as you said, sex drive is a big factor. Men will simp for sex, and get it. The ones that want to “have self respect” will be the ones that don’t get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:16 AM
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Most men do get self respect and honour in a relationship, it’s about getting into the relationship and having that opportunity in the first place that you need to work hard for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:45 AM
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Okay? It’s only a loss for the guys who aren’t doing it. A man who yearns is a man who earns.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:37 AM
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I fucking LOVE the deflection on this sub when men don’t wanna answer a simple question. Do YOU go around and yell that it’s women’s fault men are killing themselves? No? Because nobody fucking does that. But at the end of the day, it is a personal issue if you decide to self harm/commit suicide - nobody forces you at gun point to do it, your mind does, which can be fixed with therapy and/or medications.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 03:00 AM
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lmao no, women don’t blame men for their suicide. It’s only the inverse. Again, how is it women’s fault, that men commit suicide? Out of depression and loneliness? Men aren’t entitled to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:56 AM
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I have scars - and they’re called self harm scars, not “suicide” scars. It is 100% my fault, for not having healthier coping mechanisms. I now have those. Again. How is it women’s fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:54 AM
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The men. How can women be to blame that men are committing suicide? Go to therapy and learn healthy coping mechanisms. A woman won’t fix your depression or suicidal thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:53 AM
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Misandry is not killing the men who choose to commit suicide rather than seek therapy, if anything it’s the men doing that themselves thinking that they can’t cry and engaging in toxic “men don’t cry” behaviours. It’s also not women’s fault men choose harder jobs or go off to war/are conscripted. The conscription in Ukraine was not voted on by the general public, it was passed on in house. The house is largely men, from memory it is made up of about 20-25% women out of 420 or so seats. Maybe rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:14 AM
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??? that’s not women’s fault 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:11 AM
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Okay. Those are completely different issues though, which doesn’t address that misandry just sucks whereas misogyny kills. There is no female equivalent to misogyny that results in the amount of hate crimes and violence against the other gender, or any other party. Men lead all violence statistics - as perpetrators, as victims from violence from other men, suicide rates (not women’s fault btw), and ALSO male sexual assaulters/rapists/abusers/DV/child abusers. So. Just because men in Ukraine are …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:50 AM
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I literally said it doesn’t matter about intention - any rape is still rape. Jesus Christ, you can’t even grasp a simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:56 AM
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You don’t make sense. Non consensual sex DOES REQUIRE HARM. THERE IS HARM. IF YOU IGNORE CONSENT, YOU ARE HARMING. RAPE, WITH OR WITHOUT INTENTION, IS HARM. You’re just fucking rage baiting at this point. Your post history is about philosophy yet you can’t understand a simple concept of EVERYONE WHO RAPES IS GUILTY no matter the circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:51 AM
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I swear you’re schizophrenic, how the fuck am I a rape apologist, YOU are the one excusing rape Bucko.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:45 AM
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Lmao that’s not how it works. It’s not avoiding “culpability”. EVERY FORM OF RAPE IS HARM.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:39 AM
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Misandry sucks, misogyny kills. Y’all forget that far too often. Women DO need to decenter men. I have done so and I’m happy as fuck, much happier than when I am actively dating or seeking a relationship. I won’t allow a low effort man into my life ever again because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:37 AM
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They’re disgusting, such is not below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:36 AM
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uhhh? What? You’re the one excusing rapists and saying “most weren’t careful enough about confirming consent”. Yeah, I guess roofies, assaults at clubs, alleyways etc and intimate assaults don’t count as rape to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:33 AM
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Plenty (most) of them sleep perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:30 AM
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u rn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:30 AM
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Lmao you live under a rock. Yes if you drive recklessly you are consciously accepting the fact that you may harm yourself and others, that’s a risk you take being an absolute baboon. What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:27 AM
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Projection, he likely doesn’t define what he did as 🍇
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:26 AM
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You’re misunderstanding. These people have intent, to hurt, harm, and assert dominance. It’s a choice to rape someone. So whatever you are thinking is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:19 AM
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HAHAHA yeah and that’s called abuse and or being a rapist. Consent is the deciding factor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:03 AM
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LMFAO at the end of the day bro, you’re already at a loss. If you don’t do it, someone else will, and it’s that simple. Chivalry or being a “simp” is genuinely the only shot for blokes like yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:01 AM
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He’s giving 🍇ist vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:57 PM
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It isn’t an intention to harm? Rape is LITERALLY harm. The worst kind of way you can harm somebody. The fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:56 PM
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Ever heard the saying misandry sucks, misogyny kills? Thats our why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:55 PM
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Yeah, because that person isn’t trying to fuck her and use her for sex, children and household duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:40 PM
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Of course I’m aware. But a lot of those women seek a better life that they don’t mind paying for with sex and false love. A lot of people cannot move countries without sponsorship via marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:29 PM
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HAHAHA here comes the “skill issue” comments when men have nothing else to say, thinking it actually is a “got em” https://preview.redd.it/xwnrnpo6y95h1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=867475ef8cf854f06f8f8b7add86ddbfe4ec3249 this u rn bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:16 PM
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lmao except that’s exactly what YOU meant by saying “exotic”. You’re referring to women from poorer countries for a reason. Because women with enough smarts and logic typically won’t settle for a loser, whereas those women will do anything to get out of their country and live their lives not impoverished.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:13 PM
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not here bud, I’ve not seen it and Ive been perusing here for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:10 PM
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Because it’s the power imbalance? You’re going to another country to basically sequest a poor, uneducated woman to be a bang maid that pops out your kids and doesn’t cheat because no women at home want you as is. Talk about loser material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:09 PM
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lmfao because it doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:03 PM
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no, men just call women subhuman women here just point that out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:59 PM
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It’s not about acting uninterested…? It’s about having standards and timelines. Does the guy want to simply pump and dump you, or does he see waiting a month or two as worth it? Is he getting angry or toxic that he hasn’t fucked you yet, after a few dates? Shit like that reveals a man’s character before you even commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:29 PM
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Both are stupid, but women are moreso told to not put out to men who don’t deserve it thus “withholding” sex (perfectly fine, because consent and standards is a thing) whereas men’s ideology is about getting as much pussy with as little effort as possible and thinking you are owed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:16 PM
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lmfao they just talk as if we are subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:04 PM
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uh, and do you not get that? you say you get plenty of sex what is the “right kind” of sex? what is your “looksmatch”? are you over estimating yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:28 AM
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ugh bro missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:27 AM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:20 PM
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I literally said men who go their own way as such “claim” to be incels, because they cannot get sex thus are forced to MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:34 PM
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My exes and I have always gone go for go - I’ll get this one, you get next, or I’ll get movie tickets you get popcorn. I always insist on splitting for first dates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:38 PM
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Okay gang that’s obviously not what it fucking means
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:25 PM
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bruh it’s a statement 🤣🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:03 PM
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Do I really need to womansplain biology? Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:00 PM
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lmfao, it’s called reproduction - a reproductive cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:45 PM
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where did I say that, who are you quoting, reply to OP not me WOMEN are the givers of life, actually. Without women, men’s sperm is just that. Sperm. Not a fertilised egg. The men have an enjoyable orgasm and the woman does the hard yards, first for 40 weeks then when it’s born, because, you know, biology. Men only deserve women and sex if they have something that is valuable, such as women’s inherent value in their childrearing capacity, and their sexual organs including tits and ass that is ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:20 PM
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okay pookie, I forgot, a red pill man knows SO much about women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:14 PM
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lmaoooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:05 PM
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because you’re a man and what you say goes I guess 🤣 speaks volumes when you’re seeking hookups on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:50 PM
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lmfao wtf is wrong with you you’re saying shit I did not even say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:44 PM
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Missed the point and not at all what I said. Men cry and whinge if they don’t get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:44 PM
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Because why would they, when they have nothing else to offer? That’s not how it works, inversely men would also never settle down with infertile women back in the day - because what’s in it for them??? It’s not like men can have children, and be the child rearers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:36 PM
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Not you again. You’re so entitled, you aren’t owed anything, you have to be worth a woman’s time, effort and love to get one in the first place. Just as women once were worth that to men, because of children, staying at home and being a bang maid basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:30 PM
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men clearly do not rather prefer living in a 1 bedroom place playing games because they then claim they’re incels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:28 PM
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you clearly haven’t even played Zelda if you don’t know what that annoying little fairy shit is called
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:08 PM
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why the fuck would it be boyfriend energy IF YOURE A FRIEND
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:59 PM
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lol I’m in run clubs idk we just chat and yap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:59 PM
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then run slow specifically to socialise, typically run groups always catch coffee after as well hiking groups are frequented by women bc it’s unsafe for them to do it alone or with just other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:53 PM
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pretty much all of those are solo activities try running, group gym classes, hiking in GROUPS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:49 PM
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Nobody said anything about entitlement. lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:45 PM
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Well… what things do you naturally like to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:39 PM
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I have so much fun with men who don’t see me as someone they want to fuck. Gay men especially. They’re the best friends you can have
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:39 PM
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no, real decent men can distinguish between friends and romantic interests
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:10 PM
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You realise the issue right? You asked her out instead of just being friends with her. Thats completely different. I have many male friends and we are just friends, they don’t pursue me because I don’t want that, nor would they - I am currently single and they know I don’t want anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:02 PM
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You don’t have to, but it certainly adds fulfilment and increases your dating and sexual prospects. Any woman can vouch for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:45 PM
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yeah cause fuck women who are human beings with their own characters and personalities, right? fuck just having platonic meaningful relationships with women because all you can think about is wanting to rail the shit out of them. You and any other man that truly think that way are a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:34 PM
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I agree except most men don’t know how to have that healthy boundary of having female friends but not wanting to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:05 PM
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So, you get sex, but still aren’t validated. What are you wanting exactly? Are you setting yourself up for failure thinking you will get a top woman as someone who isn’t a top man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:30 PM
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so do you feel validated, or not? which is it by your counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:50 PM
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call it arrogance I call it common sense seems like deflecting when all your posts are self righteous and scream “I get so much pussy but I still am not happy”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:45 PM
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If you have so much sex and are so successful with women, why are you on here and posting every single day? that’s not a normal average male or above average male thing to do very weird of you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:55 PM
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except if I was only getting likes, that is very different to interaction. the amount of men who want to take me out for dinner or a date of some kind is what I’d call above average, considering most men are just like “come over” or “lemme come over”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:48 PM
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lmao you men always have to insult successful women and claim we are below average or average when we state dating apps are shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:45 PM
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yeah because women are girls girls, whereas men are out here trying to fuck me and will do whatever it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:28 AM
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Oh yes let me wear a sign that says “men fuck off” simply because men don’t know the definition of respect and consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:15 AM
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lmao that’s not how it works, considering I get plenty of likes and interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:13 AM
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no, idk why you would assume that, and try and say I’m wrong when it’s literally my experience they will usually have a good opener sentence in response to my profile (hinge), and then it is dry as fuck when I respond with an answer and another open ended question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:56 PM
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“heeey”, “aha”, “hru”, “wyd later”, “lol” yes some of those are “questions”, but that’s not what I mean, I mean questions trying to get to know me and not just wanna fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:48 PM
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Yes some I don’t disagree with you there hence my words “most”, because the good ones are a fucking rarity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:42 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:41 PM
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Possibly broad, but given my experience, I’d say it’s across the board for me. If they can’t even ask me a single question in the first 5-10 messages, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:47 PM
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lmao and that means lying and using other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:40 PM
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lol what? how is starting any relationship by lying, even casual, healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:23 PM
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Most “good” men past the age of 25 are in long term relationships. I found one on the app after months and that was my ex, years ago, and we ended amicably. None anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:00 PM
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Both there are no “good men” on dating apps, and the ones there are just seeking sex or “figuring out my dating goals” at the ripe old age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:32 PM
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tangential delusions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:00 PM
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what do you mean “a much better life”? how is that relevant to moving countries for the sole intention of marrying someone of a lower socioeconomic status? how does that give you “a much better life” exactly???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:57 PM
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but you bought it up before I said that comment so what are you on about it’s giving schizophrenia
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:56 PM
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??? this is my first comment to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:53 PM
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If it’s happened to you, truly, then why are you so against women bringing it up in discussions Honestly sounds like you’re lying to try and insert your “but men get raped too!” comments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:56 PM
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Well do you? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:54 PM
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The difference is women who hit on other women can take a no and leave it at that. You’re never particularly worried about a woman spiking your drink or assaulting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:49 PM
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As a woman who has solo travelled… what???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:51 AM
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Asking what someone brings to the table is definitely not irrational. If a man doesn’t add benefit to my life why would I want him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:23 AM
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It’s only pleasant if the man knows what he’s doing or you know him well and have that deep connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:22 AM
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If you were blocked the post wouldn’t come up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:34 AM
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And does that not apply to women as well? Are you daft?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:33 AM
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Are you heroic? What are you doing to keep the world/society from collapsing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:11 AM
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Stalk? It’s on the top of your page gang, that’s all you need to know about someone “XD” tells me you’re also a tween so I guess there’s no point explaining the difference between solo independence and happiness vs loneliness and miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:29 PM
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okay “active in r/Inkyverse and r/GenZ”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:27 PM
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You mean, single by choice happily, thriving, successful and independent? Just bought my own house mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:13 PM
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I’m perfectly happy thanks tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:12 PM
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No gender roles here, full equality. I cum first then he gets some. Simple. If he’s not capable he can go “choose better”, as in someone that doesn’t care about that shit. It ain’t gonna be me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:07 PM
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Haha it’s also their fault for choosing me. I chose better in the end by dropping them before they even got the chance, least I got a few free meals
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:05 PM
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Yep. A lot of them are extremely charming and charismatic, and intellectual. Know how to make you laugh and smile and feel amazing. The abuse doesn’t start off as abuse outright, it starts as testing your boundaries and seeing what you will put up with in the honeymoon stage. This progresses to true behaviours, and a year or two down the track out of the honeymoon period or when locked down with a ring/marriage/kids, abuse. It’s about not looking through the rose tinted glasses and voicing conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 04:05 AM
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The job market is determined by job experience, jobs available, finances, and inflation. Women are just human beings and each one is different and not defined by these.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:16 PM
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Me too! Men are pretty selfish creatures, half the time they don’t even care about trying to make me orgasm. Can’t even buy me flowers or plan a nice date, just expect sex. So, I’d say it’s them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:58 PM
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Yes, I’m aware of extremes, hence why I also mentioned this sub itself. It’s in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:31 PM
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By your logic, your screenshot also isn’t evidence then. Next point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:25 PM
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Yearning has nothing to do with money. If you won’t, someone else will. Simple as that. Men greatly outnumber women in prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:25 PM
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Literally all the men complaining here and on incel forums IS your evidence. Search by controversial/hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:15 PM
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Except one is a job that actually fluctuates across the board, and one is dating unique individuals. Can’t compare the two babes, apples and oranges analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:14 PM
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As always a man who yearns is a man who earns. If you don’t want to, there’s plenty of others who will. They just don’t get that we aren’t going to settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:13 PM
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🤣😭😭 I have never had a man “give” more than he takes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:33 AM
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It is. Because when you see us as sexual opportunities and not people, that is the definition of objectification. If we saw men as breadwinners and providers only that would similarly be objectification. You remove the humanity and only focus on the benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:25 PM
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Sex doesn’t give you meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:04 PM
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Oh no! How duly sad! What on earth are we going to do that men are so miserable without sex and women because they do nothing to be worth said sex and women? Instead of fucking crying about it, maybe men should just do something to earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:59 PM
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No. The incentive is money - that’s the whole fucking point of a job, in its entirety. To earn money and live outside of your job - not living to work, working to live. The incentive has never been, and never will be women. You are not owed sex, a traditional woman and children because you chose to work a hard job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:56 PM
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You sound like an interesting bloke, I like it. This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:52 PM
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there is no collapse of society from this lol Just men crying and moaning and bitching they can no longer have a wife as an unpaid child bearer, chef, maid and sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:51 PM
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You’re generalising women. Those women that get likes say that outlandish shit simply for engagement and views which creates profit. The women in particular that are for red/black pill are also viewed negatively by most women which in turn creates more profit - it’s all about business for them much like male RPers that make content, only a very few of them actually believe the shit they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:49 PM
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lmfao WHATTTT
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:43 PM
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Because I ask them what they do to contribute to society. And they deflect and say “that’s not the question!” “I’m referring to men in general not me” “that’s personal”. A quick look at their profile history, hidden or no, is also telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:41 PM
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Always the men that actually don’t work in the so called “dangerous, entrepreneurship, and major scientific advancements” roles, or any job whatsoever, that are tooting and hollering how men are still the creators and upholders of society therefore owed sex/relationships/a wife and kids. Whilst they themselves do nothing to contribute to society to such an extent, to the point that some (most…) of the men on here don’t work a job or pay tax whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:38 PM
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Nobody is pointing a gun at these men’s heads saying they must work a dangerous job, be an entrepreneur or make major scientific advancements. You realise this, right? It is purely a choice. Women in STEM roles are increasing every single day, contributing just as much if not more to the advancement of our world. Just because you are a man that works a job (like all of us btw, and typically the ones that are here screaming about how men dominate these roles are the ones that DONT work in these r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:35 PM
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if you don’t work and don’t pay taxes then you’re just a bludger. nothing good about being a neet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:47 PM
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You don’t even work, so I wouldn’t be saying “we”, as you are not part of the cohort you preach are “good men”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:40 PM
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You realise an egg is not life right? They’ve been able to do that for decades. It is nothing without myosis from sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:15 PM
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it will take centuries, because there is no technology, not even AI, that can replicate a womb, and the nourishment, nutrients, electrolyte and acquired immunity from the mother to the child. without acquired immunity, the foetus would die as soon as it’s exposed to air.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:49 PM
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You can be a father with a surrogate if you pay enough money. You can also adopt, the choice is there. So, decide for yourself if you wanna be a father. Stupid af
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:09 PM
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It will take many centuries mate. Lambs like “foetuses” don’t matter, because they will just be killed if they turn into a genetic nightmare. It will never be allowed legally as it goes against sanctions of human ethics. Sex bots, sure, maybe in our lifetime. Fully developing foetuses - absolutely not, and anyone who thinks so is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:08 PM
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At the end of the day, a man who yearns is a man who earns. It doesn’t matter what it is, if they’re doing something that brings benefit to our life, why would we say no? You aren’t owed anything and the inverse is also true that no woman is FORCING men to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:07 PM
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Having mental health problems doesn’t make you not a “catch” lmao I assure you more men have mental health/gambling/drug/alcohol/smoking problems than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:05 PM
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you realise you still need consent in a consenting relationship right like what’s the point you act as if having children gives men some sort of moral high ground
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:35 PM
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lmao you must be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:34 PM
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you can? Adoption, surrogacy by paying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:35 AM
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I don’t know where you get these generalisations from there is no monopoly on birth, considering birth rates are dropping dramatically
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:34 AM
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Mate I did. If you removed women’s uniqueness, as in our sex characteristics, none of us would exist. We are both human, just with different sex organs. So what do you mean, if we removed our sex organs we’d be ignored? We wouldn’t exist if that was removed. It’s not a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:29 AM
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if we removed what makes women unique we simply wouldn’t exist? we are unique because we have a uterus and ovaries/ovum. that’s it. men have testes, the penis and sperm. both are unique so what are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:20 AM
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Men have the choice now to get surrogates or adopt. What does men having the opportunity to have children accomplish? How does it displace hierarchy? You will still never birth children, and women will always be biologically superior in that regard even if tech advances as such - because why pay millions for a tech baby when you can go all natural yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:07 AM
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What benefits do we get lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:51 AM
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It doesn’t matter if they don’t wanna have kids. It’s not your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:49 AM
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Who the fuck wants an artificial baby though lmao why do that when you can just do it naturally instead of paying millions for something that may be defective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:41 AM
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AI and technology advancements still won’t be able to grow and handle the healthy development of a foetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:06 AM
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60% of women globally 🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:55 AM
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Go and adopt?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:54 AM
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Ugh. I knew it was you as soon as I saw the title. Artificial wombs are coming… in 3036. Not 2026. It is single-handedly the most complex technology you would ever have to make and it certainly isn’t happening for a few more centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:54 AM
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Both parties in a relationship should be putting their partner on a pedestal honestly. It should be reciprocal I am moreso referring to opening doors, pulling out chairs, walking on the road side of the pathway, saying something if a man in their vicinity says something inappropriate, shit like that that is extremely gentlemanly and respectful of women. I’ve listed these examples here and been told it’s simping “because what do men get in return”. To me it’s just basic respect for a naturally op…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:37 AM
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Honestly, just being there instead of trying to fix my problems is a big thing. I know how to fix it considering I’m a big girl, all I want is comfort, but both my exes kinda strayed from this and were like “uh, but why are you crying if you can fix it, there’s no point”. Arguments also always turned into I was the problem, because he would REACT to MY behaviour as I have AuDHD and a lot of my words come out snappy and elevated when I am emotionally not with it because of a decade of misdiagnosi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:33 AM
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They are definitely what initially attracts. But so does confidence, humour, respect (“simping” red pillers call it but I’ll be damned it fucking works), intelligence, a good job and a good head screwed on. I would prefer all of the above over an attractive guy with none of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:27 AM
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Agree with your top comment. Physical health and a good weight/grooming/hygiene/eating and not doing drugs/smoking/drinking/gambling is more important to me than attraction. Physical attraction I base on facial cohesion, grooming and body build. I like a dad bod, just in between - strong and healthy, but not obese or skinny or a gym rat. I like my height or taller (5’7). I like a well groomed and dressed man too - don’t want my man wearing cheap shirts with holes in them with track pants when we…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:13 AM
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I did my fair share and dated twice below my attractiveness. They were both emotionally and romantically incompetent, and their financial life was in disarray. Not gonna do it again. There are plenty of options to choose from, so I’m just gonna choose one that’s attractive AND competent because why should I not? Unattractive guys aren’t “catches” they think they are if they have nothing else going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:01 AM
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Yes, because if I find a man that ticks all of my boxes at the end of the day, I can overlook looks as can most women. But most unattractive men that scream “nobody will give me a chance” actually end up the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:28 AM
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Honestly as a decently attractive person why would I settle for less than what I rate myself on the scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:20 AM
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They aren’t that important when it comes down to comparability and long term relationships. But dating apps are literally window shopping. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:11 AM
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lmfao what How does that make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:59 PM
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but OP is literally the one who said “I couldn’t date someone I’m not attracted to” Neither can most women. And why should we? Dating apps are window shopping. Why would we go in the store to ask the price of something in the window if we didn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:51 PM
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ah yes the personal insult because I call out a man that doesn’t contribute to society like “good men” do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:25 PM
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yeah, a tiny minority of 10%. Compared to 90%. Wowee, now we must consider all women violent. 🤣 You say men are great and good, yet you yourself as a man, do not contribute a single thing. Do you even work and pay taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:12 PM
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It’s not deflecting if it’s related Clearly you never went to debates in highschool
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:11 PM
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ohhh my bad I completely forgot people aren’t allowed to add their own thoughts and opinions and factual knowledge into debates and we must strictly exclude anyone else’s ideas they bring to the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:10 PM
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Well yes, the good things do not deserve “praise” that you expect. Women create and contribute as well now, it ain’t the 1900s anymore. If you think men are all good, what do you, as a man, contribute that is so good to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:09 PM
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It’s a debate forum mate you can add information and widen the topic. Just like I did in the comment YOU REPLIED TO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:47 PM
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It is literally the same topic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:47 PM
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it’s almost like humans are capable of associating words to broader topics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:25 PM
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lmfao a negative reaction… wow! it’s almost like I have been taking about more specific things than that! it’s almost like humans are capable of broadening their horizons and understanding rather than focusing on sole words! but nay, whatever you need to help feel like you’re correct x
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:25 PM
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You realise internet was also created by women too right? Without Radia Perlman we would never be speaking. Such a sexist thing to say when women have contributed to all the things you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:22 PM
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No woman is gonna insult you unless you deserve it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:55 PM
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I’ll always trust a woman over a man at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:38 PM
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If this is how you truly think it’s no wonder women are getting fucking bitchy because you won’t take their polite and courteous rejection whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:36 PM
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“I’m going to cold approach women and get upset when they tell me no and it’s their fault” Contributing to the reason we do it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:36 PM
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we actually get told our whole life to never trust men 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:35 PM
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common decency is also accepting no and accepting rejection just like you would accept job application rejections. You aren’t owed decency nor respect - that is earnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:34 PM
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Then stop feeling like a negative person. Be happy and proud you’re not part of the statistics, instead of being insecure and saying woe is me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:33 PM
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leave it to men to make debates sexual because they have no rebuttal point proven why women generalise men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:32 PM
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Yeah men are the majority of homicide victims, from who? You guessed it - other men. It’s not just women but it’s men too therefore men are just collectively seen as bad. Sexual is literally the most important. But okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:28 PM
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Well nobody here genuinely assumes all men are rapists or murderers. It’s just the stats being >90% of male perpetrators. And… one is murder and rape. The other is rejection. Cry about it genuinely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:25 PM
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ah yes generalising women as a monolith as always
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:09 PM
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…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:34 PM
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no 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:56 PM
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Ah yes let’s just argue about thoughtless rhetoric instead of the actual topic, considering you can’t debate anything I said. Either debate, or go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:49 PM
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Ever heard of basic communication? I’m saying, “I mean”, to insert myself into the conversation. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:42 PM
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What did she “do” to you apart from reject you? Just take a no and move on. Why let yourself get worked up about it? That’s exactly the problem we women worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:17 PM
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what’s the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:16 PM
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If two eggs out of a dozen were rotten, wouldn’t you assume the other 10 eggs are bad too? Outright rudeness isn’t okay, yes, but most women remain civil in the fear that the man may escalate it, so we say no thanks, or laugh it off. We are protecting our own best interests and safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:16 PM
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“How can I be the victim in this scenario” Most women aren’t mean. We are just naturally defensive to protect our own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:13 PM
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I mean, I don’t have a mortal terror of being approached, but I do have anxiety about a man not taking a no, or escalating because I said no. And also the risks of SA and stalking/harassment as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:10 PM
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Source? Your own fucking country mate. Women don’t have rights. Fuck you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:22 AM
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None, considering half of them here can’t speak or write proper English. But just ignore the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:21 AM
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Call it an insult, virginity is only “valued” over there because of arranged marriages and copulation being performed on the basis of women’s purity. If she is not a virgin for her husband, she’s a slut basically. It reduces her to property. I’d say western countries where women can actually be people outside of their parents’ or husbands’ suffrage are far superior yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:19 AM
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That’s not at all what I’m referring to. I’m referring to the guys on short guy forums, incels, and genuine 1-3/10s that can’t even get sex, but for some reason still want children more than anything to fulfill some sort of “biological duty”. See natalists and their crazy logic. I’m not saying don’t. I’m just saying they should maybe think about it and think if they would like to pass along their unattractiveness and misfortune to their children just to end up bullied, harassed and lonely. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:17 AM
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So it’s okay for women to lie about contraception and you get the woman pregnant meaning you’re now trapped with a kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:08 AM
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More than aware mate. Typical though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:08 AM
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bruh how the fuck is it gaslighting Women have less standards for someone they’re gonna fuck. The relationship is where it matters and yall don’t realise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:07 AM
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No they DEFINITELY don’t lmao it’s the inverse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:04 AM
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That’s crazy and you don’t actually believe that whatsoever lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:04 AM
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Let me guess, India or Africa?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:03 AM
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Sure, do what you want but it still won’t win you sex and women know more people than you think and word will definitely get out you’re a POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:02 AM
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working life is slavery so yes we are all slaves in a sense! its much better to be a slave in a free country rather than a third world one though!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:12 PM
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ugh what a bore you’re just incapable of grasping simple concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:56 PM
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no? that’s not my problem 🤣 that’s what eugenics is and I am not for that I am just morally against it, I wouldn’t do it personally, but everyone is free to do what they want as long as they’re aware of the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:53 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 the bank has no play in this debate use a medical source if you wanna come out here acting like you know a single thing apart from chat GPT
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:52 PM
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again forgetting that I said everyone needs to work so may as well do so in a free country
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:52 PM
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a query is a question btw there’s more than enough info to answer, it’s just the classic, oh, she asked a question that I actually can’t logically avoid, let me avoid it by asking her one instead
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:51 PM
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yeah except I’m not here gassing people am I I’m not forcing anyone or not forcing anyone to do bugger all and that’s the difference I am questioning people’s morals, that’s it, not saying you can’t breed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:50 PM
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“you are wrong and my zero experience with stats, studies and health says so!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:49 PM
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lol no it absolutely the fuck isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:39 PM
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Love me a dad bod personally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:28 PM
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1000% and it’s a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:27 PM
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answer the question before asking another one
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:26 PM
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the answer is not at all and that’s what these people are against, because why should they not procreate like everyone else! uh… morals? not being selfish? not wanting your offspring to suffer the way you did? just to name a few
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:26 PM
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yeah if we wanna talk extremes like the commenter that’d be the solution 100% lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:25 PM
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yeah he took a weird turn I think I misconstrued his entire post
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:24 PM
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“World bank” I forgot world bank apparently leads medicine, and factual medical studies now Completely irrelevant definition to this debate and claim, you realise definitions of one word can differ per subject right? In 90% of cases fertility is capability to conceive or not. Gravida and party is actual birth rates and the “fertility” you are describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:24 PM
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wtf does extolling mean suggesting people with disabilities or simply awful genes have you know, morals, and not want to inflict pain and suffering on toward their offspring, does not mean I am pro eugenics I am pro morality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:22 PM
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No, gravita and parity is conceptions and births per woman. Fertility is ability to conceive. Maybe come to the table to debate when you know your shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:14 PM
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yeah, like why would you want to pass on YOUR eternal suffering to your children if you have bad genes to the point that you have no dating/sex options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:14 PM
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Putting words in my mouth, typical of a man, never see it from women in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:13 PM
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Literally already explained it to you that it’s not the same, considering everyone needs to work Memory of a goldfish Also ignored my question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:42 PM
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fertility is actually the ABILITY or CAPABILITY to conceive. not how many you successfully conceive hence fertile vs “infertile” (unable to have children)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:41 PM
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A law sanctioning women to have children or else be deported is forcing them to procreate to stay in their safe haven. Do men get the same treatment? If they don’t pop out a baby with someone, they are deported? Or is it just women you reduce to property, like most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:39 PM
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that’s not fertility, that’s births per woman lmao immigrant women have more children women in westernised countries choose not to have children
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:38 PM
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Again. Never said shouldn’t. Yes people who are disabled are inferior in society and I do believe that that should be limited within reason so as to not pass on disability just to add to taxpayer burden. I don’t care about unattractive people having kids. It’s just more suffering for those folks and their kids though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:32 PM
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not proven btw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:51 PM
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yes, marriage, congrats - that’s been around for yonks. not forced into child rearing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:50 PM
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in a way eugenics is good in the fact that we can reduce disability and health conditions in children I don’t care about appearances though. if you’re ugly and wanna have a kid, that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:49 PM
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Honestly did not construe what you said the way you intended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:48 PM
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yeah because you need to work to live anyway? May as well do so in a free country you don’t however need to procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:47 PM
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I never said anything about removing anybody. So… what? I’m just saying it’s contradictory to complain about your genes but also REALLY want to procreate and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:44 PM
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That’s never gonna happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:44 PM
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Advocating means actively encouraging and promoting. I’m just saying it’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:43 PM
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lmfao who is fantasising about that what on earth goes through your head to come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:43 PM
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What? That’s not what you’ve said at all lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:41 PM
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Because why would you be deported?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:38 PM
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Never gonna happen, because you’re basically forcing women to pump out babies in order to have a safe haven.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:38 PM
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That’s not your debate here though. You are debating that psychologically unwell people shouldn’t have children and it’s a good thing they aren’t. Not that children brings psychological happiness. Let’s not change the goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:37 PM
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I’m not advocating or not advocating for anything. I’m just saying it’s a good thing, and that the same men that complain they are ugly, short or defective are completely contradictory towards themselves. They believe that their life is suffering because of their genes. Yet don’t think twice about passing those genes on, because they want to fulfill some sort of moral purpose or role when really it will just create another being like them with bad genes just to suffer like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:35 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:17 PM
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A lot of men don’t realise it’s a good thing. All the men here claiming that they’re so sad nobody will choose them, or want to have sex or date them because of their unfavourable genes. Yet they don’t see the logic when it comes to children, they’d happily pass along their bad genes that they themselves have suffered with, without a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:08 PM
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Probably because a lot of Thai women marry into other countries to get out of there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:07 PM
4

lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:25 AM
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Uhhh I don’t like cold approaches so I don’t have much experience to tell from you cause I flat out reject and got out of a LTR recently. But some are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:21 AM
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Okay pookie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:07 AM
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No. Women don’t need to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:07 AM
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This post is just screaming “approach me because I’m too insecure and lazy to approach you!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:03 AM
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lmfao that’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:57 AM
4

Yes very possible but doesn’t mean you’re entitled to it… regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:32 AM
2

lmao you can’t even spell but you want an above average woman with nothing to offer yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:31 AM
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But she doesn’t want to do it?!? Why doesn’t that matter?!? If she has established she doesn’t like anal from her experience, why would she do it with you? Why do you feel entitled to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:30 AM
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Who cares? People can change their mind and say no to whatever they like. If a woman didn’t like anal but did it with her ex bf, why would you assume she would do it with you if she knows she doesn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:28 AM
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Bro doesn’t realise that women can try these acts with previous sexual partners and NOT ENJOY IT. But because they tried it with previous partners, OP thinks he’s entitled to it. It’s a crazy take that only men who never get sex are hard on. Most (healthy, successful) men are happy with sex with an enthusiastic partner and don’t worry about their past.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:27 AM
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“I have higher standards” screams the average male with nothing going for him. You aren’t entitled to the sexual acts anyone did with anyone in the past. People can try things with certain people and end up not liking them such as anal, orgies, fisting. Why do you think you’re entitled to that experience from such a woman if she knows she already doesn’t like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:26 AM
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People can try it once with someone and END UP NOT LIKING it though. Why would that entitle you to them trying with you? If they know they don’t like it already?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:24 AM
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These men aren’t entering relationships or having sex period lets be real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:22 AM
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I don’t know why you think you are entitled to whatever type of sex women had with previous partners. People and preferences change. Ever thought about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:21 AM
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“drop any women who isn’t giving that” uhhh what? you realise the onus on making a woman cum is you, right? It speaks volumes on YOU. Not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:18 AM
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the porn addiction is getting to bro, thinking sex is perfect and you will always get the kinkiest girl down to do anything at any time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:18 AM
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Not in long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:17 AM
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Sometimes. As I said, MOST women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:14 AM
2

EATERS rise up 🎂🍰
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:12 AM
3

bro is apparently a “high middle class” earner now, yet he can’t even spell or form a cohesive argument
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:11 AM
5

So basically “I’m insecure that I’m ugly and that she can do better than me, therefore i wont date someone who has done better than me, even though my options are already limited”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:08 AM
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Most people, especially women, don’t kiss and tell. It won’t come out out of respect to the people you’ve fucked, and especially if the woman has changed and no longer wants to do specific sexually explicit things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:06 AM
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Oh my god I didn’t say they correlate. I said topics such as violence, cheating, addiction (drugs, alcohol, gambling) - you have more than enough rights to reasonably expect knowing and being entitled to knowing about anything related to that. Sexual promiscuity/past however, such as the examples I listed, you have no right to know about though. Sexual promiscuity ≠ actually cheating, btw and there is no evidence to suggest as such. Even if she said “I slept with 200 people”, that’s all you’re e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:04 AM
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yeah, to fuck… not to actually date. you aren’t “what you are now”, you are greatly overestimating yourself here as if you will somehow bag a 10/10 with a “high middle class” (not difficult to find, nor a rarity) income
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:02 AM
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Yup… but he apparently has oh so much experience… I’m calling it that he doesn’t. He says he now has women bc he is “high middle class” as if women would sexually pursue an “average” 5’9 man with a middle class amount of money for sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:48 AM
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you’re “selected out” because you won’t date within your league. you’re never gonna get a 10/10 as an average 5/10, thats just not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:47 AM
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He has his “methods”, yet won’t explain what they are despite saying “I have them!” In every comment. Claiming it’s too personal, even though he’s the one who hinted he has “methods”. Bro does not have any methods. Bro does not have any experience, and is just roleplaying that he does because he’s 5’9, fit and apparently makes “a lot” of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:45 AM
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Of course it’s violence. I never said women aren’t “off limits” to this, what on earth do you mean? I even specified both genders are entitled to know about violence and cheating. Of course this includes other important things like drugs, alcohol, gambling, addictions… Sexual promiscuity and past has nothing to do with those though which is specifically what I’m referencing. You’re just bringing up random things to try and make an argument as to why you believe you’re entitled to know EVERYTHING…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:44 AM
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Nobody deserves to know about anybody’s past unless there was cheating or violence involved. It applies to both genders. Saying you were promiscuous or did anal/threesomes/orgies with your ex is not akin to that, you aren’t entitled to that information, you ARE entitled to know about cheating or violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:35 AM
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lol, what do you mean you’ll be a beta bux? so you’re an average male, but you won’t accept an average female else you will be a beta bux? you’re average. therefore you date average, not above it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:18 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/kkxlnosys73h1.jpeg?width=1206&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8dabe314756e0c3948aa7a9727ccec690315fc9f my guy, your entire post history and comment history screams “I am not being chosen”. you don’t need to explicitly say the words. if you had any experience with women, you would realise sex is still great at the end of the day and comparison only leads to unhappiness for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:55 AM
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You say this but you also say in your other posts you have no experience. So how would YOU know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:25 AM
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Sex isn’t a right, it’s a privilege. Having it is better than not having it all or getting in your head that she isn’t giving you the experiences she gave others. It isn’t up to women to make you feel desired or vice versa. If you weren’t desired, you wouldn’t be having consensual sex. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:17 AM
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My guy, you are one of the unselected men you complain about in all of your posts. You have no experience, yet you are saying you “have your ways”. You don’t have any experience - so what “ways” are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:16 AM
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You won’t know if they’re acting differently, considering you 9 times out of 10 won’t find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:14 AM
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Any respectful woman just doesn’t kiss and tell about her previous experiences. There’s no way to “do it”, so you can say “different men have different ways”, it means nothing bc there is only two ways and that’s either asking her or finding out incidentally through someone she’s fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:03 AM
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lol so you convince yourself they’re unenthusiastic bc they aren’t comfortable giving you the sex they gave previous male partners? what a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:52 AM
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You’re not saying your way cause you don’t have one. There is no chance women are even looking your way with your amount of insecurity bleeding through your post and comments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:38 AM
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They don’t. They just assume. NO woman is out here telling their future partner they were a slut in college, or had threesomes and foursomes with their previous partners. Nobody is privy to that information nor will you ever find out through her. And if you find out through someone else, that’s just grounds for breaking up because you’re intentionally seeking information about her from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:37 AM
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I don’t know why men assume that women are even going to talk about their previous experiences with other men. You aren’t entitled to that information. You aren’t entitled to things women did in the past. Nor will you ever find out about them through her. It’s always the men that get absolutely no women or sex that are always complaining about this shit. If you got a woman, you’d honestly be happy with whatever she gives you. Stop ruminating on experiences that aren’t yours to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:35 AM
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Whats there to be jealous of when it’s very obvious you’ve never been in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:23 PM
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bro still got fucking mogged and careers maxxed in court though with his 6’5 court judge upgrade That judge was some fineeeeee shyt and you can tell it bothered him so bad and still does when asked about it on stream
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:00 PM
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According to who you just replied to, it’s just pixels and “not real”! So I agree with you. They hate their logic being used against them Porn addicts are bottom feeders
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:58 PM
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But it’s just pixels bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:57 PM
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the game
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:41 PM
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Hahahaha alright bud! You do you, keep being porn addicted and see where it gets you in life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:50 AM
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I’m not crying as all the men I’ve been with have been more than fine to give it up or show me proof they’re only watching random videos x
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:44 AM
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That’s okay, in my experience my boyfriends have been more than happy to not do this, and as have all my girls’ partners. It’s the norm now. You can define it however you wish, it just won’t be something a majority of women accept - as I said, random videos is always fine, habits and preferences are not. xx
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:44 AM
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I don’t care, it can be two different things to you, it’s not to me and a majority of women, and you’ll never change our mind no matter how much you cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:40 AM
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I don’t care. Women can define whatever they consider cheating in the confines of their own relationship which is exactly what women do. If you’re in a healthy relationship you don’t need porn - and if you do - we can make some, and you can use that, OR randomly selected videos that you don’t specifically search for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:38 AM
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It ain’t pixels, it’s a real human. Thats like saying talking to people online isn’t cheating because the texts and nudes are just pixels!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:37 AM
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I wouldn’t break up with them - I just wouldn’t date them in the first place babe It’s not the theatre of his own mind if he watches media to bring him to completion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:32 AM
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Yes I can! Cause I’m a free woman. It doesn’t affect you because myself and other women wouldn’t date men that are addicted to porn and are cheaters. It IS cheating if you’re watching the same type of porn with a specific body type or a specific sexual act that isn’t someone I look like or something I’d do. It’s fulfilling sexual desires that I’m not comfortable with. Absolutely not. As I said, it doesn’t impact you. It doesn’t matter what you think is or isn’t cheating, considering a lot of wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:31 AM
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It’s not rational. It’s an unhinged addiction. You don’t need to watch the same porn, as I said I’m more than okay if he’s watching random videos but the same pattern/style/type of sexual content or type of woman videos is when it becomes a problem. If he wants porn like that we can make some.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:28 AM
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It’s cheating to me and a majority of other women feel the same. Sooo. I don’t care about your opinion. If he wants pornographic content he can watch random videos, or he can use me as the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:27 AM
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Don’t care. My and other women’s opinion, not yours, and a deal breaker for me. Mwah x
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:26 AM
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lol that’s not what it means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:55 AM
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I have done kinky stuff, I enjoyed it then I no longer enjoy it because it actually feels using/degrading. So what’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:42 AM
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What? No it doesn’t. I’m incredibly vanilla tbh doesn’t mean I’m not enthusiastic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:09 AM
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Nope. It’s a form of cheating if you have very distinct preferences and are codependent on it. Not insecure, just not fostering addiction. 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:49 AM
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“How do you get/find a xyz”. Just a simple example
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:35 AM
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That’s okay, you don’t have to understand it - nor will you ever. Women understand it, and good men who aren’t porn addicted also understand it, thus we don’t have an issue most of the time because it never arises. Women in porn are real. Body types and preferences are real. Sexual acts I and other women don’t want to do are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:34 AM
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…okay? still a choice to use specific words that demeans us as if we are a grocery item to be bought in a weekly shop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:12 AM
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Raising children ≠ “perpetuating” patriarchy. Hope this helps. Find me stats that say it has done so and then we can continue discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:40 AM
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They didn’t perpetuate shit, hence when women were able to work post war times, a majority did. A majority do now. Staying home because you have no choice is not perpetuating and you are truly daft if you believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:22 AM
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No stats? Just your own feelings? Thats what I thought. You realise women are primarily child carers BECAUSE they don’t have a choice, right? It’s financially too expensive to work and pay for childcare, and most men are breadwinners in the relationship, so guess who stays home! The mum. You say it as if women had a choice to not do child rearing - 50 years ago it was the “norm” because women didn’t have a choice, due to the pay disparity between genders, not even being able to vote or work. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:07 AM
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Explain how women perpetuate that, and it’s not men perpetuating it, exactly? And no, not your thoughts and feelings, but statistics and facts to support your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:53 AM
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Do you even know what patriarchy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:29 AM
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Lmfao it’s only bad to kissless virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 02:16 AM
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So you’re a bludger and leech off of your parents, but are complaining that women don’t contribute to tax/it’s unfair. My guy, we do, we pay just as much tax as any man; including on the things you listed like fuels and groceries. My guy you live with your parents. You can’t comment that it’s not fair when you don’t contribute anything yourself and you’re just a waste of air currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:31 AM
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This is the exact thing we mean when we say treat women as human. You have dehumanised us and group us altogether as having infinite options and plenty of men to choose from. You define sexual options as success. To 90% of women that isn’t success considering easily 70-80% of said “options” are not options at all - they just want a quick root, to orgasm, and to leave us after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:26 AM
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Okay, so not a crime. Cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:02 AM
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How do women kill/abuse children… give us stats please lmao Also make sure it’s a westernised country stat as a lot of you making this point reference African countries of which have no access to childcare or medical abortions or sexual protection
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:49 PM
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That’s why you make him make you come first. 🫶🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:47 PM
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You can definitely be utter garbage at oral. It’s nothing on the recipient
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:47 PM
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Okay? What do women do that’s bad to SOCIETY? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:46 PM
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100%, it’s great to be with a guy that cares
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:46 AM
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Nah, I’ll just only fuck men who actually know how to do it with ease. Never been an issue and if it is, we don’t fuck. I get mine then they get theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:44 AM
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lmao spoken like the words of a selfish man who has never made a woman orgasm before if you are a genuine Man, you care about your sexual partner orgasming. because you’re a decent human and not entirely selfish in the fact that you want her to experience pleasure as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:41 AM
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Explain how women murder their sons due to misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:31 AM
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no shit? it’s more a matter of wrong person wrong time. a lot of these women also fear their friends would judge them or report their partner when they think it’s not too bad or they don’t want their partner getting in trouble. It’s wholly complex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:45 AM
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Of course there is always negligibles lmao but one misandrist killing a man out of misandry doesn’t make it anywhere near the fact that the violence stats are >90% male perpetrators Or did we forget that women can also commit violence? Just nowhere near as many as men, in a million years?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:43 AM
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Nobody pushes anyone to suicide. Nobody is literally there in your face telling you to jump, with a gun at your head. It’s not women’s fault fragile men are so depressed without sex and women in his circle. Killing someone is not akin to suicide idk what you’re on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:42 AM
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bruh thinks he is some bro with a phd or a philosopher with the way he writes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:31 AM
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What about weapons used in violence? Women can use guns just as much as men can. Other tools like knives, machetes, brass knuckles. Yet; you still don’t see women being violent towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:30 AM
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I went to an all girls school. Never had any fights or SAs. Peaceful apart from bitching between the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:29 AM
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Awww! So cute! One chat GPT generated example! Try finding more than one that might bring down the fact that men are >90% of abusers! x
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:28 AM
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Okay, sure! But again, women hating men doesn’t cause any crimes. Unlike men hating women, that does cause crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:27 AM
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Except, suicide isn’t a crime. Men committing suicide because they are oh so lonely isn’t women’s fault nor is it our problem to magically fix by settling for these men that are so sad thinking women/sex will be a bandaid for their problems. So, if you wanna debate, as I stated, tell me of crimes committed by misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:26 AM
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Except… there are no crimes committed from misandry. Almost all crimes committed by men against women are from misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:50 AM
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Yup… we aren’t out here screaming that men won’t choose us, won’t give us sex, won’t give us a chance. That’s the huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:50 AM
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Okay, if that’s the bare minimum, what do YOU do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:19 AM
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what do you contribute to society as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:55 AM
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Physical defence from what, though? You guessed it… other men! haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:54 AM
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They literally watch the handmaids tale and think it’s an ideal world
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:54 AM
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You wanna know the difference between misogyny and misandry? Misandry is from women complaining about oppression, and all of the violence statistics being led by men. Misogyny is actually hatred of women despite being the very oppressor we cry about, which fosters resentment and further violence towards women. One is complaining, one actually results in harm. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:54 AM
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Oh my god. They don’t start off insane, you realise?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:41 AM
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Yeah I agree, unlike someone commenting here saying it’s ALWAYS the woman’s fault for choosing poorly - even if the man does it years down the track, it’s somehow her fault still.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:28 AM
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Probably because these men drive you to insanity? As I mentioned my ex drove me to psychosis. You know nothing about it. She WAS probably unfit to care for the child as most 18-19 year olds driven to insanity would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:45 AM
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What issues could she possibly have. How is it her fault she got baby trapped with a deadbeat at a young impressionable age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:39 AM
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bruh wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:38 AM
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crazy talk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:20 AM
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He’s a fucking Incel. Assuming the bloke had hit her and she hadn’t fell - as if it isn’t extremely easy to bruise your face falling on literally anything. If it was a case of DV she wouldn’t be going outside without makeup because of shame. No shame if it was a genuine accident. I fell in the shower and had a massive forehead bruise but still went to work without makeup bc I was honest. I’ve never seen women stay with men who were abusive. Better yet, I’ve never seen them choose someone who is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:20 AM
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“Mate selection” 🤣 at least I have a selection of “mates” to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:56 AM
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If that’s what you wanna define it as, that’s fine, but that’s your definition of “cope” It’s not real sex. It’s paid sex. It doesn’t even compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:55 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 not you still believing it was my fault he was a narcissist I genuinely can’t believe little boys like you exist in the big old 2026. I can understand your resentment towards women cause I’d be disgusted by your presence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:52 AM
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It’s how it works for men, check out men’s advice reddit. Unless you’ve had genuine sex with someone willing (not the PAID WORK kind of willing), you are a virgin. Works the same way for women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:51 AM
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don’t need to cope when I have a plethora of men available tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:47 AM
1

Still a virgin if the only people you’ve fucked are prostitutes btw. 😬🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:46 AM
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Well yeah, there’s no technique to pounding... You have to hit the right spot. For me I am particular and can only be pounded with my legs up cause that’s the only way it feels good for me, otherwise I dry up because I’m just waiting for it to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:46 AM
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nah. it’s the men with the skill issues, they ain’t on my level. swag yolo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:37 AM
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So glad you’re out of that. It wasn’t your fault, it never is our fault. I hope your kiddo grows up to be everything he wasn’t to you. Kind and good hearted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:36 AM
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Hugs from mummy? Naw. It must drive you mad that women, including myself, get sex and you never will. You’ll never know what that feels like. Sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:34 AM
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Not blaming you. Just bum ass men - such as my ex! And men who blame women for “choosing wrong”, when I chose a man who wasn’t like that for 2.5 years. People change. It’s not my fault he changed nor did I choose wrong, I chose right, just like I chose right to leave him. Foreign concept to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:34 AM
1

nah, just putting a bum ass loser in their place Kisses and hugs considering you’ll never get any irl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:31 AM
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But I didn’t choose violent him? So what are you on about? He was perfect for 2.5 years. We were talking about engagement. We were talking about buying a house and starting a family. There were no issues. So how is that my fault, exactly, that the man let his true self show once he had me locked down? I don’t have skill issues. I just don’t want to waste my energy dating pitiful men, want me as they may.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:29 AM
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No. You’re an incel. It means involuntary celibate. It means no woman wants you now, and they never will. It doesn’t matter if you renounce the title, because if you had women, you wouldn’t be a “cel” at all. You are involuntarily celibate, the very definition. You are salty. So much so that you have even renounced the fact and are in denial that you are just like the cohort of incels that hate and want to oppress women like the handmaids tale just so you can get pussy. Because any choice of a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:27 AM
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Okay broski. By your logic, any woman that chooses any man that does anything wrong to her is bad. It’s her skill issue. Unless they choose you of course, because you are oh so perfect. The true Catch! At least I’m not an inc*l. Skill issue. I could ring a guy up now and get a date, or a fuck. I choose not to - unlike you, I am single by choice, not by involuntary nature. Stay mad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:25 AM
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No. They chose a kind and loving man. Not the abuser that kind and loving man turned into months to years to decades down the track. Believe it or not, the average man isn’t a prince. Or Andrew Tate. Women go after that for money and nothing else. Also, you list an example you knew from school - and say it with such confidence as if that man was outright saying to women “I’m an abuser and pdf”, and women still chose him. Again - women fall in love with positive things in men, and then men change…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:23 AM
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yes, you’re worse because you hate women for not choosing you, and blame the women for choosing poorly and not the abuser/murderer/assaulter who inflicted harm You’re not a black pill then. You’re an incel. Women won’t even look your way, yet you claim you’ve stopped looking but remain salty as fuck that women are still individuals allowed to choose. Because anyone they choose, except YOU, is their fault if it ends bad. Again, you don’t answer my question I’ve asked you 100 times. How is it wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:20 AM
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She’s not at fault whatsoever considering no woman gets in a relationship with an abuser off the bat, unless coerced or forced into it. These abusers start their abusing later on. Not the initial first few months to years. So how is it their fault for “choosing poorly” when they actually chose an entirely different person?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:10 AM
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That’s the point mate. They can’t walk away - that’s why these men do it when it’s too late and they no longer have that option. You’re just as bad as the guys that abuse and murder their partners considering you’re blaming the women for “choosing poorly”, and not the men who actually abuse and murder them. You are a nice guy. 100%. Because you’re blaming women being victims for choosing poorly when women don’t choose poorly, men just act poorly. You’re just like them if not worse, because you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:09 AM
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Lmfaooooo, yes, in a sense. Explain how it’s women’s fault that they are murdered by their male partner. Explain how it’s somehow her fault, and not the man’s. Explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:07 AM
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So, kids that are murdered as well, what about them? Was it their fault? Or their parents’? The logic is insane. It’s never the victims fault in any circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:05 AM
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Again ignoring the point that most abusive men don’t show these behaviours til looooong into a relationship. So explain how that’s them choosing bad if they aren’t like that in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:11 AM
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Oh yes Blame the women for getting murdered, not the murderer You’re genuinely a psychopath
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:03 AM
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Why would we choose a self proclaimed nice guy that has nothing else going for him? You realise said nice guys’ inexperience with women leads you to make mistakes that ends up in a toxic, unhealthy relationship, right? I tell women here, don’t give nice guys a chance. Because you often end up using and abusing us to learn from, like a fucked up stepping stone for your future partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:02 AM
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How? When he isolates her from family, friends and cuts off her financial freedom by telling (sometimes coercing) her to quit her job and depend on him, how do you suggest she walks away? If it were that simple, many women would have done it already. It’s your ignorant comment and ignorance to the severity of the issue that is the problem. You are just as bad as these so called abusive men because you say “haha it’s your fault for choosing the bad guy” rather than blaming the man for his actions…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 02:00 AM
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How is it a skill issue when these men say they’re sober and in fact aren’t? How are inexperienced women meant to know better? You can also be chronically addicted to games, social media, reddit, and control, as reflected by the men who post here religiously it seems, but nobody talks about that as they aren’t recognised as addictions despite also having awful effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:57 AM
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Sunken cost fallacy. Also, a lot of these men only start these behaviours once they know she can’t walk away. Ignorant comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:56 AM
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My ex did it a few weeks after we moved in together. We lasted not even 6 months after that. I was psychotic. He sent me into psychosis to the point that I was about to be admitted to hospital. Yet he played the part perfectly for 2.5 years before that. How was I supposed to know? There were a few things scattered throughout, little blow ups, but we went to therapy and all was well. And even now we are still friends because we get along nicely, and care about each other. We just can’t DATE, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:54 AM
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No, those women just let it “slide” because they think it’s NORMAL. They don’t have any experience with men to tell them otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:52 AM
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Yup - once they know she can’t run away. Especially once they move in, get married, or have a kid and he has isolated her from finances (by insisting she can stay at home with the kid) and family/friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:50 AM
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How is it our fault if these men only show these bad behaviours once you’re too far in, and want to try for the relationship? Once you’re living together, married, with child? You realise that’s the case with a lot of this hypothetical scenario, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:50 AM
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I don’t like it, because most men have a type of porn they want to watch - such as anal, cnc content, deep throat - because I don’t do those. At all. So it makes me feel as if I am inadequate, because I won’t do those things. Also if he’s watching a particular model, or the same type of woman (petite, blonde, bbw, brunette, Asian, Latino, etc). That to me feels like cheating if it’s not me. If it’s only an every now and again thing such as once a week, on a random video he just picked from the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:45 AM
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It does well represent men… it is an every day thing… It is a conversation about raping as a behaviour IN MEN… considering they account for >90% of all violence statistics including rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:42 AM
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No. Both parties are to blame… but past experiences in women (abuse, DV, SA, etc) contribute a lot as to why women “pick” bad men (and why men don’t show that they’re bad until they’re too far in bc of sunken cost fallacy) because it feels normal to them. My first relationship was great in the beginning but I definitely missed red flags… which ended as his avoidant attachment, saying I deserved better but not being better, saying he is “trying so hard” but not actually improving… yeah. That wasn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:41 AM
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I wouldn’t say it’s so much as a skill issue, but it comes down to the man hiding the undesirable traits through manipulation and narcissism until you’re too far in to just walk away. A lot of these men start showing these traits after you move in together, or there’s a ring, marriage, or a kid has been brought into your lives. That’s not on the woman - it’s on the man for knowing that no woman will want him if he showed this in the beginning. If he shows his true self and brings down his facade…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:38 AM
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…what that’s not what blue pill is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:49 AM
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But you aren’t owed someone who finds you attractive… you realise that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:22 AM
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DARVO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:56 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA Yes, they provide a sex worker. The sex worker is PAID a very good amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:36 AM
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Oh yes I’m SURE people are using AI to generate a simple fucking comment saying you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:36 AM
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What mistakes and shortcomings 🤣 you aren’t owed sex, women aren’t going to “settle” for you even if we for some unbeknownst to god reason you think removing social welfare payments and concessions will make women want to give you pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:35 AM
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LMFAOOOOOO bro is obviously 18 and has never used em dashes in literature
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:34 AM
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The DARVO/gaslighting combo here is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:28 AM
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“If you class drinking while preg as a form of violence” I swear you’re schizophrenic with these random tangential flight of statements out of the blue that make ZERO fucking sense holy shit it’s hilarious Women are responsible for more deaths than the holocaust! Women kill children more!1!1!1!1!1 show me where 🤣🤣🤣 news flash bud, until a foetus is born it’s not a “human” life therefore it’s not MURDER! It’s a clump of sells dependent on the mother! Gn gang
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:03 PM
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Oh my god, the gaslighting is so crazy, putting words in my mouth, saying you said things you didn’t say Good lawd goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:01 PM
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Lmao you can’t change your narrative after the fact when you’re the one that literally wrote it. Broad. Men have always been violent. Even more so with the rise of inceldom. We know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:24 AM
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I love how you just… reverse it on me and say “that’s not what I asked”! When you literally asked a BROAD question “evidence men are MORE VIOLENT TOWARDS WOMEN when they CANT GET SEX FROM THEM?” You asked. Someone answered. Now, find any woman who has committed such violent crimes on the basis of not getting sex or being a “femcel”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:05 AM
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bruh. Five people? Five men, you mean. List five women who have committed the same for simply not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:59 AM
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lol… plenty if you look it up, but I ain’t here to spoon feed you like your mummy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:26 AM
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To me it’s moreso your social and emotional confidence and communication. You can be a gorgeous Leonardo De Caprio but if you’re a misogynist or also insecure and want to control me, I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:56 AM
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Well, 2 of those 3 things you can actually change. Lose weight and get fit, go and get a hair transplant or rock the bald look. You can’t expect to get women if you’re fat, at any weight, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:55 AM
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Honestly my ex and I aimed for once a week - and nothing fancy, we would just go get dinner or ice cream somewhere, sometimes watch a movie if we could afford that in our fun money, or take my dog to the park. We went on 3 holidays in our 3 years - I aim for a holiday every 6-8 months but it wasn’t practical in our first 1.5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:15 AM
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then stay away? Go fuck a flesh light?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:58 AM
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Lmfao what
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:57 AM
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Okay? But how many of those “likes” are actually worth it? Because most women don’t see sex alone as worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:57 AM
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Uhuh… okay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:56 AM
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Then go post on incel forums?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:54 AM
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Because women protect other women, considering men won’t protect us or speak up for us. Men won’t even speak up for us if it’s their girlfriend/fiance/wife/daughter right in front of them. Why would there not be women who protect other women’s interests if this is how it’s been our whole lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:54 AM
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what the fuck is a Ginaworld Vagina? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:53 AM
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So you just answered your own question. You said it was all about sex, indirectly. Thats all it boils down to - you don’t have to say “it’s only about sex” for it to come through in your beliefs and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:52 AM
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That answer is easy. Sex! That’s all it boils down to. We are just unpaid sex workers/maids/nannies to them that may do the household chores and pay half the bills and pop out kids for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:50 AM
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that’s not how that works… you literally generalised, it’s not our responsibility to provide research and information for you to attempt to burst your little bubble to no avail. You’re in an echo chamber mate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:49 AM
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I truly wonder how it’s working out for them, thinking delusional that is, that they are a god, and women must bow before them. Truly schizo behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:45 AM
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Okay, apart from men being more violent towards women through their misogyny and not getting as much sex as back in the day, how is this actually affecting anybody? What is the “war” about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:44 AM
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Blue pillers don’t deny the flaws in women, and men… we all are human individuals at the end of the day…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:35 AM
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All the men who abhor ugly women here despite being ugly themselves “because I can’t be attracted to them” say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:26 AM
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It is thinking logically. If he doesn’t meet my needs, it’s a complete burden to me and a waste of energy, effort and time. And money in some regards. The standards aren’t money - if all the needs are met the money doesn’t matter to me so long as it’s not a dead end job with no progression. It’s not my free time. My clients are all well, my job is sitting here waiting for something to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:38 AM
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A romantic relationship isn’t fulfilling unless he ticks all my other boxes, as I keep saying to you I’m at work, bored as hell, I just peruse Reddit. It ain’t my precious free time. I don’t use this bs app at home outside of my job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:08 AM
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I can get those same benefits from a female roommate without the difficulties of dating an incompetent man Yes I am happy, I come here to encourage women to stay single, and to tell men they are the problem in most of their scenarios they rant about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:46 AM
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Not in Australia. I live in the 2nd most expensive state in the world - Sydney. My mortgage is $650 a week (and planned to rise with increasing interest) plus $85 for insurance. Council rates $450 a quarter, water $250 a quarter, electricity $300 a quarter. $100-150 a week for groceries not including fun money/meds/clothing I ever need to buy. $2500 a year for car insurance, $1500 for pet insurance. I also travel, so 3-5k twice a year for separate holidays. If you made 50k, tell me how you’d be …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:41 AM
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I can imagine love transcending such “practicalities” considering I stayed with my ex for 3 years as he dove deeper into a hole of personal debt from poor spending habits despite earning 30k more than me. It is responsibility. Cost of living is too expensive - my bills would double, as would my groceries because men eat like body builders and sumo wrestlers. I enjoy my private girly space too and men always want ugly ass Ethernet cables to their computers because “wifi is unreliable”. I don’t wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:26 AM
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I don’t care. It’s a bare minimum standard in Australia, only bums earn 50-60. I’m not dating a bum in a dead end job with no room for progression, doesn’t matter how good he is. However I did say to you if he was in a junior role WITH ROOM FOR PROGRESSION and will make MORE money than 50-60 in a few years, then that’s okay. Doesn’t matter how good he is. If he can’t afford to live as an adult, I am not taking on that responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:21 AM
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??? I don’t complain. I’m single by choice my love. Men are too much work, even for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:16 AM
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Ah yes my standards are sooo unreasonable It doesn’t matter if he’s good/a “nice guy” - to me he’s not good whatsoever unless he meets my criteria. As I said to you 50/50 on finances and household duties/chores OR MORE preferably due to my shift work, independent and well functioning, good communicator, good emotional regulation, doesn’t work a dead end job and earns 70k with room for progression. 70k is bare minimum in Aus to have a house and be an adult and eventually have kids. It isn’t enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:15 AM
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Aweee not your cute comment being auto deleted! Just because I’m not giving self proclaimed “nice guys” (incels) a chance doesn’t mean I let anyone fuck me. I don’t fuck outside of relationships. I just don’t entertain incompetent immature men (nice guys + incels) either. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:09 AM
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No there’s not, and you wouldn’t know, cause you haven’t dated men. Most men are incompetent and I’ve yet to find one that convinces me otherwise. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:07 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:06 AM
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Help them how? What do you suggest? You aren’t deserving of attention and love and respect just because you were born. You work hard and earn it. Some people have to work harder than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:05 AM
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NAHHHH. I’m a firm believer in not giving “nice guys” a chance. I paid my dues with two of them. They’re incompetent and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:04 AM
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I already explained that to you in another comment, you just have the memory of a goldfish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:04 AM
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I’m completely self sufficient though. I don’t need money, I can make money by myself any time I want. If I need money, I get a roommate. Too many issues with boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:03 AM
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It doesn’t matter - you don’t need sex to release testosterone. Real men use their hand instead of whinging and whining about something they aren’t getting, but don’t do anything to deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:49 PM
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Okay, good, because the “sensitive men” are typically the emotionally immature and childish ones that we don’t want anyway… Every one of yall say you are a “nice guy” and just need to be given “a chance”. I did my fair share with “nice guys” twice and it turns out you aren’t nice at all. Turns out you have no experience in anything (including sex, and unwilling to learn), are selfish, cannot communicate, cannot regulate emotions, cannot manage relationship stressors and cannot be an independent …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:42 PM
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??? Of course they are. All you need to do is get one, and shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:35 AM
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bro what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:35 AM
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What do you mean please give me an actual definition…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:34 AM
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“See this person”. Wow. One woman! Out of 90% of assault perpetrators being men!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:02 AM
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lol wut give each other positions? are you in some kind of sect? What’s going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:01 AM
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Because “male spaces” openly are resentful, and completely hating on women. Full of toxic misogyny and echo chambers. Of which fosters violence. Of which should be stopped. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:00 AM
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No, typically only misogynists question women about misandry. Because they only care about misandry all of a sudden when a woman is speaking about misogyny. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:59 AM
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No idea what a 4B is or lysistrate is bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:51 AM
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Then those are the ones we aren’t talking about. Most MGTOW are crying and whining they are forced to, well, GTOW, through their own faults and society now having standards and decentreing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:26 AM
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looool maybe for sex but not for relationships!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:17 AM
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No, because they aren’t giving up. It’s the “involuntary” that defines it, they don’t have a choice. And in their “MGTOW” journey, they just foster resentment and hatred of women. Which leads to violence. Any type of incel, coveted or not, is too dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:17 AM
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They just want to protect the “gold” that they don’t have from “gold diggers” lol. Then they’ll cry when the woman actually earns or contributed more, and thus gets a bigger payout than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:49 AM
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nope! there’s a disproportionate amount of MEN on dating apps compared to women. Some say it’s even 4:1. So, not bad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:20 AM
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That men also only target the top 25% of women in their swiping. Even if they’re in the bottom % themselves as they say. There’s just not enough data on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:56 AM
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It’s “not as extreme” yet most women don’t give a shit about these stats therefore don’t upload their data. So how would you know, truly? If you ask me I won’t date lower than a 4/10. I instantly swipe no the minute someone gives me the ick in a single photo or statement on their profile. I know Men do the same thing as I’ve been at parties where we swipe and they go off only the single photo and don’t check the rest of the profile whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:17 AM
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An AI data aggregator. But sure. I’d love to see just how many people use it, and how many sample groups this data is pulled from. Everyone knows the reality of dating apps. It’s just people on here claiming all women say “looks don’t matter!” that cry about it. My friend looks definitely do matter and nobody with common sense denies it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:08 AM
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yeah it’s an AI analytics platform. AI still collates all the data. You aren’t getting any data from successful people as well, just the ones complaining about their lack of matches. Still doesn’t address the point. Dating apps are window shopping. Why do you think anyone should enquire into something they aren’t interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:59 AM
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We see these posts all the time. Sure - just remember an AI on “swipe stats” isn’t accurate exactly, and you forget all the female bot accounts in these stats that swipe on everyone. Also, men do the exact same thing, but I guess that’s not as commonly reported. At the end of the day, dating apps are like window shopping. If you’re window shopping, you’re not gonna ask the price on something you don’t actually like, right? You’d only go in and ask the price if you were interested in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:50 AM
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lol until he no longer wants it! too much work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:26 AM
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who gives a fuck about economic revenue that’s not our problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:11 AM
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I don’t find it funny either but you are correct, even if it was it’s not career ending
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:11 AM
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what’s consumer spending got anything to do with it? and you have to specify what you mean by “shifting cultural dynamics along political lines” cause that’s a whole sentence that doesn’t make any sense without context
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:04 AM
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well yeah but that doesn’t mean it’s a double standard it just wouldn’t happen in the first place because it happens too prevalently
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:03 AM
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…it is sexual harassment, but the whole thing is a performance act meant to make people laugh it wouldn’t be career ending for a man, considering it’s a performance…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:00 AM
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There’s plenty of long term relationships, not everyone wants to get married - it’s expensive, annoying and stressful as opposed to just remaining de facto or eloping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:34 AM
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Nobody is pushing for higher rates of marriages? What economic and cultural fears are you even referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:24 AM
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Because if a man was super kind and loving I would date him - I said I “probably won’t want anyone earning under 70k”, not that it’s a hard limit for me. He just needs to have the possibility to earn more (overtime, transitioning into leadership/management from current role in years time) to be able to provide for myself and our future children - and not be in a job at his utmost ceiling of pay, with no chance of progression. That’s what is called a dead end job. If he is kind, loving, great, am…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:21 AM
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Honestly honest mistake I was using females in another comment because the bloke referred to women as females lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:15 AM
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No… I said 50% of finances and household labour. As in, we pay bills 50/50. We split labour 50/50. I then also said I want >70% of my non negotiables addressed. And finished it with “anything less than 50% to me, is shit”. And no - I don’t care if he doesn’t make much money. Money runs the world and where I live, it’s super expensive, so I probably won’t want anyone earning under 70k a year. I earn a lot more than most men my age hence being able to have my own, and that makes them feel emascula…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:07 AM
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Again. Never said he has to earn more than me, just enough to live which will be enough to provide if I am sick/have a child and take months off of work. I never said if he makes less than me he’s shit 😂 Straw man argument. Yeah I want kids with the right person or by myself. No, it would be my dad is “physically attractive”. I am not “attracted to my dad”. It is just the appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:48 AM
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Honestly women can demand whatever they want, it doesn’t mean they will get it you realise? I don’t want “perfect”, I want >70% of my non negotiables addressed. 50% or more of finances and household labour. The ability to help emotionally by supporting me, physically (manual handling/labour jobs I am not strong enough to do and would otherwise have to pay someone to do), and financially should I injure myself and someone else needs to pick up the bill slack for a few weeks to months because I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:32 AM
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nah this is bullshit. You should never date someone the exact same as you. You each need your own hobbies and friend circles. The issue is that people become complacent. Men stop “pursuing” their partner because they already have her, thus no dates, effort or showing of appreciation. This fosters resentment. The most stable relationships keep dating each other like they did in the beginning even through trials and stresses. In distress, one picks up the slack of which should be returned if the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:28 AM
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I do know what it’s like considering I was bullied and looked over until I was 20 and got my acts and looks together. Even now I’m still a 4-5/10. Besides the point anyway. Women wanting to wait for the right guy is NOT picky, greedy or shallow. Why should we settle for a man that’s shit? Answer me that. There’s a difference between physical and sexual attraction - maybe look it up. Finding Leonardo beautiful is physical attraction but that doesn’t make you gay. It’s just “attraction” - they loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:15 AM
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Everyone is judged. Doesn’t matter how hard, or what they’re judged on. Yes most people want relationships. But most women only want the RIGHT relationship and are happy to wait for that. You don’t understand the concept of being physically attracted but not wanting to fuck them, because you’re a typical man, who can’t just admire a woman’s beauty without thinking of railing her. Even if you’re in a relationship. The ones that can only think of their own woman but admire beauty from a distance w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:02 AM
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I never said men only. It’s both genders. Don’t date with unsolved baggage There’s a difference between communicating issues and whinging and whining without doing anything about it and expecting coddling. One I tolerate, the other I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:48 AM
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I’m not talking about burdens that mean you shouldn’t date - those are big, such as debts, drug/alcohol problems, serial cheating, toxicity/narcissism etc. I’m talking about emotional problems/burdens such as depression, and other mental health struggles. I agree that yes you shouldn’t date if you have GENUINE burdens. Like, go fix those, then maybe consider women. That’s baggage. Considering women have learnt since puberty how to deal with monthly pain, weekly hormonal fluctuations and stress, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:39 AM
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By mood swings you mean dangerous anger, and brooding over not getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:37 AM
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that’s not how it works, because the difference between the man and the woman is that the woman is happy and just having fun, whereas the man is leaving other options open.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:31 AM
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Why? They don’t trust us women. If you wanna act single just because your girl is hot af and confident in her looks, don’t date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:30 AM
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Except, a relationship is to share burdens and grow together in times of distress. In sickness and in health. That’s what it’s about. Have you ever been in a relationship? It’s not all positive! The weight of a healthy relationship fluctuates from side to side but resumes back to 50/50 if it’s healthy and stable, with minor mishaps and issues. I never said “I won’t do the same for him” - most women do, and more than he does for her, as we are more experienced dealing with emotions and pain and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:23 AM
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No it’s not. You can’t akin a woman going to the club dressed nice (because who goes to the club not looking nice, be for real?) to men chatting up other women to accrue “options”. Accruing “options” is an invitation to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:21 AM
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Everyone is judged on everything in their life. Height is just one of those. Earning a good amount of money, having socially acceptable status and being somewhat clean/hygienic/well kept/healthy is just part of being a successful adult - in terms of dating, yes, but also your career, social life and physical/mental wellbeing. If men don’t need more women, then they’d be okay with their “demonised” preferences because they don’t need them and will be fine alone. But that’s not the case as to men,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:20 AM
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??? if you are an adult it doesn’t turn into shouting. Snappiness is natural with exhaustion, especially for those less than socially inept. More than a bit of attitude is bordering abuse - and I never mentioned abusing/hurting them. Most females are able to still work and do their jobs and fair share… but the men should try to take as much as that off her plate as possible if they care. Nobody is using periods/work exhaustion to justify poor behaviour. You’re pulling at strings
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:12 AM
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Probably because women like the dynamic of a tall big guy, to protect them? And probably because every short guy I have encountered is insecure about his height, and projects it onto me when I talk to tall men? If they weren’t so insecure I don’t think it’d be such a problem Men do ask about bra size, and WEIGHT, but yeah sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:07 AM
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How does it bother you though? What part of it bothers/affects you? Men do need women more yes, that is a fact. Most women DO think as I do, I do care about looks to a point that I’m not gonna date a 1-3/10, but personality and meeting my needs matters far more to me than that. Re: the experiment, because the girls probably thought his caption was a fucking joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:03 AM
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hormones? have you not heard of the 28 day cycle? stress impacting mood? decreased libido due to cycle and exhaustion? grumpiness and snappiness because of a short fuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:01 AM
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lol I am obviously not talking about mood swings resulting in abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:59 PM
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Yes? Anyone who loves their partner is okay to deal with it. In sickness and in health includes mental health. You won’t find a relationship if you don’t care about the other person’s feelings and try to help any way you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:56 PM
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Because being tall is nice, but if you tick all the other boxes except height, it’s just as nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:54 PM
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You mean, who would go 50/50, and take on emotional labour in a relationship? Almost all healthy adult relationships would - that’s who.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:53 PM
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yes and no? It’s a hypothetical. Men may approach but does the woman want that or is she just out having fun? It’s not passive, it’s lust from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:52 PM
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It is nonsense. Hypotheticals galore that will never happen. A genders or individual’s ineptness is not the fault of the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:47 PM
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Height only matters if you’re super insecure about it and will be insecure in the relationship if the woman sees taller men at work or has taller male friends Go get a hair transplant Do everything else I listed Most importantly, date within your range - if you’re a 1-4/10, then you date 1-4/10 without aiming for higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:44 PM
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yeah no it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:43 PM
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You realise you have to work to be “pursuable”, right? I don’t just sit there and look pretty like a trophy. Besides the point - I obviously do more than sit there in order to be pursued and “worth” it. I cook, clean, do laundry, whatever you think. I am smart, funny, considerate, caring and chill. I’m financially independent and own a house despite a majority of men my age… not owning, or even having saved a deposit, and still living with mum and dad. But yes, in relationships, there’s no point…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:43 PM
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No - asexual literally just means you aren’t SEXUALLY attracted to people. Plenty of asexual people, including myself if I have it, have and enjoy sex, but it’s not necessary for them and they could happily go without it. You can change your ugliness though just like I did. Get fit, eat healthy, groom your hair and facial hair, get a great job and a big friend circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:39 PM
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“The psychology of women is dark and *bothers men*”. So stop being bothered by it? Crazy idea, right? Focus on yourself. I’ve never let a man pay for me on a first date so idk what you’re on about - and we always went go for go paying in relationships. I’m a big girl and don’t need no man like you claim I do. What I bring is maturity, stability, connection, and logic - a lot of things men don’t have. Re: the criminal, you realise very few of them would want to date him beyond a quick root - unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:36 PM
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Obviously I don’t expect them to do all the work. 50/50 and more on days I feel like shit, yes, of course (and vice versa). What’s the point of a relationship if I am caring and doing labour for both of us instead of just myself? For men it’s just sex - for women it’s moreso companionship, and coupling for finances and labour in stressful adulthood. Men should pursue, yes, considering they are the ones desperate for sex/relationships more than women. The one that wins in the women’s eyes at the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:25 PM
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Yes I understand analogies but you can’t compare slavery (illegal) to personal preference. It’s that simple. The analogy you provided is simple as it doesn’t compare anything illegal/not illegal. The former doesn’t always win. You’re nuts. Nobody wants to fuck hitler or a psycho or a deadbeat. The one with the great personality that ticks all the other boxes is the one that wins - you are just too chronically online to think outside of the box for a sec It’s also not my fault men fucking suck. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:21 PM
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No… nobody. I was an isolated, bullied kid because I was ugly, no friends in highschool. Lost weight, got a degree and good job, groomed myself and now I get a bit of “attention” but honestly still not much outside of men wanting a quick root. I’m also pretty sure I’m asexual because physical appearance has never mattered to me, so saying I only dated attractive men is a stretch when they were both 5-6/10. Like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:19 PM
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So… men can’t have female friendships then? Cause they’ll just want to fuck them or date them? Is that what you’re saying? Kinda proves the reason why we can’t show any friendliness and be ourselves don’t you think? Also, no, women don’t treat their male friends the same way they treat their partners. Crazy concept, that you are misperceiving them being nice and caring for them being interested in you. There’s no point in complaining about “mixed signals” when you should have a semblance of a br…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:17 PM
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I don’t get to be picky considering all the men my age are incompetent and lazy. There’s nothing to want, there. I’d rather be by myself. But to answer your other statement saying no woman struggles - nobody wanted to even go on a date with me until I was 20. Apart from 2 long term relationships and several dates I’ve not had anyone actually “want” me until I dolled myself up, lost weight, got a degree and a house. So
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:13 PM
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Typically because men still want sex and benefits without putting in the work, and they’ll bitch and moan about it, but women are okay going without that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:04 PM
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nah… a majority of men literally are too much work in both the emotional and physical sense. Men consider women too much work in the emotional sense - they want sex and benefits, but don’t want to deal with her mood swings, or take on financial and physical responsibilities. Male “keepers” are super uncommon, a lot of them have had bad behaviour enabled their entire lives by school mates and family, and expect that to last in adulthood. Look at Mumma’s boys, and the fact that a lot of these boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:02 PM
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Oh? Did the redpill creator tell you that explicitly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:56 PM
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Being confident in your own body as a woman and showing off your hard work in dedication is a “passive phenomenon”, now? Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:54 PM
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Another bigoted take. Nobody is advertising themselves unless they are sex workers/only fans. Stop being so insecure, and comparing cheating to a woman just being confident in her own body. It’s not “advertising”, it’s confidence and freedom to wear and do whatever the fuck we want. Speaking to other women with the sole intention of getting back at your woman because she is “advertising” (lmfao bigot) is cheating and you can’t compare the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:53 PM
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Responding “this way” to analogies? You mean, pointing out you’re comparing attraction/preferences to an inhumane and illegal act and say it comes down to “honesty”? Righto There are unfair beauty standards, thanks to porn, modelling and social media. And men want that and not a chubby girl, typically, because they think thats the norm. It is both looks and personality. If you are attractive but your personality is dog shit, you won’t be getting anything more than quick pussy. If you are decent …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:51 PM
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Men definitely DO do things like that. They aren’t less shallow. If you’re unattractive to men you won’t even be glanced at, maybe just for a quick root. Life as a woman is always “easy mode” to a man but every day I wish I was born as a man because this shit isn’t easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:24 PM
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I like tall guys. Many other women like tall guys. But it’s not a deal breaker if the guy ticks my other boxes. Women will never be labeled as “manly” because regardless of height or physical characteristics/attributes or lack thereof, they still want us for sex and companionship. Women don’t NEED that as much as men claim it is a “need”, thus we are allowed to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:57 PM
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This is crazy logic, how are you comparing slavery to attraction? Women having preferences and being attracted to specific traits is not a “horrific truth”. What issues would women have with male sexuality - what on earth do you mean? And saying women are downplaying looks - not a single one of them has said looks DON’T matter but if you’re lacking in that regard you have to make up for it with your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:56 PM
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… because you men are the ones attacking us? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:27 AM
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yeah, but that just comes down to them being a douchebag also, don’t fuck on the first few dates if you are one of those women, and want a long lasting relationship? pretty good way to sus out if the guy thinks you are worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:20 AM
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If I was a man I’d want kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:07 AM
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what’s with all the random spelling errors yes, there is two types of MGTOW - MGTOW who do it because they don’t care/aren’t seeking relationships or sex, and MGTOW who don’t have a choice and simply have no sex thus state they are MGTOW because they are incels, and keep hating women for “making” them MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:07 AM
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??? men have zero… what? zero what? the right to their own bodies aren’t being taken away from them so what are you saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:33 PM
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nobody actually says that though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:32 PM
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everyone is different and yes if you have positive interactions with people before you fuck then you earn it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:32 PM
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respectable men whom don’t want relationships and don’t complain about it or lack of sex is the key difference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:25 PM
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don’t care. you aren’t owed anything just for being born, you must earn it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:24 PM
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sex isn’t a need nor is it equality. get over yourself and touch grass go to church idk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:10 PM
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I’d wonder what your wife thinks about you saying women aren’t oppressed? hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:06 PM
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I fear for your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:02 PM
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lol there is nothing in the body that compels you to copulate and procreate. it is just your ego. It’s not a need, it’s a desire. You confuse benefits with actual life necessities and scream that you’re desperate despite likely never having kissed nor touched a female yourself, so clearly, it isn’t a need because you haven’t died yet. not all women can find men btw. you forget this the rules are there for a reason, because blatant sexism and hatred isn’t allowed and that’s exactly what you’re tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:01 PM
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your “biological” urge has nothing to do with us you aren’t owed women simply for being born a man I don’t need men on my side when they’re the same ones oppressing me if men control us one day, women would just off themselves rather than deal with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:53 PM
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nah 🤣 maybe one day you’ll realise that once you start viewing women as people and oppressed by their only natural predator (MEN) rather than sex objects, maybe you’ll have luck with women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:50 PM
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there’s a fine line between MGTOW and going your own way because you’re an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:48 PM
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okay gang 🥀 you truly have no idea what you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:47 PM
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What policy changes? What do you propose? What rights do we need to champion? You should give two shits about women if you’re a decent human being, but also a straight man who wants to have sex/relationships/children with women. Or loves their mother. Considering women are genuinely being legally oppressed and we are going backwards, you should care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:41 PM
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lmao the main part of a modern man’s struggle isn’t women’s fault, though? you may not believe in it. It can for sure be a “main struggle” but it’s not our fault whatsoever. it’s literally only ever the man’s fault that he has no poom poom “there’s no oppression in first world countries” - are you living under a rock? look in the USA. we are going backwards. Aus is thinking of adopting it also, and the bill almost passed in one of our states by one vote out. but sure, we ain’t oppressed - keep t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:40 PM
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Yeah others in our immediate circle and those who are genuinely oppressed by laws, crime and war… but again, to an extent. The examples OP listed aren’t due to any laws, they aren’t oppressed, it is entirely individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:26 PM
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“anti male bias” in courts lol where the fuck do you live if that was the case the abortion bill wouldn’t have passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:13 PM
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100%. Like… who cares about other people? Yes some care about women legally being oppressed and going backwards (anti abortion in USA as an example) is justified, as it would be if men faced any such legal/ethical issue, but at the end of the day you should only focus on those in your circle and not others who don’t affect you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:12 PM
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maybe because men’s rights actually aren’t being oppressed! whereas women aren’t even seen as people in some countries and some countries are actually going backwards in female rights - looking at you, USA! of course there’s no focus on Men! Because the men only complain when the focus is on Women! If you want the focus shifted, be the change and start making videos talking about it. Just don’t start talking about how your life SUCKS because the focus is on women. Nobody cares about that and tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:09 PM
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Well yes if a woman you personally know has her period you should care. Women also care about men they know having personal issues so long as it doesn’t boil down to “nobody wants to have sex with me and it’s yours/women’s fault”. Men are supposed to care that women are being oppressed and being dehumanised (see new anti abortion laws in most USA states now?). All of the examples OP listed about women not caring about is because it’s not actually law based but individualistic and not across the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:03 PM
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Okay? There’s a point to me ignoring them. What does women caring about male victims in violence, deaths in war and homelessness do? Whats the actual solution you are expecting from us? Unless it impacts someone I know personally, no, I don’t care, because it’s not a human rights issue but rather an individualistic issue, and you shouldn’t care about people not in your circle. What are you expecting women to do about those issues, exactly? What will their “care” accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:59 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 child
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:53 PM
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Because what else is the struggle? That is what it comes down to. There is no empathy to be had when men start to BLAME WOMEN for their own personal issues as if it’s somehow women’s fault as a collective. I have empathy about men’s struggles. Real struggles that have nothing to do with women, and nothing to do with a lack of poom poom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:53 PM
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what “point” I’m proving the point by saying men only care when women have it easier for them in some regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:47 PM
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oh yes except still not having you know, basic bodily autonomy in a lot of countries? a majority of being graped/assaulted/abused and the perpetrators going unpunished? some women in some countries not having any rights whatsoever to the point they can’t go outside? not being able to access abortion which is healthcare even if it will kill you if you don’t? you just THINK we are doing better than men in every other area in life just because we are sexually appealing and any man will want us no m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:46 PM
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“Put words in my mouth”, you literally said “you sound angry”. You’re a joke. Debate or don’t reply to the comment on YOUR debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:32 PM
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lol you say that as we as woman STILL don’t have equality despite the efforts of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:31 PM
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Answer the question instead of deflecting. This is your debate, yet you aren’t debating anything and just saying “nah” to everyone debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:30 PM
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Women have a strong tendency to not care about men’s struggles because a majority of men’s struggles are simply “woe is me, nobody finds me attractive, I can’t get pussy like Chad can”. Why would we worry about that? It’s a you issue and it’s burdening us as if it’s somehow women’s fault in any way for having preferences, much like men having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:29 PM
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insecurity is where it’s coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:05 PM
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Again with the women only go after chads and I, as a “man”, won’t settle for less than anything she gave them! Get over yourself. Get over IT. Find someone you are compatible with and love each other for the sake of loving each other. Stop being so fearful and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:05 PM
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Men run on a 24hr hormonal cycle (as they only have testosterone - and the others in very small amounts) whereas women have eostrogen/progesterone/testosterone (testosterone in smaller amounts). Women’s hormones fluctuate over 4 cycles in a 28 day period (menstrual cycle). Men however are much simpler, and with a normal circadian rhythm, start their day with a surge in testosterone and cortisol which improves energy, cognition, endurance and typically invokes arousal. This surge peaks at midday …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:32 AM
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We probably “would be better off with a woman” but that isn’t what influences women to become lesbian. I know I’d 100% be better off with a woman but I am not sexually nor physically attracted to women apart from admiring beauty from time to time. So it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:37 PM
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public referendum/voting DID NOT OCCUR, it was a unilateral decision made by the government. Ukraine’s government, Verkhovna Rada, made of 450 deputies, is approximately 21% women. You cannot say it was solely their decision as even if every woman voted yes, it wouldn’t have been passed if the men voted no. It was not passed onto the people, it was made legislation in house. Also consider that Ukraine has different cultural norms much like Afghani women not having rights and not being able to vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:44 PM
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but they did not do the draft, that was decided by the government ya numpty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:33 PM
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Why are you paranoid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:33 PM
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Yup. Cause waiting 6-8 weeks is such an impossible task lol. How abhorrent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:02 PM
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don’t worry nobody is gonna want children with you anyway boo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:00 PM
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No, no… why would you want that? Then you would have nobody to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:59 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 those mean nothing in court
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:37 PM
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Still, relationship or no relationship, sex is not a need in any context. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:28 PM
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Read your own first sentence. “I would tell you this just isn’t real”. It is. You just don’t experience it because you are privileged to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:27 PM
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Not humans though. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:26 PM
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“She took MY kids”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:24 PM
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Always the men saying it’s not real 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:24 PM
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It’s not a need. You die without needs. It’s a want and a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:23 PM
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Yep. That’s the point I’m trying to prove. They just don’t get it because they aren’t women who have to go through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:00 PM
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Correct! Marriage is especially a big one!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:53 AM
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Correct! Now you get it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:52 AM
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Marriage with the wrong person is definitely slavery. Just a legal kind, which you do not understand, as you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:47 AM
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No, if you find a man that doesn’t make you a slave. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:45 AM
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With the right man. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:39 AM
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Maybe it’s just my Aussie culture but a lot of guys still expect that cause their mums serve them hand and foot and feed them with a silver spoon til they decide to leave the nest at 30 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:36 AM
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even if I have been, nobody here would believe it and would go “oh that’s just your experience though”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:29 AM
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Ughhhhh… tell that to all the dates I’ve been on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:27 AM
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It’s slavery in the sense that men do nothing and women pick up the brunt of the household labour, plus communication, emotional regulation, sex, child rearing all whilst also working themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:08 AM
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Men still think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:08 AM
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That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:06 AM
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I’m mid 20s it is very common, that or they haven’t got their life together and they’re almost 30 yet still live with parents, with no plans to move… shit like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:56 AM
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🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:45 AM
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they definitely do less gang 😭 all the anti gentleman / simp movements
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:45 AM
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Tis a rare type of love these days. Good for you man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:34 AM
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Because some women want to have kids and be a mother. No shame in wanting that and also wanting to be provided for whilst you do to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:25 AM
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Yup, that’s what happens when you open the relationship - you get your flings, the woman gets her flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:19 AM
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For sex. And house work. And bills. That’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:17 AM
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they get upset because you aren’t showing commitment so far in and are still indecisive. Realistically if you’ve been together 3-4+ years you should be popping the question. Less time the more you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:16 AM
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Because if you get to have an open relationship, so does the woman. Maybe those men will give me money or something extra of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:10 AM
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oh my god i have to spell out the proper definition of coercion for a grown ass man child
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:08 AM
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Oh yes I, a nurse who deals with DV victims and sexual assault victims, have “no idea” what coercion means. Maybe look it up, use ChatGPT if you need to for your pea brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:00 AM
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lol then you have to accept your woman having other men too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:00 AM
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Marriage, to a man, is the means by which even the poorest man can have a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:56 AM
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As I said, in all of these cases, if she doesn’t try she is the bad person in the relationship. Expecting her to try is coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:54 AM
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“Sometimes it takes an activity to get started for you to get into the mood” “sometimes you can become aroused after the activity starts”, “a partner who is unwilling to try is a selfish partner”. So, in all of these cases, she would say no - but you keep asking, nagging and persisting anyway until she gives in on the premise that she MAY like it. Coercion 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:51 AM
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Why say “women have two cycles” and not expect to be corrected if you’re absolutely wrong? Why say anything at all if you have no idea what you’re talking about? Men do not understand libido mismatch as they do operate on a 24hr cycle - with a surge of testosterone every morning, that gives them energy and invokes horniness and sexual desire. Women’s fluctuate through the 4 cycles over a 28 day period on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:49 AM
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No. A need is something you fundamentally cannot live without and will likely die without. Maybe look it up. It’s a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:47 AM
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Obviously? What other phase could I possibly be referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:33 AM
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I don’t want to peg a male. I also don’t want anal. So if he wants it first, he’s getting pegged first. The world does revolve around western countries considering you, me and everyone here on this sub live in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:31 AM
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Four, babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:29 AM
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Feminism is equal rights. For my future partner we ain’t having anal unless he lets me peg him too. Equal rights. Show me the stats saying western country females still depend on men at large. For single, working class women in western countries - don’t forget that, cause ya can’t include the countries where women don’t have rights! 🤩 IT IS A NEED. BECAUSE YOU WONT DIE WITHOUT IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:25 AM
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lmaooooooo go to church you shouldn’t be saying such profane words
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:21 AM
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He’s literally talking about coercion / forceful sex. If she just tries, she “may” like it. He doesn’t give a fuck about what his woman actually wants
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:17 AM
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Sometimes but not always, and that’s bordering coercion / forceful sex which is not legal in many countries or morally acceptable. You are the selfish partner if you force or coerce your partner because she “might” feel like it “once it starts”, because you are literally coercing, guilting and using other tactics for that to “start” in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:16 AM
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God doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:15 AM
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But how did you get from scientific statistics to cultural statistics? Where and why? I never mentioned culture and yet you skewed the conversation that way. Menstrual cycles, PMS and the likes, and fluctuations in hormones simply aren’t cultural no matter how much you try to say otherwise. They are real lived experiences. So stop talking culture and talk science if you are a nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:15 AM
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I love that your “male rights” activism is just pure misogyny and anti feminism. Men don’t provide the “most money” anymore it’s 2026 not 1990, there is no gender pay gap. Any woman can earn as much as a man, sometimes more, if she works the same role and has the qualifications. Sex isn’t a need. Needs are food, water, shelter (warmth/temperature control/protection from elements), money. Sex doesn’t fall in a “need” but a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:13 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA awwwwww you want to fuck women anally but won’t take it up the ass yourself? Be a man and grit your teeth and bear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:09 AM
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LOLLLLLL okay so if that’s the women’s role what’s the man’s role? Just fuck and be happy? Don’t give a shit about what your partner wants or doesn’t want?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:07 AM
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??? No? Because it’s actual hormonal changes and disruptions that FORCE their behaviour that way. Not culture. I have no idea what tf you are on about and I’m literally a nurse and you’re trying to tell me I’m wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:06 AM
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I have no idea what you’re on about. I’m talking about hormonal and endocrine disruptions throughout the cycle. Not cultural ideas. Whatever tf that means
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:03 AM
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Trying to be a man? lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:03 AM
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Considering a woman is the one dealing with being vaginally / anally / orally penetrated, I would say her sexual needs and preferences are much greater than that of the man’s. Food for thought. Once you clean up semen out of your vagina and have to sit on the toilet for a while after a man has dumped their load in you, or have a slight tingle of wee in the morning, or have a pregnancy scare, maybe you can comment on equal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:59 AM
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What defines “cultural ideas”? You can’t just throw words out there with unrelated numbers and hope it lands.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:58 AM
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Yes, except, some animal species such as female ferrets die without sex/reproducing. Humans have evolved to not need sex, it is just a desire, a want, and a plus to have. It’s not even “sex” that men “need” - it is just the sensation to ejaculate and release hormones and semen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:57 AM
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Good. If my guy lets me peg him, then we can have sex if it’s all “equal”. If not, then stew in your bitterness. Only once your holes have been ravaged can you comment on whose needs should be “equal”. None of you have to deal with the mess and complications of sex with a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:55 AM
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I would love to see your chat gpt generated studies that say menstrual cycles don’t affect women’s libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:54 AM
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“Basic right”. LMFAOOOO. Sex is not a human right, nor is it a need. It’s a want and privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:52 AM
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Of course it’s never optimal for men lmao, they’re all horn dogs - look on deadbedrooms at the amount of HLM and LLF. I’m speaking for a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:52 AM
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It’s companionship, having a “partner” for life to depend on and them you, be friends, have fun and not be lonely. Companionship doesn’t equal sex in every instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:47 AM
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wooow, a sample group of 47… what did these people do for work? do they have kids? what are their ages? Does their male partner meet their other needs and fulfill them emotionally and physically? Are they mentally stable and happy? All things you have to consider with libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:32 AM
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Getting fucked isn’t something you have to compromise on in any situation unless you’re a sex worker. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:25 AM
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1 a week when you’d rather not do it at all when stressed is definitely commitment. Nobody “must” compromise, the men aren’t getting their holes ravaged, the women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:18 AM
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But then that’s the fault of the man for over compensating and pulling out all stops?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:15 AM
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Yeah, IF THE MAN IS MADE OF MONEY. No average woman is staying with an average bloke if she doesn’t love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:09 AM
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why would I stay with someone pretending to love them? You’re too online. That rarely happens unless he’s made of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:08 AM
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Mostly 1 from all the women I’ve asked. Some answer 1-2 a fortnight, so let’s just say 1 a week for simplicity. Everyone here is busy and exhausted, working non stop, with or without kids paying off our ever increasing interests on our mortgage. We’ve just been hit with yet another interest hike which will see some couples out a few hundred extra a month. Nurses and blue collars especially are exhausted. Couples with kids especially are exhausted too. It’s the new norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:07 AM
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Explain how then, kind gentleman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:05 AM
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You act as if I only talk to nurses Patients… friends… family… Everyone in a long term relationship with or without kids averages sex 1-2 times a week max
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:04 AM
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God forbid men who are successful in relationships actually want to provide, and do things for the woman they love. Foreign concept to you I’m guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:03 AM
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🤣😭🥀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:02 AM
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I’ve been with 2 men and I’m now single by choice to work on my life and my job. How is it a me issue, if every man I’ve ever gone on a date with reveals these childish attributes within the first hour?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:01 AM
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The other party, if they care about their female counterpart more than their own pleasure, also benefits knowing she is happy and healthy and not fostering resentment towards him through forced sex. Men have their hand which works just as well if not better for pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:01 AM
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I work with 150+ female nurses lol and we talk about sex / libido more than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:00 AM
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It doesn’t have to be healthy if at least one person in the relationship benefits from it - being the woman, who does not have a constant surge of hormones every morning that increase their libido and energy. If you can’t see that, it is selfish. Men have other means of pleasure - also known as their hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:56 AM
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No, it’s a, “men are selfish and immature and unable to pull their weight in adult relationships” issue. I’m not gonna be happy if I have to act as a man’s mother. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:54 AM
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It is for most women. It would be for dead bedroom redditors. 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:54 AM
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Yeah it’s fucking 2026 we don’t have a choice, idk what OP is on 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:53 AM
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It’s literally the average for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:51 AM
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Yeah, the inverse is true and they HATE when you say it. YOUR PARTNER’s NEEDS SHOULD COME AT THE TOP - EXACTLY! BY NOT FORCING HER TO HAVE SEX AND FOSTERING RESENTMENT!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:48 AM
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Congrats! You are not the average!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:47 AM
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Enjoyable for them, it’s not enjoyable for me if I’m not in the moment and too stressed out. The inverse is true. Y’all forget that. If you have to force your partner into sex to be happy, maybe THEY should reevaluate your commitment to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:46 AM
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Bit different when women go through and lose so much physically, emotionally and financially by having children. Physical - changes to her body, growing a child for 9 months (exhaustion, cramps, oedema, HR / BP changes, sleep disturbances, increased appetite and weight gain, etc), breast feeding with sore, tender breasts and milk duct clogs, physical detriment during childbirth via vaginal (tears), or C section (muscle repair = longer) Emotional - hormonal fluctuations, losing a majority of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:34 AM
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I honestly don’t see any of the women on here saying “all men”, I think we are all pretty reasonable knowing it’s not “all” lol but just “most” when it comes to statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:30 AM
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Love language as “touch” gives me the biggest ick when they actually just mean “sex”. The actual creator of love languages excluded sex from the physical touch love language - it moreso means hugs, cuddles, holding hands, back rubs, physical closeness without sex. I see men say it on dating apps all the time and argue with them about it. I have low libido but it will be non existent if I feel forced or uncomfortable because of the man pushing it and proclaiming it’s his love language/“need”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:29 AM
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they’re just a bit of a pick me, definitely not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:27 AM
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Except we also need to work, pay bills, pay taxes, vote, do chores, ya know… being human
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:25 AM
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Yep, fosters soooo much resentment if you ask me. And people then say “if you cared about your partner you’d fulfill your needs” - the inverse is true, if they cared about me they’d not force me to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:24 AM
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Yes, and the inverse is true. Your partners needs (lower libido) should come at the top and that means not having sex if they aren’t up to it. Else you’re just in for a world of fostering resentment and unhappiness. Use your hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:23 AM
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That’s not what I said whatsoever gang wtf 🤣🤣🤣 cherry picking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:22 AM
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🤣 The difference between animals and children is that they don’t have to go to work, pay the bills and pay tax. They eat, drink, shit/piss, sleep and reproduce. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:22 AM
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The anti abortion clauses? Many children are the results of force. Many children are unwanted, and they can’t have abortions. Are you living in 2026 or 2020?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:20 AM
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Not all men, they say most men - the ones that say all are just those radical feminists not worth discussing with. But that’s a different debate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:19 AM
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Yes also in the west… hence the USA… 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:18 AM
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??? They don’t have a choice if no man steps up to provide for them. You’re confused
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:18 AM
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Bro’s post history is crazy 😭 13 May 2026: “So called 'hantavirus' is the result of 26ghz (5g) activating the nanotechnology in the covid injections.” 6 April 2026: “There are now several studies that show that the covid shots damage the brain, resulting in psychological issues.” 16 March 2026: “I can't be the only one who has noticed personality changes in people who got the covid fake vaccines.” 9 March 2026: “If men focused more on personality and character, women would have alot less options…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:18 AM
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A lot in the past few years, yes. A lot in undeveloped countries due to forced marriages, incest, access to medical care, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:14 AM
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Okay, so if women don’t have to have children, then stop looking for women that want children perhaps? Choose a child free life, where you will be free of your internal obligations of not wanting to be a provider for anyone including someone you love dearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:14 AM
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I mean, when does that happen? Unless you’re referring to the man or the bear, which is not comparing them but saying women would choose the bear. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:13 AM
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that’s… not all it is about the 4 different stages each have their own hormonal fluctuations. Ovulation naturally increases horniness, but the other stages cause exhaustion, soreness, lethargy, etc. which for most women reduces libido drastically If you’re also not using protection you’re limited as to when you can have sex naturally
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:13 AM
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Correction, how it works for most working women in adult relationships - if all their needs are met they are keen to have sex. I would be too. But no man has ever fulfilled my needs to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:11 AM
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They don’t want to but a large part of where women live aren’t given a choice to get rid of said children (abortion - illegal in US and developing countries, where women don’t have rights!) The birth rate has DRASTICALLY declined. So what are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:09 AM
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This is a bit much though… comparing women to animals? I didn’t know animals had to work, pay the bills and pay taxes these days. Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:08 AM
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…what No woman chooses to have a bad birth or emergency C section. No woman chooses to have a prolonged recovery. And you say they don’t have to do it - who else is gonna look after the kid if you can’t afford day care, and can’t even support her? You realise it takes months to return to work postpartum right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:06 AM
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If you want kids with a woman you NEED to be able to provide long enough for growth, birth and many months postpartum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:04 AM
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What? What about the woman and all she sacrifices - physically, emotionally, financially? Bigoted take
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:04 AM
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Thank god for that. He’d probably expect his future mother of his children to go back to work a few days post partum cause “it’s not that serious” and “animals do it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:03 AM
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Who else is gonna pay for the kid whilst she can’t work though after birth let’s be real. Or if they don’t want to send the kid to daycare 🤣 What a joke. Women having kids “shouldn’t” expect to be provided for even though we grow the kid, birth it, sometimes breastfeed it, and have to recover from the birth and sometimes stay home and lose income, job experience and super for retirement in the process. Abysmal that we expect to be provided for whilst sacrificing our physical health with a high r…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:59 AM
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Comparing women and birth to “animals” as well, what the fuck? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:57 AM
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They don’t give a fuck that a woman goes through growing the baby for 9 months, breastfeeding, recovery from C section/vaginal tears, and it’s more financially advisable for a parent to stay home with the kid than it is to send them to daycare… But them expecting to be provided for whilst any of the above happens is just abysmal, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:57 AM
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I feel like they confuse the gold digger women with women who just want to have a family and have themselves and their children financially looked after whilst doing so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:56 AM
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“Which even animals can do”… what kinda animal pops out human kids? lmfao Yes, if you want kids you need to have the ability to be a “provider”. What if she dies in childbirth? Has antepartum or postpartum issues and can’t work? What about close to a year OR MORE if you choose to have her stay at home to save money instead of sending the kid to childcare that she’s losing in PERSONAL income, JOB EXPERIENCE and having to explain a large gap in her resume, and super for her retirement (pretty sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:51 AM
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It’s very uncommon tbh, I agree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:34 AM
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That’s not how it works? But sure, keep trying to explain how it works for ME.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:32 AM
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not for me 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:30 AM
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Probably because your partner fulfills your other needs I suppose. Most men these days don’t do that. Sex is the first thing that goes out the window for me when exhausted/stressed/needs not met and it’s the last thing to come back
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:26 AM
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Attraction is fine, but honestly when I’m exhausted or even slightly stressed, I don’t want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:25 AM
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Once a week is optimal in any relationship and most men don’t understand that, because they work on a 24 hour cycle whereas women work on 28 days. And also, anyone who works a hard job knows that sometimes sex is the last thing you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:20 AM
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yeah except you just start to resent women because YOU are bad so either way you aren’t going to make much progress with that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:33 PM
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no she won’t, because women in general hate cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:26 PM
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One worded answers / staring at their phone is a cue they are uncomfortable. If you aren’t doing it right you’re doing it wrong and should just not try until you perfect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:23 PM
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Okay? Don’t put in the work for us then - nobody is forcing you at gun point. The men who put in the “legwork” as you call it are the ones that win though. You aren’t owed anything from women. Women aren’t going to make it “obvious” to be “easier” for the men that don’t understand, cause you can just be a big boy and figure out social cues and communication by yourself. FYI, approaching women is nowhere near submissive. It shows confidence and a big ego which translates to dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:18 PM
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Show me then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:37 AM
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Shhhh don’t let them know, that’s common sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:02 AM
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That doesn’t mean those guys are good at relationships, or I am. And that view is so conceited and invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 12:59 AM
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BECAUSE ITS YOUR POST.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:21 PM
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Idk, police profile everyone. Doesn’t mean they’re gonna get charged so I don’t see anything wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:17 PM
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Profiling?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:13 PM
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why would I mention the good men do? this is a debate about the bad lol the “good” men do isn’t enough for us women to feel safe, to be able to go for a walk at night, go to the club and leave our drink unprotected, go to the gym and not be looked at, not be able to reject men in person in fear of retaliation I’m a nurse at the end of the day, I don’t need any “man” to protect me from big bad guys, considering I do it myself at my job. If a man assaulted me, I would never stop until he goes to j…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:00 PM
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So, you made a statement. A statement isn’t a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:57 PM
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Then you wouldn’t have made the post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:55 PM
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Yeah gang it’s 2am on night shift. Oops, I forgot I’m sub human and not allowed to make errors. Violence definition is “intentional use of physical force or power”. “High likelihood of causing injury, death, psychological harm or deprivation”. So yes. We are referring to physically violent crimes. I wouldn’t say women are just as violent as men, considering that the average or even above average woman cannot physically overpower any average adult male when it comes down to it. There’s also no st…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:50 PM
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Nobody does this lmfao rarely any women goon mate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:43 PM
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Error, I keep saying >90% of violent crimes are by men. That’s what I mean. Gets a bit repetitive. Verbally and social abuse ≠ violence btw. We are obviously, as anyone would assume, talking about violence - physical, sexual, the like, that causes physical harm. And regarding generalisations. nah. I don’t think women being whores is the same as men being violent. Considering, you know, it’s not violent, or against the law, or causing anyone harm and is mostly just done as a form of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:40 PM
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Okay? How does it impact you personally if you aren’t one of those men, and what do you want done about it? What’s the outcome you are wanting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:35 PM
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It’s your post mate. You replied with a vague comment and no actual claims. It’s up to you to voice your ”issue”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:29 PM
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it’s because he doesn’t actually have an answer. his whole post is just because he, and other men, feel like they are victims with the generalised statements from women. there’s nothing to solve, it just hurts their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:19 PM
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he doesn’t have any issues lmao he just feels offended and patronised
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:17 PM
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yes, it’s okay to generalise and exercise caution for your safety against your only natural predator IF THE STATISTICS are so great that you would be stupid not to Some countries do adopt that standard. You can go live in Afghanistan if that’s something you want, fortunately I do not feel I need to be protected by a man, I just don’t want to be assaulted by one, hence my and a majority of other women’s caution. Thanks 🤩 The argument is the statistics my friend. Nuff said. You have nothing to ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:16 PM
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okay, sure. but >90% of men commit violent crimes as opposed to 10% of women. so therefore the implication is that the 90% (men) is more violent than the 10% (women). Not everyone is bad. But it’s good to exercise caution considering that 90% remains consistent across the board regardless of country/location, time period, religion/culture, socioeconomics or demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:08 PM
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yes, women should treat any man they don’t know or trust as if they have the potential to be violent. considering they are our only natural predator in this world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:58 PM
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“13% of 50%”… so, 6.5% total out of 100%?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:57 PM
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… okay? doesn’t change the fact that men are naturally stronger and bigger than women… so yes, we should exercise caution
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:56 PM
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Nobody is saying it’s a majority of men… are you daft? It’s saying that the people who do commit the violent crimes are largely, by a majority, men. Not that a majority of men commit crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:37 PM
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lmao just ignored everything I said to tout the same bs in different paragraphs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:36 PM
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Yes, considering there’s no stats to support that statement Whereas there’s plenty stating >90% of violent crimes are committed by men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:34 PM
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Oh my god that’s common sense… it’s 90% of the violent crimes committed are committed by men, not 90% of men commit violent crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:33 PM
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Well, I do see men as people of course… never said I didn’t. I am just extremely cautious of who I am friends with, who I pursue, and who I allow in my circle. For my own safety. Ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:52 PM
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nah, just being a woman in 2026 and knowing not to trust men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:45 PM
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Because red pill / manosphere content is too prevalent in 2026, god knows how big it will be when my potential male child grows up. Not even any amount of good parenting can stop peer pressure, peer cohesion and a deprecating self image looking for something to blame. I also fear having a girl. For the same reasons that she may be a victim. But besides the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:43 PM
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It isn’t wrong to exercise a belief that women need to be cautious around men. 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:41 PM
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I also hope I don’t have male children. Thanks 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:40 PM
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Nobody said they’re the majority my guy… they’re the majority in leading statistics, not as a whole in the male populous. Not sure what your question is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:39 PM
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Yep, and now the male uber drivers are crying because uber now has a female driver for female passengers only option. But not all men, right? We are too out of line to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:38 PM
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Yes radical feminists online are saying it. Just like incels blame women for their own problems and failures. But that is not a reflection of a majority of our society’s populous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:36 PM
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Yup. 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:36 PM
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??? I don’t see your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:35 PM
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So, you send me one article (not study or statistic) stating that male victims access crisis services less? Have you ever thought that that’s because male victims don’t report, or feel the need to access services? And yet, there are still so many women that don’t report, and they still lead the fucking numbers. Crazy, right? The number of genders accessing crisis services is not an indicator of total gender victims, just fyi. Regarding your second link - said study is from fucking Africa, in 200…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:34 PM
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Never implied that whatsoever tbh, even said nobody is blaming “all men”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:29 PM
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it’s really not, what I’ve said does not correlate to racism or any other statistic considering it cannot be compared to such
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:27 PM
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Because we are subhuman to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:26 PM
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Do indulge me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:26 PM
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Righto so saying “not all men but mostly men” is somehow the equivalent of racism?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:24 PM
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Still didn’t explain how in “misusing” statistics. Yawn. Do show me the more “even split” statistics when it comes to DV. I’d be keen to peruse your sources. Not sure what infanticide or child abuse has to do with this but I also assure you men lead the statistics as well. Ask anybody - would they trust a 40 year old male teacher with 10 years of teaching experience completely competent in first aid or a teenage girl with no experience to babysit their child? The answer will always be women, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:23 PM
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If you aren’t one of the men that commits violent crimes, then you have no reason to be insulted. You aren’t part of the demographic. Nobody is blaming you, women are just exercising caution around men - considering sexual assault statistics from men are typically from the people closest to them including family members and partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:20 PM
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he’s just gaslighting you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:19 PM
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Chosen specifics? As in, a very large issue (any form of assault and domestic violence)? Explain how I’m missing the statistics? If there’s another demographic with such prevalent statistics, do feel free to show me and maybe my views will sway. But there’s not. There’s definitely no statistics that say “women melt down at anyone that shines poorly on them”, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:18 PM
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You did. “The question is, when are we gonna discuss any real solutions to that broad problem of some men behaving badly?” That is you asking, and saying, why are all men grouped as bad, because of the actions of a few, and how can men who aren’t bad benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:15 PM
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lol what 😭😭😭 you are spending too much time looking into radical feminism if that’s what you truly believe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:14 PM
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nobody is blaming ALL men let’s be real. If it’s “not all men”, then maybe use your logic and start thinking “not all women” blame all men, are sluts with high body counts, gold diggers or only go after chads for example. Men love to interject on women’s lived experiences only when it affects us. But I don’t see any of you using that logic when it comes to perceiving women as people, and not generalised stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:13 PM
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Because men only bring up “not all men” when women are talking about issues that affect them at large such as rape and DV. Only when we say things about men do men suddenly care and say “oh, but not ALL men”. But you guys won’t use the same logic for “not all women”. Not all women are sluts, gold diggers and go for chads for example. Stop interjecting upon women’s lived experiences. No woman is genuinely going around thinking ALL men are the same and are all rapists/abusers, we know there are go…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:11 PM
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If you aren’t one of those bad men, why are you bothered? Genuinely how does it affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:09 PM
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You can’t say “most men don’t rape”, because that’s not related to the topic. It’s not about how many men do or don’t do xyz. It’s about the statistics in DV, murder, physical and verbal assault being led by men in most cases >80%. That’s not saying most men do it - it’s saying that most people that DO do it are men. What do you have to take responsibility for if you aren’t one of the men that do it? Men that get defensive in this topic typically are the offenders/misognyists, or the same people…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:08 PM
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Except there is no other group, apart from men, in statistics that remains this bad across the board regardless of country, socioeconomic status and culture/religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:05 PM
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not saying I’m prejudiced, just explaining why other women think that way. doesn’t mean I’m out here being a misandrist. it’s just factual
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:50 PM
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but racism stereotyping is not >80% of particular statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:50 PM
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yea because news flash men lead the statistics in both murder and sexual assault regardless of the victim’s gender. so yes, it’s not all men, but it is mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:44 PM
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I’m neurodivergent and still learnt in highschool… it’s not an excuse tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:27 PM
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95% of people are plenty nice from the get go… just maybe not your boss or coworkers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:26 PM
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There ain’t any, he’s just addicted to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:14 PM
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For sure, because they (men) can’t do that. They’re sexually attracted or not at all. And if they even think their bros look nice, that’s “gay”. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:56 AM
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I genuinely can’t wrap my head around what you’re trying to debate here Genuine nice guys don’t have to insist they are nice to get a chance with women. You could also be nice as pie but not capable of pulling your weight in a relationship, communicating and regulating yourself and not being selfish - it just doesn’t work that way. Niceness doesn’t guarantee you relationship success, same applies to attractiveness. Personally I will not give “nice guys” that have nothing else going for them a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:53 AM
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This post is just trying to fulfill your lesbian porn fetish. I am a woman and I am NOT attracted to women, but I can admire their beauty. Doesn’t mean I want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:09 AM
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what 😂 crazy fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:09 AM
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… how’s that women’s fault when it was men’s decision
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:46 AM
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💖💖💖 spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:45 AM
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