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Dude, you're overthinking this. Get that date before some else does.
/r/seduction01/06/19 01:29 AM
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Smile and make jokes on their purchases.
/r/seduction26/05/19 07:43 PM
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You don't turn down attention, talk to them. Practice your jokes, eye contact, tone and conversation skills. You don't have to sleep with them but if you practice, you'll be ready when you find someone you actually want to be serious with. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction26/05/19 07:40 PM
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Your 26. Your still young, so I don't see it as a bad thing. The way you phrased it can come off as creepy. "Decade younger". They're your peers so treat them as such. If you do, you won't have an issue. My recommendation is stick to +21 they tend bit more mature.
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:52 AM
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Find a good one after trying by yourself.
/r/seduction18/04/19 12:22 AM
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Well what's the issue? You still want the relationship or is it hard approach other women or is it lack of the loss of someone not being there that makes you lost??
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:18 PM
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Give it time.
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:12 PM
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The guy's response above is pretty good. But it takes practice. In high school holding hands usually means she has an interest in you. One of my favorite moves in high school was to play a 1v1 game (doesn't matter what type) if I won I would give her a kiss and say it was a 'punishment' or 'reward' for letting me win depending on her competitiveness.
/r/seduction28/03/19 05:39 PM
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Have you held her hand? If yes, you can try to kiss her. If no, you start there
/r/seduction28/03/19 04:38 AM
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With confidence
/r/seduction13/03/19 02:33 PM
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But if you don't tie her down someone else will. A life lesson will be learned here. Don't be afraid to lose because you will lose so much more if your indecisive. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/03/19 01:25 PM
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Play it cool, bro. Pretend the conversation didn't happen. If she wants a date she'll eventually respond. Since it's the beginning of the semester don't ask her again and make it awkward. Just pretend it didn't phase you. Right before a test ask her to be your study partner. Make sure you know your stuff and help her if she doesn't understand.
/r/seduction10/03/19 01:20 AM
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Damn. This reminds me of my first love. it was 5 year relationship. I was so devastated over her. months went on and I seriously could not get her out of my mind. The more i pushed away the more i would think about her, there was not a single minute i would not think about her. So i decided to go rock climbing without ropes to show myself i could stop thinking about her and focus on myself. The amount of adrenaline that day was insane and i almost died a couple times but it was worth it. At the …
/r/seduction10/03/19 01:03 AM
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Jealously is jealously. Its an emotion we feel regardless of whether we want to don't. For example mostly everyone who suffers a broken heart always feels jealousy regardless of how hard you try to avoid it. It's just how it is. Whether it's productive or not? is not really a question. How do you manage these overwhelming feelings? This the better question in my experience. Some do it by understanding emotions as a whole and how to react to them. (Analytical) Some override their emotions and foc…
/r/seduction25/02/19 10:33 PM
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Over a year... I felt that. Just continue to focus yourself stop communication with her.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:32 AM
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Bro, everyone has their niche. Some people are smart, some people are hardworking, some people are funny and some people fit. Point is Play to your strength. While I do encourage everyone to to hit the gym I don't think it's necessary. Good hygiene, haircut, clean set of clothes and a good set of canned lines you have practiced will get you pretty far. Im 30 pounds overweight and 5'8" maybe a 6/10 on a good day and I do pretty good. Sure fitness can give OP some confidence that but takes time (a…
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:55 AM
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Not always the case but if OP is busy that should OP's approach. Being busy= attractive. Just don't be arrogant and make 'what you do' sound interesting.
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:20 AM
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Maybe you don't know this but this can be endless cycle, if you stop and think about how you feel you'll realize that you are jealous and you love her and hold on to those feelings even more and as a result you will make this an extreme mountain to climb. Instead, you focus on another aspects of your life and realize "she" isn't everything and you can live without her. This probably what they meant. Everyone has the own experience and truly want to help others so please read comments with an ope…
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:07 AM
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First and foremost I would like to thank you for your input. You see any problem and you want to try to fix it and I respect that. But I just want to let you know I do not agree with your input on this subject. While I do agree that objectifying women is a bad thing, I don't agree that this is what most people on this sub want to accomplish nor what will happen. Many want rules and patterns to understand society because they really can't see it. So yes, the rules and pattern can a bit generic an…
/r/seduction25/02/19 12:43 AM
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Lol. Hook up with her friends also does the trick. ;) sometimes.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:33 PM
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Yeah no contact is best. For a bit. While on your break try to see if there are some things you can change and somethings that you would like her to change. Be realistic. If she comes back, try again maybe go to counseling. Or try to negotiate change in the relationship. Always ask if she sees you in her future. If she can't see you in her future, walk away no point in staying. Whatever you do don't do the same thing. If y'all keep doing the same thing it's going to nothing but heartbreak. Good …
/r/seduction13/01/19 01:26 AM
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Just randomly text her. Nothing serious but keep a connection and if she comes back in the summer catch up. Don't stop your life for her tho
/r/seduction06/01/19 06:37 PM
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Alright let me blow your mind, women are everywhere. Don't be picky see one go after her. Go out whenever you have some free time. go to bars, grocery store, restaurants, mall and parks. If you really have a no luck there meetups are great too. As far as my earlier advice don't use it just yet, talk to women and learn some social cues first.
/r/seduction05/01/19 02:20 AM
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If you hear 'your funny', 'no one has made me laugh this much', 'stop being silly' just say "let's go have sex" then hold out your hand and if she gives you her hand proceed all the way to your apt. Self confidence is everything, if your nervous just walk in front of her and don't let her see your nervous face. If you have the balls carry her to let her know your serious. If she hesitates to take your hand or does not just laugh it off, since your funny it shouldn't be too hard.
/r/seduction04/01/19 06:38 PM
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That was bi far the hardest thing to read, such sucky advice. Haha
/r/seduction04/01/19 12:43 PM
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34? That's your prime. go out and find happiness. I definitely suggest you try and find someone who in speaks in your native tongue sometimes cultural barriers can be difficult to overcome. Good luck
/r/seduction02/01/19 07:27 PM
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If you see something that should get done, ask to help or volunteer to do it. Shake hands and try to learn their inside jokes.
/r/seduction02/01/19 03:35 AM
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I mean this isn't ideal but maybe you could lower your standards. And if that doesn't work try and make friends with a random guy. If you can't make friends with another guy it's definitely your lack in communication skills, specifically making a conversation fun or interesting, and you should work on that. If you can make friends, then it's probably your intent. Also do field reports they help a lot.
/r/seduction08/11/18 11:56 PM
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Well maybe. If you gave or they have the impression that it's serious then it might get ugly. I don't believe dating two people is a bad thing, just don't give them the impression they are your one and only. Also don't get jealous if they also see other people.
/r/seduction12/10/18 02:21 AM
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Don't talk, don't text, don't even look in her direction. This is the best advice i can give you. You have to move on and if she wants you, she'll come back but only if you move on. It's weird but if i would have done this in past relationship I would have been back together with my ex guaranteed.
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:28 AM
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I don't really have a lot of time but i do meet a lot of people during the day. I will accept this challenge because i was in a committed relationship once and it was great; but i was young and i felt like i really wanted to do something like this. And now that im single again and way confident i think its time to do it. I strongly suggest to all those who are single to enjoy it.
/r/seduction11/10/18 01:43 AM
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Honestly, this is the best advice you can get on this topic, try to be Adaptable and competent.
/r/seduction08/10/18 02:27 AM
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Just join a couple sub on Reddit that focus on comedy and and just continually read jokes for five minutes, practice saying jokes for another 5 and occasionally try to make up some jokes everyday. Eventually the jokes will naturally come to you and you'll be able to make her laugh. Remember it not much about what you say to girls its how you say that makes you sound interesting
/r/seduction07/10/18 03:51 PM
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I all understood from this article is 1. photoshop and a couple of jokes off Reddit go a long way. 2. The first message must show her you care.
/r/seduction07/10/18 08:19 AM
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I wish this was announced earlier. I would have canceled a couple meeting this weekend and booked a flight.
/r/seduction06/10/18 07:02 AM
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Just spend sometime with her. Make her feel special but don't give her to much of your time. Focus on your future and you'll be fine
/r/seduction01/10/18 01:18 AM
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This is true.
/r/seduction30/09/18 07:44 AM
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always compliment the shoes or make fun of them. That's always a good start.
/r/seduction30/09/18 12:10 AM
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If it's one time thing. Just don't text her and say you post your phone. If her neediness is going to be a problem then you need to end it or talk to her about it. if she doesn't get the attention she needs from you then she will find it from someone else.
/r/seduction29/09/18 11:51 PM
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I really dislike pua not because they promise to get you girl with no substance but because they over complicate everything. Go to the club. 1. Take a shot. Wait 10 minutes 2. Pick up a couple beta males (go to the dance and look at all the dudes that, want to talk to girls but are too shy. tell them to follow you and you'll get some girls to dance with them) 3. Now that your alpha go the girl's friends tell them, your betas find them cute and pair them up before they say anything. Offer your ha…
/r/seduction27/09/18 02:55 AM
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