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Is your height on your dating profile?
/r/seduction11/08/24 09:10 PM
2

Wtf is “leading the frame”?
/r/seduction11/08/24 04:21 AM
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I think the culture might have something to do with it. Is she aware that you’re from a similar background? If she is, she might be trying to put you in the long term relationship box rather than short term. Which means that she’s likely looking for signs that you’ll stick around after sex and won’t just drop her. What are your intentions with her and how much of a “scumbag” are you comfortable with being?
/r/seduction03/08/24 05:06 PM
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Bad analogy. It’s more like saying “if someone likes your work, they’ll make an effort to finish it.” You PUA scammers need to accept that there are some women who just won’t like you no matter what.
/r/seduction01/08/24 09:35 AM
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Think of it like a famous rockstar telling you how easy it is to smash groupies and then giving you advice.
/r/seduction26/07/24 12:25 PM
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lol can we stop putting women on a pedestal with this shit. They just as superficial as we are as a whole. A woman might not care about tattoos but she might still care about your facial attributes or height.
/r/seduction26/07/24 12:00 AM
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Face > body. Even if your low bf affects your face, there are some parts that will never change, particularly the proportions of and distance between various facial features.
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:51 AM
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You gotta be attractive still.
/r/seduction21/07/24 03:42 AM
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What gave you the impression that it could have? Did she say or do anything in particular?
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:45 PM
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Did it lead to anything
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:42 PM
1

This is the sort of practical and measurable advice I like to see.
/r/seduction20/07/24 09:27 PM
2

The strategy is to cancel and say that something came up. Sometimes the best strategy is harsh.
/r/seduction16/07/24 01:28 PM
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Stop lying. Women do care about face. No, you don’t have to be a male model but you need to meet the minimum threshold for that particular woman.
/r/seduction15/07/24 10:47 AM
2

So she basically asked you out then you went and said “If I like you, then we will see”. Women hate rejection. Even if you were joking, it was the wrong time. When a woman is trying to escalate, you must never impede.
/r/seduction09/07/24 12:01 PM
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It’s possible but unless you’re very good looking, it is going to be extremely hard. At your age having no education or job is not the end of the world, but it’ll make it harder for to have easy conversations and build rapport, especially since you have social anxiety.
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:56 AM
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You still need some sort of physical tangible value for this to work. Otherwise, women will just think you’re gay or inexperienced rather than having an abundance of options.
/r/seduction29/06/24 05:15 PM
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Give an example
/r/seduction28/06/24 10:47 AM
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The key is physically standing out in some way and being social then you let the momentum build.
/r/seduction28/06/24 09:15 AM
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What is your country?
/r/seduction27/06/24 05:27 PM
0

My method is to simply get another woman
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:54 PM
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There are different ways to be needy, not just one lol. What you described still falls under the definition I gave.
/r/seduction20/06/24 07:11 PM
1

Your definition of neediness is also flawed. The definition is right there in the word. Being needy means you lack something or are in need of something. That something, in regards to seduction, is validation from a woman. When you’re needy you come across as if you need a woman which implies desperation which usually means you can’t get other women which implies you are of low value.
/r/seduction20/06/24 02:18 PM
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Basic social skills + proper escalation
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:11 PM
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You’re not the problem. It’s the guys you’re choosing. You’re doing exactly what a guy wants. But the guys you want likely have a lot of women, who may be hotter than you, also doing the same things. I’m NOT telling you to date men you don’t find attractive. I’m just giving some insight on why you may be getting these results. Playing games will only work on the men with no options. I can only give you generic advice without more information such as some demographic info on the guys, where you m…
/r/seduction08/06/24 11:03 PM
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Women care more about face than body, but being in shape helps with your face.
/r/seduction04/06/24 01:00 PM
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Neediness is the number one killer of attraction.
/r/seduction02/06/24 11:35 AM
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Women care more about your face than your height. Good looking short guys pull more women than average looking or ugly tall guys.
/r/seduction02/06/24 11:11 AM
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All funny fat guys are not walking around with hot girlfriends. That is a myth that comes from television.
/r/seduction31/05/24 09:55 AM
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The same way you attract any woman — by being physically attractive to them. Their race only matters if you’re trying to learn how to build rapport with or befriend them. But as far as attracting goes, they just need to like how you look.
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:48 PM
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Do you mind telling me what city this was? I swear I know someone who this happened to last night also
/r/seduction20/05/24 11:32 AM
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The thing is, if you’re not physically her type, nothing you say to her in cold approach will matter. Women are not going to meet up with a stranger they don’t even find attractive. A fellow classmate or coworker they don’t find attractive? Sure. But not a total stranger. And if you are her type, she’ll give you a lot of leeway when it comes to texting. So, you are better off just moving quickly. My confidence shot through the roof when I accepted that women either like you or don’t and there is…
/r/seduction18/05/24 12:36 PM
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They just happen to find you attractive the most. You’ll just have to work harder than the prettyboys to find the women you want. Don’t feel too bad. There are guys out here who can’t get fat women.
/r/seduction17/05/24 09:48 PM
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Can you give us a concrete example?
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:58 AM
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I don’t think you actually have an explanation.
/r/seduction16/05/24 09:56 AM
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We’re competing with the best of the best over here. There is no shortage of male models and millionaires.
/r/seduction13/05/24 12:08 AM
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Face matters more than height to most women.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:14 AM
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No NYC is one of the hardest in the world. Majority of the guys here are not seeing the same success as OP. The women here are extra picky despite outnumbering the men. It is a zero sum game.
/r/seduction12/05/24 10:59 AM
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Yeah that’s not common.
/r/seduction09/05/24 09:47 AM
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Status > Looks > Money. I call these things hard value. Personality is soft value
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:47 PM
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Most people on Reddit say that looks don’t matter at all.
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:44 PM
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What bothers me is that people deny it.
/r/seduction08/05/24 03:44 PM
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Good example. A woman expending effort is the only reliable choosing signal. Glances take no effort at all.
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:05 AM
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Give an example of the body because I imagine that’s where most guys get stuck.
/r/seduction06/05/24 12:49 PM
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Yes, it’s all about escalation. She has to leave the date feeling like the relationship is progressing. If she is attractive, there will be several other men trying to make moves on her. Out of the ones that she likes, she will pick whoever has made the most progress. This is just general advice, however, since I have no idea what your prior relationship is with these women before the date.
/r/seduction04/05/24 02:11 PM
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You should be hugging her as soon as you meet up with her. Start coming up with reasons to walk around with her such as walking to different venues and hold hands while doing so. When you’re inside of a venue, try moving to different parts of it and put your arm around her waist while doing that or your hand on her lower back. Also, don’t wait until the end of the date to kiss her. See I gave you a bunch of ways to get her used to your touch, so once you get a moment to sit down, you should be a…
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:45 PM
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Where are you meeting these women and why haven’t you been able to escalate?
/r/seduction04/05/24 07:08 AM
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Direct is especially better when you’re getting some sort of choosing signal.
/r/seduction01/05/24 09:07 AM
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A “nice guy” to women, in regards to romantic relationships, is not what a general nice guy is. A nice guy in their eyes is a guy who clearly wants them but is afraid to escalate or comes off as such. What you described is just a weak man who women don’t want either.
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:26 PM
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You still need to meet a woman’s minimum threshold for that confidence to matter. There a lot of confident men who most women wouldn’t touch. Having something of value, whatever that may be, as long as it is hard and tangible, is the key. Sure, that confidence can make you well liked but it won’t make women want to fuck you if they already didn’t want to.
/r/seduction28/04/24 07:58 PM
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How? Mind giving a quick story?
/r/seduction28/04/24 11:27 AM
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The problem with this advice is that there is no true way to measure it or test it.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:52 AM
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Most women have probably had more relationships and a higher body count than most men, so you might as well not worry about it.
/r/seduction25/04/24 04:29 PM
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Start making your moves early. She should already be very comfortable with your touch before you try to smash. Do things like hug her when you greet her.
/r/seduction23/04/24 01:35 AM
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Basically the women wouldn’t openly reject or ignore a guy in a wheelchair and he likely never slept with any of them.
/r/seduction22/04/24 06:38 PM
2

Not everything is a damn shit test.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:16 PM
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A good looking couple can still have children that aren’t good looking. But you’re right that there are many not so good looking men all over the world who have sex with women. And usually the women in question are on the same level as they are. And usually they are in a committed relationship with that woman and cannot get sex outside of that relationship. We have to stop lying to men and giving them vague abstract advice. Some men will simply not be able to get casual sex. That’s reserved for …
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:40 AM
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Don’t feel too bad. The fact that you were able to pull this off is a good sign. Most guys can’t get a girl that they just met back to their apartment.
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:10 AM
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The other commenters explained it, but ultimately “frame” is not going to make an already uninterested woman suddenly interested. As with all of the pua buzzwords, it only works if she already wants you.
/r/seduction18/04/24 11:00 AM
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There is only one true indicator of interest: effort. Whatever she does, if it takes effort on her part, she’s likely interested. So it all depends on how hard is it for her to look at you. Are there things in her way? Are there other people or things going on? Are you simply in her line of sight?
/r/seduction16/04/24 08:17 PM
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Tip of the iceberg is the best way to describe it. There needs to be something tangible you have that she wants in order for your disinterest to have any weight.
/r/seduction14/04/24 10:23 PM
2

Thanks for sharing it. I am a bit confused though. What were the beginning texts? They seem to be missing.
/r/seduction14/04/24 09:53 PM
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Do you mind sharing the text conversation?
/r/seduction14/04/24 05:58 PM
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This is why I keep telling guys to stop focusing so much on “game” and “frame” and pua shit. Most of the time the woman already made up their mind before you opened your mouth and sometimes it has nothing to do with you. The only thing that can stop you at that point is anti-social behavior or not escalating. Basically, just keep progressing the interaction forward and don’t be weird.
/r/seduction14/04/24 05:56 PM
2

You still need some amount of hard value in her eyes for this to work.
/r/seduction12/04/24 07:04 PM
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No, it isn’t. If you’re unattractive and you don’t care, you’re literally not on her radar.
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:52 PM
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lol no. If a woman finds a man unattractive, she legit won’t even notice if he cares about her or not. He had the order right.
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:51 PM
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I lose them when I don’t make a move on the first date. And when I say “move”, I mean going past kissing
/r/seduction06/04/24 07:07 PM
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If a woman isn’t already physically attracted to you, nothing you say is going to make her attracted to you. Accepting this has made me more confident as I know that the women who want me will make it easy for me and I spend less time worrying about what to say.
/r/seduction31/03/24 09:32 PM
3

You mentioned that you’ve been on several dates. Have you slept with her yet?
/r/seduction26/03/24 08:14 PM
1

Why was the second girl on Tinder if she wasn’t mentally prepared to go on a date?
/r/seduction19/03/24 11:28 AM
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