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Very cool that you realized this yourself. It's only by making mistakes and learning from them that you'll get better.
/r/seduction23/11/12 04:27 PM
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What's beta about it?
/r/seduction28/10/12 08:34 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction27/10/12 11:24 PM
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This indeed. You can pursue good, confident body language, which is fine, but you also have to feel like it. You have to be confident. You can act all confident, but when people start talking to you and you can't keep up the confidence, you're just another chode.
/r/seduction27/10/12 10:44 AM
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First of all: You do not "play" "alpha male". You cannot "try" to be "alpha male". Being an "alpha male" comes from self-confidence, being completely ready to do anything and knowing you'll rock at it. Making everything outside of the comfort zone, your comfort zone. That being said, you're the one hosting the party, so you should be talking to everyone, making sure everybody is having a great time. Make people go home with a giant smile on their face.
/r/seduction20/10/12 11:31 AM
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Even if you suck at something, always give it your best shot. I.e. do it with confidence. People will notice it and you'll get less shit for it. Lesson learned, time to move on. Just make sure you won't make the same mistake again. What misterzd said
/r/seduction20/10/12 11:27 AM
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No offence, but these kind of questions belong in /r/AskSeddit To answer your question, just ask her if she wants to hang out again, the "I need some advice..." text will be waaaay to cheesy. It might work in real life if you put a joking/sarcastic tone behind it, but that won't work via text.
/r/seduction14/10/12 08:46 PM
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Exactly. The description of this subreddit says "Seduction and self-improvement" and those 2 things go hand in hand. Improving myself, staying confident (alpha, one might say) and learning how women work, that's why I'm in this biz'niz ;)
/r/seduction14/10/12 08:34 PM
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True, but the fact that she asked him his number is a pretty big IOI. Any tips on how to ask her number back?
/r/seduction12/10/12 05:38 PM
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Ooh, inform me about the guy. Wouldn't wanna be that one!
/r/seduction10/10/12 09:19 PM
0

Easy now, OP mentioned nothing about a mystery method.
/r/seduction08/10/12 09:12 PM
12

Wait, what?
/r/seduction08/10/12 08:50 PM
3

Link is dead, haven't found it anywhere else. Have that saved somewhere? Or a summary of that summary?
/r/seduction08/10/12 05:28 PM
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Just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you have to stop being interesting. You can still go ahead and meet new people, in fact, you have to! The outgoing, eager-to-meet-new-people-you is the one she got into a relationship with, so don't change that ;) (but don't be a dick and fuck around either)
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:50 PM
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Not an expert, but if you haven't built up some sexual tension between you two, it will come over as incredibly creepy. I'd say: don't try it. Standard Seddit-rules apply here: only use text as a way of arranging dates.
/r/seduction01/10/12 05:20 PM
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and realize that the girl you like may be nothing more than all those other girls.
/r/seduction30/09/12 12:46 PM
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He does mention the important part 'if I actually know them'. It's a difficult matter, both sides have a point here. It's obvious that, if you don't know the girl, you just ignore it and move on with life. I do feel like people you know, and know well should not get away with shit like that. A small apology and explanation is not that much work if you're not able to make it.
/r/seduction25/09/12 07:45 PM
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Everything what -Edward_Mass- said, and the one thing I'll add is "Abundance mentality". Don't care if she rejects you, there are dozens of reasons for it. Some may be because of a mistake you made, yes, learn from it and move on. This is the most important mantra that I've developed in my month here on Seddit: "If you don't care, people won't care"
/r/seduction03/09/12 10:48 AM
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Hey, everybody needs a wake-up call from time to time. It's a good thing that you realized you were doing something wrong and that you wanna do something about it. Let me tell you, there is absolutely no reason at all to not start talking to people. People love to meet new people! If you feel like talking to people, do it. You've thrown a party, a lot of people came, so you probably know how to hold conversation and make friends. Remember that you can do this. Show confidence, know you are aweso…
/r/seduction02/09/12 10:16 PM
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Why do you wanna be that guy? Not classy dude!
/r/seduction02/09/12 12:10 PM
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Just ask her out, do something fun, get her totally comfortable with you again. Escalate kino and see how she reacts to it, act accordingly :)
/r/seduction01/09/12 09:25 AM
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Look at us now, thinking we knew everything about women..
/r/seduction27/08/12 05:07 PM
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Just go for it, who cares if you fail? Biggest thing is that you will have tried and you will be practicing approaching/conversation/game/kino at the same time. Just. Do. It.
/r/seduction22/08/12 08:03 PM
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Daaaamn, that's hilarious and thát is going to help me so much tonight! Thanks!
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:46 PM
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how is that a shit test?
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:45 PM
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Not a pro, but from what I've read on seddit, just turn her around and escalate the kino! Whatever happens from there is all up to you ;)
/r/seduction29/07/12 10:45 AM
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