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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | This Resonated With Me Deeply100% this, sums up ALL the men I was with, obviously LVM, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 11:21 PM |
| 47 | How I've been feeling.I can relate to it so much, temporary isn't worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 02:52 PM |
| 73 | We've been shaming women for being 'vanilla' for years and it needs to stopI agree 100%! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:35 AM |
| 5 | People are starting to seeThere’s hope for the younger generation!! Amazing to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:05 AM |
| 5 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”What a clown, now trying to push the blame on you 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:19 PM |
| 14 | Tired of men claiming they are watching porn to “learn” new things because it’s actually robbing them of the chance to learn healthy, appropriate responses in intimate situations.So spot on!! Porn has nothing to do with intimacy, care and love which healthy sex is all about and in fact, porn also has very little to do with reality in overall hence you get those guys going at it without foreplay, expecting a woman to be wet after 5 seconds of kissing - you know what “educated” them. It’s so, so sad that those fundamental and basic qualities and little things men could do to make someone they love feel amazing are just skipped over because this filth is so ingrained in the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:32 PM |
| 20 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?You’re his second or third option so if things don’t work out with the woman who’s number 1 - he’ll come back to you. Block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:09 AM |
| 13 | Understand? YoU’rE sOcIoPaThS, nOt NoRmAL!!Ironic how they call us sociopaths (they’re projecting), but in fact watching pornography causes you emotional numbness and losing any empathy which are sociopathic traits 🤡 Having wasted nearly 5 years in total (keep in mind I’m only 25) on 2 relationships with porn addicts (with one we were even engaged lol) - it blows my mind there’re still people in denial about the harms of watching this filth. It fries your brain (confirmed by studies that it decreases your grey matter in brain!), gives yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:06 AM |
| 11 | Understand? YoU’rE sOcIoPaThS, nOt NoRmAL!!Exactly this!!! Why would you hide something from someone if you know it’s okay? This just proves they know it’s wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:57 AM |
| 2 | He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history!Nice gaslighting - my intuition has never been wrong and never lied to me, yet every man I have been with - was a manipulative liar. No thanks, I’ll stick to my intuition and think all men are dishonest and useless unless proven otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:52 AM |
| 10 | Is anyone else afraid to have a son / what your son might turn out like after seeing how 98% of men are, and how so many turn out to be no matter what their mother does from them? Stories like this it’s almost always the male child doing some entitled shit to their mother...One of the reason I don’t want to have kids - the societal conditioning is sometimes so strong, this world is well fecked up and I don’t want to be raising people who will potentially end up hurting someone. Even if they don’t - I don’t want them to suffer and experience the pain of certain inevitable situations, similar to what I’ve experienced. It’s just not worth it, not in this world - and how it currently is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 07:44 AM |
| 149 | That’s what I thoughtOh yeah, he’d gaslight the hell outta her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:45 PM |
| 31 | Idk if this has already been uploaded here BUT THE ACCURACYYep, just another episode of “Lies men tell”. I’m yet to meet a guy who claims to like natural girls and doesn’t go on social media and porn liking women with 1000 layers of make up, surgeries and heavy photo editing 😂 why can’t men just be honest for once, get real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:24 PM |
| 27 | Nailed it!! It’s their birth right to objectify and disrespect their partner. So stop being insecure and accept your mistreatmentOh yeah absolutely - it’s laughable and embarrassing. Seen it first hand too, it’s comedy gold how low you have to be to do such things | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:34 PM |
| 3 | The bar is in hell.*alert* THERE'S NO BAR! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | I ringed up too! Amazonite and rose gold 💙Beautiful ring, lovely! I also love the colour of your nails - very unique. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 9 | The usefulness of Cats Vs MenSo true! I was thinking the same - the only thing they have to offer is drama and headaches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 9 | In other news, at least 64% of women are delusional pickmes.This is depressing to see and also I feel called out as this was my old pickmeisha thinking too! To be honest, I'm glad my FWB didn't turn into a relationship - I wouldn't be happy with all those kinks, degradation and abuse long term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | It do be like thatOh no, why you be calling out my past like that 😂 brutal but so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | the shit ppl do for cloutWtf did I watch, where’s bleach for my eyes and ears 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | 🤮🤮🤮Finally a dating app dedicated to porn addicted limp dicks and incels who never wash their butthole as it’s “gay” as well as objectify and sexualise everyone and everything that’s in front of their eyes 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Since I've seen that u like him... here is another one.THIS is the level of trust (both ways!) I want in a relationship and I’ve met a couple who was like that, travelled with them for a few days actually. It was so heart warming and beautiful to see, so genuine and so comfortable with each other 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:14 AM |
| 11 | Keeping up the energy going into 2021I love her, this is super wholesome ❤️❤️❤️ now I’m off to sing the same 😂 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:45 AM |
| 308 | lmao the benefit is questionableThe benefit is disrespect and abuse on top of absolutely terrible sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:14 PM |
| 68 | They’re thiiiis close to figuring it out!That was the best part! Absolutely spot on ending and the only one which should happen in such cases | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 10 | I was pleasantly surprised at the amount of likes and comments in agreement that this got. Hopefully more people, especially of the younger generations, are realizing this!So amazing to see younger people waking up and taking it onboard. Porn is the worst drug and destroys everything and everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:52 AM |
| 3 | This year I started dating a work friend who lives a few hours away. Things are going so well and I never would have spotted his HV green flags and gone for it (despite the distance) without FDS. Going down to visit this weekend and just found out he’s planned another sweet, thoughtful itinerary.Aw that’s so lovely! So happy for you. It’s amazing to see there’re still men out there like that - I mean, we know there are but it’s so rare when hearing about them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:26 AM |
| 16 | This applies to any type of relationships. We are valuing ourselves in 2021Thank you for a reminder. Never, ever again will beg for bare minimum - there’s plenty of people who’re willing to give it without you asking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:17 AM |
| 116 | And here’s why we get our men ladies. 😬😬😬I swear some porn addicts be exactly like that if they have no access to their coomers collections | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 12:02 PM |
| 7 | Perfect depiction of how women are treatedThis is so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 09:18 AM |
| 13 | I raise you Over 30s Midwestern LVM starterpack.This is literally OLD in 99.9%. Just looking at these losers makes me want to throw up. Isn’t it funny they tell us women hit a wall at a certain age (we don’t), yet they’re the ones with most wrinkles and looking old and dusty above the age of 25? A lot of women look below their age yet men always look wayyy older as they don’t look after themselves. But their expectations towards us are sky high, ironic that 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 08:14 AM |
| 72 | My personal checklist of must have qualities and dealbreakers. One red flag and he is out. Thought I’d share for anyone who needs inspiration to make their own 😄 excuse the messy handwritingAny time a man indicates he watches porn and isn't against it - it's a red flag. Objectifying women, ED, emotional numbness, lack of empathy, lusting over prostitutes, manipulation etc. - who wants to be dealing with this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:46 PM |
| 148 | Scrolling through tik tok and all the top comments are saying to leave him and that this isn’t healthy or good for her. I am LOVING that we are telling the younger generations that they don’t have to deal with their porn obsessed boyfriends. 🥰How original and unique - a porn addicted dusty limp dick with fried brain who is most likely emotionally numb and thinks of all those prostitutes while having sex with his girlfriend as well as objectifying all women he sees in real life. Glad to see though women in the comments are finally waking up and we’re stopping to normalise and glorify this nonsense bs behaviour. Coomers are going down and let them drown in their own cum while pathetically holding a phone in one hand and his limp dick i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 76 | Hot Tip: If you have to consult Google to see if his behavior is okay, it's time to dump him, sis.I spent literally days doing all the above over the years, it's embarrassing but lesson learnt! Thanks for the reminder, it's amazing to see how far we've come - since discovering FDS more, every time I wanted to Google something about a relationship, I stopped myself from doing so and knew the answer in my head already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Not a ring but a commitment gift to myself anyways. 2021 I cherish and put myself first.Wow it’s so beautiful! So happy for you 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:42 AM |
| 11 | What does a "Green Flag Date" look like?Thank you for this, very well put! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 6 | “Not true! I still do!!! 🙋♀️”If it was only 10 times a week lol. More like 10 times a day for majority of men, EDIT: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:23 AM |
| 24 | What was one of the most infuriating neg comments an ex LVM/NVM said to you?I’m anti-porn and my first ex boyfriend was a porn addict and I’ve got a severe trauma because of that, which the new guy knew about. After repeatedly lying to me, my new ex deleted his huge porn collection on his laptop and backup drive - the disturbing thing is it was the most important thing in his life (yes, he actually said it...). This is more humiliating than anything - he told me he had thoughts that this porn collection is more important than me and relationship with me so he thought ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:08 PM |
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