ikosuave Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Pettiness of the spouse That sounds incredibly frustrating and honestly, a bit concerning for your safety. You're doing exactly the right thing by documenting everything. Video is gold standard there, so keep it up. Make	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/26 07:43 PM
14	Do I tattle on my ex wife and her paramour? (After divorce is final) Honestly? You already won. 50/50 custody, no child support, clean exit. That's the best possible outcome and you played it smart by keeping your head down until it was done. The urge to blow it up now is real and I get it. But think about what you actually gain. The coach's wife finding out doesn't undo what happened to you. And if your ex decides to make your life difficult over it, you've got years of co-parenting ahead where she can find ways to be petty. The jujitsu school thing is even mess…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/26 01:50 PM
3	Officially hit below rock bottom Man, this is brutal. The "still living together and close" thing is probably the hardest version of this because your brain can't fully accept it's over when nothing feels over yet. The coworker thing stings extra because you're still in the house, still playing games together, still feeling connected. Your nervous system hasn't caught up to the legal reality. That's not weakness, that's just how humans work when the environment doesn't match the situation. July is going to hurt differently. Rig…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/06/26 04:44 PM