iletitshine Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Jerking off to her picture before the date to reduce anxiety. Does it help? this is a fucked up mentality to want to pursue. dating is not about power. sexual assault is.	/r/seduction	25/10/25 02:15 PM
1	Juggling various women and I don’t feel anything gonna hold you through this one: GO. TO. THERAPY.	/r/seduction	24/10/25 03:56 AM
1	Is your game different between younger vs older women? fyi older women are onto you youts and know that you think they’re easy and post about it a lot on the internet. also young guys are literally a dime a dozen for older women probably thanks to taboo tropes in porn lol. so anyone assuming older women are gonna be easy i just wanna save you the time. continue to go after older women but don’t assume it’s an easy lay.	/r/seduction	24/10/25 03:47 AM
5	do women ever take iniative and lead? yes women pursue men. usually it’s effective. results in hookups or relationships. if it’s just for relationships though then it’s less effective.	/r/seduction	21/10/25 11:46 PM
1	do girls prefer guys that barely text them? gross	/r/seduction	18/10/25 03:05 PM
0	I got laid i said what i said.	/r/seduction	16/10/25 02:16 PM
6	I got laid guarantee the reason she ghosted was the sex was bad (probably really bad) for her.	/r/seduction	16/10/25 03:43 AM
2	You should never ask a woman on a dating site what she's looking for. the only guys who ask women what they’re looking for are the ones who really just want to fuck them once probably not make them come and then ghost.	/r/seduction	05/10/25 05:15 PM
1	Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them? sounds like your pursing the wrong people	/r/seduction	29/09/25 04:23 PM
2	After Getting a Number Off Hinge/Apps Do You Call First or Text? hinge is a relationship app. if you want hookups, move it to tinder	/r/seduction	28/09/25 10:28 PM
3	Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head? lol i’m not trolling at all. i’m just like bro wake up. you talk about women in a way that weak men talk about women. like you don’t really like women just what a woman can do for you. it’s gross and pathetic. and i hope you wake up to see and change that someday.	/r/seduction	28/09/25 03:28 AM
3	Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head? way to miss the entire point. also this just confirms for me that indeed your junk probs does stink. good luck!	/r/seduction	27/09/25 03:48 PM
30	7 Things Men Don’t Know About Sex With Women you should’ve split this up into 1-4 and 5-7 because they’re about different things. the first is seduction the second is sex. very different things. but finally a post that gets things mostly right, especially items 1-4 around foreplay beginning at hello and needing to feel safe and desired but in control to have sex or at least good sex.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 10:38 AM
3	Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head? maybe your junk stinks.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 10:00 AM
3	Dating a new woman who's hotter than what I'm used to. How do I get her to be more enthusiastic about giving head? haha you’re so full of shit. you spent the first five paragraphs waxing poetic about your game and her body/surface appearance. and then you’re like “she’s my future wife.” BRO. wake the fuck up and smell the misogyny.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 09:59 AM
1	Why are hot girls easy to pick up than unattractive ones ? is is possible that there’s more to a human being than their looks that maybe that particular human understands something you don’t about their autonomy and self worth. lmfao DUUUH	/r/seduction	26/09/25 04:00 AM
1	Broke deadbeats who pull beautiful women...how do they do it? tbh they’re usually narcissists and this doesn’t bode well for them. eventually, all your bullshit catches up with you. also pulling and seduction are very different things. lmao this sub is so misguided consistently.	/r/seduction	26/09/25 03:18 AM
-12	Where do you meet the most older women? (late 30s to early 50s) gross you’re sleazy af. older women are not easier lmfao. older women have dozens probably hundreds of men your age seeking their companionship. it’s cheap to find what you offer. you’re the easy ones. good luck!	/r/seduction	19/09/25 11:43 PM
6	How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts Women i will entertain a smooth approach from not my type or not particularly conventionally attractive. if i’m approaching, it’s physical attraction and vibe i get from my observation ahead of approach.	/r/seduction	01/08/25 11:21 PM
29	How Attraction Works - What Actually Attracts Women this is factually inaccurate and horribly wrong. source: i’m a woman.	/r/seduction	01/08/25 03:09 PM
3	Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult? guys are so simple minded thinking this is seduction. this is not seduction. this is not how seduction works. be better.	/r/seduction	31/07/25 04:12 AM
9	Talking to girls gets easy—once you actually understand the world they live in. You’ll never get it.	/r/seduction	26/07/25 04:38 PM
2	Self-Improvement is Making me Worse with Women You need to evolve in your romantic/dating/sexual intimacy life. That’s what this is trying to tell you. You’ve evolved everywhere else and this area is stagnant.	/r/seduction	25/07/25 01:56 AM
2	Best way to get a FWB as an average guy? I don’t think that’s ideal. But maybe you are just the kind of person who doesn’t do well with FWB. But providing emotional support is part of being a good friend. Friends don’t have to have romantic or otherwise attachments to one another.	/r/seduction	23/07/25 08:26 PM
13	Best way to get a FWB as an average guy? Sounds like a you problem that you’ve contorted into a them problem.	/r/seduction	22/07/25 08:25 PM
3	Best way to get a FWB as an average guy? I am a woman who has had the kind of ongoing FWB the OP wants and has also hooked up with women my straight male friends (attractive/tall/musicians) couldn’t close. And you? You’re just wrong.	/r/seduction	22/07/25 05:02 PM
70	Best way to get a FWB as an average guy? As a woman, a good man who I wouldn’t normally find physically my type but who I am not put off by is my ideal ongoing FWB. I won’t catch feelings cuz my standards for boyfriend material aren’t totally met. I keep coming back if he is cool and easy to be around, fun or content to spend time with, and can provide some basic level of emotional support and comfort when a date goes poorly or I’m bummed about work. Cuz we’re actually friends, and friends are chill to support one another through shit …	/r/seduction	22/07/25 02:31 PM
-3	Best way to get a FWB as an average guy? Take note, Redditors. This is exactly how you do not get pussy.	/r/seduction	22/07/25 02:24 PM
1	Do women really like men who are players, or have opinions? No one gives a fuck about your “options” you sound incredibly insecure and like your projecting that upon others to deflect what little self awareness you had of it	/r/seduction	17/07/25 01:02 AM
2	What makes women feel sexual energy/Sexual tension from men lol it couldn’t be more obvious, even over text	/r/seduction	09/07/25 04:53 AM
6	You are a girl for now and having men interested in you for sex doesn’t make you high value. It’s not that difficult You should respect women all the time.	/r/seduction	27/06/25 07:20 PM
3	6s/7s throwing themselves at me but struggling to pull 9s/10s Maybe don’t think of people as numbers could be a nice place to start lmfao duh.	/r/seduction	26/06/25 11:58 PM
4	I have noticed a pattern amongst some women that I dated. Have you noticed it too? It sounds like you annoyed these women and it also sounds like they were afraid you’d react poorly if they let you down. The first point is on you but the latter is more about men in general being scary and maybe not as much about you unless your annoyingness crept into stalkerishness.	/r/seduction	26/06/25 11:23 PM
1	The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first date I was too disgusted to continue reading!	/r/seduction	04/06/25 12:27 AM
2	I don’t need a pickup line. I need a man who knows when not to speak. This 100%	/r/seduction	04/06/25 12:25 AM
-3	The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first date Hahaha woman here. I don’t want men to pick the place because I want to be led. I want them to pick it to show me that they know how, to take just literally one measly little fucking thing off my plate that overflowith with a million unending things to do at all times, and because I will judge them/know what they want from me by what they pick. Doesn’t have shit to do with “being led.” Fucks sake.	/r/seduction	03/06/25 03:42 AM
2	Let girls introduce other girls: One of the Easiest Ways to Meet Women (That Most Guys Sleep On) Most women can smell this from a thousand miles away.	/r/seduction	31/05/25 07:05 AM
-1	The future of hookup culture It’s unethical to be on a dating app centered around relationships and be seeking hookups. Are you telling the truth openly that you’re only interested in strictly sex?	/r/seduction	20/01/25 07:13 AM