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| 1 | Married for 10 years and confronted four times in the last two months when I found my wife cheating. I don't know.You don't even have a 10 marriage. She stopped having sex with you 5 or 6 years ago... She wants the benefits of being with you, but also wants to deny you the benefits of being with her. While actively seeking the attention of other people?? You can love her from a distance and without providing for her needs since she has no interest in providing for yours physically and now apparently emotionally. She doesn't respect you at all. She's just not ready to give up whatever you provide for her bec… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/26 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Stay or GoIf we're having one conversation, we stay on topic. If you want to have a conversation outside of the current topic start your own comment thread. What you're interjecting may be helpful in its own place. This is an entirely different conversation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Stay or GoWe're not even talking about the process being fair... This is exactly why you slow down to understand situations. You're on the football field with hockey skates on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Stay or GoThere may not be any evidence to gather. When I went thru it, I didn't have any fear of evidence gathering. My concern was the safety and stability of our children. It takes time to prep yourself and understand what you might want also. If you just start running immediately you don't begin to understand anything about you and your future. It's fine to take your time. Control your situation. Don't let her control it because she's probably irrational. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/26 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Stay or GoI would suggest meeting with a therapist or counselor. Both of you need to do that and find out what is underlying the issues you have and have the clarity of an outside voice. That could yield you and your spouse some things to implement and consider. Or it could show you that you truly aren't compatible with one another. The kids are the major consideration and having to be far away from them will alter your relationship with them forever. So it's worth seeing whether or not you can work it ou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/26 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Divorced Men, My wife cheat, we divorced, She’s happy, I’m sad. What is your advice?8 Billion people in the world. If 1% of 1% are eligible women, you have 800,000 other potential options. Be the best guy you can be. Start living your life for you and do things that make you happy. You don't live for her. That time is over. She didn't respect you enough to keep her legs closed to other men, so why are you upset about losing that? That wasn't good for you. Do your thing and one of the other 800,000 will come around and make it feel better. Until they screw up. You just have to b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | In FlightJust turned 54. Been gone for 7 years next month. The US wasn't feeling right and I decided in 2013 I was leaving. Took a while and going back and forth, but finally left for good in 2018. I don't regret it at all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/25 12:43 PM |
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