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| – | Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry areI don't like or trust influencers in general, regardless of what they're shilling. Way too many of them are disingenuous liars and scamazoiding grifters. However, I do recognize that Andrew Tate and others like him are actually addressing the things that young heterosexual men are interested in. Like getting laid with hot chicks. MSM, feminism, mainstream education, and so on, often just want to talk about how heterosexual men are bad, and gay, LGBTQ, queer, gender nonbinary type of stuff. But h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Men are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to women’s dating choices.Men aren't specifically or solely attracted to "bad girls". They just like to sleep with attractive women. Men say "I can fix her" when a woman in attractive. They say "I can fix her" for the Doll Hitwoman and other women who commit high profile crimes when those women fairly young and are considered physically attractive by significant number of men (i.e. Jodi Arias or Casey Anthony). You don't see a bunch of men saying "I can fix her" for Aileen Wuornos, the prostitute serial killer who unaliv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone???Yeah people lie. That's why you try to assess a person's character based on patterns of behavior. Frankly people always talk about women's intuition, but it seems to me their personality judgement is trash. Or, more likely, they're simply attracted to dominant-acting assholes and make excuses about it even if it gets them screwed over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone???Funny how women can tell when a man they don't know has a "bad personality" or is a "dangerous and creepy incel", but somehow can't tell when the man they're in a relationship with is an unfit parent. I'd be willing to guess that the guy gave them a lot of clues beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in womenLOL. American women have become MORE hypergamous over time. One study looked at census data in the US and looked at how income affected the probability of 45-55 year old American men and women ever having been married. They looked at 3.5 million men and 3.6 million women born between 1890 and 1973. What they found was that, for American men born 1890-1910, income only predicted a 2.5% variance in whether or not they had ever been married by 45-55 years old. Whereas for men born in 1973, there wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone???I never said it was typically a pump n dump situation. However, if women are in relationships it seems to me that they should've been able to guess that the guy was an abusive, unfit, or unsafe parent, or was unlikely to step to the plate. In fact, it seems to me that many women consistently choose to breed specifically with those kinds of men. Frankly, though, I don't give a fuck. Not my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in womenAmerican women, in general, definitely do care about men's socioeconomic status. Especially when they're not being supported by their parents anymore. All you have to do is sign up on some dating app. Try saying you have a low income job and see how many matches you get. Then say you have a high income career and see how many matches you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone???Its ironic that a lot of women will aggressively reject boring doormat nice guys but then get angry when the nice guy boring doormats won't help them after the alpha bad boy leaves them as single mothers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in womenI'm a man and I like traveling. But I don't date men. Maybe some men are wary of women who like traveling because they fear they'll be the ones footing the bill if they're dating/marrying her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Traveling is such an unattractive and red flag trait in womenWestern men are some of the richest men in the world, on average, and their standards for women generally aren't very high. I doubt the average Western woman could find better options abroad. Especially considering the fact that women often want men of higher socioeconomic status than themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 10:21 AM |
| – | It's okay to string along women who are in their 30s..My username is a "f---- you" to people who get buttmad about my sexual preferences. Some people are buttmad at me for being sexually attracted to black women (I'm black myself, mind you), some are buttmad at me for being attracted to younger women, and some are buttmad at me for not being gay or bisexual and not being attracted to other men. So I put all those things together and came up with my username in order to give 2 middle fingers to all those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:43 PM |
| – | It's okay to string along women who are in their 30s..Women like talking. A lot of them would love men to be their non-pussy getting friends, so long as they don't see those men as a sexual threat to them. Then they can tell you all about the other men they're fucking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | A Lot of the Things Making Men Miserable are things Men Could FixBut that does suggest that men, on average, aren't any more miserable now than they were several decades ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/24 04:37 PM |
| 3 | It's okay to string along women who are in their 30s..Based on personal experience, there's lots of horrible women out there. However, women on Reddit (and people on Reddit more broadly) definitely do not represent the average person in the world. Honestly, women on Reddit seem to represent a more bitter, misandrist, and left-leaning subsection of women. Not all women are like that IRL. Reddit is definitely not a good representation of the general world. Same goes for other social media platforms, which all tend to become echo chambers that attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Why do women reject a guy but act jealous and try to cockblock him when he tries to date other women?This is one of the reasons why being friends with women isn't necessarily a good thing. Some female "friends" can just try to keep a guy around as a sexless no-pussy-getting orbiter to serve her whims, and maybe to be a secondary option for her. The type of female friend worth having would be like Jizzlain Maxwell who was bringing girls to the Epistain mofo, except minus the underage "s"-traffreaking. Not the kind of female friend who doesn't give you any pussy and then tries to cockblock you fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 12:51 PM |
| 6 | A Lot of the Things Making Men Miserable are things Men Could FixI'm not convinced that men are actually miserable nowadays, or at least not anymore miserable than they ever were. Studies I've seen suggest that women's self-reported happiness declined significantly from the 1970s to 90s, and that younger women, in particular, became much more unhappy with the rise of social media in the 2010s. Whereas men's self-reported happiness has remained fairly stable. Some studies suggested that women were more unhappy than men. I don't know what's going on with younge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Do older women withdraw completely from the dating market as they get older because dating sucks so much for them?Sounds like the much-demonized preference that a lot of men have for younger women makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:33 AM |
| 1 | The compulsory heterosexuality epidemic among menI agree to some extent. Being gay is accepted and celebrated in progressive Western urban centers like NYC, Los Angeles, Washington DC, Atlanta, San Fran, Miami, London, Paris, Berlin, Toronto, Sydney, etc. Women are often the ones leading the cheer to embrace "queerness". Women love flamboyant homosexual men. Let's say we did an experiment: Get a handsome tall muscular young male model/actor to go to some college campus in the US, and randomly approach women looking and acting like a stereotypi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:43 PM |
| -1 | The compulsory heterosexuality epidemic among menOh you can call me creepy all day. I don't care. I was called creepy for being attracted to 19 year olds when I was 20. So now I can fuck 18 year olds chicks for all the days I never had chicks, and anyone who doesn't like it can just go suck their mother's pussy hole in every position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:09 PM |
| -1 | The compulsory heterosexuality epidemic among menPeople like you deny reality. The reality is women have a certain window of reproductive potential. Men, in general, are naturally attracted to young women for a reason. If men only fuck older women or other men or transgenders, then no babies are born. Western countries where the average age of marriage and having your first kid is 30+ have low birth rates. Countries where the average age of marriage and first children is much younger have high birth rates. That is just reality whether you like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:03 PM |
| 0 | The compulsory heterosexuality epidemic among menTake a look at progressive media, the progressive education system, etc. All they do is push the narrative that male heterosexuality, and especially attraction to young fertile women, are bad. Whereas alternative sexuality is celebrated and promoted. Everything is nonbinary, trans, LGBTQLMNOP12345+, and so on. Whereas male heterosexuality, and especially attraction to young fertile women, is often demonized. Except being attracted to young fertile women is natural due to biology and evolution, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 02:39 PM |
| -1 | The compulsory heterosexuality epidemic among men"Sticking your dick in the vaginas of fertile women baaaaaaaad (patriarchy, heteronormative, blah blah blah); sticking your dick in men's hairy pooholes and cutting off small children's genitalia and permanently castrating them with chemicals good," - average progressive feminist circa current year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 01:08 PM |
| 11 | The compulsory heterosexuality epidemic among menI call bullshit on this one. LGBTQLMNOP12345+ stuff is more acceptable, celebrated, and aggressively promoted now than ever before. At least in "liberal"/"progressive" type areas in Western countries. If anything male heterosexuality is constantly attacked and men and boys are pushed to be LGBTQLMNOP12345+. For example, if I said that "I think male homosexuality is gross, disgusting, and repulsive, that's why I never fucked a man and never will," or if I said "I don't want to be a transgender or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 12:49 PM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?Some men have always managed to get by with no partner. It isn't a new thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Passport bros are a symptom of a problem men did not createThis is a stupid debate. If you want to travel for whatever reason, get the money you need to cover the cost, book the flight and go. Randos on the internet don't get a say in whether you travel or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Cold approaching isn't very effective, especially if you live in an unfriendly place where people don't normally talk to strangers, and you're not visibly much richer than the average person. Approaching random women is much easier if you're in a place where it is normal for people to just talk to random strangers. Not just trying to pick them up, but just in general. In places like that, women tend to be more friendly if you randomly approach them, even if they're not interested in you at all o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:41 AM |
| 9 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will go"Dear diary," | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:06 AM |
| 3 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goMeh. Similar scenarios can play out with partners who are around the same age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:05 AM |
| 5 | I will tell you exactly how your age gap relationship will goNo. You don't understand. Women are strong and independent and have sexual freedom and should be able to choose their own partners. Unless they go against the wishes of the North Atlantic Pussy Cartel, that is. Then they need to be told what to do by bitter older women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:03 AM |
| – | CMV: the woman is the prizeIf I went to some parts of Africa, I would probably have families lining up to get me to marry their young daughters. But they'd probably want an extortionate bride price and/or expect constant financial support for all the extended family. LOL. Either way, I'm not advocating this at all. I'm just pointing out the way that some modern western women only want to selectively pick out the parts of a "traditional relationship" that they want. They want a man to spend all his money to support them fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:58 AM |
| – | CMV: the woman is the prizeI'm not advocating anything. I'm just pointing out that some modern western women see "traditional" as a man just paying for everything. Whereas irl women in actual traditional marriages in various cultures were often expected to do a lot of work. It wasn't just a husband working while the wife sat around browsing social media and using his money to buy fashion knicknacks. And, by the way, not all cultures traditionally have the groom or his family pay a bride price to the bride's family. Others… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 10:53 AM |
| -1 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"Idk. I guess it's worth a try on both sides (unattractive men trying to convince women to date them and unattractive women trying to convince men to date them). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the woman is the prizeWomen aren't the prize and never were. In traditional societies women were expected to perform certain duties in a relationship and men were expected to perform certain duties in return. Nowadays a lot of western people think that women should just be worshipped and have their dicks sucks for no reason. Women can bring absolutely nothing to the table, and basically make your life worse, but men are still supposed to constantly thirst after them and perform traditional male duties towards them. F… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"And vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"I agree with OP, but I think it goes both ways. Men are also told that they should settle with older women, unattractive women, single mothers, etc. for the good of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How I see this all playing out if sexuality isn’t suppressed.It means fewer women to go around and therefore fewer monogamous relationships, which tends to equal social instability like OP said. Single men tend to have less incentive to follow society's rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How I see this all playing out if sexuality isn’t suppressed.There aren't many men who have 20 gfs. But there are a few men who are juggling more than one woman. Obviously not the majority of men. But there are a few who monopolize more than one woman, while other men have no women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 10:03 PM |
| 3 | If JD Vance's comments were more directed as single/childless men or sexless men, would the mainstream media and progressives have cared as much?Putting people in prison for minor offenses (like marijuana and their kids missing school) and trying to keep people locked up despite doubts about the validity of their convictions. In US prisons people can be pressured into joining gangs for protection, and then be forced to commit crimes (including murder) for the gang, which can land them more time in prison. Even if they're not a gang member, they can be forced to get involved in race politics in prison. For example, if there's a riot, then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How I see this all playing out if sexuality isn’t suppressed.I agree that enforced monogamy would likely tend to lead to more social stability. In the absence of that, it becomes difficult to maintain control over society. Traditional moral rules, in general, tend to be geared towards men having wives and families. But if men don't have wives or families, then their motivation to follow the rules start to break down. Like all those religions that say not to jack off to porn. Why? If guys are single and there's no women available, why shouldn't they jack o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 08:41 PM |
| 3 | How I see this all playing out if sexuality isn’t suppressed.If a man has 20 different gfs, then he has a harem. And often (but not always) women do know they're sleeping with a guy who already has a gf or a wife. That's a de facto harem. It doesn't have to be 100 chicks sitting on couches in the Ottoman sultan's palace, guarded by eunuchs or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 08:35 PM |
| 8 | How I see this all playing out if sexuality isn’t suppressed.I've known a couple guys who had multiple gfs at the same time. There's lots of celebrities as well who are well known for having lots of gfs. Hugh Hefner was one who was very open about it. But many others probably aren't as public with it. Tiger Woods famously got in trouble for banging multiple chicks behind his wife's back, for example. John F. Kennedy was notorious for cheating on his wife with different chicks. And anecdotally, I remember hearing a story about the "gf" of a famous professi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 2 | If JD Vance's comments were more directed as single/childless men or sexless men, would the mainstream media and progressives have cared as much?I don't care if Harris has kids or not. But her record as a prosecutor and as a politician are questionable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"If a guy pays for escorts or sugar babies it doesn't matter so much if he's bald or whatever. But being fit would help him to engage in sexual activity without getting tired out, and being in good shape generally means higher testosterone without need for supplements, so higher sex drive to bang lots of chicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceThe best evidence is years of seeing the same thing over and over and over again. Noooooooticing patterns is fun. Plus you can look at human DNA- people have more female ancestors than male ancestors because more women have always reproduced than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceA natural chemical produced by your brain. Why is watching porn worse than having sex? And how come the people who complain the most about porn are people who don't watch it? Why are a lot of the "victims" of porn so happy with porn, but a bunch of women and men who say they don't watch porn constantly complain about it? If the people who like porn are happy, I don't see the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceYes. But using drugs means actually ingesting chemicals into your body. Porn isn't a chemical. Its just something you look at. I'm not sure how looking at stuff can damage your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:35 PM |
| 6 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choicePersonal observations. More women reproducing than men. And so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceI haven't seen any reputable studies saying watching porn in particular causes brain damage. Why would porn be any worse than watching non-porn videos on social media (i.e. TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, etc.)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceStudies have documented a close correlation between the rise of social media and increasing unhappiness and rising suicide rates in girls. Whereas porn access predated streaming internet porn by a few decades, and I haven't found any studies showing a strong correlation between online porn consumption and unhappiness in boys or men. I also find it interesting that the people who say porn is bad are either women or anti-porn men. Men who like porn don't spend much time complaining about porn or s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceWomen all fuck the same small number of men. The men they don't fuck rely on porn to get their rocks off. The men that 100 different women are competing for can demand weird pornish sex acts from women and women will comply because if they don't, they know the guy will just call up one of his 99 other girlfriends. When women can't compete with 99 other chicks for the same guy anymore because they're 50 years old, and are finally ready to settle down with a nice guy, they find the guys they rejec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Start raising "normie" sonsHonestly, women are just as superficial as men are, but in different ways. Men judge women superficially based on how big their tittays are, how pretty their face is, or if they have a nice ass or not. Whereas women judge men superficially based on perceived social status. Women can reject me off hand just because she perceives him as low status. Or she can treat a guy good without knowing him because she perceive him as high status. In other words, women's judgments of men they don't know are j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Start raising "normie" sonsI would also argue that some eccentric weirdos are naturally loners who prefer solitude, whereas normies are less able to handle being deprived of social connection. During COVID lockdowns, for instance, I think a lot of normies had a harder time than the lonerish weirdos in handling being cut off from social connections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?Some do, others don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Start raising "normie" sonsI don't believe in male loneliness epidemics, insofar as all studies suggest more or less equal levels of male and female loneliness, with women reporting slightly higher levels of loneliness than women. I think a lot of so-called male loneliness is just dudes wanting to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that creepiness is subjective or objective?In my experience, Western females in particular seem to think everything is creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that creepiness is subjective or objective?A man could be literally doing nothing and women can call him creepy. Most of the time, calling someone creepy is mostly a reflection on the person making the accusation rather than the person receiving the accusation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Do you think that creepiness is subjective or objective?Western females call everything creepy though. Literally ignoring them and minding your own business is considered creepy by Western females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that creepiness is subjective or objective?Wrong. I've had gay dudes pushing up on me while females called me creepy. But when I went outside of the Homosexual Sex Prison Police State Gay Gulag Transgender Bender Land, I had lots of young women who apparently didn't think I was creepy. Weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 03:03 PM |
| – | Having kids with people you never trusted just makes YOU look stupid and irresponsible.Yes. And I think R. Kelly's sentence was too long. He wasn't a grapist jumping out of trees on females or drugging them and graping them while they were unconscious like P. Diddly allegedly did to males and females. Those chicks chose to fuck him, and a lot of them were grown adults 18+, some in their 30s, trying to act like they didn't willfully choose to get into relationships with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that creepiness is subjective or objective?It is clearly subjective. A guy could be literally doing nothing, minding his own business, and women will say he's "creepy". In many cases creepiness has more to do with the person calling someone creepy than it has to do with the person being called creepy. I've found that the best way to avoid being creepy is to have nothing to do with people who call me creepy. You think I'm creepy? Cool. Go suck your mother's pussyhole in every position and stay the fuck away from me because I don't need yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:56 PM |
| -2 | Having kids with people you never trusted just makes YOU look stupid and irresponsible.I've seen some interviews with R. Kelly's daughter (or at least one of his daughters). As far as I can tell, he was good to his kid(s) and didn't do any funny stuff to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 12:52 PM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?Why would they do that, though? Women want men's attention, time, money, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:53 AM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?A lot of total scumbags are married, though. Being a POS isn't a barrier to marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:52 AM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?Value is subjective, though. There are men who could live in the West their whole lives and get no love from females, but then they go overseas to another country and suddenly women are all over them. That proves that their "unattractiveness" is wholly subjective and contextual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:51 AM |
| – | Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men?Both men and women promote relationships and shame single men. But it is true that a lot of women seem to hate and shame single men while simultaneously complaining about men harassing them. Edit: Women seem to particularly hate happy single men in particular. I think they'd rather have single men be like the self-proclaimed incel posters I used to see on Reddit before all their subs were banned. Idk if these people were real or just trolls, but they always said that they couldn't be happy witho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the future of feminism is in the west ?I don't think Islam will take over. It would be more plausible in Europe, where Muslims make up a bigger percentage of immigrants. But in the USA, the top 10 countries of origin for foreign-born people in 2015 were all majority non-Muslim countries. Six were majority Christian; and 2 others (Vietnam and South Korea) had large Christian minorities. The remaining 2 (India and China) have Christian minorities as well. In fact none of the top 20 countries are majority Muslim. The highest ranked majo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 09:19 AM |
| 15 | Has pornography ruined male and female standards?No it hasn't. Whenever people talk about porn, they act like all women in porn look the same. They don't. With the advent of the internet there's been access to an infinite variety of types of people doing porn (although, as OP pointed out, governments and special interests have been trying to limit access to it, which has somewhat reduced variety). So every female porn performer isn't a 25 yo skinny white blonde with big breast implants, or whatever the stereotypical pornstar looks like in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?Well you wouldn't know it from the attitudes of some Anglospherettes. Personally I say, if they want to act like they're so screong and independent and don't need no man, don't want anyone to approach them or talk to them, leave them alone, want to be aggressively beachy and obnoxious, talk about how they hate nice guys, can raise their kids on their own with the help of Daddy Dot Gov (the shittiest father of all time), and so on, then fuck 'em. They can be screong and independent by themselves.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?I mean a lot of Anglospherettes keep boasting how they're not dependent on men anymore, they have their own money, don't have to settle for male providers anymore, blah blah blah blah. Don't hate me for repeating their own words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?For some women, at least, it'll never be enough. Like the fairytale the Fisherman and His Wife or whatever it was called. A poor fisherman catches a magical fish who promises him wishes to get whatever he wants. The fisherman makes a modest wish and the fish grants it. But then he tells his wife and the wife wants more stuff. So the fisherman goes back to the fish and asks for more. And each time the wife keeps sending the husband back to get more and more stuff from the fish. She needs a bigger… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?I thought Anglospherettes were screong and independent and don't need no man because they have their own money now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 08:41 PM |
| 8 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?I'd argue women have an evolutionary predisposition to go for social status. Its just that in modern society $$$$$$ has become one of the most easily tangible signs of social status, although there are other ways to show status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?Women in general judge men based on their access to resources. Part of it is probably biological/evolutionary, but I think there's also a cultural component, insofar as women from cultures that are more materialistic and money-hungry tend to be (surprise, surprise) more materialistic and money-hungry. In the case of the Anglosphere, its not surprising that women care about money. But there is a layer of hypocrisy and fakeness around it. People acting like women are all progressive, screong and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 08:39 PM |
| – | Sexual normalcy is such a contradictory clusterfuck.People (and government) should just stay out of other people's bedrooms. You don't like my sexual behavior? Cool. Then fuck off and don't participate in it. And I'll do the same for sexual stuff I don't like, such as male-on-male sexual activities and transgender stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 08:28 PM |
| 3 | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketIf I could have sex with an attractive woman everyday, or with a different attractive woman everyday, or 2 attractive woman a day, I'd probably still watch a little porn. I might not jerk off to completion (cause if I had a lot of women to have sex with irl, I couldn't afford to waste a nut). But I'd probably still check it out from time to time. On the other hand, I do understand that not having women available would tend to push men more into watching porn as an alternative. Like if I was in p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:15 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketNo. My preferences already existed before IG and before I started seeking out porn as well. The preferences precede the decision to watch a certain type of porn or to follow certain women on IG. Frankly I'd say real life has influenced by preferences more so than porn or IG. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketNot to mention the fact that women in porn and on IG aren't necessarily any hotter than a lot of women you can see irl. Honestly the women I find attractive in porn and on IG are pretty much the same types of women (in terms of physical appearance) that I see irl and find attractive. Or who I fuck irl if I'm lucky. Some people act like porn or IG women are aliens from another planet. Nah. They're real people who look like other real people who aren't in porn or on IG. Some have plastic surgery, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:57 AM |
| 3 | How Do You Think Pornograpy and Instagram Have Affected The Dating MarketI don't think porn or IG chicks are any hotter than a lot of women you can see in day-to-day life. They're just more visually accessible. For example, if I see an attractive woman on the street, I usually check her out for a few seconds and then she's gone and I continue with whatever I'm doing. Whereas if I'm at home I can just straight perv the fuck out on porn or IG chicks. I can stare at them as long as I want. In porn I can see chicks naked. I can go back and watch my favorite part of a vid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayI'd rather buy steak from the grocery store than run around in alleys poking through dumpsters for toxin-laden disease-filled rats and pigeons to eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayYoung pretty boys aren't guaranteed pussy. They may get more sexual interest from homosexual males than they get from girls. But old uggo men with money in their pockets are guaranteed pussy if they want it. You do the math. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:53 PM |
| -1 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.The blackpill incel doomer type stuff seems like some demoralization troll stuff to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayWomen may have their own money. But they still care about men's money, in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:41 PM |
| 3 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayIts just common sense. For example, when a man becomes successful or famous, they usually seem to get a hot looking gf or wife. Whereas attractive famous women who could get any man they wanted don't always go for the hottest looking man. Like Beyonce could've gotten some pretty boy male model. But she chose Jay-Z instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 07:40 PM |
| 2 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayTikTok is bullshit. Just a bunch of attention seekers trying to be edgy. IRL women just don't care about men's looks as much as vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Women should avoid inexperienced men.Women already do avoid inexperienced men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:48 PM |
| 8 | The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional.I agree with OP. Women don't choose men based on virtue. They choose men based on attraction, which has nothing to do with virtue. The male equivalent would be men choosing a woman because she has big tits and saying they don't like chicks with flat chests because they have bad personalities. Big tits have nothing to do with personal virtue. Women are attracted to asshole bully narcissists and dark triads. And it is very well-documented. Then they make up imaginary vices for men they're not attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:48 PM |
| 8 | The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional.Except you don't earn women as trophies for being a good person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:42 PM |
| 7 | The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional.Except women gravitate towards jerks and reject non-threatening men. For example, I saw a man with a bunch of tattoos being loud and belligerent in a public place. The female employees started flirting with him, even though he was with his gf. Women run towards "toxic male" behavior, not away from it. But they're icked out by men being kind and gentle. They don't want to admit this, maybe even to themselves. So they make up fake narratives about being able to detect bad personalities of nice guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:40 PM |
| 8 | The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional.What about a genuine nice guy who is just nice to people in general? A lot of women seem to prefer the abusive asshole (doesn't have to be a criminal either, could be an asshole cop, for example, or asshole white collar professional). Frankly that's their prerogative and their problem. Also I'm sick of this bullshit narrative that men pretend to be nice to get pussy. Pretending to be nice to get pussy doesn't work. If you want pussy, pretend to be a confident asshole. That works better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:36 PM |
| 13 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayPeople on Reddit act like all young women find all older men gross and disgusting. But that's just not true in my observation. Its true that, on average, in Western countries, it is most common for the man to be maybe 1-3 years older than the woman he's in a relationship with. But relationships between much older men and much younger women are far from unheard of. I say that because I keep hearing about them. I've heard people I knew or was acquainted with talking about them. I've seen them in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here sayI'd say it depends more on charm and/or socioeconomic status. Older men can use either charm/game to get younger women, or money/status, or a combination of both. Looks matter less for men than they do for women. That's probably one of the reasons why older men can sometimes get younger women. Or you could argue that men don't visibly age as fast as women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:19 PM |
| 0 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?In the last few decades there's been this narrative that men need to get married. But while it may be true that married men with kids live longer or whatever, the truth is, men don't really need women anymore in the Western world anymore than women need men, or anymore than either needs children. There's been this narrative that unmarried men with no kids are so unhappy while unmarried women without kids are the happiest people in the world. But when I looked at the surveys, the majority of unma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreSo don't take romantic advice from women or from gay ass Jorobe type internet narcissist males. BOOM! Problem solved. Next question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subWhat are the alternatives? What mainstream people are telling young men how to find a gf or get laid? They might be telling them how to be homosexuals or how to cut of their dicks and get bottom surgery. But they're not telling them how to get pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subIts not my imagination. For the last like 5 to 10 years, all I seemed to hear about in the media was gay this and gay that. Most dudes don't care about that stuff and just want some pussy. Tate promises the pussy so they'll listen to him. He's probably a bullshitter, but he's telling guys what they want to hear. I personally don't listen to him because I'm not sure how listening to a dude jibber jabber online is going to get me any punani. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subHe may very well be a charlatan. Idk because I don't really watch his stuff. But he's at least promising young men what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subThey were pushing LGBT before Tate. I'd say Tate's popularity is a reaction to them pushing LGBT constantly. It goes like this: Teen boy wants to get laid with girls and/or get a gf. He goes to school. Female teachers talk about LGBT nonbinary all day. He goes home and turns on CNN. All he hears is LGBT LGBT nonbinary. He goes on social media. All he sees is LGBT LGBT nonbinary. But he doesn't gaf about LGBT nonbinary. He just wants some damn pussy or a gf. Then he finds Tate on social media. Ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subWell maybe if mainstream society offered better alternatives then someone like Tate wouldn't have such a large fan base. I don't pay much attention to Tate, but I understand why a lot of younger men (or even older ones) might. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 04:31 PM |
| 4 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subYou're missing my point. My point is most boys want to have sexual relationships with girls. But all they're being told is gay gay gay gay gay gaaaaaaaa-eeeee-yaaaaaay, lgbt, lgbtq2s+, nonbinary, transgender, etc. etc. etc. But most heterosexual teen boys and young men just want to get a girlfriend or get some pussy. Andrew Tate may be a charlatan, but he's promising them what they actually want. Whereas the teachers and MSM are constantly pushing the LGBTQ nonbinary stuff, which isn't what the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 10 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subIn my opinion Tate is a symptom of how gay society has gotten. Most males (maybe 95-96% according to estimates I've seen) are heterosexual with a strong preference for the opposite sex. But nowadays mainstream media (MSM), schools, etc. have been increasingly emphasizing and pushing LGBTQ, nonbinary, transgender, and so on. But basically most boys just want to get pussy. So society is pushing all this shit that most boys aren't interested in, but it isn't telling them how to get laid. And father… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 11:20 AM |
| 1 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.the particulate matter of his penis and her vagina shifts beyond the variables of the braided monoidal matrices of the Planck momentum Imagine coping so hard that you deny objective reality. Paid sex with a hooker is objectively the same physical act as "free sex". spending thousands to get pussy in another country Spending thousands on a flight? Assuming a passport bro doesn't pay a woman directly for sex, then the cost of the flight is irrelevant. People spend thousands on flights and vacation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.That hasn't been my experience. They're always just as beachy regardless. Also not getting a nut regularly makes you more "super pressed about getting ass", not less. If I just jacked off, I don't really need a chick pussy as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Jacking off to porn is an alternative to pussy. Obviously men who jerk off to porn (which is probably most men) still want sex with real women. But it can raise their standards a bit, so that they're not boinking fuggoes with horrible attitudes and inordinate demands just out of sexual desperation. That's one reason I'm not a fan of that pornfree nofap stuff. Other men can do what they want, but I'd rather fucking jack off to free porn than waste a lot of my time and money jumping through 50 tri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Not to me. I like having sex with attractive women who are nice to me and aren't too much trouble to deal with. But jumping through hoops and spending large sums of money to bang a physically unattractive unpleasant disagreeable beachy woman? I'd rather jack off to porn. Luckily there are always men such as yourself to make sure those unattractive beachy women always have an ample supply of dick, because I'm just not going to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVI agree with OP. Giving men bad advice only leads to bitterness when they follow it and it doesn't work. Then these same people will talk about the pandemic of angry in-el te-ror-sm and so on. Personally, I'm a simple man. I want x. I follow the conventional "blue pill" advice, and don't get x. Then I do something else, and I do get x. Well now I'm just going to ignore the advice that doesn't get me x and keep doing what I did before that got me x. If doing something got me what I wanted in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 12:07 PM |
| 0 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.You're right. You see, when a man goes to a foreign country there is a quantum shift in the space-time continuum, so that when he thinks he is having sex with a woman he actually isn't having sex with her because the particulate matter of his penis and her vagina shifts beyond the variables of the braided monoidal matrices of the Planck momentum. This means that no sex actually occurred and the man did not actually "get" the girl. /s This is all bullshit. Doing stuff overseas is the same as doin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.I disagree. A 30 year old can still get women, including younger women. Especially if they go the passport bro route. For example, I thought it was over for me when I turned 30. But then I went overseas and was getting a lot of attention from 18-25 year old women. Now I did get laid before I was 30. But if I could get more positive attention from young women when I was over 30 than I did in my 20s, then I don't see why a guy who never touched a woman couldn't potentially enjoy more success in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 02:11 AM |
| 2 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.You're probably right. I've noticed that most young women don't seem to be interested in settling down, having kids, or getting married. Most seem to be more into just having fun. Whereas there are a lot of aging women pushing menopause who want to settle down, but they're not really physically attractive anymore, too old to have kids, and often have baggage from past relationships. People complain about men being irresponsible, only wanting sex, manchildren, porn addicts, etc. But they're prett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 02:06 AM |
| 2 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.So why do a lot of women seem to be pushing menopause, still hoping to start having kids? Why did they miss the boat, especially when it is much easier for young women to find get laid or find partners than it is for young men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 01:02 AM |
| 2 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.They don't have to wait. But some women seem to constantly put off having kids until they're at an advanced age. I suspect it is because they're preoccupied with education and careers, trying to become economically established enough to provide for children, and because they're waiting for Mr. Right to come along. But unfortunately for them, the biological clock doesn't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:59 PM |
| 2 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.Women can find husbands over 40, although I will concede that men who date 40+ women may tend to be less willing to actually get married than those who date younger women. The kind of men who date older women, I suspect, will tend to be older men who are a bit cynical, jaded, possibly divorced, and not so eager to get married. Or else younger men who are just interested in casual fun with an older woman, but not so much into marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:57 PM |
| 10 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.There's significantly more single men 18-29 than single women. 27% of men 18-29 are single vs. 19% of women. It is very easy for a man to have never had a gf by 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 11:01 PM |
| 3 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.40+ women are less likely to have kids (lower fecundity). It isn't impossible, but it is statistically less probable. It's probably easier for some 40+ women to find boyfriends than it is for them to have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.Women can find partners over 40, although it'll probably be harder than it was when they were younger. They're also statistically less likely to have kids for biological reasons. The chances of getting pregnant tend to be significantly lower among women over 40, even with fertility treatments, although it obviously does happen. Men can also find relationships over 40. Statistically it should be hardest for men to find partners when they're younger because there are significantly more single men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are women allowed to have needs but men are always not entitled to a relationship?Nobody is entitled to any relationship. People can coddle women and tell them that they deserve whatever type of man who fits whatever standards. But telling those women they're entitled to that doesn't meant that they will be able to find what they're looking for. When it comes to relationships, men and women can either find what they're looking for or they can't. Being told they're entitled to whatever is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 10:48 PM |
| 4 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.I have standards for women. They may not be extremely high status like the woman with a laundry list of demands. They may be pretty simple and basic, but I have them. Here it goes: I want a woman who I find physically attractive, has sex with me, and is nice to me/pleasant to be around. Those standards aren't astronomical. But they do exclude women with horrible personalities who are unpleasant to be around, regardless of how hot they may look. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards aren't high the average man has nothing of value to offer.I've asked, at times, "what do women want, and what do they have to offer in return?" And I haven't gotten any answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:59 PM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageIf they're protective of women, why don't they seem to care when young women choose abusive toxic men their own age over nice guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Are men not also hypergamous?Most men aren't hypergamous. And the ones who are, who actively seek out richer women, have to work harder and bring more game to the table than the average man does who goes for women of equal or lower socioeconomic status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Women's SMV is the highest in history, when will it come down?I'd say porn is the biggest thing that reduces women's market value in the West. Because if dudes can get off to whichever chicks they want for free, it puts a limit on how low they'll go for low quality pussy out of desperation. That's probably why they're trying to restrict access to it. Funny how you see progressive liberal feminist types collabing with right-wing conservative types to ban porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 03:55 PM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageWomen who hate older men dating younger women give themselves away with posts like this. If I said I was interested in dating green extraterrestrial minotaur women from the planet Xeta-Ephron III on the outskirts of the Milky Way Galaxy, people would just say I'm a r-tard. They wouldn't get angry and jealous at me because they know my goal is completely unrealistic. But the fact that people get so angry about older men dating younger women and feel the need to constantly say how younger women fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 03:36 PM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageIn my experience, young women typically prefer guys who are slightly older (let's say 1, 2, 3, 4 years older) to guys their own age. It is less common to see much older men with younger women, but it isn't all that uncommon either. In order words, relationships between significantly older men and much younger women aren't the majority of relationships (it is more common for the man to be less than 5 years older than the woman). But I have seen and heard of multiple cases of these kinds of relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays?If you look at the percentage of single men to single women, in the 20s a much higher percentage of men are single than women. A According to a Pew survey, 51% of men age 18-29 are single vs. 32% of women 18-29. 27% of men 30-49 are single vs. 19% of women. But when you get past 50, the percentage of single women starts to exceed the percentage of single men for the 1st time. 27% of men 50-64 are single vs. 29% of women. And 21% of men 65+ are single vs. 49% of women. Obviously the 65+ stat is h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays?Women in their 20s are often taken (married, have boyfriends, or ongoing relationships with other women's boyfriends or husbands). But when you get into the older age ranges, the percentage of single women increases. If you look at the surveys, they say a much higher percentage of men in their 20s are single than women in their 20s. But when you get into the 30s and 40s, the number of single men/women starts to even out, and then from the 50s onward, single women outnumber single men. So, basica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:48 PM |
| – | Sexual liberation is incompatible with civilizationIf I had to guess, I'd say violent coercive pimping is more prevalent in rich western countries like the US-of-A than it is in a lot of developing countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:29 PM |
| – | Sexual liberation is incompatible with civilizationFair enough. That's why I don't see anything wrong with passport broing and think the criticism of it is stupid. Nobody else is going to help men find wives or kids. So if they go overseas to get what they want, that's their prerogative. The people who criticize it definitely aren't going to do anything to help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?That's cultural conditioning. Would precolonial Indigenous men have thought that Slavic women were the most beautiful? Probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:13 PM |
| – | Sexual liberation is incompatible with civilizationI suspect that stuff is overexaggerated when it comes to the women that foreign tourists are dealing with. My understanding is a lot of those women don't have to sleep with Western men for money. They just see it as preferable to their other options, such as working longer hours in a factory for much less money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:10 PM |
| 4 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.Men can just jack off to porn to alleviate their sexual needs. The jacking off simulates pussy and the porn simulates the visual stimulation of seeing a real life partner. Is it the same as real sex? Nope. Does it get the job done and feel good to boot? Hell yeah. I'm sure a lot of men in prison, where there are no females available for sex in many cases, deal with their sexual urges exclusively by jacking off for years or decades at a time. Ditto for men in the military or other all-male enviro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.Agreed. Influencers in general are useless scammers. That pretty much goes for all of the ones who just jibber jabber without providing anything tangible information. For example, someone who makes a good video tutorial on how to fix a leaky faucet is providing useful actionable information. Likewise for someone who makes a good video on how to cook a certain dish of food. But some influencer who talks about a lot of this dating stuff or whatever, a lot of those people are useless. They're not g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:24 AM |
| – | Sexual liberation is incompatible with civilizationThe way I look at it, all of that is fine. Women can be liberated, fuck whoever they want, etc. But then people shouldn't be surprised or complain when men do whatever they want. Dudes want to jack off to porn? Their dick, their choice. Older men want younger women? Their dick their choice (if they can find younger women who are willing, of course). Men want to go overseas and pay hookers or sugar babies or get free hookups or find a gf or find a wife? Their dick, their money, their choice. Men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?I agree that things like feminine curves and youth are widely valued by men. But when it comes to preferences for specific racial or ethnic features, it is pretty subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?There are golddiggers all over the place. Besides that, traditional relationships typically (obviously not in every case, but in most cases) involved a man being the main provider. If your parents, grandparents, or great-grandparents were married a long time, who was the main financial provider in the relationship? Chances are it was your father, grandfather, or great-grandfather. Like other people pointed out here, not all "foreign women" are the same. There's different cultures all over the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:37 AM |
| 9 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?If you have significantly more money than average in the USA or other Western countries, people will treat you better and let you get away with stuff. Its really the same thing as any 3rd world country. As for social skills, it is much easier to socialize with people who are friendly than trying to beg people who are hostile for friendship. Frankly I'm not doing the latter. If you hate me without even knowing me in real life, then you can go suck your mother's pussy and fuck yourself. I'm not wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman?Physical preferences are subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Do men or women experience more violent crime in America?Men are more likely to be victims of violent crime. Men are more violent towards other men, especially strangers or casual acquaintances. Women (at least in the West) get passes for a lot of stuff that would get a man physically assaulted by another man. The only kind of violence women are more likely to be victims of are sexual assaults. In general, men mainly physically assault women they're involved in intimate relationships with (or were involved in relationships with). Whereas men are more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays?Since the Sexual Revolution, decreasing marriage rates, and rising divorce rates from the 1960s onward, the number of older women on the market has no doubt increased. I'd say this is one reason why you see a lot of hate against men dating younger women, men watching porn, and so forth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:17 AM |
| 5 | ''If Women's intuition is so good then why do they choose Toxic Abusive attractive guys, Checkmate Blue pilers ''Some men are aggressively and openly misogynistic and still get women. Doesn't Andrew Tate have gfs, for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men.Anyone can do what they like and anyone can be disgusted by what other people do. For example, a heterosexual man can be disgusted by homosexual male activities. It isn't stopping homosexuals from doing what they do, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men.Not sure if you're a troll or serious. But you don't get to dictate that men can be completely cut off from women. For one thing, you don't dictate what other women choose to do. And, secondly, you can't stop men from jacking off to porn if they feel like it. Their dick, their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men.Men don't need sex. Men can just jack off to porn instead. I'm sure there are lots of men in prison who can't get any sex with women for years, but just jerk off to porn or whatever other material they can get instead of going the bat "E" fish way. I'd say women need men more than men need sex. Prostitutes get money from men. If a man doesn't get sex, he can jack off to porn and get the same result (busting a nut). Whereas if a woman doesn't have money, she'll starve to death. I guess the advant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:11 AM |
| 5 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manThat's why I like travelling to meet women. There are way more women overseas who fit my preferences than there are in my country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itYeah. A lot of men find younger women more physically attractive, and age tends to reduce men's testosterone and therefore their sex drive. Meaning younger women tend to have both more men who find them sexually attractive and the men their age are more highly motivated to pursue them (because they're hornier than old men). Whereas as women get older, their sex appeal to men tends to drop, and the sex drive of men their age is lower, so those men are less motivated to chase after those women. Wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:12 PM |
| 0 | There is nothing “creepy” or “predatory” about 30-40 year old men wanting to date or sleep with 20-25 year olds, it isn’t men’s fault women don’t age wellAdult (18+) men and women can both choose whichever partners they want. Frankly if women chose other men when we were both younger, then I can choose younger women when I'm older instead of women my own age. I can't force younger women to choose me. But if younger women choose me and vice versa, I don't see a problem. If when I was 22 years old 22 year old women my age didn't choose me, that was their prerogative. But 18 years later, if I'm 40 years old, and I find a 22 year old who likes me, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating.I think men are just evolved to be approachers. Its easier for a man to convince a woman to be attracted to him by talking to her than vice versa. If a man finds a woman attractive and approaches her, he might convince her, even if she didn't initially find him attractive on first sight. Whereas if a man doesn't find a woman physically/sexually attractive at 1st, it is much harder for a woman to convince the man to be attracted to her. The fact that men tend to be approachers is a double-edged s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Current day red pillers lie to men about how women are and what men should do to attract women, because red pill not longer wants to help men be successful at dating, but to make men bitter, miserable, angry doomers who stay single and alone and eventually even self-delete.Strangers on the internet typically aren't interested in your best interests. Influencers are often attention-seeking narcissists and con-artists. They want attention, accolades, social status, recognition, and money for themselves. Some get paid by government agencies, special interests, assorted organizations, or individuals to push certain agendas. And in terms of monetization, they're incentized to get people to pay attention to them and interact with them. So a Redpill influencer has no inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:22 AM |
| – | Why? If women can't get a man it's the men.If a man can't get a woman it's the man.Maybe people were more real on the internet on message boards in the 90s or 2000s. That was back when the internet was still underground. Nowadays the internet is mainstream and run by major corporations and the government. It is inundated with propaganda and bullshit and you get banned off platforms for saying things they don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Pre Marital Sex is as Bad as Purposely Spreading Infectious DiseasesIf everyone got married young and stayed monogamously together for life, there'd be a lot less STDs. But that's not realistic in modern Western society. The average American male and female lose their virginity at 17. By the 20-24 age range, only about 12% of American women and 14% of American men are still virgins. But the average age for marriage is about 28 for women and 30 for men. So there's a 10 year or more gap between people losing their virginity and getting married. That means the aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:40 AM |
| – | As a White Man, Black Women get hated for no Reason, and i never understood why this is.Those types of white men also hate black men. They don't just hate black women. It is general racism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:05 AM |
| – | As a White Man, Black Women get hated for no Reason, and i never understood why this is.There's irrational hate towards black people in general from some white American guys. And from other races, and even some black people as well. It's not just black women. Do you think racist white American men who hate black women love black men? Probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 11:02 AM |
| – | As a White Man, Black Women get hated for no Reason, and i never understood why this is.Its caused by racism, self-hatred (in the case of black people attacking black women), and unemployed trolls who make a living posting controversial content and/or being police Cointelpro agents deliberately undermining the black community. Also, most of the people talking bad about black women are referring specifically to black American women. If you're from Switzerland, you're probably not dealing with black American women. You're dealing with women from Africa who have different cultures. Bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:54 AM |
| – | Why? If women can't get a man it's the men.If a man can't get a woman it's the man.The internet is the place where people go to spout bullshit that has no relation to reality, and to protect their online bullshit-safe spaces from any criticism or pointing out of reality by banning or blocking comments they don't like. So its best to just ignore those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:53 AM |
| -1 | Cancel Older Women. Divorce and Marry Young. Society needs itI didn't get that from a porno. I got it from anecdotal stories of married men banging younger women and younger women having affairs with older married men. There's lots of stories you can find online about real life cases of this. I've also heard about stories like this from people who weren't famous. Just regular randos. One high profile one in the early 90s was a married body shop owner named Joey Buttafuoco who had an affair with a teen girl named Amy Fisher. Fisher tried to murder Buttafuo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 12:55 PM |
| -2 | Cancel Older Women. Divorce and Marry Young. Society needs itNo she can't. Typically married men have affairs with younger women, but often don't actually leave their older wives. Why buy the cow when the milk is free? If you're already getting the young punani and you've got the tried-and-true old wife who can do non-sexual wife stuff for you, why go through the hassle of a costly divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 12:47 PM |
| -6 | Cancel Older Women. Divorce and Marry Young. Society needs itWhy do you assume OP is an older man? Could be a younger woman who wants the wealthy older man she's having an affair with to divorce his wife and get with her. Or could just be a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.I'm a big fan of jacking off to porn. It feels really good. Its free and doesn't take a lot of effort or come with a lot of complications, unlike real women. However, jacking off is stigmatized by a lot of people (see nofap, for instance, and all of its earlier pre-internet/social media versions like the Corn Flakes guy). So some guys don't believe in masturbating. Or at least say they don't. Plus, men in crowded living conditions or without privacy might not have much opportunity to jack off. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.Men are also horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.be a good person for women, Being a good person isn't closely correlated to getting pussy. Women fuck horrible piece of shit men all the time. Examples: Ted Bundy, Harvey Weinstein, Charles Manson, John Wayne Gacy, OJ Simpson, P. Diddy, Rae Carruth, that Nexium (sp?) guy, etc. etc. etc. There's countless examples, and those are only the famous ones. Plenty more non-famous ones in your local neighborhood. improve your financial status for women, This works. get a hobby and improve your social ski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Why is cold approaching seen as a "better" alternative to dating apps?I don't like online dating because (a) physical attraction is important to me, and (b) personality is important to me. It can be hard to tell what a person really looks like irl if you only see them online (depending on what photos they post). And it can be hard to figure out a person's personality online or what they would be like irl. That's why I don't like dating apps too much. That and the whole 90% male, fake women, and women not responding thing. At least if I see a woman irl, I know she'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Where is the current dating disaster headed? It can’t possibly sustain itself for much longer, and women only seem to be getting more delusionâl.In 2024 sexless dudes will just pull up generic porn site dot com on their smartphone, jerk off, bust a nut, and then forget about women and do something else. Women with unrealistic standards will just end up single or else miserable because they don't think the guy they "settled" with is good enough. It is true that single men may have less motivation to work hard. But that is balanced by more women in the workforce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Would prostitution be accepted if customers admitted to it more often?Maybe. But why does prostitution need to be accepted? I think it should be decriminalized. But since the "action" is generally private between consenting adults, I don't see why it requires approval or acceptance from other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness.That's true, but I've started to tune them out at this point. And I'm not apologizing for something some other guy did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 07:43 AM |
| 9 | Question for women: how often do you get approached by men in public?I'm a man, but I think a lot of it depends on the culture in a specific place. In some places it is more socially accepted for men to just approach and proposition random women. In others it is taboo. In North America, for example, you'll probably see far fewer guys approaching random women in a suburban middle-class neighborhood. But random approaches outside of bars or nightclubs are probably more common in working-class and lower-income neighborhoods. So obviously women living in cultures whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 01:14 AM |
| – | Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness.I agree with this. But frankly, their choice, their problem. Not mine. LOL. Frankly I'm really proud of myself. I used to be one of those guys who said "waaaaah, women don't like nice guys, women like assholes". But now I really don't care. If a woman wants to choose a guy who is abusive its no sweat off my balls. I'm always going to get my rocks off one way or another anyway. Plus police can't lock me up because some other dude beat his girl when I didn't have anything to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?Iran is a weird one because it has a conservative theocratic government but also appears to simultaneously have a lot of people who are liberal-minded. At least with the Iranian people I've seen in the West, they appear to generally be more liberal than most other Middle Easterners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?Patriarchy, religion, and free markets are positively correlated with high birth rates. Irreligion and Marxism are negatively correlated. Just compare different countries around the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?The refusal of women in the most progressive, pro-feminist, egalitarian, pro-women's rights cultures in the world to have children will just bring about the demographic preponderance of genuinely patriarchal cultures like conservative Muslim, Sub-Saharan African, Latin American, and Hindu ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?YOU may not allow your womb to be used, but other women from other cultures are still breeding. It is just women like you (i.e. feminist, progressive, purple hair, etc.) who aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?Where I'm from I rarely see the stereotypical native-born purple-haired gender queer feminist types with kids. But I do see lots of immigrant women (East Indians, Middle Easterners, Sub-Saharan Africans, Eastern Europeans, Latin Americans, Southeast Asians, etc.), usually with men of their own culture, with children. So all that's happening is the native women, and especially the man-hating gender-queer feminist types, aren't having kids, but the traditional immigrant ones are. I think this is e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?I agree with you to some extent. But feminism and other "progressive" ideologies (like gender theory, LGBTQ, etc.) are often transmitted socially through schools, media, peer groups, etc. rather than directly from parents. You can see it with immigrants, for example. The newly arrived immigrants tend to be more traditional based on whatever culture they come from. But then their children who are born/raised in the West are more likely to get into the Western ideologies like feminism and so on. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:58 PM |
| 14 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?a sewer where the voices of grifters and charlatans are disproportionately amplified - it’s completely unanchored from reality. That's just social media in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:54 PM |
| -7 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Women are much more likely to favor disagreeable men than vice versa. I'm pretty sure there have been studies on this, showing women preferring disagreeable men and men preferring agreeable women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:29 AM |
| 1 | It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women.Woah, woah, woah. Are you telling me that most men like women they get along with and don't want an unpleasant woman who treats them badly and makes them unhappy all the time? Wow, who woulda thunk it. /s Seriously, though. It seems women have a much bigger tolerance for asshole and disagreeable men than vice versa. Some women will say a guy who is too nice and "has no backbone" is boring, and will go for obnoxious asshole bully men. But I don't think most men really want to put up with obnoxiou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 02:16 AM |
| 0 | What is men's obsession's with dating and boinking teenage girl?On an evolutionary level men are generally geared to be attracted to fecundity. That's probably also why there are more men who are heterosexual than homosexual. Evolution tends to give people a predisposition towards wanting to do stuff that can lead to reproduction- the fact alone that so many men are so obsessed with sex is just one example of this. Even if men don't consciously want to be attracted to young women they can't help it. They can choose not to act on that attraction, but its hard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:58 AM |
| 4 | So if Women in the US go after the top percent of guys while they are young, do average guys need to wait for them to settle for them when they get older?Seems like the number of unmarried and unpartnered women starts to surpass the number of unmarried/unpartnered men of the same age around the mid-40s. So, theoretically it should be easier for men to find women of the same age to settle with when they're in their mid-40s. But in reality, a lot of women in their 40s likely still feel they're as attractive as they were in their 20s, plus add in the likelihood of emotional baggage and bitterness from past relationships. Seems to me dealing with wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:34 AM |
| 5 | why don't ab*s*rs give people "the ick"?Diddly has a lot of money, but his fame also means that you can literally Google search and pull up all kinds of allegations of him abusing women, being a closeted homosexual, engaging in violence and sleazy business dealings, etc. Besides that, I've known non-rich, non-famous men who were abusers who didn't seem to have trouble finding women. It is easier to use an example like Diddy because people know who he is. But it doesn't mean there aren't a lot of non-rich and non-famous men just like h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:59 PM |
| 9 | why don't ab*s*rs give people "the ick"?There are men who are well-known abusers and who display asshole behavior constantly. Women still go for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:41 PM |
| 3 | why don't ab*s*rs give people "the ick"?Nope. A lot of the abusers are uggos. P Diddy looks like he has Downs Syndrome but he still had a string of hot gfs and baby moms while beating on them and homosexually cheating on them with men and boys. Women are attracted to perceived social status more than actual looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:39 PM |
| 21 | why don't ab*s*rs give people "the ick"?Because, despite whatever bullshit people on Reddit or elsewhere say, women aren't attracted to virtue or decency. They're often attracted to men who are horrible people. This narrative that "you're an incel who can't get pussy because of your bad personality or misogyny" is pure fucking weapons grade bullshitonium. Women fuck assholes, bullies, abusers, and piece of shit human being men ALL THE FUCKING TIME. There are countless examples. P Diddy is an alleged homosexual/bisexual, grape-o, Chest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:37 PM |
| 8 | Are married men happier and more successful because they’re married or are they married because they’re happier and more successfulTrue. A lot of women and men are horrible people who abuse their partners and make their lives worse. But if you're a heterosexual man, you won't be marrying a man, so the horrible men aren't your problem with respect to being married to them. It is the horrible women you need to look out for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | It has never been easier to approach womenYour type of girls most likely happens to be the same as a lot of other men and you are outcompeted. You're right. However, my type (18 year old black girls with big asses and big tits) is also rare where I live. So I have to deal with both competition and general scarcity. But when I go overseas to particular destinations there are way more of my type around in the general population, and the average income is lower, so I become "rich". It is a winning combination for me. Also I've frankly beco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 11:47 AM |
| 3 | It has never been easier to approach womenHypergamous means only wanting people who are of higher socioeconomic status. I don't care about women's socioeconomic status. I don't need women to necessarily be better looking than me either. I just want someone who I find physically attractive. There aren't many of them where I live but there are a lot more of them overseas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 12:43 PM |
| 2 | It has never been easier to approach womenThe problem is the limited number of women I find physically attractive where I live overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 11:43 AM |
| 2 | It has never been easier to approach womenCost/benefit. First, there aren't that many women I find extremely attractive where I live. And people in general are spread out over a big area. Secondly, cold approaches don't have a high rate of success. So, in order to find women I want to approach, I'd probably end up running around the city all day. And when I do find women to approach, I'd get a high rate of rejection. Doesn't seem to be worth the trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 01:22 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?Some places are definitely better than others when it comes to meeting attractive women. At least in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:42 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?A lot of people couldn't care less. A few people are buttmad. I saw videos of a guy in Montreal who interviewed young women in the nightclub area of the city and asked them what they thought of passport bros. I noticed the Anglophone chicks spouted typical woke feminist type bullshit rhetoric. Whereas the Francophone chicks didn't seem to care so much. But overall, I think young and relatively attractive late teens early 20s type women who go to nightclubs generally don't know or care much. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:41 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?The people posting a lot of videos are generally grifters who are trying to make money and get attention off it. A lot of other men have been doing this for decades (yes, including black men) without making so much noise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:36 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?Exactly. The simple math is that there are more women I find physically attractive overseas than there are in my own country. To get a woman in my own country I have to work harder with a lower chance of finding someone I am physically attracted to and who is nice to me (because a lot of the women in my country have entitled attitudes). Why would I want to be miserable instead of happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:33 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?Who said they didn't have any chances at home? I've seen, met, and heard about guys who have gone abroad and found gfs, and they varied from nerds who weren't popular with women at home, to players who had multiple baby mothers in their native countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:31 AM |
| – | What do you think of passport bros?Idc if men go overseas to have anything from casual sex to marriage. Men have been doing this since forever. And frankly there are women who do it too. I'm not sure what the big difference is between some chick who goes to Europe and has sex with other tourists or locals at hostels, and some guy who goes to SEA or LatAm and has sex with locals. I don't really like the influencers, but I don't like influencers in general because I find most of them to be scammers and grifters. If I went overseas … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:24 AM |
| 2 | If women hit the wall, according to men, would it be in a young woman's best interest to NOT date older men?What does this have to do with older men in particular? Most men don't suddenly abandon their spouses or gfs at 12 am on the day that she turns 30. That's just not how men operate. The truth is younger women are generally more physically attractive to a large proportion of men than older women are. So when it comes to initial attraction, younger women have an advantage. However, in the context of a long-term relationship, I think physical attraction becomes less important and liking someone as a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Why isn't the phrase "Nice girls finish last" as common?There's dating apps, nightclubs, bars, and all kinds of public places where you can meet women. Other than that, you can just straight up pay for pussy. Some cities may not have many street walkers, but others have lots of them- you can see them in videos on YouTube in various US cities, for example. There's escorts and women selling pussy online. There are massage parlors and strip clubs. There are sugar babies too. If a man has $1,000 or whatever to spend to fly to SEA and allegedly pay for pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't the phrase "Nice girls finish last" as common?Honestly women hold all the power in the dating world until they reach a certain age, don't look as good as they used to, and a lot of men are either already in relationships, chasing young women, or have simply checked out of the game because they're too old and tired to put up with the BS and would rather just do whatever activities they enjoy. Plus they can no longer compete with younger women for the most attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Why isn't the phrase "Nice girls finish last" as common?Exactly. If anything guys who are naturally nice will learn to pretend to be an asshole to get laid. Pretending to be nice to get laid doesn't make sense because it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Why isn't the phrase "Nice girls finish last" as common?The thing I don't understand about the "nice guy" narrative is why would a guy pretend to be nice to get pussy if it doesn't work? Seems to me if you're going to be fake to get laid, it works better to pretend to be an arrogant asshole. If I wanted to fuck a chick, I'd pretend to be an obnoxious arrogant asshole, not pretend to be nice, since all available evidence shows women want to give their pussy up to the former and not the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Why isn't the phrase "Nice girls finish last" as common?Because it isn't true. Men prefer nice women. If a girl is nice but ugly, and also very picky, then maybe she'll have a hard time. But if a girl is young, nice and smoking hot with a pretty face and nice body, and interested in a serious relationship, she'll often be snatched off the market in milliseconds. In fact, I think a lot of the "passport bros" stuff is guys flying halfway around the world to find women who are nicer to them than the ones at home. Because it isn't exactly hard to get pus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Most Blue Pill men are just “sneaky fuckers” practicing sexual mimicry.I might get in trouble for saying this, but there is a certain demographic who shall not be mentioned ("more than meets the eye..."). I read that among members of this demographic who are in prison, there is a significantly higher-than-average rate of sex offenses. Meaning, in the general population of prison inmates x% have been convicted of sexual crimes, whereas among this other demographic whose name shall not be mentioned, the rate of sex offenses, including sexual assaults against women, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 02:58 PM |
| 0 | Human mating strategy is proof women need menThe truth is, women need men more for survival than vice versa. Men don't need women to survive, but want women for sex, breeding, social status, and domestic help. If you take away men's need for those things, then women become unnecessary. If a man likes to jack off a lot, he doesn't need women so much for sex. I think that's the reason for the anti-porn and nofap movements, and why a lot of traditional societies and religions were against masturbation. It is harder to control men if they don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.There's definitely a lot of condescending racism and classism going on. It's also funny when they pretend to gaf about these women. Please. If these women were starving to death in the street or being raped and murdered by local men, all these Western women wouldn't give 2 fucks about them. They only start noticing women in other countries when if they see those women taking "their" dual mating strategy back-up plans. Also the assumption that certain races of women are more attractive than other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Nothing makes many western women more angry than women in other countries, especially non-western countries, having happy relationships with men that those western women think they shouldn't be dating.Who cares. If you want to go find a woman in a foreign country, just ignore the haters and do what you want. I'm not wasting my time watching stupid TikTok videos of Western women beaching about men going overseas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Data from Glacier National Park on Homicides deaths vs Bear Attacks proves that man encounters are safer than bear encountersBlack bears may respond to deterrence techniques. I'm not sure how well an angry or determined grizzly would respond. And I really don't think there is much that can deter or a determined polar bear who wants to eat you. On the other hand, I doubt there are large numbers of male grapists roaming the forests looking for female victims. And, even though men are stronger than women on average, a male and female human are more evenly matched than a human and a bear. So a woman has a better chance of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Data from Glacier National Park on Homicides deaths vs Bear Attacks proves that man encounters are safer than bear encountersOn a per contact basis, bears are much more dangerous than men. A woman can interact with 1,000 men, and none will grape or kidnap her. But if she has close interaction with 10 wild bears, she much more likely to get attacked or killed by at least one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Data from Glacier National Park on Homicides deaths vs Bear Attacks proves that man encounters are safer than bear encountersYou don't get attacked by large wild animal predators because men killed most of them, and the ones that survived learned to avoid people. So the only big and potentially dangerous "animals" you interact with are other humans. That's why all your bad experiences are with other humans and not with wild animals. Men are potentially dangerous, yes. But collectively they also protect you (and protected your ancestors) from big dangerous animals. If most people disappeared tomorrow and you were left … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 04:13 AM |
| 6 | Data from Glacier National Park on Homicides deaths vs Bear Attacks proves that man encounters are safer than bear encountersSend them to the Arctic to hang with polar bears. They should be happy because there aren't many men around there. Then they can see how much safer bears are than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Data from Glacier National Park on Homicides deaths vs Bear Attacks proves that man encounters are safer than bear encountersWho cares. If they tested their theory irl and decided hanging out with wild bears was safer than hanging out with human men, they'd get killed and eaten like Grizzly Man and his gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:48 AM |
| 10 | Data from Glacier National Park on Homicides deaths vs Bear Attacks proves that man encounters are safer than bear encountersAt the end of the day, Idgaf. Historically men protected women from large wild animals. In prehistoric times (and continuing into the present day to a lesser degree) people were preyed on by bears, wolves, big cat species like lions and tigers, and so on. But nowadays most big predators have been killed off by men in areas with dense human population. That has given women the luxury of saying dumb stuff like bears are safer than men. But if they tested this theory irl, they'd end up like that Gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:46 AM |
| 8 | Data from Glacier National Park on Homicides deaths vs Bear Attacks proves that man encounters are safer than bear encountersBlack bears attack more people in North America every year than either grizzlies or polars. That's not because black bears are more aggressive than grizzlies or polars, but because they're more numerous and have a much bigger range, so they come into contact with people more often. So men kill more women than bears do. In fact, men also kill other men more frequently than they kill women. But that's because humans typically have a lot of contact with other humans. If you have as much close conta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:40 AM |
| 18 | Data from Glacier National Park on Homicides deaths vs Bear Attacks proves that man encounters are safer than bear encountersYeah. This is a no-brainer. I've commented on this in the other 500 threads on this topic here. Bears are infinitely more dangerous than men on a per interaction basis. I don't know about all the species of bears in the world, but North America has 3 species- polar, brown or grizzly, and black. Polar bears actively prey on humans and if they see you, they're likely to hunt and kill you unless you shoot them. Grizzlies usually avoid people, but if they become habituated to people, if you threaten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:33 AM |
| 2 | An obsession to get with a virgin woman is mainly an American thing.First of all, the obsession with female virginity seems to have been common among a lot of traditional societies. I haven't done a bunch of research on this subject, but I have come across different cultures where women being virgins was a big deal: in Victorian England; Muslim cultures; some traditional Sub-Saharan African cultures (i.e. some of the South African Bantu groups); in traditional Roman Catholic societies; and so on. In the case of the US, I suspect that the virginity thing is empha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Men are the ones who settle.I would argue that nobody really settles because people get the partners who they can get. If a woman marries a man she's not "settling" because that's probably the best she could do. Yes, she might've found more attractive men to sleep with her, but she couldn't get them to commit to her. Likewise, if a man marries a woman who isn't the hottest looking in his eyes, he's not settling because he couldn't find a hotter woman to marry him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 01:14 AM |
| -1 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"I have an issue at them buttraging at me for not being attracted to them when they're old and shriveled up. They always say "women don't owe you sex". Which is true. If young women didn't give me pussy I just compromised like Phil Leotardo from the Sopranos when he was in prison: I got porn and jacked off instead. But I don't owe them relationships, attention, protection, or resources either. Especially when they're no longer young and physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 11:01 AM |
| 10 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"Which is why I wouldn't settle down with a woman who only started being "attracted" to me when her eggs began to dry out. Sounds like an one way route to Deadbedroom Station. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 10:57 AM |
| 2 | The “I’d rather be in the woods with a bear than a man” things it’s utterly ridiculous.The only reason men kill way more women than bears is because men have way more contact with women than bears. That was the point I'm making. If you had regular close contact with bears the way you almost certainly have with men, you'd probably be dead. In North America, brown and black bears usually avoid people, while polar bears actively hunt and feed on any people they catch. The reason polar bears don't kill people very often is hardly any people live in the far north where polar bears live… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 02:28 AM |
| -1 | Women consistently base their selection and opinion of men on what other men and women think of them, this is very strange behaviorPassport broing is an option for some. Also, it isn't hard for women to get laid. They don't have to be popular to get men to sleep with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | He talks like a misogynistOP isn't wrong. A lot of women attack inoffensive men who haven't done anything to them. They're basically female bullies, except instead of violence they use emotional abuse, put downs, and men who will do violence on their behalf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | He talks like a misogynistWhat ulterior motives? If a timid guy asks a woman out, it is because he wants a sexual relationship with her. That's pretty obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | If this is what the blue pill is promising men if they treat women right I don't want itThis is why I don't feel bad about being single. Having to put up with a lot of these unpleasant and physically unattractive women is much, much, much, much worse. Of course haters love to talk about the "male loneliness epidemic" (LOL) and say I'm an "incel". But, in reality, I really like my own company and don't like a lot of people too much. I don't need an unattractive woman whom I don't like as a person around me. I'd rather be single and do what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesI don't think it is just about getting dick. It is about getting treated like they're specially by handsome young men. If these older women went into a nightclub full of young college kids, the good looking charming young men would ignore them in favor of younger hotter women. They can get dick, but often from guys who are less attractive or who just want easy sex with them. But if they go abroad, they can get romanced and sweet talked by young handsome guys. Plus they won't get social judgment … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesWhy don't a lot of Western women want to date men who are the same or poorer than they are at home? Why is it okay for Western women to seek out richer men, but "exploitation" if a woman overseas does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesIt is funny how Western women insist that Western men are "exploiting" foreign women. As if women in other countries are too stupid to make their own decisions. Western women wanted all the sexual freedom. Freedom to choose whichever men they want. Freedom to have sex with whoever they want. Freedom to chase after rich men. But they want to deny that freedom to women in other countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesI've never been to Colombia, but when I read some Spanish language internet comments on the American guy with underage girls, I was surprised that a lot of them weren't too harsh towards the American. So I suspect that the outrage towards Americans isn't as big as some people portray it to be. As long as Americans or other Western tourists and expats don't significantly affect the lives of the average Colombian, I suspect most of them wouldn't think much about Americans. I assume that if you go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesI saw a Spanish language news clip about that incident on YouTube. The comments were all in Spanish, and I expected the commenters to all be screaming for gringo blood with torches and pitchforks in hand. Instead, when I translated the comments, most of them were saying that the girls were too materialistic and weren't innocent, and some blamed their parents for letting the girls run wild like that. So yes, I'm sure there are some people in Colombia and other countries who are outraged at Wester… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesHow do you keep quiet? Most men who travel overseas and do anything from paying hookers to marrying local women don't attention-hoar on social media or make thousands of videos of themselves talking about it. Some guys post online about it, but I've seen those posts on message boards online going back long before the "passport bros" thing popped up. There are only a few influencers who are making a lot of noise and making videos, and other men can't control what those people do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesWhen single Western men and women went overseas to a lot of countries, they would often receive offers of paid sex, casual sex, sexual relationships, or sometimes marriage. This is long long before passport bros or even the internet existed. Anyone with basic common sense already knew what was up. If people in tourist areas saw a single man or a single woman, they'd often assume that person was looking for sex or sexual relationships. That's why, for a long time, single tourists have often offer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesI find it funny that some of the people who support unlimited immigration to the detriment of Western society also oppose Western men traveling abroad and meeting women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Passport bros are actually hurting western men’s reputation in some countriesI don't like influencers in general. People who make lots of no-talent videos j-ing off their mouths and saying nothing are typically grifters, attention-seeking malignant narcissists, paid by alphabet agencies or special interests to push some kind of agenda, or some combination thereof. That said, do you really think it took a "passport bro" movement online for people in Colombia and wherever else to figure out that men (and women) from Western countries are interested in sex? I'm pretty sure … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 12:20 AM |
| 1 | The “I’d rather be in the woods with a bear than a man” things it’s utterly ridiculous.I assume you live in an urban or suburban area close to lots of men (and women). You're obviously safer living near to people (including men) than you would be around large predatory wild animals. Bears are easy to avoid because people have driven most of them away from populated areas. If you lived centuries earlier then being attacked and killed by bears would've been a much more realistic concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 11:56 PM |
| 5 | The “I’d rather be in the woods with a bear than a man” things it’s utterly ridiculous.Hikers, hunters, and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 03:20 AM |
| – | Does Agreeableness Actually Matter?Men will bang and impregnate anything with a pulse. But I suspect men are more likely to stay with more agreeable women long term than disagreeable ones. I'd have to try to look and see if I can find any studies to back up that assumption, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 02:14 AM |
| – | Does Agreeableness Actually Matter?Physical attraction is important as well, especially initially. I think there's a balance. Agreeableness can compensate for looks to a some degree, and disagreeableness can undermine the appeal of physical attractiveness to some degree. I can only speak for myself, but I don't want to deal with a woman who is a total 24/7 b-word for any extended period of time, even if she's a smoking hot 10/10. I don't really want to deal with a very physically unattractive woman even if she's very sweet and ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:25 AM |
| 3 | The “I’d rather be in the woods with a bear than a man” things it’s utterly ridiculous.This is a dumb take. Women are more likely to be killed by a male human than a wild animal. Likewise, as a man I'm more likely to be killed by a human than a bear. But if you compared the risk of being killed per interaction, bears are far more dangerous than humans are. I walk down a street full of people and not get killed. I can go into a store full of people or ride a bus full of people and not get killed. Now imagine trying that with grizzly bears, or, even worse, polar bears. I'd be dead i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:19 AM |
| 3 | The “I’d rather be in the woods with a bear than a man” things it’s utterly ridiculous.Most men aren't psycho killers, though. In general men (in the West at least) treat women nicer than they treat other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:16 AM |
| – | Does Agreeableness Actually Matter?I have no doubt that she could find a relationship easily. If she's really single it may be she can't find the specific type of man she wants, or that men who are interested in her initially don't stick around. There are some women who are actually fairly physically attractive, but whom I suspect a lot of men can't put up with for an extended period of time. There are some celebrity women like that who you see dating different men for short periods of time, but their relationships never seem to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:14 AM |
| – | Does Agreeableness Actually Matter?YouTubers and influencers, in general, tend to be grifters. I don't know anything about Pearl and I've never watched her videos. But on the basis of her being a YouTuber alone I wouldn't trust her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:09 AM |
| – | Does Agreeableness Actually Matter?Anyone can write a book. Just because someone wrote that book doesn't mean it is true. Everything I've seen suggests men generally prefer agreeable women to abrasive ones, and that the opposite is true for women's preferences in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:02 AM |
| – | Does Agreeableness Actually Matter?Men seem to prefer agreeable women, in general. For example, there are men who fly halfway around the world because they say women overseas are more agreeable than Western women. I haven't heard of men flying halfway around the world because they heard that women in whichever country are much more abrasive and obnoxious than the women in their home country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:00 AM |
| – | Any method a man can use to get into a relationship is demonisedBecause in Western society there's a lot of hatred towards male heterosexuality. It likely comes from the bitterness of women who used to be part of informal harems, all fucking the same small number of men, but then aged out. And now they hate men and heterosexuality and are a mission to destroy it by aggressively pushing LMNOPism and so forth. Ironically by demonizing any heterosexual male approaches towards women, it only leads men to increasingly rely on jacking off to porn like lifers in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in datingAgreed. Women can choose whoever they want and reject whoever they want, but the same goes for men. That's also why I'm not with that nofap noporn stuff. I would only renounce porn and masturbation if I could get sex with the woman I wanted whenever I wanted without too much trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Will polygyny be normalized in the future?Polygyny has been normalized in the West since the sexual liberation in the 1960s. In fact its been going on forever, just on a smaller scale (a lot of European royals, for example, had multiple mistresses on the side). The only thing is that women tend to age out of informal harems. If I was a man who could get just about any woman he wanted, why wouldn't I just keep mostly younger and prettier ones on the roster? Aging ones would have to have to be stand outs to stay outs to stay in rotation. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersThe issue is more about similar age women rejecting men when they were young, but then getting buttmad and causing problems later on when those men are going for younger women instead of them. If "you" (a woman) don't choose me or reject me when we're both young, that is fine. But don't expect me to want you when you get older. And don't expect me not to prefer younger women. That is all I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersMost men don't leave their wives as soon as she reaches a certain age. Most divorces are initiated by women. But some single men prefer younger women to women their own age. Which is their prerogative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Why the traditional way was better for both gendersWomen can do what they want, IMO. But they shouldn't expect that men are obligated to treat them like 20 year old supermodels when they're 60. That would be like an out of shape 60 year old man thinking he can get on the field and play in the NFL because he was a star on his high school football team when he was 17. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:47 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areNot sarcasm. There's no way in hell I'm cuddling with a dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:28 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areSo aging women in their 40s have the exact same options as hot 22 year olds? Give me a break. Women of a certain age objectively have fewer options than younger women. Some men want relationships with 40+ women, but there are fewer of them than there are men who want relationships with younger women. The denial on here is strong. In reality the middle-aged woman who can't find the type of man she wants is a cliche for a reason. Yes, most women in their 30s and 40s can find some man who will be w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:26 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areSharing feelings and cuddling with other men is the most disgustingly homosexual shit I've ever heard. Fuck no I'm not doing that gay shit. I'd rather be "lonely" and not gay than cuddle and talk about my fee-fees with a dude. LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:19 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areI disagree. As a man I'd much rather be single than in a bad relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:18 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areIdk. Elderly barren women over the age of 25 are basically invisible to me, so I wouldn't notice them anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:16 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly arePeople talk about double standards that favor men. But there are several double standards where people attack men for certain behaviors but don't care about the equivalents in women. Like you said, no one cares if older women sleep with much younger men, especially if they're legal age. Also, people condemn men watching porn, but are largely silent about women watching porn. No one cares if women go to poorer countries and fuck local men. But they get their panties all twisted up in a bunch if m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:14 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areSame here. As a man I like being single when I can do what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:02 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly arePeople here keep repeating the same tired rhetoric about a "male loneliness epidemic". But this is easily refuted by statistics that say women consistently report being lonelier than men. Lets cut the bullshit. Men don't need women more than vice versa. Men are just hornier than women, but that problem can be solved by jacking off to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:02 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areI'd rather have porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:59 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Some people go online to hate and make jokes at others' expense. There are videos of unfortunate men where women will make similar comments mocking their predicament that get lots of upvotes. For example, videos about men who went overseas to meet women and ran into some kind of trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:15 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areWell if women are happier with their cats than with the men that are available to them, then they can have that. They make that choice. And, likewise, if men can't find women they like, then they can do whatever to make themselves as content as they can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:12 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areCool. Then those women can have their cats or whatever, and the men they don't want can find other women, have their porn and videogames, or whatever they're into. Problem solved. Everyone is happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:08 AM |
| – | The fact that women well into their late 30s and 40s maintain their inflated egos and high standards, even as their value decreases shows how delusional they truly areI agree with OP that there are lots of delusional women. I think it is a problem insofar as some of them get buttmad and lash out when their unrealistic expectations aren't met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:06 AM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…That could be true if it is a fat 50 year old man with kids who only wants a 21 year old skinny woman with no kids. But it is completely reasonable for, say a 21 year old fit man with no kids, to want a non-morbidly obese woman around his own age with no kids. And, frankly, if the 50 year old fat guy with kids can find a 21 year old skinny woman with no kids who likes him, then who is anyone else to tell them no? Men also don't have to choose women they don't want anymore than women have to choo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...Older women aren't mistreated. They just get ignored. That may feel like mistreatment for someone accustomed to being given special treatment and put on a pedestal. Young men don't get the same special treatment just because they're young that many young women do (especially the hotter ones). Unlike young women, young men are often seen as dangerous, competition by other men, etc. Because men tend to either be treated badly or ignored when they're younger, they're less likely to notice worse tre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Are passports bros horrible people ?Probably not worse or better than anyone else. I suspect they're just a sample of the general population. If you look at people who go overseas, at least partly to find sexual or romantic opportunities, you'll find a wide variety of different kinds of people. Most will probably be men, but there are also some women who do it. Most are likely heterosexual, simply because the majority of people are heterosexual. But there are gay ones too. Some are looking specifically for women to marry or have s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 04:01 AM |
| -3 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Women have framed getting attention and resources from men as a human right rather than an option, so obviously they feel rage when denied their "human right" to get stuff from men who are preoccupied with approaching more attractive women, their hobbies, meeting women overseas or jerking off to porn. Is a coincidence that all these old crusty female politicians keep trying to pass laws to ban porn? LOL. Also, as to your first point, a lot of men want to get laid. They don't want to be a woman's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 10:40 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?I agree with what you said. The studies I've Googled generally say women report slightly higher levels of loneliness than men (although I saw one from China saying some single men there report higher levels of loneliness). I found the abstract of a paper published by Ricardo Pagan called "Gender and Age Differences in Loneliness", using data from Germany, found that "in general... males report lower loneliness scores as compared to those of females." Pagan's study also found among people with se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 10:32 AM |
| -2 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?The so-called "male loneliness epidemic" is caused by the internet and social media. First of all, it is caused by the internet because it is something that is made up and propagated on social media. Every single study I've seen says that females are slightly more likely to say they're lonely than males. This has been very consistent in the studies I've seen. Secondly, the "male loneliness epidemic" is caused, at least in part, by the internet and social media. While studies suggest there isn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 10:11 AM |
| 4 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?There isn't a male loneliness epidemic in the US either. It is something made up on the internet. Studies consistently show that a slightly higher percentage of females in the US and other Western countries say they're lonely than males, from about the age of puberty up. I saw a clip of Jordan Peterson talking about this, and then I looked up the studies myself and he was right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 09:51 AM |
| 3 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?This. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 09:49 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Do you have a source on that? Because most studies I've seen show a slightly higher percentage of women saying they're lonely. I'd have to go and search up the studies, but I've probably posted one or two of them before. In other words the "male loneliness epidemic" is bullshit, insofar as men aren't reporting significantly higher levels of loneliness than women. Its true that younger people seem to be reporting higher levels of loneliness in recent years than earlier generations, but this isn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.Idiocracy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.Doesn't matter why. It is still an objective fact borne out by statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.I don't think women going for those men means they're easy to fool. I think it means women don't value what you think they value. Fair enough. But it does mean they're full of shit when they say stuff like some men can't get pussy because they have bad personalities or they're assholes, while a bunch of women do nothing but fuck assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.It is way too easy to fool women into reproducing with you when you aren't actually in charge or high value. Just look at how many bum ass men have multiple baby mothers and women chasing after them for unpaid child support. LOL. Meanwhile a lot of educated, responsible, decent, hardworking men are perennially single. Frankly I wouldn't blame those guys for checking out of the Western market and going for foreign women (although you also get the former type becoming passport bros/sexpats/sex tou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about tables and the evolutionary purpose of sexual attraction.I agree with OP. This is easily observable IRL. Women will date and have babies with men who aren't economically successful, aren't nice people, and aren't necessarily even good looking just because their behavior indicates high social status (even if they don't objectively have high socioeconomic status or success). That said, if there are any actual male incels who fit the image that is presented online, i.e. don't care about sex, only want companionship with a woman, don't care about looks, e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.Passport bros say they don't pay prostitutes. As for economic differences, the countries that are popular with passport bros (and sex tourists who pay for prostitutes) aren't even the poorest countries in the world. Furthermore, not all the women there are poor. Finally, a man who earns a lot of money in the West can date a woman in his own country who has significantly less money than him. Yet no one in the West cries if some athlete earning millions dates a girl who makes minimum wage. And a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.Some passport bros online are adamant that they're not sex tourists or sexpats. I think this is partly because of the stigma and threat of legal action against people who promote sex tourism. If an influencer, in particular, promotes sex tourism, they may face trouble. But if they say they're promoting men looking for relationships, then they're less likely to get in trouble. Personally I don't care either way. If men want to have sex with prostitutes, that's their business, whether they do it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.If sperm are people I'm literally Hitler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.Depending on how you look at it, women can have very limited options. They basically have to wait for a man who they find attractive who is willing to approach them. First of all, women are notoriously picky, and then men can also be picky. In general, men need to be attracted to a woman to begin with. Men who don't find women attractive initially generally aren't very motivated to have relationships with her. Women can approach men, but men are the ones who have to get erections. So it is diffi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.The passport bro (or straight up sex tourist) type travel to 3rd world countries works too. Although, I will say, most passport bros, sex tourists, sexpats, and just regular Western tourists and expats in general, don't go to actual 3rd world countries. They go to middle income countries where they can live a Western style lifestyle at a cheaper price than they can at home. I'm talking about places like Mexico, Thailand, Colombia, and so on. These aren't dirt poor countries. They're middle incom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Women will always have options, men need to create opportunities to have options.Have you tried NoFap? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:14 PM |
| -1 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?I'd want a bangmaid. It is funny that people on Reddit always throw that word around like an insult and imply that men who want that are bad people. But why would I not want a wife who would be able to devote her time to me and to caring for our children if I had the financial means? Even if you look at the upper class, in terms of income, you'll tend to find that stay-at-home wives and mothers are more common among high earning men than among the middle-class. Men who can afford to have their w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you care if there's an age gap in dating?I don't care. Why should I preoccupy myself with stuff that isn't my business? If a woman who isn't my girlfriend or wife or closely connected to me is sleeping with another man that isn't me, it doesn't make a difference to me if he's 19 or 90. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Women cannot accurately assess the wall themselvesI'd say the difference is that a lot of men already have limited options when they're young and things can get better as they get older. Whereas for women it is more common for them to have a lot of options when they're young and fewer when they're older. Of course I'm sure there are exceptions, but I'm just talking in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Women cannot accurately assess the wall themselvesI'd say women, in general, have fewer and worse relationship prospects as they get older. This has always been conventional wisdom and there's truth to it. First of all, men, on average, are more attracted to younger women than older women. This is just biology and evolution. I know that sexual preferences are complicated and can't just be boiled down to a single gene. But let's say, for the sake of simplicity, that sexual preferences were determined by just one gene. Now let's say there was a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:01 PM |
| 4 | A lot of guys here are simply too insecure, too self-loathing, and too emotional to ever get into a heterosexual relationship.I've already found a solution to my problems with women. I also find it funny that Western females will complain about men being too feminine but also complain about toxic masculinity. LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyFirst of all, most studies I've seen come up with similar results- the percentage of women who say they're lonely is higher than the percentage of men. Secondly, even if the studies are a little off, we can still conclude that men and women's levels of loneliness are roughly equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:37 PM |
| -7 | Why are women so aggressively worried about being murdered by men?Men are more violent than women, on average. Or, at least, men are more violent in terms of murdering motherfuckers, in part because they're physically stronger. Women might be more violent in terms of minor physical aggression. But men are also more violent towards other men, on average. Women also increase their odds of being victims of violence by men by being FUCKING OBNOXIOUS 24/7 RAGING FUCKING BEE OTCHES. Seriously. Don't start shit and then cry when you get your fucking skull smashed in.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Female intra-sexual competition on display and the misunderstanding of what men find attractiveThere was a post on a social media site of a young woman with very big breasts, and the comment section was full of other women denigrating her. LOL. There was definitely some hating going on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerI don't have any kids. But I don't need to have kids to have basic common sense and observation skills. My common sense and observation tell me that caring for kids is a lot of work and it is better to have someone who will help you without being paid for it. Plus having sex with attractive women is enjoyable (that is something I am qualified to speak on from experience, LOL). So the process of trying to have kids would at least be fun for me, as a heterosexual man, even if I didn't succeed in h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerI feel like this promotion of single fatherhood is an attempt to get men to make the same mistakes that a lot of women make in choosing to become single mothers. Overall it seems that the powers that be are against familial structures because it threatens their power. But maybe that's a conspiracy theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partnerI guess it is an option for someone with a lot of money who wants to produce a heir. But paying for a surrogate is expensive and so is paying for nannies to take care of them. I looked up the cost of surrogacy and found a 10 year old article that gave the cheapest price as about $45,000 in Mexico up to 100k in the US. Then add on the cost of multiple kids, say 5 kids, that's $225k to 500k. Plus the regular costs of provisioning children, schools, and childcare (with no partner), and you're proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 01:49 AM |
| 0 | do you guys people who can fight?On the streets you can just use a gun (at least if you live in the USA where legal guns are easily accessible and, failing that, illegal guns are cheap and abundant). But if you go to jail then there's no guns and you have to rely mainly on hand-to-hand combat or melee weapons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 12:17 PM |
| 3 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyOr maybe, like Jordan Peterson suggests, women are just naturally more prone to loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 12:03 PM |
| 1 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyEverybody dies eventually. Whether it is in their 60s or their 90s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 12:02 PM |
| 3 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyThe 60% figure seems to come from a Cigna survey of over 10,000 American adults in 2019. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 05:21 AM |
| 22 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyWomen may have more friends and social contacts, on average, than men do, but women are more likely than men to say they're lonely. 57% of men say they're lonely vs. 59% of women, according to one study. Personally, I've been rejected and left out in the cold to die by socieshitty, so I learned to not need people. Plus a lot of people are piece of shit snakes and rats. I'd rather move solo than with snakes and rats who are detrimental to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 05:15 AM |
| 5 | The fact that 61% of all adults in the US are lonely clearly shows that it has nothing to do with the individual, it's a problem with societyAccording to Reddit, men are all lonely miserable loser incels while all women are cavorting on yachts with male supermodel billionaires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 03:03 AM |
| – | Why do women get upset that men watch porn?In my experience, porn has a positive impact on my mind. Jacking off makes me happy. Whereas interacting with shitty beachy women who aren't giving me any pussy has a negative impact on my mind by making me unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:50 AM |
| – | Why do women get upset that men watch porn?I agree. It doesn't matter at all- right up until some old hag in government decides to pass a law to ban porn. They already fucked shit up by getting pornhub to remove a lot of its clips during COVID-19 when the Gay Sex Prison Police State wouldn't let us go outside and we needed porn the most. Now pornhub sucks because its all crappy verified professional amateur type porn instead of the mix of anonymous homemade cellphone video clips and old commercial porn clips. Because of those beaches bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:48 AM |
| – | Why do women get upset that men watch porn?Women don't like men having sexual alternatives because it interferes with their ability to get benefits from men's sexuality. Even if women don't want to have sex with men, they can get resources from them (like OnlyFans, for example). They have dual mating strategies of fucking one type of man when they're young and childless, then looking for another type when they're old and infertile with baggage. Secondly, even if women have no interest in a man in terms of sex or relationships, they get s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:40 AM |
| 6 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menAt this point, fuck my Homosexual Sex Prison Police State country. I wash my hands of the shit. I can jack off to porn (the government can try to ban porn, but there's just so much of it out there that it is really possible to stop it anymore) and go overseas to get pussy while my country imports immigrants for cheap labor because the birth rate has fallen lower than the temperatures in Antarctica. The women here aren't my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menPassport broing, sex touristing, or sexpatting is another option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted menIn some countries people are friendlier than others. If you go to a place where people are generally friendly then you will often find yourself talking to people when you're just doing regular stuff. Whereas in places where people are less friendly, it is relatively hard to talk to strangers if you specifically go out to try to meet strangers. The place where I live now tends to be cliquish and people typically socialize within specific groups, and don't really talk to strangers. Which is fine w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?I do enjoy jacking off. Much better than dealing with a lot of these women, tbh. My hand and porn are free. My hand and porn don't play games. My hand and porn can't give me STDs. My hand and porn don't have baggage like other men's kids. My hand and porn never say no. My hand and porn won't divorce rape me. My hand and porn won't cheat on me. My hand and porn won't beach at me. My hand and porn won't call the shitstem police pigs on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Some other countries, in my experience, have a higher percentage of women I find more attractive and the women are more receptive to me. The Homosexual Sex Prison Police State has an aging population, so more older women than young women; mostly male immigration, so a gender-skewed wiener fest in the working age adult population; is pro-gay, so lots of homosexuals and I'm not gay or bisexual, I fuck women only; lots of cop-callers and cops to follow me around for no reason but somehow don't show… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?If Western men go abroad they'll likely find get some women who like them and some who don't. But you don't need all of them. You just need enough of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Yeah I keep hearing that, and I keep hearing that dudes are going to be leaving in droves, and then...nothing. They're not leaving because how is the average Western guy going to support himself financially living in another country? Living overseas is only cool if you can maintain the standard of living you're used to. Most people don't really want to go to a foreign country and downgrade their lifestyle. Not to mention the red tape of legal residency or citizenship to live abroad. The idea of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Average men can get some action by simply dressing well, grooming, approaching women, learning how to communicate with women, and learning how to build sexual tension. Once an average man learns those things, he’s no longer average. Western gay sex prison police state countries have a strong anti-approach culture. If someone gets carjacked and has their car stolen, the response time of the cops where I live will be like 9 hours. If someone gets their car stolen and can locate the car with their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Sticking your dick in pussy in the West is relatively easy. If you want to get laid in the West, just go to your nearest skid row and pay a drug addict for some pussy when she's desperate for money because she's jonesing for the next hit. It'll be cheaper than airfare to another country. I'd say it is more about men wanting women who are more attractive and treat them nicer than the ones at home. If all you want is a woman, and have no or low standards, getting laid in the West is relatively eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?Do you think that most people can just jump on a plane and set up a new life overseas at the drop of a hat? A lot of people can't do that, or they have a lot of down time in between trips abroad. So they'll spend their time online talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Why don't you young guys just get your passports?A lot of men have gone overseas and many have the same story- they've had more success with women abroad. I've gone overseas and I've had more success with women. The reason a lot of men don't go overseas is because they don't have the time or money to do so. It is hard for most people to be able to just live in a foreign country where they may not speak the language, and be able to support themselves financially. Besides that, outside of women, traveling can be a hassle, from the process of goi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairWhen women lie about what they're attracted to, it misdirects men who are trying to improve their sexual success. But women seem to have their weird dichotomy where they only want to fuck sexually successful and attractive men, but simultaneously don't want men to become sexually successful or attractive. I guess that's the dual mating strategy in effect. They want to make sure that there are beta second options waiting for them if their first choice falls through and they're older and less attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairI call men assholes based on them being mean to other people for no reason. That is an asshole and a bully. It has nothing to do with their fucking sexual success or lack thereof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 05:08 PM |
| – | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?Women who go overseas to marry men also do it willingly. I'm not sure why some people are so insistent on acting like women are being forcibly dragged to the West against their will. Some women actively seek out partners in Western countries. That's just a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairStudies have shown a correlation between male reproductive success and bullying behavior. Abusive misogynistic bully assholes often get more pussy than decent men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairThere's a lot of cases of women who are relatively nice and agreeable choosing asshole men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 05:03 PM |
| – | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?So is it better than being systematically extracted for their men? Because right now there's a lot of sausage fest all-male immigration going on. Also poor countries love being systematically extracted for their oil, coltan, diamonds, aluminum, etc. (or at least their rich leaders do) because that's how a lot of countries support their economies and how countries like Saudi Arabia and UAE went from poor countries to rich ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairThe difference is men will say upfront that they like physically attractive women. Look at my username. My preferences aren't a secret. LOL. Whereas women are more dishonest and say women want nice guys. But then you see them fucking total bully asshole scumbags. Meanwhile they'll say that if a guy can't get laid its because he's a misogynist with a bad personality. Women are much more dishonest about what they're attracted to and their sexual choices diverge sharply from what they claim to like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairAttraction is based on evolution rather than virtue. Women are attracted to social status in men, even if the men perceived as high social status are horrible people. See Adolf Hitler being pursued by Eva Braun after he became leader of the Nazi Party, even though he probably didn't get much attention from women when he was a starving artist in Vienna. Likewise, men are attracted to physical attractiveness and youth to a greater degree than women, independent of good character. However, men also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 03:40 PM |
| – | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?subsidized by the government I'm not talking about subsidies. I'm talking about cutting red tape and regulation. Just make it easier. The government doesn't have to pay for anything. We're talking about relationships that work, of course. If a foreign woman doesn't like the man whom she ends up with, she is going to divorce him and take a bunch of his money. I've seen studies that say that "mail order bride" marriages in the West have lower divorce rates than marriages between western men and wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?Neo-liberal fiberals just virtue signal woke pro-lgbtq transgender black lives matter whatever the latest cause is, while making the rich corporate motherfuckers richer. Its all a con. The rich people realized that it wasn't a good idea to be openly heartless social darwinist proponents like they used to be in the 19th century. So now they spout wokeness, compassion, inclusion, anti-racism, and anti-bullying while robbing the public to make themselves richer. Just like the COVID scamdemic. "We'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 08:23 AM |
| 0 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?Travelling voluntarily and legally =/= human trafficking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 08:15 AM |
| 0 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?But if most men are afraid of the risks like you are, or if most women behave like men are afraid they will, then your idea doesn't solve anything. A lot of men would bring wives from overseas. I'm not saying anyone should be forced to do anything, either the men or women. Only that they should be able to do it if they want to. Yeah, they work among men who have some maturity and know what they are doing. The vast majority of men having trouble with women are immature misogynists who distrust wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 08:14 AM |
| -1 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?If I go on vacation in Jamaica, is it human trafficking? How about if I get a job in Germany and fly over there to work? My point is it isn't human trafficking when a person goes somewhere legally and voluntarily. What is human trafficking are the hordes of illegal immigrants streaming across borders in North America, Europe, Latin America, and Africa. That is literal human trafficking, but somehow progressive liberals don't seem to mind literal children drowning and freezing to death, so long a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?The immigrants are mostly men, though. So it'll fix the population problem in the short-term, but not in the long-term because dudes can't have babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?That is a possibility. But if they pop out a couple of babies before then, it'll help solve the low birth rate problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?This isn't about me. It is about fixing the birth rate problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:56 AM |
| -1 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?I know the standard advice you see online about not taking women back to your country. And they're probably right. I'd be very wary of bringing a foreign woman over to live in my country, because Western countries give women too much power, and once women get that power they often start behaving badly. Which is why some Western men don't want to deal with Western women in the first place. However, (a) This isn't really about me personally. Its not about me having a burning desire to bring a fore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?First of all, you said women traditionally take care of their parents. I don't think that's true in all cultures. Anyone can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe one reason why some Asian cultures prefer to have sons rather than daughters is that sons traditionally stay with their parents and take care of them while they're old. Whereas daughters will leave and go live with the families of their husbands and don't take care of their parents the same way. I'm sure a lot of foreign women don't w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?I don't think the government really has to do anything or spend any money. All they'd have to do is make it easier for men to sponsor their young foreign wives. Honestly I know this idea would be politically incorrect in a lot of countries. But personally I think it would be a good idea and would work in terms of raising the birth rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?I agree a lot of sites are scams. I'm thinking more of men who actually meet women irl overseas. Maybe mail order bride wasn't the right term to use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:23 AM |
| – | Women act like TRP is some kooky conspiracy theory rotting men’s brains but then tell bold faced lies like “maybe if you were nice to women and took a shower you would get a date.” This blatant dishonesty is the very foundation of red pill ideology.Bullshit internet dating advice, Greatest Hits Edition: Just take a shower. Improve your personality. Women don't like you because they detect your bad personality without even knowing you. Just like they were able to detect the bad personalities of Ted Bundy, John Wayne Gacy, Paul Bernardo, Joseph Goebbels, Leopold II of Belgium, Jeffrey Epstein, Whitey Bulger, OJ Simpson, and so on. Men and women are the same! Just treat women like human beings! If you don't jack off or watch porn, women will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Women act like TRP is some kooky conspiracy theory rotting men’s brains but then tell bold faced lies like “maybe if you were nice to women and took a shower you would get a date.” This blatant dishonesty is the very foundation of red pill ideology.The male population isn't naturally that much bigger than the female population. One major reason why men tend to outnumber women is sex selective abortions being common in the world's 2 most populous countries, India and China. In China there was a 1 child policy so many families chose to only have boys, aborting female fetuses or putting girl babies up for adoption. There used to be a time when China's orphanages were full of female infants and Westerners were adopting them. Likewise in India … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?I don't care what the term is. I'm talking about men from the West marrying women from other countries and bringing them to the West. It doesn't have to be them picking women out of a catalogue or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:02 AM |
| -1 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?Yes this is obvious. But culture and hypergamy make women in some places friendlier to certain men than those in others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?I disagree. There's definitely women out there who would be willing to marry men and come. All the government has to do is make the immigration process easier the same way they make it easy for all these men to come like cock festival penis jam celebration. No r*pe necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 11:17 PM |
| – | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.Hitler didn't become attractive to women until he became Fuhrer and started Holocausting his way through life. So when he wasn't doing really evil stuff, he got no love from women, but after he started doing evil stuff women loved him. Like I said, I have yet to see an example of a man who rejected by women as a whole for being too evil or being too much of a horrible person. I haven't heard of it yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:12 AM |
| 18 | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.Except that people constantly lie and say the exact opposite of reality. They will claim that getting pussy is the ultimate sign of virtue, and if you don't get pussy it is because you're an evil person, whereas men who get lots of pussy are good people. But it is the exact opposite in many cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 11:42 PM |
| 13 | It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated.The narrative that women don't like certain men because they're such horrible people with bad personalities is such weapons grade bullshitonium. It no doubt contributes to the frustration of nice guys. Guys are told that if they're good people and treat women and people in general nice, then women will like them. But then they get rejected for being "too nice" while females flock to horrible asshole bully males. Let's be honest: women are often attracted to bad behavior in men and turned off by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 11:40 PM |
| 2 | The wall exists.Being picky and getting what you want are 2 different things. I want an 18 year old virgin with all natural double-ds and a big butt who fucks like a whore, never bishes, never cheats on me, and cooks like my grandmother. If an older woman wants more value than the average man, that's her prerogative. But it doesn't mean that she can get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:24 PM |
| 1 | The wall exists.Statistically untrue,and getting less day by day lol. Women are delaying childbirth more than ever. But more women waiting longer to have kids is closely tied to plummeting birth rates around the world. It also fuels the growth of the fertility treatment industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | The wall exists.My username is an example of a sexual preference that inspires high levels of buttragiosity from wall-splattered women. LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:17 PM |
| -1 | The wall exists.They become less sexually attractive. Men will fuck anything, but men are less likely to lust over older women the way they lust over younger women. You always see women buttraging over men being attracted to younger women, complaining about men watching 18+ teen pron, etc. That's a symptom of the Wall, IMO. The women complaining aren't getting the same attention and special treatment they used to get when they were 21 year old college students so now they're disgruntled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:59 PM |
| 3 | The wall exists.Older women can do all the selecting they want, but they're not as attractive as they were when they were younger. That translates into fewer men being interested in them and therefore fewer men to choose from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:54 PM |
| 14 | The wall exists.The main problem with the idea of the Wall is that is assumes that women wake up one day and suddenly they're old and unattractive. In reality it is more gradual. That said, women absolutely become less attractive to men in general as they get older. And their dating prospects diminish. There's 3 reasons why women's dating prospects fall as they get older: On average men find younger women more sexually attractive than older women. This has been shown in many studies, and it has always been conv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:52 PM |
| 9 | Why do you think Western Birth Rates are so low?Dogs can provide joy and love. I think people used to have lots of kids, in part, because of the economic benefits. When children become a costly economic burden, people have fewer of them. This isn't completely selfish like some people say it is, either. A lot of people delay having kids because they want to make sure their future children can have the best possible lives. The only problem is that biological clocks don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think Western Birth Rates are so low?A bunch of different reasons. But here's some of the bigger ones: Children used to be an economic asset (helping on the family farm, etc.). Now they're just a financial burden. In addition middle-class parents often want to spend a lot of money on children to give them as many extra competitive advantages as possible. Women didn't used to go to school or have full-time careers outside of the home as often. Now women have to work to support themselves and maintain a middle-class lifestyle. To get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 01:17 PM |
| 0 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.misogynistic psychopats Men like that typically have no problems having relationships with women. Even if they continuously horribly abuse their partners, women will continue to flock to them. The whole idea that women will reject men who are bad people and like men because of their good personalities is totally ridiculous and completely contrary to readily observable reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV- Men who struggle to date in today’s social climate have serious physical, social, or emotional flaws.I'd say men are hornier by nature but less lonely than women. Studies have consistently shown that more women report being lonely than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"The best is when some chick is overweight and complains about beauty standards favoring skinny chicks. But then when men are attracted to her, she complains about them having a fetish for big women. I'm sick of that dumb word "fetish". What's the difference between a fetish and a preference? Some guys have preferences for skinny chicks, some like chubby, some like whatever. Those are preferences and they're fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?By having interests outside of women. And, frankly, as men get older their testosterone falls, which means they have less interest in sex. That means less interest in women. One survey found that 40% of middle-aged men would rather watch football on Saturday than have sex. So basically just do things you enjoy that aren't related to women. Pretty much anything you're into, whether watching sports, fixing cars, fishing, hiking, reading, playing videogames, working out, cooking, whatever. As long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the SMV flip?Women's SMV just about always drops as they get older. Men's SMV is much less age dependent so it can go up or down. Age just matters less to men. They can have high or low SMV at 19 or 52. Although it probably starts dropping when men get very elderly and frail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I don’t understand, it seems like women don’t have to do much work or “real” work to become attractive/ have sex with atrractive men she’s attracted to and sexually attracted toMen and women are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 07:56 AM |
| – | In the west, if you haven’t had one girlfriend or boyfriend by 25, something is probably severely wrong with youHonestly the same could be said of homosexuals (i.e. it is "extremely abnormal" because most people prefer the opposite sex). But you're not allowed to say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:35 PM |
| 7 | Male surplus is a problemWhat kind of migration, though? The migration of lots of women? Or the migration of large numbers of young military age men who outnumber their female counterparts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Male surplus is a problemProbably contributes to higher crime rates. Isn't Sweden having growing problems with gang violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships?Because they want richer men for themselves but don't want younger and hotter women taking "their" men away from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?I'm trying to understand the fetish behind young women If there was one gene that made men prefer young fertile women and another that made them prefer older infertile women, which do you think would be more more likely to be passed down to the next generation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 06:22 PM |
| 0 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?Men generally stick with their long term partners, even when they age. If you look at divorces, they are more likely to be initiated by women than men. And anecdotally you'll find a lot of long-term couples where both partners are in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and up. If I go outside I'll see lots of middle aged and elderly couples. So this claim that men just discard women at 12:00 am on the day of the 30th birthday is nonsense. Often when you see some rich guy get divorced from his similar aged wife… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 03:36 PM |
| 2 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Women used to have fewer options and needed men to support them financially. If a man earned some kind of money he could get a woman. He didn't even need to be rich. Could've been a blue collar laborer or a subsistence farmer. Nowadays women don't need men for financial support. So naturally they have more attitude and are pickier and less "loyal". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Selection in Men and WomenSome pussy feels really good, other pussy doesn't feel so good, but it'll get the job done. That said, my hand can get the job done as well. So I don't get when people act like I should worship and beg for any pussy I can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them?In general, on social media you can get away with saying bad things about men, but if you say anything about women you'll get banned in a millisecond. Unless you're badmouthing black women. Then it may take a little longer for you to get banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how is the average joe supposed to be happy if he is never desired?Why should men care about "being desired"? That seems like a feminine thing to me. I get men wanting to get laid, but wanting to be desired seems like something women care more about. And when it comes to women, they can all get dick, but the less physically attractive and not-so-young ones aren't really desired in the way that better looking and younger women are. So this post sounds like projection to me, just like a lot of the stuff I see online about why men should be unhappy. I'm a man btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 12:56 PM |
| 16 | Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them?Social media spaces in general tend to create alternate realities where anything that goes against the orthodoxy of the specific group and its moderators gets banned. It creates an echo chamber where dissenting ideas are excommunicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:23 PM |
| – | New research shows that psychopathic men have more kids. Is it another nail in the coffin to the idea that women will reject bad personalities?The idea that women choose or reject men based on detecting their good or bad personalities without knowing them is pure weapons grade bullshit. Women who don't know you will give you the time or day or refuse to give you the time of day solely based on preselection and perceived social status. If some guy approaches some girl he doesn't know and she rejects him, it literally says absolutely nothing about his personality because she doesn't know him. Women aren't walking around with personality … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatIt's true that a lot of men don't reproduce. The stat that's often thrown around is 40% of men never reproduced historically, although I'm not exactly sure what the original source was or how that figure was calculated. This is why I think men naturally need women less than vice versa. If 2/5th of men never reproduced, then you would think that men would be naturally more self-contained because there's no guarantee of them spawning or finding a female partner. I'd say women are more dependent on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Why would conservative women be more happy ?In my observation as a dude, the problem with a lot of progressivism and liberalism in the current year is that it actively rejects and goes against the laws of nature. This is weird because conservatism and religion is stereotypically "supposed" to be anti-science while the lefty anti-traditional types are supposed to worship science and Darwin or whatever. Yet I see all these progressives twisting themselves up in gymnastic contortionist pretzels trying to deny and reject biological reality wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 10:19 AM |
| 8 | Are male celebrities more likely to date fans than female celebrities?Yeah that's basic hypergamy 101. But for some reason some people online insist that men and women are exactly the same and get angry at you for nooticing things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecuritiesTikTok isn't a great source, but, if we're being honest, women do become less attractive to men in general as they age. Anyone who thinks the average 60 year old woman would get more attention in a nightclub than the average 21 year old is delusional. That's like thinking the average 60 year old man could outcompete the average 21 year old man in a physical competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecuritiesSay it louder for the people in the back. People on here are always pushing this "male loneliness epidemic" BS. When, in reality, men and women are equally lonely on average, with slightly higher rates among women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How do women actually go about guessing a man's wealth?What about the nouveau riche? Obviously they're a minority of the rich (depending on your cutoff point for defining "rich"), but they exist. I've seen people who came from poorer backgrounds and they often still have "lower class" mannerisms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 04:10 AM |
| 11 | Men try to demonize women for choosing to be alone because they are projecting their own insecuritiesFuck it. May as well lean into the narrative at this point. LOL. Yes, that's right. I'm a lonely pathetic incel. I spend 28 hours a day (I know there's only 24 hours in a day but I'm so lonely that I defy the laws of space and time and find an extra 4 hours to be sad) lying in a fetal position crying under my bed in the dark because I don't have a loving girlfriend-wife. I'm absolutely dependent on women and can't live without them. I need a woman all the time or else I will literally die like a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 04:43 PM |
| 0 | What sapiosexuals actually are attracted to: being mentally toyed withAttractive young women sell pussy for $10 in 3rd world countries, just as long as there's no westerners around to complain about it or fuck up the price structure by overpaying. As soon as western feminists and male tricks and passport bro simps show up, the price is going up 100x's. Its just that western females are stuck up and think their cunts are golden when they're really not much better (often worse) than jacking off. That's why they want to ban porn- because they know their attitude prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 10:26 AM |
| 1 | How do women actually go about guessing a man's wealth?They can't. They just go off superficial appearances. That's why poor guys can pretend to be rich and get pussy, and rich guys can stay lowkey and fly under the radar of nefarious people (men or women) targeting them for their money- not just golddigging females, but also male or female thieves, scammers, carjackers, armed robbers, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | What sapiosexuals actually are attracted to: being mentally toyed with$500-1000 is the price of an airplane ticket to another country. LOL. Fuck no I'm not paying that shit. But you are right about the fact that virtually no woman would make a living having sex for $10 each in the US or any other developed country unless she was desperate for a hit of drugs at the time. I just threw out that figure as a joke. But if there were attractive women selling pussy that cheap I'd definitely be buying. My point is that the main reason prostitution isn't worthwhile to me in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 09:49 PM |
| 6 | What sapiosexuals actually are attracted to: being mentally toyed withI'd rather pay for pussy upfront than play stupid fucking games with women. The main problem where I live is there's not enough young attractive prostitutes that make my dick hard. If there were a lot of young hotties selling pussy for like $10 a pop, I'd be tricking regularly and not dealing with any female fucking bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 12:22 PM |
| – | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"Maybe it shouldn't be, but a lot of women don't want a man that other women don't want, who isn't experienced, and who can't get women. So they choose those types of men. I'm not saying it is good or bad. It just is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality is disgusting. Female sexuality is healthy. What more should be done to shame men into being better?I don't remember saying anything about 14 year olds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Male sexuality is disgusting. Female sexuality is healthy. What more should be done to shame men into being better?Male sexuality is necessary for humans to exist. In particular men being attracted to young fertile women is what has kept the species going for thousands of years. Ironically the shit that the mainstream media promotes, transgenderism, homosexuality, etc. is now pushed as wholesome while the natural desire to fuck fertile pussy is bad. No wonder birth rates have fallen off a fucking cliff in the West and countries now depend on importing immigrants to sustain population/economic growth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Male sexuality is disgusting. Female sexuality is healthy. What more should be done to shame men into being better?So she can get benefits from males without having to give them the punani. She's angry that there aren't enough men willing to be suckers anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 12:31 PM |
| – | It feels like many women believe they're better than men in general.Women can think whatever they like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:15 AM |
| 0 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsYes. Women constantly fuck men who are openly and aggressively misogynistic and assholish in general. Meanwhile men who only express misogyny anonymously online are incels and male feminists who express respect for women online and irl are incels in denial, LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?A lot of them are old and not very physically attractive and you have to jump through hoops to get the pussy that you don't really want. Jacking off to porn is unironically the more logical choice. It is free and you can get any physical type you want and have any kind of imaginary sex you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 12:10 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?In the current year most just deal with it by jacking off to porn. Source: High levels of porn consumption combined with falling levels of self-reported sexual activity and relationships among young men, as well as fewer prostitutes than there were in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 12:07 PM |
| 3 | “Nothing is more unattractive to women than low self confidence”I thought women were not attracted to certain men because they could magically detect their misogyny and bad personalities. And that they have good intuition and always choose men with good personalities despite the fact that they're constantly selecting men who are openly and aggressively assholish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 12:06 PM |
| 2 | If men knew how sexless most relationships are, they wouldn't be so depressed about single life.If you don't care about sex then finding a woman should be easier, because you don't have to worry about physical attraction. In other words you could get with an uggo or a frigid chick who won't give you any pussy. My potential dating pool is limited by my unwillingness to fuck with women I'm not physically attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 05:53 AM |
| -1 | If men knew how sexless most relationships are, they wouldn't be so depressed about single life.Another reason why I'm not all that interested in relationships. The other one is the fact that tend to cost a lot of money and I'm not only talking about prostitutes. I've noticed most women, even the scrong independent edumacated western females who don't need no man, often want men who make more money than them and expect the man to pay for their stuff. If I could fuck the pussies of 18-25 yo hotties without too much work, I'd be cool with that. But I don't want to make a huge effort, and spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 05:51 AM |
| – | The Wall exists but also doesn'tIf women can get high quality men when they're young but can only get desperate guys when they're old, then that sounds like a wall to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 05:43 AM |
| – | The Wall exists but also doesn'tIt's only pedophilic when you change the definition of pedophilia from attraction to prepubescent children to attraction to women under the age of 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 10:36 PM |
| – | It's crazy how a lot of people would rather be lonely forever than give up their mile long list of standards that they want in a partner. Is this really what the world has become?I like doing things by myself. And nobody has been able to tell me what women actually bring to the table. They have pussy. I like to fuck pussy. But other than that, they don't have much I want. I'm sure some people will say "men have nothing to offer either". Maybe they're right. But I don't know or care about that because I'm not gay or bisexual, so I don't date or fuck men. So what men bring to the table isn't my problem and isn't relevant to me. Also I'm not attracted to older women. I know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 08:14 AM |
| 1 | The Wall exists but also doesn'tNowadays society paints men's attraction to young women as evil and pedophilic. But the basic biological reason for it is that young women have high reproductive potential while older women don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | The Wall exists but also doesn'tMost women prefer men around their own age. Most men prefer women in their early 20s, but (on dating sites at least) actually prefer women closer to their age. But on the dating sites, men still tend to go for younger women, just not outrageously younger. So a 40 yo guy will go for women in their 30s and a 50 yo will go for a 40 yo. Then you have outliers irl, like Leonardo DiCaprio, who goes for women 25 or younger when he's middle aged. The overall effect is a shrinking dating pool for women a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 05:03 AM |
| -2 | The Wall exists but also doesn'tMen rarely leave their long term partners for other women. Most divorces are initiated by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 04:58 AM |
| 2 | The Wall exists but also doesn'tThey can get commitment and marriage because there are some men who want relationships with older women, typically older men who want companionship. But there are fewer men who will be interested in relationships with older women vs. younger women. The children thing is true. Women have a natural biological clock and social engineering and science can only do so much to change basic biological and evolutionary facts about humans as a species. The fact is women naturally lose their reproductive p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 04:17 AM |
| 6 | Research on women's aversion to bisexual menFirst of all, there are legit reasons for women to avoid bisexual men. One is diseases. Men who have sex with men (MSM) are at higher disease risk. Man on man sex practices often carry a higher risk of infections, not to mention MSM generally being more promiscuous. Men in general are less picky in terms of sexual partners. We know this from straight men trying to fuck even unattractive women. Now apply that to men fucking other men, and you get a lot of promiscuity and freakiness because there'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 04:11 AM |
| 23 | Single men are bitter. I wonder why?The data saying that single men are more unhappy than single women is questionable. I already posted a study that suggests that unmarried childless men are more likely to say they are "pretty happy" than unmarried childless women. Unmarried childless women in the study I saw were more likely to say they were "very happy" than unmarried childless men. But the women were also more likely to say they were "not very happy". In other words, it seems there's more unmarried childless women who are eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 04:36 PM |
| – | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?This didn't start with RP. Cultures throughout history have emphasized youth as being important for women. Young women are higher fecundity than older women, so men tend to be more attracted to younger women. It is as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Unmarried childless women are more likely to be unhappyYes they do. But a diabetic taking insulin doesn't mean that they would be emotionally unhappy without insulin. It only implies that the diabetic needs insulin for their blood sugar levels and physical health. Taking antidepressants, by contrast, does imply that a person was unhappy/depressed before taking the drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Unmarried childless women are more likely to be unhappyAll of that also applies to the claims that single women are happier than single men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 10:28 AM |
| -3 | Unmarried childless women are more likely to be unhappyOnce again, a lot of men are HORNY, not LONELY. I don't think a lot of women get it. There are lots of lonely men who want companionship, but there's also lots of HORNY men who just want to fuck you and leave afterward. That's why a lot of women get pumped and dumped. That's why some men jack off to porn. They're HORNY and want to get their rocks off. Porn doesn't provide real companionship, but it does enhance sexual satisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Unmarried childless women are more likely to be unhappySame goes for the studies and anecdotes that claim single women are much happier than single men and/or married women, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 10:24 AM |
| 1 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosTo some extent, yes. I think young attractive women get certain privileges that other demographics don't. Although they're probably more likely to be sexually harassed as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menI never said being nice was a bargaining chip. Yeah the stereotype is that women don't like nice guys or guys who are too nice, no backbone, etc. blah blah blah. But I don't see women complaining when they benefit from guys being nice to them. They don't complain when guys do nice things for them without demanding sex in return. A lot of women would be happy for a platonic nice guy male friend who did stuff for them and listened to them talk- just as long as he didn't expect sex from them. And e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:08 AM |
| 10 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosNo. A lot of men want to make extra money and buy extra things to impress women and get laid. It might be "politically incorrect" to say, but we all know it is true. There's always some guy who will be popping expensive bottles at the nightclub or whatever. Why is he doing that? To attract women and get pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 11:10 AM |
| 22 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosWomen, especially attractive ones, get treated nicer by men. A man is usually going to be nicer to an attractive woman than he is towards another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 11:08 AM |
| 8 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosI think the idea is they'd do just enough to survive and meet their own minimal needs, but not much more than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 10:49 AM |
| 70 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosMaybe less sexual assaults. But women would also lose their privilege. Attractive women wouldn't get a lot of attention or special treatment anymore. Also relationships and marriages would drop off, as would child birth (obviously). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 10:47 AM |
| 12 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosThe theory goes men work hard to attract women and/or support their gfs, wives, or kids. No interest in women = no incentive to work hard beyond personal sustenance. I don't think that's entirely true because historically there were some rich eunuchs and there's rich gay guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menThey did a study where they sent a physically attractive male model and a physically attractive female model out to proposition randos of the opposite sex on the street to have sex with them. Guess what the results were? The male model got rejected 100% of the time whereas the female model had a lot of men accepting the offer. The point being, with a few exceptions, most women usually don't want to get pumped and dumped. In many cases I'd bet that the women getting pumped and dumped by the top 1… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menWomen don't want to get pumped and dumped, though. Or at least they're much less interested in casual sex than men, otherwise men would get laid much more easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menThey use mainstream media to complain about it instead. There's lots of articles of women complaining about "where have all the good men gone". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 10:02 AM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.So are you saying that men should just jack off to porn? Because when men do that, women seem to show up and start complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menWomen aren't owed shit. Do you think every woman in the world is married to a handsome billionaire royal prince or even has a shot in hell with a handsome billionaire royal prince? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menSo if I'm a man who is happy being by myself then I'm going to be happier than the chick who is lonely and miserable in a club full of friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menIf a guy is happy pumping and dumping then he's okay. It all depends on how happy a person is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menI'm saying women are more likely to feel lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menLoneliness is a feeling. If someone is happy alone, they don't have a problem. If someone is lonely and unhappy with lots of people around, they have a problem. It is literally as simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menSo what happens is the 4 and 5 women end up getting pumped and dumped forever unless they accept reality and find a man willing to have a relationship with them. Also men can pay for hookers, go to strip clubs, or get sugarbabies that are "out of their league" in terms of looks as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menThat's true, though. Western women always seem to be sourpussed and buttraging at airports coming back from countries with lots of young beautiful women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menThat's because men approach women, not the other way around, and women tend to all date/sleep with a small number of men. There's always some guy with 5 gfs, and some married guy who has a side chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menI think it is because women, on average, are more socially dependent and prone to loneliness whereas men, on average, are more self-sufficient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernOnce again, you're conflating loneliness with horniness. If a man was genuinely lonely and wanted companionship he'd probably be more likely to stick around. But a lot of men just want to get laid. They're not lonely at all. They're horny and will lose interest the minute they get their rocks off and post nut clarity hits. Women, in general, don't have a problem getting sex, especially the younger and better looking ones. Their problem, I guess, is being able to find a guy who they find attracti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:26 PM |
| 8 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menUnattractive women are chosen as a last resort by horny less attractive guys who can't get the hotter women they're really attracted to. And women get used and tossed away all the time. There are certain guys who are smooth talking "players", rich, celebs, etc. who sleep with lots of women without having serious relationships with them. Women are the ones who are more likely to be used and tossed away. As men we're more likely to just get rejected by women upfront. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menWell yeah. It is easier for women to get sex because men are constantly coming at them trying to get pussy. If you're a man you have to go out and get it or you don't get it at all unless you come from a culture that does arranged marriages or something. So naturally it is easier for men to be virgins than women because if a man does nothing he gets no sex or relationships whereas if a woman does nothing she'll likely have men approaching her and offering dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 03:18 PM |
| -2 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menIf you are a man and you wait till you reach a certain age, there will unironically be a growing number of older single women you can date. They won't be as hot as younger women, will probably have a bunch of baggage, and will probably want beta bucks, but if all you want is a relationship and you have no standards, they're there. Just look at subs like r/datingoverthirty. Now personally I'd rather be single than date most of those types of women I'm not attracted to. But I don't complain about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menI'd say the majority of men could find someone if they wanted as well. It is harder for younger men, but when you get older as a man you get more options. There's more wall-hitting women around who get less attention. You may not think it is ideal to date an obese 40 year old single mother or whatever, but if you choose not to date a woman like that, then you, as a man, are choosing to be "lonely" rather than to be with a woman you are not attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:53 PM |
| 6 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menI disagree. You can interact with people socially or be around people but not feel close enough ties with them, hence still feel lonely. Frankly it is relatively difficult to completely avoid interaction with any other people, unless you live in a very rural area or by yourself in the woods. Like I said before, if someone is happy fishing by themselves in the woods, and doesn't feel lonely, then it isn't a problem for them. If they feel content then they don't have a problem because they're not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menBut men seem to be more socially self-sufficient in general. Honestly I don't really feel a strong desire for friendship with other males. That seems kind of gay to me. I just like to fuck pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:45 PM |
| -1 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menCare to provide examples of down bad posts by me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menI don't have any data to back this up, but I suspect that men tend to have lower social needs than women, on average. I've seen Jordan Peterson say this. People may not like him, but he is a psychologist who has experience in this area. I think that's why women tend to have more social ties than men. Because there's nothing stopping all these lonely men from making social connections with each other. A bunch of lonely men could get together and hang out together. In fact, that's kind of what guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:42 PM |
| 4 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menFirst of all, even if a study says men and women are equally lonely it contradicts the idea that there's this mass epidemic of male loneliness in particular. Secondly, of course the studies are based on how lonely you feel. That's literally what loneliness is. It is a feeling. You can't quantify it based on how many friends or social contacts a person has. One person will prefer to go out fishing in the woods by themselves than to mingle with other people at a party and not feel lonely, while so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:30 PM |
| -5 | Women are more likely to be lonely than menMaybe they reject 80% of men, but I think a lot of women get pumped and dumped by the other 20% as well. So even if they're getting dick, they're not getting committed relationships. Then you have women who have bfs or husbands who are still lonely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernFirst of all there's a difference between horniness and loneliness that a lot of people here don't seem to recognize when they talk about "male loneliness". I don't think men are lonelier than women, on average, and that's been backed up by studies. Studies suggest that women are more likely to feel lonely than men are. It is a well-known fact that there are lots of men who will fuck women and then drop them like hot potatoes afterward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernMen are more violent than women in general. In prehistoric times men were almost certainly the ones who were more likely to be hunting or protecting their families from wild animals. In ancient, medieval, and modern times men were expected to fight wars to defend or expand their tribe/kingdom/nation. In modern day times if someone attacks me I have to defend myself using violence. Police are useless for me. So men are more likely to use violence to solve problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:10 AM |
| 11 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernThe idea that men are lonelier than women is bullshit. I've posted studies that show that women are slightly more likely to be lonely than men are. What men are is much hornier than women. So men want to get laid more than women, in general, and it is much harder for men to get laid than it is for women. But when it comes to regular social connections, outside of sex, it seems to me that women, in general, are needier than men and more likely to be lonely. Just because most women can get sex eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 10:06 AM |
| 12 | What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag?This is the answer. Just lie to her. Men who have "the sex", especially the ones who fuck a lot of women without paying for the pussy upfront, lie to women all the time. After you've already fucked her she can't take it back. The only problem is if other people tell her you're a virgin to cockblock you. Other than that, men who want to lose their virginity can easily save up money and fuck a prostitutes, who generally don't gaf if you're a virgin as long as they get paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderNo. I found 2 separate studies that said the opposite. Women reported being more lonely than men. I posted links to the studies in another comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderHere are 2 academic studies I found online: (1) How much does it hurt to be lonely? Mental and physical differences between older men and women in the KORA-Age Study https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23804458/ (2) Gender and Age Differences in Loneliness: Evidence for People without and with Disabilities https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33302577/ The 1st study I posted a link to (1) involved 4,127 participants between the ages of 64 and 94 years old. It found that men and women reported roughly the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.No they don't. After about age 50 the number of unpartnered women outnumber the number of unpartnered men. You could say it is by choice on the women's part, but statistically women outnumber men in most western countries and the biggest gender disparity is in the elderly population because women tend to outlive men. First of all, men tend to prefer younger women, and secondly, there are more women than men- especially more elderly women than elderly men. So there literally aren't enough men to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness has nothing to do with genderThis is true. In fact, based on my internet search, women are the ones who report feeling lonelier than men. This is why I don't buy the "male loneliness epidemic" that I see people talking about here and in the media. Women are more prone to feeling lonely than men, despite having more social ties on average. I think men tend to be more self-contained and independent than women are, frankly. There are lonely men and lonely women, but there appear to be slightly more women than men who report fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.Disagree. If a guy like thicker/bigger women then going for a thicker/bigger women isn't lowering his standards at all. It is getting what he wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:00 AM |
| 3 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.Some men prefer thicker women. Frankly, if a man likes skinny chicks, then he should look for skinny chicks. There's not as many of them in countries like the US where obesity rates are high and have grown significantly in the last 50 years or so. But an American guy who prefers skinny women can go to Asia, or even to Canada, Western Europe, or a state like California, where obesity rates are lower than states like Texas or Mississippi. But men who like thicker women are going to go for thicker … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 08:59 AM |
| 30 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.Agreed. Some men don't care about the "bad traits" OP listed, and lowering standards objectively makes it easier for both men and women to find sex and/or relationships. Women who have extremely high standards, the ones who are 45 and holding out for a handsome charming billionaire royal prince to marry them, are the ones who end up perpetually single. Likewise, if a 45 year old man in the USA only dated skinny virgins who wear non-revealing clothing, he would have very few women to choose from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.Men, in general, have very low standards, especially for casual sex. That's why grannies, fat chicks, ugly chicks, etc. etc. can get dick on tinder. But men with options usually have higher standards, especially for relationships. Meanwhile women tend to want relationships the most attractive men. And women seem to prefer men who are genuinely attracted to them, as opposed to just using them for easy sex. But when women get older, a certain percentage of the most attractive men will be going for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 08:42 AM |
| 0 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.That only applies to upper class men from another culture. The average middle class North American lives in a suburb with mostly only other middle class people around, so class isn't an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.Women don't instantly become less attractive as they age. Their looks gradually decline, on average. If you took a large group of random 21 year old women there are going to be more attractive ones in the crowd than if you took a large crowd of 37 year olds. On average, less men will find the average 37 year old woman attractive than the average 21 year old. Could you find an ugly 21 year old and a hot 37 year old? And could you find men who are more physically attracted to women in their late 3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.A lot of older men are not attractive to women. But then a lot of younger men aren't attractive to women either. But there are always some older men who are able to get younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.Women: Be young (fecundity). Men: Have actual skills, status, money, experience, etc. Yes, women have it on easy-mode when they're young vs. young men. But men have the potential to increase their attractiveness to women over time because their attractiveness is based on status. Women's get their attractiveness for "free" (automatically) but also lose it automatically as well. Men have to work for it, but that means more agency to improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves.People will get buttmad at me for saying this. But one reason why the only thing young women have to do is be nice-looking, pleasant, not 24/7 beaches and not morbidly obese (and many fail even at those low standards) is that they bring reproductive potential to the table. People can deny biology all they want, but humans are instinctually geared towards reproduction. Even if they don't consciously want kids, they're going to be driven by biology towards behaviors associated with reproduction. L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 12:59 PM |
| 0 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.Jacking off regularly keeps the horny away. I like to fuck women in the pussy, but if I think about it logically jacking off to porn is a more efficient way to get my rocks off. Porn isn't necessary to jack off, but visual stimuli increases horniness and therefore makes jacking off more enjoyable, like banging a hot chick with a nice body vs. banging an ugly chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:58 PM |
| 2 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.The sense of meaning that comes with having a partner in life to protect, provide for, help, dedicate yourself to. That's a bunch of abstract bullshit. You could say the same thing about women needing a sense of meaning that comes with having a partner to cherish, dedicate themselves to, and blah blah blah blah. Realistically the only things I need women for, as a man, are sex and babies. But I can have sex with my hand (works just as good as actual sex with much less hassle, time, and money plu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:55 PM |
| 22 | A lot of women are selecting guys for social points, and men here seem to not understand how this works.It doesn't start at a certain age. Teen girls are like that too, but their definition of status is different. So HS school girl will go for the guy who is the captain of the football team, the guy who is in the cool kid group, or the 22 year old low level drug dealer who wears a fake gold chain and is confident. Whereas the woman of a certain age wants the guy with the 401k, the professional job/degree, the house, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:45 PM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedDisagree. As a heterosexual man I don't have a problem with men or women being nice to me. In fact I rather prefer people who are nice to me over people who are mean to me and others. Weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 06:52 AM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedThis is true. Younger women, in particular, are like that. Especially childless ones. Older women and single mothers "like" nice guys more, but usually on the condition that they have money to provision them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 06:49 AM |
| 3 | News at 11: Women date and marry awful men, then wonder why their lives went to shit. This also proves good men are being left behind and ignored.This is a typical bullshit MSM article. Talking about men aren't emotionally vulnerable enough, when women find soft men repulsive. Women don't want men emoting and talking about their fee-fees all day. If they want that, they can go talk to their female friends. Overall the message of this article and countless others like it is: "Men bad, women perfect and deserve more". They ignore the fact that western men are some of the most desirable men in the world, which is why guys can be "passport br… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 01:03 PM |
| 2 | News at 11: Women date and marry awful men, then wonder why their lives went to shit. This also proves good men are being left behind and ignored.I think women have an evolutionary tendency to want to breed with unavailable bad boy asshole sociopath types when they're young and high fecundity. Then, after they're single mothers and/or older, they want nice guys to take care of them and their kids. The problem with that strategy is most men have an evolutionary tendency to be attracted to young high fecundity females (much to the buttrage of many people) and generally don't want to put up with other men's kids. Plus modern high income west… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 12:49 PM |
| -3 | "Dating gets easier in your 30s bro!"Looks are less important for men. If Justin Bieber had been a shy nerd with the exact same looks instead of a big pop star he probably would've been a virgin into his 20s. As soon as a man is successful or has something, women just materialize out of nowhere and try to attach themselves to him. Under the right circumstances, men can actually keep getting laid with young women for a long time, probably until they get too old and frail to be physically active or mobile. Age doesn't affect men to t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 02:36 PM |
| -1 | "Dating gets easier in your 30s bro!"It depends what you do. If your money, game, etc. improves, then yes your dating prospects can improve in your 30s. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Getting women is supposed to come naturally, all this dating, PUA, or being nice and improving your personality are fairly new western concepts +globalization of the dating market ruined everything rantBirth rates are definitely nosediving. Some people complain about men watching porn or going overseas to meet women. But when women aren't available locally, men in general will just find alternatives. Women can't reject guys when they're 21 and then be surprised that they can't find Prince Charming to come a fertilize their last egg when they're 40 years old. LOL. When women and white knights chase some guys off, many of them won't be coming back. Don't expect those guys to put down the porn an… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 02:23 PM |
| 9 | "The reason 63% of men are single while 34% of women are single is because they're dating older men" is a cope.Yep. They're sharing men. That's why a lot more young men are single. Most women have relationships with men who are slightly older, maybe 2, 3, 4, 5 years old. Bigger age gaps happen, but are less common. I don't know why they don't want to admit it. Maybe they're afraid that when they're used up, their backup plans won't be waiting for them anymore. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 04:48 AM |
| 3 | "The reason 63% of men are single while 34% of women are single is because they're dating older men" is a cope.When I was growing up a couple of girls I went to school with had older bfs, and a male teacher from my school in his 60s got caught having a relationship with a 17 yo student. According to Jordan Peterson, on average women date men who are about 4 years older. But there's also (less common) cases of much older partners. I think older women and young men are buttmad and try to deter young women from dating older men. But it only works to a limited extent. Young women will reject a "creepy" 27 ye… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 04:44 AM |
| 21 | Getting women is supposed to come naturally, all this dating, PUA, or being nice and improving your personality are fairly new western concepts +globalization of the dating market ruined everything rantWestern society has become an incel society. Young men are constantly told they're not good enough, that they have to be 7" tall muscular handsome suave billionaires to get the time of day from women. And they're constantly told that they're not wanted, creepy and need to leave women alone. So they withdraw into incel online echo chambers. I'm sure there are men who have nothing really wrong with them who are into all this incel stuff. At the same time, logic tells me that if all these men are b… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.LOL. I think the "male loneliness epidemic" is projection on the part of some women. Some women are lonely (especially less attractive postwall ones who men don't pay attention to anymore), so they tell men that they're supposed to be lonely and need women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.Probably because its not a priority. I don't buy this whole male loneliness epidemic thing. It sounds a lot like projection to me. Women had unrealistic standards, cruelly rejected men, and told men they weren't allowed to approach women. Now they're lonely. Studies show women are more prone to loneliness than men are. Men are socially conditioned and probably biologically predisposed to be self-sufficient. I don't think men, in general, are more lonely than women are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Men’s loneliness epidemic is not women’s problem.I believe the male loneliness epidemic is imaginary. According to Jordan Peterson, girls are more prone to feelings of loneliness than boys from the time of puberty onward. I'd say that the major problem faced by men, especially younger men, is being horny and trying to get laid. Not being lonely. Now if you're talking about elderly men whose wives have died and kids have moved out, or something like that, then, yes, they may be lonely. But I don't think the average young man is particularly lon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.I haven't bothered to look up the studies myself, but according to Jordan Peterson, young women are more prone to loneliness than young men are. I suspect that men are predisposed to have a greater tolerance for being alone than women. People say men have fewer social connections and close bonds than women, but I think that's just a product of men, in general, being more self-contained than women are. I think men, general, put more emphasis on getting laid than on finding friends to talking abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?I find it suspicious that some women get angry if a 35 year old nice decent accountant has a consensual serious relationship with a 23 year old who he treats good and takes care of financially. But these same women don't seem to have any problem with a 22 year old guy who abuses and mistreats 21 year old women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous.At the end of the day each man only has so much time in the day. And he probably has things to do other than pay attention to women 24/7. Men with successful careers, say professional athletes, doctors, lawyers, etc. are going to have to spend a lot of time working on their careers to be successful. They can't just spend every hour of the day dealing with 20 gfs. In other words, every woman can't be in a committed relationship with the top 5% of men. If I was a handsome billionaire lion tamer No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesTrue. Definitely easier to look at a lot of attractive women at home with porn (or on social media) than to see a lot of them irl unless you go out to a busy shopping mall, busy downtown area, or college campus. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 09:25 PM |
| -2 | How do Blackpillers explain that Jeremy meeks PRE FAME Girlfriend was a 4-5/10?Was he initially selected by women or by gay fashion men for his looks, though? | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 11:58 AM |
| 1 | "The internet isn't real life" is an extremely outdated line of thinkingOn the internet the lies are more ridiculous than real life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesWomen want to be able to deny you pussy. If you don't need their pussy anyway and can go about your business without caring about them they get buttmad. Their power to deny pussy is negated if you don't need their pussy anyway. Like dangling a carrot over your head to get you to do tricks, but never giving you the carrot. If you find an alternative to the carrot and don't do tricks for the carrot anymore, the person dangling the carrot no longer has any power over you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesEscorts cost money and are illegal in many places. Porn is free and legal. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 11:29 AM |
| -1 | How do Blackpillers explain that Jeremy meeks PRE FAME Girlfriend was a 4-5/10?Women don't care as much about looks as men do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 11:23 AM |
| -2 | How do Blackpillers explain that Jeremy meeks PRE FAME Girlfriend was a 4-5/10?Blackpill/lookism is bullshit and applies more to women than men. Its true that men, as a group, have no standards and will fuck any woman. But if a man has options and can choose any woman he wants, he'll usually choose the one he finds physically attractive. If you're a man with options, would you choose the ugly chick or a hot chick (assuming the hot chick treats you nice and you get along with her, etc.)? There's a high probability you'd choose the hot chick. Women don't put as much weight o… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesThere's lots of attractive women irl, but its easier to see porn chicks naked than a random real woman I see walking down the street. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesYes I've had the sex and some pussy is good but a lot of it is garbage or mediocre at best. It gets the job done, but its kind of meh and takes a lot of effort to get. Jacking off feels good and its free and easy. That's why I unironically prefer it to spending a lot of time and energy just to fuck an obnoxious loose worn out pussy wall smashed uggo. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesOnly high quality pussy is better than jacking off to me. Straight up. If I had to pick between low quality pussy and jacking off, I'd pick jacking off. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesThere's also not difference between jacking off and fucking a fat 50 year old when it comes to getting off. Except that I don't have to put up with the bullshit, demands, baggage, and jump through hoops to fuck a fat 50 year old I'm not attracted to when I jack off to porn. Personally I think guys can get used to fucking pussy, and then all they want to do is fuck pussy even if the chick is ugly. But guys can also get used to jacking off, so that they like jacking off more than pussy. If a guy w… | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 01:10 PM |
| 10 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesThey hate porn because it breaks the pussy cartel monopoly. They try to deny you sex and you end up seeing tits and ass and busting a nut anyway. They can't stand it. They want men to be desperate and simping for their used up holes, especially after they've "had their fun" and are ready for a backup option. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 01:04 PM |
| 3 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesThe difference is that looking at someone else eat food doesn't fill my belly. Whereas I can simulate the feeling of real sex with my hand and porn (porn provides the visuals of a hot chick in front of me). In the end I get my rocks off, just like if I had real sex. Very different from just watching someone eat at a restaurant. But to each his own. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 12:56 PM |
| 20 | Porn is the only reasonable cope for most malesPorn is basically free and gives you access to as many naked women as you want (and any kind of women you want). I don't see any downsides. Women get buttmad over it because it makes it harder for them to use sex to manipulate and control men. Because realistically women's main leverage is pussy. That's why their go-to insults involve mocking a man's inability to get pussy- you can't get laid, you're gay, etc. And their go to move is denying a man access to pussy. That's why they hate any sexual… | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 12:52 PM |
| 1 | "The internet isn't real life" is an extremely outdated line of thinkingThe difference is irl your lies need to at least be somewhat plausible. But online I could say I'm current flying in my private jet with my harem of supermodel girlfriends and it would be hard to convincingly prove I was lying. Online lies can be totally disconnected from observable reality. In real life, not so much. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | "The internet isn't real life" is an extremely outdated line of thinkingBecause on the internet people can easily lie and make shit up. Outside in real life I can look and see things for myself with my own eyes. Basically the internet has become a new propaganda platform to distort reality or create fake realities just like newspapers, radio, and TV used to be. Free speech gets silenced if it contradicts whatever narrative they're pushing. Also not all "people" online are real people. Some are bots. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 05:21 AM |
| 3 | "The internet isn't real life" is an extremely outdated line of thinkingI disagree with OP's claim that the internet is realer than real life. The internet circa 1995 or 2000 may've been a place where people could freely say what they wanted. But it isn't like that anymore. Nowadays the internet is heavily curated. As long as internet was a niche environment used by a few nerds, "The Man" didn't pay attention. But now everyone's online using social media, so the government, corporations, special interests, etc. have taken over and use the internet to push propaganda… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Geomaxxing triggers western cucks and feminzis so hardI like 18 year old black and mixed race girls with big asses and big tits. There's way more women that I'm attracted to overseas than there are in my own country. If I go to some other countries and just walk down the street I see way more chicks I wanna fuck than I see walking down the street where I live. Yeah, if you like white women of northwestern European descent then there's more of those types in northwestern Europe, North America, Australia and New Zealand than there are elsewhere. But … | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Black women would have greater SMV if they were less ghettoishWhere I'm from Indian women (from India) mostly marry Indian men. But the ones who go for non-Indians are usually with white guys. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Black women would have greater SMV if they were less ghettoishThe main people I see obsessed with "guud hurr" are black people. I don't think non-blacks care so much or know much about black women's hair issues (unless they're Koreans who make money selling fake hair to black women). I just don't think non-blacks spend a lot of time thinking about black women's natural hair. Especially since most black women in the West have their hair straightened, wear wigs, have braids, etc. How would you even know they have nappy hair if you never see it? Non-black peo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Black women would have greater SMV if they were less ghettoishStatistically if you look at the percentage of black people in interracial marriages, I'm pretty sure it is higher in Europe, Canada, or Australia than it is in the USA. One factor is that in the USA there are lots of segregated black neighborhoods, whereas these don't exist so much in places like the UK or Canada. So yeah there's interracial marriages between blacks and whites in the US, but a higher percentage of blacks marry whites in other high income western countries. Also, just anecdotall… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Black women would have greater SMV if they were less ghettoishCandace Owens is married to a British guy. Tina Turner and Eve (the rapper) also married white European dudes. The USA, in general, is more racially segregated than other Western countries and has less interracial dating between blacks and whites. I'd say its harder for both black men and women to date white people in the US than it is in Europe or other Western countries outside the US. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Black women would have greater SMV if they were less ghettoishYou're right. Same applies to black men. Black and non-black women prefer black men who fit stereotypes and those who don't are stigmatized. But, at the same time, non-stereotypical black men still face racism and negative stereotypes associated with black people. Also a lot of "whitewashed" type black women are into white guys. That said, things are better for black guys from predominantly white high-income countries if they go overseas, especially if they're into black or brown chicks. While p… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Black women would have greater SMV if they were less ghettoishThis is a ridiculous take. Black women who live in predominantly white countries face heavy social pressure (by both blacks and non-blacks) not to wear their natural hair. In the U.S. many black women are virtually not allowed to wear their natural hair. Besides social pressure, there have been lawsuits by black women who say they were fired from their jobs for wearing natural hair styles. So anyone running around pretending that it is just black women who decided they don't like wearing natural… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 05:59 AM |
| 2 | If you don't raise my children, you're a sellout.There are lots of black women with no kids. In fact, scientific studies have shown that 99.637% of women were childless before they had children. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/15 10:48 AM |
| 6 | If you don't raise my children, you're a sellout.What about just getting a young black woman with no kids? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 01:01 AM |
| 10 | Where have all the good men gone? - Woman goes on 130 first dates without ever going on a secondThe entitlement of western women has entered the stratosphere. There's no signs it will ever come back to earth. Looks like they'll be floating out there alone in space with their spinster girlfriends and cats. | /r/MGTOW | 10/05/15 10:50 AM |
| 9 | Where have all the good men gone? - Woman goes on 130 first dates without ever going on a secondShe expired 10 years ago. | /r/MGTOW | 10/05/15 10:48 AM |
| 6 | Just another example of woman as a lost cause.I'm 31 now Too late. I want 18 year old black pussy, not a 31 year old who served as the sperm receptacle for every drug dealer in the neighborhood until she started getting old. | /r/MGTOW | 25/04/15 01:02 AM |
| 3 | There aren't enough marriageable men in America for womenTraditionally men expected their wives to be young virgins. Now the women looking for marriage are what would have been considered "old maids", some have children from past relationships, and some are beyond reproductive age. They have access to their own money. But they still expect a man to support them financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/15 12:01 PM |
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