ilike2talktomyself Archive

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1	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” When men help men, women attack them for using resources that in their opinion should be spent on women. They are called misogynists for not helping women. The first responders on 9/11 didn't separate men from women and decide who they should help. If women only help women, why should women be using my tax money?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/25 03:21 PM
11	Why are these two such huge trends online? Tired of this "Misandry doesn't harm men" BS They justify that misandry doesn't exist because they claim women have no power. That is, all power is centralized. Black and white thinking. And men create the world only for men. They also ignore all the programs created and paid for by men to support and help women and then claim they achieved everything by themselves. They also claim only women are physically harmed by gender bigotry (misogyny in this case). They deny or minimize men harmed. Even though looking at homicide broken down by gen…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/25 06:24 PM
10	AIs will tell you that 71% of modern slaves are women. Here is what is wrong with the answer. By recollection, for years the gender split of modern slavery was roughly 60%M/40%F. But the ILO slowly changed the definition so the majority is female. This justifies claiming slavery is female and due to misogyny. (parallels with how they track and report DV/IPV , rape/SA, as well as poverty) Then only focus help on women. I've spoken to a few people working in fighting modern slavery and they all agree the total number of slaves is much much higher. And they certainly miss out on large numbe…	/r/MensRights	12/01/25 09:24 PM
1	What double standards do men face? Not true! They have been very influential in feminist discourse and epistomology. Their books, speeches and articles continue to drive feminist activism. For example "the future is female" came from Sally Miler Gearhart who made this claim based on the notion of reducing the male population to 10% of the total. Andrea Dworkin's work continues to inform young feminists today. Julie Bindel is a self declared misandrist who is a popular speaker, writer and political activist who influences a great …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/24 10:21 PM
1	What double standards do men face? From what I see and hear male victims are dismissed using the retort that the perpetrators are also male. With the resulting implication that men can only be victims of the perpetrator is female. But female perpetrators are ignored. I never see male victims being discussed. There is little help for them	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/24 10:14 PM
27	“Why don’t men build their own resources?” There is a saying "Those who plant trees, knowing that only others will enjoy the shade, are public benefactors" That is what men do. Often to their own detriment. Many women see this as an entitlement. Men built the UN and WHO to look after everyone. Now they only look after women and make men invisible by leaving them out of research and moving goalposts and definitions. For example the definition of male slavery has been changed to include child brides (which used to be a separate category) a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/02/24 07:30 PM
26	What double standards do men face? Men are demonized for their sexuality like it's something disgusting and shameful. Women are courted and get attention for their sexuality. Men are always expected to have agency and are expected to fix themselves no matter what the context or problem. And therefore never worthy of help or concern. They hv to pull themselves up by their bootstraps. Women are allowed or even perceived as never having agency and are always deserving of empathy and help. Women have problems but men are problems. It…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/02/24 06:54 PM
2	Things men get blamed for that women are at least equally to blame Oh yes, child abuse. They build the narrative that Intimate Partner Violence is nearly all men hurting women and then build on that narrative to assume that men are the ones who harm children too. In fact, when only one parent is solely responsible, it's women who are responsible and they mostly kill sons.	/r/MensRights	30/09/17 08:05 PM
2	Things men get blamed for that women are at least equally to blame FGM - its actually something controlled by women https://www.theatlantic.com/international/archive/2015/04/female-genital-mutilation-cutting-anthropologist/389640/ Also, school dress codes - they blame the bans on not wanting to distract boys. I dont believe this. Schools are run by women. It's not men enforcing dress codes. Women are policing each other. When I've seen women being censured for what they are wearing, its because they make other women uncomfortable. It's not for the benefit of me…	/r/MensRights	30/09/17 07:53 PM
1	Apparently women deserve compensation for "emotional labor" (housework) She makes a small comment towards the beginning that is telling - she mentions that she controls the budget. The household is a matriachy - she makes all the important decisions and tells him what to do. With the power (or rights) comes responsibility - but she is complaining about the responsibility. But she still wants to hold on to the power. So he does the work and she still polices him. That's toxic and controlling. It's narcissistic. She is disrespecting boundaries and what he could unique…	/r/MensRights	30/09/17 05:28 PM