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| 251 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them. | ilikebeerandmusic | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 12:14 AM |
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| 1 | Why can't I (21M) get a girlfriend?I dont understand what you mean by: " Be the simple man who feels he can get the girl not because he is more successful in life than other suitors, but because he is who he is and he likes her for who she is." If hes got dope ass credentials and he has interesting hobbies thats who he is. Being simple and a clean slate of a person doesn't make sense to me. What am I missing? | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Cheers brotha. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 19/10/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.True. And as much as I am bashing strangers on the internet I also hope this helps. If its not and this is a topic that you think does more harm than good I will gladly remove it. It might not be advice for the new new noob but for a guy whos read up a bit, and done a few approaches it may make him open his eyes a bit more, and hopefully garner more success. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Legend | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.True. Next step is to become aware of the environment and what is and what isnt working. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.I mean that girl is not something I would go for. I think it depends on preference and taste at that point. In which case recognize what that girl likes about the guy. Its probably mostly inner game. He may be a loser but he might be super fucking confident. False confidence from an idiot, but confidence never the less. I am in uni, and I generally go for skinny superficial blonds. Which in return to them whats attractive is passion, work, fitness, money, etc. So I speak from personal experience… | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.True I should have. And if I the opportunity arises again I may in the future. I included the successful approach with the Aussie girl to highlight the fact that I used a different kind of game that worked well in that environment. Though I am talking shit, I am simply hoping that people in the future scan their environment and recognize what works and what doesnt so they dont waste a night like those guys did. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:16 PM |
| -4 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Some places being the guy with a beer stuck to his chest will work better then being the sleeze ball bouncing from table to table. It depends on the environment is the point im trying to drive home with this post. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.I hope not to discourage. Just to point out that you cant work an intimate bar the same way you work a club. Hopeful advice that makes people evaluate the way they work a room. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.The thing is the way you work an intimate bar is different than a club. Im not telling people to not approach. Im just saying recognize that its different environments. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Its a combination of stuff. I dont mean to go motivational speaker on you. I dont spill my guts, and I honestly dont have an ultimate purpose. I should have worded it better. By reason it doesnt have to be about saving whales, it could be about a hobby you're super into, or how you just joined crossfit(though that may do more harm than good). Either way, passion, from my perspective is what women find very attractive. It is something that works for me. I personally think that in order to be fun … | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Bro thats the point there. You're more than being in shape and not having a handsome face. As cliche as that sounds. Read less seduction tips and read more self improvement and motivational books. Thats more than half the game. Especially if you hang out in environments that are chill. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.But theres your issue bro. You made those limitations " I'm in good shape and work out lots, but i'm short and my face isn't 'handsome " You have identified yourself in those terms. You are probably much more than that. Dont you have hobbies? Dont you have a job that you are passionate about? A pet that you love to death? Its more than looks, its more than eye contact, its more than lust. Its reason. Reason is the why you wake up each day. Its passion. Its sexier then any face, or feature. My la… | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:58 AM |
| 7 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.sure. but lets learn from each others mistakes and try to be more self aware. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:39 AM |
| 10 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.I agree with you to a certain extent. Which is why I said scan your environment. Some places like a poppin club really are about a number game, where as a local bar is really about inner and personal game. My point here isnt to discourage from constant approach, its about becoming aware of what the scenario is about. You cant have the same game at a house party as you do at a club, or day vs night, or friends vs strangers, etc. be aware of how the environment is reacting around you is all im try… | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:36 AM |
| 15 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Yea. Sick Cunt= Good. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:31 AM |
| 10 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Hit the nail on the dot brotha. Self awareness is key. No fucks given is already a given. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:30 AM |
| 6 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.I completely agree with you. Maybe one day they will become legends. But in the mean time I hope to make some rookies self aware. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:27 AM |
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