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Marriage is for kids. Do not make the mistake of living for the woman. If she's very good to you, you're bored. If she's not, you're miserable. Have a kid, focus on him. Would she make a good mother? Will you be able to raise a great kid with her? Good, do it. That's your project. Invest into it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 09:29 AM
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Just don't pay attention to whatever she is saying, supply an amount of love that YOU consider reasonable and ignore protests unless they make logical sense. Stop taking her thoughts seriously. This happens all the time with my ex (who happens to still be my flatmate because we get along). She'll say I do somethjng wrong, she'll say she can move out right now and we can break it off forever, she'll say I've been very negative towards her lately (which I have, because she's been lazy around the h…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 10:13 AM
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This is turning into an "I'm an Eastern European AMA". Track suits are for peasants or people who wear them ironically. Most people can't pull them off and wear jeans. Most people dress up all the time, too.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 07:08 PM
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Actually, bringing girls along to parties has been the easiest way to bed them I've ever found. I just let them hang around while I get wasted with my friends and other girls I know and then I take them to my room.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:17 PM
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Yeah, that's the point of the post. It was casual and easy. And maybe that's all it takes, really. Being casual, having a good vibe and a lot of friends. You can check my other post about gaming a Moldovan girl, it was a radically different experience.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:13 PM
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Honestly sometimes it gets very intense for the girl, they might get dizzy and want to stop for a few seconds. They've never run away from me lol but jelly legs are a real thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 08:25 AM
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Women contribute much less to the advancement of civilization, yes. The brightest minds, which advance technology and society, will always be mostly men. It doesn't matter what you feel or how you think things should be. Theredpill is about reality. Find joy in what you are made to enjoy or struggle all your life.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 11:48 PM
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These subreddits are not meant to reconcile men and women. It's in a man's nature to seek multiple short-term partners and in a woman's nature to seek fewer, longer-term partners. Correspondingly, theredpill looks out for men's interests, redpillwomen looks out for women's interests. These are two extremes and we have to meet somewhere in the middle or not meet at all, but each party will try to get the best deal for itself. Plus there's a portion of men on trp who want to marry and start a fami…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 11:05 PM
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It's not. You wanna move, learn the language and you'll perfect it there. You will forever be a stranger without this.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 02:06 AM
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Well it's not fully flacid, but if it's about 60% erect and you can still sorta bend it a little, you can start having sex and it'll get harder as you go. Source: drunken sex
/r/askTRP30/12/17 07:52 PM
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Jesus, a "more masculine man". You don't have to break my balls, I was just on a schedule, couldn't take her anywhere that moment. Christ! Anyhow, thanks for the help, sounds plausible. I'll keep this in mind.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 07:22 PM
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I find it hard to believe that she got tired of me not escalating, in this country 2 dates is a very fucking short time to start fucking. That's why I didn't even plan on it.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 07:14 PM
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For the record, I knew getting pissed off would not up my chances, I was just trying to find out what went wrong and learn from that.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 07:11 PM
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It doesn't have to be rock-hard. There's a lot of misconceptions about sex because people don't talk about it. If it's erect and hard you're good to go, nothing to worry about. Your testosterone levels will decline for the rest of your life, it's never gonna be the same as when you were 16, and frankly, that's a good thing. You get your mind off sex and can do some other shit. I would never want to go back to that. When you watch porn, check out the guy's dick, they fuck with limp dicks all the …
/r/askTRP30/12/17 07:05 PM
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Haha, fucking brutal.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:34 PM
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You're in the wrong country. When I was in the U.S., there were 2 types of men I met: the alpha douchebag and the intelligent beta male. Unfortunately, finding someone who combined intelligence, education and redpill behavior (or at least views) was nigh impossible. Back where I'm from, everyone is redpill, regardless of city, intelligence or gender. So you can find your crowd, whatever it is. Come to Eastern Europe.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:32 PM
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Find someone who actually cooks well and get your advice from him/her. (People like to teach, it makes them feel proud) Or, get a really good, reputable cooking book. The internet is full of complicated and poorly thought out recipes. If you do a google search every time you wana cook something, and you use a random source every time, your journey towards good cooking is going to take years. DO NOT GET COOKING ADVICE ON REDDIT, ESPECIALLY ON R/FITNESS. All they know is low-skill lazy-ass bland s…
/r/askTRP30/12/17 06:16 PM
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That's not a comfort test it's just her being a spoiled little shit. You also overreacted, should've schooled her, punished her and moved on with this never happening again. Ridiculous to just cut off a woman for being spoiled and too much into you. School her.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 12:20 PM
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So you have to pretend you're someone else and tell the girl you agree with her inane opinions in order to get laid? Very masculine.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 01:41 PM
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When I ecounter such women in Moldova who tell me about my "manly duties", I remind them of their "womanly duties" and become highly demanding. Most of them are shit at cooking, cleaning and sex beyond missionary + doggy, so at the end of the day they just realize they don't really have much to offer and calm the fuck down. Works for me since I don't like to rely on them anyway. Even in cooking. Point is, you can easily exploit people who constantly need something from you. In a way, you're like…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 12:11 PM
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While I agree that he failed to illustrate the situation fully (only giving the other side a quick mention), the fact that what seems to be 40% of the people hate the father is still very telling. These 40% wouldn't be there if this was a mother talking.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 08:15 AM
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I just say random shit like "I've just eaten a cupcake, what're you doing?" and the conversation starts. If you truly say what you think and what you are afraid will turn girls away (you're wrong most of the time), the conversation cannot be boring. We often abstain from saying some things and don't even think about it. Pay attention to that impulse to say something stupid or abrasive next time you're having a convo. Being direct, honest, harsh will be refreshing and will stimulate a heated disc…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:08 PM
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Considering you're new to the RP, you're doing very well. Keep practicing and enjoy the practice, it's never going to be more interesting and exciting than it is now.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:06 PM
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Most virgins are not fun (in bed and in a relationship) and will bore you, especially after the first few times. High effort and all you get in the end is overemotionality and insecurity on her part and feeling like an asshole on yours. They're good if you're a man in his thirties looking to build a family, you catch one of these girls while they're young, naive and teach them everything and you've got yourself a real traditional family. If you're truly alpha and high-value and you control who t…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:11 PM
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You can tell from her behavior and reactions, the resistance of an inexperienced girl is different from the shit-tests you get from sluts. Source: I live in a country full of virgin 20 year olds
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:11 PM
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You kidding? That's both hot and interesting. Just make sure you're explaining it mostly in dumbass terms as you should when taking to someone who isn't into this. Tell some funny stories, make some ridiculous statements (fuck, imagine a fight with a 100 ducks and figure out the best way to take them out - the situation is funny and your expertise is hot.)
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:50 PM
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As with most things, it takes time to find the balance between two extremes. Practice and have fun, experiment with their brains.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:48 PM
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If my girlfriend did this I'd dump her. You are putting up with a lot of shit, but this is a big step in the right direction. Keep enforcing boundaries. Don't even let it come close to this. There are no excuses.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 01:24 AM
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I think the most skilled were the most popular and respected because everyone depended on them, these were not separate things as it often is today.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 01:46 PM
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I'm talking about dating & living, not reproducing.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 08:38 AM
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No one said anything about pussyfooting, all I'm saying is there's no point talking about it. Acknowledge it and move on. I'm in a good place genetically so it doesn't affect me, but even if it did, there's nothing to do about it. Maximize your potential either way.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 01:52 PM
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That's true but that kind of information does not help you grow. Yes, there are hard limits, but we're here to discuss how to improve ourselves, not to whine. If anything, women should be a helluva lot more worried about genes than men - their physical attractiveness is doubly important.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 01:38 PM
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The worst part is not being able to fall asleep. Otherwise, if you eat at least 500-1000kcal you're mostly alright and weight loss is around 700g-1kg/week depending on your activity levels. 110kcal though, only if you want your life to become very interesting.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:50 PM
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Only if you don't get her drunk/high as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:39 AM
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Well, on theredpill I expect to be judged harshly and by merit so upvotes feel like they do mean you're probably doing something right & that you contributed. I mean, they don't really mean shit, but they're a cue. Unless you are debunked in the comments, of course. My favorite threads are the unpopular ones because good and shitty comments are mixed (not a lot of voting went on) and you can instantly get to know different takes on whatever is discussed without knowin the majority's opinion.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:29 AM
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Quality post. The easiest way to happines is to learn how to just be happy. Precisely because of this, I still don't agree with the TRP's always-improve tenet. Improve to the point of being happy. Continue only if you wish to or if you're bored. No need to make it a principle if you're already doing well. Since happiness is dependent on your relative position in society, just be better than the people around you. (Of course, they way to go is up by meeting quality people, not by lowering your st…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 12:04 AM
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Submission has to come from a position of strength, just like kindness from men. Ideally, she's submissive because she chooses to be so, not because she's terrified you'll abandon her - that's pathetic in any gender. Evolutionarily, it also makes sense. You need a mate who's useful for survival, and women's skills are social. If she's sad and insecure, she's not going to be the machiavelian but devoted bitch you need by your side, and she won't aid you in your quest for power. Submission =/= wea…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 11:47 PM
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Really nothing complicated, as long as the girl is properly warmed up. (In warming up the most important thing isn't time, it's subtlety) Basically tease her with your tongue around her hole as if you were going to actually penetrate her with it, move around the spot, then in, then around, then slowly all the way up to the clit and go up-down or lef-right for a short while gee it doesn't matter. (Learn to find it if you can't lol). Apply various pressure, intensify periodically. Alternate betwee…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:59 PM
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I recommend tadalafil, it works for at least 24 hours unlike viagra or vardenafil (8 hours) so you don't have to think about taking the dose at the right time or anything, just pop a pill and you're good for the weekend.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:53 PM
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Unfortunately, women are children at any age, it just shows more at 16.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:05 PM
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Life ruining consequences for dating a teenager are not a thing outside the U.S. Age of consent is 15 in Greece, 13 somewhere in Northern Europe. One of my friends is 23, he's in an LTR with a 16 year old girl (her family doesn't approve, who gives a fuck. These bastards are actually in love). Another one of my friends is 21, his gf is also 16. Her family approves because he's more mature and therefore a possibly great influence on her, much better than a 16 years old shithead. He made acquintan…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 06:44 PM
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You're a free man, do what you like and if your girlfriend is on your side help her do what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 06:41 PM
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I suggest you revise your post, here and there it's uselessly wordy and you digress with info nobody needs. (The part about femininity/fingernails. Just get to the point, the intro shouldn't be longer than the body of the idea itself) Thanks for the information though.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 06:26 PM
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I, for one, try to encourage idolizing and greater emotions because it makes me happier in the end. And when it doesn't work out, it's not hard to become cynical and realistic again. Ride the high.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 12:54 AM
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Start looking for 10/10 looks combined with 10/10 personality/intelligence. It'll never happen so it'll keep you busy for life. In all seriousness, you simply start prioritizing interesting girls over hot ones (sure, why not both). There are many interesting conversations to be had and much fulfillment to be found from just talking to people and experiencing life and its beauty together. Sex is only the beginning, and you need it less and less over time. A deeper sense of fulfillment lays beyond…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 12:37 AM
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A realization I've come to recently as well, but looks are a secondary factor here. Some girls aren't even very good looking but they make me want them, and want them rough, because they know how to play with my mind. Some are just pretty meat and I don't feel like spanking them or pulling their hair. Some girls have game, some don't. If they can't turn you on to the point of you manhandling them, it's them falling short and they shouldn't expect wild sex, and neither should you expect yourself …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 01:20 AM
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Bill Burr.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 04:20 AM
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Video games provide extreme value - they offer beautiful experiences that you could never have in real life. The entertain and make your short, limited life better. That is, if you're actually playing highly enjoyable and stimulating games ocasionally and not just killing time in yet another call of duty. (Even that will develop better reaction times, nothing you do provides no value at all.) A hobby doesn't have to be useful. Define your goal: fun or usefulness? Start by picking one, because if…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 09:52 AM
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Smoking is fine in moderation. You're an adult, take your own decisions.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 09:26 AM
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It can be hard to find/form a passion, keep trying out different stuff and getting to know different people; something will arise eventually. It can take years. Hobbies alo extend way beyond sports, just do whatever the fuck you find interesting. E.g. one of my hobbies is smoking and I collect different packs of cigarettes and cigars from different countries and can talk about smoking extensively. You can do the same thing with money or wine or whiskeys or shaving instruments or whatever, you ju…
/r/askTRP24/12/16 11:37 AM
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A more appropriate reaction would've been exposing her covert attempts by asking "Are you trying to make me touch your tits?" with amusement. Of course she'd deny it but it's a helluva lot more natural than ignoring the elephant in the room, and you can start teasing her from then on and move things to actual action when she's exhausted playing pretend.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 10:54 PM
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sleep over without having sex Never accept. Simple as that. Have expectations and standards. If they ask you why, just be frank say you're not a little boy and you don't just sleep with girls, smile and say bye-bye. Enjoy their frustration. Just like they can dangle the carrot before you, so can you. You currency is attention. Don't compliment them, respond to flirtation half-heartedly, ocasionally make a move, preferably get them drunk before you make a move, they will have less self control, a…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 09:40 PM
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Relax man, if you're muscular and fun you don't have to be wealthy or unusually good-looking. And ok face, self-respect and personality will you get a very long way without anything else. Self-respect, muscles and personality, remember. Those fat broads had no chance with any decent guy, which is why they were dating fat old men or not dating anyone at all. That pregnant woman literally couldn't find anyone who who would settle for her, so she got artificially inseminated in Denmark. They were d…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 12:36 AM
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I'm a translator & I appreciate your efforts man, thanks for the show and the fluid translation.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 10:33 AM
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I find masturbation a lot better than fucking an average girl. You save time and energy and you don't have to deal with the presence of someone you don't consider worthy.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 10:04 PM
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Cialis maxes out its concentration in 2 hours. You certainly don't need 8 hours. Plus you can get strips that'll get the tadalafil into your blood in as little as 10 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 11:35 AM
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Look up r\steroid(s)sourcetalk. I recommend lifepharma, I've used their tadalafil (the more durable brother of viagra, a.k.a cialis) and while I doubt it's as strong as it claims to be, the price is low enough to just buy more and take a few if you need it. Rasaresearch also has good liquid tadalafil. I have ED and use about 2ml every 2-3 days. It's supposedly 30mg/ml but don't believe that. 30ml will cost you 23$ and if you don't have ED you can use half or even a quarter of my dose, which mean…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 06:37 AM
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I'm from Eastern Europe, we do have many beta men but my circle of friends has naturally been filled in by strong, normal men (and the ones that are only partially there, we all try to help) - the redpill here is society's common sense, open and shameless, all you have to do is listen and read less garbage off the internet. Finding decent men ain't hard. A woman I live with (shared flat) who is very rp has had 4 boyfriends, of whom one was American. To give you an idea, he told her he wouldn't c…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 08:49 AM
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I think the effect here was that it happened so fast she was just like a child following her daddy's instructions with not much time to think about deniability or whatever. Basically, he took her by surprise. I don't think it's gonna work in a bar, where they expect this.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 11:39 AM
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My girlfriend and I are thinking about seducing another woman, could you expand on how the conversations go once you all meet and how you move on to the action? I will need to manage this myself and some advice wouldn't hurt. Do you make 'em start with each other? Do you warm them up simultaneously? So far my only option is playing card games & making wishes but I don't wanna be stuck with something this childish.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 10:21 AM
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Eh, this is much more annoying than his method. Talking about being friends -- I wouldn't even consider it disingenuous, you're obviously just sending a message, you're not interested in being friends, and she understands that.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:56 AM
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Has anyone noticed the richness in expression on theredpill vs the rest of reddit? So many idioms, expressions, funny word choices in general. Some of them sophisticated, some of them really blunt and dumb which makes them hilarious. I'm an ESL teacher and this sub is gold for me.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:13 AM
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Religion is not masculine. Living in a fairy tale and having your life dictated is not masculine. Not having the mental acuity to see through made up stories of those who wish to control you is not masculine.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:05 AM
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Just remeber that changing your persona could be either a really quick fix with dramatic consequences -- if you just start being very, very frank and show excellent cogruency, or it will take a long time as you slowly adjust to being different without sabotaging half your relationships in the blink of an eye and instead realizing which ones you need to abandon, change, etc. (And your relationships will change if you change.)
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 09:02 AM
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It's highly dependent on the woman, I think. Some women are all emotion no matter what and how many times you say it, like little children, others are capable of listening. I went for the latter in my LTR. In any case, I think it's good to frame the argument your way even if she never agrees with it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:46 PM
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I also find it strange when girls initiate. After it happened to me a few times, I realized I liked being the one to choose whom, when and how I approach, and choosing where we go and what we do. I don't want any of that to be decided by women, and I sure as hell don't want to deal with unattractive females approaching me. You start appreciating your role as a man.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:58 AM
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I live in a country full of beautiful women and I find only 10-20% of them to be sufficiently attractive. The women that I previously found attractive started repulsing me as I realized I could get much better looking ones. Standards. Except mine come from practical results, not from an inflated sense of self-worth.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:52 AM
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Not the best advice for an LTR. Yeah, do this, but you also need to explain some stuff and maintain frame after you do that. If you just instill constant dread she's going to feel that you don't care about her which is going to affect any long term relationship negatively. You do need to care about her somewhat, there needs to be some measure of stability and safety, you just need to instill respect at the same time and not tolerate bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:41 AM
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Agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:41 PM
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If women cost you too much money & stress you haven't learned enough redpill info and/or haven't succesfully applied it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 06:21 PM
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Nah, I'm alright, this whole thread is about rating systems.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 06:45 PM
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0-10 is a measure of general physical attractiveness, not a measure of the girl's overall SMV. Personality, education, class are irrelevant. Moreover, it's primarily a rating of the facial characteristics, which is why you sometimes see people on theredpill saying "a 7/10 with a 10/10 body" or something of the sort. Considering something else other than looks makes this scale highly subjective and useless. I rate girls 0-10 based on physical attractiveness, of which only about 5% to 10% goes to …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 11:54 AM
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Calm the fuck down with the executions, Jesus Christ. A redpill society merely means a society aware of the nature of men and women, it doesn't presuppose extreme punishments for women's or men's behavior. Infidelity, so fucking what? What did you expect? That's human nature in both genders, this sub is all about dealing with nature. We can have a free, intelligent society, that's aware of redpill truths. As long as he's fed real information, it's upon every individual not to let himself be take…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 11:34 AM
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Same here, being eventually kind has gotten quality girls to fall in love with me, being an asshole got me random sex and that's all.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 01:49 PM
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I used to always fill it with something, be it positive or negative. I'd come home and cook and the silence would be pressing, nothing serious but I'd get that little discomfort, so I'd play a podcast or the radio. One day I came home and just when I was about to play another podcast I thought to myself "You know what, I'm not going to do that. Let the silence encompass this apartment." And I felt good. Sad and free, not like a man running from himself.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:14 AM
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Works with alcohol and it's a known method throughout Eastern Europe and Russia. I hear stories about fathers sitting down with their son to drink some vodka, starting out as a fun time together and eventually driving them to alcohol poisoning so that they never feel like touching alcohol for the rest of their life. Tough lesson.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:57 PM
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You guys are ridiculous. Sure, women are crazy, but they still have a brain, if they bang their head on a wall they will make a connection between the banging and the pain.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 07:57 PM
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Sufficiently satisfied, yes. Excited, like when I'm the field, meeting new people, playing the game? No.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:00 PM
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No matter the way she thinks about it, next time she comes up with an adventurous idea, she'll get a flashback at the back of her mind of what happens when you're audacious and careless. That will influence her.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:34 PM
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I think we can both agree that it's a bit of a pathetic reason. Women can always get more cock, it's the value of the men that she fucks and specifically their willingness to commit to her that matters. Most men are either beta or not willing to commit, they therefore don't matter to you in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:31 PM
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I see no point in restricting yourself to one pussy. An LTR offers stability and, if she's a clever woman, support and happiness after a particularly long day at work. She'll listen, she'll cook, she'll offer you a massage, and you'll be a happier man. That's very valuable, and the focal point here isn't sex-on-demand like most men on TRP seem to think. A good woman will be aware that her vagina is replaceable, she'll offer a lot more. My point is: LTRs and random sex are different things, which…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:20 PM
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if you love someone don't you stick with them through everything? Another victim of naive romance movies. She thought she could get away with anything and they'd sort it out. It's childish, that's how a relationship between a parent and a kid works, they know they won't be abandoned, almost no matter what. Surprise, the adult world doesn't work like that, there are a lot of boundaries with severe, irreversibe consequences. She's learning the concept of consequences now.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:19 PM
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Quit being a little bitch about smoking. I swear you're like those girls who go "ewww omg omg" every time a whiff of smoke reaches their delicate little noses, you went on one date with this chick lol stop giving a fuck. That being said, it's a good thing to intentionally neg her over.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 06:45 PM
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I think you handled it perfectly, albeit you drew it out for quite a bit.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 10:24 AM
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Althought I doubt you're at 17%, put on size, you'll lose the fat later when you have something to be left with. I'm also 1,78m and I used to weigh 52kg. Walking skeleton. Now at 63kg and it's already much, much better.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 02:17 PM
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Push and pull, my friend. After ignoring her, you look her straight in the eye, be warm, happy, genuine, playful, make a proposition, let her be happy for a brief time, then disappear. Be aloof, be "not in the mood", be busy with friends and fun activities. Then be warm again, sincere, open, present. Don't compliment her more than once, just make it count, but don't make it a big deal. Be warm and happy because that's what you are, not because you're with her. Increase the warm phase gradually a…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 01:11 AM
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I wouldn't be attracted to a girl that's offering herself up so easily, it's too obvious and a bit pathetic. If you think all men like this kind of easy behavior, you come from a scarcity mindset. Easy is boring and there's plenty of boring fish that makes you feel nothing.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 04:28 PM
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What the fuck else is she gonna do, she lost her future. Revenge is all that she can attain.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 02:05 PM
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Ahaha that's a funny game. As a sidenote, it's also for plebs who don't actually enjoy alcohol. Savor it, don't make yourself drink more & faster than you feel like through silly games.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 10:25 PM
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Once a week is not a problem. Every day is a problem.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 10:20 PM
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I always call. It's quick, efficient and mature, unlike texting games.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 08:30 PM
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Haha man what a rollecoaster, but a very familiar one! Keep going and it'll come in time, I don't think you can adopt a stable abundance mentality quickly (props tot you if you do), it comes as you gradually have more succes with women and acquire more partners, eventually all you have to do is think back to all the women you've had and all of the ones you will and be at peace with a certain next one not being impressed by you. And then, you don't even need that. Then it's easy.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 08:27 PM
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I don't know, I wouldn't go to a girl's place after a brief conversation on Tinder myself. She might look completely different from her pictures, she might be insane or dumb, it's too fishy and too much too soon.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 03:30 PM
2

Really needed it, went out with a foreign stranger, still put up a lot of resistence. sigh Good post, teaches us what to expect. Patient insistence does the job,
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 01:14 AM
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Never said anything about doctors.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 06:36 PM
2

Well the funny thing is you can buy it online just like you can find steroids, viagra and accutane. (The suppliers usually sell all of those) Shady sources, but with thorough research you'll find a reliable supplier. Research, research, research times a hundred, and you can do it. Dosage, side effects, read up on it all. It's risky, but you can mitigate the risk. This is also done officially as therapy but only for very short people I believe, you can look into that. I'm too old so I can't grow …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 02:43 PM
2

I think the same of my past bad choices, but in different words: "Back then, it was exactly what I needed, and I'd do it again in the same circumstances. If I had tried to do the better thing, I wouldn't've been able to."
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 09:48 AM
1

Zara makes cheap clothes (on sale) that copy famous designers' work, always a good choice if you're looking for semi to fully formal attire.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 11:30 PM
1

Anything that looks classy enough. Sneakers are out of the question as a general rule, if you choose and pick carefully you can come up with an outfit that will make you look rich and classy either way. Dressing more like higher class people and less like hobos and hipsters is generally a good idea. Fashion is a lot about who you look like. There is a big variety of dress shoes so pick any, I don't even know what most of them are called. Shoes are shoes. Find someone classy to copy and start wit…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 11:29 PM
2

Eh, I see guys my age (22) wear them all the time (well, not all the time, but enough for me to notice), it comes down to regional differences and personal ability to pull it off. They should be worn as part of a complete, classy look. If you wear them with casual clothes you will indeed looks stupid and old. I mean come on guys, hipsters have made it possible for us, we can wear old school clothing and look cooler instead of lame. Loafers can be different too, subtle stylistic choices can make …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:02 PM
1

Hey, maybe it's out of style where you live, in this case I take my ridicule back. It just sounded like you were an American who wears nothing but T-Shirts because Henleys is "trying too hard". A polo is the best choice in my opinion too, classy and simple.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 10:52 AM
1

Henleys are tacky lol? You sound like you grew up in a monastery. The denial of some guys that are dressing like 5 year olds is just awe-inspiring. At this point arguments don't even work, only ridicule, like with the religious. Henleys are tacky jesus fucking christ lol
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 10:33 AM
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Heh, the difference between Americans and Europeans. You see a grown man wearing vans, it just looks weird. Like a woman in her 30s or 40s who's still wearing short skirts and tops, it reeks of sadness and lack of maturity and self-awareness.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:51 PM
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Just don't confuse simple with boring. Clothes can very simple, basic, and still have a subtle something that sets you apart. A simple, basic shirt, that has an unusual collar for example (either in shape, or maybe there's a pattern drawn on it, or maybe the buttons are a bit different). If you keep it subtle it looks elegant.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:49 PM
1

Always try to match accesories by color and style (belt, scarf, gloves, watch, etc), it creates a look that feels "complete".
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:45 PM
3

LoL calm down mister I'm-afraid-of-looking-like-some-faggot. Well-fitted clothes look best on both women and men.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:43 PM
2

Not really, you just make it your thing. My way to do it is to make a very serious face and declare "I have three questions." "First question! - In what year was President Kennedy shot?!" Such a question, on a date, after proudly proclaiming that you have three questions for your date, just makes people burst out laughing. If they don't laugh and just look at you like you're weird, just respond with the same and be dead serious about your question "Yeah, I ask that all the time, don't you? Well,…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 11:38 PM
1

Never paid for her or myself (we simply took walks), never prepped for her. Seriously guys, I'm not trying to spin this. The only thing I spent were my cigarettes.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 04:25 PM
1

Eh, I always schedule these dates when I'm on my way somewhere or I got other dates to go to, I never went out specifically for her, it's part of why I called this "minimal effort". It really was. It took nowhere near that long and only looks elaborate in writing, IRL it was all just spur of the moment.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 04:22 PM
2

Foreigners always play by different rules. : )
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 11:53 AM
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You know, I agree. This is surface game, not deep, ingrained alpha behavior. But it works, and that's one of the things RP is about, things that work. She tried to manipulate me just as I tried to manipulate her, so morality is out of the question, I was polite and nice throughout - which I think is the most alpha, decent and honest thing I did, just being a human being. Except for when she acted up of course. No hard feelings at the end, we both smiled and said bye.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 10:55 AM
1

This is literally a post about low-effort sex, what did you expect? I wasn't making it seem like I changed her life, I simply got laid. Stories about rocking someone's world don't belong on TRP, you don't rock someone's world by simply being hardcore TRP.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 10:50 AM
2

My strategy as of lately has been a natural combination of alpha and beta behavior and not discussing the relationship at all. Girls get attached and I have started coming across much hotter girls (average used to be 7, now it's 8) but I'll report later on the results, it's still not clear where this will lead me.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 09:46 AM
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Really? She came to my apartment right after we had the conversation about me not having serious intentions. The implication was there and it was clear. We talked for a bit, I got touchy, all was good but she'd stop me when I tried to take her panties off. This happened about thrice untill I decided to start being an asshole. I got on my tablet, she took it away from me "playfully" in 3 minutes layer to "check what I was doing". I tried to have sex again, she stopped me again. I asked what was w…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 09:26 AM
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A lot of it is untranslatable because of cultural references, but just really boring shit like: How long did your longest relationship last? (the longer the better, if it lasted more than 2 years they're probably fed up with relationships and experienced in bed too) What are you studying? Mm, yeah? And how do you like it? I don't think you're gonna find a job... And how's life in your town? Oh, you have supermarkets there? (It's a small town so I'm being "funny") Etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:57 AM
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Although you are right in general, women can be trained, and this is what I did. Their behavior can be corrected and adapted to your needs. Still, I just wanted a hottie on my list, so I went for it. We only fucked on that last day and I cut it off.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:49 AM
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I told her we won't be seeing each other again for separate reasons (she called me an hour after we had sex and asked whether we'd be seeing each other ever again...way too obvious). Her instability is the only thing that made her a bit interesting. And as they say around here, "Women can be trained." I got her to act exactly the way I wanted ultimately.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:37 AM
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You just have to know how to say it. Use humor, but then be like "no, but seriously". After the first question she knows she's being evaluated, so it's no longer strange. (Make zero effort to hide that you're evaluating her, but don't be more than humorously cocky about it either) I ask them questions to gauge their intelligence/educational level (a history question, a common language mistakes question, etc), experience (necessary info in Moldova, inexprienced girls are often still virgins at 22…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:33 AM
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You know I've totally compared the price for a hooker and the price of me going out with some girl. But hookers don't count on the list, so on the rare ocassion when I happen to spend some money on a girl, I think of it as a long-term investment -- she will be a number in my partner count, perhaps a good memory.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:29 AM
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I've had first and second date lays in Moldova, but they were higher effort because the girls were much better at creating uncertainty and playing the game themselves than I was back then. So it wasn't low effort, because it wasn't lax and obvious. Plus they were 7s. This time I decided to get a hotter girl - and I was calm, in full control and thought nothing of this girl. I didn't make an effort to make conversation or be funny, and her tricks didn't affect me, which is why this was low effort…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:18 AM
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Well well, I finally encountered this too. Guess it should be taken as a compliment. I just didn't include details because I was a long post already, but believe what you will. It's what everyone advises to do here, just ignore the girl when she's putting up the last-minute shit test, and it worked. Everything in the post does lead to fucking, from my very first 10 minutes with her on facebook where I tell her I'm a "passionate lover". That line wasn't about feelings. If you guys want to, I can …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:04 AM
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That's like heating up a pre-cooked meal and calling it cooking. I live in a conservative country and game girls who are lookin for relationships, not in whore-land on Tinder. Even the girls on Tinder think that Tinder is for dating here. A lot of them delete their accounts when I inform them it's for one night stands.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 08:01 AM
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I would just choose a moment and be like "Alright, well, I gotta go now. See ya". Sometimes I have an excuse, sometimes I don't. A bad excuse only makes this better because it looks like you're just lying to get rid of her politely (and you can turn it into a funny story on the next date "my hamster DID really die!), but it's not my style to be disingenuous. You also have to be careful not to look weak instead of benevolently polite when you're playing like that.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 12:14 AM
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I know it does, but only when you analyze it in a big post. It's not like I went through it with planned actions and careful reflection. My actual thought process during the whole ordeal was: Okay so unless sex is accesible I'm not doing this (so she reassured me) She's kinda boring so I'm not gonna stay any longer. (So I cut it short) You're not in the mood? Fuck that I'm going home (so she stopped me). And I still told her we shouldn't see each other, but she came to my flat herself. What was …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 09:11 PM
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Such is dating life in conservative societies. This wasn't even a difficult girl, I actually found her manipulations too obvious and playing the game with her didn't require being very clever. I'm dealing with worse as of now. sigh Still, it really was just 3 hours 20 minutes of investment on my part and a couple of laughs in between.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 09:05 PM
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Eh, I'm more than happy that TRP is true; the world would be boring without it. There are downsides, but overall I'm better this way than in a world where men are allowed to be whiny bitches just like women. We should be better.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:19 PM
1

Hmm I need to do this, there's something wrong with my left ball and I've got ED.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 01:11 PM
1

You're cofusing feminism with polygamy, our universities have zero feminism. Westernized women are my favorite thing ever, they got the best of both worlds - they're not some conservative, boring, disgustingly timid creatures, but not absolute dirty sluts either. They have found good balance, where I am at least. I agree with the rest though.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 09:24 AM
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Same lesson I'm learning. But although you may've been able to handle it better, it sounds like she was the one who seriously overstepped to the point of no return. Sometimes you get into situations that have no good solutions, no need for regrets.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 03:40 PM
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Look, I AM mixing LTR and plate behavior, I enjoy that and I find it useful. Second, regardless of what she thought of my behavior, I made it clear from the very first date that I do not do LTRs as I find it comparable to being in a cage (because of monogamy), those are the exact words I used. She knew I had other girls and that I don't want a relationship, there were no secrets. Third, my "revelation" came after she told me she was going on a date. I regret it because it led to an unwanted outc…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 03:26 PM
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You're right, I'm too young to play that game. For now, I can be distant and exiciting - most I can manage is a brother figure, not a father one. Anyhow, LTRs are a separate thing, I don't do them. We're talking about plates and luring them with LTR behavior, not actual LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:50 PM
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Yeah, but the requirements for an LTR are lower than those for a guy she just fucks (in terms of his personal qualities that are actually valuable and require intellect, courage, etc. Not in terms of subservience, sure). I don't mean one-night-stands, but being a fuck buddy. Especially in a conservative society wherein bein in non-commited relationships is viewed as wrong--there's extra barriers which means it has an additional price and requires higher value. I can easily become a lot of girls'…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:40 PM
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Eh, she knew about the other girls, she simply knew she was valued higher than the rest of them. When she stopped feeling that way it didn't go very well. I wasn't trying to downgrade her, they way she felt was appropriate. Just a miscalculation on my part. "Hurting" each other was fun, wouldn't've been the same without it. Our independence and strength is what attracted one another, not banal feelings.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:30 PM
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It was banter, she mentioned the date playfully, I mentioned my previous date playfully, there was no attempt to hide that it was a counter-attack (even so, it didn't look like one. I was simply happy to tease her, we knew full well we were dating other people). Plus I didn't do it immediately after. Trust me, I knew what I was doing. She was hurt by it, that's all. This time a bit too much.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:58 PM
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Agreed. TRP hardcore mode is for absolute sluts who've really been around, and even those will eat up bits of kindness if you keep it sparse. If you give just a bit too much though, you'll end up back here reminding yourself not to slip up haha.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:34 PM
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On cruelty: It wasn't exactly cruel, just before I told her of the girl from the night before, she'd told me she was going on a date in an hour; it was only fair of me, but just too much for her to bear. On your overall comments: You make a lot of statements but you don't back them up with arguments. In my experience, as exemplified by the story from this post, LTR behavior can be mixed with plate behavior very succesfully.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:31 PM
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Wow this woman is a total wreck haha
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:00 AM
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Regarding mistresses that help you recover in your weak moments, I call them "spare girls". Acquiantances that I know like me but are not good enough for me to fuck them regularly. I'm just fairly nice with them but avoid them the rest of the time of the time. When I'm down and want it quickly delivered to my house though, I just give 'em a call and they're be happy to deliver. Bonus points if they cook dinner, though it's best when they leave quickly.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 08:02 AM
1

When you stop feeling the nicotine it does become just a nuisance.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:05 PM
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Absolutely. I've been smoking randomly on good ocassions (when drinking / when it feels like a good moment) for a few months and I'm fine. I stopped for a month because I had stopped feeling the nicotine high and felt it was pointless without it; I felt ocassional cravings in situations when I usually smoke, but it wasn't a big deal -- after a month, cigarettes stopped attracting me altogether -- so now I picked it up again. This is my personal advice on how to smoke carefully: It's a thing of h…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:03 PM
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That you were wrong is beside the point, nobody in that class understood that. They just found your comment offensive, which is not something that should stop you. They hated it, that's a fun thing. Know what the effect will be and next time if you want to say something, defend it properly. You are living in a hornet's nest, learn to play with it charmigly. Smile next time you say something that'll make everyone angry. I went to a U.S. college for a semester and had a similar reaction to me sayi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 05:21 PM
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This is a U.S. phenomenon. The rare chubby girl I meet is normally a nice, openly shy person. They tend to be obvious in who they are attracted to. When half your women are either obese, fat or chubby it might work a little differently.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 06:54 AM
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Well, you could put it that way... The point of the EU is, depending on your perspective, uniting Europe through a supranational institution, or controlling Europe through a supranational institution.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:23 PM
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I agree, but it is also not easy to rule at any time. Efficiently and successfully ruling a country through relatively stable times is already worthy of praise.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 04:55 PM
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She's punishing Greece for disobeying. Schaeuble is known to want Greece to fail and serve as an example to countries like Italy, Spain, Portugal, who dare disobey conservative German fiscal policy (he had enough audacity to admit this to the ex-finance-minister Varoufakis). Everyone else is caught up in a misguided moral quest to punish the "lazy Greeks" as well.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:59 AM
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Merkel was a good ruler during relatively stable times(as good as it gets in the beta western world), but she cannot deal with actually stringent, controversial crises, like the Greek recession and the immigrant crisis now. She took a tough stance against Greece but it was just political posing and economic suicide, now she's taking a tough stance against people who don't want to be overrun by random muslims (as did ALL of western Europe, especially feminized countries like Sweden) and it's the …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 09:01 AM
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Uh, I meant tens, actually. And I meant to say that because Americans are used to paying tens of thousands, they think of what you lightly call "a couple of grands at most" as an insignificant sum, whereas paying a thousand for anything health-related in countries with universal health care and non-inflated costs is a few steps away from being absolutely outrageous.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 07:21 PM
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Lol the UK has 64 million people, considering people used to live in tribes of a few tens, I think they'll be fine. Plus many of his clients are internationals.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 05:03 PM
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Most of the world is not used to paying thousands tens of grands for any kind of medical service, especially one that can be done for free by anyone.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 05:01 PM
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Damn, I remember your comment! It was the most moderate, well-thought comment in the entire thread! You got banned for THAT? I am starting to dislike this world.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 08:05 PM
1

Performance anxiety is a common cause of ED.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 09:15 AM
1

I agree with the commenters below--talking to him is one thing, but he can only learn by watching and copying real men's behavior; it's one thing to hear "have self respect, don't do this, do that" and another to see a real person and discover the style, the expressions, the attitudes, the words that constitute whatever he's being taught to be, to see how you can ge away with things and how you can solve problems. I say this from personal experience. I had no dad or granddad and on the rare occa…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 11:54 AM
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The internet really was better when it was more obscure. Where are the times when you had to hide playing video games and browsing the net too much because the mainstream thought that was a loser thing? Now the females are the ones who spend most time online, endlessly posting shit on Facebook and expressing predictable indignation on reddit. Now reddit is full of just normal people, average joes.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 10:32 AM
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I do this too with girls I know I'm probably not gonna be able to get in bed with. It makes you feel better about yourself, as if you rejected her before she could, and as if you didn't fuck because you made that decision, not because you had no (easy) chance. Male hamstering. You shouldn't make the decision not to fuck a 9/10, leave it to her. Try. Act like it's no biggie and it'll be no biggie.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 09:56 AM
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Jesus Christ, this guy does not like getting to the point. Anyhow, I recommend just doing round 2&3; premature ejaculation is hardly a problem with a condom on anyway. Round 1 is always short, so I usually do round 2 for the girl (if I feel she deserves it), meaning I make sure I last longer -- usually by pausing once in a while, slowing down and not concentrating too much on how hot she is, then going faster and faster until I reach maximum in&out velocity. I even keep doing it after I cum. And…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:34 PM
2

Are you that Asian guy who wants to fuck blue eyed blondes that everyone on trp is complaining about
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:30 PM
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Solid vocabulary instantly evaporates negative preconceptions about race. This won't work for Asians, but it works for any race associated with crime/violence or just being dumb. Source: I'm white and not without preconceptions.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 03:08 PM
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I'm not from the U.S. so I get different shit tests here, and mostly they're not verbal and this obvious, but right off the bat (well really things I've already said in the past that have become habit): -1. I have a boyfriend. That's ok, we don't need him. (Smirk, I'm-gonna-fuck-you-look) -2. How many girls have you slept with? All of them. You're the only one left ; ) // It's your turn now.// It's finally your turn. -3. Wow, your friend Chad is hot. Right? Want me to call him over here? I'll te…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:36 PM
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This is great advice, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:00 PM
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14 cracked me up, I need to use that.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:57 PM
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I saved the most answers from you.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:48 PM
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Definetly fucks you up a bit, getting so close and then being rejected. Especially if you don't know why, you keep thinking about every possible mistake you made in between thinking of how hot she was. But I've learned that people have their personal shit and girls are fucked up in general. Sometimes you find out the reason they didn't fuck you much later on and it has absolutely zero to do with you.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 11:11 PM
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This is the kind of situation that I've gotten into before - girl coming to my place and stopping at the last moment, confusing as fuck. But I think it's like someone else here said -- she received a bit of decent treatment and thought about being decent herself. I guess if you want a slut, you gotta treat her like a slut. Sometimes girls like you too much, too.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 10:48 PM
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Lol, it's a normal fit body, being jacked is optional and it's not to everyone's liking.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 10:40 PM
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Did you make this whole post just for the rhymes at the end?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 09:53 AM
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I'm not sure it even is slower, 2 days a week allows for plenty of recovery, which is great for you; when people do 4-5 days a week, they work different muscles each day anyway, I'm not sure it grants much of a benefit beyond having shorter gym sessions. I guess it's difficult to be thorough when you do full body, and that might take away from the gains.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:07 PM
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I do full body twice a week, seems to be working out great. Keep it simple. Disclaimer: I haven't been working out for very long.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 08:57 AM
2

This is good advice, I'll start following it.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 03:10 PM
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Apparently it's just the same in some regards. Scandinavian and UK universities are no better either.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 09:34 AM
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God, I could never live in the U.S. Edit: my bad, dude is from down under
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 09:15 AM
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Your daughter sounds awesome. I'd love seeing her interact with other women haha, especially creating uncomfortable situations.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 06:48 AM
1

Damn, this sounds so right -- the part about settling down. That's probably where I'll end up eventually.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 11:45 AM
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Damn bitches haha, multiple dates for the fellow countrymen and easy sex for the foreigners! I should switch to tourist girls too.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 10:39 AM
2

Yes, they do much more so than trp, it's certainly their prerogative; but theredpill isn't an ideal hard point of reality, it often tries to bee too "hard" and realistic, overemphasizing unpleasant truths over pleasant ones, as if people are intentionally drilling the negative aspects into their own minds, so that they never forget reality, to the point that some things seem more important than they really are.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 07:34 AM
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Yeah, I did have to cancel dates because the one before went well, it just happened to me on Tuesday actually. If I feel that the date might go well I tell the second girl I'll call her later and tell her if we are to meet. If not, I just don't call or I text her saying I don't feel like meeting anymore / something happened. Well really it's not hard; I live in a relatively small city, Chişinău (800 000 people but high population density), anyone will agree to meet downtown. Tl;dr I arranged to …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 08:16 PM
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Well, I presented a way to reach that feeling, to truly feel that you have many options, since naturally it may not be there.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 06:52 PM
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Haha I'm from Moldova but this is a good idea for the future!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 06:51 PM
11

You are completely right -- The same thing happened to me, I went from 2 dates a day to only one girl that I see 1-2 times a week IF she texts me. It makes you finally see their mental value, and it's not much to look at. Girls are really boring. Plus I started having the same routine with most girls, it became very repetitive. (Wine at x place, neg then switch to her side after x time, make a move, stare into eyes, kiss, end date abruptly and be aloof for a while, second date...) But the result…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 06:35 PM
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I...will be trying this. It never occured to me; there are 2 places where I go with girls regularly, one with huge glass walls through which the waitresses can see me get in a cab with my dates ocassionally. Hmm...
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 06:25 PM
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I didn't know I could do it until I did, that's the lesson. It doesn't take much, if your succes quota is bad, just up the number of attempts. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I had 2 girls that I had gone with on one or two dates before, and a new one that I had just arranged to meet; scheduling them all in one day was just a matter of willingness and a bit of luck with the logistics. I'm very far from being Chad -- 5'10, skinny as fuck (137lbs), started out with basic (not great but not terrible) game -- if I can do …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 04:23 PM
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It's good if you just wanna entertain yourself, but getting laid becomes unlikely--at least when I have lots of sex before a new date, I simply act like an asshole and don't care about her body at all; I don't kiss her or anything. With some girls this is going to create dread, others are just going to overreact to your jokes and subsequently dissapear off the radar. It's good to do once in a while to high-value women who get too much attention. If you keep smoking, looking around, interrupting …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 02:59 PM
7

You should watch RSD...one of their guys is 172cm, he gets pussy like it's nothing and he's happy as fuck...his attitude really made me stop caring (I'm not even short but reading trp will make it seem like height is a lot more important than it really is, this sub distorts the reality of some aspects). He said he wishes he was shorter because that would be more of a challenge, it would make it more interesting. I dated a woman taller than me once, that was the first time I discovered what an ab…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 12:07 PM
2

Hm...I'm into tall women for the exact same reason. Well, it's for my personal validation actually, I don't really need anyone to know, I like to know myself that I can do it.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 12:03 PM
15

Every time this sub talks politics I'm reminded that 50% of the people here are retarded. Guess it's better than 100%.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 08:54 AM
1

Well yeah, I'm a translator -- I would know. ; ) It's the same exact word with the same definition; unless it has a different meaning in the target language, or it uses one meaning of it that the target-language equivalent does not share, you never substitute words like that. Our dictionary definition of sexism is just as terrible as the English one ("discrimination, typically against women, to the benefit of men"), because with words like this we merely copy the west, we don't have such notions…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 10:36 AM
9

Uh, yeah, it's not my first post about Moldova, and I'm sitting here with another redpill friend. : )
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 11:40 PM
1

Same here, I wish I had more friends like this; when I encounter a guy who puts down other guys on purpose, I just don't know how to respond.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:53 AM
0

She hamstered it away overnight, haha. I wouldn't let this go, I'd make fun of her until she either accepts it or breaks down again. Cool story anyhow; women have no idea what being a man is like, and they are so weak -- the other day I made one of my dates try to pick up one of her facebook friends from my account -- she spent several minutes trying to come up with something to say and then said "I won't make fun of guys anymore, this is so hard." Then she proceeded to write the most naive, chi…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:03 AM
1

If you want to take it without any ED start out with 1/5th of the recommended dose (Take no more than 1g of Cialis and no more than 10g of Viagra to be REALLY safe. 2.5g Cialis and 25-50g Viagra if you're feeling a little brave. Do not take 100g of Viagra or more than 10g of Cialis without prior experience, you might get a priapism or at least a painfully hard and long erection) and work your way up stopping when the desired effect is achieved. You do not want to get stuck with your dick erect, …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 05:13 PM
1

You can order online. You can get them from India. Insanely cheap compared to legit U.S. sources. I buy my stuff from rasaresearch; it's very much underdosed but it's still a helluva lot cheaper than regular cialis. I drink 2ML every time (it's supposed to be 60mg of cialis but it's probably only half that), it comes out to about 13 doses per 27$ bottle, which is 2$/dose. Sometimes they have 50÷ off, so you can get just get a year long stock for 1$/dose. It's sure better than paying 430$ for 8 p…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 04:55 PM
3

I used to be terrible at conversation. It's a skill, and the more you do in your life the more there is to talk about, more stories to tell, etc. So keep on going.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 10:04 PM
0

She'll be fine. This is not a muslim country. It doesn't matter that much and girls who are serious about preserving their virginity won't get drunk in the first place. (Good luck convincing them!) Many kind of want to do it but they're waiting for a good excuse to have sex before marriage, they don't actually wait for years and years. A really hot trp man and a few drinks is a great excuse.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 07:26 AM
-1

How else do you expect them to preserve their virginity? I feel like virginity is such a foreign concept on trp that men have zero idea of what it's like to deal with a virgin girl haha. They'll fuck you before marriage but not before they're sure you're serious about getting with them (I'm talking marriage, kids, the whole deal). Or you can just get them drunk...
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 06:44 AM
-1

Eh, impregnate and abandon is pretty much a male sexual strategy; she can always find some other dude that'll take care of your genetic material.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 06:40 AM
1

Only on trp. I made a post a while back about how boring virgins are and how much work they take, how much they are like children. Really not worth it since I don't even do LTRs in the first place and I'm not attracted to frigid girls. Half the people here are complaining it's hard to get laid with EE girls. Well yeah, that's how they maintain a low count, not evereyone's an easy slut and they won't fuck any random guy. (But I like sluts)
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 06:34 AM
2

That means you'll still get a U.S. pension, which would be great abroad. Plus you only get taxed after a certain threshold.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 06:31 AM
6

As long as you find a good source of income. A normal salary in Moldova is 300$, you wouldn't enjoy living on that. The absolute majority of people are going to be bigoted against sexual minorities and the gypsies and they won't care about political correctness. We don't even know the term. Most will declare themselves Christian but honestly we're a lot less religious than Americans, except for people who are over 60. They're also going to be super friendly to foreigners, especially Americans. E…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 09:42 PM
4

Many people are happy in shitty countries. I think it's because they come here by choice. We, who are born here, will always want the better life. But those born in abundance, who can always return to it, can easily abandon it and be poor by choice. I'm not advocating working as a regular Moldovan, it's too hard, but if you find a decent source of money, you're all set.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 09:09 PM
3

Haha I think I'm im the safe zone. Nobody is gonna want to come here.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 08:53 PM
23

Well, yeah. It's always expected that they're golddiggers. Especially if you're foreign. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 08:51 PM
2

Haha they certainly do go home and talk about it. Even for me, having traveled a bit, it's always interesting to examine foreigners and they're a common discussion topic when we meet them ("Look, a bunch of foreigners. Okay this one is certainly American--we can hear him from the other end of the room-- this one has a weird accent and he dresses funny, must be Italian"...etc, etc.) 'Cause we don't meet them a whole lot. About the girls -- yup, a lot of girls who want to get laid but will always …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 08:49 PM
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These are all valid points and should be considered by those thinking about moving to EE. I want to add my 2 cents to every point though: -- Getting beaten up has never been a problem for me in the capital of Moldova, it's generally very safe. -- Sluts are there, it's just not nearly as simple as in the U.S., you gotta know the places and the type. Girls on Tinder think that Tinder is for dating, it rarely occurs to them to hook up with a dude on the first date. Generally you'll need to get them…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 08:39 PM
5

We should have like, a redpill offline haha. I have only ever met one other redpill-reading guy in Moldova, and another one I introduced to trp myself. Plenty of guys who are naturally rp though.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 08:02 PM
5

I can hook you up with a dude I know who works in IT and you can ask him about the perspectives here; he's also lived in the U.S. for a few years so communication should be easy.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:38 PM
1

I get a shitton of matches from Romania, too! No idea why, maybe we should exchange places of living.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:37 PM
2

Same here, I don't understand trp's fascination with LTRs even. Men need diversity above all. A decent amount of Moldavian women would be ok with their husbands cheating as long as he provides for them and is there for the children, btw. They accept it as a fact of life, as an inevitability. Certainly not the majority, though. Having the same woman around is very reasonable if you're raising a kid.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:18 PM
6

The job part is difficult. Most people make very little money here, I'm talking 300$/month. In order to live a decent life, you need, as expressed by a californian in the other comments, anywhere from 700$ to 1200$, and it's really enough here. Your options are working for the U.S. embassy, working for a foreign company, working as an English teacher for an english language school, working freelance. Not much beyond that. Unless you're in IT, aka you're a programmer, there is nothing I know of t…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:54 PM
7

I've been to the U.S. btw, for 4 months at a community college. I detested the culture, the sensitivity people had. I could certainly feel a big difference. I'd get called to the international office and be told off, I still hate the phrase "this is not ok". Came back angry like a child because that's how I was treated. Never met anyone with a TRP attitude that wasn't a douchebag, but met cool people in general. Don't wanna make it sound like it was all bad. Naturally, living conditions were muc…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:49 PM
12

Just girls that want to make money and leave this country. You have no idea how many gorgeous girls we have, a minority of them in porn will seem like a lot. Speaking of which, the standard rate for "erotic massage" (yes, it means sex) is only 25$/hour.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:44 PM
5

Yup, that is certainly true, the country is shit in terms of money. But you only need 1000$ a month to feel relatively rich here. Barely any jobs that pay that, it comes down to you finding a decent source of income. If you're in a freelancer type of job that you can do from anywhere you'll live like a king here. The country is generally considered very beautiful by foreigners. Corruption is everywhere, medical care is shit (though really really really cheap, a visit to the doc is 1.5$), lots of…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:39 PM
7

Internet is 12$ for 100mbps up/down, no limited traffic, no bullshit. For 15$ you'll get the best cable television and a cable phone, wi-fi router, etc. included in the deal. In remote areas you have to check if the good companies have coverage, because fiberlink is expensive and they're far from covering the whole country. (They covered the village I grew up in, which is only 5k people, for some reason) Internet will not be a worry anyway. Everything, everything is cheap, but you might encounte…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:35 PM
23

You will never be able to live off welfare in Moldova, but women do get alimony that is equal to a percentage of the man's salary, so yes. If you got a kid, you gonna pay for it. Divorce is a lot more dangerous in Moldova though, because living on one average salary is no joy here. The rate is still high, 42% I believe. The country is also corrupt and quite indifferent so you could manage to get out of that obligation with enough luck. You could just move back abroad and that'd be it I believe. …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 06:02 PM
6

¯_(ツ)_/¯ you gotta pick your circles, this is not a progressive country. Most people are dumb, like anywhere, but they are also bigots. Russia is very redpill and the divorce rate is 51%, so I don't think it correlates directly with how redpill a society is. Moldova's is 42%, according to wikipedia. You'd probably need laws that hinder people's ability to divorce in order to level it down.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 05:59 PM
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Haha probably not, unless you're a person that specifically enjoys isolation. It's a village, so it's probably a few k people and barely any stores (which only sell food and some basics); you'll need to drive to the nearest town if you want to buy anything and there won't be a lot to look at. Of course no one that speaks English except for the English teacher from the local school. You can check the houses in the Chisinau suburb (the capital), they'll be more expensive than that but still cheap …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 05:51 PM
5

Never said their nature was any different, just that in a society where everyone is aware of it, everything works out a lot better. And women actually cultivate traits that attract men, because they've been taught correctly which ones those are.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 05:41 PM
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Yeah I don't recommend moving abroad with a Moldavian woman, but rather coming to a country like this yourself. Not all women convert when they move to a western country, as many of them derive pride from being different from the western, agressive, bitchy, feminist women. And also from being with a real man. And I mean pride, so they could stay largely the same. Can't name any numbers for sure though, so I wouldn't bet much on this. Not much personal experience in this, just talk from other peo…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 05:11 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by that. Marriage is still legally dangerous as the wealth will be divided in half and you can be sure as hell the women will try to extort as much money as they can. At the same time, marriage is very, very much expected.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 05:06 PM
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Yeah around 700-1000$/month is enough to feel like middle-class here in Moldova. And the women I met from Tiraspol were even more feminine and submissive than the ones I meet in Chisinau, so the value is there. But obviously Tiraspol is not the greatest place to be at. Didn't know we had any Americans at all who of all places liked Tiraspol!
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 05:05 PM
3

She looks pretty good but she's fat...you're probably from the U.S. though so not much of a choice in that department.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 06:03 AM
0

In my experience ugly girls still expect attention and convincing from you, which I'm never motivated to expend on an ugly girl so I never fuck them. I certainly won't go out with them in public. Plus, even if they come straight home, only fuck them if they have a nice body, and I'm talking nice. Never touch a fatty. 7 is not ugly, just average, but it depends on what you call a 7. Average is quite alright, just make sure you don't spend more energy on her than she deserves. It should be a smoot…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 05:58 AM
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Mora relativism is merely logical, lol. Morals are arbitrary (though obviously with the function of regulating behavior), don't tell me that the men on theredpill are any more moral than women. Men are just more consistent. That doesn't mean that their morals are absolute, they just decide to stick to it once they adopt a principle.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 05:46 AM
2

Some relationships are for self esteem. If you don't seem like a distant prize, they will break. This is a a bit of downside to using theredpill tactics, I think; you get distracted from getting together with good matches and you focus only on high value. High value will keep the attraction up but it can poof away in a moment just like in OP's case. It happened to me too and it isn't much fun to be on the losing side. By good matches I mean people that you can legitimately have a good time toget…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:00 PM
1

Thanks! Try reading the threads on r\europe and watch the flags, written English is good across the board (with exceptions in the minority anyhow) no matter where the posters are from. I'm also an interpreter-to-be so that helps.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 03:00 PM
1

I'm from Moldova, every girl (around the age of 20) I've told that a man should be the man in a relationship has agreed with me. Still all good here! And everyone is so skinny and well-dressed... The girls my age are pretty perfect because they want to be independent (when needed) but they still want to follow a man. Older women are very exploitative, being the man in the relationship means making the money; they do understand that they have feminine duties too though, like maintaining a clean h…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 05:37 AM
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I'm in Eastern Europe and I hope this plague never reaches us. The stories I hear from the U.S. or Sweden (which is even more sjw retarded) make me lose my words in disbelief and I have to re-confirm multiple times that this actually happened with a real person in the real world. (E.g. someone "identifying" as a raccoon)
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 03:41 PM
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