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Do you know what their reasoning is for thinking nightlife is dead? A lot of the bars and venues are packed.
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:43 AM
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Great insight... I see a lot of people on reddit complain about not getting matches, but I would bet most of them have pretty bad photos, or at least not really good photos, which seems to be what is required. Most people don't even do the basics. Thank you
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:34 AM
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Check out normcore. Pretty simple and not flamboyant. Or just pick out clothes you like and that fit well. Don't have to worry about fitting a "style".
/r/seduction03/04/18 10:00 PM
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I don't know, don't think so much into it. Probably depends on the individual girl
/r/seduction28/03/18 05:13 PM
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Indicator of interest. It’s when a girl does something that shows interest. Like plays with her hair, or is shy/awkward around you
/r/seduction28/03/18 02:20 PM
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That sounds super annoying imo
/r/seduction27/03/18 11:15 PM
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Meet up in person. Preferably alcohol involved. Escalate. Leave, go to one of your homes and smash.
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:24 PM
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I've more than shown my interest in her Are you sure you have, and that she's picked up on it? Also, has she shown IOI's?
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:20 PM
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So I figured she wasn't interested anymore and I went silent for a few weeks. She responded well, but no kiss whatsoever. I dropped her off, hugged, and went about my business. She seemed quite interested at first, but didn't give me an exact answer in the end, which I understand it means "no", after all. So I didn't bother any further. Dude, you're shutting yourself down way too easily. You're making all these negative assumptions. I used to do this - that is, just not bothering (I learned this…
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:10 PM
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Huh?? Not true at all.
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:07 PM
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One thing you should really consider if you aren't currently doing it is one-on-one therapy. Sounds like you've had a rough road, and maybe you have some things to work out. This is what inner game is all about - and the socialization and dating will come naturally.
/r/seduction27/03/18 08:06 PM
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still pull 5/10 That's not an accomplishment. Also, what's the point? Regarding Paul Janka, he would just stand around a subway station exit or some other random spot with high foot traffic and pretend to ask for directions or something similar and then text the girl later. Not sure how great of an example he is. Also get bad vibes from him, but maybe that's just me.
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:36 PM
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They don't have to exist exclusive of one another. Yes, being well-rounded is the key, but these types of tips can serve as a supplement to this well-roundedness.
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:16 PM
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That's a good one
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:04 PM
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Great advertisement
/r/seduction27/03/18 07:02 PM
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I am so FUCKING JEALOUS of all these close people around me who are so happy with their SO's while I have fucking NOTHING. FML I am feeling so fucking lonely and miserable I FUCKING HATE THIS SHIT SO FUCKING MUCH FFFFFUUUUCCKKKKKK Therein lies the problem, my friend. You ought to be happy without.
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:58 PM
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Haha that was vague af. I feel it though.
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:51 PM
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Doesn't matter the venue. Just open your mouth and talk to girls wherever you are. I’m not trying to spend the little money I have trying to get some girl I don’t know to like me. Good, never do this.
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:48 PM
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I've grabbed her tits within 1 minute of eye contact. Do tell
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:38 PM
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Now that I'm back in the scene, everything is about inner game and working on goals and shit. I'm not saying it's bad advice but I liked routines because after doing those the rest of the stuff kind of developed naturally Agreed. I'm not a fan of those Neil Strauss/Mystery/Ross Jeffries type routines (although I think The Game is a great book), as I don't think anyone is anymore. That said, I think simple techniques are an excellent supplement to "inner game". Just because someone has all their …
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:25 PM
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I guess it depends what you mean by "techniques". I don't mean wear fuzzy hats and do weird routines, but simple things to help people communicate/start conversations/establish kino, etc.
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:24 PM
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Well if you're already flirting with her via text, and it's sexual between you two, that's a sign she's interested. Obviously. Also do you mean her nipple was actually showing bare (lol), or just it was visible under her shirt? Because that's a big difference. Either way, go for it dude. Maybe instead of "what day are u usually free" (don't give her so much leverage in the sense that you're making it revolve around her) say "hey I'm in your area, let's hang out" or "I'm gonna be in your area x d…
/r/seduction22/03/18 06:42 PM
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How does the whole dick pic thing work with you? Can’t believe I’m asking. Like, you get her number, text her, push the convo in a sexual direction and escalate, and send it?
/r/seduction22/03/18 01:22 PM
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Did she send that snap to just you?
/r/seduction22/03/18 01:20 PM
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I over heard him telling the same friend that Im desperate to settle down because I suggested we buy a house together. But I didn't say any of that. That's kind of weird. Unless he was saying it in a joking way? In which case it's still kind of weird, but less so. Also, if he's saying other girls are sexy etc. around you, tell him you don't like it! C'mon now, communicate
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 04:59 PM
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Jordan Peterson is amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 04:54 PM
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Tell him, "baby, when are you getting those muscles back" (or something like that) in a flirtatious way. Also, when he talks weird, tell him it sounds weird. Say it in a nice, perhaps even facetious/teasing way. Maybe, "baby, don't talk like that", then give him a kiss on the cheek in a cute way and continue what you were doing. Just act like it's not a big deal. But I want him to be the leader of our future. I want him to come up with ideas for what we will do in our lives Then tell him, when y…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 04:48 PM
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Try initiating contact and see if the guy picks up on it. Also, maybe you could try having a more "open" presence, if that's something that might apply to you? This would more likely invite male attention.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 04:32 PM
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Most of it are overblown generalizations, nuance is lacking and I'm thinking some bitterness and/or drugs must've contributed to that long ass post Agreed. I'd say mostly bitterness Which is why we lead, why we flirt and why we don't talk about logical shit, etc - so the woman doesn't have to think and can just be in the moment and have fun w us I like this
/r/seduction18/04/17 09:39 PM
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Chinese women are more submissive, and will go out of their way to please a man. Have you dated Chinese women?
/r/seduction14/04/17 09:38 PM
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Just read The Game by Neil Strauss. Don't think too much...it's in your biology, everything you need to get laid (reproduce). Try taking a break from porn. Probably will help a lot. Don't masturbate too much The first time I got laid wasn't till I kind of "surrendered", gave up in a sense. Stopped trying/obsessing over getting laid. How's that for philosophical. Also ties into the biology aspect. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction14/04/17 08:44 PM
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I wouldn't mind making a new friend That's lowkey shady, hah.
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:51 PM
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I'll never see her again, most likely. But our two mutual friends are a couple, and two people who I am fairly close to. Which means, if I just ignored her, it might reflect poorly on me if they found out, which they probably would. Maybe I'm just overthinking it.
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:11 PM
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Thanks for the answer. But why did you answer it and then delete it if it doesn't belong here?
/r/seduction03/02/17 05:57 PM
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I'm saying girls were attracted to you and you didn't know it. What I'm saying is you gotta be aware of thee opportunities and then put the effort in
/r/seduction26/11/16 04:48 AM
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I've not attracted any. In fact I think it's because I don't try. Look. You did attract plenty of women. You just didn't know it. So you didn't reciprocate (you didn't try), and therefore nothing happened. Leading you to believe you didn't attract any women. Do you get what I'm saying? Do you see the error in your thinking?
/r/seduction26/11/16 01:55 AM
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Tinder is also good because it can help you learn how to talk to women if you have less experience
/r/seduction26/11/16 01:09 AM
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The whole point is be more social, make new contacts etc. not to meet women but because you want to be more social, make new contacts. The whole paradox to this thing is that it's when you stop looking and actually living your life in the present that women flock to you. I speak from experience. I was super depressed and my life was fucked up and I was too distracted to think about women and that's when a lot of women in my social circle wanted to fuck me and women would flirt more, compliment m…
/r/seduction26/11/16 01:06 AM
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Stop looking. This is the secret. Like this is a philosophy in every major religion/spirituality etc. where you stop looking and have a strong inner self and everything falls into place naturally. This is also kind of the thesis of game (such as in The Game by Neil Strauss).Once you got a fulfilled inner self, and are living right, life happens how it is supposed to. Pickup is supposed to be a normal thing imo. Not to get all mystical on y'all asses
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:58 AM
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Dog you're 22 and she's just a dumb 18 year old. Don't think so much
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:54 AM
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Just like talk to her like you would anyone. Which is what she'd probably like if she's sexy af and used to dudes trying hard to hit on her constantly. Don't act like she's so great. Also work on not being a "super beta" so that these types of situations just kind of fall into place without you thinking so hard
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:51 AM
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This is all true. My 30 year old, alcoholic, possibly [probably] sociopath, compulsive liar roommate does most of these to me.
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:50 AM
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"My roommate"
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:48 AM
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