illbefinehonest Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Developing depression due to being sexless What in the fuck is this What's wrong with it? It's pathetic if you use them as a replacement for the real thing. If you're just replacing having a wank then sure, fine, but replacing actual human intimacy with a hooker is the definition of giving up.	/r/seduction	03/10/22 08:45 AM
0	Developing depression due to being sexless This is 100% nonsense. Depression is most often caused by your life situation. Doctors even call it Shit Life Syndrome amongst themselves.	/r/seduction	03/10/22 08:43 AM
4	How to get out of your head? Have something prepared? Like a cake? You're very vague, do you mean a canned line you can use? Have a date prepared always? You say involve them in the something but not what the something is. Do you invite girls on a first date with your friends??	/r/seduction	03/10/22 08:03 AM
1	How to get out of your head? Why do I keep seeing ashwaganda everywhere recently? I'm pretty sure it does fuck all, took it for months and nothing happened. For anyone else - If you're going to go the supplement route make sure to research your source. Lots of them sell contaminated shit, like heavy metals etc, buy from someone that tests their product and will provide the report. Anything that is an oil form only buy the cold pressed product, other extraction methods oxidise the oil making it BAD for you.	/r/seduction	03/10/22 07:57 AM
8	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value A graze is a scrape or light cut. I.e. nursing him back to health, but he's not too badly messed up because he's a big strong man type thing. These fantasies are incredibly common. That is absolutely not what I am saying lol wtf... I give up.	/r/seduction	23/09/22 01:15 AM
11	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value Where did cooking come from??? What? Idk security from those that would wish us harm? Like the west's enemies? Who gets sent off to die in war? Men fought for most of the freedoms we take for granted today. The fact you are posting online in English and not German or Japanese or whatever is because men died for it. The fact you can post almost any viewpoint you like is because men died for it. Or security from the human condition? Life in general? Electricity, the house you live in, the roads yo…	/r/seduction	23/09/22 12:56 AM
4	Shower thought: Girls aren’t complicated. They just want to be desired + feel special by a man they perceive as high value I mean, yes, but men create security. They're not the same want. Men fantasise about being the hero and saving the day, women fantasise about tending to his grazes after he's saved her day.	/r/seduction	22/09/22 11:50 PM
5	How do I gain genuine interest for other people, or at least pretend to care? No need to be hostile, op never said he expects anything. You're a bit of a prick yourself with the way you've worded this reply, which contains zero useful information, only the insinuation that op must not be a 'normal human being'. I don't think you're in any position to give advice on social skills. "How do I gain an interest?" "Stop being a prick" fucking profound shit there.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 11:30 PM
1	What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t? Your last post is not clear then because that's what it sounds like you're saying.	/r/seduction	06/09/22 03:53 AM
3	What’s the point in working on yourself if you have women dating guys that don’t? Hot women aren't automatically interesting because they're hot...?	/r/seduction	06/09/22 03:25 AM
1	How do some of you always know what to say? This guy clearly has no idea, what he's suggesting can only lead to the most boring interview style conversations. I gave up that style a long time ago because people hate it and I hate it. Haven't figured it out yet though.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:04 AM
1	How do some of you always know what to say? Any suggestions?	/r/seduction	04/09/22 04:02 AM
2	How to “flip the script” with women Earth to Captain Oblivious: the OP has clarified there is no 6 month rule He just says it as a way to manipulate them He has no actual boundary he would sleep with them on the first date if they initiated This is garbage advice and y'all should feel bad	/r/seduction	06/06/21 08:16 AM
1	How to determine your individual perfect grooming and clothing style? What you're describing are things that someone that enjoys clothes as a hobby feels, not what someone that views them as a necessity would feel. It's like saying if you learn how and fix your car it's gonna make you feel amazing. Sure you might get satisfaction out of knowing you did the job, but for most people it's a shit job that leaves you with bloody knuckles not enjoyment. Obviously "most" people get some enjoyment out of clothes but for those of us that don't it's a bit shit. Luckily it d…	/r/seduction	06/10/20 12:56 PM
1	First day of approaching girls - Failed Oh god shut up Let me guess you're also the kind of moron that makes fun of a fat person working out?	/r/seduction	26/07/20 10:53 AM
3	6'9 tall and insecure Back problems. Doorway problems. A lot of cars are completely off limits (the worst one for me :() a lot of things in fact once you get to 6'5/6'6ish. It's impossible to be inconspicuous. "You're tall". Finding shoes in Europe is impossible. Some sex positions don't work because girls that I would consider tall are rare. People hate you for sitting in front of them or being near the front at shows. So there are benefits, that are vastly overstated, but honestly there's ideal tall and then there'…	/r/askTRP	14/01/20 07:47 PM
1	How can you show non-verbal attraction/interest in somebody if you're not a "smiley" type of person? Google "Putin smiling" then report back on what you see. Such horseshit.	/r/seduction	13/01/20 12:03 PM
2	I'm too afraid to show interest This is literally a meme. Let's have sex. No? I was only kidding! Unless...	/r/seduction	12/01/20 10:02 PM
8	I’ve been out of the texting game for a while. What’s your opinion on leaving kisses, emojis, acronyms like “lol” and “lmao”? Tornado shoe shoe Oh you devil you	/r/seduction	28/11/19 05:53 PM
1	One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashian Did you read/watch that? "One clip included audio of a woman apparently recorded during sex." Presumably not recorded in a public place 🙄 In the video you see a shot of an almost upskirt of some girl he took home. Not cool either, people can tell who that is based on the earlier video. One of the girls says he grabbed her head, he followed two underage girls into an alley, bla bla. Sorry, I mean, he was sentenced for respectfully approaching women /s	/r/seduction	13/11/19 09:44 PM
2	One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashian Prove it. There is no right to privacy in a public space in the UK, so I call bullshit. I can film you, take photos of you, or record audio in a public place as long as I'm not harassing you.	/r/seduction	13/11/19 08:57 PM
1	The tinder date cheat code gah he got me I'm not even 30 yet, I'm not old :(	/r/seduction	01/11/19 02:50 PM
1	The tinder date cheat code Sorry to hear that man, do you live in a country with a struggling economy or is it because you spent everything on Levi's? Invest your money, spend it on hobbies (it's fine if one of those is clothes), live life. Do what makes you happy and people will come to you.	/r/seduction	01/11/19 11:06 AM
1	The tinder date cheat code Nobody cares what you're wearing if it isn't full of holes and you smell nice. It is probably making you feel more confident which makes you more noticeable. None of my clothes are expensive, honestly the newest thing I own is probably 2 years old. Fancy expensive clothes are a waste of money as anything other than a hobby for yourself, if you don't enjoy it, spend your money on shit you do enjoy.	/r/seduction	01/11/19 10:08 AM
1	The tinder date cheat code Show us where the shoe touched you I'm just as confused by sneakerheads as the next guy but come on now, shoes? Most people do not give AF. Most people I know buy lots of cheap shoes, not flashy expensive ones. Cheap clothes because fast fashion. Don't believe malefashionadvice is what normal people do - they say it themselves, their hobby is fashion.	/r/seduction	28/10/19 08:36 PM
3	What advice would you give a virgin? I know the person you replied to already cleared things up but I just wanted to add I'm a man and feel the same way as you. Sex is never meaningless for me, it's why I don't do hookups, I have slept with people I've just met and can't shake the gross feeling afterwards. To be honest at times I feel like an alien, things have ended because I didn't want to fuck so early, because men are supposed to be horndogs. Of course your experience as a woman will be different, so I can't say we're exactly t…	/r/seduction	28/10/19 07:55 PM
1	What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora? Sorry to drag up this conversation but I was wondering where the value in talking about what so and so Kardashian did now, or who fucked who, or what the vapid idiots on big brother/love island/insert other reality crap did this week? Oh my god did you see how many likes so and so's post got? Am I really autistic for thinking all of that is actually harmful to society? In my experience the people that love this stuff the most are the ones contributing least to society - forever working in a coff…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/19 07:54 AM
1	Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads? Keep deluding yourself. I wonder who knows more about men's situation - is it the men? No it must be the women! Let me shut up and you can tell me how it is. Also no that is not what branch swinging is. Branch swinging is looking for, flirting with, and lining up the replacement boyfriend before the current guy knows there's a problem. Instead of dealing with the relationship problems these girls will swing from dick to dick, and they don't even realize what they're doing is wrong. These girls a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/19 06:16 AM
1	Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads? Just because that's not you doesn't mean it's not the experience of a large number of men. Those men don't want to then go on to marry a woman that's monkey branched her way through her 20s - following the grass is greener mindset is something that people don't really grow out of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/19 10:11 PM