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| 3 | What’s y’all’s perspective on the Black ManosphereI actually have had difficulty dating black men, the online convos almost never lead to an actual date. I’m white and a black female friend of mine told me that when black men are looking at dating a white girl, they want/expect her to be more submissive vs women of their own race. So when my strength would show through in the initial conversations, they’d be turned off (according to her). I’m that rare girl who messages first, I’m thin and good with hair/makeup - and I still struggled with that… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/20 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Promiscuity and pair bondingYou’ve gotten lots of great advice here and I don’t want to repeat it. I just want to say - as a woman who has had about 50 sexual partners - I spent 3 years dating with the intent of pursuing a relationship, but the vast majority of the men I slept with played me/ghosted me. While I never felt extremely “bonded” to them, it did hurt to feel used. I also want to point out that I’ve never cheated on a partner and never would, so a higher N-count does not necessarily imply cheating. Another reason… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | To properly detox, you must also quit watching pornI’m with you, sucks it got removed. There’s r/incelexit if you wanna try to post again. Sorry man, it was a phenomenal post. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 3 | To properly detox, you must also quit watching pornExcellent post, great analysis. Dopamine exists to reward us for certain behaviors. When we trick our brain by bypassing the effort to get that dopamine high, whether through drugs, gaming, or porn, we’re training our brains to settle for those artificially-induced highs rather than using the prospective reward as motivation to do the things we’re supposed to do to better ourselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Woman who is sinking to red pill philosophy. Help.I’m glad you got something from it! You seem really insightful and sensitive so I figured you had a few female friends who had befriended you after noticing that about you. It can be hard to make new friendships after a certain age, but I can say the taking-a-genuine-interest in women approach has worked really well for me to build friendships from scratch with them (though admittedly I’m not trying to fuck them). | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/19 02:24 AM |
| 6 | Woman who is sinking to red pill philosophy. Help.Cognitive-behavioral therapy. What you focus on, how you choose to perceive things by how you choose your thoughts, will create your reality. You are at least self-aware that you’ve internalized the social programming of the Madonna-Whore Complex. So when you catch yourself having a thought consistent with that, stop yourself and try to replace it with a thought in the vein of ‘women are all different, with many layers, just like men.’ You might be friends with women, but try taking a genuine in… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/19 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Stories like these is why I’m still afraid of marriage, what are your thoughts? How can you convince me it is still worth it?1) you don’t need to get married. That’s just a legally-sanctioned relationship. Nothing wrong with wanting LTRs that are not state-sanctioned. I’m not going to convince you marriage is worth it because I don’t believe in it. 2) LTRs are always a gamble, whether that’s a marriage or not. Many things can go wrong that are out of the control of you and your partner. 3) friendly reminder that men do this to women too. Toxic people vs good people is a much more useful binary lens for framing relatio… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/08/19 06:20 PM |
| 30 | What is the consensus on /r/foreveralone?For what it’s worth, women have the same experience. If they get more physically attractive, there is a sharp increase in the attention and interest they get. This is not a gendered issue. Additionally, taking care of your appearance by working out and putting effort into hair, fashion, etc. is an attractive quality because it shows that you are willing and able to put in effort to improve your appeal to others. We all prefer to partner up with someone who is visually appealing, no? Working to i… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/19 06:16 PM |
| 3 | How do I even begin to find a gf when I have autism?I understand you on the masking completely, it sucks. But the way I do it is try to imitate how I am after 2-3 drinks. That might be something you could try - like start with the drinks in social situations, get familiar with that headspace, then eventually you become able to go into that headspace while sober. Does that make sense? Anxiety is off-putting to others (signals a tense situation to them) and social anxiety is definitely a thing among our type. Our brains have lower GABA activity tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/19 02:49 AM |
| 9 | How do I even begin to find a gf when I have autism?I too am on the autism spectrum and had the same struggles you are experiencing. The best suggestions I can give are practice and masking. The first impression you’re giving isn’t properly conveying what you are like when you get comfortable and people get to know you. Imagine a warm, sociable version of yourself and try to “act” like that person. After some practice, it just becomes natural. Brushing up on social skills is huge too. I have a list of “tips” I review before social events so I kee… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/19 04:36 PM |
| 31 | Catch 22. Chicken or the egg type of situation with virgin men.Here’s the thing, if you’re pursuing a hookup, people (of any gender) usually aren’t going to be too patient. But if you are working on establishing a relationship with someone, they’re much more likely to exercise patience and work with you on a variety of things. Like if you don’t have experience in a field, no one’s going to hire you as a contractor. But if you get hired by a company that wants to keep you around long-term, they’re going to put in the effort to train and guide you. Try dating… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Am I a new type of "pill"?Unattractive women in their early 20s have the lowest sex drives in my experience. If that describes them that might be why. Women have to feel sexy and comfortable with their sexuality to want sex. Try dating women 35+ or hanging out with non-basic women lmao. Hell r/sex has a ton of female posters who are sex-obsessed. They’re out there. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Am I a new type of "pill"?I’ve met plenty of women who truly crave and enjoy sex more than I do, and I consider myself very sexual. Try developing long-term friendships with women - women you’re not attracted to, women who are in relationships, etc. - and you’ll eventually see they can be just as horny as men. Or try dating older women who are more comfortable with expressing their desires. Most early 20-something women are not terribly comfortable with their sexuality, even if they claim they are or act like it. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 02:05 AM |
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