ilo8oli Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Keep hanging with her or nah		ilo8oli	/r/askTRP	01/04/20 03:19 AM

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5	Cold approach as the economy re-opens College was so easy miss that life, 25 year old girls are beat and bitchy compared	/r/askTRP	11/05/20 04:31 PM
0	Running out of shit to talk about with girlfriend Your gonna die and your life will have been for nothing if you arent careful. fuck your girlfriend	/r/askTRP	06/05/20 02:24 AM
4	Guys who were severely depressed and suicidal, how did you overcome that? I was sad for years, smoking and drinking, really weak shit. Lost 30 lbs. Finally I decided to be sad while working out 4x a week, not doing drugs or drinking, no jacking off every day, eating right and taking supplements. I am no longer sad and my life has improved in almost every way. This took years, but doesn't have to. Don't expect pleasure and you won't be let down by the lack of it. Eventually, funny enough, I found pleasure in the routine.	/r/askTRP	05/05/20 01:09 AM
3	Do women tend to sap the male "fire" and passion? Noticing a diminished "drive" I wouldn't say our natural state of aggression is due to lacking anything, as we don't naturally have sex daily or even weekly. I would say that sex and women make us more passive, more comfortable. That on a regular basis is like smoking or drinking on a regular basis, it makes you weak and craving dopamine. I think looking at it that way is more revealing and explains the OP's dilemma.	/r/askTRP	05/05/20 01:05 AM
1	How to think quicker on your feet for shit tests? Can you really learn charisma/game? Yes, through imitation/internalizing it, it becomes natural	/r/askTRP	24/04/20 03:44 PM
2	Banged my sisters GF... should I care? Read it, one of the first chapters.	/r/askTRP	18/04/20 04:04 PM
4	How do you deal with "impostor syndrome" with a now heightened SMV? Finding flaws in others, not to see ourselves as better, but to see that they are imperfect like us.	/r/askTRP	17/04/20 10:13 PM
27	Banged my sisters GF... should I care? Imagine typing this comment non sarcastically	/r/askTRP	17/04/20 09:34 PM
105	Banged my sisters GF... should I care? The manipulated man 101	/r/askTRP	17/04/20 09:33 PM
4	Anybody else becoming apathetic during quarantine? Have some god damn self-respect and discipline. If you cannot stop smoking weed and masturbating then you have the backbone of a 12 year old	/r/askTRP	17/04/20 05:06 PM
3	How to keep frame when you seem to lose control? My tip is internalizing that a happy, secure person would never antagonize you in such a way. The men I have the most respect for, who get girls, who accomplish their goals, do not do this. Only men who are feeling pain/hurt themselves do this, whether they realize it or not. Pity them, and I mean really pity them, cause they are sad and hurting. Try and love them for they are just trying their best to feel better like everyone else, just in a bad way. If you love them, you will be happy and you…	/r/askTRP	16/04/20 05:20 AM
5	How much gassing people up is too much? For example, if someone becomes the life of the party and steals limelight from you with your date, or someone is bragging non-stop, would gassing them up more be a good way to demonstrate non-reactivity, positive vibes, and increase their need towards you? The line varies person to person. If someone is more experienced, they see thru that very quickly, even if it is "authentic". The key is to know your audience, understand when it is appropriate, when it comes off insincere, etc. This comes from experience, there are no hard and fast rules. The people who do this, however, are most likely naturals who do it subconsciously. You trying to learn it is going to be offputting for many who pick up on it, no one likes a bullshitter	/r/askTRP	16/04/20 12:05 AM
4	Replacement for video games I watch YT videos on topics I enjoy. For example, watching YT videos on how to build racing engines. Or YT videos on how to build other things. I like building. So I am productive, engaged, relaxed, while using my time towards something productive that will make my life better/easier. You can also engage in something creative, like the other comment mentions, or maybe playing an instrument, drawing, etc.	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 11:56 PM
3	Played it alpha, shes investing, now what? Its ridiculous cause we are men. But women instinctually crave: the best seed for the healthiest children A man who can protect and provide for them. A beta cannot protect them, even if the alpha is taken. They'd rather share the alpha, and have the best genes and protection, then have the loser all to themself. The red pill is crucial, congrats bro	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 10:53 PM
1	How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic. For me, I don't start a new job for another week or so, so I can relate. I workout for 2 hours a day every other day, skateboard for 2 hours a day, trade stocks for 8 hours a day, etc. In general i'm also learning to cook, car suspension geometry cause I want to race cars, I look up mountain biking spots near me, etc. I know nothing about you, but there is always something to do that is enjoyable and productive when you are dealing with so much free time. Can you play games too? I guess so, no o…	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 03:17 AM
1	How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic. Yes, it is pathetic and you know it. Will that change your actions is the real question, are you satisfied with being mediocre is the question,	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 02:33 AM
3	Played it alpha, shes investing, now what? those who see the preselection/abundance, internalize you have other options and are more attracted to you. Remember, girls tend to be followers - she sees other girls attracted to you, they've already vetted you so she wants you. What I mean is those that can see the pre-selection/abundance or get the impression organically. Some won't believe you, some will give you a ton of shit tests still, some will still dislike you cause your hairstyle or something random you said. Cannot please everyone,…	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 12:41 AM
0	How old are most guys in this sub? Fair, I just wanna stress this cause I'm very thankful I found it.	/r/askTRP	15/04/20 12:33 AM
3	Played it alpha, shes investing, now what? You give them all little attention, then those who respond well will make the rest very, very easy for you. You will have a hard time not fucking if you build abundance right. Thats why its stressed	/r/askTRP	14/04/20 10:24 PM
3	How old are most guys in this sub? You misunderstand what mewing really is about and why its important. Mewing is just the natural tongue position for humans. A lot do it naturally, but mouth breathers and others do not. It is not done just for looksmaxxing, its done to prevent crowded teeth, narrow pallets, and facial asymmetry. Not mewing can lead to serious issues long term. sleep apnea is one example. Hating mewing for such reasons is as silly as hating redpill cause some use it to just get girls. Sure, that is why some peopl…	/r/askTRP	14/04/20 10:19 PM
1	Johnny Depp and Amber Heard situation start mewing, if you don't know what it is, look it up.	/r/askTRP	14/04/20 12:27 AM
1	Should I start calling her or just keep texting? ... your hnw, young, and wont consider moving? Every broad around you fat and poor or something? And my point id why are you LDRing in the first place? LDR's are ideal for women cause they get the commitment without the sex... whats in it for you?	/r/askTRP	05/04/20 05:45 AM
3	I'm 29 and I haven't had sex in two years. Think about when your really happy, to the point its infectious - people can pick up on that and are attracted to those people. Those are the vibes you ideally want to manifest when you are approaching like this. Then you can say anything and they will be thankful and reciprocrate. If you are awkward and have bad vibes, they won't appreciate it.	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 03:04 AM
6	I'm 29 and I haven't had sex in two years. Unless there's a legitimate reason There is - its called connecting with other human beings. Thats always a legit reason to talk to someone. If they don't like that, thats their own issue. My opener is almost always "hey" - at a bar, sidewalk, bookstore. If they are cold, so what, thats the easiest rejection you'll ever get. If not, your talking to someone. "Hows it going" is next, you know, a conversation. 90% of life is just showing up, in this case, saying anything at all.	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 01:28 AM
2	The danger on the next room. Hes saying AWALT and if she respects you she wouldn't report your ass, but if she doesn't she would.	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 01:04 AM
35	What the fuck is wrong with beta fucks? Apparently a woman revealed she had a BF and lost most her followers If they play pretend, they are consciously being delusional and are being a cuck, fantacising about a girl whos getting pounded by someone else. If they just find another girl who never mentions a partner, they can give her "the benefit of the doubt" and assume shes single. Is it gay as fuck? You bet. But I think that is the thought process.	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 12:28 AM
2	FWB mad because i stopped texting often, what should i do? So i just answer one word answer. Obv my 0.02, but I wouldn't do this, cause your backpeddling from: Cya in 2 months then, or hit me up if you wanna come by :)" I would ghost unless she said she was coming over, cause you said that. Which I think was the right thing to say, btw.	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 12:24 AM
68	What the fuck is wrong with beta fucks? Apparently a woman revealed she had a BF and lost most her followers They put her on a pedestal. Once she is no longer their "dream" girl, cause she has a boyfriend, their mental fantasy is broken and I doubt she has much else going for her to keep them around.	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 12:19 AM
2	Higher income, SMV and social status and one repeating shit test Very important indeed, and I can relate - I didn't always do it before college, and always wondered why these girls, who initially were very into me, almost resented me by the 3rd time we hung out. The more you do it, the more natural it will feel - in fact, it should feel weird not to do it once you're comfortable Force it if you have to at first. They will reward the behavior 99% of the time so it will become natural quickly.	/r/askTRP	04/04/20 12:12 AM
3	What’s you’re experience with tinder I had weeks where I got no matches, now I get 4 a day min. Some get more, but thats a lot more than I used to get. Heres my tips/feedback in order of importance: Your pics probably are mediocre. First few weeks give you a boost, but if your pics are mediocre, you will stop getting shown. I had good pictures, but not great, and barely got a match a week. I took better ones outside, few a week. Took excellent pics, now I get a ton of matches. Girls use makeup and fake angles all the time, now I'm …	/r/askTRP	03/04/20 11:01 PM
2	Higher income, SMV and social status and one repeating shit test Just don't care whos shes dating, if they're better or worse. Its like cool Brittney, your friends sound soooo cool, you wanna give me head still or nah. If your not escalating, that is more likely the problem and why shes shit testing you. You've seen her multiple times right? As for how to escalate, you do what feels natural for you. Some like to high five or touch their arm, but i'm not a touchy feely guy, I am a dominant one. So my escalation is usually my hand on their back leading them fro…	/r/askTRP	03/04/20 10:47 PM
1	If people catch you being a tryhard, what's a good way to minimize it and make them see you as opening up to them, rather than self-deprecating or bragging about it? Yeah thats all im saying, i could have said it simpler looking back on it	/r/askTRP	02/04/20 03:12 AM
4	If people catch you being a tryhard, what's a good way to minimize it and make them see you as opening up to them, rather than self-deprecating or bragging about it? You don't want to seem better than people sometimes, as they can start to work against you covertly to sabotage you or talking behind your back. It isn't an ego thing, its about not hurting others egos. Losers can sometimes have power to hurt us, so its best to avoid it. To answer OP, as it says in 48 laws, I will use an excuse that "makes me look bad", without actually being something that anyone really cares about. Like if I was in the gym for 2 hours, I would say I ate too many chicken wings …	/r/askTRP	02/04/20 01:19 AM
13	Coronavirus life I think 90% of readers would say to forget girls and focus on your own thing for now. Improve yourself. I'm not really worried about catching the virus, but hooking up with sluts just doesn't sound worth it. Even if you don't catch it, wheres the self-respect?	/r/askTRP	02/04/20 01:13 AM
52	19-year-old boy looking for advice. Feeling lost despite having a plan. Can I just give some general advice that may or may not land: When you do go to college, or even now, please don't start smoking weed daily or even drinking daily. I was just like you - I had such a solid foundation at 18-19 but fell in love with weed and smoked daily for 4 years after that. It helped with feeling lost and lonely, but made me a weak feminine beta, even though I was raised right. I just wanna warn you please avoid doing it daily at all costs - it will burn years of your life and …	/r/askTRP	02/04/20 12:58 AM
2	Keep hanging with her or nah I am weirded out too, especially cause i get the vibe it was a shit test in hindsight. But i am not some crazed person whos gonna test that. I am not gonna meet/talk except to let her know I ain't interested in whatever shes going for	/r/askTRP	02/04/20 12:42 AM
2	Keep hanging with her or nah You know i was thinking that, but it just seemed like an insane shittest. I mean i literally thought he had cancer or something i am not gonna mess with that. I would rather miss some pussy than get another man killed	/r/askTRP	01/04/20 04:34 PM
1	Keep hanging with her or nah Yeah right, I completely agree. I think for attention, as she smoked me out. I dont blame her, were all bored. Good point though regarding not caring that much though. Either way i dont plan on doing it again unless I can escalate	/r/askTRP	01/04/20 05:15 AM
2	Keep hanging with her or nah Your right and correct about your last point. Have a good one	/r/askTRP	01/04/20 04:16 AM
1	Keep hanging with her or nah Alright thanks. But to be clear, if I wanna plate her, i should see her as little as possible right? Or if I act right then it doesnt matter?	/r/askTRP	01/04/20 04:03 AM
1	Keep hanging with her or nah Thanks man, your spot on ill figure it out. This virus is fucking with me. I would definitely feel emasculated hanging w her without escalating, though its hard these days not gonna lie.	/r/askTRP	01/04/20 03:52 AM
1	Keep hanging with her or nah We had our own joints. But your first point is true, im really wondering how do I not text her or meet up w her, but still have her as an option in the future? I guess the answer is who cares honestly	/r/askTRP	01/04/20 03:35 AM
3	Keep hanging with her or nah She smoked me out, lol	/r/askTRP	01/04/20 03:22 AM