iloafbread Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky. Na. Maybe you live online only and you’re projecting here. I’d like to know where you live. Very, VERY rarely; IN REAL LIFE, see a girl hotter than her bf. And very VERY rarely will you see a guy with his gf who is hotter than her. RARELY, but it happens. But most couples are equal on the scale of attraction	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 05:51 AM
1	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Okay…🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 08:01 PM
1	Unironically claiming to be an “alpha male” is pathetic I see too many people whining about words. Alpha/beta both being cringe to use. Stop giving these words power over you FFS	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 06:56 PM
1	Do women find alternative men attractive? It’s called growing up mate. Men still stuck in their emo/band shirt/colored hair and face piercings aren’t exactly dressed for employment outside of working at Spencers or Hot Topic. I know a lot of Middle Aged guys who dress “alternative” they just grew into a meeker version of their high school days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 08:33 PM
1	Study: Women like being valued for sex, as long as it is by a committed partner Who is upset? You have no argument, no debate, nothing of substance to add. It is you wasting time right now. I stayed on topic, it’s not up to me to comprehend it for you. Don’t at me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 03:27 PM
1	Study: Women like being valued for sex, as long as it is by a committed partner Blah, blah, blah. Nice contribution, sir. Good day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 06:00 AM
1	Study: Women like being valued for sex, as long as it is by a committed partner Women like being valued for sex and treated like objects. Period. I don’t understand how you interpreted that with what was provided in OP’s post. Excuse me, aside from your own bias. Is it not biological? Women need security (commitment) to be satisfied. If she were to become pregnant she knows she will have to birth a baby and then care for the child for the rest of its life. How could a woman giving and raising another human being NOT value commitment in the opposite gender? Do you think it’s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 05:18 AM
1	The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy? She struggles to keep her husbands attention. Even when she’s naked on top of him. Isn’t this just grass is greener? Fantasy? When a man feels the same in his marriage in comparison and the bedroom is lacking in passion or attention, is he not fantasizing about the fun times he had with what’s her face who isn’t marriage material but is sexually exciting and can meet his needs? What is the debate here? All I see is another shitty, overly sexualized Netflix original filled with drama and fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 01:49 AM
1	Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls? Money is not money. There’s such thing as dirty money. You asked a question and you’re getting sincere answers. Why the defensiveness? I’m a woman and I would never date a man who ever subscribed or had an OF account. If I was a man, I would never consider a girl who had OF as any type of relationship material. You can’t change how people view it. You have your own views towards it, good for you. Those with the opposite opinion can feel the way they want to about it. Going into sex work is ackno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/21 09:41 PM
3	Women have blown the idea of Men only wanting sex way out of proportion Please see this comment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 10:22 PM
-2	Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get Older and do these women truly sexually desire these men? nope. disgusting. They’re in a relationship. These people marry all the time. Who are you to say how they feel or their dynamics of their relationship? sorry bro, but you can’t just magically grow 6 inches of height. Date women who don’t care about your height. Despite many OLD profiles and entitled women you see plastered on Reddit as if it truly reflects the majority of real life, there are women who date men who aren’t 6 ft+. Lots of short w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 08:19 PM
-1	Women's Physical Requirements in Men Go UP as They Get Older Some of y’all need to get off Reddit and OLD and venture into the real world. You’ll notice tons more average looking men dating average looking women. Hardly do I ever see a “Chad” dating an average women or a “Stacy” dating an average “whatever you call a man who is not Chad” Majority of people date within their own league. (Looks wise, since this is what OP is addressing) If you’re bitter because women want to date Chad then stop the victim mentality and become a Chad. Same with women. If you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/21 05:32 PM
11	CMV: Men should stop simping for any woman they any get. Love the honesty here don’t get it misconstrued. MOST men can’t stand being around women and will only tolerate you as a means to sex. You definitely don’t get that kind of honest comment when the OP is addressing how “men are more capable of unconditional love than women.” Or how “MOST men are more emotional and romantic than women.” Or “MOST men are not fuck boys, stop generalizing!” Or “just admit women hate men and only use them!” Yet, you state that MOST men are only tolerating women for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/21 11:55 PM
2	What argument here has changed your mind? Unicorns don’t exist. I get what you’re saying. However, loving and healthy long term relationships do. I’m sorry you don’t have faith in that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/21 12:11 AM
6	What argument here has changed your mind? Any hardcore RP tactics/manipulation because AWALT. Yes, manipulation will work on some women. Just like being a bitch will work on some men. No RP guy will answer how these tactics work for a LT healthy and loving relationship. Even if I know the answer. Change my mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/21 05:52 PM
4	CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonism Both men and women suffer My point That doesn’t mean we can’t talk about the ways that men suffer Of course it doesn’t. That wasn’t what I was insinuating. I was concluding that both suffer in their own ways. I advocate to hear all men talk about their struggles, most need that outlet. However, I was agreeing with OP that it is a theme in this sub for men to post about how “women have it so easy, men are tortured.” If you’re human, you will experience “torture”	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 07:33 PM
8	CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonism Yup. The same men who will laugh their asses off when women try and give men advice about women. But the same man will argue with a woman about how they understand women more than she does herself. It’s the perpetual divide and confusion. More men die in war and on the job. More women die, are raped, and are abused by the hands of men. Edit: to be clear, I wasn’t stating more women die from abuse compared to the numbers of men who die in war/on the job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 04:42 PM
5	Understanding Female Intrasexual Competition This whole comment can be used again and again in the majority of these post here on PPD. Mating is hard wired into us. Just like many other species on this planet. Despite the exceptions, this is the rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 08:58 AM
3	Why don't younger men ever blame their singlehood on older men who are dating younger women? So the study of being in a committed relationship means being an unknowingly side chick? I doubt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 06:20 AM
2	Third times a charm right? More and more I support needing a license to have kids. Thanks to mods for being cool and letting me fix it. I’m actually speechless with this one	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/06/21 05:25 AM
21	Why can’t I attract the right guy? “Emptionally unavailable” = Immune to my own emotional unavailability. So, yes, I guess I just agreed with you lmao.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/06/21 04:29 AM
27	The Daily Reminder of Chad That means you’re spending too much time on such subs that it can radicalize you. It’s entertaining at best and something to keep in mind when out there in the wild. It’s no different than some FDS woman who consume the sub and come to believe that every man is shit. They’re not. But you already know that. Keep your head up and stay vigilant, that’s all.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	05/06/21 04:14 AM
3	What a catch and she’s not pretty and she’s probably a major headache because her life is fucked up, as she puts it. A lonely broad thinking lines like that make her feel like a unicorn in a field of sheep. She’s not special, if she was, she wouldn’t be fishing for someone to save her from the “last resort” of OLD.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	03/06/21 04:55 AM
1	CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal? They’re both “pick me’s” Or am I wrong ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/21 04:50 AM
24	Seriously! Where Have All the Good Men Gone??????? “I’m opinionated and nasty” Man/woman that shit is not attractive. Tf!!?!!	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/05/21 06:56 AM
1	Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still exist I’d argue that it’s both. As we see more women ditch femininity in terms of completely ditching the makeup and shaving of their bodies. More people/celebs are posting their selfies without filters and celebrating their real curves, cellulite and starch marks. I’d argue that’s it’s men who hold those standards towards women in not wanting their woman to dress unfeminine. E.g. wearing summer dresses, makeup, shaving her arm pits and legs and actually putting effort into looking feminine. For the m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 12:02 AM
8	I'm sick and tired of putting myself out there! I'm tired of everyone and their dad coming to me, except for the guy I really want. 😾 Men aren’t that hard. He’s not into her. She’s complaining about his communication when she can’t even communicate to him how she feels. Instead, wasted a whole 6 mins of her life ranting to a public forum. As a woman, that’s embarrassing. Men/women would save a whole lot of time and heartache if they stopped blaming each other and just accepted reality instead of delude themselves with excuses and cowardice.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/05/21 03:35 AM
93	Just short of asking the big question😂🤡 I read her past posts. She indeed was the one thrown away. And, is quite frankly still hugely stuck on him. And she wonders why she’s “negative about the future”	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	27/05/21 06:17 AM
1	Average-looking men who are "lookists" or "black pill" are doomed to fail. I never stated “but men wouldn’t date a 300-400 lb chick” I’m not ignorant to the real world. If you’ve ever watched My 600 lb Life, most of those individuals have partners. What I did respond with was asking OP to be honest. Of course he’s going to prefer the in shape chick over the 300 lb chick, regardless of her “beautiful eyes and gorgeous smile.” You have to put something unreasonable to get the same reaction from men as you get from a woman hot on by a <5’9 Like I stated, I’m not ignorant …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 06:56 PM
1	Average-looking men who are "lookists" or "black pill" are doomed to fail. Let’s be honest, a 300 lb chick with beautiful eyes and a gorgeous smile isn’t going to get you hornt. However, the girl who’s in good shape, beautiful eyes and gorgeous smile is. Her perfect ass and tits will just be the cherry on top.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/21 01:50 AM
3	Love between genders Complacency is and that’s what causes so many relationships to fail. Agreed. When complacency is recognized and neither make it a priority to change it, it often builds a slew of other emotions (e.g. resentment, contempt and under-appreciation). It’s a slow death of the emotional bond. Sometimes the man will become complacent and the woman not. Sometimes the woman will become complacent and the man not. Every relationship will experience bouts of complacency but it’s up to both partners to come …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 09:28 PM
3	Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why? Besides the men whom are 35+ years and have been divorced, this isn’t my experience in the real world. Both men and woman 30+ are looking for something serious. A lot of men I know are looking to settle down after 30.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 11:30 PM
1	How can one argue against the idea that men live vastly harder lives than women at every level of the totem pole? And with this in mind, why should women be allowed to speak on men's issues with any degree of authority? People are complex. People. It’s easier to argue against what we know as female and male considering what we are biologically. Because it is what we know through our own experience. The hardships people face are just that. There’s no white or black thinking. I don’t see the point in trying to argue who has it worse. I don’t understand how people get caught up in the difference between the two genders. It’s only what causes more of a divide. Female and male were created different. Femininity and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 09:35 AM
1	How can one argue against the idea that men live vastly harder lives than women at every level of the totem pole? And with this in mind, why should women be allowed to speak on men's issues with any degree of authority? Elaborate please? Because I don’t understand what you mean by up and down?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 08:40 AM
0	How can one argue against the idea that men live vastly harder lives than women at every level of the totem pole? And with this in mind, why should women be allowed to speak on men's issues with any degree of authority? Is this not the same argument that women make? Why should men be allowed to speak on women’s issues with any degree of authority? It goes both ways.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/21 08:04 AM
1	Ladies build your perfect guy Damn, that’s interesting. Thanks for your insight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 06:48 AM
3	Ladies build your perfect guy I’m a home body who enjoys the outdoors, so it’s not out of the ordinary. Also, yes, I am hurt. Ha. Thanks for asking. He became my ideal physically. So perhaps that will change when I’ve moved on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/21 12:05 AM
1	Ladies build your perfect guy Erased the physical because I realized I just described my ex. Personality: funny, easy going, home body, caring, polite, kind, respectful, family oriented, smart, open minded, understanding, mature/well rounded, faithful, knows what he wants/confident, gamer (or has a hobby they enjoy), God fearing, has traditional values (nothing extreme), conservative (again, nothing far/extreme), doesn’t take life too seriously, not quick to anger, has good work ethic, likes the outdoors, dog person, doesn’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 10:31 PM
17	Women have more freedom than they’ve ever had in history, but they still choose to sell their bodies for income This is true. Take out the losers who purchase OF and those who use prostitutes and destroy the ability for women/men to exploit their bodies for easy money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/21 05:24 PM
2	Women bully each other into hypergamy Somehow I knew this post would be from a man lmao. You’re speaking high school, catty girls. I did not experience this with my friends after the age of 16. So, betting a lot PDD women has similar experiences with friends is really unrealistic. This take is no different than a woman describing how men feel	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 04:52 PM
6	Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously? No, not all women. Exactly like “not all men” There’s your answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 09:05 PM
2	Would you consider it one advantage of traditional cultures and younger marriages is that they get married off young before they become too jaded by the opposite sex? Most men want to jump on the train that women use their early 20’s to get shagged up with Chad then regret it later when they’re ready to settle down. But most 20 year old men are not ready to commit and do play the field at their will. The ones that didn’t wish they had a “chance” with the “thot” who’s too wrapped up on Chads game like they wouldn’t be too if they had the looks/opportunity. It’s a stupid perspective, no different than “what if”. Same goes for women who didn’t have their shot wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/21 04:30 AM
2	Q4Men: What does an LTR mean to you? Damn. You get it. It’s an awful realization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/20 04:23 AM
9	Why do so many men believe that women prefer partners that treat them bad. Because it has worked for them so it confirms the belief that women prefer assholes. For one, this really isn’t the underlining reason. I believe it comes from childhood and the attachment styles we now have with our romantic partners. If you’re a secure person you’re not going to fall for the jerk that TRP is so sure EVERY woman wants. However, there are a lot of people out there with with avoidant, dismissive and anxious styles. The asshole is going to attract a woman with an anxious attachmen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/20 07:36 PM
3	If you blame single mothers for picking poor men to hook up with, you should also blame men who get left or "divorce raped" for also picking poor choices for marriage. Single mothers are stupid women who are too stupid to understand how to utilize a half dozen layers of birth control People seem to forget that women aren’t the only single parents out there. It takes two people. Which makes men also too stupid to hold themselves or their partner accountable for the dozen layers of birth control out there. Single fathers are just as unattractive to a female mate with no children the same as single mothers. Which means, any woman who ends up with e kid intentiona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 01:55 AM
2	Casual Sex for Women is like Prostitution for Men Is the idea that some women like to have sex as men do out of the ordinary? I mean, don’t get me wrong, I’ve never had a one night stand and don’t intend to. Nor do I use sex to have a “man” fall for me or use it as a “tool” to gain commitment. But if a woman wants to have causal sex, does that mean she’s only seeking validation? And if so, what difference does that have when a man is doing the same? The double standards are loud and clear in posts like these. Are men and women that different, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/20 03:26 AM
4	Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control? Your success rate changed from “very little to slightly negative” when you presented yourself as a college drop out and then as successfully employed. So with that outcome in mind, how does it prove “women’s want someone they can fix so they don’t have to fix themselves?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/20 05:30 PM
2	Women are better off without men & most women don’t understand male nature. 100% my experience too. Also, just plain insecurity as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 11:30 PM
12	Women are better off without men & most women don’t understand male nature. Excellent advice. The reverse is also true with the opposite sex as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/20 04:11 PM
2	What are some dealbreakers you’ve acquired with life experience? Most of my deal breakers remain the same - Smoker - Has a past of cheating - Has kids (I’m not r/childfree, I’d rather wait til marriage and have that first experience with my husband) - No ambition or unemployed because of no ambition - Separated or in the middle of divorcing - Anyone who just got out of a relationship less than 6 months ago (6 months is pushing it already) - Has a lot of past relationship baggage - Obese - Drug use New deal breakers, thanks life experience - Excessive alcohol …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/20 03:21 PM
4	Do women actually like men? I can’t help but giggle at post like this because it’s such a projection of the OP. I love men. And I love their masculinity. And I think we women have our roles, just as a man does. Women today are definitely more independent and are cautious of being dependent on men. And now, having some life experience, I realize I cannot be dependent on any man, also (my own bias, I can see how I can contradict myself here ) I was raised on a very “traditional” upbringing. But being 2020, we (men and women)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 05:37 AM
1	To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why? People have preferences. Damn. You prefer a women who’s more curvy? Petite? Tall, short? Blonde, Brunette? It’s preference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 06:11 PM
38	No matter how widespread that is,most men will keep falling for that scam. Lol that’s sad	/r/MGTOW	09/07/20 04:24 AM