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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Separation woke me up: men carry it all, women cash the chequeI learned that the hard way | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Separation woke me up: men carry it all, women cash the chequeNice house in a nice neighborhood, good schools, good kids, both of us with decent jobs. Still found myself managing her happiness and it wasn’t enough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/25 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Former doormat here getting divorced and trying to be better. Anyone know any other good channels like SSM?Not OP but I’ve got one of these queued up for tomorrow’s commute. Thanks for the recommendation! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/25 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Moving on…Me, I’m all about my kids. Do I want a fancy sports car to drive on the weekends? Yup! Do I want to go on expensive vacations overseas or on a long cruise? Also yup! Do I want to spend time with my kids building memories and doing fun activities on the weekends? You betcha! I’ll put money and time into these things over those other things every time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Wife (29F) left me (36M) out of the blue - grieving loss of the life we'd builtI’ve felt what you’re feeling (pretty sure most of us here in this sub have). That lack of happiness and pretending to be normal is depression. I had to talk it out with my therapist to find out it’s normal and it is depression. My two recommendations that I’ve found have been helping me: Get a therapist. So many men think they don’t need it, don’t want to just talk to someone, it won’t help me, etc. Find one tomorrow if you can and book an appointment. Talking about it out loud really does help… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/25 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Loosing hopeKeep fighting, for the sake of the kids keep fighting. Never give up and keep working with your lawyer for them! Remember you are their dad and you’re fighting for what’s best for them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/06/25 09:38 PM |
| 2 | New themes of my life: “Yeah but you should have done this”I’m 6 weeks into the divorce process and just finished the No More Mr Nice Guy audiobook. One thing that rang loud for me was the idea that the only person I need to please is ME. I now focus on me first as long as my kids are taken care of. This has already caused issues where the STBX got upset about something and I neither apologized or offered to fix it (it wasn’t my fault but that was my old habit). After the moment was done she left still mad about it, and I found I was rather pleased with… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/25 04:35 PM |
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