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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Am I missing something?Makes it frustrating for people trying to contribute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:52 AM |
| 7 | Sometimes it just makes me want to cry.Thank you. Sadly I’ve met people on OLD where I knew a mutual friend of theirs and they were still a total ass. I wish I found someone I knew attractive but so far no luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:52 AM |
| 21 | Sometimes it just makes me want to cry.Thank you xo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes it just makes me want to cry.I guess it just depends on the day. Dating in 2021 is sad and a pathetic state of affairs. I’m trying to get back out there but this stuff makes it easy to just not care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 57 | Men get married WHEN they want, regardless of who’s next to them. They are looking for a caretaker when they are done dating or unattractive Mathew Perry- “I decided to get Engaged. luckily I was dating the greatest woman on the face of the planet at this time”$$$$$$ and false security | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:59 PM |
| 167 | I have a name. It’s not “sweetie”.Kind of sounds like she was saying they could call you a bitch. I would drop this dentist and hygienist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 182 | Men get married WHEN they want, regardless of who’s next to them. They are looking for a caretaker when they are done dating or unattractive Mathew Perry- “I decided to get Engaged. luckily I was dating the greatest woman on the face of the planet at this time”Their engagement is over as of yesterday FYI. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:44 PM |
| 7 | A pickme died thinking she was going to kill some politicians, deranged and brainwashed by a misogynistic narcissist who couldn't accept his defeat. She was shot after repeatedly warned to get back by federal agents and police. Did Trump pick her or even acknowledge her? Nope.Yes, if she hadn’t ever been dealing with that drug dealing bf she wouldn’t have been flagged by police as him potentially staying there. It’s sad all around. But doing stuff for men who don’t give 2 shits about you landed them there. Still the polices fault, but it started with that guy and her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Is that what you’d like to hear? After inquiring why he provided his address within the first 5 min of convo. 🧐🙄Yes!!! Dating has really gotten me down. Hopefully this new year brings better things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 54 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡Ugh, she’s better off having her mom there honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 43 | Thats it im done! F*cking done!I think telling the younger girl to stay away from him might drive her closer to him, sadly. Drop the Scrote, doubt that younger girl will be interested anyways. Hang in there OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Oh of course, no problem. I believe what you’re looking for is a free whore? I hate it here. Marriage seems unattainable with what this internet has allowed me to see.Good advice. It’s exhausting going through all these LVM males or being tricked into thinking they are high value when they are low. Sending love ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Oh of course, no problem. I believe what you’re looking for is a free whore? I hate it here. Marriage seems unattainable with what this internet has allowed me to see.Agreed! I think they use a different area and zip code to not get caught. It’s gross. Tinder has ruined courting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:33 PM |
| 11 | Oh of course, no problem. I believe what you’re looking for is a free whore? I hate it here. Marriage seems unattainable with what this internet has allowed me to see.52.....I’m in my later 30s He’s set at my farthest range. My mother hates this and wants 45 as my capper. I was just hoping older would have better better. But they are all the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:03 AM |
| 29 | Oh of course, no problem. I believe what you’re looking for is a free whore? I hate it here. Marriage seems unattainable with what this internet has allowed me to see.I swiped left so fast after the snapshot I can’t remember. I do know he look like he was 52-62 years of age. Hope that wife wises up with a Good lawyer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 10:09 PM |
| 12 | Oh of course, no problem. I believe what you’re looking for is a free whore? I hate it here. Marriage seems unattainable with what this internet has allowed me to see.I’m with you. No idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Oh of course, no problem. I believe what you’re looking for is a free whore? I hate it here. Marriage seems unattainable with what this internet has allowed me to see.So you want to join me on my usual actives but also have sex with a younger woman. What exactly is the plus for us here? Cheap gross fuck. I’ll be praying for his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Ok too and a relational relationship. Do my mom a d coworkers count? Promised friends I’d have a social date by the weekend. Feeling the pressure.You need to become a pro satire / option peace. Your too good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 06:53 AM |
| -1 | Ok too and a relational relationship. Do my mom a d coworkers count? Promised friends I’d have a social date by the weekend. Feeling the pressure.Has anyone ever said they loved grammar police? But thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 06:48 AM |
| 29 | This is why we say no to coffee dates. Before finding FDS, I agreed to a coffee date. He was supposed to text me a time to meet but never did. The NEXT DAY he asked me why I didn't wake him upLove how honest you were. Especially in the beginning, you don’t know each other and he’s already being lazy. You’re not his assistant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how he’s clean up for my corporate holiday party. My VP would know how good I am with decisions.At mid thirties this entire look is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:58 PM |
| 64 | I can’t remember the last time I was up until 2:20 am on purpose.I also just realized he took almost a month since I matched with him. Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Took your advice and got me and my daughter flowers because you need to take care of yourself first!!This just reminded me to take mine today. Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:17 PM |
| 57 | Ugh. 30, the new 15.Right away. Wish I hadn’t wasted my time earlier in the week messaging back and forth. Another learning experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | I feel like this is trying too hard? Would you guys consider this pickme behavior?Vomit inducing. I’m not your sibling. Or your cousin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:54 PM |
| 9 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉I love this. Spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:32 AM |
| 22 | I love it when the trash takes itself out^ my reaction too. Wtf LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 12 | I had to get in on the ex-boyfriend starter pack. So glad I’ve learned my lesson!We’ve all dated this creature 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:14 PM |
| 10 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.It’s the 711 pack of midol that has me rolling! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:38 PM |
| 113 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.All he did was get groceries....this is LVM propaganda lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:30 AM |
| 3 | This scrote I matched with but quickly blocked after some seriously creepy messages ... blocked him on everything and he texts me from someone else’s number. I never sent him bikini pics- he saw them on my profile lmaoPut an add up on Craigslist for a cheap car, in great condition. For the contact number, put HIS phone number. Ask people to text or call anytime. Keep you’re head up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:48 PM |
| 7 | The bar is so low it’s literally in hell. Tired of LVM online.Want to come walk my dog date? Dates should not equal chores. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 6 | What the actual f*** is wrong with menYou need to pack your stuff and move home. xoxo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 8 | My friend and her bf bought a house and they’re moving in together only after a year together. This is her first real relationship I think. I’m trying not to be judgy but I need to respond to her so what do I say.. lolExactly. Be a good friend, mind your own business and be supportive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:25 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with the trauma of rape and sexual assault?Sending love and prayers to you. I was also raped a few years ago, by a guy I thought was a friend. It really shatters you’re faith and trust in almost everyone and everything around you. I also played out scenes in my head about if I even saw him again I’d do XYZ . I think it takes a lot of time, space and healing. I also started on anti depressants which helped to a degree (got me up and out of the house at that time- even that was a huge help just getting back Into my routine. ) Also, if you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 29 | Block and move on!He could have offered the reschedule in his response. I’m with OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 9 | How do I control emotions of jealousy? I hooked up with a year long neighbor crush who I later found out was on two dates this weekend. If it wasn’t for all of the bedroom talk and promises of the future I wouldn’t have responded so viscerally.“I’ll know it, when I see it” true, simple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 4 | How do I control emotions of jealousy? I hooked up with a year long neighbor crush who I later found out was on two dates this weekend. If it wasn’t for all of the bedroom talk and promises of the future I wouldn’t have responded so viscerally.“I’ll know what I want when I see it” simple and true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 12 | What will you not do until engaged or married?I’m going to try NOT living with the guy, or sleeping over multiple nights if at all. It’ll be hard AF. But I need better results Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 184 | Why is this being considered humorous and not highly abusive, disgusting behaviour?He sounds more like a brother than a man, and boy did I dislike my stupid LVM brother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 3 | NVM using the word 'daddy' sexually 🤢🤢🤢🤮Ahhh in capitola none the less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 10:51 PM |
| -16 | Find yourself a HVM like thisLol yes let’s applaud men for eating lunch they brought from home. Wtf is happening here? Where am I? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:15 AM |
| 11 | Engagement closing in (hopefully) advise on how to handle home ownershipObviously he doesn’t want to buy that house with you. That’s a huge commitment. Sometimes to men this is seen as even more of a commitment that marriage. He’s cutting you out of that, he’s dating you until you’re done dating him and move on. Also the engagement isn’t closing in, if you were the one to circle the date. I’m sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 22 | Flew across the country for a guy, heard him matching with girls on Tinder in the middle of the night.Are you trolling? Honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Guy (43m) says I (37f) talk too much. Played it off like he was teasing me and I was being sensitive by getting insulted. Is this a neg or playful teasing or a flat-out insult? What does he possibly hope to gain by being so rude?This! Don’t even give him the benefit of your voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Guy forgot he hadn’t txt me backWhoa, whoa, whoa, you asked for more than one thing. How could they possibly be capable of that and breathing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣With a side of Imodium to stop that douche right up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | If they’re not a yes and yes they’re a HELL NO!Do you know the total? I’m curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 7 | If he’s making you plan B make him plan bye 👋Belle, you are a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Finally ready to date ... but dating sucks right nowI’m with ya, dating sucks during COVID, lots of creepers are down to hookup. I’m hoping another month or so we will start getting back to normal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:29 PM |
| 5 | I did it! I ended things with him! But then I was weak again :(Sometimes breakups are like pushing over a soda machine when the soda is stuck. It’s not going to topple over on the first push. Time for breakup number 2, this time be a little stronger, write out all his cons. You got this queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 49 | How to still be friends with women who don't follow FDS?This is a good time to practice minding your own business. As you get older people will have more controversial opinions, in the workplace etc. it’s good to start being able to listen and care without responding or judging. This will be great practice for many relationships in the future. Keep living your life, keep caring about your friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Leveling Up, Need to Keep No ContactStay strong and read this list every time you start feeling weak. This guy was a jerk to you for way too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 8 | I need advice.I completely agree, I don’t have the best parents but sometimes it’s better than someone we’re not related to, especially like the guy above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Where the fuck are some good Rom-Coms?Hurts sooooo much. xoxo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 6 | I need advice.I know you said you can’t go to your parents but are you sure? I would feel that out just to be sure. Our parents are very forgiving and understanding when we get really down and out. It might be worth it to live under that roof than his. Goodluck. I also like the mentally detach but that’s hard for abuse victims living with the abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:08 AM |
| 4 | (Throwaway account) HVM husband standing up for me regarding his brotherIt’s hard living with a young brother/sibling. They don’t treat us like roommates, or strangers, but like family that they can walk all over and say anything to. He can’t go back to his parents due to covid, maybe tell him he can pay for a maid or he moves out. He needs some tough love, but really that should have been coming from his parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:11 PM |
| 14 | Where the fuck are some good Rom-Coms?The Breakup with Vince Vaughn and Jennifer Anniston. Pretty realistic for the most part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:00 PM |
| 48 | LVM bamboozled me into a shit date where i starved and froze to deathJust say “excuse me I’m going to use the restroom” take your purse and walk to the car. By the time it registers with him you’ll be gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:05 PM |
| 8 | Problems with fiance making comments and gaslightingHow old are you? Waking up at a reasonable time when your younger is difficult but it is a good skill to work on. Yes it sucks for a few months as you adjust. I recommend reading atomic habits, waking up early really is beneficial to sleeping until 2pm or 3pm. I can understand any partner not being okay with this. I’d actually be embarrassed to tell anyone my SO sleeps until the late afternoon. You may just not be compatible, but it could be worth working on this because a lot of SOs may have a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 28 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!Never going out because of COVID....but he’d go out for work and business lunches and dinners and socialize with friends.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:21 PM |
| 19 | Apparently a basketball game is more importantPunt this guy. Sometimes we just have to be reminded our intuition was right. You deserve way better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 6 | A conversation that makes me so angry, the bs I used to take from my ex pre-FDS.What a douche!!!!!!! I can’t even get over the audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 12:40 AM |
| 12 | Ladies, let's learn how to change our own tyres, locks and bulbs. You need not call an LMV to come to your rescue.FYI, AAA is incredibly cheap! Gives you peace of mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you weed out men in OLD?This took me awhile to learn. While I don’t hate the games, the gamer men have all turned out lazy and LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:02 PM |
| 18 | He just learned how to hide it betterYou cannot go back to this guy. He will continue to push your boundaries. Do you really want a husband that jacks off to IG models? Keep asking yourself that, because that would be the end result. A husband and father that jacks off to IG “models”. I doubt it will stop there. You deserve better and you won’t find better in that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on breaking up...and a hugYou need to research psychopath and ASPD (visit that subreddit). Do you really want to spend your life with an unfeeling and uncaring psychopath? He doesn’t ask about you, writes just about himself, spends only on himself, is empty and feeling less? Don’t let the act he’s putting on suck you back in. It’s an act. Do some digging and research and that will help you better understand the game he is playing with you. To him, or anyone without empathy, it’s just a game. You deserve better. Get to re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Here ya go ladies...a 26 year old man who doesn’t have his drivers license yet because he’s just “bEeN tOo bUsY”... 😂Right? And we know it can’t be the time. 14 year olds get their permits all the time. He doesn’t want that freedom, something is off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 23 | Here ya go ladies...a 26 year old man who doesn’t have his drivers license yet because he’s just “bEeN tOo bUsY”... 😂This screams more anxiety ridden than anything else. I’d pass. He needs to work in some major things. I also had a friend that refused to drive, she had major anxiety over driving that was made worse by everyone around her pitying her and accepting her excuses. It was sad and pathetic when she reached her mid twenties. It’s even worse in her 30s now and people are just annoyed and gave up on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:08 PM |
| 9 | What are some professions, industries or hobbies that are likely to have a higher percentage of HVM?I also noticed real estate guys and brokers too LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:36 PM |
| 53 | Got it twisted when I called him out on his overly sexual flirting with me. Then I get this at 5am. Now he's going to have to wait longer now bc that's his "making it up to me"5 am, so after he was done boning the other girl and before he went to sleep. Dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 64 | A guy[27M] who dumped me[22F] a couple of months ago with the excuse that he doesn’t want anything serious is now on bumble with a profile that says “looking for a relationship”He’s an asshole. He was an asshole when he slept with you and then contacted you less. Don’t give him anymore space in your mind and move on. Your deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 12:44 AM |
| 202 | And that’s on periodtNo but he cheats like you wouldn’t believe. So many LVM fathers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 19 | How do you weed out men in OLD?Men will swipe right on every profile to see who they match with, then they go from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:12 PM |
| 31 | How do you weed out men in OLD?You need to post a picture of your face. It’s 2020, not 1995. You won’t get good matches without one. The men not providing photos are usually married etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:39 PM |
| 29 | A compliment that shriveled my soul a little... Am i interpreting this correctly as LVM remark? (he is blue)RUN, leave your shoes and get the fuck out of there queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 5 | To Reach or Not to Reach?Reaching sends the wrong message to him, about you. Regardless of your intention or original message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 5 | I used to be nice as to not hurt someone’s feelings despite unwanted advances. I’m done doing that.He can’t spell. You deserve better off this alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Should you continue a relationship with a man who cannot find the clit, does not regularly stimulate it, and does not ask for help? Do you have to show him and teach him and remind him with no initiative from him?Drop him, or else you will be a member of the dead bedroom subreddit. You don’t want to be a member there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:02 PM |
| 143 | Deleted a text tonightYou’re leveling up with this behavior and decisions. Go queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 04:08 AM |
| 48 | Ex sends me this message, 11 months after we broke up 🤔 BLOCK AND DELETE!IGNORE! Best payback. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:55 PM |
| 16 | Has anyone been in a position where someone strongarmed you into ending it instead of saying itHe’s abusive. Save your pride and dignity and block him. You deserve much better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | To the women who love sweat pantsAdd tights under the dress with cute booties | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | To the women who love sweat pantsA sundress is easy and you can wear with sandals | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 53 | Once you’re in a relationshipI read “The Rules” and it says to try only 1-2 times a week for at least the first 6-8 months, then bump it to 3. Don’t provide the wife experience in any way by staying over etc. Goodluck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 04:14 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone else experienced guys taking control of their health and fitness goals when you tell them about it?Always best to not bring up things you don’t wish to talk about, especially diets. People mean well but it hardly comes off that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 17 | HVM and stdsNot wanting to catch herpes if you don’t already have it doesn’t make you low value. I hate the stigma that people who have it think everyone else does too, or they shouldn’t mind catching it. It’s painful and awful and I don’t blame anyone for not wanting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:20 PM |
| 28 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.I also just ended it with a guy who constantly told me what he wasn’t going to do and doesn’t feel like doing. Sucked the life right out of the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 8 | They always come back! Dropped me the day before Christmas after hooking up with me= I blocked him. Reached out in Tinder Story in commentsStay strong, don’t give in to that shit bag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:26 AM |
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