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ADVICEilovecum2115/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 03:41 AM
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Showing up to a date in sweatpants is craaaazy haha. Personally I think a shirt, nice sweater, polo shirt would be appropriate for a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:11 PM
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It's kind of basic, but not dressing up for dates. I mean the situation when he expects me to wear my best dress, highest shoes, and red lips, and then pulls up in a fuckass grandpa sweater haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:04 PM
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I don't know, this seems like a toxic 'every man is the architect of his own fortune' mindset. Let's say, if you're a woman and you treat men well, you for sure deserve being treated with the same decency (but saying you're entitled to it is a stretch). Tho, I believe if you're exceptionally attractive (in and out), why wouldn't you feel enititled to having an exceptional partner? Dating is inherently transactional, so I don't know why anyone would not feel entitled to date someone on at least a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:48 PM
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I like when it hurts. I'm more about the girth than length tho. In terms of length, I would say min 15cm (6inch). Longer ones feel great but the BJ is a nightmare, so it's kind of a trade off haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:31 AM
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That's so sweet!! Tysm <33
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/26 06:16 PM
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I'm not a troll😭 I thought you could change the name when I made the acc 3 years ago.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 07:32 PM

Yeah, I think it's an expression of moral emotivism. People find the idea icky and try to rationalize why it is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:12 PM
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I do. My friend recently told me that I probably don't feel like I deserve love and commitment so I subconciously go for men that will never offer me that. She might be right but I guess it's harder to admit that I might have some deficits and have to put in the work instead of self-pitying and continuing the cycle.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 03:50 PM
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That's great to hear!! I tend to get head over heels quickly and stop paying attention to red flags. I think setting objective criteria will help me get back to earth and turn my potential further investment into a more rational decision.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 03:38 PM
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I mean, since it was most often just a couple of dates getting to 20 wasn't that hard in a couple of years. Some intense periods followed by periods of celibacy if it got overwhelming. Not all of those were sexual of course. It was the men ending things or suggesting fwb when there was any mention of commitment, but I wanted something more. Switching to the RPW mindset kind of helps me to look at myself more objectively and not from the place of insecurities. I'll for now focus on developing sel…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 03:31 PM
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You're right. My least attractive dates tended to be the most critical about my looks and try to sabotage my self esteem. It can work sadly.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 03:10 PM
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Thank you. I will start with self help and making sure that I'm not holding myself back.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 03:08 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 10:59 AM
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Thank you. I definitely have no intuition in terms of reading the men's intentions, so better vetting would probably save me some time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/26 10:45 AM
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I'm anxious so it makes sense. Thanks
/r/seduction13/01/26 10:39 AM
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Great advice. I wonder if responding rarely really does work? Personally, if someone takes longer than an hour to respond (on average) and doesn't engage in back and forths I assume he is uninterested and end it. I'm not trying to generalize that every woman feels like that, I'm just surprised.
/r/seduction13/01/26 01:34 AM
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Yeah, genuinely. Sometimes an extrovert falls for an introvert. Someone emotional/intuitive for a logical thinker. Someone from a loving house might fall for someone less fortunate. Someone older can fall for someone younger. Partners will not be identical, that would actually be quite boring. The difference in the number of sexual partners seems like one of the easier differences to overcome, but I see some people just tend to hyperfixate on that, without realizing that love is nuanced. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:25 PM
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What is the female equivalent for a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:07 PM
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Hmm, by looking at me and my friends' interactions it has been the other way around. If the girl is slightly more attractive or on the same level of attractiveness as the guy she will put more effort. If the guy is significantly less attractive only then he will put more effort. I think that's because women have an easier time accepting the bare minimum plus insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:31 PM
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Definitely normal
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 12:45 AM
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Through casual sex you learn egotistical behavior in relationships, associating the sex only with pleasure and not the emotional intimacy that comes with it. Also, it works like any other stimulant. It is easy to get addicted to the lust that comes with this type of lifestyle, and once you become an addict, you will stay an addict even if you quit what you are doing. Of course it also only deepens the feeling of insecurity, need for attention and guilt. After having intercourse with many people,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 03:17 PM
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