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Great advice and quality post. I think most importantly guys should have a multi stage approach to this so after the first part of the date you aren't at loss of what to do if it doesn't end there. Again, love this post man, keep doing you.
/r/seduction04/07/17 10:49 PM
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Exactly. To get a woman comfortable over text will take hours when compared to only spending a few minutes in person
/r/seduction18/02/16 07:01 PM
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I've found that the minimalist texting is bull crap. Because then girls will think "Oh, this guy only texts me to hang out" and that is not good.
/r/seduction18/02/16 04:30 AM
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Its not unrealistic. You'll run into girls like that all over the place. Is the south more racist than some places? Depends on where you're at but for the most part I think it is overblown. You just need to overcome your mentality of "I'm not good enough" to one of "Who cares?" because if they don't like you for your skin color then it's probably for the best that you don't go anywhere with them.
/r/seduction15/01/16 02:44 AM
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Your roommate is on your side and it's a party. Don't say anything overly stupid/weird and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction18/12/15 03:00 AM
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I'm just saying that even though there were virtually no girls on Ashley Madison, they still had more girls than adult friend finder.
/r/seduction09/09/15 01:49 AM
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Ashley Madison would be suggested before that.
/r/seduction08/09/15 07:57 PM
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I didn't even know that it was a serious option. Who the heck uses Craigslist to hook up?
/r/seduction08/09/15 03:56 PM
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So deep bro.
/r/seduction17/08/15 11:32 PM
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Ew. Mother Jones.
/r/seduction11/08/15 12:53 PM
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You asked her if she liked you. That's totally fine. It's not a bad thing if you only ask it once so you can either move on with or without her.
/r/seduction22/06/15 09:18 PM
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Who needs spelling? You're already in collage!
/r/seduction21/05/15 03:57 PM
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Why does it matter?
/r/seduction14/04/15 10:15 PM
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Most of these have been repeated over and over in this sub. Personally, I like your point about how being in the friend zone gives you access to other girls. But, it definitely depends if you and her hang out and do friend-like activities besides just being a dreaded "texting buddy".
/r/seduction28/01/15 09:15 PM
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This is a "woulda/coulda/shoulda" situation. You could have set up a date when you two were talking in person. You could have directly asked her out through text. Your only plan of action now is to see if she wants to hang out with your friends, ask her to bring her friends perhaps? If you're going down to see your friends then you obviously wouldn't bail on them to go see a girl.
/r/seduction25/01/15 11:57 PM
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That's.... interesting.
/r/seduction19/01/15 05:57 PM
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For sure. And the picture. Like really? You couldn't find something better to use than a girl with no shirt on looking like she is ready to box?
/r/seduction14/01/15 02:22 PM
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If you don't have any way to talk to her besides Facebook send her a message. Something along the lines of "Hey! It has been ages since we talked. How's it going?" then ask her out for coffee to catch up. (Note: this only works if both of you are single and both of you live near each other/same city)
/r/seduction14/01/15 02:18 PM
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If neither of you are playing a match go up and talk to her about your common interest: table tennis.
/r/seduction13/01/15 10:24 PM
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This really is just my opinion but, I feel like this subreddit is shifting away from what I would call "old school" pick up (where it was mostly about outer game and trying to seduce any woman you want), into "new school" pick up where its mostly focused on inner game. The exception to this are field reports where it is almost 100% outer game. But, even those have declined in quality and quantity as this subreddit has gotten bigger.
/r/seduction13/01/15 02:24 PM
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You won't be able to find anyone to dance with unless you know that the girl is already into you. Pick up in high school is based on how popular you are and if her friends approve of you. (Now obviously this isn't always the case but, I have found through experience it is a big part of dating in high school.)
/r/seduction13/01/15 02:18 PM
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There are some really good posts back 2-3 years ago. Just check the archives. In my opinion at least, back then this subreddit was focused more on dating and sleeping with multiple women at the same time.
/r/seduction13/01/15 12:39 AM
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Rule of thumb for high school dances. If you don't have a date, you MUST know a girl or two that you KNOW 100% are into you and they don't have dates. This isn't a bar. There are no cold approaches at high school. That being said. Wear formal. It's called a formal. You're not "cool" or "hip" or "ironic" if you show up in sandles. As for the girl. It sure sounds like you have a thing for this girl and you blew it. Move on and learn the lesson from that: be confident and don't be annoying.
/r/seduction13/01/15 12:31 AM
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Smile at her and see if she smiles back. If she does and next time you see her alone go up to her and say something along the lines of "You know you can't stare at me all day without saying something." maybe that is a bad example but you get the point. Also High School is a fickle beast and do tread lightly if you're at a small school.
/r/seduction08/01/15 03:12 AM
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"Want to get coffee?"
/r/seduction07/01/15 10:53 PM
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I would try to completely ignore her for a week and see what happens. If she keeps trying to contact you then she actually wants something. If she stops contacting you then you're better off without her.
/r/seduction07/01/15 02:19 PM
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It is your own fault. Both of you stated what you wanted in the beginning. Him a relationship and you an open relationship. You can't just change your mind 6 months later and expect him to be there.
/r/seduction20/12/14 04:54 PM
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First. Calm down. Second. Obviously she has some interest in you say something along the lines of "Before I take you out for coffee how about you tell me a little about yourself? ;)" be quick and don't over think it.
/r/seduction02/12/14 09:23 PM
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This and this
/r/seduction30/11/14 11:22 PM
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You're young enough that texting doesn't matter that much because it is such an integral part of communication. You can start at the side bar. I would say the most important part of text game is to look at past posts but only use them as guidelines while you try to create your own game. Also, text game, like regular game, varies girl to girl and can be very situational. Experience trumps everything you read on the internet though.
/r/seduction30/11/14 11:07 PM
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I've been lurking here for about three years. Seduction back then was based on the ability to pick up women where ever you were and being able to fuck them with in a week. Now, I feel it's more focused on being able to find the woman you want to be in a relationship with. Obviously this was gradual and this is all my opinion but, as long as the community keeps growing and wants to accept a wider audience it will be more and more about talking to women and simple things like that.
/r/seduction30/11/14 10:59 PM
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Just stop talking to her. You've already got way too clingy with her. Try again with another girl.
/r/seduction30/11/14 10:42 PM
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