| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | PUA is listed as a hate group | Logistics | ilovefootball49 | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Don't be a schmuck | Logistics | ilovefootball49 | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Rewards of Dating Seem Ripe for Women, Barren for Men | Logistics | ilovefootball49 | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:33 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Learning from my failure(s)Most of my experiences are failures. Can't wait for some success soon. This shit sucks | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | 1st day of approaching ended in romantic make out at parkMy account got hacked. I got like 100 matches in 15 minutes. Only problem is I'm not gay | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 158 | Do people who engage in casual sex usually only do so with strangers (bars, nightclubs, pubs etc…) or is it just as commonly done between friends and people who know each other?They try with strangers first because usually it ruins relationships with people close to them. Then they ruin relationships with people close to them. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Is the PUA community completely dead?I was looking back at this old seduction book I had back in the day. There's so many things to me that stand out as weird and creepy now. I wonder if I ever should have tried to get a one night stand before. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | How often should you text a woman you just met or cold approached?Unless you cold approached a woman at some event you go to regularly (like live music or poetry night) I'd never text her to save the heartache. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I have started to slide in people’s dms a week ago and have been quite successfulOk. I didn't know IG could be used like this. Oh wait one time I did that several years ago but wasn't pimp enough to keep it up | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itThis only works for the short-term. You can't fake being the most eligible bachelor. Maybe you'll get a few numbers or lays here and there. But probably you won't land anything solid with a woman who has stuff going, until you work on fixing core traits that most women find desirable. And sometimes this takes years to attain or correct. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?Yeah only the ones I don't want to hear from. And the ones I do want to hear from usually I get over it. Sometimes I wish I could go into a detox for a couple weeks and erase my bad memories with women. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Coming across too needy early onI don't know. I wouldn't say a major league baseball game is a romantic event though. Have you tried flirting with her through text? | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do people on this subreddit assume the dating/casual world everywhere is like the USA?A lot of countries people start dating by 14-16 and most are married by their 30's. Here it's half and half. Some countries are traditional they wait until marriage for sex. so they aren't really affected by technology. Some countries prostitution is legal. Women are not as independent in many countries. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:00 AM |
| 5 | The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summaryYeah but who's going to win the world series this year? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 10 | Why do girls say they like “nice guys” but never date them?Yeah being "nice" or "kind" or "compassionate" is great. Everyone likes someone sweet. But someone with no life who changes everything for a girl, who is needy, desperate, and all these other things aren't attractive. Nice is just like a surface description. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How long has it been since you’ve gotten laid and how old are you? I’m 27 and it’s been 8+ years for meYeah but if you only look at their peak you'll forget to see how they bottomed out. You obviously haven't screwed your life up to that degree. And you'd think endless sex with beautiful women for a decade would make your life better, but you can see that it still isn't enough for some people. It's like a drug and they keep needing another hit no matter what the price. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | The importance of abundance mentalityYeah I guess. A lot of people on /r/hingeapp have been on it for years waiting for someone they get along with. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:51 PM |
| 4 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”I recently approached a very attractive woman and she was open to speaking with me. She was flirtatious and stuff. We talked for half hour or so, but she was taken. But I was surprised I figured she would say no and that would be it. Nothing happened but it made me feel better about talking to the next woman | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | The importance of abundance mentalityYou'd think talking with 3-5 you'd be able to end up with 1, but unfortunately usually it's blocking deleting 3-5 then starting all over with a new roster. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting attached to people I meet on dating appsMajority of men on dating apps are superficial. They want hot girls and they want to hook up, especially at that age. If you don't like it try other apps like match.com or eharmony that are geared towards dating, or just delete them altogether. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:05 AM |
| 91 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?Somewhere out there a recruiter is drinking himself silly, wondering what it could have been | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | How long has it been since you’ve gotten laid and how old are you? I’m 27 and it’s been 8+ years for meWow. And here I am miserable. Try not to measure your life in terms of what you don't have. I can give you 2 examples of men that had the most active sex lives of their generation and managed to screw their lives up beyond measure. John Holmes and Ron Jeremy. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:53 AM |
| 3 | The importance of abundance mentalityI have that same mentality. That talking to 5-10 girls is nice. But they aren't fulfilling my needs. It's always the same old story. Tired of being left in the dust. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:34 AM |
| 0 | How to say you're only looking for sex?Show her your driver's license. Point to where it says (M) male. She'll pick it up eventually. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Need help keeping women.First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How long should I wait for a girl to text me back before loosing hope of anything happening?You know I recently met a couple girls that were bad at responding. Turns out they are just entitled think they are owed the world. A lot of these pretty girls are narcissists on dating apps. It's easy to get male attention and they hunt for the most they can get out of it. What does a decent dress and some makeup cost? Less than $100 and they think men that make <100k/yr are losers. Just focus on all their faults it will help you get over them. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?I didn't have much of a problem in my 20's been absolute hell trying to find one recently. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:28 AM |
| 25 | How to bring up sex without seeming trashy?When booking an escort typically you ask for half hour, hour, or nightly rate. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Attractive guysI'm good looking. They will start on dating apps with "hey" sometimes more. I have 100 girls in queue they just want to be friends don't mind wasting my time. Went nowhere with more than 90%. They never initiate the conversation about sex, and if you bring it up they consider it but usually drop it. Being attractive is overrated but I'm sure others have better results. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?Just pretend like you saw them in one of your classes and ask them their major. Center the conversation around them and it will lower their guard. Then you can weasel your way in. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Thank YouLol this girl was playing hard to get, and she flipped and went soft, gave me her number, and invited me to hang out. For like an hour I felt on top of the world. But we don't match, it's too much work talking to her, and she's 40 and want kids. I'm over it. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Tinder as a first timer - my experience, tips, and adviceSaved. I do good on other apps. Edited my profile once got 10-15 likes in a day compared to the typical once per week. I'm hoping this new girl is a solid but I never really rely on the kindness of strangers. Fully expect to be back to scratch in a week or two. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How to stop putting women on a pedestal?Move to an Island with only hairy, fat chicks. Then you won't be intimidated by them anymore | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | So I found out a new strategy to pick up women according to this guyAs long as the guy you ask isn't Matt Walsh. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | So I found out a new strategy to pick up women according to this guyyou could probably find a nice guy dressed up as a woman there | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | What are the common traits guys who get laid regularly show?They are newlyweds? Some couples keep up active sex lives but I'd say most people drift. I don't personally know anyone that is polyamorous and has sex with multiple beautiful women but Hugh Hefner kept claiming that his first girlfriend broke his heart and that he never got over it, and he always swore he was in it for love not sex, but being surrounded by naked beautiful women for work and having a bunch of money and mansions most likely helped. I can guarantee you 99.9% of men will not have 5… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?I'd have to know more details, but I'm also not a professional dating coach. Just dress nice, be flirty and romantic, funny, teasing her, etc. get to know her usually that seals the deal. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?Not 100%? You want quality over quantity. I can approach 10 girls and get at least one number any day of the week. You should really make some major changes bud. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Here is what I don't understand about shy girls I meet through OLD.The last girl I talked to recommended we video call, even though she was using old photos. She had photos of when she was like 23 in a bikini with flat stomach on the app, and was now almost 35 I could see her extra pounds through her shirt. And she still had the nerve to be rude during the call. Even though the call was unpleasant it was better than wasting an hour or two sitting with her. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:01 AM |
| 21 | Here is what I don't understand about shy girls I meet through OLD.You're surprised that all these girls that start with just "hello" or "hi" have nothing to say? A woman can upload just 1 photo of her dog on a dating app with no pictures of herself and get 100 matches in a week. Screen them. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:06 PM |
| 36 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.If you text her something right off the bat when you first meet her sexually and she's offended that's fine I guess. If you start to get to know her though and she really doesn't reciprocate to sexual talk and you'd like sex then you're probably going to have to kick her to the curb. Many women don't mind dating guys for months or years without sex. So you have to make a choice. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Idk if my game is getting worseYeah it sounds like you were lucky to get a pretty girl, not that it was a regular habit. You gotta step up your game to attract more beautiful women. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Get ready for a long, hard road ahead and don't spend it all on strippers. And prioritize your needs not hers. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 3 | got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?Shouldn't take 43 approaches, even for the average guy. He's really doing something wrong. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:44 AM |
| 2 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?I had a lot of one night stands in my 20's not doing very well in my 30's. Chicks really start demanding things like marriage and children, even sometimes on the first date. I live in a suburban area feel like I need to get out of here move to LA or NY. Not much time left before being single at my age just raises huge red flags. I'd like a relationship but also want some fun not too many attractive women left. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:24 AM |
| -2 | Why are women such in the moment creatures?She's probably ghosting you because she's looking for something long-term like marriage or children and you just spam her with sexual comments and advances. You gotta state in the beginning you want a booty call, a lot of women will end it there, but at least if you are clear about that the one who is ok won't ghost you after. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:22 PM |
| 6 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.Yeah I've been texting a girl, and she told me she's unemployed. No excuse it takes her 5 hours to respond. She's just not into me. She said she wanted to meet. I think I'm going to cancel. She either wants to string me along for attention, or put me in the friendzone while she pursues other guys. I'm not up for either scenario. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?Seems like a lot of hot women have men there with them. They could be friends or lovers. I'd rather workout with another guy to take the workout more seriously, than be stuck in the friendzone with a partner who can only lift half as heavy as me, talking about her crush on another guy. Plus with dudes you can talk dirty and fart and talk about sports and beer. With women it's just endless boundaries. If you're not her actual boyfriend just gym buddy it's got to be absolute torture to see her in … | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Governments worldwide should ban Tinder and similar appsYeah I was just thinking that most people are favoring dating apps over old methods of dating, and I was trying to think of a way to even the odds. Since the average girl only needs to swipe twice for a match vs 20 swipes for a guy. So many girls have hundreds of matches and guys have like 5. I'm not going to abandon old dating methods that are hard, for these terrible odds. Some people swear to have success and it comes easily, but I can't seem to find the secret. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one weekDon't quit while you're ahead. He could bang another 10 chicks or settle for some girl that will make him miserable. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:56 PM |
| -1 | Don't be a schmuckThe only reason these girls do their shows is to make money. Tipping shows your support. If they can't make decent money here they are going to eventually leave. So if you like them then you tip them. "Simping" is when you don't tip anything at all then try and control her by demanding she do what you want. Those guys get banned first. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:59 AM |
| -5 | Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one weekIs it a fluke though? Let us know if you're able to hook up with 2 chicks per week for the next month and then we'll know your game has really changed. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!If you were making 200k/yr you could have no game and just pay a 10-star escort twice/month $1k for sex and still wouldn't feel it. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.Cold approach is kind of weird. Last like 5 girls I did this with deleted my number after I got it while doing this, and one time in my younger days I was able to hook up with a girl an hour after I met her doing C.A. Dating is changing | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!Really? How many girls do you think want to date a low-level cook or warehouse worker? There's no social status there. Social status is very important in dating. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:20 AM |
| 0 | Don't be a schmuckIt was more than 20 bucks. I think hoping a girl will acknowledge you and say hello isn't too much to ask, especially if you spend $100 or more. Her loss. She wants to be mean and pretend I don't exist then I'm not going to tip her anymore. I didn't tip her 1 more penny after that incident. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:17 AM |
| 0 | Don't be a schmuckHot girls? Sex? It's like going to a strip club but no cover charge. And they have "categories" you can click on so you can find which type of girl you like real fast. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:14 AM |
| -1 | Don't be a schmuckI go on these sites every once in awhile and there's people tipping $500 to $1k in one night so I'd say I got off easy. Either they are super rich or spending their whole paycheck on these girls. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!You should be worrying about studying and grades and essays and midterms in college. Do you want to be unemployed in your 30's, wishing you tried harder in school, or do you want to remember those 2 threesomes you had, but now no girl calls you back because your career is nowhere. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them?I used to do that. Now I get so many matches I don't really care what one girl thinks. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Which parts of Mystery Method are still relevant in today's world and which ones have been made obsolete?I was able to get a few lays thanks to this book, but he really stresses 'reproduction' being as important almost as food and shelter, even if you aren't interested in starting a family. And most of his techniques are for short-term fun and ONS I'm surprised he stressed the baby stuff. On the back cover the guy looks like a clown with his weird hat and black fingernail polish. Right there you should get this guy is emo. In Neil Strauss' biography he says this guy was super depressed and crying i… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesYeah she probably went home and thought about it and would rather see her Tinder match than some rando off the street. Better just try to be a pimp at your local bar/club than trying to cheese dating by approaching random hotties on the street. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?Chicks might be pretty intimidated by all these "skills", especially if they don't really have much going for them other than being hot. I'd say just be fun and flirty. If you just want to hook up have a lot of cheesy one-liners for bars and clubs to make them laugh. A lot of girls like rich guys "sugar daddies" but they also seem to think they can rotate these guys until they hit middle age. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet women?College, mall, night club | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:49 AM |
| -1 | Could it be the porn & jerking it effecting your social skills?I disagree. I laid off it for about a year, and just matched with all these conservative chicks who wanted marriage and children. It didn't really help me with game, maybe just talking to chicks I was never into before. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:48 AM |
| 4 | How to have sex on the first dateIn most instances- measuring time + money invested for the sex- a prostitute is just cheaper. The last time I got laid I had absolutely no clue it would go that far, and had seen a massage girl that morning to deal with sexual frustration. And even though she said she enjoyed spending time together and wanted to see me again, I texted her a joke that she didn't find funny, and she cut off all contact with me before I got a chance to see her again. Sometimes you're on point you get 3 hot girls nu… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 26 | Whenever you see a extremely beautiful women wearing tight revealing clothing that’s your green light to hit on her.Yeah she probably feels confident if she dresses like this. Although, it's easier to hit on a girl dressed like this at a department store or somewhere unexpected like doctor's office, coffee, shop, dmv rather than mall, bar, night club. In my experience they are bubbily but also flakey. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Finding a boyfriendProbably the guys in romance novels. You can date regular men and fantasize about the perfect guys in romance novels just like guys date regular girls but fantasize about porn stars. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Getting pussy requires hard work! How hard are you working??I'd like to see some of these fools that think they are experts on women go on a date. Nothing is solid. You can't go in with the mindset "All women like x,y,z" so I'll respond like this to this statement, touch her here, blah blah. Would be a good snl skit. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:30 AM |
| 3 | Do I just have a lower sex drive than most guys?Congratulations you won the Internet. You're so much better than everyone else. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:17 AM |
| 5 | The whole point of dating apps is to get matches and go on dates. Every time I recreate my profile with different pictures, I seem to get the same results. Are some people just not cut out for it?Remember when Urkel turned into that sexier version? That's what you have to do to get better results. So maybe you spend an extra hour at the gym or something per day, then go home and read poetry to melt her heart. Maybe that only nets 1 extra like per week, but over a year that's quite a bit so you should be able to get a girlfriend, and never tell her how hard it was to find a girl. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:14 AM |
| 16 | For someone looking to get back in the game, what are some top flirting tips/techniques (both in bars and clubs)Dress nice. Say hello. They are all the meanest people you will ever meet, and wait for them to spit in your face and ruin your life. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Having a female best friend is undoubtedly one of the reasons I have success with other girls.I have a female friend and she gives terrible dating advice. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:55 AM |
| 7 | What are some good conversations starters? (M19)That's not a bad opener. You don't want to invest too much into the opener, you just want to grab her attention, so you can get to know her. And if you fail and you banked everything in the opener you'd feel pretty stupid. You may have to approach 5 women anyways to get some progress. Just try to keep it down to 15-30 minutes interaction then take off. You don't want to stand around just staring at her in silence; that would be awkward. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Daily reminder that a woman who is interested in you, will make it easy for you.Yeah sucks when they take 12 hours to respond. Probably that they are bored but not head over heels. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Is approaching a woman by herself and not in a group creepy?Yeah group's suck. There's always one girl that wants to cockblock you. And you kind of have to lean in and go for the girl that shows interest, and it's not always the prettiest one. It's probably the fat one that complains all day to the other girls how much her dating life sucks. Sometimes they'll invite you back to their place to keep partying, but I'd try and get a number asap then bounce. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Unmatched on Hinge, but she’s still texting? Why would that happen?She's not into you but wants to tell you about Jehovah | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?It's not creepy if she gives you her number. Anyone she decides is ugly is "creepy" even for staring at her. Just do you and forget the haters. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 03:21 AM |
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