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LMAO exactly tho. It’s ridiculous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:47 PM
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OMG I love this!!! Words to live by 🙌 🙌 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:09 AM
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I love this so much. That kind of love is the dream. The absolute dream. It's so nice to know that men like this can exist. Thank you for this, OP. It gives me hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:26 AM
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This is a struggle of mine tbh… I don’t feel like I have too many hobbies, but I like to read, watch anime, and cook. I do have a lot of hobbies I want to get into though! Mainly hiking, backpacking, weightlifting, and acro yoga! And perhaps sewing, as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:06 AM
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It’s very good!!! I highly recommend the audiobook, because the writer himself narrates it and he’s very funny. He is very FDS aligned, so it’s a great read/listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:30 PM
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LMAO the fact that the ad has the "helpful" award... I can't even 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:23 PM
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This is a fantastic question. I guess for me, the things I want from my man are: - Complete Acceptance: Someone who doesn't look down on me for making less money or being less ambitious than they are. Who doesn't want to change me into a female version of themselves. I want someone who looks at me and loves all the unique things about me that make me, me. - Generosity: Someone who genuinely WANTS to make me happy, regardless of whether or not it aligns with what they feel is important to be happ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:48 PM
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Wow, that list describes my LVX to a T. Grateful to be out of it now. 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:13 AM
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Wow, he takes fragile masculinity to a whole new level. Jealous of a towel? Really??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:38 AM
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What fantastic reframing. I needed this! I'm a recovering people-pleaser myself and constantly feel insecure or selfish for asking for the things I want because my whole life (with my parents, and my LVX of 10 years) my boundaries were drilled into me as less important or unreasonable. But you really do make a great point! With my LVX, he always had and enforced his boundaries with no issue or guilt. With porn, with money, with effort in dating, with everything! It's so clear now looking back, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 11:23 PM
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Lmao! Brilliant. "Do you need help with that?" I can see that working even on my cheap LVX. Amazing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 07:11 PM
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BY FAR the biggest lesson I learned from my last relationship. Only give when it's appreciated and reciprocated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:55 AM
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WAAAAAAA LMAO the sound effect!!!! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:26 PM
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Omg same!!! I have the same bad habit. With people I want to get to know better, I'm an open book in hopes that they do the same. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Can I DM you? I'd love to talk more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:44 AM
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The deck building analogy is perfect. Wow. I am so beyond thrilled for you, and am finally starting to feel hopeful about my romantic future. Thank you so much for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 10:42 PM
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Omg I could not stop laughing!!! This is absolute GOLD. I aspire to have friends like this and to be as funny as this woman. Amazing!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:32 PM
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Alright here's me: - High school sweetheart bf from age 16-26. We were the same age. We were together TEN YEARS. He never proposed because he had a "checklist" that I had to complete before I would be "worthy". 🤡 - Checklist was: I had to be debt-free (I had almost 40K in student loans and 15K on my car, plus some credit cards), had to lose 60 lbs and be fit (lift heavier weight than him), but most of all, I had to accept his raging porn addiction. 🤡 - Everything was always 50/50, even though he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:25 PM
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This is absolute gold! I am in this space right now and it is truly healing. All the cooking I used to do for him, I do for me now. All the attention I paid to making sure he was happy and anticipating his needs, I do for myself. I have never been so happy or felt so free! It is truly, truly liberating. All this love I feel and have to give, I give to me. And it feels heavenly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:11 PM
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I know he's controversial, and even though all his advice may not be 100%, he does have some good tough love advice about not entertaining low effort, LVM who don't appreciate you. You can see this really quickly when scrolling his twitter feed. He's one resource I look at among many because he's one of the few male voices out there telling women to demand more and raise the bar for the men they date. And I like hearing a man's perspective sometimes because he knows better how the male mind work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:55 AM
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Absolutely agree. Doing your own thing while he does his is perfectly fine. I was more talking to women who support men via doing tons of stuff for them (his laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc) in an effort to show how "valuable" you are to have around and helping him support his dreams while neglecting your own. I see women sometimes sacrificing their own time & energy to help free up his because men will tell you he's building "our future" together (my LVX said this to me so I'm speaking mostly f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:03 AM
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Wow. Reading that Will Smith's dream is to have "a harem of 20 girlfriends" just made me so sad. I've lost so much respect for him. There really are hardly any HVM left in the world. Just wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:37 AM
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I honestly could've written this myself. I agree 1000%. It's still really sad, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:56 PM
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We're here for you!!!! I was honestly in a very similar situation when I found FDS. I was with my LVX for 10 years and found FDS during the pandemic when I was quarantined with him for the final year. I kid you not, FDS was the only place I felt heard, seen, and understood. This community is truly the most supportive community for women on the internet, and I'm so thankful we both found it in our time of need. We will both never be treated like that again. Viva FDS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:29 PM
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WOW. The accuracy is insane. I swear I had this same exact conversation with my ex word for word. At least now I have a crystal clear picture of what manipulation looks and sounds like. So glad to be done with my pickme days. Yeesh. Thank you FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 08:29 PM
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I saw this episode last night!!! I love Roy Kent ⚡️. That part really reaffirmed FDS values. Never settle for fine. Can’t wait to see more of him <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 05:41 PM
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My ex is the entire right side of that graph, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:55 AM
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Omg thank you so much for this. I desperately needed this! I just moved out from living with my LVX two days ago. We were high school sweethearts together from age 16-26, and even though I know without a doubt that it was the right decision, I've cried so much. My heart still hurts. I have the same plan--to work on myself, get in shape, read all of the FDS recommended books and get a higher-paying job. But it's hard to shake ten years of criticism and being told I'm not enough. I'd love to see h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:05 AM
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omg LMAO!!! I love it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:23 AM
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LMAO this is gold!!!! She did that perfectly, hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:57 PM
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LMAOOOO I'm dead!!! I wish I was this witty! lmfao omg xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:59 PM
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I just started supporting you guys on Patreon at the start of this month! Literally LOVE this podcast so much and can't wait to hear more and level up with all of you; amazing content!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:55 AM
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I’m in this photo and I love it, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:24 PM
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I'd love to check them out if you could DM me their usernames please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:21 PM
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Men Who Hate Women: From Incels to Pickup Artists: The Truth about Extreme Misogyny and How it Affects Us All Just purchased it! Honestly can't wait to read it. I need the hard truth right now. I'm biding my time to leave my 10 year relationship with a LVM. I need all the truth!! Down with my pickmeisha self!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:20 PM
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LMAOOO omg I needed this queen thank you so much. This is hilarious!!! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:25 AM
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This describes my LV ex to a T. He was my high school sweetheart, went to an Ivy League school, and made a lot of money right out of college, but never put any effort into dates or making me feel special. He would tell me how lucky I was that he chose to stay with me because he was gonna be a millionaire one day and I’d get to experience the perks of that. As if. The only time he ever spent any money trying to make me feel appreciated was when I was leaving the relationship. It was awful feeling…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:06 PM
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Honestly queen, SAME. I love FDS so much to but to live with the cringe of how I used to be is hard. I did so much for men who treated me like nothing. Literally spent 10 years with a LVM who never even got me flowers for valentine's day, or planned anything ever for my birthday, and who was addicted to porn. The cringe is real. I will say though, I really enjoy looking forward and thinking about how my life will be when I finally become the woman of my dreams. When I finally believe down to my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:22 AM
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I am so, so grateful for FDS. I've been mostly a lurker, reading and taking in all of FDS's wisdom, and wow has it been eye-opening and life changing for my self-esteem. It's so good to hear queens say and read posts that convey the message that, "You are enough. You are MORE than enough" over and over again everyday. It's truly done wonders for me. I'm still leveling up. Ready to start a life of focusing on me and what makes ME happy. And I thank FDS everyday for giving me this power and this c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:33 AM
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Right?? Me too! Not only the thoughtfulness of the surprise, but the willingness to purchase something so expensive and have everything ready for her to ride as soon as it gets delivered. My heart burst! My LV ex would NEVER. Ugh. Never settling for that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:23 AM
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Honestly this is the biggest takeaway from my last relationship. I treated my ex like a king, (I used to follow RPW 🤡) and all I got for it was less respect and crumbs of affection. Not even trying to pleasure me in bed or do any dates (even for my birthday)! Never settle for less queens. Leave as soon as their effort doesn't match yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:19 AM
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His reply almost made me gag. Blegh! What a NVM. Block and delete all the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:52 PM
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Ugh, this makes me so mad. My soon-to-be ex-LVM would basically coerce me into doing his kinks because if I didn't he'd just look at porn (and he knew how much I hated porn). I hate that men are like this. I cannot wait for this lease to end so I can be free and single and start leveling up without all of the stress and anxiety that comes from being in a relationship with a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:48 PM
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I just signed up!!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:21 AM
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Lmao honestly, the trash took itself out! Congrats on getting published!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:59 AM
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I absolutely love this podcast. It had me rolling!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:52 AM
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LMAO the only correct response!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:24 AM
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I am SO excited for this podcast. Loved the teaser!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:29 PM
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^ SO true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:45 AM
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Wow, that is a perfect analogy. I’m going to use it next time someone calls me crazy for wanting my partner to only have eyes for me. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:12 AM
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That's adorable! Even I'm a little jealous, haha.
/r/RedPillWives05/08/18 12:04 AM
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I definitely changed the way I dressed, but it was over time, and not because my SO ever explicitly asked me to. When I first met my SO, I mainly dressed comfortably. Shorts and a t-shirt and sneakers; cute, but comfortable. Over time I noticed my SO really likes more feminine clothing, like dresses and skirts, so I mainly wear a lot of those now. He definitely prefers slightly more modest feminine clothing (like no crop tops showing my stomach or anything with too much cleavage) but I’ve defini…
/r/RedPillWives22/07/18 04:00 PM
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I would love this phase of "distressed" clothing to stop. It's so ridiculous; I often see jeans, jackets, and t-shirts with huge holes and rips and a "raw cut hem" that makes it look like a 5 year old with scissors invaded their closet. I would also love if the pointy toed shoes trend would die down a little, because pointed toes are super uncomfortable and frankly, I don't think they look that great.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 01:22 PM
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I'm most grateful for my SO. He is the light of my life and after just celebrating five years together last November I'm more grateful for him than ever. It is such a good feeling to know and feel you are loved by the person you love most, and so I'm grateful that he's in my life and that I can continue to make him happy year after year. :) I'm also grateful for the Insanity workout program for helping me get my butt into shape, and video games for keeping my SO in the house with me on weekends,…
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 04:06 PM
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I met my SO in elementary school, haha. We met in the fourth grade, hung around the same group of friends when we were young, finally became close friends our freshman year of high school, and started dating our junior year. It's been 5 years since and we're still going strong. :)
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 01:19 AM
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I got 28% masculine and 81% feminine! It says my feminine energy is very high. :) Yay!
/r/RedPillWives29/07/16 11:22 PM
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What is GOLF?
/r/RedPillWives08/07/16 10:47 PM
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Hi! I just sent in a request to join. :) My "reason to join" was too long so I'm gonna write a quick summary of it here. I've been a lurker of redpillwomen/redpillwives for over a year now. I've been slowly implementing it in my relationship with my boyfriend of 5 years (whose nickname is babi, hence my username, lol) with the biggest challenge being losing weight so I can look as sexy as possible for him. I'm 5'3, when we started dating 5 years ago I was 120, and over the course of the relation…
/r/RedPillWives24/05/16 11:34 PM
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I've done this personality test many times before and without fail, I always get INFP, which in this case is "Authenticity". I must say, I wholeheartedly agree with what it says about how authenticity-driven people show love; with patience, and trust, and understanding. That's me 100%. Even how I ask about love is accurate. I value whether or not my man trusts me and believes in me very much, and I also value the space to be myself with him. I thought this was a really fun and great read, thank …
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 06:58 AM
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I completely understand that. If we had enough money to do that, we'd definitely be doing it. But we're both college students. The good thing is that we have the entire three months of summer to spend together, plus winter break, thanksgiving break, and spring break. So we're definitely together more than just 20 times a year. Is that still too little?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 07:42 PM
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So webcam sex doesn't count?
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/15 04:58 AM
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Thank you for actually giving me a response to my question instead of automatically telling me my relationship is nonexistent. I really appreciate it. It makes me sad that this sub is so against them. I understand that they aren't ideal and that, if there's no definite end to the distance or if the girl chose her career over the guy, then it's not going to work. But in my case, there is a definite end and the colleges we're going to are just far apart. I can't afford to go to a school out of sta…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 11:49 PM
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Why is it ridiculous?
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 02:52 AM
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Why are long distance relationships so terrible?
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 02:51 AM
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