iluvsexyfun Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Pre D-day This much talk? This little action? Bet she is the peach in this pair.	/r/askMRP	12/02/25 11:57 AM
2	What did I do wrong? Your story does not make sense. You claim to have studied the side bar diligently for a yr, but you don’t seem to be implementing any of the sidebar or you are misunderstanding the principles. Tell us what you have tried. Your post looks like you are exaggerating your study of the side bar and have instead made a post hoping for some kind of Jedi mind trick. You go to the gym. Big deal. Going to the gym is not magic. Your behavior shows you need to formulate a plan. If you need very simple help,…	/r/askMRP	27/03/24 04:55 AM
7	Marriage is over, but not divorced. Need some insight on how to act at home, since we still live together. Your post shows some serious problems you can fix. “she hasn’t decided to serve me yet….” This needs to be to be your responsibility. Get a lawyer immediately and get your ducks in a row. You seem dazed and confused. Snap out of it and get busy. I’d like to still eventually be with her…”. It sounds like you need therapy (by yourself, NOT couples therapy). Your marriage is over. You can’t change other people. Your plan is counterproductive. Even if “all the kings horses and all the kings men” man…	/r/askMRP	12/03/24 04:42 AM
3	Just spent a week in hospital and not close to done. This is not the time for red pill. Get well. Love your kids. I hope that things go well from your surgery. Red pill sort of like investing for the long term, but first you have to eat today.	/r/askMRP	10/03/24 02:42 AM
0	Women cannot go back in lifestyle So people don’t like you. They only like your fake lifestyle? You need to meet other people or you need to increase your value as a person. Read the sidebar. No part of owning your shit and becoming better requires you to fake a lifestyle.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/24 05:35 PM
-1	Women cannot go back in lifestyle Everyone, male or female, young or old can adjust their lifestyle. It seems to be hardest for “beta-bucks” because their role is primarily to pick up the check. Be a man worth more than just money and you can adjust your lifestyle to live within your budget. Be a man worth more than just a check and your SO will also gladly make adjustments if necessary. If money is what is holding your relationships together, read the sidebar and do the work.	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/24 08:28 PM
3	Wanna pull yourself out of a victim mentality? Forget what majority preach, here's a much more realistic guide instead that will improve your mental health & Increase your mental staying power in adverse/uncomfortable situations I often have little control over the events that happen, but I have significant control over my response to those events. This is the part of the universe I control (at least partially). Detailed plans may help soothe our anxiety, but the ability to improvise and exercise self control will take through many surprises.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/24 04:31 AM
8	First LTR in a while.. lying. Read the sidebar.	/r/askMRP	08/02/24 04:15 AM
-3	💊 Therapists are Modern-day Religious Leaders 💊 A Girl's Friends are now her Family 💊 It was a disclaimer followed by a victimhood rant. Well adjusted women are not your enemy. Women with friends are not your enemy. They simply fail to find you attractive. Hit the gym then hit the books, and STFU. Mrsaveyourlife	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/24 09:18 PM
16	💊 Therapists are Modern-day Religious Leaders 💊 A Girl's Friends are now her Family 💊 This post is shit. Be a better man and own your shit. Look for ways to improve physically, mentally, socially, and emotionally, i.e. read the side bar. The reasons you are failing are not women with friends or therapists. This is worthless victim puke. If you don’t bring value to the relationship that is not the therapists or friends fault. OWN YOUR SHIT! And increase your value. Anything you blame for your failures that isn’t yourself (i.e. her friends or therapist) is just wasting your time. E…	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/24 07:44 PM
5	Religion became a wedge issue in my relationship. You wanted a submissive wife who accepts your patriarchal authority. The vast majority of women who believe that your gender confers on you some kind of patriarchal authority hold strong religious delusions. If you want a woman who is not delusional, then don’t screen for delusional women. If you want a woman so devoid of reason she will do whatever bullshit you say, yet smart enough she won’t fall for other people bull shit. You intend to earn her loyalty, and submission by having a penis? You …	/r/TheRedPill	02/01/24 09:56 PM
42	Chronic Fatigue - Please help I am a retired doctor. You mention that you have seen doctors and had some evaluation. Knowing more about what has been done would be helpful. CBC - are you anemic? TSH - is your thyroid functioning well? CMP - kidneys and liver function. ? Monospot. - Mono is a butt kicker. Long lasting. Should be tested. Do you have any special symptoms? Headache, body ache, fever, sore throat, nausea, vomitting, painful joints, rashes.	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/23 11:57 PM
13	What would it take for the world to recover from the modern degeneracy (i.e feminine men, hypersexual society, hypersexual media, etc) that impacts men? Your bitching and moaning is unattractive. Modern society is what is known as a target rich environment. If everybody else in class is stupid, becoming valedictorian is easy. If everybody else is weak and makes excuses, then men who own their shit and work to be their best selves have easy pickings. In the world of the blind the one eyed man is king. You whine and cast blame about how bad society is, and yet you still can’t find success. Stop crying and blaming and own your own shit. Society is …	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/23 11:45 PM
1	Should I STFU or address disrespect? None of this matters. You are both planning on divorce. The timing of your divorces looks too cute to me. You are waiting for her to get a job to decrease alimony payments. Just get it done, and move on with your life. If she lands a well compensated job in the future,then you can seek to have your payments adjusted. Trying to “win the divorce” is making you live like a chump. Divorce will suck, so get it done. With even a legal separation you already are in a much better position.	/r/askMRP	03/10/23 02:35 PM
1	Intimidation Charisma. You got this. For men this is not a beauty pageant. You sound like you have many things going your way. Confidence is not loud, or looking for trouble. Just quietly living a cool life that others would want to share.	/r/TheRedPill	19/09/23 05:06 AM
18	Why don’t you cum inside me this time? There is a famous story in the Old Testament. King David had a fling with Bathsheba while her husband was away at war. Turns out Bathsheba missed her period. David panics, then decides to invite her husband. Back from the war. He hopes this will adequately confuse the paternity. The guy would not go into his house. He said he refused to sleep in his bed while his men were at war. (He may have just been a very smart red pill man, and he knew something’s was amiss). David was so flummoxed that sen…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/09/23 01:04 AM
26	Talk to me nice or don't talk at all. Story checks out. You are a bitch and a pussy.	/r/askMRP	31/08/23 04:19 AM
2	Off-Topic: I have mission, an amazing life, but still no friends. Fiancee starting to notice OP, There is nothing wrong with being selective. From your post I gather that you are a busy man. School, work, gym, fiancé. Unless your GF is using you to gain access to your social circle, she is unlikely to care how large your social group is. My concern is that you want friends to gain the approval,of your GF. This is a dangerous mindset. Do things because they bring you joy, or because they are the right thing to do. You are not running for election. A good life is not a prize given for win…	/r/askMRP	17/08/23 05:57 PM
1	How to handle a disrespectful daughter Here it is on Amazon for $24. The author is Glenn Latham. https://www.amazon.com/Power-Positive-Parenting-Wonderful-Children/dp/1567131751/ref=sr\_1\_1?crid=2A3X3AAFEE2WO&keywords=the+power+of+positive+parenting&qid=1692200396&sprefix=the+power+of+positive+parenting%2Caps%2C154&sr=8-1	/r/askMRP	16/08/23 03:41 PM
2	How to handle a disrespectful daughter Purchase the book “the power of positive parenting”. Study it like your life depends on it.	/r/askMRP	16/08/23 01:23 AM
6	Having trouble getting over wife’s sexual past. You sound extremely well suited for each other.	/r/askMRP	13/08/23 01:54 AM
4	Let's discuss strategies and tricks to fake preselection. Well, for starters stop saying bitches. Are you 13? You are a douche canoe and for some reason think you will find sympathy here. Own your shit and stop behaving so unattractively. You sound like Ben Shapiro claiming women don’t get wet or orgasm. You are repellent because you are gross. Rule 1: be attractive Rule 2: don’t be unattractive. Read the side bar, own your shit and be a better man.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/23 06:02 AM
1	Your wife gets first crack at your libido Aloha is correct. If you are not attractive and do not have options, these are issues that must be addressed and fortunately can be addressed. In OP post he sounds attractive, but attractiveness has many factors.	/r/askMRP	14/07/23 03:45 PM
12	Feelings vs facts Your post is not logical. You feel distressed by her feelings.	/r/askMRP	12/07/23 02:58 PM
5	Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless / Shallow Goal? Not all sex is of equal value. High quality sex with a high quality person is too good for words. Lots of meaningless sex is actually fairly meaningless. This is an example: for many years I was a world class runner. I had a small box with medals I was proud of. The medals themselves were worth next to nothing. Their true value was what they signified and represented. If a person wants they can fill a room with tall trophies and good looking medals. You can just buy them online. Most are cheap a…	/r/TheRedPill	11/07/23 05:57 AM
4	Your wife gets first crack at your libido At the stage you are at you would likely find several good ideas in “the married man sex life” by Athol Kay. Here on askMRP we try to help each other. To do that we ask two things. Own your shit. always be working to be a better man. Will this fix your horrible sex life? Sometimes, but sometimes it won’t. If you are genuinely “the prize” then you may need to consider how you can improve your life. If sex is important to you (it is alright to acknowledge that it is or isn’t) then what are you doi…	/r/askMRP	11/07/23 02:13 AM
7	Practical Boundary Enforcement Help Here at askMRP we are trying to help each other. Here are some basic character traits we require of each other. This is the red pill part. Own your shit. This means we need to acknowledge our role in our situation. If you tolerate something then you have to own your shit. There is nothing you can do to change her, but with a hell of a lot of work you might be able to change yourself. Avoiding the hard work leads to worse problems. Everybody has seen a kid in a store throw a tantrum to get someth…	/r/askMRP	10/07/23 04:39 AM
8	Bad feeling my gf cheated at a concert- am I being insecure or are my doubts valid? If I understand correctly, your LDR we t to a concert. Somebody hit on her. She told you about it. You got your hamster heel spinning. You have no evidence that she was unfaithful or disrespectful. From your post I think I might see some issues you may need to consider. LDR. These are playing life on hard mode. On the rare occasion they wok, it is usually because the relationship did not begin as a LDR, but outside events forced it to become one for a relatively brief period of time. The relatio…	/r/askMRP	09/07/23 05:39 PM
2	How to handle this anger and abuse. Ignore bad behavior that is not dangerous, praise good behavior.	/r/askMRP	06/07/23 04:13 AM
4	How to respond to my wife's genuine anger at my sexual advances? One of the key parts of your journey is recognizing that if you change, your relationship will change. If you don’t change, it won’t either. For a newbie a good book is “Married Man Sex Life Primer” by Athol Kay. It will likely help you map out your plan to be a better captain of the ship. Here is some introductory advice. Do not talk about your plans or improvements. STFU. Do the work. Do the reading. You are already here looking for advice. Your situation can be so much better. You can and wil…	/r/askMRP	05/07/23 09:20 PM
3	Hitting the gym tonight. It sounds like you have a plan to become the prize. I wish you the best. Please give us an update. Let us know things that worked and did not work. You own your shit. You work to become a better man. I think you will do very well.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/07/23 01:55 PM
6	Hitting the gym tonight. Are you the prize? It sounds like she thinks her pussy is the prize. Enjoy the gym.	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/07/23 05:08 AM
2	Ditch Western Women If you lack red pill qualities in America, you will also lack red pill qualities in other countries. Owning your shit and being a better man is the red pill way. Moving to a country with fewer economic opportunities might help you find a sugar baby, but you won’t be more red pill. Finding women with fewer acceptable options does not make you a better man. Own your shit. Being a better man is hard AF. I don’t care if you move or stay, but owning your shit and becoming a better man can be done any…	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/23 09:32 PM
6	Ditch Western Women If you can’t make it in the major leagues, go enjoy playing in the minors. America has many high quality women. If you are not a high quality man, they won’t be interested in you. Option A: be a better man and own your shit. Option B: move to an economically impoverished country where it is easier to be a beta bucks. Pretend you moved because poor girls are better.	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/23 05:03 AM
8	What are the most commonly misunderstood TRP concepts for beginners (and even intermediate) guys in RP? \| Ask TRP The hardest thing for beginners is shutting the fuck up.	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/23 05:22 AM
49	How I Alpha’d My Psychiatrist Into Prescribing Me Meth The original red pill. Own your shit. Be a better man. The new red pill. I am so alpha that I take amphetamines so I can read and workout. This is why I’m better than you.	/r/TheRedPill	25/05/23 04:46 PM
1	What escorts taught me. This method of “taking pussy of the pedestal” makes no sense. Do you want to know how to get up at 6:00am? You get up at 6:00am. Do you want to know how to be a better man? Paying sex workers to sleep with you is not the way. OP has nothing of value to say. He is paying sex workers, yet offering advice here. The red pill is simple. “Own your shit” and “become a better man”. OP has done neither. Join him if you want. TRP May not be for you.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/23 01:59 AM
19	What escorts taught me. I am going to address the elephant in the room. Why do you think anyone would benefit from your point of view? Your story reeks of sadness. The original message of the redpoll was basically “own your shit” and “improve”. Go read some of the old posts. Work on yourself. But mostly pay attention to this advice while you do that, shut the fuck up.	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/23 03:19 AM
3	Death Of A Nation Sounds like you found your place. Have fun	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/23 06:56 PM
12	Death Of A Nation The point of this post seems to be that life is hard for men in the west so move to another place. I suppose that if you can’t make it in the majors you can hope to be a star in the minor leagues. If you can’t make your countries Olympic team you can move to Elbonia and hope to make theirs. In my opinion there are plenty of good people in America that are doing well. Times are tough, and they have always been tough. Society does dumb things now, and our great grandfathers were also surrounded by…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/23 02:01 AM
54	I feel like following RP advice will make me a monster. The red pill is not religious dogma. Your mileage may vary. In my humble opinion the red pill has strengths and weaknesses and each person needs to decide how to use it effectively for themselves. Example Strengths: It demands ownership of your choices and your life. The red pill does a great job of stopping men from whining about the hand they have been dealt. It demands we do the best we can. If you want to be attractive, that is a skill like many others. It can be learned, practiced, and dram…	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/22 02:17 AM
20	Men are trash Men who choose to play the victim have chosen their role in life. It sucks to suck. And Being awesome is not a burden, it is awesome. https://youtu.be/--X12_2T3Hw. Amanda “I will play the victim” Wednesday Adams. “All your life”. Jack Donaughy. “We all have ways of coping. I use sex and awesomeness. https://youtu.be/vNiB7NZ161g	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/22 01:37 AM
3	Am I being sh- tested? Suffice it to say she is not writing into Reddit to figure out how to fuck you.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/22 05:14 AM
2	How to hold frame at work? You are willing to blow up your great position and potentially damage your fathers position to get with this one girl. You have really put her on a pedestal. I hope you can see the issue here. “Soul mate?” WTF. You barely know her. You have idealized her in your mind. If she hooks up with you while committed to someone else, then she is not loyal. That is what you consider a soulmate? “What if this girl came In to my life to serve this purpose (wealth)”? ? ? You are a danger to yourself and othe…	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/22 03:27 AM
3	CorporateLand: Don’t Kill the Job v. Quiet Quitting. I read the Gervais Principle. According to it I am a sociopath. Founded my business and made it great. It was by far the best in its field. I worked with great people, and to do that I fired those that were not great. I grew it to a large size. Sold it for a large sum. Now I have money and invest for a living. I earn great returns, with no employees, no customers, and 100% control of my time. Basically I eat what I kill. I do not waste my time growing someone else's business, or hoping for recog…	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/22 08:11 PM
4	CorporateLand: Don’t Kill the Job v. Quiet Quitting. This is blue pill advice. Red pill. Be fantastic at whatever you do. Don’t kiss ass to climb the corporate ladder. Do your job as a true expert. Be passionate about your work, your play, and your fucking. You will always be in demand. A true passionate expert is respected and in demand at work, and in bed.	/r/TheRedPill	16/09/22 05:29 AM
2	Let's stop saying "looks don't matter" because they absolutely do to the vast majority of people In other news the pope is catholic and bears it in the woods. This is a TRP for short bus people. The most blue pill man in the world understands this.	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/22 03:57 AM
7	Are you working out or “working out”. No-not-this. This is the cringiest post I have seen on here. What kind of person spends time judging people at the gym. I assume this is a troll post.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/22 02:57 AM
1	This girl said she ‘doesn’t do this often’ but said she on the pill when I drew for the rubbers You are an idiot. The sub you are looking for is r/whatcouldgowrong.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 09:40 PM
147	(Delusional) 'Independent' Women I don’t want to ruin the vibe, but you would be shocked how many men don’t know these things either.	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/21 12:55 AM
15	Want Her to Come Over? Have More to Offer Than just Sex The storyline is simple. Men want better sex. Women want better men.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 08:16 PM
2	Self-Improvement - Big Pond or Small Pond? Which one is best for growing? This is a question only you can answer. In many ways the answer to the question depends on much you care what others think of you. It also dependon what you need to be proud of your efforts. Often the size of the pond is irrelevant. Contentment is a virtue that can be easily under appreciated.	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/05/21 05:28 AM
5	New life Direction and rebuilding a life after total collapse I have passed through some difficult things, yet my trials are far less painful than what you have been through. I have been reading the writings of the stoics. It has been helpful to me. You are on Reddit, so you might enjoy reading some of the good posts on the stoic site. That you have survived this year shows how strong you are.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/10/20 10:44 PM
6	How do you not get jealous hearing about guys your age who are way more successful with women? I don’t know if this means anything to you, but at 21 I was also a “kissless virgin”. It seemed to me that other people were so comfortable with the opposite sex, while I felt awkward. I had some excellent friends, but no significant other. Dating felt awkward, but I was involved in some very fun projects. Fast forward to 23. I met an amazing girl. Talking with her was so easy. Smart, beautiful, fun, kind. Today our kids are all in college. I love being married to her. Don’t stress the timeline.…	/r/seduction	15/08/20 11:42 PM
9	I shittested girls for the past month. Learnt that girls have absolutely 0 self-esteem and are just a few words away from lashing at you. It is hard to believe you are this bad at life, and want to blame your sociopathy on TRP. You need help.	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/20 02:19 PM
2	Fuck... the body... Thanks for sharing your knowledge, and reminding us about the power in humility and in strength n	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/06/19 01:55 AM