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I'm having just a shitty week, gonna do my best to go out and have some fun this weekend and meet a few girls. If i don't i'm just gonna feel even worse. Time to sack up.
/r/seduction09/12/15 06:16 AM
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Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction27/01/15 06:37 PM
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This is definitely something I have to work on. Thanks for the tip.
/r/seduction27/01/15 06:31 PM
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Hey man, you have done well so far! You sound a lot like your overthinking this. She asked you to hang out after your date? Good, that means she is interested, and probably just as nervous as you are. Just take things easy. Joke around with her, compliment her, and if the date goes well, plant a kiss right on her lips. Just have fun with her, let us know how the date goes.
/r/seduction18/01/15 08:34 AM
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Your only 19 dude. The "game" can be very intimidating for those who are just starting out. When I first came to college, I was awkward as fuck around girls, so I made a huge effort to put myself in social situations with them. I didn't try to date, fuck, or anything with them, I just wanted to get comfortable around them. Only once I was comfortable around them did I start to worry about things like dating and such. Although I'm not the most experienced guy on here, I can guarantee that if you …
/r/seduction18/01/15 12:31 AM
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You can't expect to be an expert right off the bat. These guys have been at it for years. Hell i'm still a fucking noob at this and I've been visiting this sub for close to 2 years. Game takes practice and time, just like one day in the gym won't make you huge. Break it down into smaller steps. Realize that women are people too. There not mythical creatures, they take smelly shits just like you do. One thing that helped me get more comfortable around girls was just making friends with them, gett…
/r/seduction01/10/14 04:57 AM
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Sounds like fun. I'm in.
/r/seduction21/09/14 03:57 PM
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cardio if you don't eat enough, you will lose mass.
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:12 PM
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Its not going to be easy, its going to be difficult. Your going to have to put in the effort. Stay motivated, keep trying, don't quit. Your miles ahead of the vast majority of frustrated men out there. You have to learn to roll with the punches if you want to be successful. Keep your head up bud, and whenever you feel like giving up: don't fucking do it.
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:19 AM
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Looks like you need some more friends brotha.
/r/seduction17/06/13 12:48 PM
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I would strongly recommend that you check out bodybuilding.com's big man on campus videos on youtube. Seriously, this guy knows his stuff. Start here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdg3AYIr4pc Remember, NEVER skip legs day.
/r/seduction20/05/13 12:11 AM
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You rock it. I'm assuming you are already very comfortable with the look, and I believe that's half the battle. I'm going to assume you have been hitting the gym, have a decent tan, and are overall well kept after. If you aren't then it is time to start doing those things. If you can, grow a little facial hair, if not don't worry about it, its no big deal. People will look at you differently no matter what, not necessarily in a negative sense, just differently. Work on that inner game first. Own…
/r/seduction19/05/13 11:17 PM
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Former (maybe still slightly awkward here and there) freshmen here: I was stressing big time before move in day (more than I care to elaborate on...) and as soon as I got into town and saw everybody on move in day, all that anxiety vanished. The place felt like home in a few days to me. That awkward around girls person that used to be me still clung onto me for a bit though, but I managed to just power through it by getting out of my comfort zone. I made friends with girls. I forced myself to ge…
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:36 PM
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I disagree, OP should try and help his buddy out, rather than kick his buddy to the curb. It sucks that he is a game killer but losing a friend sucks.
/r/seduction21/04/13 05:47 PM
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Seddit must know and be inspired.
/r/seduction21/04/13 04:54 PM
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My fixation on sex has diminished so much it is crazy. I came to college a social idiot who hadn't even kissed a girl in his life. Here I am 6 months later with a girlfriend who is falling in love with me, who tells me she will give it up once I say those magic three words. Suddenly, sex isn't such a big deal to me, because I know that I have the ability to make it happen. All of my friends are like "Dude, what happened to you? You seem much less anxious now." I tell them that I CAN get girls no…
/r/seduction09/04/13 03:08 PM
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I agree, I should have pointed out that there are many things that one can do to slash their chances of getting women in college.
/r/seduction01/04/13 05:32 AM
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While you do still need game in college, it is much easier. In college, your in what I call a "target rich" enviorment, filled with oportunity. There are a lot of girls running around (unless you go to an engineering school), a lot of parties, and nobody knows anyone. Once you get out of school, the amount of opportunities you have with women will likely go down if you are not careful. College gives you ample opportunity to try, get knocked down, and try again. So in a way, it is easier in Colle…
/r/seduction01/04/13 05:16 AM
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Note to self: act more like Craig Ferguson. Guy has some pretty round wheels.
/r/seduction29/03/13 10:45 PM
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Its only gonna get better from here man!
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:24 PM
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Awesome job dude! This post has just made me recount how far I have come aswell. My brother noticed how I've become such a different person than I was in High School (for the better), I used to be a true afc at the begging of my freshmen year of college, and gradually things have started to snowball in the right direction. I owe a lot of it to Seddit. I used to be a little bitch, no more. I've still got a long road ahead of me, but I improve every day.
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:45 AM
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You got it man! You can do it! I used to be a basket case around girls. You will be fine!
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:28 PM
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You fake it until you make it then. I know that seems like the answer for everything but projecting confidence is the key to success with women.
/r/seduction03/03/13 07:04 PM
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Its all about shifting the focus off of your own in experience back onto her if you are self-conscious about your intact virginity. If you are a young man, chances are high that you might be.
/r/seduction03/03/13 07:01 PM
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Teasing literly got me my current girlfriend, the same girl who told me we were just friends a few weeks before. A powerful tool if used correctly...
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:49 AM
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Fuck yeah. If I could go back in time and give myself a high-5 for taking a weights class I would. Every time I take my shirt off I have a surge of confidence, because I know I look like a greek god compared to a lot of guys out there. And i mean that in the least douchy way possible.
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:46 AM
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First off, thank you for bringing a different perspective to the table. I can agree 100% with what everyone else is saying. If your attractive, this will be a hell of a lot easier than if your 300 lbs. That being said, I have experienced the intimidation effect before. Here I am crunk as fuck and I see a girl I know. I try and game her a bit but she isn't giving off good IOIs when suddenly she pulls a complete 180. Thats when this beautiful girl (a model) starts getting all up on me. Next thing …
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:30 AM
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This subreddit is for Gentlemen trying to better themselves, men that were not born naturals. These are NOT tricks you idiot. These are tactics that help men grow socially with women. Relationships/sex are a byproduct of men learning how to correctly socialize with a women. That is all the "PUA" movement is, not some tricks to fucking manipulate a girl into coming home with you.
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:12 AM
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Don't text that girl ever again unless she texts you first. Move onto bigger and better things friend.
/r/seduction23/02/13 11:04 PM
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Just relax. Your over thinking it. At this point if what you have said is true she will be in the palm of your hand. Your not getting rejected tonight. Don t even worry about her. Just relax and have a good time, things will fall into place. Have fun. If you must, have a few drinks but DO NOT get wasted, just mellow/buzzed. Alcohol is a crutch that you must remove if you want success. You got this.
/r/seduction23/02/13 08:59 PM
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While I agree 100% that its normal to get rejected a bunch, but we NEED success in order to keep moving forward. I know exactly what OP is talking about. Sure it sucks getting rejected 8/10 times but those 2 times of NOT getting rejected are what keeps us going. Without those 2 success it is very hard to keep trying, there is nothing keeping you going. There is only the pain of getting rejected and nothing positive coming your way from all the hard work. Would you still go to the gym if you neve…
/r/seduction23/02/13 08:46 PM
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10 minites on the treadmill? Good job but if you wish to see resaults take a weights class/personal trainer. Easily the best thing i did in high school. You only get out what you put in when it comes to getting in shape. The hardest part is sticking with it at the start. It can be hard to find motivation but keep at it. Like anything seduction, getting in shape, playing guitar, etc you need practice to get good. Good luck man.
/r/seduction04/02/13 01:40 AM
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You didn't do too bad! sure you didn't close, but its all about the little steps that are in the process. You were able to go out with just the two of you and have a good time, and a lot of beginners (myself included) have only recently been able to do that. You are comfortable enough with girls to start putting what you read on here into practice. Roll with the punches, get shot down, get up, go for it again, and make moves. You can do it man, Seddit is behind you. Now go fourth my son.
/r/seduction31/01/13 10:17 PM
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You improvise, you find the best possible haircut, always groom yourself, and hit the gym BIG TIME. I know I sound like a broken record, but experiencing what it is like to KNOW that you look great with your shirt off is a gigantic boost. It takes years of hard work but it is absolutely worth it.
/r/seduction30/01/13 02:20 AM
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Glad I have standards, if a chick is too drunk its a fucking no go
/r/seduction17/01/13 01:21 AM
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I've had a bunch of friends last either too long or not even bust the first time oddly enough. Doesn't even seem possible. Well see if it happens to me.
/r/seduction03/01/13 03:14 AM
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I've also heard that it feels better for her if she is on top as well. Best of both worlds I guess.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:45 PM
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It feels really great. I can go around, free from all the high school bullshit and just be me.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:44 PM
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It totally makes sense in my opinion. If a women is good looking, she is going to get hit on like crazy. All she has to do is pick which guy she wants. In theory, women like that would have a lot more sex than most guys because they don't really have to try, it just comes to them.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:40 PM
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Kino is a fancy term for touching a girl in a way that helps you seduce them. You do it to break the touch barrier. I can't really go into depth but if there are any other terms you don't know there is a thread in the sidebar that goes into depth on all the jargon.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:37 PM
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What are some things that I can do to help perform better my first time? It would be nice if I could last at least a minute as funny as it sounds. I'm worried about "blowing up on the launchpad" Granted, I'll cross that bridge when I get to it but there must be something I can do.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:33 PM
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This is one thing that I still experience as well. I've finally gotten over my anxiety around girls in general but in the early stages I think I did a good job hiding it for the most part. I'm by absolutely no means experienced but little by little experience is being gained. I'm definitely a much more confident person than I was when I first got to college.
/r/seduction01/01/13 07:29 PM
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If you actually really wanted my number, were interested, and actually planned to shoot me a text or call over the next few days then sure don't play games and just ask for it. Not something I would say is weird though. Some guys aren't as quick to show their interest toward a girl.
/r/seduction29/12/12 12:20 AM
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Agreed. In my opinion, you can be the pack leader without being a total douche. There is a fine line between alpha and tool. Tread carefully.
/r/seduction22/12/12 09:22 PM
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I'm still gonna go with the classic "nice shoes, wanna fuck" 100% of the time I get slapped in the face... but TONIGHT it shall work! just kidding. Don't use that one.
/r/seduction21/12/12 03:01 AM
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Your obviously very experienced. Any tips/words of wisdom for someone who is ready to get to work?
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:29 AM
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Nothing can beat face-to-face interaction with a women. It can be utilized quite effectively to set up dates and such but beyond that, face-to-face is the way to go.
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:22 AM
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You sir deserve a medal!
/r/seduction16/12/12 07:10 PM
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It was a guy named Mitch.
/r/seduction16/12/12 07:10 PM
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Its not like my friends look down on me either fortunately, it just feels weird being in my situation I guess
/r/seduction06/12/12 02:49 AM
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Your absolutely right. Its time to man the fuck up. Thank You -matt
/r/seduction04/12/12 10:46 PM
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Valid point, however not worrying about girls got me into this mess in the first place. I'm a very late bloomer. Everyone has told me not to worry so much but in all honesty the clock is ticking. One after another my friends have started losing their virginities and I don't feel like I have made as much headway as I want to yet. Granted, it is a process. I should have been interested in girls in middle school instead, I was so mortified that the thought of actually getting a girl even as a frien…
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:36 PM
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thanks for the advice, but its not that I'm a nervous wreck around girls all the time. Granted I get nervous, but not nearly as much as I used too. The people I hang around with are MUCH more experienced with girls than I am, like in a whole other league. I'm the "innocent" one of the bunch. And I fucking hate it. Don't get me wrong, there my friends and I love hanging out with them but I really need to get on there level haha.
/r/seduction04/12/12 07:30 PM
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Very valid point. I forgot to mention that as much as I love to go out with my friends, I'm actually very uncomfortable in that setting. That is, unless I'm really drunk. The truth is that i'm just uncomfortable around lots of people I don't know. I know it takes time, hell I hardly partied at all in high school, its just frustrating. But I WILL keep at it.
/r/seduction04/12/12 05:00 AM
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If only every girl realized this. The point is to find a happy medium, which is a challenge for a lot of guys out there. I'm one of them.
/r/seduction04/12/12 03:52 AM
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Don't become an asshole, but don't be a total pushover. Its all about finding the happy medium
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:15 AM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:38 AM
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Thanks for all the help guys it really means a lot!
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:37 AM
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I definitely agree with you. I'm generally an extremely likeable drunk lol but if I get shot down a few too many times the sadness kinda pours out lol. Happened while I was visiting a friend at another university. Had an awesome night but I just kinda broke down. I don't think my friends realized how much not getting anywhere with girls was truly bothering me until that. But that alone gives me a hell of a lot of motivation to change for the better.
/r/seduction19/11/12 10:30 PM
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Yeah definitly. Its just getting these first bunch is what is hard. Instead of getting a surge of motivation when I see a girl that I am into, instead of approaching her and talking to her, I just kinda shut down and don't go for it. I can tell the anxiety must be pretty bad if a few drinks doesn't really lesson it that much. Once again I know you guys are really against drinking and going after girls so I should probably stop trying to use alcohol as a crutch when going out.
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:48 AM
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I feel you and I aren't so diffrent. I'm also just starting out my seddit journey buy based off of my limited experience I think your still in good shape. The date went well, except for the last part (maybe). It was only the first date dude. Take her on another and really try to make a move next time. I'm sure your gonna get better advice than this, but I hope this helps. Keep at it and may the mack be with you.
/r/seduction12/11/12 03:05 PM
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Never really thought about that before. I think your over thinking this a bit. Interesting thought though. Maybe someone has the anxiety you describe.
/r/seduction12/11/12 01:31 AM
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Congrats! Be proud of what you achieved! You have to be confident in yourself before you can go out and be a Casanova. Your biggest enemy is your own mind. Over time i'm sure that you will become more confident in your new body and the confidence will follow. But yes try as hard as you can to fake it and really put yourself out there. Talk to as many girls as you can. Gradually you will become more and more comfortable with girls. its gonna take time but keep at it. congrats again dude!
/r/seduction12/11/12 01:13 AM
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Mine happened a week ago at a Halloween party. Ever seen the pursuit of happiness? You know the part where he gets the job. I felt THAT happy, without the crying. I needed it bad. Congrads man!
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:57 AM
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Good job my friend! Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life. Keep at it!
/r/seduction07/11/12 07:08 AM
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