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its crudely stated but its not wrong...
/r/seduction25/09/10 03:11 AM
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THIS. Look up lap dance tips for dudes on youtube, or instructions on how to perform lapdances im sure there's gotta be some - then id say you have to options - do it in a funny way, with some punchlines (like dropping on your back and acting like youre pedaling a bike or something stupid like that) - or go the tease route, really depends on your persona. Also i wouldnt say you REALLY avoided the friend zone, another useful idea here - is the complete stop post someone made recently http://www.r…
/r/seduction25/09/10 03:00 AM
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i get why this was downvoted - but keep in mind - showing vulnerability and ability to fail graciously creates a HUGE amount of benevolence.
/r/seduction24/09/10 02:29 AM
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solid
/r/seduction21/09/10 03:40 AM
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You're on the right track. Keep working on it. The girl that said her friend thought you were cute - you can bang both of them but you kind of need to be really on top of your game for that read jlaix.
/r/seduction20/09/10 08:22 AM
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One more thing - use these comments and advice, as a general guideline and a start to a brainstorm - i dont know you, your situation, the girl etc, so the statements i make are pretty general. While its true that if you use my advice word for word nothing too negative will probably happen, but still - when i read PU material i try to think for yourself and be objective, and judge the situation on its own terms. Having said that - as a beginner PUA you need to take risks and sometimes fail, thats…
/r/seduction19/09/10 11:15 PM
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define "against you". Dude - youre totally overthinking this way too much. Kino ideas - just like you can easily become the chatty guy by talking to literally everyone when its appropriate and when its not. You can become the kino guy that lightly touches people when speaks to them - this is not a logical thing. Its an emotional thing for example - you can start hugging EVERYONE hello, dudes and girls. In europe and south america when opposite gender people meet they kiss either one or both chee…
/r/seduction19/09/10 11:04 PM
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kino in the social situation comes before isolation. Put your arm around her shoulders or play some kino games w/ her that require you touch her hands (nothing rough though). 2. Say - hey i got an idea come with me. Once you're out say - i just wanted to talk to you outside of there then just look at her eyes from a little bit less than a foot away if you did the kino part right - you'll be making out w/ her then.
/r/seduction19/09/10 06:15 PM
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Pace the #2. Talk to her more, get her to engage you - i expect you can get at least 3 conversation in 5 days. Once you're doing this let her know whatever plan you have and give her the option to join - such as - after about 5-10 minutes of chit chat, say something like - "listen #2, im going to starbucks 10 blocks away from school, unless you need to be somewhere you can follow me there and we can keep talking or we can chat later. " You said social situation - so you can always make your frie…
/r/seduction19/09/10 06:11 PM
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sounds like you were too stifled, too in your head. What I would've done - get much much more loose, and start dancing bigger and bigger, take up more and more space, also demonstrate that im having fun and do lots of self deprecating moves just kind of act a bit crazy but also try to have fun and stay within the beat and put in some legitimate moves, also be the entertainer, instead of having a chat with your body, mime a striptease for the girl who is the 8. In the club, especially on the danc…
/r/seduction19/09/10 06:00 AM
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it can
/r/seduction19/09/10 04:26 AM
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Another thing! Learn to view the bible emotionally and not just logically :) sadly - thats how it gets perverted, people grab on to what they want to hear and use it as means to get their ends, you seem like a smart, critically thinking person, so you must realize that GAME, and PU are not logical, theyre much more non- linear, right- mind (brain hemesphere) constructs, and as such rely much more on irrational emotional content than on cold logic, knowledge, and facts. Keep learning and keeping …
/r/seduction19/09/10 03:06 AM
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Great! you have the right mind set. Keep at it. You did nothing wrong :) you are TOTALLY ON THE RIGHT TRACK keep it up:)
/r/seduction19/09/10 02:59 AM
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indeed, some of the best seduction stories come from very conservative/religious countries, the arab/muslim world, and japan!
/r/seduction19/09/10 02:58 AM
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DUDE - stop thinking like a guy. I use the my little statement with girls 5 years my senior. Its the frame not the exact meaning of the words :)
/r/seduction19/09/10 02:57 AM
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you dont seem to contradict me at all. Perhaps i wasnt clear. Meditation is to establish a habit of separating yourSELF from your thoughts and stories your mind tells YOUR SELF. The questioning and examination is to undo the demage and existing self defeating beliefs.
/r/seduction19/09/10 02:56 AM
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dude!!!! TRUST YOURSELF!!!. you actually dont need our advice!!! if you know the bible, and you know the structures of PU, you're set!!! you can help us more than we can help you!! just use you knowledge and perfect it, with practice and analysis of what works what doesnt. It will take practice but you are more than OK, you're ahead of many guys here. Its actually a bit scary to think of your potential. Please dont end up a cult leader. Other than that have fun. We all have some challenges, your…
/r/seduction19/09/10 02:54 AM
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What are you passionate about??? Whats YOUR area of expertise?? Tie that into the larger outlook on life. Passion trumps IQ.
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:43 PM
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Meditate. Question every little story and statement your mind produces. Look up Byron Katie and her worksheets. Do them daily. [EDIT] Sorry i wrote that one as a sentence. It should have been more like NUMBER 1. MEDITATE. Number 2. Examine your thoughts and beliefs in a structured DISCIPLINED way.
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:42 PM
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Dont appologize. You can still be awkward. Treat her like an old friend or a little sister, lots of playful physical contact. Keep repeating things like: "wow you are too adorable", "you are my new little sister", "im totally adopting you", "you are awesome im going to hook you up with some of cool friends" etc... hope that helps.
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:41 PM
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It is part of learning process. Its fine. Its not a mistake. DONT OVERTHINK HOW THIS WILL REFLECT WITHIN YOUR CIRCLE !!!! It doesnt matter. You decide how it will play out, worst case scenario - you go out - and get a new social circle. You're in charge of your social circle, not your sc in charge of you. YOU can literally do it with every one of your friends - its really hard to do but it is possible.
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:38 PM
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you're overthinking this. Anna or Cindy? Your first REACTION (not thought) is the right one.
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:34 PM
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i dig it
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:32 PM
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Vaccine is available. Bring up the vaccine first. Find out if they had it. Then disclose. Take the high road always.
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:29 PM
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you can still get laid, you just needed to play a different game. Basically you cant easily, take the seduction stuff out of the box and use it there (most time, you could if you're satisfied with playing LARGE numbers), same principles apply but you must gear your game to people have different set of external and sometimes core beliefs than the people to whom most game was geared. One thing i'd do if i were you - is - do the work to cut through the bullshit and find the parts of the bible you c…
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:25 PM
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tackle anger and sadness - watch videos on meditation and listen to some eckhart tolle - he gives you the steps - its simple but not easy. start meditating 5 mins 2ice daily. Then get to the point where you can meditate at least 30 mins straight. Find activities you're passionate about and do them. Meet likeminded people through that. Become social, TALK. TO. EVERYONE. ALWAYS. What do you like? As in to do?
/r/seduction17/09/10 01:46 AM
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hi newly introduced girl... enjoy the show.
/r/seduction17/09/10 01:42 AM
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Dont get all relationshipy. Dont lose frame control. If you lose it do it graciously and gracefully. Then regain it. Bring value. SUB-communicate constant scarcity. DO NOT GET NEEDY like youre doing right now. Keep gaming other girls - not to get laid but to keep sharp and keep your edge. Always approach her - as if you "dont have her" and still trying to seduce her. Be fun at all times (especially at the more serious romantic situations). Do not allow romantic inertia to drive the moment YOURE …
/r/seduction17/09/10 01:37 AM
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Show intent. Minimize woo. Dont try TOO hard to entertain her or be a clown. Be assertive, and demonstrate, via kino, intense presence, that youre interested in her in more than as just a buddy.
/r/seduction14/09/10 06:54 AM
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Despite major regrets in retrospect, the kino stopped then. id say dont stop the kino until you get more of a clear sign that you're bringing it on too much, like a repeated pull back. Its just part of demonstrating intent.
/r/seduction14/09/10 06:52 AM
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To catch a predator with Chris Hansen? Great for shock value, but you better be able to deliver with massive level of self deprecating humor attitude ...
/r/seduction14/09/10 06:49 AM
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Upvoted for the use of the word Minsk.
/r/seduction14/09/10 06:48 AM
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have you read it?
/r/seduction14/09/10 06:45 AM
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How old are you? To answer your questions: relax. Go on the date, if you get nervous ACKNOWLEDGE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and then move on. When she jokingly said you sound nervous - should have been - "you got me :) i get like that like that around new people sometimes" then tell her a story about how you were nervous but still ended up DHVing somehow, like you were on this job interview and you were really nervous and when the guy asked you how much money you expected you just blurted out 3…
/r/seduction14/09/10 04:20 AM
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pivots:)
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:10 AM
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haha word! I NOTICED IT TOO. Thats why i go by binary scale 1s f*able and 0s not (though GAME should be played differently between an 8 and a 6 even).
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:08 AM
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THIS:)
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:07 AM
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Read Impro by keith johnstone, he answers your question in painstaking detail (the book is about improv acting not PU) one of the exercises he mentions is acting higher status/lower status to inanimate objects :)
/r/seduction14/09/10 03:05 AM
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disregard wooing. demonstrate INTENT. thats what the other really smart engineering guys will lack
/r/seduction14/09/10 01:43 AM
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Thanks! Good work.
/r/seduction14/09/10 01:38 AM
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There is a bit of a sales pitch there. Also he does make it palatable for complete AFCs. Either way dude, your question is a bit incongruous, because basically you need motivational help, not PU help, so may be worth while to check out Tony Robbins or something... Wish i could be of more help :(
/r/seduction14/09/10 01:36 AM
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learn to go long. Its an important skill. Listen to adam carollas - "what cant adam complain about" (people call in, or audience members throw out crazy shit, and he has to complain about it - and you know what he's never been stumped, also he is a comedian so not only is he complaining - its funny as hell). Its an improv game he created, thats take off on basic improv form of "ranting". It really makes no difference what you say and how it relates to your prop, the main part she likes YOU. With…
/r/seduction14/09/10 01:29 AM
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yeah - develop your own lingo, so if you get called out on at least you wont seem unoriginal :)
/r/seduction14/09/10 01:25 AM
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anytime:)
/r/seduction14/09/10 01:24 AM
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it IS sales
/r/seduction13/09/10 06:34 AM
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good work you did the exact right thing - in fact - if anything this should be the MO -- arrive early, open someone - get warmed, get the social proof all ready :)
/r/seduction13/09/10 06:34 AM
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to salvage - stammer - and act like youre flustered :) .... though its a tuff one
/r/seduction13/09/10 06:31 AM
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just remember that girls shoot down guys all the time..
/r/seduction13/09/10 05:49 AM
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ask them about them - are you a runner? the research shows that bare foot running is more optimal because bla bla bla joke bla bla joke hey you know what else is good for running coffee not for running but for muscle recovery really - what do you say we continue this at the bla bla coffee place...
/r/seduction13/09/10 03:40 AM
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you sound like you're overthinking it. First of all between 25 [edit: AND 18] theres not that much difference except they'll be really immature at your interactions. Second theres absolutely no problem approaching them, try to minimize the canned question approach. Best use something situational, also use a comment not a question. You ask a question - she answers with a curt 'no' and you got nothin. Assess the situation and make a comment - if its something a bit funny sarcastic or funny the bet…
/r/seduction13/09/10 03:36 AM
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its amazing that guys still dont understand that anything they read through a mass disseminated channel like a book or even online article can at worst used as a template and generally is just meant to generate ideas... to use that shit verbatim is beyond retarded and those guys deserve to be shutdown mercilessly...
/r/seduction13/09/10 03:30 AM
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anything on inner game. If you can download the Blueprint - IT will have a lot of what you're looking for
/r/seduction12/09/10 06:49 PM
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another follow up question: is your pu persona different from your core self? Do you feel like youre putting on a bit of an act when you pu?
/r/seduction12/09/10 09:14 AM
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word
/r/seduction11/09/10 10:05 PM
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When there's a natural lull in tension (such as cuddling after sex), [EDIT2: i assume you had sex with all 4, and thats what you normally do, let me know if thats not the case..] instead of keeping her on her toes - just be your normal self, and let the natural romantic mood drive the situation and play out naturally. Instead of controlling the situation and the frame. I'm not saying do this in an afc, or supplicative way, just let things go uncontrolled and be natural. [EDIT: conversely to keep…
/r/seduction11/09/10 10:01 PM
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It really depends on the situation, while all the concerns you've expressed are totally valid if its a social gathering like a party or bar, many of these concerns can be summarily dismissed with nothing more than tone of voice and jokey line - such as - putting my arm around the wing, looking at her eyes and saying "gretchen is a dear dear friend" winking at the wing, and saying "really, like a sister, annoying little sister" then sort of awkwardly backtracking and saying "well that would be we…
/r/seduction11/09/10 09:21 PM
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OK. PU is like a time compressed version of the relationship. You need to do everything you do during a good pickup, only - instead of doing over the course of a couple of hours you do it over the course of several months. So - be surprising. Dont take shit or compromise your core beliefs. Bring value (dont just demonstrate higher value). Also remember to be present and not be a fucking robot like many newly minted PUAs tend to be. Also - pay attention to reality (you seem to be doing that to so…
/r/seduction11/09/10 09:05 PM
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pace and lead (mirror and lead). if you dont know what that means search for it and read up on it... or ask to elaborate :)
/r/seduction11/09/10 08:54 PM
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1 way to be from the bay area bro :) 2 you're totally overanalyzing it dude (unless the statement >"Well probably stick" indicates that she is buying something for both of you???) 3 its not a shit test. Respond by calling her tacky in a joking way and change the subject and just move on :)
/r/seduction11/09/10 08:52 PM
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I want some big 'dude you got this already, chill out' type of material but that doesn't exist. while i like the skateboarding analogy, i still dont really understand what exactly do you need, or what your challenge is?? What are you trying to find?? Even the quote above doesnt make it clear to me. What are you trying to find dude?
/r/seduction11/09/10 08:48 PM
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Yes - myself :). But seriously most coaches charge for on going advice on relationship maintenance. Could you be more specific about what you're looking for? Are you trying to read a how to? Or do you need specific questions answered?? The thing with LTR's is they dont lend themselves to formulas as easily the way PU does. But only to some extent.
/r/seduction11/09/10 08:43 PM
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Indeed, a big part of learning PU is learning what to have done differently in the same situation, otherwise you're just showing off :)
/r/seduction11/09/10 08:39 PM
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Another point about couchsurfing, i used to hang out with a few people that were big into couchsurfing.org community, one was a mediator, id say - play a more passive game with the couchsurfers, and put them in the position to pursue you, or use them as pivots. You seem to be doing this already to some extent. But the reason for this is that there's quite a few people that use couchsurfing as "a dating service" according to my friend who's the mediator, and you dont want to be that stereotype, j…
/r/seduction11/09/10 08:33 PM
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awesome! you seem like you know what you want (and according to gi joe-thats half the battle :).
/r/seduction11/09/10 08:27 PM
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Speaking for myself only - you're most welcome. I suspect most guys will be happy to have you, but the internet being what it is you may (or may not) get some haters. Anyway i think your intro is retarded cute... i mean asking permission? really? CUTE OVERLOAD. Having said all that girl on girl game is a bit different (but probably not by much), i remember reading posts about girls who specialize in seducing straight girls - was really interesting, wish i had the link...
/r/seduction10/09/10 08:30 PM
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You're welcome :). Very interesting. Thanks for the blog link. Follow up question - is that liz girl one of the HBs you are talking about?
/r/seduction10/09/10 08:24 PM
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wow. way to have a low self esteem dude. you're NO WHERE NEAR BLOWING IT. Here's a challenge for you - kiss close her before exchanging numbers/make her # close YOU!
/r/seduction10/09/10 12:32 AM
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To start with - from your language it sounds like you have some self limiting beliefs, referring to doubts about your skill level, and pronouncements about what you're better at, and your story reads like you were being a bit too mechanical. So - (1) just focus on the success stories you've had, and more importantly focus on the moments in your past game when POSITIVELY SURPRISED yourself - that should get you out of your head just a bit. (2) Best thing to counter a mechanical vibe - is - to exp…
/r/seduction10/09/10 12:29 AM
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talk to everyone. bring value always (every thing you say - should bring some value). take an improv comedy class.
/r/seduction09/09/10 06:08 AM
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hey im 100% with you on the sentiment, but (in all likelyhood) you weren't (pralyzingly) socially awkward, disconnected guy, with no solid social circle to guide you through the incongruous patterns of establishing relationships or getting a piece of ass. What im saying is - "seduction community" really - an industry, was formed, because so many nerds found themselves with no friends or no strong male models, or pretty much any way to get to a point where they could create an environment in whic…
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:04 AM
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solid. i say do it :)
/r/seduction08/09/10 11:58 PM
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"I feel like a fucking creeper" while you dont NEED clubs and bars, the fact that you feel like a creeper is a problem, it indicates inability to reframe. Learn reframing and really understand it. In this culture bars and clubs are social gathering places, to be well rounded you should be unstifled and comfortable in your skin no matter what. it would just make you a better pua. So while its not a requirement by any means, just for your own sake, id say learn to reframe club/bar experiences into…
/r/seduction04/09/10 10:01 PM
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watch youtube dancing instructions vids. read up on dancing game it exists. take a class or two. find the girls that no one's dancing with and PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE (even if uggos, or fatties). to put this in perspective - surfing - average surf ride lasts less than 20 seconds, it takes months and months of dedicated trying to get to the point of just consistently catching waves, let alone having quality rides. Dancing's easier than surfing. So just practice. AND HAVE A GOOD TIME... if your…
/r/seduction04/09/10 09:49 PM
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wow. awesome story! good stuff. Open with this "hey NAME, i dont need help with cougars, hope you're ok with just hanging out :) anyway how you been?"
/r/seduction04/09/10 09:38 PM
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how tall is your buddy?
/r/seduction04/09/10 09:27 PM
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yes. one must be a complete imbecile. in fact retards are best PUAs - what you didnt know? what dope you are
/r/seduction04/09/10 09:16 PM
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i didnt downvote you but in case you're wondering, you probably got downvoted for sounding like a starry eyed optimist, with the kind of attitude, which served as the catalyst to the backlash, which underlies the seduction industry of which seddit is a part of.... just sayin :)
/r/seduction04/09/10 08:59 PM
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Dont stop talking to her. Having been turned down is actually a good thing - because you tested the limits and you ran into an obstacle, do the same thing with salary negotiations - if they dont tell you - you're asking for too much, youre not getting all you can! From now on, talk to her, but constantly put her in position to ask you out or escalate on you. If this is not clear - think about this for sometime, think back to times when girls asked you out, or guys asked you to join them in whate…
/r/seduction04/09/10 08:47 PM
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