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Men who "babysit" their own children
/r/askFDS13/06/20 09:02 AM
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I think that's a you problem that literally has nothing to do with the female. You need to figure out why you're acting this way. Afraid of committing? Short attention span? Impossible for anyone but you to know
/r/askFDS29/04/20 06:44 AM
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I have lots of Male acquaintances and I've had great Male friends over the years, one whom I considered my best friend for a long time. He has a girlfriend now and I seen him in the supermarket a few weeks ago and he basically acted like he didn't know me around his gf. Always thought he was a great guy, guess I was wrong. There are 2 men not related to me who I would consider actual friends, both friends from childhood
/r/askFDS16/03/20 10:18 AM
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I had that feeling for 10 years but having not had it for the last year I can honestly say I'm much happier being my own protector and provider. I will never ever "need" a man like that again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 06:50 PM
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I came across a guy I had dated on there and hes wayyy hotter irl than in his pics, it's like he was using the worst pics he has, he's 35 so I think you're right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:03 AM
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The entire region I live in has about 50k people so pretty much anyone on there my age is someone I went to highschool with. I don't actually use tinder, I just have a wee look on there every now and then. These men are all super close to me, I probably see them in the supermarket
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:02 AM
25

Also the "no gold diggers" then basically says he wants a dumb blonde
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:06 AM
16

I'd say G is also married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:11 AM
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🤣🤣 he didn't really say anything wrong in his profile but I still added it in because I thought it was funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:10 AM
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That's what I assume and not having a name there either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:09 AM
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If what he is doesn't define HV then what does?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:01 AM
4

I don't have a manager. I'm self employed. I could tell his mum but somehow I don't think she would side with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:22 PM
7

I actually feel kind of bad for them. If they just changed their attitude and stepped out of their echo chambers their lives would probably improve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:02 PM
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incel Joshua
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:55 PM
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He just messaged me too!I'll post screenshots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:46 PM
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I got messages from one yesterday because I posted here. I'm a horrible person for not taking shit apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:52 PM
105

Yes your dead right. The thing that gets me about this guy is that he's the one that initiated everything, he's the one claiming he wants more etc.. then pulls this crap. What's great though is that us ladies have them figured out now and know our worth and won't take that sort of crap any more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:04 AM
95

It's just bizarre behaviour really, they must think it will make us like them more but in reality the just look like a tool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:01 AM
63

Was definitely headed down the pickme path. Glad I could recognize it and get the hell out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:41 AM
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I dunno about this guy. I've watch right up until the actual weddings and he seems to hover over her alot. Like he would be quite controlling off screen. I noticed it when she was sitting on the bench, clearly wanting space and he's right up there in her face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:26 AM
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I work in people homes, usually it's just me there but in one particular house there is a young guy home every week and he walks around a in a God damn towel. 2 hours a week I'm stuck in this house with an idiot in a towel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:02 AM
24

Which is fine but he's not making his own meals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:21 AM
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Cooked him lunch and dinner every single day for 10 years. Don't know what the f I was thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:03 AM
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He doesn't, he's just a tidy person and let it slip that he does clean up before I get there. Really well, so far a HVM. He has started talking about progressing our relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:30 AM
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Jessica is hooooorible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:25 AM
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Nope its not. He commented on how clean and tidy it was when he got here so I was worried about nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:22 AM
8

I feel like I want to know someones daily habits before committing to marriage. What's the fds stance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:04 AM
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The guy I'm currently dating is coming to my house this evening, I'm insanely nervous because I've been to his house multiple times and its immaculate. My house is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:43 AM
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I went on a few dates with basically what you're describing, but theres just no spark there, kind of sad really because he is really sweet and absolutely loves his cats but I'm a dog person 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:35 AM
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My mum done the same thing, she was a super pickme when I was growing up, always chose men above her kids but has some how managed to end up with HVM, I wish he was around when I was a kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:29 AM
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That's ok and it's New Zealand we live in so the PM is Jacinda Ardern
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:03 PM
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Most of Alanis Morissette or that don't impress me much by shania Twain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:38 PM
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Because the PM is liberal and the views he's sharing on Facebook are quite right leaning which is definitely not what I am. I can see it being an issue further down the road. It's not as left vs right where I live as much as it is in the USA so not a massive deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:11 AM
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I don't want bad things their dad done to seem like normal behaviour. We aren't together anymore and have discussed his past behaviours, he has said he would be horrified if our daughters ended up with men similar to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:24 PM
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Guy I'm seeing definitely seems to be a HVM but he does post anti-prime minister stuff on Facebook ( we aren't american), not very often and he doesn't bring it up in real life at all but that's the closest to a red flag I've seen so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:22 PM
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Exactly. Just an excuse to message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:44 AM
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I periodically get messages from this guy , he has a long term gf and thinks I don't know that. We were never Facebook friends.. I'm friends with his sister and the first time he messaged I screenshoted it and sent it to his sister it's funny they think we are the stupid ones 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 02:39 AM
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If anything, fds is putting me off dating. I can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:57 AM
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I don't understand the height thing, maybe because I'm super short os every Male is tall to me 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:32 AM
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5 kids in 8 years and they're homeschooled. Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:09 AM
18

My ex in a nutshell. Always thought the grass was gunna be greener. Spoiler: it was not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:36 PM
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Valentines day was yesterday where I live but its Saturday today so I'd say alot of people will be celebrating it today. I have no kids tonight so I could go see the guy I've been somewhat dating or I could mow my lawns and build a kennel for my dogs. I'm leaning towards the 2nd option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:22 PM
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I'd stop talking to someone if they were texting me every few hours. Way to busy for that sort of carry on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:40 AM
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I assume it's a lie and hes actually married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:06 PM
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Some men can't even get hard with an actual woman because porn is not real life. That is the issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:08 AM
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Thanks for the info the media made her out to be a homewrecker, poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 02:24 AM
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If you'd asked me a year ago I would have said I'm ugly and look like a homeless person, in 2 days it will be the 1 year anniversary of my partner of 10 years coming home and saying he'd fucked atleast 20 other people. Today though.. I'm full of confidence, I look like a women who has it all under control. I dye my hair regularly now so I look better from that, I wear nicer clothes, sometimes even show a little skin. So yeah, I look like a confident strong woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:28 AM
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Isn't that Jordan in the pic who slept with one of the Kardashians husbands?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:06 AM
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You just summed up my entire 20's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:38 PM
4

Honestly at the moment my list is too long and unachievable because I truly do not want an actual relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:35 PM
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Death grip?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:22 AM
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Oh God now I'm wondering if that's the guy I'm seeings problem, he hadn't had sex in 5 years and couldn't keep it up the first time or finish, had finished twice since then but still seems strange to me for someone who went so long without
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:20 AM
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I can relate. I've changed heaps in the last year, probably to an unrecognisable level. It's amazing what how much better you look when you feel better. I don't really get approached by men but I get a lot of looks now and it took along time for me to stop thinking "oh God, what is on my face".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:58 AM
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My mum kicked me out at 14 because her new husband kept grabbing my ass and winking at me. I confided in my nana how uncomfortable it made me and that was the last time I lived under the same roof as my mum. I really learnt from her. I have kids, their dad and I broke up about a year ago and no fucking way would I put a man before my kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:45 PM
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My ex of 11 years cheated with 20+ women. I found out about them all at once. He always acted like the was better than me, would say things like if I left him I'd never meet any one better. He is a good looking guy but that's about all he's got going for him. We have kids together so we still see alot of each other. The break up happened February last year and the karma is unbelievable, within a week of breaking up he had a new girlfriend. Which made him look like a total piece of shit, she turn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 03:40 AM
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The only reason you should do those things is for yourself. I've never heard of a man complaining about flat hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:37 PM
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