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Conversationim_unseen/r/seduction02/08/20 04:49 PM
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maybe ur just gay for your friend
/r/seduction22/03/25 02:59 AM
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you are imagining another dude having sex with a girl you like because you yourself cannot fathom the situation being real. Maybe just start banging more women and see how your confidence grows? It's hard to snap out of it but... the short answer is.. snap out of it.
/r/seduction23/03/24 03:29 AM
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Spending time with someone can become a chore if they're dumb or don't stimulate your brain.
/r/BlackPillScience01/10/20 07:55 AM
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Easiest way is to create excitement. You two are both in your heads and nervous. See something in the distance and say "oh my god follow me!" Or something like that. Grab his hand and maintain it after.
/r/seduction17/08/20 11:49 AM
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Ok, can DM
/r/seduction03/08/20 01:19 AM
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then how would you handle this conversation from here on out? I'm not sure how to do this balancing act of seduction and playing the boyfriend role. I think they're opposite and I'm both to her. Given we've already talked about it, we're far apart & won't be able to see each other for at least 4 months, and possibly not at all.
/r/seduction02/08/20 06:00 PM
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Back from vacation tho, and I do know she is the type to just drop something after sorry is said. For her, it's sorry = it's over and done with. Still think so? I don't want to encourage this behavior but I still think it might be worth it if I apologize in the right way. Quick and self respecting.
/r/seduction02/08/20 05:41 PM
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yup, very good.
/r/seduction28/06/19 08:41 AM
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be more attractive, spontaneous, funny, and make no promises. if she wants something serious, she's more likely to hookup because she perceives you as high value and doesn't wanna take chances. She'll try to take it in a serious direction after you smash for the first time. and if the girl doesn't want something serious, then the point above still stands.
/r/seduction28/06/19 08:40 AM
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"we could both lick whipped cream off your body"
/r/seduction21/05/19 01:43 PM
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No, there's a time and a place for that. I have no problem telling women I want to take them back to my place to kiss them all over or telling them they're sexy. I've done that more than enough. There is literally no reason for you to invite a girl over to your house and specifically say "one on one." Sounds creepy. She already knows what you want, you just got to act on it in person. Furthermore, who has more value as a man? A man who gets sex by being himself, or a man who has to remind women …
/r/seduction18/05/19 01:10 PM
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sample convo: She smiles at you walk over Hey, are you busy? Yes a little, I'm reading through my textbook. // No I'm just reading through my textbook. Ah, I saw you smiling at me so I thought I'd come say hi. (she smiles again and asks some question about you, it would be weird for her to not ask a question) (you answer her question and say something else, for example...) You know you have a really kind smile. When I smile I look like a dork. (or any kind of joke to lighten the atmosphere) she …
/r/seduction18/05/19 01:07 PM
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I'm not too sure how college dating is but once people stop living in dorms and stuff on campus, if you invite a girl to your place, she knows what's up. build the tension and dont feel ashamed to try.
/r/seduction18/05/19 12:55 PM
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move on.
/r/seduction18/05/19 12:54 PM
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think about having sex with her and imagine that it will happen and that she wants it.
/r/seduction18/05/19 12:53 PM
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theres no need to say "one to one" the feeling of romanticism comes from your vibe. you could tell the girl "one to one" or whatever to let her know, but you act like a friend, she will treat you like one. Have to make things physical asap and dick her down with your eyes and your tone of voice.
/r/seduction18/05/19 12:53 PM
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lol. im with you here. i've done this and similar stuff before. it works well. a bit manipulative but yea.. lol
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:01 AM
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yup, all of these are good. sounds almost exactly like my game.
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:58 AM
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agreed. men on here are treating this like its a man to woman interaction, not woman to man.
/r/seduction21/01/19 03:30 PM
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Noisy places with bathrooms and lots of alcohol
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:38 AM
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you're a pussy mate lol
/r/seduction19/01/19 05:02 AM
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While that's true, being mysterious helps a lot.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:44 AM
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Hesitating to go inside? You mean he felt nervous kiss you because you acted nervous? Just kiss him you idiot. You're a girl. There's no rejection for you here.
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:43 AM
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Logistics. I've never been a girls boyfriend before we had sex. Invite her for an after party if you're out. Invite her to paint with you at your house. Invite her to cook with you. Invite her to see a cool place or rooftop that's close to your place and go inside after. Go on a date or partying and drop her stuff at your house first and wait until you come back home tipsy. Or just go on a date and make her feel good and laugh and tell her to come with you when you two peak. Tell her literally a…
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:34 AM
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2 things: enjoy talking to her and be genuinely interested in her. Give her room to speak and tell her interesting things about yourself when the opportunity comes. yes, eye contact is very important and slight touching helps. remember that you are asking for sex with your interaction and that comes in small victories and compliance testing. bring her home
/r/seduction18/12/18 04:01 AM
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To be fair a lot of this is mental, telling someone simply "do it within 5 seconds" is not the same value as this
/r/seduction22/11/18 05:50 AM
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Alright im gonna attempt to solve ur issue. im guessing your problem of creepiness is coming deep within. deep within you are trying to take energy from the party or you want something from them rather than having a face level interaction and just enjoying it, contributing and asking about things theyre interested in.
/r/seduction11/11/18 04:23 PM
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dont think about her. ghost it too. shes not playing hard to get. she might come back around
/r/seduction17/10/18 05:22 PM
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PLEASE tell me this is a troll. This is a troll right guys?
/r/seduction13/10/18 04:55 AM
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perhaps just think of the best outcome that you want while you're talking, and you will start smiling
/r/seduction21/09/18 05:01 AM
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i mean game for women is quite difficult or incredibly easy, whereas for guys its almost always a conscious effort. its difficult to seduce and also not look like a slut. i think for women push pull is quite effective.
/r/seduction31/08/18 01:38 PM
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if you want it to go in the direction you want, you better act timely rather than waiting for the very obvious and perfect moment. shits not that serious. ​ easier said than done, you just lack experience.
/r/seduction31/08/18 06:18 AM
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Dude I think there is literally nothing you can do further in the moment to try and leverage a girl to talk to you first. Women always have the power. You're never going to get the girl you really want by just sitting there doing nothing.
/r/seduction26/08/18 04:25 AM
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I don't really know much about speed impediment but I reckon it's caused or at least worsened by anxiety. I could easily see it playing in your favor because girls might find it cute.
/r/seduction24/08/18 05:51 AM
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speech impediments are curable right? I went to school with a kid who had that and now hes grown up and doesnt have it. You are better off using your energy working on that with trial and error (and probably fucking intermittently as well) than trying to see how you can avoid talking.
/r/seduction24/08/18 03:14 AM
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uhh, I think you're taking her advice wrong. she didn't say "if a girl makes eye contact with you 1 or 2 times, drop everything and go talk to her." she's just trying to tell you to not be that buy constantly staring at a woman and hesitating to talk, even if it seems like she doesn't know that you're looking... because women know.
/r/seduction24/08/18 02:28 AM
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so you're going to lose the girl so she walks away thinking "wow what a player" If you hit on a girl at a club and hit it off with her and things are going great, but her friend comes out of nowhere, and she says goodbye, are you just going to let her walk away so you feel like you're cool? You have to chase eventually. she thinks you're a player. at this point being "desperate" is going to come off as "sweet"
/r/seduction18/08/18 01:58 PM
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youre 18 so dont fret. I say try it, getting through to this girl and smashing will be valuable experience for the future. She could be testing you and seeing if you give up by not wanting to wait. Maybe shes ready in 2 weeks but says 2 months to see if you'll really wait. you're young so 2 months isnt all that unreasonable i guess.
/r/seduction18/08/18 01:44 PM
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yea, okay this is not what everyone wants to hear but the fucking truth is girls will hesitate until you seduce them further. I'm not talking lying or forcing more alcohol down their throat, but you have to suave with your words. Iv had plenty of situation where I get home with a girl on the 1st or 2nd date and its late at night, weve been drinking some. She knows what's up and she wants it, she's just either got some kind of emotional block or a logical one. If it's a logical one, fight it with…
/r/seduction18/08/18 01:42 PM
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LOL
/r/seduction18/08/18 01:34 PM
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lol
/r/seduction29/07/18 03:34 PM
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I really think some of you guys have the wrong idea. You don't need to go for the kiss all the time. If there was a test question, and it said... > You should always go for the kiss on the first date. -True -False None of you would select True because of the world "Always". Red alarm, right? Go for the kiss if it feels natural. This kiss will happen if she likes you. Yes, you should be progressing of course, but your job is amping up the VIBE of the interaction, and a kiss is only a part of that…
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:55 AM
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Most other people who figure this stuff out, cycle out of Seddit. Or become mods or something. heres your answer guys lol
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:08 PM
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disagree, i had no problems getting a girlfriend when i was bad with women. now, i have a hard time picking anyone to call my girlfriend
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:07 PM
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Be funny, be interactive, be the real you(vulnerable), and remember that you're a man and give off your sexual vibe and hold your eye contact and remember light, appropriate touching is crucial. "(who they are faithful to, so not all cheat)." you would be surprised. LOL
/r/seduction29/03/18 01:02 PM
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Uhh, okay dude. I'm talking I've gone of 2 dates and got busy with other women. Then came back to the girl months later and fucked on our first date back. I've stopped buying into these rules a long time ago and I've had way more success since then. Just be let things happen and sex will happen.
/r/seduction11/03/18 03:35 PM
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within the first 10 days Lmao. What? I've had sex with girls that I met or went of dates with months before.
/r/seduction10/03/18 07:45 PM
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this is a fundamental of seduction though...
/r/seduction03/02/18 06:03 PM
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The answer isn't yes or no, it's how hot can you get?
/r/seduction03/02/18 08:06 AM
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Best short advice: Amp up the energy. You are building a connection and an interaction. You should make little comments here and there. It's not always questions. They will fill in the rest.
/r/seduction31/01/18 09:37 PM
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yup yup yup yup. I played the game with my current girlfriend to reel her in. She was totally different, not very nice at all. Now that we're in a relationship, we can be human with each other.
/r/seduction05/09/17 04:37 PM
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The real answer is experience. You can't turn on a switch. If you could then a lot of people could and these traits wouldn't be valuable. Get with multiple women, and within a year you will be good at being yourself.
/r/seduction29/07/17 06:14 PM
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The timing absolutely does matter. It could be 3 hours or 5 hours or whatever, but you need to give her time to check her phone to confirm. You can't do it the day before because she will likely just say shit like "oh sorry I woke up sick". And yeah... I think you are quite out of touch as far as calling goes. Calling is just weird.
/r/seduction13/06/17 02:41 AM
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1 text 4 hours before is fine. 2 is a little much.
/r/seduction12/06/17 06:42 PM
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Have a nice life. lol
/r/seduction17/05/17 12:50 AM
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thats bullshit man
/r/seduction23/04/17 02:48 PM
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Also if I don't flirt with a guy first, I sure don't want him to approach me out of nowhere. this is what is so hard to execute. finding some cover or mask to approach a girl so it feels more natural. if you're super attractive then you just don't even have to worry about it, which is what sucks.
/r/seduction12/03/17 09:13 AM
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He's a goner for sure. Hopeless.
/r/seduction05/03/17 12:34 PM
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What are you doing here? A lot of people have had success by adopting the mindsets being preached here. Are you looking for someone to agree with you so you can feel better about yourself?
/r/seduction05/03/17 10:54 AM
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the takeaway is that they will sense that you're trying to get something. if you focus on the interaction, you will be good
/r/seduction05/03/17 10:53 AM
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focus on the interaction, not the escalation. that will get you miles ahead. enjoy the moment. I only started going out 2 months ago and even just this weekend I made out with a girl I met for like 2 minutes. It's just a numbers game. Approach women and don't be awkward about it or half ass it. Other women notice it
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:15 AM
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once you find a girl you can dance with you just go for it at the right time lol enjoy dancing, don't think about the kiss. She has to build you up too emotionally. kiss for like 3 - 15 seconds and back off and keep dancing or move her around.
/r/seduction12/02/17 01:09 AM
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i get what ur going for but i dont think ur message will be received the way you hope
/r/seduction12/02/17 12:51 AM
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