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the last sentence makes so much sense, thank you so so much. i understand now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:56 PM
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do i block his number? i blocked him on social media. i just know he has bad mental health, and i don’t know what he’ll do after-meaning to himself or come to my apartment or something. i texted him therapists beforehand bc i was concerned before. i just don’t know if blocking his number & him not being able to contact me at all will cause him to spiral. i don’t want to be responsible for his spiral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:52 PM
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thank you so much for the book recc, i’m about to get it. the only reason i wanted to give the closure message was bc i met his friends & i was supposed to meet his family in a month-i just feel so guilty he’s going to tell all these people i didn’t even have the decency to end it the ‘right way.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:46 PM
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i freaking do get to be emotional!!! and his job is to be emotional support!! he did get defensive & mean at first but then apologized. i told him i’m not going to be a punching bag when he’s frustrated. we talked through it. this morning i was debating on whether to end it but my friend said that it’s good that there was communication and apologized. this was our first fight. right now, i’ll look for changed actions. if it doesn’t happen, the relationship isn’t going to be happening either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:13 AM
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thank you so much for this, i didn’t know how to explain to myself why i was so upset. i don’t want to be a girlfriend for the sake of doing girlfriend things. he calls himself a romantic bc he’s gotten me flowers & will take me on nice dates. but it’s hard to tell if he is ‘romancing’ me or just following some boyfriend playbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:58 AM
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:( i’m sorry you had to deal w that. i’m turned off by the idea in the future, i can’t imagine living through it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:51 AM
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i don’t know why but i was just wondering why a cabin trip when we also live next to the beach and a few big cities so i thought to ask “hahha cabin? did you take your last girl there too?” i didn’t think the answer would be yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:46 AM
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i was honestly dreading that that was the case. i’m going to send a “loll nvm i don’t think i want to [hangout] but hope safe travels to & from the funeral.” it was hurtful for him to ghost & then suddenly appear back like it’s nothing and i deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:43 PM
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question!! i have this guy i’m dating right now and he didn’t respond to me for 10 days-so ofc i deleted his number/unfollowed him on social media. but he texts w an apology on new year’s eve saying he had to go home for a family emergency & will be traveling out of state for a funeral this week. i don’t know whether to feel bad and accept his apology and let him take me out or just not. but the thing that is making me most weary is that he was still on social media (liking other people’s posts)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:18 PM
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o my god...did you read my journal...? i took myself out of the dating game too. especially now with the pandemic and the cesspool that is online dating, no one knows what they want. i am telling myself that i won’t date until fall 2021 or 2022. until then, i’ll be working on myself so the guy that does deserve me gets the best me. don’t forget you’re absolute amazing xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:22 AM
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wish you put a trigger warning </3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 07:44 AM
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ah thank you so much for this!! :) <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:56 AM
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i don’t think that people are/are not worthy of a relationship more so as i think that good people should have and experience good things. and it’s not that i’m not good, it’s just i don’t think i’m as good as other people are. (if that makes sense?) i really like how you said to reflect my ideas of what a relationship says about someone. i think i have these preconceived notions from social media couples that don’t align with real world couples simply bc they only show their best selves. but i …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:52 AM
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oh wow, this is really helpful thank you! i remember i told myself to start smiling more and then i started to notice my mood changed for the better too. i need to make sure that after my mood is positive, my thoughts should be too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:33 AM
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do you think you’ll come back to the relationship? what are the things you reflect on? (if you don’t mind sharing but i understand if you don’t want to)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:30 AM
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shoutout to the real ones that send you their profile so you can break up with their cheating/lying asses <soo grateful for my friend that sent me his profile while i was *on the way* to a date with him>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:01 PM
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“somehow” LOL he’s a joke (only if you would like to say!) what was the dating app he worked for? that just seems interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:57 PM
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oh i was in a similar situation! i would drive over an hour to see this guy, and even though he offered to come to my place, he never did bc i said there was nothing to do near me anyway. he ended up saying that we were too long distance (60 miles-even though i was always coming to him.) what it made me realize was that he never understood the time and effort i had to take to see him-about 3 hours of driving back and forth total- he wasn’t as invested as i was, so it was easy for him to end it e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:57 PM
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vent thinking how my ex treated me. he would casually make fun of my weight-what he didn’t know was that i lost 30 pounds before meeting him. and that he was making me more insecure. i could tell he was insecure about his height bc he would say he’s 5’11 but in reality he was a couple inches taller than me, so maybe 5’7. i didn’t care bc that’s not something i care about. but since he was insecure, i wouldn’t wear heels bc i knew i would be the same height, if not taller than him in them. it suc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:55 AM
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wow you are so bad ass!! and you’re not even doing things ‘just to keep busy’ you’re having so much fun!! ah i can’t wait to just do things till i get good at them and be proud of my work :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:18 PM
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o man heartache sucks. but just know you’re so much stronger than you think you are <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:10 PM
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hahha dating was my hobby, it reallly did consume so much of my time. self fulfillment sounds so nice, i hope i can achieve that soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:58 PM
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oh i love this! i think i’m pretty creative so this is exactly what i need :’)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:53 PM
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if i’m with my girl friends and the guy approaches with guy friends i think that takes a lot of pressure off bc you’re all just having a good time together- and then we can exchange info at the end. i’ll get complimented by people passing but no one has ever stopped and engaged in a whole convo. i think if someone were to, i’d chat it up but want a way out just in case i wasn’t 100% into it. i would give my instagram so i could see what kind of person they are and if we have some fun convo on in…
/r/seduction12/07/20 07:21 PM
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if the guy doesn’t bring up being exclusive but i know he’s into me i just ask “wanna make this just a you and me thing?” right now you’re pretty sure he’s talking to other girls but what you might have been avoiding is that he’s also sleeping with other girls. i’ve been in your situation soo many times-if he doesn’t want exclusive, you know you have to move on before you get even more hurt. best of luck xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:16 PM
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got hurt! again! fml!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:57 PM
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so i understand finding other people attractive but what i don’t understand is the ‘temptation’. what are temptations for you? like when you say you have temptations, does that mean you have thoughts like “damn i’d like to sleep with that hottie” / “wow he likes the exact same shit as me, what if we were in a relationship” (sorry if this is kinda personal, i’m just curious bc i don’t have a lot of dating experience)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:59 PM
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o wow this really helped, thanks so so much <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:56 PM
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a guy i’m (F) talking to says love is constant effort and he still gets tempted by other girls while in the relationship. is this true? (i don’t think i’ve been in love but when i was close to it, everything seemed easy going and just like we melted into each other. i didn’t have eyes for anyone else but my guy.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:57 PM
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i think he’s pretty serious about a weekend trip bc he’s brought it up quite a few times now. he says he wants to stay single because his job has his life pretty “nomadic” and doesn’t want something that’ll make it hard for him to leave the city. i agree, it’s just i never like anyone back. and for some reason i just have it bad for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:08 PM
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why do guys lie on dating apps? to get the age range of girls they’re after? for example on tinder a guy will have the age 22 but on his bio he says he’s really 19 and another guy on hinge has his profile saying 24 but he’s 29
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:57 PM
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i always offer to split the bill the first date-if he takes up on the offer, why is that bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:48 AM
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:( i was afraid that was the answer. it sucks when they make you feel like you’re the only one. what’s the point of dating if i’m just going to be another option?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:15 AM
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