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| 338 | You are not a victim. | Red Pill Theory | imadeapoopie | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 07:06 PM |
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| 3 | GF is arrested for domestic abuse. BF posts her mugshot on FB. Hamstering ensues.Disappointing that I had to scroll to the bottom to find this. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I have noticed that I am passive aggressive about getting attention. How does non passive ways of dealing with not being the center of attention?You're not entitled to attention, or respect - both are earned through positively attributed social values. In other words you need to earn those things from folks then you'll be able to bask in the glory of being well regarded. Acknowledge the fact that you need to earn their respect and set out to do just that, also acknowledge that they don't owe you shit at the onset beyond basic courtesy. Like I said before, engage in the conversation, ask questions, try to UNDERSTAND and build a connection… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 03:28 PM |
| 5 | I have noticed that I am passive aggressive about getting attention. How does non passive ways of dealing with not being the center of attention?Even dumbasses are interesting if you allow them to be. This is a fantastic revelation. OP: conversation is not difficult if you suspend your ego - if you don't know ask questions to learn, try to understand why people have opinions, and allow the conversation to help you formulate one. You sound an awful lot like an insufferable guy in my circle of friends and his biggest failure is not being present in conversations, he does not absorb context or direct interaction for that matter. Subsequentl… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | On the brink of divorce, could use some input.OP do not do this - this is terrible internet advice - reposting from a few months back There are a few problems with this strategy ("Conflicting out") that I'll try to outline Lawyers talk to each other - at the end of the day it's a practice that doesn't serve their industry so they'll be less inclined to help you. It's really expensive, it typically takes a real consultation to meet the requirements of a conflict of interest (some states and bar assn's even have rules designed to curb this be… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Jealousy where you least expect it, anyone ever dealt with male friends being insecure to the point of hypocrisy?Sounds like you and chuck get along just fine - but he's under no obligation to be your white knight all the time (don't put him in that situation). stay friends with Chuck, downgrade everyone else to acquaintances and move on with your life. Poisonous personalities are a nightmare to navigate, much easier to just walk away. You're your own Man, right? Disregard the haters - it doesn't matter. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test?This, you can't go from "how's your meatloaf" to an offer to plow her pudding field. Agree and amplify is great if you keep it playful, keeping it playful keeps the feelz in the conversation. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 01:56 AM |
| 2 | If a "beta" man can reform himself into an "alpha" man, why can a slutty girl not reform herself and become a non slut and higher value?Then why did you lump them together? | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 03:36 PM |
| 2 | If a "beta" man can reform himself into an "alpha" man, why can a slutty girl not reform herself and become a non slut and higher value?A wimpy man growing up and getting stronger (not just physically) is much easier and more likely than a slut turning into a good girl. This is exactly what I'm on about - I disagree and I think this sub has some confirmation bias that it's true. Both are, to your point earlier, at about a 1/500 chance. Look at the number of both around you in the real world - they appear to be equally common traps for each gender. Any kind of personal change is hard and therefore uncommon. That's all. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 02:33 PM |
| 3 | If a "beta" man can reform himself into an "alpha" man, why can a slutty girl not reform herself and become a non slut and higher value?Calm down friend, just pointing out that BP's coming to the light is more common here in RP - not nearly as much in real life. We have confirmation bias in this sub because we see transformation and it is good - but it is not common. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 01:42 PM |
| 1 | If a "beta" man can reform himself into an "alpha" man, why can a slutty girl not reform herself and become a non slut and higher value?in this sub, confirmation bias... | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 12:29 PM |
| 5 | The Rational Male – That was thenEscalate but don't be a creeper. walk away if you can't get past this crap. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/15 10:52 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend left out the number of guys she blew in her partner count.../thread | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Increasing SMV if you're a fat guyNow, apart from my weight, I'm outgoing and funny and charming. I'm the center of attention in a group. However, most girls just automatically turn dry around me, just consistently saying that I'm an amazing friend. Everything everyone else is telling you is the truth - and I can see that you don't like it. Be that as it may - the quote above is hinting at another problem - you probably have a lot of conversations with girls, they think you're a good listener and so on... you're probably also bo… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/15 05:34 PM |
| 2 | On AngerI'm guilty of dismissing anger and I don't think I'm off base - maybe I need some correction. Knowing how shit things are is half the battle. The other half is making yourself better in spite of the deck that's stacked against you. This - this right here is the God Damned rub - Be angry, be angry as shit IDGAF but project it into something worthwhile. Men that lose their minds droning on about how unfair it all is lack the fortitude to SOLVE their own problems. Someone badgering you about the pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 04:16 PM |
| 4 | Avoiding Conflict or fighting?Losing your composure is not an admirable quality. You wanna know how to fight? Take up a fighting sport. You wanna know when to fight? When you don't have any other options. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/15 05:06 PM |
| 11 | You are not a victim.I'm not gonna bag on the mods - i think we have a ton of truly fantastic content and this sub is generally modded in a much stronger fashion than most others. However I am perplexed by the volume of MRA shitposts that have been cropping up in the last few weeks. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 08:36 PM |
| -5 | Wanting Women to Love You for Who You Are is the Male Equivalent of Fat AcceptanceIf you have your kids taken from you or are evicted from the home you paid for because of a false accusation then you are a victim. Of poor choices. That is the difference in perspective required to survive and it always has been. Depend on no one but yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Need help reading this girl who initiated contact with me and getting her to dump her boyfriend for me.all you have to do is get her to fall and you won't have to worry about the boyfriend - she'll either dump him or plate you and start cheating - at which point you know what comes next... unless you're trying to master some dark triad business i wouldn't spend a lot of effort on actively breaking apart relationships, it's a proposition with a low-value return in the best scenarios | /r/askTRP | 06/04/15 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Would I regret sacrificing my independence for convenience?This is general relationship advice that I don't think contradicts trp in any way: establishing value with the other party is important. She wants to need you for shit and wants to feel she's giving you value. I wouldn't over think it- let her make a phone call if it makes her happy, no big deal. Just don't let her take control. Edit: thinking about this more you want to control strategies not tasks: Strategy: healthcare, task: phone call Strategy: orderly home, task: mop the kitchen. Hope that … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/15 05:49 PM |
| 2 | New guys: TRP is like a salad bar - take what you want, and leave the rest.I just want to add that the available grub is closely monitored by the chefs, attempts to shit in the pickles will still be met with glares and flying forks or steak knives. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/15 02:15 PM |
| 8 | /r/relationships woman's husband finds out about her 15 drug-fuelled college threesomesYou're sort of dancing and missing some of the point but you're not wrong. Where you're right: Slut-shaming is a waste of time and counter-TRP in that it serves no purpose it's just an emotional release as our friends here try to lift themselves up by putting others down. TRP is about what is, not the world as seen through rose-colored glasses. The point you're missing, OP hit on this and others have to some degree: The young lady in question should not have actively sought to hide her past. It … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 05:43 PM |
| 7 | What the fuck did I do wrong?Quit waiting for her intentions to manifest themselves, judge people on their outcomes. Plausibly she got tied up with something, more than likely you got ditched. Accept it on face value unless given substantial evidence to the contrary. There are plenty of fish in the sea. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/15 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How Would You Raise Your (Hypothetical) Daughter After Swallowing the Pill?I realize that I've made a statement constituting a sweeping generality here and that's probably off-putting but did so in the interest of not eviscerating the respondent and engaging in another useless flame-war over the internet. I would like the gentleman to give the sidebar more than a cursory review before contributing because the post does not align with TRP doctrine in a number of fashions. We can debate the merit of those doctrines, and do, until we're blue in the face but this is not ad… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/15 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How Would You Raise Your (Hypothetical) Daughter After Swallowing the Pill?You have a lot to learn | /r/askTRP | 02/03/15 03:18 PM |
| -4 | Columbia (feminist) professor arrested for assaulting boyfriend. Why? Allegedly, he cheated on her.This. When did this sub become MRA? Edit: and now we're discussing the merits of cheating? Give me a fucking break. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Need advice - Ex-gf is pregnant with mine, has intense emotional issues - Prepping for Custody BattleThere are a few problems with this strategy ("Conflicting out") that I'll try to outline Lawyers talk to each other - at the end of the day it's a practice that doesn't serve their industry so they'll be less inclined to help you. It's really expensive, it typically takes a real consultation to meet the requirements of a conflict of interest (some states and bar assn's even have rules designed to curb this behavior (IL and WA). You can't just call them and say hey how ya doin and create a confli… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Need advice - Ex-gf is pregnant with mine, has intense emotional issues - Prepping for Custody BattleIn fact, you should talk to every lawyer in town about this, so as to establich attorney client privilege and prevent her from being able to hire one to defend her in custody. This is terrible stupid internet advice - for anyone that's thinking about doing this just don't. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/14 02:01 PM |
| 0 | Girl seems uniterestedno no op kissed her, clearly she's the wife-to-be here.... | /r/askTRP | 27/12/14 09:56 PM |
| 6 | [PSA] I'm Adding Bro-Knighting To My List Of Bannable OffensesFuck yeah - that thread was fucking painful Edit because I know I should always be contribootin - I've said it before and I'll say it again I still can't fathom why so many men cannot get this through their thick skulls - the volume of cognitive dissonance required to blame a third party for someone shattering YOUR trusting relationship is mind-boggling. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/14 05:22 PM |
| 24 | So, I told the girl I started dating that we don't have sex enough...This. Even if everything else this is maintaining frame. It's either a shit test or she's not on the same page. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/14 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Hooked up with my roommates girlfriend... What do I do?Well don't go on convicting yourself of a crime with suspect evidence. Might be worthy of a conversation with the girl before you proceed with the more difficult business. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/14 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Hooked up with my roommates girlfriend... What do I do?How do I tell him I banged his girlfriend while he slept in the next room? Did you? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 10:28 PM |
| 1 | LTR shit-testing on a nuclear scale: What to do?You don't negotiate shit like this, you leave. SOOOOO Much this - at this stage words should be hollow to a man, because they are to a woman. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/14 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Do I need to revamp my entire life?Create a plan, hoard your money, GTFO | /r/askTRP | 25/10/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Is giving advice a beta trait? Should I just stay quiet?This is exactly what I do - I have one friend that takes my advice and counsel into consideration and, at a minimum, seriously reflects on it. Everyone else often asks but rarely/never acts - so I stopped answering. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/14 05:27 PM |
| 2 | LTR advice neededA friend is going through med school while his wife works as a nurse and they're so busy they can't even see straight but they hang on the weekends and get up a bit early to have breky together every morning. Seems to be working for them - give that a shot? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Girl I've been seeing for about a month doesn't seem interested in sex. What do?Ultimatum's are just cries - just next her - she know's what she's doing. She'll either come back to you sans underwear or go on torturing the next guy. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/14 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Me [26 M] with my GF [27 F] 2 years, Not sure if I'm overly suspicious. [Infidelity]You're acting like a needy bitch - the fact that you wrote 5 paragraphs says it all. You're paranoid, you have oneitis, you're not wearing the pants in the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/14 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Cheating Ex of 5 years is engaged, do you tell the fiancee?Evidence - if you have it fine, tell him. If you don't, you're wasting your time and you're emotionally re-engaging in her shit show. Hearsay isn't admissible in court for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/14 04:05 PM |
| 7 | Megan Fox explains how to get out of the friendzone. Spoiler: Wait until her carousel ride is over and maybe she'll realize you exist.I wasn't aware that hamster was subject to such interpretation. Hamstering is a logical circle jerk, nothing more and nothing less. "The rationalization hamster is an analogy for the thought processes used by women to turn bad behavior and bad decisions into acceptable ones to herself and her friends. When a woman makes a bad decision, the hamster spins in its wheel (the woman’s thinking) and creates some type of acceptable reasons for that bad decision. The crazier the decision, the faster the … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 10:46 PM |
| 7 | 4chan user gets a taste of female hypergamy"Why can women be so harsh and cold when they break up with me?", men ask? Easy. It's hard to have guilty feelings about hurting a person that doesn't exist. Bingo - you've been downgraded to trash - it's all binary. Sure they may regret it later but when the rubber hits the road you know the score. You can't measure people by their intentions, only their outcomes. It's appalling how so many can apply that line to their lives in many different forms without a blink but when it comes to relations… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 05:03 PM |
| 28 | 4chan user gets a taste of female hypergamyNever blame the man your GF/wife runs off to fuck on the side. He's chasing pussy just like every other straight man on the planet. It's not his fault, hell the devious cunt of a GF probably either a) didn't tell the new man she has a BF, or b) told the new man she is in the process of breaking up with him. I still can't fathom why so many men cannot get this through their thick skulls - the volume of cognitive dissonance required to blame a third party for someone shattering YOUR trusting relat… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with ex just fine. However, I'm in a weird situation.Be careful - my ex LTR has had similar issues and after years of reflection I'm not sure it was honest so much as a cry for help and attention. Recently she reached out to me with two weeks of blah blah over a breast cancer scare that didn't go away but simply evaporated into thin air. Some people always want to be the victim and it's terrifying to consider the level of sociopathy required to pull things like this out as ammunition in their fight. I might be a prick but my assessment aligns with… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/14 04:43 PM |
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