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My wife slept with a married man. I literally found out the same day that he and his wife were celebrating their one year wedding anniversary. She denied it even tho I saw their entire text thread. I too thought about her still for a few days but for me, her dishonesty is what gave me closure. It’s been three weeks and I’ve already found a woman that is absurdly way more my type and we’ll see where that goes. I’m not sure how their situation will end up but the karma for me is knowing that she m…
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/23 05:37 PM
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My friend. Two weeks ago I found out my wife was cheating on me with a married man. One of the most devastating revelations of my adult life. The best place for you to be at the moment is here with other likeminded fellas. In those two weeks I’ve rededicated my life to myself. I’m 38, and in less than two years I’ll be 40. The realization that this ride is halfway over, and I get the chance to start a new chapter, has lifted my ass up more than anything. Take the pain and turn it into fuel. At t…
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 05:24 PM
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Brother. I’m so sorry you’re hurting. There’s nothing more to do but to get YOU back. One thing that has helped me is to talk to myself and say nice things. I am intelligent. I am supportive. I am present. I am strong. I am a father. I am. I am awesome. There’s a peace that will fall on you my friend. Things aren’t falling apart. They’re falling into place. Focus on you. Sending you all the magic and energy I can summon from the universe. ✨✨✨
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 03:38 PM
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Literally created a Hinge and I’m already four hours into a text thread with quite possibly the coolest woman I’ve talked to in years. Chill, beautiful, and good god funny.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/23 04:50 AM
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Yeah I too am waiting. Unlike my whore soon to be exwife who is already sleeping with a married man.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 09:21 PM
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I’ve got pictures of me on red carpets, my man. I’ve never been in this good shape in my entire life. In fact, Google has a knowledge panel about me lol it shouldn’t be too hard to meet some people but the thing that I’m contemplating is should I just go camp out at the library. I’m also a non-practicing empathetic Christian and have some decent core values. Went to church yesterday with my mom and was blown away at the talent if I’m being honest. 😂 appreciate your detailed advice and your time!…
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/23 02:35 PM
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Hate this for ya brother. So so much. Focus on you and be the healthiest version of yourself you could ever imagine. Show your kids not to give up on anything and show them that you’re capable of bouncing back and being an absolute badass. Sending you hugs bruv. ✨
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/23 01:43 AM
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Don’t forget to let her know why like you let all of us know. Idk if this is whatever but I sense a real place of genuineness coming from you. You’re literally there to meet her where she’s at. If she loves you as much as you love her, that honesty and your love will shine thru. ✨
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 06:24 PM
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Man if I could have just sat down with my wife and a REAL conversation with her, a lot of our woes would have worked themselves out. I’m sure you’ve done that before and it’s probably a common sense response but please, if you love this woman, talk it out again. Set boundaries of what you feel comfortable doing and not doing. Praying for ya King. Love to all our Latin people out here too.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 04:22 PM
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If anybody can help me, I got the other woman’s Facebook page pulled up. Slide in my DMs and let’s all let her know.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 12:53 AM
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It’s a moral dilemma. Like… nothing would make me happier than to destroy my wife’s life. But at the end of the day, she’s listened to allllll the murder and crime podcasts so she already knows how to off me and nobody would know.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 05:55 PM
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Yeah I’m gonna keep my mouth shut and request pain and suffering to do so
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 05:54 PM
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Her parents know she was cheating on me but I haven’t said anything about getting the STI.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 05:53 PM
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I’ve thought about sending her a letter saying “Grab your husband’s phone while he’s using it, run into a room that you can lock and he can’t get into and search messages for [redacted]” cause y’all know my wife is gonna be under a different name.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 05:52 PM
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All trackable. Not going to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 01:46 AM
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Y’all I’m honestly afraid I’m gonna end up homeless because of all this and because of how my wife set it up. the mediator won’t talk to me or answer any questions and I can’t afford an attorney I’m in an area that doesn’t have any pro bono representation so it’s up to me to keep calling Wall office after law office to see if anybody has time at the end of the year to spare
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 11:09 PM
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She’s in a completely different state, and I don’t have the means to get to her
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 11:07 PM
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The thing I’m having the hardest time with is finding representation. Because of how quickly all of this shit has moved I’m completely broke and the city that I’m in is nothing but a bunch of rich white people so there’s really no pro bono lawyers in my area. Anybody have any advice?
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 11:07 PM
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I’m waiting to speak to an attorney to make sure I don’t shoot myself in the foot. It’s such a moral dilemma to be in, outside of the absolute horror that is my emotional state. I’m good. I’m not gonna do anything like that but for fuck sake y’all. I can’t sit by and let this fucking prick ruin two marriages but then again, that dumb fuck is gonna get what he deserves and it truly isn’t up to me to fight that war.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 07:54 PM
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Anyone have a private investigator reference for Minneapolis and surrounding area?
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 11:49 AM
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Shared the top of the post on my close friend’s insta / one of her work friends, who i didn’t even know was on my close friends, dove right in.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 06:30 AM
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Last Update Before Bed: The guy my wife is cheating on me with has a wife, and strangely enough, both his wife and my wife share the same name.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 04:31 AM
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UPDATE: After a phone conversation with her, I initially calmly confronted her about the situation and the individual involved. She denied it, claiming she was with friends. However, it became clear (from my source) that she had also been with him, both in the parking lot and her hotel room. We have a prior written agreement, which I haven't responded to via email, stating that she's fine with me leaving whenever I feel it's right for me and that I can come and go as I please. I never could have…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 04:28 AM
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UPDATE: she is and has been cheating on me. Someone who knows the situation, saw this post, and DMd me and spilled the beans. To say I’m crushed is an understatement. How best should I proceed? She’s currently still on a business trip and won’t return until late Thursday. My temporary plan is to have myself, the dog we agreed I could take, and the most basic of my personal items out of the house before she gets home. At the moment the electric/water, natural gas, and ISP are in my name. The mort…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 03:36 AM
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Also, thank you for taking the time to respond. I’m doing my best to move forward and hopefully get back on the road as soon as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 10:04 PM
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Even if the credit cards are solely in my name?
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 10:03 PM
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I want to express my deep gratitude for all the comments and support you've provided. I can't help but suspect there might be someone else involved. The process of filing for divorce with her has been relatively straightforward, and I've shared my profound sense of devastation and confusion. Here's her response: "I understand why you're feeling lost and hurt, and I'm genuinely sorry for that. I don't want to rehash everything over text while I'm away, but I'm open to talking more when I return."…
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 05:05 PM
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👋🏻
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/23 08:36 AM
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