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| 1 | 3 things can do when you want to talk to a girl in an awkward situation.But I spent $11 | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 3 | 3 things can do when you want to talk to a girl in an awkward situation.I tried step 1 and ended up just going back to playing RuneScape | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Yeah "that's right" is an indicator that you're using empathy correctly and understood their perspective, which boosts your rapport | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 03:10 AM |
| 16 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.I've read "Never split the difference" by Chris Voss, it's not about seduction or pickup but about negotiation -- the author is a retired FBI hostage negotiator. He's better at doing his job than teaching it imo, but he made a number of pretty good points as far as making sure you get what you're aiming for with another person in a way that leaves them glad to have worked with you. | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 08:04 PM |
| 2 | With girls I really like and/or are in my social circle, I freeze up when a closing opportunity is basically handed to me. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.... Anybody have tips to get over this?What is this gay zoomer bullshit. Just get her fuckin number. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact when walking past womenTrue, I've been skinny my whole life and already started gaining weight On my gut. ._. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Eye contact when walking past womenThe primary difference being pain :^) | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 02:48 PM |
| 2 | I am putting a girl on a pedestal right now. Things i'm doing to stop doing thatThat makes about as much sense as picturing a pig flying. | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 05:33 PM |
| 8 | Is there a better feeling than women making the first move?Rejection like this doesn't have to mean he didn't actually like you at all. In highschool my crush was crushing on me hard as fuck, she gave me shoulder rubs in front of everyone in class, sat next to me, paid all kinds of attention to me but I didn't do shit about it except act a little nervous. When she went off to college and posted her new boyfriend in her profile pic it burst my little bubble and made me deeply introspect why I didn't reciprocate, even though I was as crazy about her as sh… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 03:02 AM |
| 44 | We all know girls are attracted to guys who don’t give a fuckThe police won't let me | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Stood up for myself, now shes attracted"wear hiking heels and a nice dress you don't mind getting paint on" Am I doing this right? | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Stood up for myself, now shes attractedFor a second I thought the last bit said "(she is 9 by the way)" and i was like hol up | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 06:50 PM |
| 7 | The power of eye contact in seductionSo that's why women evolved lovely breasts... to thwart our eye-contact magick...! Dastardly. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 06:45 PM |
| 23 | Pubs and bars are better than nightclubsDon't find out | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceNo the worst she can do is report you to the police | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Tips for leadingI like the regular ol "I can do whatever the fuck I want" | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 10:17 PM |
| 26 | Just do it alreadybest way to get there is just approaching man i thought best way was approaching woman | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 07:54 PM |
| 3 | I feel uncomfortable watching or thinking about cheating scenes. Why?Do you want to be okay with cheating? | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What are some resources that will help me embrace sexuality?Guess you're a weak pussy ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯ | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Right Now, There's A Woman Who Is Checking You Out And You May Not Even Know ItI don't have that NSA hub in my house man, I just let them parse my porn search queries | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 01:44 PM |
| 320 | Right Now, There's A Woman Who Is Checking You Out And You May Not Even Know ItRight now I'm alone in my room with the blinds closed so whoever is masturbating to me right now is either invisible or astral projecting | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Netflix's Lucifer is a women's romance novel in disguise.Satan literally did nothing wrong | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 09:31 PM |
| 5 | What is an attractive way to act with women who have rejected you, or you've tried unsuccessfully with?Nah she should see that you're in the market and looking, and she should know that if she passes you up then someone else won't. If she judges you for looking for a girl, then she's a bullet dodged. It's okay to be human. | /r/seduction | 23/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Feeling hopeless and need a bit of adviceI'm no doctor but some of the things you said about your feelings sound like depression. Priority 1 should be to see a counselor. Even if you're not depressed, you need guidance and input from someone whose profession it is to lead people into being their best. In addition to that, exercise. It makes you feel not dead inside and you will probably sleep better. | /r/seduction | 17/08/19 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Got over the life threatening disease...ONEITISBut those aren't pathological the way that term is used here | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Got over the life threatening disease...ONEITISWhat is oneitis? I assume it's being hung up on one girl that isn't really your girlfriend and thinking she's the one, is that it? | /r/seduction | 10/08/19 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Girls want you to take actionYou've been hanged multiple times and are still alive? You're a witch | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Turning 26 in a month and have never been laid, is it too late for me to turn my life around? I’m feeling pessimistic about it everyday and it bothers me, so I’m here for helpNice only now I have to count them to see if you're bamboozling me | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Turning 26 in a month and have never been laid, is it too late for me to turn my life around? I’m feeling pessimistic about it everyday and it bothers me, so I’m here for helpI don't want to count those, but did you actually provide the correct amount of punctuation marks? | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Turning 26 in a month and have never been laid, is it too late for me to turn my life around? I’m feeling pessimistic about it everyday and it bothers me, so I’m here for helpyeah just drive down to your local yokel wife distributor center and get married, simple In real life though, church girls are as loose as anyone else. Humans are red blooded sexual creatures, dogma or no dogma, and game will matter anywhere when it comes to selecting a mate. Church just gives sexually repressed puritans the chance to feel superior to people who aren't afraid of their own humanity. It's the sour grapes mentality on steroids. | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Fucking frustrated!!!Wow I thought you were talking about having to use rohypnol to get a date at first, then I remembered what Ritalin is. Whew | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 10:45 PM |
| 3 | How should I respond when she's trying to show me she's desirable?"do you wanna suck my dick or what" Honestly just say something that puts her vanity in its place and aims to test whether she's actually going for something with you or is just using you for attention (more vanity). Shit test her or ghost tbh | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 09:49 PM |
| 8 | I feel basically all success can be defined under neediness vs non-neediness.There's definitely a way to play that game too hard, but I think OP isn't about pretending not to be interested but rather stresses controlling your desires so they don't get the better of you. It's a balance of being interested but not needy that takes some finesse and practice to do right; I think it has to come from being emotionally mature. And of course there's the possibility that someone you're into isn't into you, so the whole "willing to walk away" thing demonstrates being realistic and… | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | What Tinder opening lines work for you?"bot?" | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 12:43 AM |
| 3 | What fragrances do you use?Liquid ass | /r/seduction | 28/07/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Quick question, I'm with a girl I recently had sex with. Help me play this rightCry when she sobers up and tells you it never happened and then sleeps with the next guy, and then get over her | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Condom brokePrecum has swimmers in it, you're getting a card for Father's day lmao | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 05:53 PM |
| 7 | Funny replies?Why are you asking strangers on the internet to have your conversations for you? Grow the fuck up | /r/seduction | 23/07/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | 26 yo virgin. I’ve made progress but still don’t feel like women are attracted to me. What should I focus on improving?wow your life is bad and you should feel bad, just end it all tbqhwyf | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Another reason women can think guys are creepy and why women can be rude. A threadHe must have been one of those fuckin metric system nerds then if he doesn't know what inches are | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Working out and eating healthy has changed my perspective on life for the better. If you haven’t started lifting weights, do it nowLast fast food burger I ate made me feel nauseated | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Working out and eating healthy has changed my perspective on life for the better. If you haven’t started lifting weights, do it nowspam is a perfect miracle food with no flaws whatsoever, don't u hate on my spam | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Working out and eating healthy has changed my perspective on life for the better. If you haven’t started lifting weights, do it nowWell 2000 cal of mcd's is mainly salt and fat, it's not the process it's the ingredients | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 07:58 PM |
| 3 | So I approached this girl...I usually consider the dialog open until she fires the pepper spray, if she just pulls it out then she's probably just testing your confidence | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 05:57 PM |
| 1 | So I approached this girl...Interesting, I shower cold out of a determination to be badass and different (plus now warm/hot water feels gross on my skin), and when I step in I picture approaching a woman to associate my anxiety to the shock of cold with the anxiety of approaching, and then just doing it. I haven't figured this would help with porn addiction since I usually rub one out while shitting just before the shower... :/ But I have definitely been working on not using porn to get it done, and trying to un-voyeurize … | /r/seduction | 18/07/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Tinder likes skyrocketed through a few tweaksWhat if doing things I enjoy in life means skill grinding in RuneScape | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Seducing a 10 girlI read the title as "Seducing a 10yo girl" im callin the po-leese | /r/seduction | 06/07/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | YOU want sex. Tell me YOUR biggest problems1) wagecuck living with fundie parents, and I can't afford the famalam life i want to have with a woman 2) to get a job in an upwardly mobile career path instead of wagecucking at big box yeetmart Guess I just need to work on my web app portfolio lmao | /r/seduction | 06/07/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | My life with girls is literally over because I’m not good lookingAll the idiots responding with helpful comments don't realize this asshole is just here for free loosh. | /r/seduction | 05/07/19 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Lost my virginity on vacationSounds like some CEI shit meng | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Lost my virginity on vacationwatched tutorials Is that what the kids are calling it now | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Getting through to beginners?How to make horse drink water? You watch it die of thirst and then realize its own mistake | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever passed a woman’s shit test by accident? Tell the story...I feel like this would be the moment to pull out your phone and text her "nice tits" | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Women see me as a master fuckboy, when paradoxically, I can't get any girls at all. How do I shake the impression?What if women all assumed I was gay? Do I pass that shit test by fucking guys? I don't think he should become what he doesn't want to be, least of all to prove to anyone that he's worth their time. This is kind of a "you have a character flaw" assumption on their part, not a typical "you don't meet my standards" bullshit. It's like being called a liar by everyone when you're not. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 05:19 PM |
| 5 | What’s the deal with women you keep catching looking at you then being kinda bitchy and tight lipped when you approach?Because he's a sensitive loser who feels that rejection is actually bad, and exhibits a clear sour-grapes attitude with his "probably gonna get cursed out" faux-fear / excuse. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Subcommunication: The Hidden Language Of High StatusI was going to write that one way I can improve my confidence is by imagining that I have my dick out in front of everyone and I'm not afraid to get hauled off to jail. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way to recover from this garbage-tier conversation?Bang | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Some girls look better than others (Question)Why did evolution program me to feel terror at the sight of a uniquely attractive female T_T | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 08:34 PM |
| 19 | Askwomen sub "why a second date?"I recently got a book called "never split the difference" by Chris Voss about negotiating (he's a former FBI terrorist hostage negotiator) and empathy and observation/intuition is basically core to the practice. His skill is how to figure out what a person's perspective is and really understand what motivates them before trying to move towards what you want. It may be a relevant read. | /r/seduction | 21/06/19 03:54 PM |
| 20 | How To PASS ANY Shit Test (The Triple A Trick)No bro if your bitch starts grinding on another guy, you go join her and grind his asshole until he starts a fight and then you can beat him up for maximum man points, plus it shows you're comfortable in your straightness because you're not afraid to be gay | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Online dating, 2019.That shit costs money | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 08:10 PM |
| 13 | Online dating, 2019.No, rule 1 of seduction: be attractive Rule 2: don't be unattractive | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What if we stopped caring so much?Get a job just to get sexual harassment complaints against you uh | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to “What should an interested party know about you?"Sounds like she's trying to get to know you without getting to know you, or putting in the time and effort to do so. Kind of a thoughtless question tbh My flippant response to this question would be "An interested party should know when I'm available to meet" | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Stop approaching women if you want to live a healthier lifeI want to start a massive cult. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you compliment a girl's looks or not?What about "hey lol you're smarter than you look" I got that once | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | I have gotten rejected for my job a lotI don't know what you mean. Are you saying my income is also low? Or something else? | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Fuck texting, call her.I had a fraternity brother try to ask my permission to call me by texting "bro". When I saw him the next day he said "how come you didn't answer my text? I was trying to call you" and I was like tf u mean ho | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I have gotten rejected for my job a lotwaah! But we already knew that was your whole thread. :^) | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I have gotten rejected for my job a lotSo you're just moaning then. Why did you make this thread? Did you think anyone would want to know how you feel about being unwanted? | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | I have gotten rejected for my job a lotWell it's not really women's fault that you won't make a good provider. You're blaming the symptom, not the cause. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How to react when a girl tells you about guys trying to hit on herI dunno, I'd probably play it off with disregard or sarcasm, something like "your life is hard :^)" This one bitch who worked at my shop tried to get me to argue with a co-worker about how he was "staring at her" and I didn't take the fuccin bate at all. She still tried to fuck me but tbh she was a bullet well dodged. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I have gotten rejected for my job a lotCan you really expect to raise a family on your income? It doesn't take a gold digger to want a man who can give her the life she wants. | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Did Mark Manson distance himself from seduction?I haven't read any of his books, but how much can he really write about the subject after authoring the Bible on the topic? Humans don't change that much, what's new this year about seduction that last year's edition didn't cover? | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Read the ‘50th law’ by Robert Greene and 50 cent. This book is instrumental to explaining fear and how you can deal with any fears you haveAre there literally no females around where you live? You have opportunities to talk to women but you've blinded yourself to them by telling yourself you have no opportunities and your main excuse for that is "she won't find me attractive". | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Am I supposed to make the first move on everything? Should I pause for a bit?Sounds like you need to put things in your schedule that you want to do and are ok doing by yourself if possible, and when you invite people it's a blessing to them, not to you. Then if they flake you don't give a fuck because you're doing something you wanted to do anyway and it's their loss | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 04:13 PM |
| 11 | Remember this before you approachDo I lose HP while I use power within? | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Remember this before you approachThis sounds like what I did when I asked for a girls number once. I focused on feeling like I was sucking myself into the ground hard as fuck, and that when I moved I was standing in place making the world move past me, bringing what I saw ahead towards me by pushing the ground backwards with my feet. And reminding myself that as long as I'm not being rude then nothing fucking matters and I don't want any actual response, I just want to ask. She declined but since I already decided that the outc… | /r/seduction | 07/06/19 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Can Pull Girls.. But Cant Get Them Sexual - Help!Be attractive | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Should I wait till I am more fit to approach girls?Sabotage? The ones you approached already and will approach, who may end up remembering you, will simply be impressed as they notice you transform. I can't see this affecting you negatively. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with people who are overly positive?Talk shit, start fights and if they can't get on your level they will die like swine. The weak should fear the strong | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 10:36 PM |
| 15 | Should I wait till I am more fit to approach girls?No, you're just using your current physique as an excuse to avoid being out of your comfort zone. If you do that, you'll never see yourself as being "fit enough yet" to go talk to girls. Nip that attitude in the bud because the day will never come when you just feel confident, you have to build it. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 10:30 PM |
| 7 | Recently went out with a girl and kissed her and now my mouth feels weird?It was cum, she snowballed you | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Being the badboy is easy, here's howI'm going to do this except eat a candy bar right at the end instead of kiss her. Then walk away saying "night" with a mouth full of crunchy peanut butter Quaker oats and disappear into the night. Virginity protected | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Eye contact! How funny!Mind your resting asshole face, I know I have it | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 01:53 PM |
| 5 | A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.In another comment he said 5'10" - myth BUSTED | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 03:34 PM |
| 10 | A girl grabbed my phone and put her number in it.The solution to this is to become a cop, then dialing 911 just routes back to your phone ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.all 3 star wars movies Hi Gramps | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 07:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Labels Labels Go away, labels labels make you gay | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Storiesr/incel Whose fault is it that your real life is too boring to listen about? | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 03:46 PM |
| 2 | To not talk to those which constitutes half of the population is quite crazyBut they're boring | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 03:43 PM |
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