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I think it genuinely depends on the height of the woman and her previous experiences. I’m a taller woman and all the men in my family are very tall (6’3-6’4” on average). I can 100000% tell when a guy is lying about being 6 foot or something. Shorter girls may have a harder time gauging the distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 06:12 PM
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The last guy I dated would literally go down on me immediately after sex if I hadn’t cum already. There’s more than one way to get a girl off and only 1 requires a penis being erect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:13 AM
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Out of curiosity how old are you? This may be a generational thing. I’m 26 and I don’t know a single woman that would be okay with a dude not going down. But I think men my age are also way more into it as sex is a bit more broadly exploratory now than older generations. Guys literally will talk about how much they like going down so we have no reason to settle for the small percentage that don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:55 PM
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Good for you, no one is forcing you to. I’m saying, me personally I wouldn’t even get to the sex phase if you didn’t go down. But that’s also because I have a lot of options who are both hot af to me and will perform oral. In the last 5 yeas I don’t think I’ve encountered a single man who wouldn’t do it enthusiastically
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:49 PM
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Agreed but having sex with a man who won’t go down at all or who is only into his orgasm makes it a chore for most women. No matter how good looking you are I wouldn’t repeat sex with a guy like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:42 PM
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Not true. Girls want a hot guy who is also good in bed. I slept with a fucking gorgeousssss man once who was super awesome in every way except he was only into his own orgasm and then would roll off. Didn’t repeat despite him asking me out a dozen more times over the next few months. There are so many generous lovers out there that are also super good looking, why would I settle on a selfish one?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:31 PM
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Yeah idc. I know a guy who is very conventionally attractive except he started balding at 24. He got a hair transplant at 26. He looks fucking amazing. No judgement; I would do it too if I were a guy in his situation with the finances. I know another very handsome man that told me he got a nose job. Again, no judgement; he looks great now. If a guys entire face was fake I think it’d be weird. But a guy correcting an insecurity that is unattractive to most women? Totally fine In my book
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:28 AM
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That’s by circumstance then, not by nature
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:22 AM
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Source? There are two strains. One is minor, but you can still catch the severe one even if you had the minor one. However the severe one is taking over and is now accounting for around 70% of cases
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 03:23 AM
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Not true. The length is about double that of the flu, and you risk permanent lung damage if it develops into pneumonia. You also need to remember 25-50% of people in America have a chronic illness or underlying condition, that includes MANY people in their 20s and 30s. So you’re not just putting your grandparents lives at risk. My super fit and active 23 year old cousin who has crohns was emergency rushed to hospital today after severe fever and inability to breathe from being exposed by a frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 01:35 AM
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Appreciate the benefit of the doubt. I don’t think I’m like my friends at all. And I’m definitely not like my brother. I just called him to get his opinion since I know he has woman trying to lock him down constantly and he basically said “I don’t wanna know so I don’t ask and I pray to god they don’t ask mine.” He basically said like if she’s a KNOWN hoe amongst his whole social circle he might have an issue with it but otherwise it legit does not matter to him. And he’s pretty much like every …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:41 PM
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Not lying. Not sure how to confirm but if you think of a way I can without straight up IDing myself I’m happy to. I don’t think I’m an exception. I have friends that have slept with 6 guys over 6 days on spring break (so what you would shame), and they are dating amazing men. Only Low quality men care. My brother is a 6’4 good looking guy that makes a very good living and he just said he’s never asked a woman and he doesn’t give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 11:25 PM
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Yes. thr last man I dated ended because he wanted a relationship and I didn’t. He is 6’1 very good looking, make 6figured a year, so I’d consider high value — I just didn’t see us clicking long term. The man before that is an international male model who has many woman throwing themselves at him. We dated for 3 years and lived together before we parted ways due to outside factors. I’m currently talking to a man who is 6’6 a lawyer, has been on a very famous tv show and he’s talked about marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:53 PM
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No high value man has ever even ASKED about my body count. The only men who care are lower value guys who can’t rack up a body count themselves and lets be honest...idc if those guys don’t want me cuz I’m not a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:41 PM
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I’ve dated quite HVM so they all tend to have relatively higher counts and it doesn’t bother me. I think I’d feel weird dating a guy who had slept with 5 or less women (26f that tends to date my age +6 or so years). I’d get grossed out if the number topped 100 or so I suppose. Of the men whose count I know, one was at 21 at age 21. Another was at 24 at age 23. I think one may have been in the 60s In his mid 20s. Other than that I don’t know, since I don’t ask or care really. actions currently ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 06:26 PM
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I’m not sure why you say that? I’m saying if there’s high risk, don’t do it. But if you’re miserable not taking the risk then you should
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 12:48 AM
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Agreed. But I think it’s a risk. Like if you’re in LOVE with the person and it’s torture to be just friends, say something. But if it’s just a crush but you have a great friendship it’s likely not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:45 AM
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This is obviously anecdotal but I’ve never put a guy in the friend zone if I was interested in him. I know most of my male friends would at minimum sleep with me. However, I’ve had some come out and say they had feelings, and it’s completely dissolved the friendship. It is absolutely fine to admit your feelings and you should not stay in a friendship if it’s not what you want, but if you would like to keep her as a friend if she’s not interested then I’m not sure I would go this route
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:38 AM
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Investing for a woman is having sex because we can only have a limited number of men before we’re branded “a slut” so we’re incredibly selective. If we have sex with you, it shows interest. The reverse is not true for a man. It’s funny because I’ve gone on a COFFEE date where the guy didn’t pay for me (like $3). You bet your ass I didn’t see him again. It was cheap and came off as he’s not someone worth Investing my time (or my eggs if we wanna talk about biological impulses— this man is clearly…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:20 PM
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Yeah a gay man is absolutely no different than any male friend I have, unless he’s incredibly effeminate, at which point he may feel more like a gal pal. I don’t know that I would want to date a man who’s interested in men (bisexual or otherwise), but you are absolutely a man in my eyes and your sexuality is just one facet of you, but not who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:55 AM
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How am I being a bitch? I said I’d never be rude or refuse to pay my half. I 100% would. And if I know I’m not interested by the end of the date, I insist on paying. But why on earth would I choose to go out with a man who’s super stingy when the majority aren’t? I don’t expect a man to pay for me the entirety of a relationship, but the reality is, that’s part of the courtship process. And it’s not “some men.” I always get multiple dates with people I’m interested in and I’ve never been pumped o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 06:36 AM
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I am a 26f that I would say is attractive by any traditional standard. I went out with my 54 year old smokeshow of an aunt. I have never seen ANYONE get hit on so much in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:22 PM
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It really is just supply and demand. As a younger attractive woman, I have unlimited supply, whereas most men do not. If he won’t pay for the date, another guy will. It demonstrates that he’s not a man child in my experience. You don’t need to pay and I’ll never be rude to split my half. But I won’t see the guy again. And I’ve never struggled to get commitment from these men ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 09:13 PM
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Do you think it could be related to the fact that ANYONE who marry’s later in life is statistically less likely to divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:09 PM
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Absolutely mindset matters. But idk if you saw like the hottest most incredible woman with a bio you just CLICK with, even if you’re only in a casual frame, you probably still wouldn’t send “hey sit on my face” because a little voice would be saying hmm what if
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:05 PM
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I’ve been on bumble, hinge, and tinder. Had maybe one overtly sexual message on tinder ever. Most guys I’ve met on there have asked me on legit dates and been very gentlemanly. Not sure why people think it’s only hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:03 PM
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So my theory is men are overtly sexual if it’s a “Hail Mary” — like either it’s a girl who is lower value that he just wants to bone, or it’s a girl he’s tried with but who hasn’t been that interested, so it’s his final try. For girls that men perceive as high value, they don’t send this kind of stuff because they don’t want to “fuck it up” I match with a lot of men and almost never get creepy sexual messages from them. The guys that DO send me that stuff are guys I’ve rejected or didn’t match w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:57 PM
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“By definition” — literally false Attractive men actually make more money (more resources) on average (about 13% more) And studies show, men who earn more than their partner are less likely to cheat (source: https://www.asanet.org/sites/default/files/savvy/journals/CS/Jun15ASRFeature.pdf) Anecdotally, the men who have been most attentive to me (emotionally and sexually) were the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 01:44 AM
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I think it depends on the woman and depends on the act. Do I want to be gangbanged with a bukkake? No fucking thank you. Do I enjoy being throatfucked until I’m in tear. I’ll pass. But I personally like rougher sex, anal, slapping, toys, etc IN addition to regular, more passionate sex. However there are women who would balk at what I enjoy the same way I balk at what other women enjoy. The key is to get to know your partner and what they like and are comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:08 PM
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Ya I did think different life stage. A 32 year old was 11 years older than me at 21. That was over half my age in age gap. 152% of my age. I was still in college, had never worked, had never lived with a life partner. This is a guy who has been working for a DECADE. Creepy, weird, unattractive. I’ve seen a lot of men write off older women saying it’s immature or weird as them being upset that they’ve aged out, but those same men are upset and defensive when young women say the same thing. Let’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:47 AM
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Maybe. But I’m just telling you how a woman views it (and not as one of the older women upset about losing out on men my age). It’s really creepy IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:53 AM
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I know plenty of older women who are HOTTER than women my age. Men still get off on being with the younger one cuz there’s some weird power trip with it. It’s partially physical but also very psychological.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:40 AM
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Mid 20s woman here. Since I was 15 older men have hit on me. It’s fucking creepy and weird. I was grossed out when a 32 year old tried to ask for my number at the bar when I was 21 because he was in a COMPLETELY different life stage. I thought it was weird af when I was 23 and my friends after college were dating girls barely out of high school. At 26, I get wealthy older men regularly reaching out and I’d rather spend the weekend in the hospital than hop in bed with them because I think it’s li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:07 AM
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