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no probs, always glad to share and help others to avoid my mistakes. take care.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/17 07:15 PM
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what I did was that I had family obligations and some more demanding personal stuff going on and I was also pushing heavily to get my own business off the ground for years, working 6-7 days a week at times, long hours, endless financial and personal pressure (sole family provider among other things...), etc. One day I was laying in bed and I started getting awful thoughts, anxiety attacks, insomnia hit me hard, I completely collapsed. didn't properly sleep or eat for 2 weeks straight, I was a to…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/17 06:31 PM
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yup, really agree with you!
/r/ExRedPill22/08/17 11:33 PM
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Take care.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/17 03:33 PM
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Honestly, the impression I get that you probably got hurt at some point and that's why you keep resentment, possibly even hate. I might be wrong, but if I'm not, I'm sorry that it happened to you, whatever it might be. Honestly. As far as this discussion is concerned, I believe you're smart enough to realize what's going on, even if you maybe don't want to see it right now. It is absolutely irrelevant whether I would tell you now that I probably have more TRP experience than you, that I'm past m…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/17 11:09 PM
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yeah, cuz "I've done my research" gives you authority to judge everybody in a group. no offense, but you don't seem to be less of a generalizing, hateful person then SOME of the TRP people I met. I don't think we have much common ground for furtherig this discussion. I'll keep on judging people based on actions instead of sypathizing with a certain set of ideas, you do your thing. hope it brings you happiness.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/17 03:35 PM
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who talks about not supporting victims? I'm not sure about your standard of "Not sexism, not racism, not homophobia, none of it. Period.". I firmly believe nobody in the whole universe can be 100% free of any of these. We all are imperfect, after all and learn our whole lives. By applying this logic, nobody should ever receive help, by anybody, including me and you. Or is there somebody to tell how much "bigotry" is still tolerable? And who would that be? Me? You? TRP in its extreme form is sure…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/17 08:52 AM
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In the end I think the positive messages of be assertive (this is a good trait to have even out of contect of romantical relationship. Being assertive can spare one from bullying at school or at working place for example, but it is something that takes time to learn), take care of one's fitness level and appearance, have abundance mentality, be financially independent, be interesting and have some hobbies should be told and taught without anger and hate. and I agree with you. this is why I'm say…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/17 08:49 AM
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yes, you're right, I misread
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 10:14 PM
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yes, you're right, I misread
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 10:14 PM
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take me as an example. raised by a single mom, who fed me her version of who a man should be, harshly criticizing me even if I just breathed out the way my father did when agitated. unfortunately, I had no positive male role model in my life and I had to learn a lot about being an actual man by myself. everything looks very different if your major influence is a single woman who had a failed relationship and thinks that men are less intelligent, less cultured and generally not needed or desirabl…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 10:01 PM
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you can and it doesn't mean that that part of TRP is wrong. it's not. many turn to TRP because of those parts. TRP men aren't all the same, not all robots. I have had conversations with them about various scenarios, and the responses were diverse. I'm sorry, but for today, sadly the biggest display of bigotry I've encountered were your responses. I'm out, take care.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 08:25 PM
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Huh, had no idea about /r/marriedredpill, might check it out out of curiosity now that you've mentioned it. as a ex-Christian I will respectfully pass on TRP + Christianity, but I think that's an intriguing combination and I think you're right about not acting what TRP would describe as alpha all the time. ultimately, alpha the way it's presented by TRP is mostly leaning towards being completely self-serving and to taking advantage of the system, as you described yourself. possibly as a way to p…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 08:18 PM
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this is too good. please, sincerely, are you trolling or are you for real? you're generalizing all men and calling them all rapists, claiming opinions are invalid because I'm supposedly young, calling me "tipical" (oh boy) after I object to your generalizations, etc. like, if you could be honest with me now, are you just having a giggle or are you being serious?
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 08:12 PM
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...my father told me about men. They are all rapists. Tipical TRP. I guess I'm TRP then shrug
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 08:05 PM
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there are less extreme paths, you know. thing is, you probably feel anger because SOME women have hurt you or don't fit into your standards. and you know what? not liking people, even if they are the majority is fine, as long as you respect them as fellow human beings who have the same right to exist as you do. now here's the thing. you set your own standards for your life. so if the majority of women aren't for you, guess what? there are women who aren't into the stereotype super muscular, bear…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 08:03 PM
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EDIT: misread, my bad
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 07:45 PM
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you are essentially doing exactly what extreme-TRP is doing. generalizing a whole group, disregarding any valid issues those people have faced, advocating poor treatment of them regardless of what they actually did, just because they follow TRP. well, let's also nuke all Muslims while we're at it, right? right gurl?!
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 07:19 PM
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true and I agree about TRP oversimplifying women as objects instead of individuals. why I still sympathize with TRP is that it is in essence a response to a lack of something. I personally see extreme-TRP to be a result of a lack of previous investment in them becoming men and appreciating their masculinity while growing up. as a result, they don't really live in their "strength" as men, lack identity and thus resilience, they aren't fully aware of general male-female dynamics, etc. probably nev…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/17 05:56 PM
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I don't see how that's any of your business, but neither of us was unfaithful or even thought about it. don't assume everybody has the same shitty morals that you have. being a sack of shit is on you, not everybody else.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 01:30 PM
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nope, but I might have seen it as a poor guy not knowing when to stop, maybe he had one too many drinks, there would have been people around and you kinda expect to interact with strangers at a bar on a night out. but pulling that at night on a bus stop is just autistic.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 12:04 AM
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Can you now stop blaming TRP in its entirety please reread original post and my comments here, I made my position pretty clear. Because it serves no one to be distressed by random occurrences ? that solves everything, you just solved every instance of people being distressed ever. you should probably get a Nobel prize or something.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 12:01 AM
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I agree with you. To me personally, it's not TRP in itself making this a thing that gets defended by some people around here, it's more that there are autistic individuals that find TRP to be a means to ventilate their own frustration with life and women. Kinda sad really.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:09 PM
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haha, nice :D honestly though, I think it's just like men. you get fucking double-crossing bastards and selfish assholes. same goes for women, only these days, western society praises them for it, so it's more prominent. but people with morals and standards will still keep them. those who are easily convinced to be jerks, well... they're just bigger jerks I guess.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:22 PM
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Human beings pull this shit. man, it's SOME human beings If some unbelievably hot girl starts hitting on you and you two get along real well and all that? you might be tempted to dump ur gf right? actually, no. I was married even for 7 years, never was unfaithful. I have moral standards. I expect the same from my long-term partners. ts just funny that you immediately assume that some creep = TRP he might man, he might. the phrases and general approach reminded me, but not saying he has to be TRP…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:20 PM
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whoa, I have no idea where I said men should stop cold approaching women. I even wrote in a comment that if this happened in a bar, it would be a more appropriate setting. you're reading something between the lines that isn't there.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:18 PM
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did read sidebar, I'm well aware of rational male. I think a lot of the thoughts and information are good, but need to be set in proper context. can't agree with some other points though. I guess that's universal though for any reader.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:16 PM
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agree, exactly my point. so by extension, I might be hesitant to believe a girl what she's telling, but I will rather make sure I don't trust too much, but I won't be pushy, because she MIGHT be lying.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:14 PM
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balance not like 2 people who are the same. in the instance of me and my girl, she even desires and asks to be dominated and I happily oblige. but there is both giving and taking in both roles in a relationship, both genders. why would it have to be black & white?,
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:28 PM
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And I agree with you actually, to me a TRP shouldn't be whatever this guy was. Or that's how I see TRP, but I know that people differ on this views, as the responses would indicate.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:27 PM
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bruh, I hope you're joking, good one though :D
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:26 PM
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I think it's perfectly fine to protect yourself or take precautions. But to take repetitive action based upon assumption is in my opinion extremism. It's like beating up a random black person, because you got jumped by a black gang once and the random black guy you met just MUST be a gang member or at least a thief as well. Well, some are. And you can get white people who are thieves. And men who are liars. I am all for protecting YOURSELF and taking precautions, just don't think we can go out a…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:25 PM
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nice man, had me doubting the previous few comments, gj, had a giggle, cheers!
/r/askTRP08/08/17 06:21 PM
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yeah, but how about a balanced relationship, where you do a lot by yourself but then also ask for help and it goes both ways? why pick one. I don't pick one. I'm not always perfect and would ask for help if in serious trouble or times of need. And I give help as well.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:46 PM
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good point!
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:43 PM
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I see you learned reading comprehension from vandaalen. cool!
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:42 PM
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nope. if a girl tells you you're making her feel uncomfortable, she's alone at night at a bus stop, you stop ffs. you won't keep on insisting and trying to talk her into doing it by saying stuff like "maybe your bf won't come" and then staying there, expecting to make her change her mind.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:41 PM
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oh, I wasn't reacting to her crying in determining whether what the guy did was OK. and having issues with a woman crying is terrible. yes, many do abuse it. yes, they can be overly emotional. but why would you brush aside legitimate reasons to be distressed because of that? who can tell where the line is when to completely ignore or take things into account? obviously, she doesn't cry too often, otherwise I wouldn't react to it. and I based my judgment on her description of what happened, not t…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:39 PM
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It's right there my man, I don't know how to rephrase it better. let me know if this helps: If you consider that being pushy to a point where you ignore her clearly refusing your advances, telling you she has somebody else and that you're making her feel uncomfortable is merely an "abstract line", well, I have a serious feeling you might be a sociopath.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:32 PM
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You know this how? I'm nowhere saying I absolutely know this. I open this as a discussion about boundaries and opinions on what is still TRP. Reread OP please. Ah, so you know the details exactly. I will take a wild guess here that you consider all women to be liars or potential liars, but I would say that after having many situations with a person that I can consider tests, I have a pretty good idea of who they are. Even how they lie, if they do. I am not God to know everything, but then again,…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:27 PM
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new work place, first day on job, missed bus, had nowhere to go, last fast food place closed and the place isn't close to the rest of the town. but why should this be even relevant? being a slender girl approached by a guy parking in front of a closed shopping thing and fast food place, gets out of car and then proceeds to stick around for 20 mins and keeps on trying to talk her into coming with him for the night and won't take "no", I have a "bf" and "you're making me uncomfortable" as an answe…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:23 PM
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can't be sure he's TRP. just recognized some of the phrases and moves from when I used to visit every now and then. I think the situation was just super unfortunate. it was her first day working there, she missed the bus, she wasn't really aware of the area, it took me a while to get there and she had nowhere to hide. after this, I'm def getting her a pepper spray and a card that she can pass to anybody bothering her to this point. it will basically have my number on it and a note that if he won…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:18 PM
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holy shit, you can get your head THAT far up your ass?! I had no idea. I mean, sure, if I was waiting for a bus at night, a random guy gets out of his car and will keep on bugging me for 20 mins (ignoring a "no" and being told that he makes her uncomfortable), he sure is doing nothing wrong at all. good guy. it's purely about him being not attractive. sure m8.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:14 PM
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probably one of the most "unplugged" RPers in this community, rivaled only by the mods, GayLubeOil and the TRP Vanguards themselves you're cracking me up man. you should get a room with him or something. few things make me laugh out loud when I'm just browsing the old intewebz by myself, but this "title" totally made me laugh out loud. awesome!
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:11 PM
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I agree, then again, look at some of the responses here. Apparently, it is TRP to a significant portion of askTRP people. I am not entirely foreign to TRP and sympathize with parts of it in the right context, so to me, this isn't alpha, but on the other hand, I thought it might not be everybody's interpretation of TRP and thought it would be interesting to see the responses and I think I wasn't wrong.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:48 PM
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it is literal, just re-read it if you don't understand what I was trying to say
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:44 PM
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But if she's at a bar or a social setting it's completely different. I agree. It's kinda hard when you're alone and physically weaker and a guy comes up out of nowhere and won't go away, even though she did tell him she is not interested and that she's not comfortable. Even at a bar, it might be too far, but I would see how one could misinterpret it there as playing hard to get.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:41 PM
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So yes, flash news TRPers, if you feel you're getting creepy, back off. See, we agree. It ma also be true that your GF was actually being way too friendly with him. I don't see a reason to assume the possibility of this without reason. She legit had nowhere to go, shopping center closed, it's close to the town limits, so she can't just walk the way and she missed the bus. Calls me and tells me there was this creepy guy. While I'm driving, he comes back. I mean, if a girl tells you "no" and that …
/r/askTRP08/08/17 02:39 PM
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see, this is what TRP theory can do to you without actually getting your emotional health and social life together. all women are whores who go for a more macho guy, don't show real concern or interest, guy's genuine interest = white knight syndrome, being an inconsiderate ass = being alpha, etc. dude, I'm sorry someone hurt you. I know what it's like, believe me. but putting all women in the same category as means to deal with your misfortune is only going to make things worse long-term.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:53 PM
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If you consider not being a pushy ass to a girl who's waiting alone at night at a bus stop as an crossing an "abstract line", you might wanna get tested on being a sociopath.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:45 PM
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She couldn't. She works at a shopping center. He approached her at the bus stop, she then wen't inside a fast food place that was there, which was the last thing still open, but it closed before I arrived. Thanks for the suggestion, but I can't really imagine her taking his number. There is always some chance, but she was approached like this in the past and it went worse, so she's not really into this stuff...
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:42 PM
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I think it's more of the former and the guy was autistic and couldn't pick up on the fact that your GF was extremely uncomfortable. That certainly has nothing to do with TRP. Def autistic, glad you're not backing up that being actual TRP. If women en masse were truthful and faithful, TRP wouldn't exist. Yeah, but acting based on assumption that every woman is guilty of this is a very slippery slope. It's essentially saying that one is OK with treating somebody like a liar, because some other peo…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:17 PM
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well, the reason is somewhat obvious I believe if you take a look at some of the responses here. people actually defend the guy's behavior. I totally agree with you on him being a creep, but I feel like that's many sad men's interpretation of being TRP. they are essentially defending being pushy assholes that ignore other people's clear indications of not being interested. seeing these responses, it seems like I wasn't wrong.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:05 PM
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odd
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:03 PM
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He left after 20 minutes. Absolutely, she doesn't cry just about anything, it's a signal that she felt seriously threatened. She told the guy "no" and to let her be, he totally ignored it. The other point of view would then be, in every area, not taking "no" as an answer might lead to very unpleasant consequences, because boundaries are overstepped and notices are being ignored. I hope we agree that nobody owes anybody to talk to them or to deal with their unceasing advances. If that person is i…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 01:02 PM
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actually, I won't. what kind of guy pushes somebody like this. that's some border-line autism. my girl is very much into me being dominant and taking lead, but approaching a girl at night in a parking lot while she waits and not letting her be is not dominant, it's creepy as hell.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:59 PM
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I agree. Nothing wrong with approaching. But at latest by the second "no", if there's no response, move on. I'm a guy and even I would feel uncomfortable if I tell somebody I'm not interested in talking and they just keep on being pushy af.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:40 PM
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but that's kinda a shit argument. honestly, I'm far from super muscular, but this wouldn't be my first fight and seeing my girl getting into the car and starting to cry, because some pushy creep wouldn't let her be, idk man. not sure how many guys wouldn't lash out at that idiot.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:31 PM
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are you being retarded on purpose? approaching isn't the issue, being pushy after she says "no" is.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:25 PM
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holy shit, you're living entirely inside your little bubble, aren't you? I can't even man, I can't even
/r/askTRP08/08/17 12:24 PM
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reading skills 0 pts, response quality 0 pts. you're not doing this subreddit any service by having that "TRP ENDORSED" next to your name big boy.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 11:43 AM
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It wouldn't directly, possibly. She might (or might not) have a lower sex drive coming home if she fucks around and is obviously at higher risk of contracting an STD, but I wouldn't avoid it because it directly affects me in my head. It would just mean that we have different ideas of intimacy and we think very differently about relationships, thus we're not compatible at all. She can go ahead and fuck anybody she wants, I just would not be interested anymore at that point.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 11:09 AM
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she can, I just wouldn't be interested anymore, as I tick differently and different things turn me on. if she's the kind of person who wants to fuck a lot of guys, np, but I'm not a person who thinks or gets turned on by that, so things would pretty much end there for me. just not compatible.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:32 AM
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not my kind of thing tbh. she's pretty, but she doesn't attract me past that too much.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:05 AM
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IDK man, doesn't do a lot for me tbh. I get all the slutty I need from role play. current girl is into being dominated, choking, a few slaps to the face, etc., while acting out fantasies like me being a the leader of a Germanic tribe that has conquered her Slav village and she's my tribute and stuff like that. that's kinda as far as "slutty" (if you can call it that) goes for us to be comfortable and that's a bit further than it was with my ex. what exactly is it that excites you about the idea …
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:23 AM
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I was married and I'm in a non-cuckold, hard to define "thing" now. I don't know. During those 7 years with my ex, I didn't feel limited by being in a relationship, but rather by my ex being a bitch later on. But besides normal sex, I was getting quickies, BJ while gaming, anal, deep throat, toys and stuff, role-play, some dominant/submissive stuff, you name it. I never felt like I'm missing out on something, on the contrary. Being 2 people who constantly work on pleasuring each other has for me…
/r/askTRP09/07/17 11:19 PM
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not a cuckold guy myself. I can't really imagine being in a cuckold relationship tbh. why?
/r/askTRP08/07/17 12:47 PM
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IDK, no offense meant, but if I read your previous comment correctly, I get the feeling that you protect what you hold dear by labeling somebody who questions it as not taking initiative, not making decisions, etc. just to paint a better picture (pls take as facts to support my position, nothing more) - I'm making 4-5x average income of the country I live in, travel around, have a FWB clinging to me for dear life, I invest solid time and money into my hobbies and have friends money couldn't buy.…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 08:14 PM
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not conforming to a single way to go about life or acquiring things. thinking what lies past just getting to the top, getting laid, having influence, getting your way, etc. not to allow anybody to tell you who you should be, instead listening to what satisfies you personally and doing whatever it is, regardless of what TRP or anybody else tells you. disregarding who you are told a man should be and just being your own archetype of a man and doing it with pride and no concern for other people's i…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:08 PM
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first of all, thank you for actually leading a discussion, I truly appreciate that. the thing is, I was actually financially independent (I was taking care of 3 people by myself), had a LTR and had plenty of hobbies well before TRP. I got interested in TRP after my divorce, as I was looking for my identity after 7 years of being a provider and sole sexual partner among other things. the thing is, I just feel like your basic TRP doesn't lead to anything but a stereotype in essence and only focuse…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 01:56 PM
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I believe I already mentioned there is useful stuff to be found here and I have already stated that the belief that there's nothing here isn't what this thread is about. if that's missing the point to you, so be it.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 01:44 PM
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oh no! now I'm scared :( . pls don't report, pleaseee!
/r/askTRP07/07/17 01:43 PM
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oh no! what am I to do without your presence in my life!
/r/askTRP07/07/17 01:42 PM
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eh, I'd disagree. I merely voiced my conclusion that TRP goes past that. it doesn't just liberate you. after giving you tools, I believe it leads you to fit another role. the role of an "alpha" as defined by TRP. and my point was also that true "alpha" (or let's call it a "free man" or whatever) can't be really defined as easily for such a broad and diverse group of men. in my opinion, true freedom comes when you stop trying to reach goals that you're expected to reach by any group. TRP included…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:26 PM
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watchagonnado about it big guy?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:25 PM
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my argument is that the top as defined by TRP most likely isn't really the top for most people, because it's a one-size-fits-all and living TRP to the fullest extent without taking it with a grain or two of salt would lead to being a caricature of a man for many men, missing out completely on the point of what being independent and successful is. or so I feel.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:21 PM
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omg, such a strong alpha male! teach me master!
/r/askTRP07/07/17 12:18 PM
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you already did so by posting this comment... thanks for noticing me! seriously though, how about some counter-arguments? gotta be pretty deluded if you think I get my validation-kick out of a throw-away reddit account...
/r/askTRP07/07/17 11:03 AM
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please elaborate what makes you think so, I'm genuinely curious.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:56 AM
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dude... why? like, this the best you can do? I mean, even as bait, that's pretty low-quality. care to give it one more try?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:56 AM
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oh yeah buddy, keep it coming, I already can feel the high of being given attention! oh my, feels so good, mmmmmm...
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:54 AM
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I'm divorced. Not really into getting married again, but never say never.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:54 AM
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It's an impulse for discussion. I state my position and I'm open to hear some counter arguments.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:53 AM
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Well, that's the point to me. A quest for personal, individual freedom. I just don't feel that following a "movement" (or whatever way one may define it) is a way to personal freedom. Especially not one that leads you to think of all people in a single, overly simplistic way. All women are like this, or a slight variation. All guys should be like this to be successful and accepted. Just feels like a crutch to me.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 10:05 AM
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why?
/r/MGTOW15/04/17 12:20 PM
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haha, had a good chuckle :) . thanks for the comment my man :) .
/r/MGTOW14/04/17 07:10 AM
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hey man, thanks for the offer! honestly, I'm somewhat hesitant to believe that SJW ideas are going to end up being largely accepted here. thing is, many people here low-key dislike the west and its values. it only might not be as obvious at first glance. as for women and materialism... very individual IMO. but thing is, many of these women are kinda "village girls" living in towns and cities. and the village mentality is a lot about what does the neighbor think about me and do we have nicer stuf…
/r/MGTOW14/04/17 07:09 AM
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oh, absolutely. I could get my dick sucked once a week for $200/month or less. could probably look into some single mom for that kind of money as well. possibly more action out of her forr less. or just single girl in need of financial aid. there are def options that are affordable for me.
/r/MGTOW14/04/17 06:54 AM
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haha, thanks for the advice, I'll keep it in mind! as well as your offer :) .
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 07:30 PM
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gotcha. well, in that case, I really hope you get to move soon to a place where you'd be happier. if you don't mind me asking, where do you plan on moving to?
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 07:29 PM
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thanks man, I really appreciate that! I'll hit you up should I have any questions. I'm in kind of a mood of slow analysis at the moment. Just thinking everything through, possible scenarios, every angle I can think of. But I might come up with a question eventually. Anyway, thanks once more my man and have a great rest of the day in the meantime!
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:58 PM
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gotcha. I've been to the US a long time ago, but from what I see in media, I get the black/white impression as well. isn't it a bit better in the South though? like, Texas and that area? I know some super fine people from Texas, very friendly, warm, down to earth. would kinda think that that would be a place where down to earth women could be found more commonly?
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:55 PM
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oh, I would never cut off all interaction. but if I can not reach the goal I desire, then it makes the whole process and much of the interaction pretty pointless to me.
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:53 PM
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thanks man and thank you for the welcome! I appreciate your honesty and input. I did not consider a pet, but I also travel a ton, so it's not really an option for me atm. Right hand rules tho! I experienced a drop off in libido after turning 30. not gonna lie, I ain't as drawn to fuck every girl out there as I once was. Not unhappy about it either at this point. Either way, thanks again man, hope you're having a good day!
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:52 PM
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thank you, this was really a useful answer for me. much appreciated :) .
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:48 PM
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IDK man. I live in a Slavic country, most people here don't even know what SJW stands for and crying "discrimination!" would make you look like a complete retard here. Maybe it's not all so extremely black and white?
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:47 PM
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well, first of all, I'm not going to marry again and if I should have a partner, I'd insist on her getting an IUS, otherwise fuck it. and nagging... IDK. this is the fun thing, once I became assertive with women, I feel like I can control them or put them into a place where they're tolerable. it's just so fucking tiresome after a while and for so little payoff... IDK, I'm partially with you on this I guess.
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:46 PM
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thanks man, true!
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:42 PM
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thanks man, I'm def with you on this. I've given up on that in general, made the mistake of believing I found a good fit recently, but broke up after I saw myself getting more and more drained without having the feeling that I'm getting anything out of it. on the other hand, any time I am single, I end up experiencing a great burst of personal growth and I become more happy. so yeah, not worth it, I'll just stay single for now.
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 05:41 PM
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Glad I could help! Honesty, from what you're saying, this reminds me so much of what I've been through. I was married for 7 years. Man, I gave everything I could for my ex and family. It was never enough. I was blamed for everything. I was the sole breadwinner, I tried to please her in any way I could, be a good dad, never good enough... To give you an idea, she was always so cold and critical in bed, I tried EVERYTHING in my power to please her. But there was always something she bitched about.…
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 07:44 AM
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Had the same, only kinda worse. Was my ex-wife. We had issue with the guy who was renting us our house we had just moved in a week ago. She agreed to help me with work stuff if we move to this house. She never did and I kept on insisting she would. She would start fights about it and just general BSing. Anyway, one day the guy said his ex dumped him and he wants the house back. Bummer. Next morning, my ex dumped me. Brutally. Considering the circumstances, I had a melt-down. I cried and begged h…
/r/MGTOW12/04/17 11:21 PM
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I've gone through neither of those. I'm divorced, but I'm doing fine. I've actually improved my life style considerably since our separation, the alimony is very little for me, I get to see my kid whenever I want to. ex wanted to get back together but I turned her down. I was seeing somebody else within 5 months or so. that ended and I keep on going out and getting to know women, while constantly improving myself (hitting the gym now, upgraded my clothing style, socializing better, making more $…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:49 AM
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weird. as I get older, I don't feel the need to fuck around anymore as strongly as I did earlier. I mostly am interested in learning more since I refuse somebody's bitch or be just used. but in general, I feel like the male strategy isn't something I'm interested in atm or that strongly manifests in me and I find myself desiring more of a stable partnership with a single person. is there anything TRP says about that?
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:22 AM
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yup, that exactly happened to me recently. had a girl who was incredibly cocky towards me 4 months ago all of a sudden message me with "hey, how you doing? where are you?" and I thought "nah you fucking bitch, ain't having any of that shit". instead of shutting her down in some way, I just decided to let it be a one way convo, not to engage her, demonstrate my lack of interest and eventually she just fucked off. fucking hate this shit. who does she think I am? her emotional booty call? as if...
/r/askTRP06/03/17 06:21 PM
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thanks man, I appreciate your detailed reply.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:09 PM
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yeah, I mean, if you stay with her after that, shame on you. unfortunately, sounds like 2 damaged people. I just don't know how one can be sane and pull this shit, whether it's him or her. just awful. I'm not even sure what to call the dude, because if you're this pussy whipped, "man" kinda doesn't sound right to me.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 04:24 PM
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same, literally LOL'ed at home, that made my day
/r/askTRP06/03/17 03:38 PM
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holy shit what the fuck. and here I was questioning my behavior at times, but this is just... wtf!
/r/askTRP06/03/17 03:38 PM
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that's essentially how I see it. like, I have learned never to say "never", but really, I stopped looking, as I think it does no good. if something worth it comes along, it does. if not, I'm OK. I've got a million better things to do then to be stuck in a shitty relationship just for the sake of being in one.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:03 PM
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amen to that my brother! here's to us both conquering the world, each in our own, but personally satisfying way! gl my man!
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:00 PM
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to each their own I guess. I feel like there's so much to experience out there, so much I wanna do... like, I saw archaeological findings from Ephesus recently, which was really fun, I'm going to see Cats finally this Sunday, gonna plan some trips for next week, finally getting good at CS:GO, I'm in the best physical shape of my life, so I'm gonna improve my workout routine, etc... those are things I haven't done in a while and find fun. spending an evening picking up a chick? I just can't justi…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:51 PM
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dude, I'm not sure whether this is a thing that happens to other men as well, but I find that eventually, sex gets boring. as in, in general. like, after you've done everything a few hundred times and you tried all you wanted to try, for me it's kinda becoming empty on its own. like, I have had sex maybe 600+ times (rough estimate) over the last 10 years, but then there's my fav artist in town, now that's something that'll make for a memorable experience! like, my desire to just fuck essentially…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:32 PM
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well, the thing is, I have no desire to approach atm. that's my whole point, what's surprising me. I guess I'm just gonna go monk mode. love that term :D .
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:27 PM
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hehe, nice to know somebody with the same perspective! I just don't see myself putting in that effort. like, why would I? I would much rather invest in my own self at this point than a relationship. like that's the definition of being somebody's bitch in my eyes. either it's mutually beneficial, or nothing at all is better. as far as years go in my past major relationship, it was pretty similar to yours. 1 honeymoon year, then 5 years of being her bitch, then a war year where I was pushing shit …
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:26 PM
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I already have been in a shitty one for years and it was awful. Honestly, these days, I feel like most LTR's make wusses and sad existences out of men. Or it's essentially a thing where one in the relationship is the other one's "bitch". Such a mindfuck. But yeah, I'm not into fathering a kid and investing into a woman just to move on eventually, so yeah, I guess the single life is my future. Who would have thought. And here I was thinking the point of life was a stable partnership, only to real…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:46 PM
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thanks for the reply. the thing is, I lost my belief in things being what they seem to be. as in, as a guy, I feel like my actions and words kinda go hand in hand. but with women I feel like there's so often an ulterior motive, something hidden, games and such. I just feel tired of "interpreting", of "understanding", etc. like, what is a woman gonna give me to put myself through that ever again? I don't know man. right now, to me relationships seem like a shitload of trouble for very limited pay…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:15 PM
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