| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 952 | So many stories like this are popping up. I'm glad she's divorcing him. | MALE DEPRAVITY | imaydestroyyall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 09:48 AM |
| 589 | Block and Delete triggering social media | RANT | imaydestroyyall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 263 | It's important to have your own friends | STRATEGY | imaydestroyyall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:13 PM |
| 179 | It's important to pick up a hobby during your level up journey | LEVEL UP | imaydestroyyall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:20 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 24 | I want all the “FDS SHOULD STAY ON REDDIT” users to see exactly what they’re supporting. EXTREMELY NOT SAFE FOR LIFE.Exactly! And OP just subjected the rest of us to that depravity by reposting it here!! FDS was a safe space for women on reddit. Not anymore it seems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/22 08:00 AM |
| 41 | Wholesome❤️From my experience, some people are just shitty no matter how they were brought up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 06:58 AM |
| 3 | How Are You Treating Yourself this Holiday Season?I'm going on holiday to the beach for the second time in less than a month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:25 AM |
| 14 | Saw my best friends married and currently going through IVF, uncle on tinder.I've seen 3 of my married cousins and I've seen my ex best friend's husband all in various OLD sites. OLD is trash, don't go poking in there, it's not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Mods: Could we have a No Complaining Wednesday or a Strategy Only Saturday?I love this idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Polygamy only benefits men3rd world is an offensive term use developing nation instead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:21 PM |
| 53 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.An ex had a full blown meltdown the first time we shagged because I didn't tell him he had a huge dick. First of all, he had an ordinary sized dick, I said he had the perfect size for me... He was so pissed off he didn't want to snuggle after, he made a snack and watched TV all night. I guess he wanted me to be in awe or something? Worship his dick? I donno it's one of the most bizarre things to happen to me. I was so shocked and confused by this behaviour. I dumped him soon after because he was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 05:08 PM |
| 27 | Woman says she prefers big dicks and you can imagine how the response is.The 🤏 boys are mad in the comment section 😅... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:43 PM |
| 14 | WOC, what modified/additional rules do you have to avoid men with race/culture fetishes?I don't think it's foolproof to date within your ethnicity, to each their own I suppose, but I date from all races and ethnicities, including my own, and I'll keep vetting to my last breath... because of my dark skin tone colourism is the biggest issue I face when dating black men and that's a deeper conversation that needs to be had... so, I'll date who I find attractive weed out the fetishists and live my life on my own terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 07:40 AM |
| 429 | WOC, what modified/additional rules do you have to avoid men with race/culture fetishes?I've found that these type of men tell on themselves pretty quickly. 1. Mentioning my skin colour in a sexual way. Like, I had someone tell me on the first date that he loves the contrast of white and black skin when having sex. 2. Asking me if I've 'been with' a white man before. In his head he wants to 'conquer' you if you havent... very colonial mindset 3. Mentioning that he only dates black women because of some stereotype. 4. Mentioning he's never dated black women because of some stereotyp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 05:39 AM |
| 115 | Here’s a small compilation of TikTok comments from women waiting for a ring- never settle your standards for a LVM.Stop giving these men children if they can't commit! This is way to common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:43 PM |
| 6 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!This is such a great post! I had to take breaks between reading it mid tears because you were coming for my neck and my throat. I'm adding this podcast playlist to my queue even though I'm not a christian.. thanks for sharing 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 03:47 PM |
| 110 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!😅 its so funny to me that they think that's an insult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 07:09 AM |
| 45 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?Either they want you to chase them or they want a friend with benefits situation. If they say they want to 'remain friends' that's scrote speak for they want to you to be a fuck buddy. Block 🚫 and delete 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:10 AM |
| 195 | A thousand splendid suns was such a heartbreaking book. Full of LVM galore. The author Khaled is aware of the wretched state of our communities.Khaled Hosseini is one of my favourite authors. His words move me to my core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:56 PM |
| 17 | Article about 3 women in their 40s who are unmarried. One HVW shares her basic standardsReminds me of an old 90's interview of Cher where she says that her mum wanted her to find a rich man to settle down with and Cher told her mum 'Mom, I am a rich man' that clip lives rent free in my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:29 AM |
| 53 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡I mean, seriously what is wrong with these hooligans? Just disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Don't be afraid to get that ring!I love this!! Congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:19 AM |
| 2 | A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t even fully admit to being a feminist in a dating situation cause I didn’t want to scare men away. Today this quote is the only text I have on my dating profile.Chimamanda is my hero! I love all her books | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | It's important to pick up a hobby during your level up journeyI got a brother js1410 as a birthday gift, it's a pretty affordable machine (about 200 dollars). I just started with following youtube tutorials using old bed sheets to save money on fabric while learning. Then, I progressed to using patterns...there are loads of free and cheap patterns on the internet. Also the sewing subreddit is always helpful. People post their makes with details on where they got their fabric and patterns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 08:14 PM |
| 4 | It's important to pick up a hobby during your level up journeyYes! Sewing is so very zen! I'd love to learn how to embroider as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:14 AM |
| 15 | It's important to pick up a hobby during your level up journey😅 They've specialised in time wasting for sure! it's definitely a great way to vet. I always ask guys what their hobbies are and they say things like watching tv,movies, listening to music blah blah blah ... naah bruv those are not hobbies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 06:42 AM |
| 12 | Shoutout to r/FemaleDatingStratPros for doing our outrage marketing for us and bringing us more members 😂I also stumbled upon it a few days ago and as soon as I read some of its content I knew it's fake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:18 AM |
| 83 | Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy?What the actual hell!!!... these type of stories are seriously starting to freak me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:22 PM |
| 9 | This reminds me of the slug storyHe is trying to kill her. I'm glad she got out. These men are so scary! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:24 AM |
| 35 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?This is just ridiculous... it's important to make informed decisions about who you procreate with. It's so crazy how they manage to twist things for their own narrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | I’m reading “Life and Death” by Andrea Dworkin. She’s telling it like it is!Thanks for posting. I'll go buy her book | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 07:06 AM |
| 17 | Not All Men..Brilliant oooh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:43 PM |
| 17 | A treatise in favor of casual snoopingI 100% agree. And if you find something be strong enough to pay him dust and leave, don't listen to excuses. LEAVE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:51 AM |
| 278 | Men think that they can use any woman for their sexual gratificationI used to go to a fun zumba class one night a week outdoors at the rooftop of a mall. After the first few sessions, men started showing up and would take their phones out to record us... a security guard had to be placed on sight to stop these men from being disgusting. They really think we exist for their enjoyment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 68 | I tried to highlight the worst parts, but it's all so bad... 😬What in the pick me hell is going on here??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What outsiders misunderstand about FDSTo add to number 2 theres also the sister sub r/femalelevelupstrategy that is completely focused on self improvement in your career, finances, studies, fitness & health, it's such a supportive community... Women are taught since childhood to exist for male validation and accept all the crap that comes with that. FDS teaches us to prioritise ourselves and level up so that we are not taken advantage of by men with ill intentions. Have your own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:34 AM |
| 11 | The truth about all your guy friends.This is so true. I've dropped many of my guy 'friends' this past year. I think with the pandemic and spending a lot of time by myself, I let go of the guilt of letting down my 'friends', my friend group is purely women now 💅🏾 ... Also, keeping some distance between yourself and your boyfriend's or husband's friends is important...Every one of my exes, has had at least one of their friends trying to slide in after we broke up... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 07:56 AM |
| 59 | Until you realize it’s 3 inchesI'm a girth and length girl myself 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:54 PM |
| 9 | LVM Use Their Depression as a Guilt-tripAww thank you! It was a long time ago... I'm leveling up and I'm doing much better now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:44 AM |
| 145 | LVM Use Their Depression as a Guilt-tripOooh I feel this in my chest. After seeing my NVX for about 10 months I thought it was time to tell him about my struggle with depression, i spent a whole 2 days with knots in my stomach ... when I told him, all of a sudden he started playing depression Olympics... He said he was depressed too, and more depressed than me in fact, that I became HIS emotional dumping ground. Which did a number on my own mental health....When he cheated he said his depression and low self esteem made him seek valid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:23 AM |
| 82 | “Just give him a week”Yes! I discovered the over 40 sub recently Less bullshit is tolerated there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 123 | Say it LOUDER"We don't exist for you ...you exist for us!"👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:52 AM |
| 65 | All the men in the replies saying that it's unfair, getting immediately shut down 💅I love this! We've been taught to normalise women's pain and just 'suck it up' I hope more companies do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 1 | No Neck Ed is a great example on how LVM use playing stupid and pity to get away with sh!tI stopped watching 90 days because of no neck ed. He was the last straw in a series of low value people I couldn't stomach to watch anymore. I now only watch the youtube channels of Dr. Kirk Honda for a serious analysis of the couples and e bird for some snark 😅 I hate how the old disgusting men take advantage of younger foreign women... in s2 there was mark and niki a 58 year old and a 19 year old. He treated her like a child scolding her about eating in the car or smth... 🤮🤮 just gross. On top… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:05 AM |
| 12 | Being dismissed/ignored by a man in a professional or academic environmentTesterical 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 27 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨Me too! I've been happily single for over a year. I deleted all my OLD profiles and apps because it's a sewer and it's the same ugly mugs staring back at me year after year. So no thanks. Even before my 'revelation' I loved being single! I loved my own company more than anything! but my lack of self confidence and the pressures of society would make me feel like I need a dude and hence the cycle of OLD and LVM would continue... naah not anymore. Sometimes I miss being cuddled and sex but I don't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:11 AM |
| 16 | Apparently struck a nerve with my last post. Dude chose to ignore the “FDS Humor” flair lmao...I also don't see the point of posting these arguments. Block and delete in all aspects. We should stop giving them our attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 27 | Block and Delete triggering social mediaHi, I've added a link to a BBC article in the post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 10:02 AM |
| 13 | Mass shootings have been solved everyone! Turns out lack of access to women's bodies is why men go on violent rampages killing women/poc/children/everyone.legit scratching my head and raging right now. Do they think violent men become as calm as doves after sex?? Which world do they live in where violent men are sweet angels after they cum????The mental gymnastics is ridiculous! This type of thinking is harmful to all women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:47 AM |
| 36 | Twirling for the patriarchy. More in commentsIt's actually quite sad. Im a millennial and I surround myself with people who think like me but a HUGE majority of Kenyans still have this mentality... they witnessed their parents abusive relationships and are replicating it with their spouses. I'm single at the moment and dating is a nightmare I legit can't picture myself marrying a kenyan, I'd love to, but with my values it's looking less and less like a possibility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:04 AM |
| 106 | Twirling for the patriarchy. More in commentsI'm Kenyan and this is not shocking to me at all. The pick me-ism is off the charts with this one. Her husband is like her child AND her boss?? Make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 10:29 AM |
| 7 | Kenyan MP makes a bid to make porn illegal in new lawsThem networking ones. More often than not really helpful links are posted on job vacancies and freelance opportunities. But when someone posted this link the porn sick males in the group couldn't stop crying about "FrEEdoM oF SpEeCh " I clocked the women in the group didn't say anything... I really do think that a change is starting in the minds of people especially women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:19 AM |
| 26 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMFantastic post! Handbook material! My ex would walk ahead of me ALL the time, I would tell him not to and he would conveniently forget the next time. One time, as we took a walk to get lunch, he flew ahead of me . I decided to take my time and wandered into an open air market, bought myself some bead jewellery and trinkets. When I arrived at the restaurant I was expecting him to be worried and apologetic for leaving me in his dust. I found he had already ordered... for himself. I cringe and crin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:58 AM |
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