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Just take the L, amigo.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/20 02:59 PM
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"Moonsplaining"
/r/MensRights07/07/17 06:18 PM
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My wife will definitely be shocked to know that I'm being a condescending ass when I affectionately call her "wifey".
/r/MensRights13/01/17 11:42 PM
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Any chance about getting this onto /r/videos ? They're pretty good about putting up controversial stuff and not letting censors get in the way.
/r/MensRights27/08/15 05:37 PM
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And men don't really feel free enough to show weakness and ask for help. They just kill themselves in numbers disproportionate to women.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 12:53 AM
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It always starts with one.
/r/MensRights29/09/14 12:52 AM
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Yeah, it's not like women could ever start a sorority.
/r/MensRights29/09/14 12:48 AM
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In general, women have increased their use of birth control while men have decreased theirs. Maybe there's a correlation-causation in there, hmmmm?
/r/MensRights17/09/14 09:13 PM
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The slogan is spot-on, but not in the way they intended it.
/r/MensRights15/09/14 08:22 PM
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Think of the implications of the one-in-five statistic: Arizona crime statistics report that in 2012 there were 2,277 "Forcible Rapes". if Arizona State has 59,000 students and 20% of their female students are sexually assaulted: 59,000 X 0.51 * 0.20 = 6,018 That means there were 5,999 unreported sexual assaults or, in other words: 2.5 time more unreported assaults in ASU alone than were reported in the entire state.
/r/MensRights08/07/14 11:14 PM
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I've read several articles stating that this is a very common practice.
/r/MensRights01/07/14 08:06 PM
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I remember that our elementary school had magnolia trees on it. We would snap the ends off the cones and throw them like grenades all the time- little did I know such behavior would one day be criminal.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 10:42 PM
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Imaginary cops.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 10:41 PM
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Yeah, it was a welcome departure from his previous years
/r/MensRights15/06/14 08:12 PM
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That's what I meant, yes.
/r/MensRights13/06/14 09:11 PM
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Why the fuck are we not handling criminals accusations in the criminal justice system? The thing is, by and large they do handle these matters through the criminal justice system. The sad truth is that if a case boils down to a "he-said-she-said" argument without any evidence then the criminal charges get dropped. These extralegal bodies have no interest in fair judgment but instead exist almost solely to exact vengeance on behalf of accusers and make the university appear "tough on sexual assau…
/r/MensRights13/06/14 06:23 PM
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I'm guessing OP is female.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 10:25 PM
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I've seen these that used to be called "Mother's Rooms" for feeding, changing, and calming children. They were renamed "family rooms" to make it gender neutral but women still treated men like "you're not supposed to be here". Cities and institutions added "dads welcome" to make it clear nobody was too be excluded.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 01:37 PM
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I can't even identify anything that could be subtly anti-feminist. Maybe they'll reply soon. http://i.imgur.com/hzcgjmZ.gif
/r/MensRights30/05/14 01:37 AM
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I got banned from /r/Feminism yesterday without explanation for, I believe, this exchange: screenshot I had recently begun posting in that sub because I have a daughter and find it to be a helpful place to learn about raising girls to be strong and independent. I don't know why I was banned, maybe they saw I post here? I didn't even make a "top-level" comment so I have no idea. If any feminists read this, maybe ask the mods on my behalf what happened? So far, no response.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 10:29 PM
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So this could have been avoided by, among other things, a positive make role-model?
/r/MensRights28/05/14 02:02 PM
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Everyone keeps saying "We don't know if he was mentally ill". Was he not seeing multiple therapists? Perhaps he didn't have a diagnosis of "clinically insane" but at the least he was disturbed, right?
/r/MensRights28/05/14 01:12 PM
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All feminists may be liberal but not all liberals are feminists. source: Men's Rights liberal.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 04:49 PM
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A headlock blocks air. A "choke hold" blocks blood.
/r/MensRights10/04/14 05:38 PM
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I would never, ever hit a woman in my life, EVER.... But I'd shake the shit outta one. - Chris Rock. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPboeNKMngc
/r/MensRights10/04/14 05:37 PM
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Am I the only one who saw all these as normal reactions to having a vending machine eat your money? I tilt-drop the machine in our break room 3-4 times each year as needed, which means I'm probably a psychopath.
/r/MensRights10/04/14 05:31 PM
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Tuesday is red-shirt day for me. I may wear a jacket over it to cope.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 08:15 PM
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But what about the exoneration of those found to be innocent? Those who have had their name and reputation tarnished as a result of the University’s decision to suspend the entire program prior to any investigation. Or are we just collateral damage? That's exactly what you are, Pat. The university has to not only come down hard on sexual assault but has to avoid any appearance that it could be condoning assault, even when none has taken place.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 10:43 PM
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I think that'd be the case in most countries: it's easier for men to get a good-paying job with less education.
/r/MensRights13/03/14 04:39 PM
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Indeed, the author takes his premise: Intoxicated people are treated differently based on gender and rewords it as: The pervasive notion that it’s women’s responsibility to avoid rape — and that they can effectively avoid becoming victimized if they dress differently, or drink less alcohol — has a huge impact on the way that survivors are treated if they decide to come forward about a sexual assault. Which is not what's being discussed.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 05:36 PM
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I definitely could have done without the laugh track
/r/MensRights10/02/14 09:29 PM
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As long as the terms and operators aren't "sexed" they should be fine.
/r/MensRights14/01/14 10:17 PM
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sorry. "Check your privilege"
/r/MensRights10/01/14 07:59 PM
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It seems like they should have answered "We're trying to fight the idea that nudity, and nudity of women in particular, is always sexual. By making nudity common we remove the sexuality. Why is it the lead more than the others? Because she's confident enough to do it." And then we could have gone on with our lives.
/r/MensRights10/01/14 07:50 PM
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I expect this to bomb hard.
/r/MensRights22/12/13 10:59 PM
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Also, my wife prefers to be a stay-at-home wife even with her degree.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 03:47 PM
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One thing I think is often missed is that women do suffer grave injustice around the world and massive inequality. Those countries, however, do not have feminist movements and western feminists seem to think that because women suffer in third world countries that they are somehow sharing in that oppression.
/r/MensRights19/11/13 05:41 PM
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Link
/r/MensRights11/11/13 07:00 AM
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Yes, I was commenting on the OP. Edited.
/r/MensRights07/11/13 07:48 PM
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This in particular blew my mind: I want you to think about all the women who are denied a chance to speak by men around the world -- women who are barred from obtaining an education, women who are subjected to genital mutilation, women who aren't allowed to work, women who are survivors of sexual abuse, women of color, trans and queer women, sex workers. Don't they deserve a chance to be heard? Are you any one of those women, or are you a middle-class privileged white woman who's never face legi…
/r/MensRights07/11/13 07:35 PM
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It's a world of facts and figures, logical outcomes where your viewpoint doesn't matter unless it's backed up by data. Anyone who values "emotional intelligence" for solving problems over scientific process will do poorly in engineering and won't enjoy it.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 11:00 PM
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Title IX should work on the under-representation of males in this profession. I'm sure they'll be on it any minute now...
/r/MensRights01/11/13 05:05 AM
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The first response was "I completely agree with what you say but men still need to do that because I say so"
/r/MensRights30/10/13 05:12 PM
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Feminists introduced tons of us to the MRM. That's what happened to me. I used to try and talk about men's issues in a feminist environment because I thought "Hey! My fellow women here are fighting for equality! Surely they'll acknowledge that there is a prison rape culture that strongly affects men!" Wrong. I was accused of being a troll and an MRA, and was told to go back to r/mensrights. I'd never heard of it, but here I am now. Thanks for that. Same here. In a thread about false rape I broug…
/r/MensRights21/10/13 10:53 PM
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And the U.S. is now twenty-sixth in education.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 04:27 PM
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Your dedication to your craft is commendable
/r/MensRights19/10/13 04:25 PM
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Feminism supports women as long as women do what feminist authorities think they should do.
/r/MensRights18/10/13 05:35 PM
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Whether you intentionally wrote "rapression" or not, it's brilliant.
/r/MensRights18/10/13 05:34 PM
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There are TONS of people I work with as a software developer that would be homeless if not for the tech industry. There is no other occupation I can think of that will tolerate so much anti-social behavior in return for a job well-done.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 03:10 PM
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It was interesting hearing them talk about the case of one woman who has to pay more than her income. This happens regularly and lands a lot of men in prison.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 03:01 PM
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Have another gold on me!
/r/MensRights17/10/13 02:54 PM
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Drunk women can't consent. Drunk men are responsible for their own actions. Serious question: At what point is a woman too drunk to consent and how can a man know? One drink? Two drinks? Is there a BAC level?
/r/MensRights16/10/13 06:14 PM
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I think what it comes down to is that school's are legally liable for the children. All it takes is one parent anywhere in the country to file suit against a school for an injury their child sustained on campus and then the specter of litigation rears up. When a school's liability intersects with the best interests of their students they will always act in their own best interests and leave the students to hang.
/r/MensRights14/10/13 11:25 PM
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The state presses charges but Jones would have to cooperate with the state for the charges to stick. If he refuses to testify then the state has nothing.
/r/MensRights09/10/13 06:09 PM
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Libel is printed. Slander is speech.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 07:24 PM
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Upon co-founding Girton College for female students at Cambridge University in 1869, Davies expressed her intention for it to be ‘a college like a man’s’. What she meant by this was that the same subjects should be taught, in the same way, and to the same academic standard, as in the male colleges. Woops.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 07:53 PM
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Feminists encourage women to be free and independent and choose their own path in life as long as it agrees with feminism.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 03:22 PM
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It seems like you could do three different graphics, the tag-line being: the price of privilege or the myth of privilege or even simply The facts of being male. - Health and Wellness Industrial deaths Cancer Research Funding Life Expectancy Suicide Rates Number of federal agencies dedicated to gender-specific health issues - Criminal Justice System Percent of jail population Percent of homicide victims Likelihood of sentencing on first offense Percent of domestic violence convictions Receives cu…
/r/MensRights26/09/13 03:12 PM
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This makes me think of a graphic novel that depicts a world where all men die and women fend for themselves
/r/MensRights18/09/13 10:10 PM
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My wife and mother in law made that argument. I said, "he's got blonde hair abd mine's brown- are we taking him to the salon later?" I held firm and he's intact.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 06:33 AM
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Good grief, *you're
/r/MensRights08/09/13 05:35 PM
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But at the end of the day, women who juggle children and jobs will still face a serious set of tensions that simply don't confront either men (except in very rare cases) or women who remain childless. Really? That's great to know that I don't have to deal with the guilt of leaving my daughter crying when I go to work in the morning because she hasn't seen me in 3 days. What a relief!
/r/MensRights05/09/13 07:27 PM
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That's the gist of the article: This hints at the problem with the equality-by-the-numbers approach: it presumes women want absolute parity in all things measurable, and that the average woman wants to work as many hours as the average man, that they want to be CEO’s, heads of state, surgeons and cabinet heads just as much as men do.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 12:24 AM
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He would have potentially molested them, so it's for the best /s
/r/MensRights03/09/13 04:36 PM
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I'm a programmer, a man, and I'm intimidated by people who write amazing code at a drop I'd a hat. Being coddled had never helped my abilities.
/r/MensRights24/08/13 03:37 PM
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Or he could have been raised in a strict religious home like I was and believe that sex is fundamentally "wrong" and he's grappling with deep-seeded beliefs that his urges make him a depraved monster. After I got those issues sorted it took a LOT of explaining for me to help my wife understand that my libido is very connected to how I'm doing at work: If my work is going bad, I feel incompetent and like I'm a bad provider and I don't feel amorous at all because I'm a failure. When my project is …
/r/MensRights15/08/13 03:23 PM
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He looks like a homeless guy who's fighting for his next meal. I love it.
/r/MensRights13/08/13 03:33 PM
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And here's the imgur rehost
/r/MensRights13/08/13 03:32 PM
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Here's his interview on nfl.com
/r/MensRights09/08/13 06:34 PM
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This is just the "infographic". The audio accompanying it made it clear that the accusations were false.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 06:01 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/wPRbnOD.gif
/r/MensRights08/08/13 05:25 PM
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That's one reason I don't post in /r/Feminism at all, because I'm not allowed to "top-level comment" without accepting feminism as a fact. We must always invite discussion, especially from those who disagree.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 08:51 PM
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"You're calling me a misogynist because it's easy to do, but you shouldn't." Simple and to the point.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 03:29 PM
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More info Notably: Days later, Snyder was fired for violating court rules about assisting a party in a case. As Conor Friedersdorf points out in the Atlantic, Snyder emerged relatively unscathed, retaining her pension and having planned to retire soon anyway. tl;dr: She broke explicit rules governing her employment and was forced to retire 9 months early with no penalty to her pension.
/r/MensRights31/07/13 04:48 PM
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It's true! I saw it in a documentary. Here's a picture of the kids: http://i.imgur.com/01xq72M.jpg
/r/MensRights26/07/13 04:52 PM
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Try this one: http://i.imgur.com/eEVmE.gif
/r/MensRights26/07/13 03:18 PM
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This is my life. My wife gets herself thoroughly exhausted doing floors 3x per week. I have never once asked her to, but she feels she "can't relax in a messy house" so she just wears herself out. Sure, the house is clean but I'd rather she spend the time paying more attention to us. I don't care if there's crap on the floor- I'll wear house shoes.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 08:40 PM
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"I realize your sexual needs aren't being met, but if you met our emotional needs first we might be more predisposed to help you out. Not because we care about your needs, but because we've gotta keep you happy so you can take care of ours."
/r/MensRights25/07/13 08:32 PM
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But that's not to say men aren't concerned about these issues. In 2008, 60% of American men reported feeling a conflict between their work and family life. "I really think we need a men's movement," says Slaughter, "and you're starting to see it. Guys are starting to speak up for themselves about masculinity, about care-giving. You know, women are hypocrites this way, because we would go crazy if men treated us in the workforce the way we typically treat them at home – if a guy in the workforce …
/r/MensRights22/07/13 10:17 PM
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If he was registered as the father on the birth certificate he is legally the father and OP has almost ZERO rights until the mother chooses to assert his paternity. Even then the father in-residence can fight the claim which would then require a paternity test. Definitely want to lawyer up. If you want a relationship with your biological child, great and go for it; however, I would recommend staying far away from what appears to be a selfish and unstable woman.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 05:05 PM
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He has to sign away all rights before the baby is born. He does not get his name on the birth certificate. The child’s father will be registered as “unknown”. If someone else—say his ex’s new husband—wishes to adopt and coparent the child, he cannot interfere. The only exception to this is if the mother did not alert the father to the pregnancy beforehand. He should be able to provide witnesses to testify that he hadn’t seen her in at least six months prior to the birth. He never contacts the ch…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 04:46 PM
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Not for judge Hardlaw
/r/MensRights17/07/13 09:57 PM
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Among the many serious issues that parents, teachers, and all of society are facing today is the underachievement of boys in the education system. But how can this issue be addressed? Where can those concerned find the best resolution to this problem? Dr. Brown helps parents, teachers, and the society look into this crucial issue as he provides knowledge and insights during this lecture and in his new book, Rescuing our Underachieving Sons. Good thing they're ready shut this spectacle of hate an…
/r/MensRights16/07/13 06:24 PM
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from the MR Edmonton statement: For the people that want a quick answer to the question of why the campaign, we would respond, What is wrong with advocating against both rape and false rape accusations? Both are abhorrent means of manipulation and power. As for our campaign, not once did it advocate or apologize for rape. It is very clearly worded to target only people who lie about sexual assault. “Lying about sexual assault = a crime” is a statement of fact that any rational person will agree …
/r/MensRights11/07/13 03:30 PM
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from /r/Feminism first responses (all top level comments) in threads here should come from feminists and must reflect a feminist perspective, though all such responses can be challenged / debated;
/r/MensRights03/07/13 05:04 PM
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I was in that thread and kept running up to the same argument: A woman has to deal with the consequences of choice regarding her body but both participants have to deal with the consequences of pregnancy. I couldn't get anyone to understand that it is an inequality to have the man's choices entirely dependent on the woman's right. It's her body, her right to choose, and that's fine. But let's not pretend that it's equality. It can be unequal, that's fine. Let's call it what it is though.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 04:21 PM
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Thanks for posting this. This article was my first introduction to the Men and this sub.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 03:53 PM
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The only difference is that it's slowly seeping into the mainstream and actually countering the whole "man up" and "immature men" thing that came and went rather quickly. This is happening because slowly, but surely, men's rights are started to be an issue to EVERYONE. 5 years ago I brought up something about how sentencing disparities were a problem in a conversation with my in-laws. They both told me it was because men were just "more dangerous". Now they have dear friends who are dealing with…
/r/MensRights20/06/13 04:04 PM
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Woman wants divorce: She's taking a voyage of self discovery Man wants divorce: What a selfish man-child!
/r/MensRights19/06/13 08:58 PM
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This was why I was not a fan of Eat, Pray, Love because it feeds into this divorce fantasy that women seem to have in their later years of "I know why I have problems, it's my HUSBAND!"
/r/MensRights19/06/13 08:57 PM
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In my anectdotal experience I've known of two vasectomies that reversed themselves. It does happen, but without knowing more details it's hard to say which is more likely.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 03:16 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/CRumsLk.gif
/r/MensRights30/05/13 10:41 PM
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What does that even mean? "You can disregard everything that follows" or "I'm making up nonsense"
/r/MensRights30/05/13 10:12 PM
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"I'm just a woman on my own!" Equality is hard sometimes.
/r/MensRights21/05/13 09:47 PM
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I got to this part The women's movement produced articulate women to narrate their agenda. Where are the men? And thought "They're being threatened by angry feminist mobs in Toronto".
/r/MensRights21/05/13 08:04 PM
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Arias herself is hoping for the Death Penalty. I'd like to see her spend 60 years in prison alone with her crazy.
/r/MensRights16/05/13 05:40 PM
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Mewling Quim
/r/MensRights07/05/13 04:06 PM
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To be honest, I read it as "Women and children bear the burden of unplanned pregnancies" rather than rape. It's still incredible misandrist, but there you have it.
/r/MensRights07/05/13 04:01 PM
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Maybe she didn't want to be vulgar in an internet advice column? If it was sexual enough to reduce a 14 year-old to shame and tears then it went too far. If they did it to you and you were enjoying it, then it would be a different matter. What specifically was said and how physical contact was made is important in determining whether or not we evaluate the contact as harassing or sexual in nature. No, that is flatly wrong as per the legal definition I previously linked. If the contact was annoyi…
/r/MensRights01/05/13 06:17 PM
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It doesn't matter if it was suggestive or not, the definition of the term requires that it was "sexual" in nature. If he really was receiving "blatantly sexual propositions" then I would assume the touching was "blatantly sexual" as well. Also, If the touching is unsolicited and causes alarm then at the very least it fits the legal definition of harassment. You're quibbling over whether he was touched "hard enough" for it to be a grope. The point is that he was touched in a harassing manner by w…
/r/MensRights01/05/13 04:47 PM
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grope /grōp/ Verb Feel about or search blindly or uncertainly with the hands. Noun An act of fondling someone for sexual pleasure. Whether something was a grope is determined by the intent of the perpetrator. In this instance, since it was "suggestively" done I would classify it as groping.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 10:28 PM
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Took me a while to piece this together. Thanks.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 03:28 PM
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Minor son is harassed and groped in restaurant by adults. Response? If that's not possible, another adult male should help him understand that his arousal was normal and nothing to be ashamed of. She's assuming that he was upset because he got aroused and not because he was being treated as a piece of meat. What an ignorant twit.
/r/MensRights30/04/13 03:26 PM
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It is mind blowing. Better get consent for that.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 09:05 PM
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No, see, it's very empowering. Women are strong, capable, and responsible unless they don't want to be in which case they can claim they were somehow incapacitated. ^<sup>/s</sup>
/r/MensRights19/04/13 09:05 PM
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In much the same way that Twilight depicts a strong woman by detailing the romance of a woman who tries to kill herself when her boyfriend leaves her.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 09:04 PM
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Because a woman's sexuality is good, healthy, and beautiful. A man's sexuality is bad, perverse, and deplorable. ^^^^<sup>/s</sup>
/r/MensRights19/04/13 02:48 PM
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Filling a false report and perjury are, indeed, criminal offenses.
/r/MensRights13/04/13 05:40 AM
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"And now we will be hearing from Bruce in the Pay Gap and Inequalities department"
/r/MensRights10/04/13 08:19 PM
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there's an implied /s
/r/MensRights10/04/13 05:38 PM
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Thanks for pointing this out. It needs to be demonstrated that just as right-wing radicals appropriate "Family Issues" and "Faith Issues" feminism tries to appropriate "Minority Issues" to hide the fact that there really isn't much in the way of systematic discrimination against women.
/r/MensRights10/04/13 05:36 PM
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We all have advantages and disadvantages. The crazy part is that women say "You can't see your privilege because you're blind to it". Makes sense, if it's always been there I might not perceive my advantages. But then when you turn it around and say "Women have privilege, you just don't see it because you're blind to it" they lose their minds and cry "YOUR PRIVILEGE IS BETTER! WE HAVE NO PRIVILEGE! PATRIARCHY"! until you leave.
/r/MensRights10/04/13 04:34 PM
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It's a cop-out. I typically hear feminists say that whatever they're doing is "Fighting the Patriarchy" and therefore by their own definitions they're always working on "men's issues" because patriarchy. Women-centered disadvantages of Patriarchy are narrowly addressed and men are just supposed to thank them because they're "fighting the Patriarchy". Only, there is no "Patriarchy" as it's defined as a cohesive system. There's no headquarters, no connectivity. The Patriarchs in the "Body Image" d…
/r/MensRights10/04/13 04:15 PM
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If you can live with the consequences, then it's no trouble at all!
/r/MensRights09/04/13 11:42 PM
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It's any recording that has audio.
/r/MensRights09/04/13 09:21 PM
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Also, OP should check on recording laws. If he's in California (Hollywood Chicks?) bear in mind that California is a two-party consent state.
/r/MensRights09/04/13 08:34 PM
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This is anecdotal That's where I, and most men, stopped listening to feminism: When women's anecdotes are indicative of a pervasive culture and men's anecdotes are just isolated incidents.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 11:14 PM
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/r/Feminism Please observe our rules: all top level comments, in any thread, must be given by feminists and must reflect a feminist perspective - details below. You've nailed it. You have to completely accept their premise and argue from that point. There is no other option.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 09:54 PM
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and sometimes faults men if they do not perpetuate violence because it's seen as un-manly. Does feminism believe a culture exists that deprecates men who aren't violent against women? I believe I can firmly say that no such culture exists in the US.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 09:53 PM
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what it is that feminism is doing to bully men. from /r/Feminism Please observe our rules: all top level comments, in any thread, must be given by feminists and must reflect a feminist perspective - details below. tl;dr: Feminists don't want to discuss any opinions unless they're brought up by other feminists.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 09:47 PM
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and she was a minor.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 09:25 PM
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I hope she doesn't injure her shoulder patting herself on the back so much.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 04:11 PM
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Seriously. It's a terrible tragedy that an innocent man did 20 years for a crime he didn't commit. It's not a tragedy that they can now charge and convict the actual villain.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 03:53 PM
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I think it's trying to parody a lot of rightwing/conservative views about rape but then people took it seriously. Poe's law strikes again.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 04:21 PM
5

The first she was thanked for. The second she was fired for. Yes, thanks for this. She was not fired for reporting inappropriate behavior, she was fired for: behaving in a conspicuous and inappropriate manner and claiming her employer supported these actions. If you do anything inappropriate in the name of your employer, you're gonna have a real bad time.
/r/MensRights28/03/13 03:23 PM
2

I'm surprised they could even get a warrant for an arrest under such circumstances. Don't you need evidence or something verified to get one?
/r/MensRights26/03/13 04:56 PM
24

Thank you. For a second I thought all her friends were named Amanda.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 11:03 PM
9

We make romantic life less risky for women by challenging me to show the fuck up shifting it back to men where it was before feminism entered the dating scene. FTFY
/r/MensRights22/03/13 07:25 PM
51

I thought it was interesting they included this comment: "They didn't lose their jobs because of Adria Richards, they lost their jobs because of unprofessional actions reflecting badly on their employers," wrote Jake. When this is exactly the reason Adria lost her job: she took unprofessional actions that reflected badly on her employer. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 03:24 PM
1

Who the fuck still uses a milk man?
/r/MensRights21/03/13 10:09 PM
0

imgur rehost?
/r/MensRights21/03/13 05:37 PM
6

my kingdom for an imgur rehost of the tweet!
/r/MensRights21/03/13 05:35 PM
2

silence?
/r/MensRights20/03/13 06:48 PM
4

Are you a woman in tech? I'd like to be friends, talk about family and interests, etc, but there's too much chance that somebody else- not even you but someone else- could misinterpret my interest in you as a person and report me to HR. I notice you're having a hard day and want to wish you well. I think you've been doing great work and your last project killed. I like the funny cartoon on your cubicle wall and think your kids look cute in the frames on your desk. Sadly, I don't say any of these…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:59 PM
5

People are willing to pay for software engineers and tech positions because they're consumer driven. Teaching is public/taxpayer funded and has no tangible product- so while there's a need for teachers it's not as though they're actually willing to pay people a wage high enough to fill that demand. If teachers got paid anywhere close to what tech jobs pay I can guarantee you there wouldn't be a teacher shortage.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 03:27 PM
1

In California at my company it's all covered equally under the "family medical leave act". Both fathers and mothers get the same ability to take leave, but it's done at state disability levels payed through UI. It sucks and nobody can afford to take a 60% pay cut for long.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 03:04 PM
3

“When it comes to technology employment, it’s a skills-driven marketplace,” It's a supply-and-demand argument. While the value of teaching school may be equivalent to the value of software engineering we can agree that more people choose teaching than software engineering. As such the position is more in demand and can bring in a higher salary. Apparently if women wanted to enter tech fields not only can they do so but they can earn as much as male counterparts. Do they want to? Well, we might a…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 03:03 PM
3

There was a story last month about a woman who was fighting to change these archaic definitions because even though she was sodomized at gunpoint the law didn't consider it rape-rape. /s That's how you get the laws changed, wait for them to affect women /s
/r/MensRights20/03/13 02:54 PM
3

Call out women who destroy lives in defense of (in this case) clearly feigned sensitivity. If it's ok for a woman to make sexualized comments about male genitalia in public but not ok for a man to do it, well I guess that's just patriarchy?
/r/MensRights20/03/13 02:49 PM
74

Where consent means nothing because even if you have it it can be withdrawn retroactively.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 06:00 AM
70

I've read several articles by women in STEM fields that they feel isolated or excluded by their male co-workers. They aren't engaged in conversation, they aren't invited to socialize outside of work, and aren't contacted outside the context of work. THIS IS WHY: because one woman's hypo-agency against a juvenile and inappropriate joke has now ruined the livelihoods of two men. As a man, I have no way of know what sort of comments might be found inappropriate by a woman I've never met so I would …
/r/MensRights19/03/13 11:02 PM
29

And if a guy is grieving for his father, even if he was someone you both dislike, then give him some peace to come to terms with all that. Maybe he feels like an asshole for thinking his father was an asshole? Maybe men have problems that they need to work through on their own and can't conform to anyone else's timetable.
/r/MensRights18/03/13 04:29 PM
4

But we do have to acknowledge that we live in a culture that encourages violence toward women What aspect of "culture" encourages violence toward women beyond the tiny subset that can be found in the "hook-up" culture or frat-houses? Any man who shows violence toward women is crucified publicly. Where does she live that encourages violence toward women?
/r/MensRights14/03/13 11:11 PM
23

Step 2: Don't be unattractive!
/r/MensRights12/03/13 10:54 PM
6

Your honor, my client feels reeeeeally bad about what she did. Surely that excuses her from the legal consequences of her action I'm betting she never sees 1 minute of jail time.
/r/MensRights12/03/13 03:26 PM
7

Rape Crisis Services believes them, believes sexual assault victims should not be penalized for reporting acts of sexual violence to law enforcement. They aren't being penalized for reporting acts of sexual violence, they're being penalized for making a false report.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 04:39 PM
40

Did I really need a /s ?
/r/MensRights10/03/13 06:07 AM
7

It's fine, they just have to choose feminist ideals.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 04:28 AM
163

They should count themselves lucky she recanted Yes, how good of her to recant in the face of incontrovertible evidence. She's a real hero.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 02:53 AM
12

That would be great to see. I was terminated from a previous job for "misconduct" and I still treasure the findings of the judge that state I wasn't. Just reading through legal awesomeness like that is something I find thrilling. Maybe I'm weird.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 08:46 PM
10

So this was a petition to "Please impeach these individuals and here's why". Who did you file the petition with and does this mean your petition was accepted?
/r/MensRights07/03/13 08:15 PM
25

As I understand, an "impeachment" just means bringing formal charges against. Was there any result of those charges?
/r/MensRights07/03/13 06:06 PM
8

Labelling an opponent a purveyor of hate speech is the cheap trick now used to give moral authority to shut down certain conversations. That's the standard MO alright. The author nailed it.
/r/MensRights07/03/13 05:54 PM
18

Seriously, have we tried telling criminals not to crime? Seems like we could save a TON of money.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 06:47 PM
25

Oh, so they were angry. That explains the beating.
/r/MensRights06/03/13 12:44 AM
15

STOP RESISTING!
/r/MensRights05/03/13 11:08 PM
1

no u
/r/MensRights05/03/13 06:22 PM
1

The fact that you think I'm a feminist is hilarious. I've been banned from that sub for vocally disagreeing with their screed. Are you suggesting that any time a person is found not-guilty of rape the accuser should immediately be on trial for a false accusation? I'm genuinely curious.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:47 PM
1

Just spend some time in /r/aww and chill the fuck out. Go back, read what I wrote from the top, then think about it, then don't bother to write anything more because you're a frothing moron. Since you don't disagree with anything I just wrote it seems like we're done. q.e.d - the law is broken and needs reform.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:40 PM
1

Stop wasting your time then. You're failing at so much in this conversation you really need to prioritize. I don't think "feeling bad" and "life in prison" are the same thing. I think that to punish someone for a "false allegation" you have to prove that there was fraudulent or malicious intent. Finding someone innocent of rape charges does not automatically mean that the accusation was false, fraudulent, or malicious. At the same time I think the burden of proof for rape cases needs to be highe…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:26 PM
1

And now you've gone Godwin. I never said it was right for women to make accusation based on a faulty understanding of rape, I said it was understandable. I think accusing someone of rape based on your regrets is morally reprehensible, but it clouds the issue of false rape allegations if we include legal definitions of rape. MRAs should lobby to have those definitions challenged, but until they are the allegation is only "false" in my estimation if the person making it knows it to be false. I als…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:21 PM
1

If society gives men no choice then you're making them infantile, incapable children as much as women. Can you see where your logic falls down as regards to men?
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:13 PM
3

In addition I think that all women should have free access to reproductive health care. It's better for society if children are born healthy. I also support men having free access to reproductive health care, but that doesn't seem to be part of the women's movement.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:35 AM
2

So when society indoctrinates men to think they're disposable and only good for a paycheck, we in /r/MensRights rail against the system rather than say "these idiots need to realize what's true and what's not". When women, however, grow up in a system that says "if you can't remember consenting you were raped" and then follow the teachings of that system it's all about their individual choices and they need to be responsible. It cuts both ways and we need to work on the system and the individual…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:30 AM
2

The law treats them as babies, so they act as babies. This isn't malicious intent but rather the way they've been raised. A woman who is told she has been raped cannot be expected to act otherwise under such indoctrination. I'm not saying they should be absolved, in fact I believe the opposite. My point is that too often there is confusion as to what "false rape accusations" are and what should be punished. My point is that if the law is wrong, and women follow that wrong law, they shouldn't be …
/r/MensRights05/03/13 05:27 AM
2

The law that says that all drunken sex is rape needs to be overturned. It is a bad law. An unjust law. Absolutely. And while a person who is accused would certainly be wrongfully accused I wouldn't call it false because the woman herself has been deceived as to the crime.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 09:10 PM
6

There's a "mistake" in that she was too drunk to remember but believes she was raped. It isn't her fault that the law tells her she's been raped. It's an improper system that criminalizes behavior for one gender while absolving the other of personal responsibility.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:53 PM
6

I think an important issue here is the difference between "false rape accusers" and "mistaken rape accusers". When a person blacks out and wakes up next to someone and witnesses say "oh, you and so-and-so were really going at it last night. You were really into them" and they accuse their partner of rape, that's "mistaken". I would say it wasn't rape, but I'd also say it's not a "false accusation". A false accusation is where someone invents a fictional account out of whole cloth in an attempt t…
/r/MensRights04/03/13 08:41 PM
11

This line of thinking is what's referred to as "victim blaming" when it's used against women who didn't just "stop" the actions they didn't like. fyi.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:33 PM
11

His name was Thomas Ball...
/r/MensRights03/03/13 06:44 PM
3

You can't sue them because they aren't breaking any laws
/r/MensRights02/03/13 04:49 AM
2

Here's another handy resource
/r/MensRights28/02/13 10:51 PM
8

The article reported the mother's warped perspective, not any sentiment that it was actually for his own good. All the judgment comes from the mother, not the author.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 10:45 PM
1

Some, if not all, the girls are minors.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 04:18 PM
1

And left-handed
/r/MensRights28/02/13 04:17 PM
1

The top comment is: Completely. That is the definition of privilege right there, some advantage given you by someone else’s action. And htis is gendered in this case, this is femlae privilege, becasue a hot looking man would not have gotten the same preferment among that bunch of men.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 12:28 AM
3

You can see people confronted with a solid logical argument have no way to argue against it so they turn to "Yes, it's good advice but only under x,y,z conditions" and then try to exempt women from following it and shift the responsibility. This will be my counter argument though to the "Teach men not to rape": Don't put your safety in the hands of rapists.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 05:17 PM
13

38 states in the US have single-party consent. It's best to be sure as there can be a grey area as to where there's an "expectation of privacy"
/r/MensRights27/02/13 05:00 PM
7

TNG had a good one where the population of an entire planet was androgynous. They literally had no gender. One of the natives associating w/ Riker revealed that they felt they identified as female. This was strictly taboo and the self-identified woman was taken away by some sort of moral police and "re-educated" to the genderless norm. It was a commentary in the late 80's early 90's on the gender-queer movement that it was wrong for people to be forced into a gender role that wasn't of their cho…
/r/MensRights25/02/13 09:56 PM
4

I think the episode on lawns didn't. I was impressed that they managed to work nudity into the one about organic food, though.
/r/MensRights24/02/13 06:52 PM
12

and if you are not only unwilling to give me what I need to be sexually satisfied but you also pathologize my body then you are officially kicked to the curb. I can't see why this doesn't go both ways.
/r/MensRights14/02/13 03:36 PM
5

I caught that also: Michelle Lester M. Lester
/r/MensRights13/02/13 10:07 PM
3

My comment on the article: So, to sum-up Teachers are using non-academic factors to determine student's grade This bias is split almost exactly down gender lines This bias favors girls over boys Boys are being penalized academically throughout their school career for typical boy behavior. I think we've discovered way fewer men are graduating high school, going to college, and succeeding professionally. I look forward to hearing the response from the White House council on Men and Boys. Oh wait- …
/r/MensRights12/02/13 07:22 PM
2

Could it be that the prosecutor feels it needs to send a message? The message I get is "I don't know what the hell I'm doing". Anyone else?
/r/MensRights08/02/13 10:22 PM
3

It's all going to boil down to her testimony and credibility. Her credibility is shot because she lied about this all from the beginning, so now she has to go for the defense of "I didn't know what I was doing because I was messed up". It's kind of hard to claim that killing someone by stabbing them 27 times, slitting their throat, and shooting them in the head was self defense. Sounds like rage, and no matter how much of a bastard someone is you can't kill them. It's illegal.
/r/MensRights07/02/13 01:08 AM
2

This article is almost 5 years old. Take it with a grain of salt.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 05:13 PM
4

Yeah, I looked at the first few questions and closed the browser. I don't mind surveys, or even long surveys, but I object to needlessly long surveys. Your form doesn't even allow for keyboard navigation.
/r/MensRights05/02/13 04:49 PM
47

Man, someone should take this app and use it as a lens to review sexism in video games or something.....
/r/MensRights31/01/13 03:19 PM
5

Or it's a private school. Or he's been there 20 years.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 05:44 PM
10

Image isn't loading for me /s
/r/MensRights30/01/13 12:36 AM
3

I've noticed this with my children vs. my brothers. Their children have a very close, almost helicoptering mother at home and the kids do almost nothing for themselves and seem to have very poor behavior. On the flip side my kids get their own breakfast in the morning (age 5 and 3) and are generally mindful. I give them tasks to do and then deal with the consequences how how they do them which leaves me cleaning up a lot of messes, but the kids seem happy and bright.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 07:14 PM
9

I like how it was framed as a "freedom of choice" issue. If people choose one way of living a single partner can't force the status of that relationship to change. Good news indeed.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 07:06 PM
1

Go dog GO Do you like my hat?
/r/MensRights10/01/13 09:44 PM
2

I didn't really see much outrage from anyone when a 40 year-old celebrity molested an 18 year-old pop star in front of a live audience. I guess that's because sexual attention from a woman is always welcome and any attention from a man is creepy.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 09:38 PM
1

Your sympathy is appreciated. Source: I was an unattractive weirdo.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 08:04 PM
30

Step one: Be attractive Step two: don't be unattractive
/r/MensRights10/01/13 04:30 PM
1

I was a SAHD for 18 months and I'd go back any moment my wife asked me to. As it is, however, I have way more earning potential so I have to be content with getting my fathering in weeknights after 5pm and on Dad-urday's at the park.
/r/MensRights09/01/13 09:32 PM
6

See, if only men would let feminism help them these problems would go away. Women don't commit shootings, qed men should be more like women /s
/r/MensRights08/01/13 05:18 PM
36

"Being an ugly woman is like being a man: you're gonna have to work for everything" Daniel Tosh
/r/MensRights06/01/13 12:28 AM
28

What's next, the elderly?!?!
/r/MensRights02/01/13 02:01 AM
3

Not possible. Nothing ever didn't happen more than this.
/r/MensRights26/12/12 09:05 PM
2

I have since added a /s tag since it wasn't apparent.
/r/MensRights18/12/12 04:33 PM
2

Feminism Equality. FTFY edit: /s
/r/MensRights18/12/12 03:28 PM
10

Well, solidarity is expensive...
/r/MensRights11/12/12 06:22 PM
1

My translation, as best I could figure. Holy Cow, dude! That woman's crazy! Who's car is that? What's he gonna do? Where'd she get that? She brought it in her purse! Wow, she's pissed! Mother of God, look at her go! Man, what made her do this? Pretty cool. I don't know what happened, does anyone? Holy crap, dude! Holy crap, that girl is crazy! She's gonna bust it all up! You got that right. She's doing quite a number on that. Man, what a crazy woman. She's there thinking this is a game. Cheering…
/r/MensRights06/12/12 11:59 PM
-6

And male obsession with sex. Edit: /s
/r/MensRights05/12/12 09:36 PM
17

Catherine Smith, 21, from London said: 'Of course men should pay, it proves that romance isn't dead and that the whole concept of being a gentleman carries on. It's a really nice gesture and shows they are caring. It makes men feel in power- they love that.' What's the "really nice" equivalent gesture that carries-on the concept of being a lady? I'm curious to know.
/r/MensRights06/11/12 08:37 PM
27

I've seen this many times. I was a SAHD for two years and would take my kids to the park every day and play with them. Often times there'd be other kids and if a child got injured while the mother was gabbing with her friends or browsing her phone the injury immediately became my fault if I was anywhere near the child. Society has made dads scapegoats for a lot of problems, and it's not going to change soon.
/r/MensRights06/11/12 07:07 PM
2

For some women it is. I think three point was that feminism generally supports a woman's right to choose any career or lifestyle until they choose a traditional or domestic role.
/r/MensRights04/11/12 05:43 PM
1

That bastard! Who does he think he is going off to work every day while she stays home? HOME! Like she was a parent or something! Come on, she had no choice.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 06:23 AM
12

And things that never happened.
/r/MensRights28/10/12 06:50 AM
37

A 17 year-old is more than capable of consenting to a sexual relationship. Unless it's a woman, in which case it's a crime punishable by time in prison. /s I believe the point of the post was to point out the disparity of legal enforcement.
/r/MensRights26/10/12 03:04 PM
8

She spoke her piece, I shut it down, and to her credit she's never brought it up again.
/r/MensRights24/10/12 04:50 PM
5

Fine, let's say: The medical benefits of circumcision are non-existent
/r/MensRights24/10/12 04:43 PM
7

If you're putting a baby on a cot you shouldn't be a parent. Risk vs. Reward. The benefit of holding a child far outweighs the risk of dropping him. The benefits of circumcision are non-existent and don't outweigh the risk of accidental death. Your move.
/r/MensRights24/10/12 04:30 PM
13

One can be avoided, the other can't. Check. Mate.
/r/MensRights24/10/12 04:26 PM
23

I'm circumcised and once I found out there was a non-zero chance of the procedure killing my son, I opted out. My wife and her mother both brought out this argument and my answer was "Ask the doctor" but since we had a European doctor (or perhaps Russian?) I mostly knew what the response would be: Wife: Shouldn't he match his father? Doctor: Are you a naked family? Wife: What? Doctor: Is everybody in the house naked all times? Some families are naked families, and this is ok. Wife: Um, no. We we…
/r/MensRights24/10/12 02:39 PM
35

He was practically a shoe-in for president of France, correct? Has he seriously disappeared from all public discourse or is he just going to come back in a few years?
/r/MensRights24/10/12 02:30 PM
25

DavidY said: "Circumcisions are down, but tattoos, breast implants, and body piercings are up. Go figure." Probably not among boys age 0-1.
/r/MensRights19/10/12 06:53 PM
19

When the issues of feminism are presented on their merits side-by-side with issues affecting men AND the organization begins to campaign for HUMAN RIGHTS (parental rights, reproductive rights, workplace safety, educational opportunity, etc) for both genders- then and only then would I consider calling myself a feminist.
/r/MensRights10/10/12 04:10 PM
7

"Of course I trust you honey. I've never doubted for a second that you're true to me. I know you. I love you. The rest of the world though? They need to know. I want to have a document of scientific proof and undeniable evidence, a deed of genetic certainty, that our faithfulness knows no bounds and that this incredible child is the union of our bodies. Something that I could cherish forever, a piece of proof of who I am and who our child is. I want to shout from the rooftops and publish in ever…
/r/MensRights05/10/12 08:11 PM
5

My wife is happy being at home with the kids, and chose a career that she can do from home while working. If she wanted to work full-time out of the house we'd need to see how the finances measure up, and if it made more sense for me to be at home we'd do that. I think the most important thing to do in a marriage is for most partners to concern themselves first and foremost with the other person's happiness.
/r/MensRights04/10/12 04:05 PM
4

'The lawsuit is totally absurd. How could my little boy do so much damage? My poor son,' Carpio's protective father, Jorge, told the Post. How? With his feet and a complete lack of restraint, that's how. I hope this kid gets some help/parenting before he picks a fight with someone who's unrestrained from retaliating.
/r/MensRights02/10/12 07:11 PM
5

In reading the article it seemed like they author acknowledged that bias exists on both sides, but that only bias against women was a problem.
/r/MensRights01/10/12 08:03 PM
33

From the article: His money goes toward groceries for the family, car maintenance, hanging out with friends and personal items, like clothes. Sounds like he's picking up food and misc. expenses for the family while she pays for housing and utilities. Not knowing where they live, it's hard to say what percentage he's picking up but it seems he's definitely contributing.
/r/MensRights27/09/12 04:18 PM
5

In other news: A 34yr old 21 yr old male has been sentenced to 40 years in prison for "raping" a 17yr old. FTFY
/r/MensRights26/09/12 08:36 PM
15

Maybe she should take this opportunity for introspection; Could she have raped? This will definitely be good for her. At least, that's what we tell men.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 10:03 PM
17

It didn't hurt me. I walked into an interview with my documents showing my last job had tried to screw me over and a court judgment in my favor. Most businesses are good and most employers recognize that there are bad people out there. The question is: what do you hope to get out of this? If you want revenge, go ahead. You might even get damages. If you want to move on then move on. I know for me I couldn't move on until I had corrected the wrongs perpetrated against me.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 06:39 PM
21

Tell them you have a case for wrongful termination, harassment, and discrimination.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 06:31 PM
18

I helped to show that I disagreed with the charges from the beginning and that my denial was complete.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 06:30 PM
54

Good on you for not signing the paper. I did they same when I was terminated and the paper had lies on it. The fact that I refused to sign was key in my case against the company.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 06:24 PM
34

Mom doesn't want to be a mom: poor thing is oppressed and needs compassion. Dad doesn't want to be a dad: throw that deadbeat in jail if he doesn't pay. Both need feminism. Apparently.
/r/MensRights21/09/12 06:22 AM
73

The court has no jurisdiction over how the money is spent, and there's ZERO accountability. The mother need provide no receipts, no bank records, no itemization of purchases. You give her the money or you go to jail and there's nothing you can do.
/r/MensRights20/09/12 11:13 PM
62

When you hit him ಠ_ಠ
/r/MensRights20/09/12 04:41 PM
2

Think of the CHILDREN!
/r/MensRights19/09/12 03:09 PM
2

it's not trolling- each of those answers had 100% of the votes! /s
/r/MensRights19/09/12 03:04 PM
15

Let's start boy's-only mentoring for writing! Get professional authors, journalists, and writers (all men) to come in and show boys how writing can be a great career choice for them. Wait, there are still more male authors than female authors? Then nevermind, there's no problem. Men still have it better, obviously. /s
/r/MensRights17/09/12 07:17 PM
3

Indeed. Obvious troll is obvious.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 04:51 AM
2

*honors
/r/MensRights10/09/12 05:54 PM
3

And by this same logic, a parent who gives in to a whiny child has been coerced into buying them candy, and since coercion is force the child is guilty of robbery/theft. How does nobody see that laws like this diminish the capacity of women to make their own decisions?
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:26 PM
9

I'm totally confused at what's happening here and the point the author's trying to make. Could someone explain like I'm five?
/r/MensRights05/09/12 07:42 PM
5

Which is exactly the point I was trying to make. Glad you understood.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 04:47 PM
2

women are getting assaulted at a higher rate than men. That's why I really liked this line: The media have mostly focused on sexual crimes against women, but Matthews said abuse in the military is “not a gender issue but a human rights issue.” Turning it into a human rights issue is always the way to go and has been one of the things that drew me to the MRM. It's not an "us vs them" mentality, nor is equality a zero-sum game. It's about addressing problems that people face, regardless of whether…
/r/MensRights05/09/12 04:08 PM
9

This woman was clearly mentally ill. I see no reason to treat her like a murderer and the sentence seems fitting. What I find to be a men's rights issue is that there is no similar standard for depressed men. If a woman is depressed and it drives her to madness then she's a victim. If a man is depressed and acts out on it he "should've handled it". I hope she and thousands of depressed PEOPLE get the help they need. Fortunately for women there are many offices of women's health and services avai…
/r/MensRights05/09/12 03:39 PM
2

When was the last time an article about a male rapist went on about what a gorgeous hunk of man he was? Not a rapist, but James Holmes immediately had a sympathetic and admiring fan club after his crime.
/r/MensRights28/08/12 06:19 PM
2

Better to stick to MoVember. It's established already.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 05:39 PM
5

My wife and I lost a baby at 18 weeks a few years back. This guy nailed it. But the Dad is bonding too all this while. He is scared, he is worried, both for his baby and his wife. From the moment his wife comes in with the ClearBlue, he is on it. He is thinking about the extra mouth that needs feeding, he is wondering where he is going to get the energy from to go through it all again, he is wondering how long he can afford to take off work, he is worried for his wife, he wants to keep her happy…
/r/MensRights14/08/12 06:04 PM
9

I bet you 99% of SRSers either read jezebel regularly or have a positive opinion of write it. FTFY
/r/MensRights14/08/12 05:57 PM
1

*Where
/r/MensRights07/08/12 09:22 PM
-1

The sikh temple shooting also received poor coverage.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 05:57 PM
5

"Asians" in the UK typically refers to people from India, Pakistan, and Afghanistan, doesn't it?
/r/MensRights07/08/12 05:54 PM
7

only because of the Patriarchy, though.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 05:53 PM
7

“We’ve had ladies coming in and they’ve not questioned it [ban on men]. They’ve been asking for it for a long time.” you don't say
/r/MensRights07/08/12 05:52 PM
3

I assure you, it's sadly real
/r/MensRights06/08/12 06:42 PM
26

Tell her what I told my wife: If we do this, the boy could die. There is a greater-than-zero chance of your son dying from an unnecessary procedure. Let her think about that.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 06:25 PM
6

that's manhood academy
/r/MensRights06/08/12 03:23 PM
8

/s
/r/MensRights05/08/12 04:33 PM
18

Stop victim-blaming
/r/MensRights05/08/12 04:29 PM
6

Unless she decides she wants to
/r/MensRights02/08/12 06:46 AM
1

I'm hopeful they won't stoop to having father taking care of kids being the joke. It would be nice to have a show that shows how good fathers can be.
/r/MensRights01/08/12 10:41 PM
6

Same thing happened to Dave Foley. They assessed his child support when he was a star on News Radio and they've refused to adjust his payments.
/r/MensRights01/08/12 08:10 PM
5

Seems like "was removed from the building" is more accurate.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 11:45 PM
1

The line is usually between attractive and not attractive.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 06:51 PM
1

An unwanted pregnancy or a pregnancy that is the wish Pitt only one partner wanted and achieved through deception of the other partner.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 06:26 PM
1

My ICE plan is doing this but in Brazil because I know the language.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 06:17 PM
2

He's said similar things to female contestants this season. It's one of my wife and I's favorite shows
/r/MensRights25/07/12 04:28 PM
20

"The sexual value of youth remains a recession-proof commodity." A harsh truth, but truth nonetheless. A person's youth, intelligence, beauty, skill, etc all make up their worth. You invest your time, energy, abilities, and talents and then reap the rewards later. If I spent all my youth doing whatever I wanted and expected at age 35 for a company to hire me when I had less professional experience than someone who had started young, nobody would blame the company. Everyone wants to have security…
/r/MensRights24/07/12 06:45 PM
9

I loved the message that the book portrayed and the heroine as a capable, even-tempered and flawed female who overcomes enormous obstacles. The tension is real, not just inflated angst, and there's a well-done reversing of traditional gender roles with the Damsel saving the Dom in distress. I'm glad to have a positive female literary figure for my daughter to read.
/r/MensRights13/07/12 09:23 PM
291

I once consumed several alcoholic drinks with my friends, then went driving with a girl. We drove all over town and then decided to go street racing, after having a few beers. We were racing down main street and I T-boned a minivan killing 2 passengers. I sued them for reckless driving because I wouldn't have done any of that if I hadn't been drinking /s
/r/MensRights13/07/12 06:46 PM
5

I'm unfamiliar with FOAD as an acronym
/r/MensRights12/07/12 04:14 PM
13

is there a screencap available for those of us who don't have facebook at work?
/r/MensRights12/07/12 03:39 PM
8

yojmala: nice try, emasculated mangina I've read your book, seen your forums, and while SOME of what you have to say does, indeed, contain value getting that value out is like trying to find a diamond in a pig-sty. Your "bro culture" attitude is an immediate turn-off and you predilection towards aggression is not welcome in this forum. I pride myself on being a masculine man who presides over his home and family, never once having had to resort to fear tactics, manipulation, or head games to get…
/r/MensRights10/07/12 10:19 PM
9

nice try, Manhood Academy
/r/MensRights10/07/12 09:28 PM
2

"We want more girls engaged in robotics and computer programming and physics and engineering," Sax said in a telephone interview. "We want more boys engaged in poetry and creative writing and Spanish language." Whether they want to or not, right? Who's looking at what the kids want?
/r/MensRights09/07/12 03:42 PM
8

Where are all the men? At work!
/r/MensRights03/07/12 09:05 PM
3

I put shorts on my 4-year-old because she has a tendency (as many little girls do) to lift her skirt over her head.
/r/MensRights26/06/12 11:37 PM
1

thanks. Fixed
/r/MensRights25/06/12 10:26 PM
0

A Disney-approved public image is expensive to maintain.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 09:51 PM
1

...
/r/MensRights25/06/12 06:06 PM
8

TIL I haven't been spending nearly enough on alcohol.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 03:35 PM
5

You know what would help our young men apply themselves in school? A mandated adjustment from authority figures. That'll go well. /s I also thought it was telling that the author felt that women would be excellent at teaching manhood to boys.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 03:32 PM
5

The kind who would injure herself in police custody to prove a point?
/r/MensRights25/06/12 03:28 PM
4

he isn't meant to win
/r/MensRights19/06/12 02:51 PM
6

Child support =/= alimony. I've seen parents surrender their parental rights and allow a new spouse to adopt children in exchange for terminating support payments, but it doesn't happen by default.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 09:19 PM
5

IIRC the Big Brothers/Big Sisters had a policy that prohibited men from big-brothering girls while there was no such restriction for big sisters. ಠ_ಠ
/r/MensRights06/06/12 03:46 PM
3

I agree with you're analysis. When you break down the commercial's they're both using sexuality, but one is held subservient to the other.
/r/MensRights05/06/12 09:07 PM
2

link again they're equal opportunity
/r/MensRights05/06/12 08:31 PM
6

Let's call it "Dysfunctional Logic" since we know that everyone can make absurd justifications for their actions.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 12:20 AM
7

How do they keep it disconnected? I'm not arguing, just curious if there is specific, targeted behavior.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 12:18 AM
9

A common argument that I've heard (citation needed) is that the duped father should have no recourse because it would damage the child to find out that they've been lied to be their mother. Apparently it's irrelevant how damaging that would be to a man.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 12:17 AM
4

Only on the outside.. Oh, 3 comments? An SRS troll? Nothing to see here.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 11:48 PM
2

imbignateinbred I suscribed to this subreddit just so i can laugh at the retarded shit you guys say. Hurrdurrr i'm a raging pussy/mommy issues/my wife beats me/girlfriend cheats on me i'm a tool herperp women should do all the work and fuck paying alimony i want to spend my money getting fat at arby's." that's what the deleted post said. and since it still shows up on my old account, i'll just assume it was removed because you got upset at what i said and it's hilarious how you're trying to save…
/r/MensRights31/05/12 11:44 PM
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imbignateinbred "let me send you blank memes while i sit on my ass collecting unemploymet" that was mocking you, i never bitched about memes or said I collect unemployment. this one also shows up on that account so why you're trying to lie and say I deleted it just shows how much of a dipshit you are. you really are the weakest link. goodbye. I have nothing to save face about- you're the one embarrassing themselves with pop-culture references from the late 90's. It's like Family Guy and an angry…
/r/MensRights31/05/12 11:40 PM
4

Heard on the news today that 3 NFL teams are giving him a shot at trying out. Hope he can gain notoriety, get his life back on track, and use his celebrity status to bring this very real problem to the national consciousness.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 07:22 PM
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That's cool, I'm taking breaks to send memes while my code compiles. Don't forget to add more trolling to your posts- it provokes a stronger reaction. ... edit: Deleted post was complaining about memes and boasting about collecting unemployment.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 06:06 PM
10

... edit: Deleted post was a bunch of ranting against neckbeards, pussys, etc. I guess deleting his comment was the brave thing to do?
/r/MensRights31/05/12 05:47 PM
1

but less suicidal
/r/MensRights31/05/12 04:25 PM
3

Added. Definitely completes the message.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 03:26 PM
9

This should be the top comment. Arson is a crime in and of itself, even if it's your own property because of the safety concerns. He wasn't arrested for "Destroying his own property", he was arrested for arson. He probably would've been better off if he had gotten a buddy w/ a backhoe to roll through the house.
/r/MensRights31/05/12 03:25 PM
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We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need. -Tyler Durden
/r/MensRights31/05/12 03:21 PM
22

She's totally sorry. It's ok /s
/r/MensRights30/05/12 08:23 PM
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lol u rem3mbur wen i sen u 2 przn for rayp? lol j/k don be mad tho. #YOLO
/r/MensRights30/05/12 08:22 PM
7

It's time for men to step up and take responsibility for our boys. It's time for moms not to be content that their son is "safe" up his room, doing whatever, but to engage him more fully in conversations, to encourage him to track his activities for a week, to have friends over, and be a more social animal. Why is the plight of women and girls a societal epidemic, but our failings to meet the needs of men and boys is man's fault? Even in identifying that there is a problem they assign blame to o…
/r/MensRights30/05/12 05:16 AM
7

Very well put ...
/r/MensRights29/05/12 06:43 PM
5

I agree with this. I never said they should lower standards for service. Lives are on the line so let's let them participate if they meet sensible requirements.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 02:00 AM
6

Let them go if they want. I see no reason to deny that opportunity to people who want it.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 12:32 AM
7

...
/r/MensRights24/05/12 09:09 PM
3

Right. My point was that this is a bullshit line of reasoning that is often attributed to men who engage in harassment against women. It's equally bullshit when women use it to defend harassment against men, but it's not called bullshit.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 07:09 PM
9

he was wearing a kilt, so he was asking for it. What do you expect, going out dressed like that. /s
/r/MensRights24/05/12 05:18 PM
10

Or feminists would like to see women being as successful as men, earning the same rate of advancement/promotion, pay and recognition as men receive. That's not "having their cake and eating it too" - that's trying to establish some kind of equality in the workplace. Until women make every single work-related decision the same way that men do you can't have equality. They're seeking the same reward for a different performance. They want to be compensated or recognized as much as someone who aggre…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 10:25 PM
4

males being taught that masculine traits are evil, and feminine traits are good I think this one encapsulates it completely. Male tendencies are always something that need to be "improved", "abandoned", or "outgrown" until a man embraces his "feminine side".
/r/MensRights22/05/12 07:08 PM
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if it was called "Being a good boss" instead of "women are teachable" then there would be no sexism. The only sexism I can possibly identify is that it presumes the audience doesn't know that women are teachable.
/r/MensRights22/05/12 06:50 AM
6

Communal property. My wife and I have 2 cars, with both of our names on both titles. One's for her use the other is for mine, but under the law they are both "ours". I'm guessing this is similar.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 04:57 PM
1

The rodeo is the biggest celebration. The biggest holiday is "Big Hat Day". You think I'm joking, right? But follow the link.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:46 PM
1

Seriously this. As a Fresnan I can safely say that we hate Clovites with a passion and wouldn't hesitate to play up our own preconceptions that Clovis is full of hateful rednecks. Seriously, that's how we see them. I went to Edison. It wasn't pretty.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 05:45 PM
3

We've got a blog post...About a comment that nobody liked...On a blog post....About assault against a man. right.... Can we get full-text next time to avoid giving advertising hits?
/r/MensRights18/05/12 04:38 PM
3

Or that challenges in the workplace are due to the fact that work is challenging
/r/MensRights18/05/12 04:35 PM
-5

I regret I have but one upvote to give. I'm praying this comes up in my facebook feed.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 07:41 PM
1

and there are two #1's. Couldn't agree which was more important: masturbating or not drugging drinks. I can't decide myself
/r/MensRights09/05/12 03:09 PM
1

If you want positive attention from men don't dress like a slut!
/r/MensRights09/05/12 03:06 PM
2

Chicktip #7: If you get pregnant while having multiple sexual partners don't just pick the richest guy and decide he's the father. Chicktip #10: If you're going through child custody proceedings remember not to perjure yourself
/r/MensRights09/05/12 03:03 PM
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"Black tip #55: If you're driving a nice car, please return it to the white couple you stole it from." Man, these things write themselves- all I have to do is turn off half my brain ಠ_ಠ
/r/MensRights09/05/12 02:39 PM
6

I was a SAHD for over a year while I was unemployed and I loved it. I'd like to do it, but I've got a much higher earning potential than my wife and it makes sense for me to be the breadwinner.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 02:47 PM
19

In summary, when women are selfish it's ok. When men are selfish they need to man-up and submit to women's selfish desires FTFY
/r/MensRights07/05/12 04:20 PM
-1

I think it wouldn't be too long before you had feminists disparaging the shot and using shaming language. I can almost hear it Real men don't shoot blanks It'd be akin to the arguments that some men use against using condoms that "It doesn't feel right"
/r/MensRights07/05/12 04:11 PM
2

"Don't judge me because I sin differently than you" should become a watch-cry
/r/MensRights06/05/12 06:21 PM
2

Watch Mad Men for reference material
/r/MensRights06/05/12 05:06 PM
4

If men aren't free to be men the only other role we can play is "child"
/r/MensRights06/05/12 05:04 PM
7

Women like my wife are great at showing love/affection, but when that affection is devoid of sexuality it leaves us wanting. Ever see a movie/TV show with oversexed teenagers, or something where there's a seductress, femme fatale? Do that. It's almost like a mini-roleplay, except that it's not a game, it's your marriage: While he's watching TV go straddle him fully clothed, grab his face, and do an "I want you bad" make-out session. If you stop and kiss in the kitchen,sneak a hand down his pants…
/r/MensRights06/05/12 03:21 PM
20

(That article needs a proof-reading) It's a great article that's spot on, especially the "feminine gaze". I've recently had to talk with my wife about struggles I'm having myself with a need to feel desirable in our marriage. I think she didn't know how I really felt until we had this exchange: Her: I let you know you're desirable all the time Me: How? Her: I tell you you look handsome Me: Do you realize you use the exact same phrasing and tone of voice to tell our two year-old son he looks hand…
/r/MensRights05/05/12 09:20 PM
2

Hey bro, I didn't know you subscribed to /r/MensRights . TIL :)
/r/MensRights04/05/12 08:57 PM
21

When I lost my job I took up gardening and home canning as hobbies. the reasons were: Kept me sane by learning a new skill I enjoyed it It helped our family finances It promoted good health I lost track of the number of times I had to endure muted laughter when, after gifting someone homemade preserves or pickle they would invariably thank my wife. "No, actually, Nate made them". They'd get a goofy smile and thank me, and it felt judged each and every time it happened. Those who laughed didn't g…
/r/MensRights04/05/12 08:56 PM
8

I have a female co-worker in my office that confided in me she only ever feels workplace discrimination from women. She's attractive, intelligent, and hard working. She gets along well with men (being an engineering firm, she has to) and therefore the women in the office assume that any and all success she has is due to her trading on her femininity and sexuality. She feels she gets no respect from women because they see her only as a pretty face and has told me she would never want to work for …
/r/MensRights04/05/12 01:58 PM
6

As a parent of sons and daughters I've got a list of all the terrible things that can happen to them. The list of things that are enabled by courts of law, society, and gender-specific legislation is much longer for my son that for my daughters. Nice to see a feminist admit that the deck is legally stacked against men.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 10:40 PM
7

Unless: A woman he's never met fingers him for paternity and he's on the hook for financial support for 18 years. A girl he has sex with at school regrets it later and gets him kicked out of college or (if he's in highschool) labeled a sex offender for life. He's forcibly conscripted to fight in a war and die He defends himself against a woman attacking him and he goes to jail. Yeah, as long as those factors completely outside of yours or his control never happen, he'll be just fine.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 09:18 PM
7

We already have mandatory genetic screening for newborns at birth to check for dozens of genetic disorders. All you'd be doing is adding a swab from the father so it wouldn't be much more work or much different than what's already being done.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 08:28 PM
0

This looks like for a job for "WhyIt'sMen'sRights" or whatever that novelty/helpful account was
/r/MensRights01/05/12 02:35 PM
1

I don't understand why on earth this is okay as a movie comedy. FTWTFFY
/r/MensRights30/04/12 11:44 PM
5

Give them $0.10 more per hour and you could still save big AND be a feminist hero!
/r/MensRights29/04/12 09:55 PM
-3

I think being "obedient home-makers" is wrong-headed. I think "grateful partners" is a better fit and it can go both ways.
/r/MensRights29/04/12 09:46 PM
28

She's 33? FFS I thought I'd stumbled onto a highschool spat. You're better off.
/r/MensRights29/04/12 09:43 PM
3

41% is NEARLY half. It draws light to the fact that human trafficking is any equal-opportunity crime but is almost exclusively portrayed as a crime against women.
/r/MensRights28/04/12 03:26 PM
44

Last year on Father's Day I woke up and nothing was prepared for me. We'd been busy, moving, etc, and we have 2 small children so I didn't put too much stock in it - life happens. We went to Church and of course they had a special Father's Day message and rootbeer for the Dad's, and the look of shame on my wife's face when she realized she'd forgotten was in no way enjoyable for me. She apologized profusely when we got home and set the kids to work making paper cards while she whipped up dinner.…
/r/MensRights26/04/12 09:39 PM
5

It drives my wife nuts that I won't turn on appliances, tools, etc without reading the instructions. I also have a drawer in the filing cabinet full of relevant instructions/manuals for our appliances that have saved me a fair amount of money when I was able to identify and replace a faulty component instead of having to buy something new. I've fixed our vacuum at least 4 times in 7 years, thanks to instructions. I wonder: how many marriages could be fixed if people bothered to do maintenance in…
/r/MensRights26/04/12 05:50 PM
9

No, he was raised wrong and you shouldn't act that way, we fight for these priorities. I'm sure she meant "equal rights". It's not like she feels entitled to preferential treatment, right?
/r/MensRights25/04/12 11:24 PM
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I upvoted your comment so that it doesn't get buried and people can see the thoughtful responses. Perhaps it was posted to highlight the title Men neglected by health services. Even though Britain’s gay and bisexual men are more likely to attempt suicide or self-harm, have depression, smoke, drink and take illegal drugs, their needs are often overlooked by health services which tend to focus solely on gay men’s sexual health. the purpose of posting this here is not a VS. debate, but rather to fo…
/r/MensRights25/04/12 09:03 PM
7

This is a fantastic article. I was stay-at-home for over a year when I lost my job and my wife went back to work. I took the kids to the park every day and had to deal with lots of suspicion from mothers and passersby; I got everything from "Enjoying your day off?" to "Nice of you to give mom a break" and I tried to not let it phase me. A particularly choice experience was one morning when my 3 year-old was having a tantrum at the park and I was trying to hold her still next to me for a makeshif…
/r/MensRights25/04/12 08:58 PM
5

Yeah, we should really stop oppressing her.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 05:58 PM
1

What was the female equivalent of neckbeard? I saw it around here a while ago.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 05:13 PM
28

Manchild here! I worked 7am to 7pm yesterday, went home to do bedtime stories with the kids and hold my infant daughter for an hour so my wife could take a shower and rest. When little baby fell asleep I went back to work for another 3 hours so that I could meet my deadline. I got home just after midnight to hold my fussy newborn for another hour so mommy could rest, and finally went to bed around 1am. My three year-old came in at 6.15 to wake me up for his cartoons and chocolate milk and I got …
/r/MensRights25/04/12 05:12 PM
6

Surprised this isn't the top comment. Other crimes could be slander, libel, fraud, and extortion.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 04:50 PM
15

It's hard to do it though, because when a man shows an interest in mentoring young men or boys it's automatically regarded with suspicion. I've been a Boy Scout and Cub Scout leader for years and there's always at least one parent who suspects the worst of you. Good on this guy. Great article.
/r/MensRights24/04/12 04:47 PM
1

I like this as an exploration of what is or isn't "Manly" and how men are starting to take that definition into their own hands and define themselves as they see fit.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 05:01 PM
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I think calling an opinion piece "journalism" is a stretch. It's a horrible piece of writing, that's as far as I'd go.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 03:19 PM
1

Upvote for comedic reference
/r/MensRights22/04/12 05:41 PM
0

I'm hoping the /s was implied there.
/r/MensRights21/04/12 03:15 AM
3

I found myself having mild panic attacks, anxiety, and some very severe "Holy Shit I'm Not Ready for This" moments. I was losing a lot of sleep (stress, nightmares) and developed some depression which I hid, thinking that I needed to just "tough it out" and that I was being insensitive to my wife because she had "legitimate" concerns. Not that my wife ever complained, or would have complained- she probably would've been helpful- but I just didn't think it was "ok" for me to be anything other tha…
/r/MensRights20/04/12 10:22 PM
3

As a father of 3 I can say that these hormonal/pheromonal changes are real and impactful. I wish that I'd known during the first baby that I was undergoing changes that would affect my mood/personality/etc so that I wouldn't have thought I was going crazy and being a terrible father-to-be.
/r/MensRights20/04/12 08:53 PM
3

I babysat at the church I grew up attending, from age 13 to 17. It was mostly during evening meetings (choir practice, etc) but I had anywhere from 1-5 kids of age 1-6. I even had one kid who was blind and another who was special needs. There were lots of teen girls attending the church, I was just the one who showed the most interest in babysitting. I still love kids (that's probably why I have 3 of my own) and I'm not afraid to talk to kids in public, etc. But I do keep a picture of me and my …
/r/MensRights19/04/12 03:34 PM
1

sorry, forgot the /sarcasm
/r/MensRights18/04/12 03:34 PM
1

If they're not suffering, how will they become less deadbeat?
/r/MensRights18/04/12 06:27 AM
1

Dat stache
/r/MensRights09/04/12 02:58 AM
3

Any chance of a copy-paste of the article?
/r/MensRights09/04/12 02:37 AM
10

not really sure why I'm getting downvoted for hoping feminists don't become victims of car accidents. ಠ_ಠ
/r/MensRights06/04/12 02:26 PM
16

I gotta downvote that. I'd never wish death on anyone no matter how I disagreed with them.
/r/MensRights06/04/12 05:43 AM
2

The thread is being very supportive of the redditor in question. It's good to see the issue being addressed
/r/MensRights05/04/12 09:18 PM
9

Also it helped that there was an eye witness to the assault
/r/MensRights05/04/12 01:42 PM
166

I carve my name into the side of his pretty little suped-up 4-wheel drive Makes me rage every time. Press charges already.
/r/MensRights04/04/12 04:37 PM
19

I think it's fairly obvious that college campuses have been dramatically feminized to the detriment of male students.
/r/MensRights27/03/12 10:51 PM
27

This sounds like a job for the White House Council on Men and Bo- waitaminute
/r/MensRights27/03/12 10:29 PM
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“College is built for the female brain,” anthropologist Helen Fisher told Ms. Mundy. “What do you do in college? You sit. You read. You write and you talk.” Over the past 30 years, women’s earnings have been growing while men’s earnings have stagnated. I was surprised the author doesn't see this as a problem
/r/MensRights27/03/12 09:59 PM
3

My son was born in 2009 and I'm glad I fought for his right to be left alone. Oddly enough the resistance came from the mother-in-law who was certain he'd be picked on and have an unsatisfying love life. Nice to know I've left him intact and with the majority.
/r/MensRights27/03/12 01:43 PM
1

thanks
/r/MensRights23/03/12 10:42 PM
3

Isn't it great that the woman's perception can convict a man and get her off scott-free? Check what privilege?
/r/MensRights23/03/12 10:15 PM
3

I paid on the first date because I made the invitation. I took her out to enjoy her companionship. She reciprocated by showing gratitude, affection, and genuine interest in me as a person. I have nothing against traditional roles for men so long as both sides observe their side of the social contract upon which those roles were predicated. And that lady who I paid for on the first date? She paid for our third date, bought snacks when we went to the movies, and bought me the wedding ring that I p…
/r/MensRights23/03/12 10:13 PM
2

how do I change that?
/r/MensRights23/03/12 10:00 PM
2

It seems like the article says that feminist ideology has forced men to offer 2 alternatives: PUA and Game theory which is a natural response to feminism. Admitting that a feminized society isn't sustainable and call the whole thing off.
/r/MensRights22/03/12 10:20 PM
12

So we laugh at him for getting raped, laugh at him for fathering a child, laugh at him for being a bad parent, and then laugh at him for having a ruined life because of all this. Sounds legit
/r/MensRights21/03/12 09:12 PM
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The article seemed to me to say: Women are earning more, more educated, and doing less housework. Men are earning about the same, less educated, and doing more housework. Who has the privilege now?
/r/MensRights20/03/12 11:31 PM
7

In my experience, reporting any female as "inappropriately attired" or suggesting that they are under dressed can be considered harassment. Tread carefully.
/r/MensRights20/03/12 09:01 PM
4

Any decision taken that impairs ones judgment implicitly accepts responsibility for actions taken while in such a state.
/r/MensRights20/03/12 07:28 PM
4

And it was known and documented. The system is complicit in the murder.
/r/MensRights16/03/12 04:32 AM
1

Then my posting was successful!
/r/MensRights15/03/12 02:46 PM
1

victim card. It's the only one they have, and they keep playing it.
/r/MensRights09/03/12 11:31 PM
1

trollololol?
/r/MensRights09/03/12 10:09 PM
7

My sis-in-law would reply "I don't have time to go to school; being a mom is a full-time-job!" I then asked her whether she thought single, working mothers are deficient mothers or if she just didn't want to work as hard as they do. She didn't answer, but her non-answer was clear as day.
/r/MensRights09/03/12 07:42 PM
19

From the article above: one woman told me she's afraid of becoming homeless if her ex-husband invokes the new law to stop her alimony payments. She gave up a career in banking to stay at home and raise the couple's child. When that child went off to college, the husband filed for divorce. She is surviving on a modest alimony payment, but under the new law, payments will stop in two years. Having left a profession, she stands no chance at being hired for a well-paying job in that career. A minimu…
/r/MensRights09/03/12 03:31 PM
8

Right, but should they be able to get it from a man who's not their father? Fuck everything about this.
/r/MensRights08/03/12 05:39 AM
10

My reason for signing: Because my paternity, my fatherhood, and my involvement in caring for my 3 children is not a JOKE.
/r/MensRights07/03/12 10:40 PM
20

Inciting to violence, or at least an accessory
/r/MensRights01/03/12 06:21 PM
3

The real victims of male deaths of heart disease are the women they leave behind.
/r/MensRights21/02/12 07:26 PM
3

I will not sacrifice the Lego. We've made too many compromises already; too many retreats. They invade our sports and we fall back. They assimilate entire occupations and we fall back. Not again. The line must be drawn here! This far, no further! And I will make them pay for what they've done.
/r/MensRights05/02/12 10:41 PM
2

I agree. There are plenty of films that show how terrible war is for men, so I don't think this one film trivializes that at all.
/r/MensRights04/01/12 12:17 AM
4

Indeed. I have 2 kids and a wonderful, loving wife who depends on me like I depend on her. I know that I would completely lose my mind if something threatened my relationship with my kids.
/r/MensRights21/12/11 05:19 PM
15

She wants the girls' parents to hand out a punishment instead. Because the discipline they've been getting at home has been doing a bang-up job thus far
/r/MensRights16/12/11 12:02 AM
3

I got it. I appreciated the clarification. That is all.
/r/MensRights15/12/11 04:33 PM
2

good fix
/r/MensRights15/12/11 04:25 PM
21

should we incentivize women to go into combat? They seem under-represented.
/r/MensRights13/12/11 04:17 AM
1

Meanwhile, in France....
/r/MensRights08/12/11 04:05 AM
0

Really? An article from 2003?
/r/MensRights05/12/11 09:10 PM
6

Men don't want to be financially obligated to a system that that doesn't support their rights? Blame men
/r/MensRights08/11/11 07:45 PM
0

fuck Gary Cooper Nothing wrong with that
/r/MensRights03/11/11 09:26 PM
3

Upvote for this. I'm hoping my son will get into a military academy or join a monastery.
/r/MensRights26/10/11 05:32 PM
2

I agree that "brotha can't be poppin' of cheddar biscuits al wily-nily"
/r/MensRights25/10/11 06:04 PM
3

Sounds like pants may be a better choice for you out there in the Forest of Fangorn
/r/MensRights18/10/11 08:11 PM
9

Sheesh, then wear a skirt. I'd rather wear a utilikilt because it has pockets, but I'd rather wear a skirt in summer than heavy long pants
/r/MensRights18/10/11 04:17 PM
4

Gentlemen, I give you the Utilikilt
/r/MensRights18/10/11 02:47 PM
4

Actively tuning out men is a misandrist act. Passively failing to seek out men's perspectives is a misandrist act. Shouting down or talking over or reflexively contradicting men is a misandrist act. Treating men as though they are not experts on their own lives and experiences is a misandrist act. Appropriating men's ideas is a misandrist act. Tokenizing men in lieu of making room for meaningful participation is a misandrist act. Marginalizing men's voices, through systemic and deliberate exclus…
/r/MensRights13/10/11 02:45 PM
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