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| 2 | How to deal with dryness from women? | Logistics | imfjcinnCRAAAAZYHEY | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 07:29 AM |
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| 11 | I know this is Lame… but we need a “moves List” a list of moves to start escalation or confirm attraction.. I’ll go firstLol who does that work for. If I was a bitch and I walked in and so yo ass with all them candles decoration like it's somebody's birthday, that red ribbon staples up on the walls, id think this fool trying to hard and instantly turn off. Don't overdue it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Today is my 22nd birthday and I am still a virgin. I will quit Reddit but I wanted to say some things before I leave.Birthdays, new years, don't signify anything, they are just a day. There's stigma and aura around it like horoscopes, religion you can throw in there, but it's all just human concepts. Meaning you shouldn't get upset because "spending birthday alone" example. Here's the deal, I bought an escort. I'm 25yo, virgin till then. Trust in what I say. Firstly, with a condom, you mind as well be putting a Doritos bag over your dick and getting sucked, that's what it is 🫤. Did not cum, and though she was … | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 06:31 PM |
| 6 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldIf you are the type to get jealous over seeing other two coworkers flirt/fling. You can see it from many perspectives, this is how I like to see it. You're always going to be wanted by that person. If you still pertained the charm, throughout the years, even if not flirty but fun, you will still get the side eye from the coworker who got locked up with another coworker. If the coworker who's flinging with another, you are still gonna be desired. And if that person is flinging routinely, there wi… | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to turn her On ?You use your brain. Don't end up like coupled shmucks, as a man, you are capable of bringing in everything to the table damn near. You best be open to alternative shit like improv and roleplay. Not enough time to mope.. you make that damn home the best place to be, in the universe, everyday. Make time itself wish to relive the moments in that home, and let the universe wish they chimed in. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 12:40 PM |
| 2 | What do guys want girls to do when flirting?I'm sure you will get a lot of comments about being direct (AF). But a lot of girls just don't operate this way, and or it wouldn't be what they were taught or done in life. Girls often allude. "Ugh I hate it here!" Is starter to a deeper conversation, a playful fun touch or energy being thrown at you in a playful way, with no conclusion, is starter to romance. So, do what you're most comfortable and confident in doing. Or do one, do the other as a fallback plan. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Advice for when you are mopey/introvertedNot a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Is swiping and lack of results on apps bad for your irl game and cold approach?I get attention in person, smile and character are important. I deleted all my dating apps recently, I concluded that sure, good profile, passing at most/least whichever... I put 5'6" because I am, but I think I didn't get a lot of attention, because girls can see that one stat they didn't like, and decline then see 100 guys beneath yours that likely, possibly, fit the bill. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 01:49 AM |
| 13 | should i tell a woman she was my first kissKeep it simple stupid | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 09:47 AM |
| 1 | you guys are making this harder than it isThat's called trauma dumping Travis. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 01:43 AM |
| 2 | I’m thinking about spending $3,000 on a photographer who offers professional photo shoots, a personal stylist for each session, and dating advice.Man fuck dating apps I'm done with that all, I'm just gonna get the girls in person | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I’m thinking about spending $3,000 on a photographer who offers professional photo shoots, a personal stylist for each session, and dating advice.Are you with me hell ya!! | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 01:32 AM |
| -6 | I don't know how to woo womenAre you a little girl? "Wassup attractive, can I get your number?" | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 02:49 AM |
| 52 | Wtf is up with bumble in Latin AmericaThat sounds like a good fucking dream. Sounds nice | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do I let it affect me?I'm bothered I fumbled easy 8/10s. And I too see them regularly. And see them interact with many people (job). It is from within, I retreat to. I retreat to within man. You succumb to loneliness, accept it temporarily. Use it's power. When you're in that class, control your emotions and movements like a bodyguard. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Mad hornyI notice two approaches. One your upfront.. aware, courteous... like another commenter done. Or, you can jump on the wave and ride the emotions, while being cautious to not use some of the power to be over the top, weird. You can avert your eyes to their lips, like your thinking differently. 2-4 seconds, licking your lips isn't too bad, as it can be seen as two ways: habit of licking dry lips, and or flirtatious. Either way the conundrum is good shit for females, because it's like a pick up line… | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 01:33 PM |
| 3 | When a woman says "let's take things slowly"?When a girl says she wants to "take things slow," it’s like she’s tapping the brakes on the crazy rollercoaster ride you were expecting. She's not signing up for the emotional speedway or a full-throttle race to coupledom. Nope, she's easing into things, wanting to feel out the situation without diving headfirst into the deep end of feelings, drama, and future talk. Maybe she's had a few wild rides before and wants to avoid a crash, or maybe she just doesn’t want things going from zero to "meet … | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Was much more successful in my 20s than my 30s, where do I go from here?Yes no one doing that mewing shit | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 09:48 PM |
| 3 | I’m becoming a sex monster?!Who cares kid, you're in a group huddled together, it gets serious when the guy opens up, then asks a question of what to do about his life? Everyone's offering advice and statements, and you're the mopey fuck, looking down, kicking dirt, "how would I know? I must've gotten the wrong ticket." Everyone move on 😬 | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 12:52 PM |
| 2 | If you get no attention on dating sites does it mean you will get no attention in real life?I've had coworkers show beyond interest- like hitting me with a "i want a massage" line she's lovely, definitely no less than a 7, even 8. But on dating apps, like you. They receive over 90 likes/messages, they see your stats. I'm 5'6" not good for dating apps, but in person, it can be overlooked. The only thing that bothers me in-person is my self-image, and past. Once past that, I believe I'll do good in person. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:07 AM |
| 0 | I'm too afraid of approaching girls!Damn, ease up. Young adult... | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 01:21 AM |
| 7 | Got results but realized casual sex isn't for me.This i can relate... totally understand. Personally, I attribute it to how I grew up, np, no fault.. a simple, nother' parent(s) dilemma. Saw a lotta troublesome relationships, and at this point, I really just want to find the one whatever that may mean... But one that'll be there for a while... One who has patience for my up/down personality. I feel, like you, have flings here and there, will leave me 🤔, with my hand reaching out, as the 'other' continues on... Just about. yk.. Ready for a part… | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Our Time for Dating Is Running Out Faster Than You ThinkTLDR GANG | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 04:40 AM |
| -6 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?Cheesy | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 05:24 AM |
| 0 | Why do I always fail on escalating on a dateThe escalation begins upon the realization of interest. A girl matches with you on tinder. That's exactly how you know they like your appearance, which will get you sexual. So you are good to escalate. I think it begins on interest, you're standing in a crowd, NPCs walking, one stops walking, and is open to you versus anyone amongst the crowd. It begins there. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 12:39 AM |
| 6 | Why do older women seem so much nicer when approaching?Amen. Younger people (coworkers example) could be like, "why did you say hi to her louder?" As a slight example... Older women.... I feel sometimes when you got a lotta baggage, older woman can definitely be seen as your only type. Tbh I think so, I think so. Lot more calm, caring, and uncaring at the same time perhaps, it's a fling or doesn't happen, they chill. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Girl went from messaging me first to unmatching and I don’t understand (Hinge chat analysis)Can something cute like, "me, you, date?" Work? Asking for a coworker I'm helping out with. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 11:37 PM |
| 5 | How to approach, girl on bumble wants to make out?Balls to the wall. This is a random person you will never face. Mind as well be a chat on the Internet with a random person anywhere... I say? I say experiment. Whatever gates you have locked. Swear words, innuendos, crazy person opener... Unblock your gates. Let loose. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 09:38 AM |
| -3 | My gf had a threesome in the past now I want to have one tooYour mindset/psychology... Is skewed. "I can't get over- I can't for the life of me, even with time get over this" "...girl I met through dating app... I feel I need to even the score. I need to have a threesome. Maybe we'll be okay..." Her: "there's a score?" Instead. You accept. A person told you their past. Big whoop. They got into shit. Big whoop. They had fun. Big whoop. She's here. Your here. Your past is not. Bringing the past back, complicated things. She had a threesome with her (assume… | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Posture while talking with girlsI get you. You don't wanna look like- arms crossed, as straight as you can, peering down like an anime character. I'm only 5'5 and with bosses that are sitting or shorter, I will crouch down if at a desk, or I stand with a casual side lunge and perhaps head turned slightly. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 01:10 AM |
| 2 | I am really worrier,i am 22 and i never had a relationship or had sexWhat is your mindset. Hookups like a player? Or 'depressed' (regressed etc.) "uncaring" mindset? If it's the latter, like me, 23yo (no relationshi/virgin)- then know yourself to the point where if someone says something nasty about you, you don't even care because they judged you for a second of your life. Know yourself, this will play a part when you meet someone, it will display confidence, lock-in your emotions, don't worry about small shit or small stuff that will work itself out, or you'll … | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I let her walk away form me in the subway platformI think the only way to avoid drama, or overthinking is as soon as there's a smile, engage, intro something relating to yourself being charmed by appearance etc. Beating around the bush in my opinion, will seem like the intention of talking could be for other reasons. Intro like, "you caught my eye etc. Etc." Converse normally/and or realistic/rational conversation End with an exchanging of numbers. My two cents | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 05:40 AM |
| 1 | I let her walk away form me in the subway platformYou know how you nod and down your head, with a pleasing face, as you try to get by someone you don't know- or plan to make any interaction with? | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 03:19 AM |
| -12 | What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any storeI saw sum tinder post and it showed the convo as an example, and a comment was like, "my bed would be warmer with you in it 🙊" Personally I don't wanna do that, cause it's cheesy and basic AF, but... Works it works | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 07:07 AM |
| 1 | What is socially "dangerous" in a fun way?Smoking a blunt while driving. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 10:03 PM |
| 3 | How to convince neighbour girl for hookup.Slow, so you don't look like an idiot. Slow enough you can accurately read and judge how things do and go. You can say that type of girl- person... Maybe has family trauma, thus might not Even be interested in hooking up, and only wants to deal with real connections/shit. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 10:10 AM |
| 1 | "Dont worry, I'm not hitting on you sweetheart"/"my intentions are pure"Sweetheart is like calling someone buddy, or pal. You want to cultivate the magic, not kill the magic. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 09:17 AM |
| 1 | M20, Scared of going on datesYou know what's the best part, you can mess up in the next city over with a girl, and no one will ever fucking know how bad it went. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl changed her mind about sex while we were butt naked about to have sex.Lol. A tiny miniscule check up? Context: a bro check? OP/homie good-intentioned was wondering if his homie needed a spare condom.. That's like totally fine, that's like lighting candles before fucking. Same amount of time as closing all the drapes. As soon as I saw her feel some type of way, I would've just been like, "I saw my brother text me, I thought he needed a condom... You okay?" Then been like "🤷♀️😒 suit yourself. I'll take you home. We can get food on the way if you'd like." | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Decent car for getting girls?Major Lol, on picking your car preferenced around women. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 05:16 AM |
| 4 | How to friendzone a girl?Don't say anything. Fizzle it out like a conversation gone dead on tinder. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 11:09 PM |
| 5 | I feel like a fake alpha at workI think people got an ego here. It reminds me of playing UFC 4. You match up with a player they take every. Little. Thing. Serious. | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | I approached my Gym crush and got rejectedI know a coworker, woman, who's pretty, and energetic/matches energy... In short, her partner has a disability not so bad, just saying, her partner could always be home, not liking of the activity, or unable to... As well, she's more with her girlies than him. Just feel there's many alternative perspectives. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 10:30 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with dryness from women?I'ma sleep on it | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 11:07 AM |
| -10 | How to deal with dryness from women?Lol. I just have to say before I finish looking at this, coworker. So we've known each other for over 1-2 years, and been to parties together hosted by other coworkers. In short, you're judging a trinket of many interactions, some/most quirky reciprocated on both sides. I wanna be the change in the community so I'll say this, I appreciate it brother, good luck out there- we're humans, in my head I like to say rather we're souls- more pure... Wish the best. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 11:04 AM |
| 30 | "You don't have instagram?" What's a good answer for this?I get that, I only have snap. Tbh there's hella reasons against itz hella valid reasons... That should not equate to a deal breaker. It's made by Facebook, it's temptation, some say it's softcore porn, time waster, has "scrolling" like TikTok... I feel if people cancel because you don't have a insta, their mentality is missing something, or is wrong. U should definitely be like, "oh that's alright what else u got" or something.. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 11:00 AM |
| -6 | How to deal with dryness from women?"you have nice tattoos, so what's up wit u?" | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 08:29 AM |
| -9 | How to deal with dryness from women?I don't care to explain my examples. Anyways, sometimes you have to carry both sides. I like that. Good shit. I understand your example was made up, just for your comment, but as a personal thought, I think, do people really like that? Seems too cliche And, I know deep inside, I'm not really aiming for a hookup. Your example, is deeply-noted 🙂↕️ | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 08:27 AM |
| 38 | Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculineMm. Turn around, and you'll realize you'll have 49 more states to reclaim your statement. You're hypothesizing about a little puddle, you're kneeled down, studying. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 06:01 PM |
| 4 | I can’t take it anymoreAre you serious. Time to activate those man up instincts. If a chick literally told me to come over, despite everything I am feeling, I would type "ok" along those lines no matter what I'm feeling I'm putting up a front. As well you need to just agree, and when you get there, go with the waves/motion | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 02:47 AM |
| -2 | How to handle disrespect guised under humour without being seen as butthurtPerhaps not mention it at all till nearing serious relationship? There might be a right way to do it, but once could say, that it'll kill the vibe if you point it out, especially generalizing, too many negatives. Like she'll feel bad, feel wrong, she could think your insecure, bitter, and it will dig the hole deeper... And leave a psychological mark. I'd wave it off, and if I found a way to do it, make a joke about it, humor. Because, then, she will warm up to it, it'll ease off her mind.. and w… | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | 20yo virgin, turning 21 in two weeks. Trying to lose my virginity before turning 21. How would I go about this?How about 2 weeks to become savvy to the game? In regards to sex, which doesn't interest me (context: 23yo broken life/upbringing, virgin so I'm 😒 whatever to it all...) ive found mid-high interest at work, restaurant job. those low-entry jobs have chicks who are stunning, young, is perfect because, especially working there. Able to build rapport as well ur/coworkers is all they see/interact with. They still have their guard up, however least I see, interest shows. 2 weeks is not enough, conside… | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 01:14 PM |
| 14 | Do girls ever go alone to night clubs?Look at it from their perspective, say you're a brad pitt. You walk to a group of girls and single one out, confidently with poise. They're not gonna have any alarm bells, or any high-alert reactions until reason... You approach, the other girls are just gonna continue their chit chat, as you show yourself. And likely minor or some side eyes, simply to "check you out" and read you... Any other actions, and count their reactions as, out of the norm. And eventually walk away, believing it was out … | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 06:13 AM |
| 21 | Pretend she paid you $8000 to act like you’re her boyfriendAltering your mindset to achieve what you want, might always come out to seem, like a dumb idea. | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Boyfriend not having sexYou got your answer. The answer you knew all along, and possibly with more contemplation and thought on the matter, you'd arrive at the conclusion it's best to have that 'serious' conversation. It'd bother me if I asked a similar serious question, regarding an important aspect of life (relationship, and intimacy) and people said, "🥴 what if he likes u hairy?" "What if he's gay?" 😒 Serious conversation, meditate on the conversation, remain open, I wouldn't respond after his answer with "well... T… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 12:13 PM |
| 0 | Boyfriend not having sexThe fuck Edit: ehh, you're not entirely out of line, after a quick look! Although it does add entirely.. to the "bitter needy loner virgin boys" vibe this sub can give off. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 12:04 PM |
| 1 | I 21M get tired during sexDone by, dare I say me. Called? No register | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 08:44 PM |
| -4 | I 21M get tired during sexYou're not the same person but I mean... I guess?... It comes at a cost. And it's a huge risk, but once getting into the flow.. is achievable. You need to relax your muscles, and your dick, at the precise time, so that you will discharge and run through the process. You can go non-stop this method, no loss of arousal, just a zanier "hole." | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 07:22 AM |
| 4 | I 21M get tired during sexThis is one of the times that Jon Anik UFC commentator once said before, "I think I need a Xanax." In reference to him being overly-excited to witness a fight... Would be valid. Because, I do not see anyone being able to sleep, but it's a good opportunity to be awoken up by your partner molesting your sleeping body as you wake up. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 03:23 AM |
| 9 | I 21M get tired during sexThere is another way... Would you like to know? | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What Is The Best Way To Learn Night Game In 2024?Please guys do not listen to the suck up!! This is exactly how you become perceived as needy. | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 01:58 PM |
| 22 | "Describe yourself in 3 words" - I've been asked that - is this a shit test or what?You lose two things at once when it's revealed you lied. | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 12:07 PM |
| 0 | Is there away to persevere through the mountain of rejectionsLol, miscreants upon any natural and thought-out realistic perspective, "GOOOOLLLLDD!" | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 03:15 AM |
| 5 | Valentine’s Day just reminds me how lonely I am every yearBrodie im 23, same boat. Never had a proper kiss, only a peck at the movies in elementary, no real experiences in middle school or high school. Lol u could say my prime was behind me deadass... But we have are reasons don't we. If someone asked me why I was a virgin, I would say, well... lm one of those souls that wasn't raised properly, so most my life I was disassociative, didn't put in effort, didn't so much as obey the standard of a relationship. Like continuing to greet the person, catch up… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Ending a convo before 1st date without being rudeIma have to keep it a buck with you. If she was intelligent, she'd see the duality that is, saving the conversation for in-person vs. reverting to a one-dimensional form of conversation, she's a toss around. | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 11:56 AM |
| -25 | Dinner is a TERRIBLE first date idea! Why you should always avoid itWhy did you make up a word suckitude no one knows what it means. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 05:39 AM |
| -21 | How to Escalate when Girl is at your Place - A Tip that Worked for meDepending on how horny I be, either close the door behind, then wait till she has her belongings down or not, or... Close the door and rip off her clothes and put her belongings on the ground. Then go the intense- choking, domination, extreme route. A lot of chicks dig the handling. | /r/seduction | 14/01/24 02:14 PM |
| 3 | How to give up?U gotta see, there's some ladies with some men that are completely meh, they're meh. https://youtu.be/lsiNajqCljA?si=I_Qbeos-AAjcbjFp See that guy. Like bruh. It might be a older man, taking advantage of her, but her perspective for now is, we really connected, on a emotional, personal, social level. This is what I am working on, I feel okay physically, but, and however. My social and ability to be aware of the other person's responses are dubiously lacking. baby steps. Im going to start with so… | /r/seduction | 14/11/23 01:27 AM |
| 5 | How to give up?Ask yourself this, have you perfected your routine so much so that anyone would look and think this man has got it down in life. I'm taking buff, I'm talking waking up early, everything. Wake up early, breath exercise, stretch, yoga, brush teeth shower, eat, run, nap, workout, and on. | /r/seduction | 14/11/23 01:05 AM |
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