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| 2 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?This what I mean, it's not wrong to have a bad sexual experience. Especially, in an LTR. Hahaha, what? Ooookay. Yeah, I'm sure my SO would be having a grand ole time if I'm dry as the sahara and DOA in the sack. Doesn't matter, had sex? Quality over quantity. I'm sure my partner would rather I'd rather be absolutely dying for the D when I'm fucking rather than phoning it in out of a sense of duty. Not to mention the issue of consent -- if someone isn't into sex, they don't have to have it, regar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 05:42 PM |
| 2 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?What your'e doing putting your enjoyment in your partner. So might think that you don't' believe partner to make it enjoyable for you. Sorry, is English your first language? I'm not following you so I can't respond. I will say that this statement is always true for me, and while I acknowledge that some people do have responsive sexualities, not everybody does. The point is not to limit your self to sex being only in when your sex criteria are met. And especially in an LTR. Again, I disagree with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 03:32 PM |
| 2 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?It's not about obligation. It's about trying other things. No matter what you're limited if you only fuck when you're horny. You have to do it to find out. If I'm not horny and I fuck anyways, I won't enjoy it. If I do this often enough I might be put off sex completely because of the negative associations that will form as a result. I've never been with a man who has wanted to fuck when he's not horny -- people initiate when they're horny, they don't initiate when they're not. The LL partner se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?What I'm saying you should also have sex when you don't want to, if you're in an LTR. That doesn't mean all the time. The reason is that some of the times you think that you don't want to, or whatever could turn out the best sex. If you're in an LTR, I think that's part exploration of each other. I disagree and I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone who felt this way. Thankfully my SO and I are on the same page. I don't have a 'responsive' sexuality and I think duty sex is total BS. If I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 02:36 PM |
| 2 | What's the wife to do if she feels gross?If I don't feel like having sex, I'm not going to. The problem with this relationship is lack of effective communication, not the fact that OP isn't forcing herself to fuck her husband when she doesn't want to. If her husband's not sexually satisfied in this relationship they need to sit down and calmly talk about it face to face like mature adults. He made a choice to let resentment build up, attack her in the most petty and least confrontational way possible and then stonewall her like a cowar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/14 01:35 PM |
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