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This search has been on here probably 100s of times, dating back years ago. At first, I had the same as OP in ca. 2020. Over time, it gradually shifted and now it's gotten better. Now I get different articles on how to deal with it for both genders, instead of hotline for one and articles for the other. (germany) Id rather they put hotlines and actual help for both, but here we are.
/r/MensRights29/05/24 12:36 PM
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Society is a certain way and if you dislike living the "meta" of an accomplished man in this society there is nothing you can do except find happiness and solace that you at least stuck to your own values. Aka be a provider or be alone.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 12:04 PM
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In germany age of consent is 14. Only exception is when you abuse your position as an authority / guardian of the child, which a teacher is.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 08:53 AM
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Whatever you say hun
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:07 AM
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I am not attracted to men. Dunno what else to tell you. Not everyone is bi like you.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 02:56 AM
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And also I dont hate women. I hate no one tbh. I just see the world as it is. You're projecting hate onto the words I said cause it hit a nerve.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 02:43 AM
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I do have a lot of male friendships and yet I long for intimacy with a woman. I can't just change what gender I am attracted to.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 02:41 AM
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The reason is cause women are cringe. They expect the world and have any option they want on a dating app. Either you get yourself in shape, and advance your career and work on yourself so you are one of the top guys (hurt Durr alpha male - sad thing is that shit actually works) on there who doesn't need to beg for a crumb of attention or you stop trying. Which one has more dignity to you? Personally I think bending over backwards to fulfill the fantasies of women goes against my view of equalit…
/r/MensRights03/04/24 02:31 AM
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No, the right to sign away all rights including having to pay child support. Basically you're just a donor at this point.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 12:47 PM
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Sooo like their height comment stupid?
/r/MensRights28/03/24 07:29 AM
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It's your life. Do what YOU want.
/r/MensRights27/03/24 10:37 AM
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Point still stands if you can put yourself in the shoe of am overweight girl
/r/MensRights26/03/24 08:05 PM
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I don't think you're thin enough to make this comment.
/r/MensRights26/03/24 06:14 PM
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I cried on the funeral of my ex gfs grandfather. I was the only one that cried. He was such a wonderful and humble man. I got side eyes and people were smiling at me. Half a year later she broke up with me for (hopefully) other reasons.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 11:25 PM
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Most men on here, including myself, will tell you that the patriarchy doesn't exist. Men and women are both necessary for survival in the long term. It just so happens that women find security in successful men. On the other hand men strive to be successful to be more desirable. So yes, the top dogs will always be men because women have no intrinsic motivation to strive to be number one with the same grit - regardless of how much more easier society will make it for them cause there is always a …
/r/MensRights12/03/24 05:41 AM
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I am jealous of it. You literally develope life inside you. It's fucking badass
/r/MensRights11/03/24 12:09 PM
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It was an analogy
/r/MensRights12/02/24 01:02 PM
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Cause the alternative is that you will die alone.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 11:20 AM
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zzz if being a good personality would give pussy I'd have drowned in it 15 years ago. Meanwhile the drug dealer who is 30 that I know is fucking virgins every single week. Funny world.
/r/MensRights05/02/24 10:03 AM
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Not a woman. Nothing, but your question is loaded. A better question would be "women, in which ways do you feel unfairly treated?" And go from there. Doesn't make sense to be like "hey women I don't like. In what specific scenario do men get more resources than you, but only disproportionately more pls?" What do resources even mean? What is your personal threshold of disproportionately more? You ask a vague question and only get vague answers, or none at all as shown in this post so far. If you …
/r/MensRights29/12/23 10:13 AM
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Eh, lots of women use it just to regulate their cycle. Like my ex used it cause shed bleed a lot more and have 10x worse cramps if she didn't take them.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 02:25 PM
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You did not, but its the general consensus of society right now
/r/MensRights11/12/23 01:48 PM
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Life is not worth living if you don't have someone you would die for.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 01:19 PM
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It's really not. Trans women are literally not biological women. They have different body composition, thinking patterns, XY chromosomes no matter how many surgeries you have. Bi Men are literally just men who MAY have had sex with another guy before but would still blow any womans back in bed. Nothing else.
/r/MensRights11/12/23 12:05 PM
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But when men have a personal preference of not dating sluts then its a bad thing? Where do you draw the line exactly?
/r/MensRights11/12/23 12:02 PM
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Do you really believe that in this late stage capitalism shit show every CEO on the planet would be even think about gender? Money is #1 priority and most successful companies would rather 7 year olds build their shit in Taiwan than "men" in their own country. Yet somehow the harder working women fail to get promoted. Every company is min maxing the smallest and littlest detail to even get into green numbers but the managers sit there and think "oops. We haven't opressed women enough, right guys…
/r/MensRights14/06/23 09:21 AM
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Look, most women don't have the same drive as men to compete. The drive to become better and better is because biologically we need to prove our worth to the other gender. The best man will get a lot of women. To a millionaire it does not matter if he dates the barista or another millionaire. The reverse? Not so much. Hypergamy dictates that women usually date across and up social hierarchies. Women getting better education and earning more is not something that bothers me - it's the expectation…
/r/MensRights13/06/23 04:19 PM
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I mean it's just a fact that true equality doesn't exist. There are men who have to fight in the war while their partners get to escape. The dating scene here in Germany is bombarded with Ukrainian women ever since the war started. I doubt they were all single when they came here, but that's besides the point. Men are expected to protect/ essentially die on the spot if a woman is being threatened in the streets. Men are expected to stay behind in times of war. What do we really get as compensati…
/r/MensRights13/06/23 11:18 AM
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give me some tips. whats working for you?
/r/MensRights06/02/23 01:35 AM
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I don't know where this weird "you have to be happy to be in a relationship" shit came from. Actually, no you don't. It helps to not become co-dependant but other than that it's honestly pretty useless. Co-dependency in and of itself is also not necessarily a bad thing. If you don't depend on each other for anything, are you even in a real relationship? Most people are fucking lonely alone and no you don't need to become a superhero legend alone or even love yourself to be able to love someone e…
/r/MensRights28/11/22 09:49 AM
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No, throwing the term toxic masculinity around just paints all men in a negative light again. Imagine all of the problems women face be reduced to the argument "oh it happens because of female toxicty". Saying male toxicity literally boils down to: "your problems are your own fault", nothing more. And honestly, I disagree. If women wouldnt want a emotional strong and confident man, would men even tell other men to "man up"? If we weren't expected to be a provider for women, would we even hide ou…
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:37 PM
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Yeah, it's kinda sad to read some of these comments. I hope you two don't get discouraged. A lot of people went through a lot in life and this is their safe haven - just try to keep it in the back of your mind when reading some of these comments.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:17 PM
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Hey just wanted to say that I appreciate your effort. A lot of men are really angry here - and often understandably so - so please don't get discouraged. You never know what another person is going through in life so just try to keep it in the back of your mind when traversing this sub.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:15 PM
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I think the difference is that you actively chose to go without male attention, but deep down knowing that you always could have it. The average man needs to actively search and find this attention, otherwise he will never have it and might even never get it, even if he tries his hardest. We are trained from a young age that we must be the provider, to find a wife, we need one to live a happy and fulfilling life. Have you watched any romance ever? It's almost always the story that the man goes a…
/r/MensRights20/06/22 01:38 AM
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After the initial nooby boost where I got 25 likes in the first week, I'd say maybe around 0.1-0.2 likes per day after that? Yes, I know that it sounds creepy. And honestly, it is. I wish it wasn't that way. It's not like we (or atleast I) would waste your time, even if you were the only option I'd have. I don't think it really works that way, why wouldn't we give our all for the one option we might have a chance with? The problem is it comes across as needy, and again - not having confidence. Y…
/r/MensRights20/06/22 01:16 AM
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Hello Glass-Dimension, it's funny I found your comment in this post interesting enough to reply to, only to see that you are the one I've been talking to a couple of hours ago. I try to give my point of view why being picky is so hard for men. It's mostly dating etiquette which is hindering us. If we find a woman we are atleast somewhat visually interested in (because it's literally the only thing we get as a first impression), we are forced to approach, because women usually don't do the first …
/r/MensRights20/06/22 12:11 AM
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Please don't let the overall rough vibe around here discourage you from listening, learning and contributing. In my opinion, or atleast what I think the biggest thing we really want here, is to be heard and understood. I can also definitely understand the feeling that you need to get your point across, because like you, I try to venture out into women related subs, see their pov, and just sometimes need to express myself when I feel that the problem also relates to men. And like you, I mostly ge…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 09:53 PM
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I think most people just don't read far enough into the comment thread to see that you have distanced yourself from the incel thing. Atleast I usually just read the first 2-5 top comments and the first or second reply to it. I am thankful for your open-mindedness and appreciate it when women try to get our points. But you have to understand that you are in a sub for men's problems. Since the average man bottles their emotions up and only really ventures into things like this sub when they litera…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 09:24 PM
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Please try to imagine what it's really like from the male POV. I've initiated and "did the foreplay" to my ex for over 7 years until I grew resentment and just stopped doing it. This is the reason we stopped having sex and imo the reason the relationship died in the end. Kinda sad, isn't it? I wasn't able to budge on the "you need to be intimate with me, too, sometimes". And the saddest part about all of this is I love giving intimacy. It's in my opinion better than receiving. And yet, I still c…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:54 PM
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Oh, I know. Everyone has got their bag to carry. It's always an issue when there is objectifying (on both sides) or something like that which is what ultimately this is all about. Sadly we can't fix what we aren't attracted to. It's really a cruel world. I atleast try to be honest about it. Most women are drawn to a certain personality type. Good looking (actully only needs to reach a threshold), successfull, dominant, confident, knows-what-he-wants kinda guy (even if it's just a ons and not a l…
/r/MensRights05/06/22 02:28 AM
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Imo it's more about dating than work. Dating as a dude is fucking hard. Even if you are good looking, being shy literally nullifies it since women expect men to approach. Now imagine being average and shy. You'll be invisible to the other gender. Sure, you could argue shyness is a weakness that is fixable. But why do I need to change? If I am "just being myself", then I am being shy. I hate attention and therefore I actually like being shy. So in my opinion it's just not a weakness. It's a hard …
/r/MensRights02/06/22 04:26 PM
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Uhm... no? It says only 13.5% would only date women shorter than them so idk what you are on about.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 05:45 PM
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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0192513X13519256 According to this study 94% of women would only date men taller than them. There is your difference. The overwhelming majority of women do care quite a lot about height. This is not the only study and I could give you a handful more if you want to, but I don't have much time right now. I mean it makes sense from an evolutionary and biological pov. Why would you want a man that's perceived a lot weaker than everyone else? Just wouldn't mak…
/r/MensRights01/05/22 05:32 PM
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I think in UK law, if you penetrate a vagina or butt without consent it's rape. So men on men would be rape. Woman on woman would only be rape if she penetrates either with her finger or some other object. I am not from the UK though and just reciting what I think I read 2 years ago on reddit so take it with a grain of salt.
/r/MensRights25/07/19 08:10 AM
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What. The. Fuck.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/03/19 02:09 AM
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thats what I say to myself everyday!
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/18 02:35 AM
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This is the stupidest video I've ever seen. Pussypassdenied? The real ppd would be to break up with the bitch. Please give me back my 8 mins
/r/PussyPassDenied06/10/18 12:38 PM
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lul if you still support feminism and do not live in a 3rd world country
/r/MensRights14/06/18 11:01 AM
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I don't see the difference. This is blatant racism (and sexism) towards white males. Why is this any better than any other form of racism?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/18 11:59 AM
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Neither feminism nor mensrights stand for true equality. If they were, the literal name of those movements wouldn't be inherited from their respective genders' names. We could truly change as a society if we would care much more about each others problems, more than just acknowledge them.
/r/MensRights31/12/17 06:09 PM
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Ah the "I don't have any real points so I fall back to bashing my opponent"-tactic, what a classic.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/17 11:50 AM
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Hmm ok? Most of the women there got their rape kink because they were legitimately raped and want to feel the experience again, either by role playing, paying someone to "abduct" them, baiting males by wearing almost nothing or pretending to be passed out while their private parts are showing. Some of them put themselves in positions where they physically cannot consent to anything. Don't know what my sexual history has anything to do with this? Even if I was still a virgin how the fuck would it…
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/17 02:46 AM
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Why? Even some women want to be raped, proven by the subreddit r/rapekink .
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/17 01:30 AM
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Bieber himself said that he felt violated. Honestly you can see his disgust in his face in the exact moment, I truly feel sorry for him. If the roles were reversed the guy would've lost his job (especially a public figure like JB) anď gotten a fat lawsuit on top of that.
/r/MensRights22/11/17 03:47 AM
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Saying that men have control over pregnancy because they can wear condoms is like saying women have control over sexual harassment because they can just make themselfes look ugly/manly/undesireable. Condoms can brake, pills can not work, women can deliberately lie to their partners to get pregnant. Both parties can agree to get an abortion but once the cake is in the oven, the man has no say in it. Which I actually agree to! Her body, her choice right? But why the fuck do I have to pay child sup…
/r/MensRights04/11/17 04:22 PM
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I am a pretty weak male, even most cute girls would wreck my ass since I am literally as short and vulnerable. Why the fuck do i have to die first because I have a schlong. Even in a titanic situation, wouldn't with your logic make more sense to let the men go first because they are more likely to survive in a lifeboat? The people that aren't getting of the ship will die anyways so what's the point. And yes even in an emergency situation i would still argue about this sentiment because I would l…
/r/MensRights03/11/17 11:05 AM
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Why are you asking this? Ofcourse they can vote. Thats like asking "So should death penalty be a thing again?" after stating that prisoners shouldn't have access to computers and wifi. The mere existance of this question shows that you have absolutely no idea what we are talking about.
/r/MensRights18/05/17 08:08 PM
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Maybe if women took as much further education, specialise in one field and took 40 hour weeks instead of 35 hour weeks they would earn the same? (Above points are just for the average worker, don't know how it is in nursing, but I am 99.9999% sure that men don't earn more because "penis>vagina" in the eyes of their employer, but because of the work they put in.
/r/MensRights06/05/17 11:29 PM
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By your logic other branches such as nursing or caregiving should be giving out stipendiuns to men or rather prefer men instead of women in order to make the workplace "better" as you say it, but that isnt really happening at all.
/r/MensRights06/05/17 11:02 PM
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Then look at the damn thing before you use it??
/r/PussyPassDenied26/04/17 10:33 PM
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