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I've been going to therapy for two months roughly now, and it did a good job removing black and white thinking from my life , but hasn't helped with self esteem or women particularly
/r/ExRedPill24/05/23 10:46 PM
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Thank you so much
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 06:39 PM
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Yeah of course man.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 03:23 PM
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I never got tested because I'd never want to know if I have it. I feel like it would ruin my life to know some shit is wrong with me. I honestly dont want to be associated with that as insensitive as it might sound. Id rather live in ignornace
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 02:18 AM
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Dude exact same thinf. I actually don't know if I have autism. I feel completely normal and people don't find me weird IRL, but I feel like I'm on the lowest end of the spectrum. Maybe you feel the same way
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 12:39 AM
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I'm sure it's true to some degree but before I started trying to date I sat at home on my computer all day. I believe I had even less of a chance before I started trying because I literally never left the house unless it was to get groceries. I didn't have school and worked from home as I was self employed. For the last year I atleast put myself out on apps and tried to get a nice profile. I still rarely talk to women
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 12:38 AM
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Thanks but looks in my experience hasn't helped whatsoever. If anything it highlights that my issue is social skills or some shit 😆
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 09:11 PM
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It's okay. It's tough to figure out what exactly anyone does wrong, like in your case hypothetically she would have stayed if you did "dread game" or whatever else. But it's disingenuous. As for me it was my therapist that completely took me out of the red pill, for better or for worse. Hard to compare when neither had any results haha
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 08:03 PM
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I've tried everything, was super blue pill, super nice, focused on genuine connection, then became red aware pill after discovering F&F. Two years later still zero results and it's super depressing. Neither "strategy" ever worked for me. Never even had a single date.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/23 07:59 PM
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Yes - if they put in the work. You're more financially stable , emotionally developed, etc at 30 than you are at 20 given you worked hard in life.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 07:45 AM
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Yeah for sure. See the issue like I mentioned earlier is it's the same thing as saying if a woman wants a guy who is very feminine, she needs to pay the bill. Like yeah, absolutely. But no woman is gonna want to go after a feminine guy and pay their bill, so they don't need to approach him like you said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:40 AM
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A guy won't want to fuck a boss babe though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:34 AM
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True. Might be even higher. Men's desirability peaks at 50 statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:16 AM
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men is older, like 35
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:59 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:58 AM
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Okay I can actually tackle this one. You are basically stating women are conditionally feminine; as in, they are feminine to the right guy, and are "individualistic, strong and idenpendent" anytime else, which are masculine traits. Let's flip the roles. If I told you I wanted to wear high heels and a dress every day of the week, but would wear a nice suit for the right woman, that would be ludicrous wouldn't it? Why is it that you think you should reap benefits of both being masculine and indivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:54 AM
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It's less about the body count and more about her behaviour and mannerisms as a result of that body count. You shouldn't need to ask because it's pretty easy to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:30 PM
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of course man. life is not one dimensional like TRP makes it out to be! it's very general and there are exceptions to the rule. glad to have an interesting discussion, cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:35 AM
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Yeah but those female friends you're not attracted to, are attracted to you lol. I've had this happen too. One side is always more invested in the other. That being said if you enjoy your friendships that's completely great
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:21 AM
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so that's why platonic friendships between men and women don't really work. how can you be friends with someone you have urges and desires for? i don't get it. would you still be friends with them if they were 300 lbs and unattractive? just interested
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:16 AM
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good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:14 AM
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i would argue if you're dtf and they are your platonic friends then you are friendzoned, because if you had the chance to pursue them sexually you would. doesn't have to be LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:09 AM
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I can't tell if you're serious about "toxic monogamy" or not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:31 AM
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I think it's disgusting. If my girl said she wants an "open relationship" she would be single
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:30 AM
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Noticed this too. Super interesting to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:29 AM
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What implies the hatred of women in this thread? just interested
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:26 AM
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Debate is not real on reddit. It is an echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:24 AM
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Being friends with someone in the hopes of dating them is extremely slimy IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:22 AM
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Of course it is real. Almost every male / female platonic friendship is in the friendzone. AKA guy wants relationship with the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:21 AM
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Women don't care about money as long as you make more than them. An IG Model is not settling for Andy who works in accounting and makes $60k / year And the status thing is absolutely false. Please explain Jay-Z to me. His status and rap music pulled Beyoncé to him even though he's incredibly ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:16 AM
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I would bet $10,000 USD you would get a minimum of 10 likes within 24h on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:43 AM
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Then don't make statements like " no we don't " when it is objectively false
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:39 AM
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What a great explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:36 AM
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You can't run off "doubt" . Go try it and report back the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:36 AM
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Go on Tinder and tell me with a straight face you will get 0 likes within 24h.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:32 AM
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The question should be rephrased to "what are signs that a woman has unstable relationships with men?" because every woman has men after them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:53 PM
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you need to be outcome independent instead of making excuses. you should read david goggins' book. your mind is your greatest tool
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:40 AM
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You chose america's lowest and japan's best. i will agree that dating in the west is harder. but going to japan just for women seems kind of strange to me. the real solution is to stop giving a shit about finding women and do everything else that will compound into attracting women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:32 AM
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If she pays for me I'll be upset to be honest. That first scene feels so wrong dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:40 PM
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These guys need a roadmap for life interactions at every juncture Actually 100% true. But these people NEED a roadmap. Its not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:04 PM
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Because it ain't real bro. This shit is like saying developing schizophrenia is beneficial because you will live in a happy fairy tale land
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:46 AM
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Yes dude. They make it SUPER easy. i've experienced this too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:10 AM
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Cooking isn’t even hard. Just literally follow a recipe like you said. How are people unable to boil pasta and add a jar of spaghetti sauce at the minimum? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:17 PM
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Yeah absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:06 PM
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That's not how life works dude. That's a shitty reproduction strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:57 PM
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These guys should focus more on having a healthy social circle, and getting their finances up, instead of focusing on women. You're not getting a bad bitch if you work at target. There's no point of even thinking about women at that stage in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:53 PM
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Onlyfans girls definitely do not provide anything of substance to the world and I would actually argue they make society worse. Porn in general is very bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:53 AM
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Oh yeah. Sorry I missed that. Agreed brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:29 AM
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I agree with the fundamentals of RP and some of the memes can be accurate, but I noticed most dudes that actually preach RP are losers in real life, which is very sad to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:28 AM
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What about religious beliefs? What if he's mid 20's, millionaire, fit, but won't fuck till marriage? Still loser? Your body count as a man doesn't reflect your value bro. If you have game, money, and fitness, your body count doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:24 AM
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I came to this sub expecting debate and was met with a bunch of losers posting shitty memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:23 AM
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Lol absolutely. Both genders struggle with something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:57 PM
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I know. I don't give a shit. I'm in college. That means more women for me by your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:36 PM
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Yes but that doesn't change the fact that men have it harder dating. If anything it proves it further. A majority of the men compete for the minority of the women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:38 PM
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I think you're missing the point of the post. man having a full life while the woman is just a pretty little young thing with no life skills The average man doesn't care what you do. He will take you as is. You don't want the average man because he eats cheetos and plays league of legends, though. this meme ignores ugly women who have it hard with dating You will still get more attention from guys than vice versa. The reason those women struggle with dating is because they don't WANT those guys.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:52 AM
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Yes I agree. But men are also more likely to accept you as you are, too. The average man has much lower standards for the opposite sex compared to the average woman. She still needs good relationship qualities if she wants to retain a man that is actually worth her time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:39 AM
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This is good. This means rising above the competition is easy. I am also Gen Z and do agree with most of the world being a slave to dopamine hits from their phones
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:00 AM
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For your first part, I guess that’s true, I just came to this sub expecting reasonable debate since this is “ purple pill debate “, but I do agree most memes are just loser dudes projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:58 AM
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No. I agree with her. I’m just saying it’s better to lead with WHY rather than saying to “grow up” because it’s not useful
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:47 AM
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It’s interesting because women call it misogyny most of the time. It’s not that men are inherently worse than women, and it’s not about beliefs. It’s genuinely just facts. Women get more attention form the opposite sex than guys. And most guys are losers. Dating wise, women are winners. But women are losers when it comes to retaining guys they actually WANT.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:28 AM
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Yeah I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:22 AM
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Yeah absolutely. Agreed. I only know one dude IRL that is red pilled and actually about it. It attracts a lot of weirdos. Reddit In general is filled with weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:21 AM
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That’s like asking to cure cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:20 AM
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Absolutely. With great power comes great responsibility. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:16 AM
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Okay, I agree. Most TRP men are actually losers and are just as delusional. Let’s compare the average standards for a man vs a woman though. There is very little standards for women compared to guys. You could go on Tinder and absolutely be more successful than most dudes. The issue is most of these guys in general are not worthy of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:15 AM
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Women choose to be single mothers 99% of the time. It’s like shitting away all your money as a trust fund baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:12 AM
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You are speaking about the standards of millionaires and celebrities. Most men are thirsty and don’t care about any of that. What average man has these standards? It would be delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:11 AM
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I agree with you. This is what you need if you want Leonardo DiCaprio. But the argument here is there are way more men that will accept you “as you are” irregardless of your complexities, compared to the average dude. You might not like the options you are getting, but you are still way more likely to have interest from the opposite sex besides what you look like or how old you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:06 AM
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Men setting these standards for themselves is healthy and productive. What I do agree with you is there’s no reason to get mad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:56 AM
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Please explain how he’s wrong with no shaming language. I am interested in hearing why you think this meme is wrong, and how it differs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:50 AM
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I would actually like to see this one debated. Top tier men get the same amount of likes as average women on dating apps for instance. Actual fact. Average Women absolutely have an abundance of options (albeit the might not be the highest quality options) compared to average men. If anyone disagrees with that meme feel free to reply as I’d genuinely like to debate this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:43 AM
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LMAOO. I agree dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:41 AM
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This is just an assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:38 AM
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😐
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:25 AM
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haha i know i'm kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:17 AM
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I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:16 AM
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Are you accusing me of fapping to snapchat? haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:15 AM
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I think it's mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:08 AM
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Instead of insulting him, please shed some light on the issues women struggle with. You are way too emotional. No one is dying women have issues too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:06 AM
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Say "Cool." , then whatever you were going to say next
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:42 AM
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19 Canada I was a full time NFT Trader / Graphic Designer for large NFT projects. Nowadays just in school but plan to start new ventures soon! I lean very right. My plan for the future is to suicide my 20's with hard work and no enjoyment. The next ten years will be career only and no dating. I believe dating is pointless until I am a millionaire and can support both myself and my future partner, and until I am satisfied with my fitness progress. You can check my profile for my progress so far
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:52 AM
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I hate that misogyny is a buzz word now. When you ask them what misogyny means they can't even tell you the definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:30 AM
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Fair enough haha
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:03 AM
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Third wave feminism is completely unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:01 AM
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Every chick on fresh and fit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:59 AM
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Give me right any day of the week. Hookup culture is fucking disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:57 AM
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Benefits of thot daughter: You can have grandchildren Cons of thot daughter: Everything else. I choose gay son
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:54 AM
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That’s too much imo
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/22 05:23 PM
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At your age I went monk mode since I was a fat little ball. Set women aside until your finances and fitness are on point. You can look at my recent post for some inspiration. With your accomplishments will come confidence naturally and everything else will fall into place Just my two cents
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 08:29 AM
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Sorry to hear that homie.
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:58 PM
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However you wanna put it
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:11 PM
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I used to feel like that too. Until I realized I’ve already overcome more obstacles than 99% of other people. Why don’t you focus on your accomplishments to gain an ego?
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:13 AM
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Drinks help but they’re a crutch.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:12 AM
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Not “would you like to hang out?” That sounds awfully out of frame. Tell her you’re free at a certain date and time and she should COME ALONG. Big difference there. Invite her out to come along with what you’re doing , instead of posing the question like “umm do you wanna do something?” Completely changes the dynamic
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:11 AM
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You get over it by not really giving a shit. I don’t know your circumstances though.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:09 AM
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Bro the most unattractive thing about being 5’10 is if you’re insecure about it. Who gives a fuck.
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:17 AM
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The longer you draw out the date the higher chance of flaking. You need to build rapport + ask them to meet you the next day for the highest chances. Women flake a lot in general though. Just expect them to flake from the very beginning and hard next if they do without rescheduling.
/r/seduction14/08/22 01:01 AM
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If I’ll be honest I don’t it’ll work out then.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:54 AM
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Plan a date with her, and invite her out. You should be more concerned about what you’re doing in person than over text Also your first issue is that you don’t want to screw up. You should really stop caring
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:51 AM
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Could you explain a little more how you got friendzoned over text, just out of curiosity? I tend to build rapport -> invite them out. If they hesitate I go next, if they say yes I just escalate in person. At what point do you get friendzoned?
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:39 AM
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I’d say you need to build more rapport than a “sexual” vibe, you show her where you stand when you invite her out. But that’s just my take.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:28 AM
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How are you going to build attraction over text? You’re not a pen pal, you need to ask to meet up with her over coffee / drinks / food, and you can turn it sexual in person by touching her IRL.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:14 AM
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Congrats dude you’re above 99% of other dudes just for doing that. Treat your rejections as a video game, the more you get, the higher your score is. Do it respectfully though 😁 it’s a numbers game
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:02 AM
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Hard next.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:58 PM
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You won’t like the answer. Anger and rage mostly.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:47 PM
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Nah man. I was hung up on one chick for two years and it spiralled me to a fat motherfucker. Look what I looked like a year ago. https://i.imgur.com/oiPuk5A.jpg I lift 6x a week and stay on my purpose, that’s really it.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:44 PM
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Is that a compliment? I can’t tell, lol. Because I had the same shitty mindset as 99% of the people on this subreddit. I made it out at 19 and I’m here to educate other people. Women come naturally once you provide some sort of value to the world
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:41 PM
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Exist
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:36 PM
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Zero respect for you
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:34 PM
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Do you know the art of negotiation? Be willing to walk away at all times. Practice an abundance mentality
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:33 PM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:30 PM
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Okay cool. So he has other qualities than his height. So your issue is not height, it’s that you have no other redeeming qualities. Why don’t you practice outcome independence? You control your actions.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:26 PM
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Dark alleys at 2 am.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:25 PM
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No. The fuck.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:25 PM
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How does Kevin hart get women?
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:24 PM
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Yeah for sure. I actually agree with that. But the exception doesn't make the rule; you can't really meet a woman you are attracted to, and be "friends" with her. 99% of the time attraction grows from one gender to the other. It's not even necessarily men that grow attraction for women all the time. I had a few instances where I thought I was genuinely friends with a chick but as soon as they grow feelings it gets really weird. That's how every single one of my friendships ended with a woman - o…
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:53 PM
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Shit advice. That's just huffing copium.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:36 PM
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LMAOOOOOOOO because male-female platonic friendships are not real. I thought this genuinely was common knowledge at this point.
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:51 PM
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😭
/r/seduction11/08/22 04:02 PM
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None of those warrant anything.
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:53 AM
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I wish I could gold posts on this sub
/r/MGTOW24/01/21 08:53 AM
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One of those is a choice
/r/MGTOW26/09/20 12:17 AM
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that’s ItsPolarsaurusRex on youtube. really funny guy.
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 08:02 AM
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