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| 2 | The number one reason most of you on here struggle is because you are socially disconnected.Self acceptance is a major problem a lot of people have. Those few seconds before you approach the girl, if you have a "she's outta my league" mindset, you will get treated as such because it will show in your behavior and mannerisms. Here's a little scenario: *Nerdy girl has hot friends. Hot friends get a lot of dates. Nerdy girl wants to be accepted by guys so she gets makeover from hot friends. Now nerdy girl is "hot made-over girl". She does hot girl activities and wears makeup. Nerdy guy co… | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me.This post reminds me of something Bruce Lee said in one of his books. I'm gonna paraphrase. A kick is a kick and a punch is a punch to the untrained martial artist. When you actually train in a specific martial art, you realize that there's a philosophy behind the art and how not every kick is the same and how you need to learn the mechanics of your body to successfully execute each kick and punch. Once you become well-rounded martial artist, a kick is a kick and a punch is a punch. Our parents … | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How to compliment a womanI like the look of your site. It has some beautiful artwork as the thumbnails and background. I want to add that women like being complimented on their femininity. They like being complimented on their fashion-sense. If they're not known for something and you realized that they're good at what they're not known for (she has a really pretty face but she is really funny, she has a nice juicy butt and she knows how to cook, etc.). I also noticed that when you compliment a woman like you're not expe… | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | The Complete Guide To Approaching And Dating Women And Solidifying The Chances Of SexThanks for the feedback. Sorry you feel that way. Have you tried it? | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How To Keep Women Interested In Your Conversation--Never Run Out Of Things To SayI'm not a pick up coach. Just a guy who knows a little something and willing to share that something. | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 04:52 AM |
| 1 | The Type Of Man That 99.9% Of Women Can't ResistApology accepted. I write way better posts than that so no hard feelings. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | The Type Of Man That 99.9% Of Women Can't ResistSorry you feel that way. Thanks for the feedback | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 04:04 PM |
| 0 | The Type Of Man That 99.9% Of Women Can't ResistDid you read the whole thing? | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How To Attract Beautiful Women Even If You Are A Bit Of A GeekHey, some women like geeky guys. I'm not saying be a doofus. I'm just talking about some of the activities that guys may think is too geeky to attract women may actually attract certain women. | /r/seduction | 19/02/17 04:23 AM |
| 1 | How Women Think Of Sex Vs. How Men Think Of SexI have tried and tested the stuff I speak about. I go from personal experience and the experiences of others. I go by things I've learned along the way. I go by my observations I've noticed over a course of time. There is no college course on how to attract women, only men who know what they know and share what they know. If someone wants to learn from me, cool. If not, I'm not pulling anyone's arm or begging. If you go by "credentials" a lot of these authors of books that have amazing advice, w… | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How Women Think Of Sex Vs. How Men Think Of SexActually people join the site. If you have questions, instead of trying to insult someone, ask questions. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How Women Think Of Sex Vs. How Men Think Of SexYou must be a troll. People give good feedback on my posts on Seduction subreddit. I also comment on other people's posts without linking to my site. Only if it's something they're interested in. | /r/seduction | 17/02/17 05:03 PM |
| 0 | How Women Think Of Sex Vs. How Men Think Of SexYou must be new. The people who read my post are happy with the content I provide. The link is not spam. It's very relevant and people are happy with the content provided within that link. | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 05:05 AM |
| 1 | The Importance Of Body Image When Attracting WomenWhen you work out, you increase testosterone. Not a trainer, but that's something I've heard all of them say. Testosterone is the "masculine hormone" | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 04:10 AM |
| 4 | Attractive girls vs. Girls that I'm attracted to.These girls may be attracted to you but want to stand out from the rest. Guess what? It's working. Just go up and talk. She may be thinking: "Wow, I hope he talks to me. What am I thinking? He has all those hot women around him. What is a guy like that gonna want with a girl like me." Sound familiar? | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How To Deal With Trolls On Forums And SubredditsI think you misunderstood me. I don't go to other subs offering seduction products. That would be spamming. I have a discussion in other subs and forums and I get challenged. I was saying that if you were a marketer, it's a good idea to establish respect if you are going to frequent a forum or subreddit. This makes it easier to get sales and traffic to your site. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How To Deal With Trolls On Forums And SubredditsMy intentions is not to make the seddit a hostile environment. My intentions is just to give advice or learn something new. If a troll does try to engage in a back-and-forth in this seddit, I'll ignore them out of respect for the room | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 06:47 AM |
| 0 | How To Deal With Trolls On Forums And SubredditsNot that you care what they think, but establish respect with the group. If you are challenged, you want to show the learners you're a person who knows their stuff. This build a stronger customer base too. | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsThe only thing is I used logic to defend my point, that other person tried to say something I didn't say (which is what feminist do). That's all I said. I'm not attacking you, just making myself clear. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsLet me touch on the part about women and unrealistic beauty standards. Those standards are not placed there by straight men. Those standards are placed there by women and gay men. A lot of men love it when women don't wear makeup if they are naturally beautiful. What do these girls do when they go out? Put on makeup. Women don't look for beauty standards from men, they are competing with other women. The fashion industry is dominated by gay men. Some of the body images out there are put out ther… | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsI think people don't read and just like expressing their own opinion. If you are going to say someone is wrong and you say something that wasn't said in the original post, and try to say someone is trying to say that specific thing, that's not cool. Ex. Me: A man needs to learn how to get women. He needs to learn how to select the right woman and build a relationship off of mutual respect. Other person: I don't like what you said. Me: What don't you like? Other person: You are giving men false h… | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsIf someone can explain why they disagree with me by something I said then I won't have a problem. The problem comes from a person not reading the post (I know the post is kinda long but if you can't read it, don't comment... good or bad) and saying what I'm saying is wrong. Also by saying I said things that I did not. I don't sound like a feminist, I sound like a logical person. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 04:45 PM |
| -1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsTrolls and feminist use the same tactics when it comes to their opinion. They don't read the post and make a judgement on something that doesn't exist within the post. How is anyone going to respect your opinion if you don't even consider respecting theirs? | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsThere are women who are in relationships with high-achievers and earners, and they cheat on them with men who are at the bottom of the barrel. Men see what they like and want to fuck. Women usually have to "feel" the guy on an emotional level before she fucks. There are women who want to be more slutty and not have the label. Those standards may have more to do with not being called a slut for fucking more than one guy. Guys on the other hand get props for being "slutty" this is from the men and… | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsWith each woman you get, don't treat her like she's the last girl you are ever going to get. Even if you don't have options at the moment. Learn how to attract women and get better at building better relationships with women. You may like one girl, she may not like you, but her hotter friend may have her eye on you. Don't be deceptive. If you have multiple women, don't lie about it because it will bite you on the ass in the future. If a woman really likes you, that strong like can turn into a de… | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsYou sound like a feminist. I've noticed feminist use the "logic" of "I don't have to see the facts or evidence to say you're wrong". You don't have to agree, but you have to make a valid argument why you disagree. For the record, I have posted on this seddit numerous times and this is the first time (if ever) there was hostility on something I've posted. So that must mean there are people who disagree and aren't being respectful about voicing their opinions on this particular post. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsWomen do not have higher standards than men. This is why you have some of the hottest women dating only guys who dog them out. If you ask some of these women, they say, "they're attracted to assholes or badboys." You have women make excuses for the men who beat them. That doesn't sound like high standards to me. With that being said, men's standards aren't that much higher than women. Men will put up with a bitchy woman just because she has a phat ass or has good pussy. When he has options, just… | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsI never said "make them". That's why I said have options so you won't be at the mercy of others. That's troll tactics you're using. You didn't read it or you didn't read the whole thing. I know the post is kinda long but in order to have a valid argument, you gotta get your facts straight. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsRead the post. I never said fit into a woman's expectation to get a yes. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 06:17 PM |
| 6 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsNever said that. I just said they have the upper hand in dating and relationships. Read the post please | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsI respect your opinion. I just share my observation and open to other people's observations as well. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Why Women Have The Upper Hand In Dating And RelationshipsWhen you focus on the woman, you find out which ones ain't shit and which ones are genuine. The problem a lot of men have (we've all been there) is we focus on the pussy and don't focus on the woman. By the time we find out that a particular woman ain't shit, it's too late. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How To Be Interesting As FuckVery true. There are people who can have fun waiting in line in the DMV. On the flipside, you have people who could feel bored in the Playboy Mansion. | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 03:07 PM |
| 3 | How To Be Interesting As FuckHow is it false? | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How To Be Interesting As FuckThose are some good things too. I posted mine to spark ideas. Anyone else have more ideas? | /r/seduction | 24/01/17 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayI didn't remove it | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 12:00 AM |
| 2 | What is a "night out"?That may have been, "Can I come over to your house?" or "Do you want to come over my house?" if the both of you were hanging out with each other all day long. Ya already had a "night out" actually an "all day out". | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayThanks. I wanna keep giving you nothing but the best my brain can come up with. Words of motivation. Thanks again. | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayI was being funny about that. Everyone got the humor in it but you. A confident woman would get the humor in that. | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayAs long as she's not looking like prey you should be okay. If she's going along with it, that's good. They should mind their business. If she's trying to give signals to people in the room like a subtle cry for help, retract. Also, you don't have to have your hands all over the whole time. With that being said, I've been on the dance floor dancing with my hands all over chicks and bouncers have broke us up. Talk about cockblocking | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayNo prob. Glad I can help | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 07:59 AM |
| 17 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayI think I'm gonna make a video on this. For now I'll just say this. It takes time to get comfortable. Instead of just saying hello, shake her hand. Nothing sexual, just like shaking a guy's hand but don't crush her hand. If she's in your way or in the way of someone who's walking by, lightly move her. You want to get use to doing normal stuff first. Once the normal stuff gets easy, move on to the intermediate stuff. When you hug her, wrap your hands around her waist instead of her upper back. If… | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 07:25 AM |
| 8 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayYou gotta do it like it's nothing. If you look like a horny creep, it'll ruin the mood. If you brush by her, then caress, then grab, then, push away throughout the date, this teases her and shows her you're in control of yourself and her. Your goal is to get her horny, but by doing this it just increases yours. Don't look desperate. That's usually what makes guys look creepy | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 07:15 AM |
| 8 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayThanks for the words of motivation. I'll do my best to give you nothing but the best | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 01:38 AM |
| 11 | Make Her Horny To Solidify The LayThank you. I post and it gets pushed down into the after pages. | /r/seduction | 22/01/17 01:02 AM |
| 1 | The Power Of ListeningIf she's whining about getting fucked and a guy isn't listening, she may deserve it if she keeps going back | /r/seduction | 16/01/17 02:05 AM |
| 2 | The Power Of ListeningYou should contribute to the conversation, but when you listen, take a genuine interest (this is for people you like). Remember key points that will help you in the future. Not just to make them feel special when you show up with their favorite gift on their birthday, but also to tell if they're being honest with you or not. Listening seems very passive and weak, but there is a lot of power behind listening. If you catch someone in a lie because they like to run their mouth, you have the upper h… | /r/seduction | 15/01/17 06:37 PM |
| 4 | It's my final semester of college and I'm a virgin. How do I get laid?Instead of steps, let me tell you this... You will get better. Why do I say this? Because you may get laid on a day you weren't expecting it. Here's a scenario: Your friends may be at a dorm party getting wasted, while you're in your dorm room studying for your final exam. One of the girls down the hall might knock on your door because her female roommates happen to be the dorm party. She needs a quiet place to study and your roommates, in a joking manner, has told her that you aren't doing anyt… | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I think the ideas like "be high energy" and "bring the fun" are fucking awful. Try "just feel good and be comfortable". This shift had caused girls to start approaching me.You gotta be natural. Be real. If you always try to impress people, it will depress you because you always have to be on. Most success stories of getting laid happens naturally and might be considered "accidental". You don't want to be an attention whore. Believe it or not but there are women who ARE checking you out even if you're not doing the goofy shit. With that being said, you still want to be a fun person, just don't do it in the hopes of impressing people. Good post, and congrats on gett… | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 06:33 PM |
| 1 | The Next Time This Happens, Do This...This is just one option of many. I have other things talking about the mindset to have when it comes to getting out of the friend zone. You're not lying to her. You are actually going out meeting new women. You may still feel a little vulnerable depending on how much you liked the girl. You want to get over her first before you try to move on to another girl. You don't want to let that vulnerability show around the other females. If you have a tougher skin, then by all means go out and pursue an… | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 05:03 PM |
| 1 | The Next Time This Happens, Do This...This is for guys who get friend zoned a lot. This is actually not elaborate, but very simple. If you seen this in action, it wouldn't look as elaborate as you think. *You tell girl you like her *She rejects you and keeps you in the friend zone *You go out and meet newer, hotter women *When you see her, you make it short and brief and go about your business (sometimes that means meeting up with other women) *She may start to miss you and ask you why the both of you don't hang out. You tell her yo… | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Beautiful Women Without TryingYou may have been scared to make a move. It happens to a lot of guys. I use to have that same problem. Don't beat yourself up over it, just learn how to pick up the signals when they send them out. That's what I learned to do over the years | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How To Get A Fuck BuddyI can respect that. You do have some good points that I could've elaborated on. You do want to make sure that your words match your actions. Women get emotional when it comes to sex, but so do men. Some women act like they'll make a good girlfriend because they're just good people in general, and this can have men thinking if they should turn "this one" into his main chick. I was just giving a quick post of how to get a fuck buddy. To explain the do's and don't would require another post or mult… | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 07:46 PM |
| 2 | How To Get A Fuck BuddyJust make sure that you don't display a thirst vibe around these women and you should be cool. You'll notice that these women are plentiful and you may even display a higher level of confidence because you are not intimidated by their "beauty" | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Beautiful Women Without TryingThere are women who like you, but you may not pick up on the signals or too timid to make a move. It happens to everyone. The type of fuck buddy I'm talking about is are the average-looking women that usually aren't on your radar. She may be kinda skinny, but you'll still fuck. She may be a little chubby, but you'll still fuck. Her face may not be pretty, but her body is amazing. She may have no ass and no tits, but a cute face. Whatever you think average is. Keep your eyes open for the cues and… | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Zero social skills, dont know where to startI know you don't want to hear this right now, but focus on graduating from high school first. When you graduate, you can start trying to start picking up girls. As far as learning how to talk to them, here's a video you can check out. Too much to discuss in this post https://youtu.be/2YB7CbYkRT8 | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How To Overcome Social Awkwardnesslol. I was teaching her how to dance Spanish dances, but there was rock music playing at the bar we all went to. It was a funny sight for the people who actually do dance all those Spanish dances | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I can't get out of my own way.It may have been better that you didn't do anything, even though both of you were drunk. You wouldn't want her lying to anyone about you getting her drunk and taking advantage of her. As far as the opportunities, try this technique: Go to a room where you can't be disturbed. This could be your bedroom or the bathroom. Sit down, close your eyes and relax. Try to clear your mind. When your mind is clear, focus on your breathing and heart rate. Both should be at a normal, steady pace. Think about a… | /r/seduction | 18/12/16 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Peeling Back Those Layers Of FearI'm glad I can help. Good luck on peeling back those layers | /r/seduction | 16/12/16 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Writing a book on approaching people and would like some advice.Sometimes people want to know why they're doing something. If you say do this and do that, they may not have a clear picture on why. Keep the explanations. Keep the explanations brieft | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 08:27 AM |
| 1 | How To Be More Effective At Setting And Achieving Your Goalsbig goals can be realistic, but you have to have a realistic approach to big goals | /r/seduction | 13/12/16 08:26 AM |
| 1 | I'm 31 and want to dive into this world. Anyone else here start their adventure at a similar or later age?I'm 34. People think I'm 25 if I ask them to guess my age. I actually feel like I'm in my 20s vitality wise, but maturity wise, I feel my age. I been learning about this stuff since my late teens early 20s. Remember that the older you get, the more attractive you become as far as sex appeal goes. As men get older they gain more power, generally speaking. Power is sexy to women. Which reminds me, work towards a goal that has you gain more power as you get older. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How To Be More Outgoing If You're Extremely ShyThanx. Are you a shy person? | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 08:45 PM |
| 1 | The James Bond EffectDefinitely, the less you care, the more you succeed | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | The James Bond EffectI subscribed to your channel. I like the breakdown of James Bond. I do want to include that James Bond exudes masculinity without being forceful. There are a lot of guys who think in order to show masculine confidence, you have to be forceful with it. | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 09:23 PM |
| 1 | what are the best books to get LAID (not relationships)Try this and tell me if it works out. Go out and find a chick who's fuckable, but not extremely hot. Get her number, invite her over, and have consensual sex. Lock that fuck buddy down. The relationship the both of you have is a sexual relationship. When you go out, talk to the hottest women in the room. Get to know them, talk to them like you don't have an agenda. Do this to every hot woman you meet. When you get back to your house, invite your fuck buddy over. It can go the other way too. Invi… | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Do looks matter?You shouldn't want high finances to get women. There's an old saying though: "You can lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money" (or something like that) You should want high finances because you want to improve your quality of living, have more options and enjoy the finer things in life. When it comes to women, they can enjoy those things with you if you have high finances, but don't use your finances as bait. | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Do looks matter?The thing is you never know. There are women out there who look like lingerie models and date guys who look like John Goodman. There are women out there who look like Meagan Good and date guys who look like Steve Urkel. Remember on the show Family Matters when Steve Urkel had a girlfriend. My opinion, she made Laura look very average. I'm giving you extreme cases so take a look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you look like an extreme case or do you need to just tweak a few things h… | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Writing a book on approaching people and would like some advice.Add the explanations. Be thorough. A thorough book can help other people besides your girlfriend and this is giving yourself a foot in the door to make money. | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Cannot solve this ongoing problemGlad I can help. | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:25 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with constant rejection?Stop focusing on the girl, focus on being comfortable talking to and approaching different women. Always outdo yourself. Talk to hotter and hotter women. When you get comfortable talking to the "9s and 10s", the average-looking women (average, but attractive to you) won't stand a chance. It's all in your head. You'll be shocked how having this confidence has women attracted to you. You may not even notice but they may notice you because you are always surrounded by attractive women. In their min… | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Cannot solve this ongoing problemYou may be more confident and present when you're single, but being in a relationship is making you feel vulnerable. You may have in the back of your mind, "What if she ends up like the toxic relationship I just ended. Here are a few key points I would advise when being in a relationship: Establish Respect From Day One - You may not have any problems now, but the whole "don't rock the boat" idea can't exist if she is being disrespectful. Oh yeah, check the disrespect you may send her way, too. I… | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 09:14 PM |
| 3 | I got angry as fuck and she loved itNo I got the point, but some women like being treated like crap every now and then. That's why I like women who don't test you all the damn time so you can treat them with decency. | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 05:24 PM |
| -12 | I got angry as fuck and she loved itI was going out with this girl. We were at a friend's house and she asked me to pour her a drink. She asked me to pour her a drink (we were kinda "off again, on again", this moment were were off) and I said, "Your arms broken?", when I went in the kitchen to get myself something she said, "Why are you treating me like that?" with a smile on her face. At the moment it confused me, but as I got older I realized that some women like being treated like shit. If you treat them with decency, they'll t… | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Getting rejected by some of the more cool and attractive people in my school years led me to places on the internet like this. I find myself still chasing that validation I didn't get growing up, how do I finally break free and live a happy life?That's not the route you want to go. Then it will seem like you're trying too hard. Just live your life. The feeling will wear off once you are living a better life, attracting better-looking women. When you see these people in the future, they're gonna be a little more mature and may actually apologize for being assholes towards you. | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 04:02 AM |
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