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¿Por que no los dos?
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:33 AM
50

Op is well regarded
/r/seduction03/05/26 12:47 AM
4

Also don’t assume she’s playing hard to get (even if she is). It just perpetuates shitty behavior among women.
/r/seduction01/05/26 03:34 PM
2

I mean she could be asexual, gay, have had bad dating experiences with men and doesn’t have the emotional capacity to deal with it in a healthy way, had been sexually assaulted by a man which has scared her from having romantic interest with men, or just hate men because it’s socially acceptable to do so. The 60k, while it feels like a lot, sounds right because they will all likely fall under any one of these categories.
/r/seduction28/04/26 02:21 PM
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Got it, I misunderstood
/r/seduction22/07/25 03:13 PM
1

I think that person meant you don’t have to be above average in looks to get FWB. You might referring to above average personality.
/r/seduction22/07/25 02:46 PM
9

If a girl is walking around you in her thong…. I know men have a hard time with signals, but for gods sakes unless a girl has actively said she’s a lesbian or sees you as a brother only, then a girl in her fucking thong is as big of a signal as you can get. I mean the next step above that would be her asking if you wanna fuck.
/r/seduction01/07/25 03:08 AM
4

If you’re nice just because you’re people pleasing, then you’re not nice. A nice guy is nice because they inherently want to be nice. The “bad” guy reputation largely comes from guys who just say what they’re feeling without considering the repercussions. Basically, saying whatever they’re feel like saying even if they think it won’t sit well with other people in the same room. This also applies to women.
/r/seduction28/06/25 02:40 PM
2

How is the culture different in Brazil?
/r/seduction07/06/25 02:38 AM
23

OP, please post a picture of your face. This advice is likely only good for very good looking men, otherwise it wouldn’t benefit the average guy. The key thing you mentioned was that women approach you. I can guarantee you that average men do not have this experience.
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:08 PM
1

Yeah… maybe you should try being original instead of trying to farm karma
/r/seduction25/05/25 02:23 PM
6

Well, it’s thanks to ChatGPT, not sure how much OP really wrote.
/r/seduction24/05/25 10:32 PM
7

I think ChatGPT just wrote the whole post for him, even the comment replies
/r/seduction24/04/25 08:33 PM
1

Is this a joke? Let me ask you this, if an average guy with no “rizz” at a bar went up to women and struck up a conversation for 30 seconds, and at the end asked “would you want to go home with me?” How many do you think would agree? Now, flip the roles. How many guys is the girl getting? If you believe it would be equal, then you’re sadly mistaken. The girl will end up taking more guys home. Why? Men are 100x easier to seduce than women, and that assumption you haven’t taken into account in you…
/r/seduction05/04/25 04:30 PM
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I’d also add that he’s not overweight. Being relatively healthy, weight-wise is a big plus, as well.
/r/seduction09/03/25 03:43 PM
3

You’re focusing on the wrong thing, my friend. Yes these things matter to a degree, but in this context it’s hardly significant. Learn to block out noise like this stat from hindering your game.
/r/seduction20/02/25 06:31 AM
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Except a lot of women still perpetuate this. So, there is an inherent risk whenever you’re approaching a woman that they’ll think you’re a creep. Systemically, we can resolve this by making it easier for women to approach us, but you and I both know that’s not happening anytime soon. Continue to approach but make sure you’re able to read body language, if they’re not interested, just say have a nice day and go. Some girls want guys to chase after them, but they’re not worth your time because tha…
/r/seduction11/02/25 04:19 PM
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Exactly. Just because she gets paid to have sex doesn’t mean she’s easy to get. Typical misconception. What many guys want are easy girls and that’s not determined by profession. Some of the easiest girls are actually just regular people with no linkage to being a porn star or having an OF. These girls don’t want to get paid to have sex. Just a genuine attraction and connection is pretty much all you need. So it’s more of incentive to go to a bar and shoot your shot there. Obviously if you want …
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:52 AM
1

As a guy who grew up in a strict family, I can attest to this. Parents were very much against almost any social life except if it focused on studying for school. Many eastern cultures are like this, especially if they’re first generation immigrants. Now, she might be interested but she’s just being nice by telling you that as much as she’d likely want to go out, it’s going to be next to impossible for that to happen. You can try to keep the door open and try to date where she meets up with you w…
/r/seduction20/01/25 10:28 PM
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Women have the luxury of choice. Men will take what they can get. If men had 2000+ to choose from too, why would a guy pick anyone that’s pretty much not exactly what they’re looking for? Even a girl who’s above average may just be not worth his time. That’s why girls can say the choices they have are “low quality”. If a girl on the other hand only had a couple matches to choose from per week, she’d be settling pretty quickly.
/r/seduction19/01/25 03:50 AM
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OP, are you actually just good looking so you don’t need to work as much on those other aspects? The behavior you’re describing for these women doesn’t seem to coincide with what majority of men experience. Not saying you’re lying but that you’re likely to have an advantage in some areas which you’re not emphasizing in this post.
/r/seduction23/12/24 03:38 AM
2

How? He just wants to do it. As long as it’s consensual, what’s the problem?
/r/seduction13/12/24 12:45 AM
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Well the disparity is quite high. If you’re not Asian, especially Indian, beating stereotypes is tough. When you see others who are successful and you have to put in twice the effort for the same results, it can feel demoralizing because it’s something you have no control over.
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:24 PM
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“Physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance, and unable to stop taking it without incurring adverse effects.” That’s literal definition of addiction. If something (sex, drugs, etc.) is affecting your life to the point where you can’t function normally, you should seek therapy. Just to clarify, there’s no issue with the number of partners, the issue is with how the individual deals with sex mentally. You could have sex addiction without any partners.
/r/seduction18/11/24 03:14 PM
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Bro, honestly, I think you should be open about your situation, just curate your communication so it doesn’t look like you feel guilty for not having money. Say something like you’d love to grab drinks but currently in med school and not making that surgeon salary just yet. Let’s have a few drinks at your place or hers, and one or both could cook. Whatever the situation is but doesn’t have to be extravagant. The point is, anyone who wants to spend time with you will only require your company, no…
/r/seduction05/10/24 05:12 PM
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Dude, as a 34 year old man myself, this is odd… There’re certain things that are socially normal, and this falls in the grey zone. I get it, hot college girls are great, but to try and pick girls up on campus is weird. Go to the local college bar, act like you’re an alum or something but there’s something disingenuous about trying day game on a campus you don’t even attend.
/r/seduction12/09/24 07:13 AM
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Folks, you don’t have to live in one of two extremes, there is a middle point. Just because OP is emphasizing self reliance, doesn’t mean you can’t ask for help, it just needs to be moderated. A good rule of thumb is 80/20. Show people that you have the ability to get yourself 80% of the way and the final 20% requires insight/feedback from others. Furthermore, use these moments to make decisions, showcase your decisiveness especially when things seem vague or imperfect. Lastly, if/when you’re wr…
/r/seduction27/08/24 10:51 AM
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Good looks bring options for men and women. The difference is what they want with the options. Men seek more women to have sex with. Women seek more attention to validate themselves. Because of this, your game needs to not feed into what they’re expecting, where you’re just validating them. With more beautiful women, you have to treat them like they’re just a bro and the only reason you would hang out with them is if they are cool enough for you. Think of it like this, you don’t hang out with gu…
/r/seduction11/08/24 10:12 AM
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Number 3 hit home, didn’t realize this was a thing but I felt this. Pretty much experienced the same in high school till I started getting in shape for college. All of a sudden my interactions went from friendly to sexual, instead of just being only friendly.
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:30 PM
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Yeah, I don’t think you understand what needy means in this context. Neediness is not a measure of the inherent need for something. Neediness is a measure of someone’s interpersonal nature and outward action when they don’t get what they want. In other words, it’s the “need” for external validation, not the “need” for a woman. Woman don’t like a man who needs external validation, they want a man who is sure of themselves regardless of how things are going. To make it crystal clear, having a desi…
/r/seduction20/06/24 07:41 PM
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Lol no. I want a woman, I pursue a woman, Woman doesn’t show interest, I walk away Vs. I want a woman, I pursue a woman, Woman doesn’t show interest, I still do whatever she wants and change myself to convince her she should be with me, I feel bad and get depressed that she doesn’t want me
/r/seduction20/06/24 07:09 PM
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I think your definition of neediness is flawed. Engaging in courtship is not needy. Neediness is succumbing to actions during courtship that you don’t want to do. You’ll probably think, but I don’t want to engage in courtship, so courtship is needy. No… Neediness is something that the girl needs to judge, not you. You need to get her into a position so that she can judge you and make her determination. How do you do this? By maximizing the amount of time she can judge you, through courtship.
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:01 AM
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Treat her like any of your other dates, assuming you don’t treat them like shit lol. It’s normal to be nervous around someone you think is amazing, but remember, behind all those accomplishments is a person. Treat her like a normal human being and you’ll be okay. Last advice is don’t have an agenda on how the night should end. In other words, just go in with the intention of having a nice evening with her without expectations of where it will lead. Having this mentality is important because it u…
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:59 AM
2

Before we even address your question can we take a step back? Why aren’t you just telling each other that you want to move your relationship a little forward? He may chase you, or he may not, we don’t know what he will do, but you can avoid the chase altogether if you just initiate the conversation. Like what’s stopping you from saying “Hey, I really like you and I know you feel the same about me. I want to see where this goes between us. I’d like to move closer to you but I want to know that yo…
/r/seduction28/05/24 06:43 AM
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Dude…
/r/seduction28/05/24 12:44 AM
4

Yeah, OP, I wouldn’t think about it too much. If you see a profile where the girl so too much into herself then maybe not worth your time. Just try to forget about it and move on.
/r/seduction27/05/24 09:32 PM
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OP never said he cares about what the girls do on Instagram. He’s pointing out, at a societal level, that girls who seem to be more interested in how they’re perceived on Instagram, are more likely to be vain. As a result, they’re not worth his time to pursue a long term relationship with. OP isn’t asking them to change because he desires it, he’s asking if he’s putting too much importance into the girls Instagram profile to make a judgement call on whether she’s worth pursuing or not.
/r/seduction27/05/24 09:30 PM
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Wearing any cologne just because it’s popular is the dumbest thing you can do. There is an art to it. 1) You need to try different scents to see how your body responds. Some scents that are great on one person could be totally horrendous on another. 2) Age is a big factor that people overlook. What may have smelled good on you in your early 20s could be very average in your 30s. 3) Time of day, the season, and temperature should all be considered. 4) Look for scents with high quality ingredients…
/r/seduction15/05/24 01:35 AM
6

OP is definitely attractive. Most guys wish they had OPs problem.
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:15 AM
1

Hmm UCLA I believe is ranked higher than both USC and UMich
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:15 PM
7

My guess is Rice, UCLA, or Vanderbilt.
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:30 AM
1

Nah you weren’t getting it so I had to explain it differently every time. Feel free not to respond.
/r/seduction03/05/24 07:01 AM
1

Karma is a good indication that people are receptive of your post. Whether or not you want the karma, there’s a reason you took time to post the content. If you want to be more effective, reconsider how you message your title and content.
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:37 PM
2

I’m going based on what your post says, no need to go through your history. It’s probably why your post didn’t take off.
/r/seduction02/05/24 11:19 AM
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Your entire post is basically you need to put the work in to get the results, don’t expect a coach to do it for you. Yeah that’s true but you got a real weird way of telling people this. I’ll give you a tip, antagonizing a large group of people to convince them they should read your wall of text AND take your advice may not work out the way you want. Try this, change your title to be more welcoming, and stop trying to sound so condescending. You might get a more positive response.
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:57 AM
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OP are you in middle school? Imagine conjuring up the only reason someone doesn’t want to pay coaches because they’re weird.
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:31 AM
6

Phenomenal advice
/r/seduction12/04/24 08:33 PM
1

Hmm thats fair. I didn’t mean to judge and if that’s in fact what OP is, then getting advice on Reddit may not be the best place to start.
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:44 PM
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You sound narcissistic. And to top it off it’s like you’re proud of it. You’re just too into yourself. You can’t connect with other because your mind is completely preoccupied about you. Connection with others requires genuine interest in what others have to say without taking yourself into consideration. Have you ever heard someone speak and just listened? Even if you feel like you disagree, have you given anyone the chance to explain something to you without you thinking of how to respond? Sto…
/r/seduction12/04/24 09:00 AM
4

Yeah honestly it’s a dating resume. No shame in asking for advice. It’s competitive out there so need to make sure your profile fits what you’re in search for.
/r/seduction27/03/24 09:18 PM
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I wonder if it’s just because they’re physically near more women since they’re always traveling? Or do they have a higher match percentage because of their profession?
/r/seduction09/02/24 06:43 PM
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I may be giving him too much credit here but in OPs defense, I think what’s implied is that he’s had success with women but it’s hard to not notice the fact that white women are not into him. You’re right, humans shouldn’t be treated differently based on race, but I don’t think he’s suggesting that. It’s more like, what are things he can do differently that may be more attractive towards white women.
/r/seduction28/01/24 02:53 PM
1

Whenever this happens I automatically move my knee because I don’t want to creep the girl out
/r/seduction14/04/23 07:25 PM
5

Interesting, I never thought about porn this way, but it totally makes sense. Good luck in your journey.
/r/seduction31/10/22 10:20 AM
8

I think what’s important here is how the guy took the initial rejection. He played it off like she was busy as opposed to a no, and seeked her out again later without being overly pushy. Btw I just your pictures on your profile and you’re gorgeous. You probably get enough attention from guys, so it’s a good lesson for folks to see that general confidence in the approach really matters. I’m assuming the guy was your type in some way? I mean there must have been an initial attraction even if you s…
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:50 PM
3

I’d love to see a picture of OP. If he’s not at least an 8, he has no right to be so enraged.
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:21 AM
2

Just sent a message
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:15 AM
3

I’m honestly curious how people can identify themselves as attractive, or unattractive. Like I get people have a rough idea but to be so sure that you’re one or the other, very interesting. I feel like a picture would help whenever people give out advice. Like certain advice might only apply to attractive or unattractive people.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:47 AM
2

You don’t have to. I’m just describing what most guys do. You’re obviously part of the exception. More guys care about quantity when it comes to just hooking up with girls.
/r/seduction17/07/22 10:29 AM
1

For pointing out the reality or hurting your fragile ego?
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:50 AM
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Do you mean settle like a monogamous long term relationship? Or settle as in one night stand? The latter is about quantity more so than quality. As long as she gets you hard, that’s what matters. An 8 or 9/10 guy usually dates girls of his caliber for the longer term.
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:46 AM
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While this is good advice for anyone, it most likely applies for men in their 20s and early 30s, especially those trying to find success in the dating scene. As a man, I can’t speak for women but I’d argue there might be some modifications or additions to this list. I don’t think that the women over in r/femaledatingstrategy know what they’re talking about either because they’re definition of high value men seems very toxic and the female version of misogyny.
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:41 AM
1

Thank you, that’s exactly what I’m trying to say.
/r/seduction26/06/21 03:21 PM
1

Some people can have it with psychological issues. Other men and myself have noted that often times the women with high body counts do have these issues. Yes I agree that some can and some can’t. My point is that there are groups of men and women out there who can have casual sex without emotional connection that also don’t have red flags. Can you agree with that or no? I don’t understand why women are so upset by this. There are men who view sex in the same careless way so they would be a bette…
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:33 AM
2

The conclusion is the same given you understand that people can have casual sex without having psychological issues or red flags. That’s what I want to clarify. Also, my bad, I misread your second part in your post above. Yes it’s true some girls don’t like random dudes, but some girls do. My point is that you can’t make blanket generalizations of a gender because a small portion that has casual sex also has red flags.
/r/seduction26/06/21 01:08 AM
1

How is casual sex without the emotional part a red flag? It just means that you value different things than the girl. It’s more like a difference of opinion rather than her having psychological issues.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:58 AM
0

Ok but people can value different things. This just means you and that girl would be different, which is alright. I want to clarify that doesn’t mean this person has red flags. It’s more like you like the color blue and she likes orange. The act of casual sex is more like a difference of opinion rather than grounds for judging someone having psychological issues.
/r/seduction26/06/21 12:57 AM
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So there’s a difference, just because she’s having fun doesn’t mean it’s emotional for her, it could just be pure lust. With you there would be an emotional component. There are plenty of women like this and that’s doesn’t mean they’ll cheat on you. In regards to sharing with random dudes, that’s personal preference. The only thing I’d say is as long as you’re holding yourself to the same standard, like not sleeping around with women, then that’s fine.
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:24 PM
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I can see where you’re coming from but I think the only caveat to your point is people that want to have sex just for fun. For example, if a girl sees a hot guy every few parties and wants to have sex with him, go ahead. The number will eventually keep going up by the time she graduates. It doesn’t describe everyone but there are a lot of people that do this. They may want to be in a relationship eventually but their standards are so particular. Perhaps they are just so busy with college or thei…
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:48 PM
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Maybe true, but then that’s an indication that they’re not inherently interested in you. They just want a guy that will bend over backwards for them. Not worth your time at the end.
/r/seduction16/03/21 08:49 PM
2

That’s tough, maybe he got nervous or had a girlfriend that he felt guilty about. Could be a number of reasons. I’ve been in several situations in the past where it was going well with a girl but I got nervous and just shyly left. It’s a numbers game though. I think all the advice here I just general and most likely to put you in a position for success. I wouldn’t overthink it so much because if you didn’t think you did anything wrong then it could be the guy. Keep pushing forward and work on th…
/r/seduction24/01/21 10:02 PM
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This is a great answer. I would just like to add to it. Consider showing interest in the guy as well. A lot of socially awkward people, including myself, have to work on social cues to let someone know how they feel via body language and the things they say. If I ever approach a girl, the few things I look for are seeing if she’s smiling back at me, and if she’s ok with me being in her personal space, and turns her body to face mine a bit more. These are usually a good sign and if you can just h…
/r/seduction22/01/21 09:24 AM
1

I should've clarified. They will approach, but I meant that sometimes girls don't make a move to ask you out or do something more forward. They will show interest, but won't take a very direct approach.
/r/seduction27/05/17 05:02 AM
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I'm hearing 2 things here: Is it common for girls not to approach guys? (Summarizing) You feel girls don't want to go out with you. The answer to #1 is an a hard YES. Girls will most of the time not approach the guy even if they're interested in them. I've had some girls come up to me, but honestly the difference of me approaching them over them approaching me is very high. The second part is that you don't think girls want to go out with you. Okay, maybe they don't. Ever thought about why? I'm …
/r/seduction26/05/17 08:01 AM
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100% totally agree with you. Just want to add that making a girl feel comfortable is, at least in this context, equivalent to making yourself someone that SHE wants to meet. What's worked for me is primarily adding humor and/or playful banter in our conversations. I can't confirm this but I feel like it drops their guard of just using small talk and actually allows both of you to start to get into more interesting topics. I'm definitely not an expert, but this has helped me go on dates.
/r/seduction26/05/17 07:41 AM
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I know I'm late, op, but I wanted to say that I have been subscribed to this sub for a while and this is definitely one of he more helpful stories I have read. Not that it seemed simple to do but that the important subtleties of your actions were demonstrated through your tenacity. Good job man, and I hope it keeps going well with you two.
/r/seduction19/02/14 04:19 AM
2

Exactly. That's the problem with this post. Actually, I like it but this guy is probably just good at doing what we've analyzed thus far. The good thing about this post is that it brings things into perspective. It outlines what we should do but doesn't show how to accomplish the "simple" tasks listed here.
/r/seduction02/02/14 06:57 PM
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It's weird for me to read this because I'm in an extremely similar position as you are. I have had sex with multiple girls but I have the same feelings you do. I wish I could do random hookups but it's difficult. Honestly, I've have two girls come up and talk to me at a bar and nothing happened because I was to nervous to talk to them. I've had girls in my bed sucking me off and I couldn't do anything because I was too nervous. I think it's in our heads, and specifically, it relates back to the …
/r/seduction28/12/13 11:19 AM
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Well yeah, I figured that much out. Changing that mindset or gaining that confidence is something that I need to work on. Sadly, I don't think it's like a switch that I can just turn on; however, I'm not sure what the first steps are in order to gain that confidence.
/r/seduction05/12/13 12:12 AM
1

You're right but that's not what I'm saying. I'm just praising him for doing something I know I couldn't do in my dreams' dream. Specifically, his confidence is praiseworthy and it's something I would like to emulate after.
/r/seduction04/12/13 11:17 PM
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He makes it look so easy. The hardest part is probably convincing yourself to approach the girls.
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:58 PM
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