immatonton Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
63	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier?	immatonton	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 01:23 AM
3	I really enjoy the “best advice” sort of threads, so I was wondering if everyone could share at least one piece of TRP advice that you feel is most valuable.	immatonton	/r/askTRP	10/05/21 04:21 PM
2	Do you ever just know that you’re a girl’s type?	immatonton	/r/askTRP	04/06/21 06:50 AM

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42	The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRL I’ve barely used dating apps, but it seems like every time I try one, all the women I’m shown are significantly below my SMV. I’ve done much better in person. I much prefer it that way anyway. I get an initial impression of them in real life (and I also get to make one myself). Plus, we both know exactly what the goods look like. I’m sure some guys do just fine on dating apps, though. I just feel like you might be surprised what you could pull irl.	/r/seduction	24/08/22 05:36 AM
1	Guys shit test you too! I feel like we’re splitting hairs here, but I see your point.	/r/seduction	16/07/22 03:29 PM
2	Guys shit test you too! If a “man” is “shit-testing” you, I’d call that feminine behavior and literally be unbothered. Quit acting like a woman. Now, men do challenge each others masculinity. Definitely. Though, I’d say it’s a more open, clear display than the games women play. You know when a guy is trying to “son” you or pose himself as the superior male. Whatever you want to call it. With women, it’s a lot more convoluted. All that said, I see the point OP is trying to make. Again, men do test each other. I just fee…	/r/seduction	16/07/22 09:22 AM
9	I always see stuff about how guys are used as validation Part of Life 101, let alone “seduction”, is that you shouldn’t go through life being approval-seeking. You should feel like you’re good enough, regardless, believing that you have value as a human being, regardless of what other people think. Granted, it’s not always as easily accomplished as it is said. We want people to like us, naturally, but part of other people liking you lies in you liking yourself. “No one will love you, until you love yourself,” is another one I’ve heard. You don’t want …	/r/seduction	13/07/22 04:19 AM
1	Girl approached me at the gym and asked if she could put away my stretching mat for me. This one hurts, man.	/r/seduction	10/07/22 11:46 PM
26	Girl approached me at the gym and asked if she could put away my stretching mat for me. One time, this girl walked all the way across the classroom to “help” me with a certain project, ignoring the people in her immediate vicinity. My dumbass just thought she was being nice to me. Nah, some girls will give you the alley-oop, you just gotta put the ball in the basket. She even touched my hand when she first walked up. Talk about dense, immatonton. Edit: Nah, if she’s going out of her way to talk to you/doing nice stuff for you….. at least say something implying interest, if you find…	/r/seduction	10/07/22 07:13 AM
2	Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed? Honestly, it’s pretty passive. If you truly believe that you have options, then it will show through in your actions. Sure, the things you listed have worth, depending on the situation and what you’re looking for from a girl. Though, really, we could sit and list 1000 other examples of things you should be doing. But, the point isn’t to be overly methodical. “I need to do X, Y, and Z” in relationships. You’re verging on overthinking it at that point. What it all stems from, again, is having an “…	/r/seduction	04/07/22 10:30 AM
1	Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed? 101 is don’t take a woman for what she says, take a woman for what she does. Of course, they’re all going to say they want a nice man that’s gonna treat them right, but the truth is often something different. Edit: But this point has been made a few different ways already, so you should sufficiently know by now. That said, what’s some other useful advice I could give? I think a good rule of practice is to not explicitly say things like “you’re the only one for me” or “no other woman matters”. Yo…	/r/seduction	03/07/22 10:48 PM
1	Did having your own place make you approach women more? Well, if you’re expecting to bring them back to your family home for hookups, it might be a little bit of handicap. See, you’re on the extreme end of examples, as it sounds like you’re in a pretty full house, not much privacy, etc. If it were me, I could almost setup an in-law at my parents and hardly ever see nor hear from them. Some people might be staying in a room upstairs, all their siblings moved out or in college, etc. No one can hear, unless you’re in the hallway outside. Someone else mi…	/r/seduction	01/07/22 07:10 AM
1	Did having your own place make you approach women more? A lot of people seem to think that a) living at home/with roommates b) working at a place like McDonald’s, Home Depot, or something c) being 30 or 40 years old in that situation, ALL mean that they have ZERO chance at getting with women, which simply isn’t true. You mentioned needing to be exceptionally handsome to pull that off. Maybe with certain girls, but to remind you, I did say that you need to be realistic about your standards. If you’re not a handsome guy and not the most outwardly succe…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 11:03 PM
5	Did having your own place make you approach women more? Like I said, there are lots of factors involved, and it depends a lot on your individual situation. Even the 30 year old still living with mom, working at Walmart or Burger King, can pull girls and bring them home. It’s just about finding those particular girls, and understanding that, yeah, others not like you, because of your job and living situation. Still, it’s not like it’s a death sentence, like some people think. You just have to date on your level. Be aware of yourself and what you offer…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 08:19 PM
2	Did having your own place make you approach women more? /s The thought of getting food delivered to your room is just funny. ‘Course you can still bring girls to mom’s. Edit: Just depends on everyone’s situation.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 07:53 PM
28	Did having your own place make you approach women more? I mean, a little bit, yeah. It’s nice to come back to your own place. I used to live in San Francisco, though. A lot of people have roommates out there. We just made it work. Edit: now, if you’re still living with mom and she’s delivering chicken tendies or PB&J with the crusts cut off to your room… /s	/r/seduction	30/06/22 10:43 AM
0	Girls who flex about stuff other guys are providing them “Okay, while you do that, I’m gonna go out to eat with a friend from work. She says there’s something she’s been wanting to tell me…” She’s going to do a photoshoot on his yacht or could “some guy” just be a photographer and the boat is a friend’s/specifically rented out for events and stuff? If it’s his yacht, something is definitely getting shot, but I don’t know about no pictures… Edit: What you’re already doing works: ignoring is golden, something like “K” or “OK” can almost be better someti…	/r/seduction	26/06/22 09:25 PM
1	How do I not give this a fuck? I would just play it smooth. You don’t care, you’re unbothered. Honestly, I’d have fun with it and act like I don’t even know her. Pretend you have no history together. Of course, be nice, say what’s up, just like you would when meeting any other girl you’re not into like that. It might get her frustrated, even chasing your validation, but I wouldn’t even bother, if I were you. Still, be totally above it, understand that you have options, and that she’s old news. Just be cordial. You’ll occasion…	/r/seduction	24/06/22 11:36 PM
2	how to handle gf tantrums I’m just blurting things out here: The man is supposed to lead. She does take the power in deciding when or how things are discussed. Women are free to disengage from conversations if they want, but not when they themselves provoked the issue. Don’t tolerate any disrespect. Have that respect for yourself. A lot of women secretly like to be put in their place. It’s called “brat taming”. They want you to stand up for yourself and correct their attitudes. All women can have attitudes (men too, to b…	/r/seduction	24/06/22 07:43 AM
1	How do you stop valuing looks too much? It really is a cheat code, once you’ve conditioned your mind to interpret yourself and the world around you. That’s what I try to tell people, their superpower lies in being able to change their lives, just by changing the way that they think. There are lots of variables, of course. “Easier said than done”, but successes in life really are about what we choose to put value in and do with our time based on those values. I got tired of beating up on myself. I got tired of doubting my abilities. I …	/r/seduction	19/06/22 11:02 PM
1	How do you stop valuing looks too much? Well, what helped me the most was breaking my life down into things that give me value, my thoughts included. If caring about the things other people think, do, or say *takes away from the value of my life in some way, then why am I doing it? Why would I care what they think to the point where I start to feel bad (self-conscious, nervous, whatever)? I think that people often care too much what others think, forgetting to stop and consider what they themselves think and feel. Does that make sense…	/r/seduction	19/06/22 08:24 AM
2	How do you stop valuing looks too much? Well, you need to be confident in yourself, first of all. You have to believe that you’re a man of value. If you can’t get there through self-reflection alone, then you first need to make efforts towards self-improvement. Lifting weights, improving your fashion, learning a new skill, furthering your education, starting a side hustle, or another meaningful pastime. Things that add value to yourself or your life. I tell myself that I deserve the women I want, because I’m a worthwhile partner. I di…	/r/seduction	19/06/22 06:53 AM
3	How do I stop being a virgin loser? Firstly, stop calling yourself a loser. Stop calling yourself a virgin too, for that matter. See, “fake it until you make it” actually works. If you tell yourself that you’re a catch who is smooth with the ladies, you’ll eventually start to believe it. Secondly, “just because a woman rejects you, that doesn’t mean you should reject yourself”. You need to be confident in your own skin and believe that you’re a prize to be had by women. A woman could reject you for a lot of reasons, many of which …	/r/seduction	17/06/22 10:12 PM
10	I got a hot girlfriend, and you can too! Hop on the malefashionadvice subreddit and look up the “Basic Bastard Guide”. It pretty much covers a startup wardrobe, basics of color coordinating, etc.	/r/seduction	01/05/22 07:25 AM
2	UPDATE... On the cringy-ass note I left for my cougar neighbor You really aired out your feelings for her, huh? Sadly, I guess you could say that she wasn’t picking up on the scent. No, your little love note didn’t get her wet. Instead, it was a dryer sheet.	/r/seduction	10/04/22 09:16 PM
1	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me I don’t feel you’re being as objective about it as you could be, but that’s fine. I do understand your points. No one said all older women are faded in beauty. There are definitely outliers. “There’s no such thing as male and female nature.” Interesting take. Oh, and I can surely applaud a financially secure woman. We all have our priorities in life. Edit: a word	/r/seduction	02/04/22 07:53 AM
1	Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick? I would just tell her she’s going to have to come see for herself. I feel like it’s difficult to take a flattering dick pic, especially if you’re average or less. Maybe it’s just not my thing? Still, if she wants a picture, then she should definitely be down to meet you, unless she wants to use it for other purposes.	/r/seduction	01/04/22 08:04 PM
1	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me Personality is nice, but it’s really not the end-all. I need to be sexually attracted to you for our relationship to go anywhere. If all you can offer me is your personality, then you might as well be my friend. Edit: make the world a better place? By what, settling for a relationship with an older woman, when I can attract younger, more attractive ones? That sounds silly. So, I’m basically trading my own personal satisfaction for yours then? Also, “shitting on them”? No, it’s the truth. Looks f…	/r/seduction	01/04/22 07:43 PM
0	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me I think that some people are jealous. They’re with a partner that they don’t necessarily find all that attractive anymore. They settled. They too wish they could get attention from a younger crowd of women. I think that others are insecure. They wonder “why doesn’t he like me, an older woman?” “Is it because I’m old or that my looks are fading?” It might be provoking thoughts from their subconscious mind. The simple truth is that for many men, a woman’s value largely lies in her looks. Unfortuna…	/r/seduction	31/03/22 10:45 PM
9	Quick Approach - First One after reading Models by Mark Manson The “3 second rule” helped me a lot in the beginning. Basically, approach a girl you’re interested in within the first 3 seconds of seeing her and having the realization that, yes, you might be interested in getting to know her. The point is to not give yourself time to worry about what could go wrong, will she like you, or “it’s hard.” It’s like being on the tallest diving board on the pool - just jump. Now, if you crash and burn after the fact, that’s okay too. You’ll likely find that it wasn’…	/r/seduction	31/03/22 05:52 PM
1	No kissing, no sex, but she wants dry humping Well, I’d say she benefited more from the encounter than you did. All she wanted was dry humping, where you were expecting something more. Though, yeah, I can’t understand why. Like I said, I’d be confused. But it seems like you had an okay time, so… do your thing.	/r/seduction	24/03/22 06:16 PM
3	No kissing, no sex, but she wants dry humping So, you just dry humped her for a bit and then stopped? She didn’t get you off? There was no conversation whatsoever about what had just happened afterwards either. Then, she left shortly thereafter? Was there any talk like, “oh, I had fun,” at least. I ask, because I’m wondering if anything told you that she’d like to see you again, aside from the fact that she let you dry hump her. In any case, this sounds like a very interesting encounter. Though, I’m not sure it’s one I’d personally care to …	/r/seduction	24/03/22 02:39 AM
7	PSA: Don't waste time on girls who don't like you This really seems like a matter of having a little common sense, but I suppose it doesn’t hurt to be said. If a girl’s into you, you’re generally going to know. If she’s cold or disengaged during the date, duh. I wouldn’t say anything, just withdraw your attention and see if she reaches out. If not, there’s your answer.	/r/seduction	22/03/22 04:14 PM
2	Anybody get told to "be good to her or else"? Yeah, I was just jokingly responding to the “find out” bit. I’d just think the person was jealous, if someone said that to me, if they weren’t a family member. If they were, I’d think they’re tripping and brush it off. Though, I’ve never had that happen to me. I’m definitely a gentleman (when I want to be). I have manners. I’m clean. I make money. In short, I would be appalled, if someone were to say that to me, closely followed by a brief period of confusion, then, lastly, laughter… on the insi…	/r/seduction	22/03/22 07:48 AM
2	Anybody get told to "be good to her or else"? No, thanks. I think I’ll just be good to her.	/r/seduction	22/03/22 06:30 AM
2	Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done? I would have done the same thing. I don’t care enough to put up with someone’s bullshit. Brush off the “weak of you” crap and, if you want to see her again, offer her the date you want and tell her it’s just gonna be the two of you. Though, yeah, with friends like that, it might not be worth the potential trouble.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 08:59 PM
2	Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"? Life’s short. Why do something you’re lukewarm about? I want somebody to be all in about me.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 10:09 PM
7	She is rooting for you I thought this sounded oddly familiar…	/r/seduction	25/12/21 04:54 PM
5	[deleted by user] Someone told me once, I just think it’s funny, but totally relevant: “Show her you’re a king, leave her on seen.”	/r/seduction	24/12/21 08:16 PM
11	[deleted by user] You’ll eventually meet girls who make it a little (lot) easier. Some go a little too far with the cat and mouse act, I think. If I express intent and pushing things forward and you keep pulling back, I’m going to look elsewhere, because you have it twisted in thinking that I’m not the prize, because I am, or at least that’s how I feel. You have to look at yourself as someone who is worthwhile to be around and girls should be happy that you’re talking to them. I posted it here a week or so ago, b…	/r/seduction	24/12/21 08:10 PM
8	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? Sometimes, it’s not what about what you say, but how you say it. This applies to your actions, as well, of course. It’s difficult for me to put into words, because it’s more of a feeling. If I’m into a girl, my sexual energy is on and you can feel that in the things that I say and do. There was a post once about “boring conversations get you laid,” because, again, it’s really not about what you say, but rather the undertones, what you’re conveying through eye contact, body language, tone of voic…	/r/seduction	16/12/21 04:48 AM
31	Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses. “Confidence is attractiveness.” If you believe something about yourself, others will believe it too. Edit: I also had a female co-worker tell me once. “At this age (30), it’s about having a good career and being ‘stable’ and less about how you look.” People just want you to have your shit together and fun to be around, which, yeah, means someone who is confident, takes care of themselves, and likes to things that are of value in some way.	/r/seduction	14/12/21 05:44 PM
1	I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any way A man should lead. A man should take what he wants. The girl shouldn’t have to take charge or instruct him as to how things should go in the relationship. Sure, a woman should feel open to expressing wants and needs. Pointers. Though, to hold his hand throughout such crucial things as seduction/sexual escalation is another story. I feel like that’s backwards, but just my opinion, I suppose. I wouldn’t feel comfortable with a woman telling me how to be a man, basically. I don’t know what this sub…	/r/seduction	13/12/21 06:14 AM
2	The Real Secret of Confidence (Advice from an Old Man) I missed the part where you shared how to pick up women in an open relationship. “Most women don’t want to be with someone who’s married. Though, some women like the thrill of being with a married man, but the thrill is gone when they know the wife consents.” How did you get around that, being that you now have 2 girlfriends? I feel your insight on that would be worthwhile as well. Thank you for your words on providing actual value to a woman, being someone who can help her live out her fantasie…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 03:32 PM
2	Blame Yourself, You are making it hard for yourself For real. All of this shit starts with a thought (thinking is easy, or it should be, at least). After that, you just gotta get up off your ass. Once you starting doing it, momentum helps a lot. What's that they say, it takes 2 weeks for something to become a habit? Get to work, fellas. Edit: I've changed my life so much in the span of a year and a half, just by changing the way that I think. "No matter your condition, always know it's your mindset," and I've been saying that my shit's on a milli…	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/21 06:06 PM
19	How to overcome the belief that you’re interrupting or annoying whoever you’re approaching? I don't really care. I do what I want. If they don't want my attention, then they can let me know, but I'm not going to worry about that before I've even approached. You're doing the exact opposite of what you're supposed to be doing, putting THEM on a pedestal by worrying about their thoughts and feelings on the situation BEFORE your own. Do what you want to do, my friend. You're the prize. This is your life. Be the main character. Sure, like you said, be smooth, tactful, respectful (though, no…	/r/seduction	05/08/21 09:07 PM
2	Your biggest source of power is your ability to leave I love letting her know she’s not the only one out there. Some of the reactions are priceless. :)	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/21 10:22 PM
2	Are women getting better at hiding that they're fat? I mean, on the internet, sure. In real life, hell nah. I see everything. ...and I know that's not your real face.	/r/askTRP	19/06/21 11:07 PM
1	After her big work promotion, chubby wife doesn’t want sex My favorite	/r/askTRP	17/06/21 07:27 PM
3	She will try to stop you or she will join you... Never giving up the boxing gym for ANY of these girls, I don't care how bad or submissive she is. Though, that's the thing, a submissive girl ain't even trying. I've started letting them them know upfront that it's never going to be an equal partnership and, any time they try, there's the door. Edit: ...and I look good enough and go hard enough that I'm worth it. Be the same. I'm the boss, I run shit here. A girl trying to make the rules? Please. Never that.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/21 07:10 PM
2	Every girl I have dated has cheated on me. How to get over the insecurities that came from this? She doesn’t respect you, because you don’t respect yourself…	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 11:10 PM
5	Every girl I have dated has cheated on me. How to get over the insecurities that came from this? I’m a fucking brick wall with these girls.	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 09:44 PM
1	Its really hard for me to show emotions Exactly, and I think a lot of people use it as an excuse to stagnate in life. Don’t settle for yourself. Strive to be something more.	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 07:50 AM
2	Hood Game? Is this real life? Okay, I’ll bite. What’d Roissy say? “There is a groupie for every male endeavor.” You can meet chicks doing a lot different things. Are they the kind of girls you want to be interacting with, though?	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 04:56 AM
3	FWB shows massive disrespect I had that thought. I suppose I'm being a bitch about taking on more challenge. Thanks for the encouragement. "Bitch management." I love y'all...	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 04:17 AM
3	Its really hard for me to show emotions That's the thing, though. "Fake it until you make it" works. So, the person I was pretending to be yesterday, yeah, I'm him today. Like I said, mental conditioning. It's crazy what you can achieve with the power of thought. I get your point, though. I appreciate you. Edit: oh, and I know about vetting women for an LTR. Thank Anti-Dump's guide for that. And, yeah, there will always be a woman that's attracted to you, no matter who or what you are. Are they the peak of what you can get with your l…	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 04:02 AM
3	FWB shows massive disrespect This is my thing with spinning plates. I'm not trying to "manage" my bitches. That sounds like a full-time job. I understand the importance, sure. I'm just on the fence as to whether or not I want to try to see more than 1 or 2 girls at once. I feel like I have my hands full as it is. I do enjoy other things, besides gaming women and having sex. That's really the idea that I get, though, when I hear about dudes with 4 or 5 women. Y'all either have no hobbies/do no self-care or are just geniuses …	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 03:59 AM
1	Its really hard for me to show emotions Man, if I’d just “been me,” I’d still be a soft little bitch, locked in an LTR, thinking that’s the best I could ever do. The Red Pill has me looking at girls crazy now. I really believe I’m the shit. I think I’m their master. It’s all mental conditioning, retraining the mind, changing your perspective. I’m not who I was 5 years ago. I won’t be who I am 5 years from now. I get your point, but, sometimes, yourself isn’t good enough. Always strive to be something more. Better. That’s what being hi…	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 03:13 AM
3	guy tried grabbing my girls ass? I mean, we’re not going to promote looking for violence, are we? I’ll get him off my girl, sure, but I’m not about to try and choke some dude in the nightclub. I enjoy my freedom and, more importantly, my life. You never know what trouble you’re going to find out there, especially if you go looking for it. I really don’t have time for shit like this. I’m glad I’m not a nightclub person, at all. Really, it’s just her ass. If she wants to fuck him, go ahead, I guess. I can find another ass.	/r/askTRP	14/06/21 12:52 AM
3	Its really hard for me to show emotions Emotionally unavailable is the way. Use your positive emotions, like laughter and smiles, and affection as rewards for her good behavior. Yes, seriously. Don’t just be all giggly and touching on a girl all the time. It’s a form of validation. Not necessarily talking to OP, just anyone reading that needs to hear it...	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 10:17 PM
17	how do you guys deal with the female ego? For real. Either she’s gonna be submissive, or she’s gonna be gone.	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 09:50 PM
6	Do women love you? Yes, they can. I was in an LTR for 10 years. We were deeply in love, she was highly committed to me, stuck with me through my darkest times and watched me come out the other end a stronger, more developed human being. I don’t believe that every woman will leave you, if you share your pain and problems. I don’t believe that every woman will leave you, if you take a few losses, are down on your luck, etc. I was definitely weak, yet she stuck around. You hear “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn,”…	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 07:32 AM
58	Whats ur routine for first 3 dates? I’m gonna start taking girls to the boxing gym, so we can spar it out. Beat your ass in the ring, then beat that box after.	/r/askTRP	13/06/21 06:36 AM
7	Well boys I did it...I asked out my cougar hairdresser. Damn, bro, I wanna be just like you when I grow up. What’s your secret?	/r/askTRP	12/06/21 08:02 AM
8	“Do women like muscles?” Bro, I love muscles. I used to be a skinny little shit. I still am, but at least I’ve got some meat on me now. I love my big(ger) biceps and broad(er) shoulders. And, pause, but I definitely throw a mental salute at a dude who looks like he works out. Of course the girls love it.	/r/seduction	12/06/21 04:17 AM
1	LTR Calling me out on dread? This was a nice lesson for me. I'm still trying to get better control of dread game, admittedly.	/r/askTRP	12/06/21 02:22 AM
5	Why do women always try to attack masculinity Well, I hope that goes well for you, man. I wish nothing but the best, truly. Cya around	/r/askTRP	10/06/21 01:15 PM
5	Why do women always try to attack masculinity I think you’re missing the point, sir... Assuming you’re a certain way, then letting you know in an attempt to get an emotional rise out of you, that’s a shit test. You say a woman should ask you of things like your thoughts, feelings, and expectations, but fail to realize that women are largely emotional creatures, thinking with emotion rather than logic. Do you DEER (defend, explain, excuse, and rationalize) everything with women? You try to talk everything out. That’s a no. My way or the high…	/r/askTRP	10/06/21 01:04 PM
1	Group of girls from my class hates my guts I mean, it sounds like he’s interacting with these girls in school. So, high school (God forbid he’s a middle schooler, have fun for a few more years)? Sure, let them know you don’t appreciate the disrespect in a level-headed manner. I’d prefer to take a humorous route, putting myself above them, not caring, even ignoring them entirely at times. I really only want to check a girl I’m seeing, you know? I don’t care enough otherwise. Like, are they gonna kill me or what? Bitches talk. People talk.…	/r/askTRP	10/06/21 06:46 AM
2	Just fucking go out. I can’t tell you how much I’ve learned and grown as a human being from my interactions with others. We’re met to be social creatures, to a degree, operate in communities. More than that, differing perspectives shape the world, my friend. Though, at the end of the day, it is your life, your happiness, do what you want. I’m all for it. Best wishes	/r/seduction	10/06/21 06:41 AM
10	If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with others Easy. I got that Aquarius cheat code.	/r/seduction	10/06/21 12:31 AM
47	Group of girls from my class hates my guts I love to ignore people and keep living my best life. Success is the best revenge. Don't enter into their frame by getting emotional, defending, explaining, excusing, or rationalizing (D.E.E.R., for short). Work on yourself, inside and out, have purpose, meaningful hobbies, and generally work hard at everything you do. Shine. Show them up. You have to be the king in your life. The king's gonna care what the lesser have to say about him? This is how I talk to myself. I never used to either. It al…	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 05:48 PM
3	Just fucking go out. I love that I’m not a bar guy. I meet girls at the gyms I go to, stores, in public, or the many other outdoor activities I like to do. Though, the point of “just fucking go out” is spot-on. It doesn’t matte so much what you do, just that it’s a meaningful, enjoyable experience for you, and many others, because, yes, a side part of hobbies is meeting cool, like-minded people. Also, just fucking make eye contact with people, not just women, but especially women. Just fucking talk to people, not ju…	/r/seduction	09/06/21 03:02 PM
1	Don’t think she’ll stay if your income is reduced Shit, you can walk, girlie. I bet you’ll still try to take half of my measly 250k/year, though. I don’t care if I’m making a billion a year. Ain’t no girl expecting this from me. You earn it all, or maybe seldom comes from the niceness of my heart. I’ve really been getting disappointed by a lot of women lately. Attitudes like this are super common. Maybe I’m just having a lot of poor luck this year? I don’t connect with any of them. They all do something that makes my dick shrivel up. I’ve been …	/r/MGTOW2	08/06/21 03:55 PM
1	Seeing 9’s and 10’s live life on easy mode pisses me off even though I know it shouldn’t. A lot of people in general live life on easy mode. Spoiled babies. I don’t care and choose go the hardest for myself and what I want out of life.	/r/askTRP	06/06/21 05:53 AM
1	Do you ever just know that you’re a girl’s type? Be honest with you, I don’t want to fuck just to fuck, though. I don’t have the time, between work, school, and hobbies that I enjoy a lot more than having sex or being with a girl for only that reason. Basically, I don’t care enough to deal with girls that don’t do something for me beyond being sexually attractive. But, yeah, you’re right, I could be running through these bitches, if I wanted to. It doesn’t help that I have a very particular type. Though, yes, AWALT and, no, they’re not special…	/r/askTRP	05/06/21 03:43 PM
2	Do you ever just know that you’re a girl’s type? Okay, so this is a thing then? Truthfully, I have not experienced it. I’ve been in a few LTR that I wish would have ended in fiery blazes, as I was unhappy for a significant period of time and just let it all linger. After my last LTR, I found TRP, then had some casual experiences with women, but found them all highly disappointing in the end. It turned me off of girls and I’ve just been trying to work on myself, mostly. I’ll talk to girls, here and there, but don’t actively work towards meeting…	/r/askTRP	04/06/21 03:37 PM
3	Do you ever just know that you’re a girl’s type? Yeah, very much more than just looks.	/r/askTRP	04/06/21 07:31 AM
1	Just wanna share a quick Red Pill moment I witnessed I mean, it’s nice to be able to buy shit. I also like to own things, go places, etc. If I could just... mooch off of someone else...? Not for me. I like to work for my shit. Though, I’m sure she is providing a service to her new provider. Anyway, I can see girls they go for it, I guess.	/r/askTRP	02/06/21 07:16 AM
2	Horniness drives me to ask girls out but when it's gone I don't feel like it's worth the trouble I dunno, man. The horniness comes and goes, yeah. I’m not always honed in on thoughts of having sex. Though, I’m trying to go for women that kind of just do it for me, you know? So, in the event that my mind does go there, it’s not going to be a problem finding that sexual energy again. See, if I were to ask a girl out, then decide later on that I’m good, I’d question if I was even that into her to begin with. It’s like, even bother approaching, if that’s how it is? Me, I’m not going to bother a…	/r/askTRP	02/06/21 02:50 AM
1	How to escalate to blowjob? Just go ahead and cut my nuts off and put them in a blender, yeah...	/r/askTRP	31/05/21 08:05 PM
2	Idk how to stop hating myself You sound young, not to offend. You'll get there. Keep working and be patient with yourself. Keep doing well in school, study TRP, force yourself to think in new ways, approach and talk to people (not entirely women), and generally building yourself up, inside and out, whether that is lifting, reading books, maybe an art, like poetry or painting, or another cool hobby, like rock climbing, etc. I know a 60 something year old man who tells me I'm lucky to have discovered TRP at my age, where his p…	/r/askTRP	31/05/21 05:13 AM
2	How to deal with never being a first choice for girls? So, start off by training your mind to think highly of yourself. There are things in this life that are out of your control, and that will always be the case. Accepting that and learning to embrace and love yourself is key, my friend. From there, maximize your strengths and minimize your weaknesses. Keep your body in tune, refine your inner game, challenge yourself to grow in any and all ways that you can (and follow your heart a little in the last regard). Looks are so important, but you have h…	/r/askTRP	29/05/21 11:29 PM
16	"If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion? My sex drive got killed by oneitis. Keep it real, I’d rather have none than one. Also, personally, it’s fuck an LTR and fuck sharing your feelings with a girl. Never that. We can have fun and see each other on a casual, though consistent, basis, and, in the mean time, I’m gonna be over here, trying to boss up. Also, if a girl is going to make me wait or dangle sex over my head as some kind of reward, one of us is going to be seeing the door real quick. If it’s her crib, I’ll gladly see myself ou…	/r/askTRP	26/05/21 06:44 PM
10	Getting a lot of shit tests from guys when out with my LTR. For real, it takes a certain type of guy to make an approach like that and, yeah, a certain type of girl to go for it. I don’t know, I don’t really hang out with people like that, thankfully. Sounds dumb as fuck. Okay, you’ve attempted to belittle me in front of my girlfriend/plate/whatever to try and get her to leave me for you. Now, sweetie, how does that sound to you? Yes or no, because I don’t really care. I don’t have time for either of you, then. Go be perfect with each other. Edit: There …	/r/askTRP	26/05/21 06:26 AM
25	Getting a lot of shit tests from guys when out with my LTR. This is spot-on. I just discovered TRP a year or so ago and I’m still trying to put it all together. I’ve still been trying to master the “I am the prize” mentality and have rock steady frame with others, but especially women I find very attractive. I’ve found that, yes, I often look at women and their BF and think, l’m better-looking than him.” I’m more X, Y, or Z than he is, right? If he can get a girl like that, then I should have no problem, basically. So, yeah, if you see a girl out with he…	/r/askTRP	26/05/21 03:15 AM
1	Punched my father in the face and cut him out. Am I in the right or wrong? I often think about what I could do to a person. I don’t actually do it, though. I hope to keep it that way. There are many reasons why: my freedom is nice, I don’t want anyone to get hurt or possibly even killed (because shit happens), and more. Men should be able to defend themselves, but not push an envelope of violence, especially if the other party is not necessarily looking for that. Even if they are, if removing yourself from the situation is an option, take it. Anything else is a matter …	/r/askTRP	25/05/21 05:21 AM
9	Is 28 too late to start over, make some drastic changes, and really start living? Ha, I’m a similar age. It’s never too late to try new things, no. It’s a marathon, not a sprint. A journey, my friend. That, or treat it as a video game. Level up your skills, build and tone your body, study TRP, educate yourself in general, whether for monetary gain (a college degree) or, if nothing else, for your personal interest, force yourself to get out of your comfort zone, which could be considered gaining experience points, right? I feel like a lot of this is going to require you to rew…	/r/askTRP	23/05/21 04:46 AM
4	Left my ex on seen only to reply 24 hours later like an idiot Prove how amazing your life is to yourself. Nicely put, forget her. Also, another thing in life is forgiving yourself. I still fuck up, all the time. With the RP, but life in general. To error is human. Once I learned how to just OWN my actions, learn from the bad ones, and always forgive myself and move forward, life got so much easier. I’m not trying to prove shit to anyone but me, and a woman is gonna have to do the same. I think I go hard in life and am a prize to be had. Be the same.	/r/askTRP	22/05/21 10:01 AM
1	Best Redpill movies/videos? Get Roosh’s Game on ebook...	/r/askTRP	22/05/21 04:08 AM
1	How to cold approach correctly I like this way of looking at it. I’ll readjust a bit. Thank you Edit: Imagining myself cheerily calling a girl “adorable” while she shit tests me. I usually just act like nothing happened and keep having a great day. I also like the idea of lacking emotion, to an extent, at least the negative ones. Stoicism, right? Beyond that, yeah, be yourself.	/r/seduction	18/05/21 09:40 PM
3	How to cold approach correctly ...and she keeps giving you chances. It sounds like you could just walk up to her and not do a whole lot and still hook up. Just be normal. Be direct. Be dominant over her. Escalate things sexually. You lead her. Follow your natural instinct. I’ve truthfully never had a girl try this hard. Though, like I mentioned in another comment, I spent many years not making eye contact with people, staring at the ground, like a dumbass. I wasn’t even looking at girls, so I guess I can’t give you too much s…	/r/seduction	18/05/21 05:28 PM
9	How to cold approach correctly This is a helpful reminder too. I’ve had it explained to me as “think like you’re already fucking her,” but this is a more approachable way of presenting it. Just don’t care and act like you’re supposed to be there. Easier said than done, but you can train yourself to think differently by... yes, just forcing yourself to look at women and the world in general from a different perspective. After you approach a few times, it starts to get a little easier. A few more, easier still. So on. It’s only…	/r/seduction	18/05/21 05:24 PM
23	How to cold approach correctly What’s the difference between a “look down” and a “quickly look away or whatever?” One you describe as good and the other bad. Though, a look down could easily be misconstrued as a quickly look away, you know? I think this is mostly accurate advice, though. I get what you mean by “look down.” You can tell if a woman is into you, even if she looks away, because of the rest of her body language. I guess I just wanted you to elaborate on that.	/r/seduction	18/05/21 01:49 PM
3	Frame control and How to deal with women who have perceived higher value than yourself ? As others have said, while it’s important to maximize your strengths and minimize your weaknesses in every way that’s within your control, this is largely a matter of inner game and your need to rewire your brain into thinking that, yes, you are the prize and she is beneath you, so to speak, a queen to her king. She is meant to be submissive to you. I’ve been struggling with this myself. Ignore her beauty, I tell myself. She woke up like that. She put on a ton of makeup to be that way. What more…	/r/askTRP	17/05/21 04:16 AM
16	She saw me with another girl, then DM’s me Yes. Leaving that bitch on read and blocking her must have felt nice. Sleep well tonight, my friend. Keep growing bigger and stronger and pulling badder women.	/r/askTRP	16/05/21 04:14 AM
1	Why do married men intensify bachelor men to marry? Crabs in a bucket? Misery loves company? Join me, my friend, on the journey of suffering.	/r/askTRP	14/05/21 06:42 PM
16	The importance of learning how to fight and/or protect yourself I think it gives you a whole new layer of confidence and for that it is priceless.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/21 06:27 AM
18	Does red pill make you cold? My goal is to be like a thick slab of cold, hard steel. To have emotions is to be human, sure, but if I bitch and moan about every hardship I face for the rest of my life, please kick the shit out of me. I'm going to stomach it and carry the weight. Crying hasn't gotten me anywhere for many, many years, and I hate the people who sit and complain to others all day, like we all don't have similar problems and could easily fill their ears with the same useless drivel. I still struggle with it, but …	/r/askTRP	13/05/21 05:50 AM
5	How can I talk around the fact that I just wanna fuck her ? And this works with regularity? So bluntly, straightforward. That’s your opener as well? I can see an indirect opener, talking for a bit about whatever topics, then being direct about that part of your intentions. Hm, interesting.	/r/askTRP	12/05/21 10:31 PM
11	How can I talk around the fact that I just wanna fuck her ? Could you provide an example of telling her “without being a dick?” I generally take an indirect approach, so I’m genuinely curious.	/r/askTRP	12/05/21 08:52 PM
2	How can I talk around the fact that I just wanna fuck her ? Do you guys actually come out and say something as blunt “I want to fuck you?” I’m genuinely curious, as I tend to take an indirect approach when I’m meeting girls. Though, I was told to never tell a girl verbally “I want to fuck” when trying to build a connection. My assumption was that it’s typically done so out of a needy place, but, if you’re just telling a girl and don’t give a fuck what happens, I guess it’s cool and could work. The comments here have me curious about direct approaches, es…	/r/askTRP	12/05/21 08:51 PM
3	I really enjoy the “best advice” sort of threads, so I was wondering if everyone could share at least one piece of TRP advice that you feel is most valuable. “Every woman has a freak in her, not every woman will ‘freak’ everybody.”	/r/askTRP	10/05/21 09:00 PM
1	I really enjoy the “best advice” sort of threads, so I was wondering if everyone could share at least one piece of TRP advice that you feel is most valuable. This one is so absolutely empowering. Your mission in life should be your own health and satisfaction. When you start to look at everything from that perspective and are always working to be a better version of you, it’s easier to attract and connect with women. You are able to approach without caring about the outcome, because, no matter what happens, you’re going to be fine. I didn’t naturally think in these ways before, but it sticks very easily, if you just coach it to yourself at first. For…	/r/askTRP	10/05/21 07:54 PM
3	The Secret of the Jerk I think you misunderstood. Don’t seek to play the clown with a woman to win her favor. What I meant is more like tease her, make playful humor, if you’re good at it, and, like I said, sexual innuendos. Tell her you want to fuck without actually telling her. Also, don’t be afraid to say whatever you want. Validate a woman? Little to none. Seek her validation? Never, under any circumstances, guys. When you approach a girl, you’re there to find out if she’s cool enough to hang out with you. You sho…	/r/TheRedPill	10/05/21 04:11 PM
27	The Secret of the Jerk I get the point you’re trying to make. I’ve been trying to be more like a “Steve” myself. Maybe not so aggressively, but rather asserting my will and not really giving a fuck about anyone else or how they feel about it. Sure, I’m nice to the extent that I have to be. I’m not mean. One might call me an asshole, though. A selfish asshole. Someone who has their best interests in mind and isn’t afraid to be assertive about it, all in the effort of growth, happiness, and self-preservation. This post …	/r/TheRedPill	09/05/21 06:59 PM
2	How/Where do I start approaching girls? Yeah, pretty much. In that case, work on yourself and raise your SMV, best you can. I spent many years of my life with my head down and avoiding eye contact like a beta bitch, so who knows how many looks I missed. Though, since I’ve started paying attention, people definitely cast looks. They shop with their eyes. If you’re not getting looks, something’s wrong...	/r/askTRP	09/05/21 04:18 PM
12	How/Where do I start approaching girls? Look for eye contact or proximity to where you’re standing, whether that’s in the gym, market, or workplace. Anywhere girls are that you can approach and it’s not considered weird. Hiking and she’s on the trail next to you, ask which trail is the best or something. Supermarket, ask her where the cashew butter is. Anywhere. I’m not a fan of approaching women who haven’t already shown at least some indicator of interest. Though, some people do it and that’s fine. Maybe I should quit being a bitch …	/r/askTRP	08/05/21 04:22 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? Your comment really helped me a lot. Just what I was looking for. Salute.	/r/askTRP	08/05/21 06:36 AM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? I can see this. Totally. Who wants the same dish when there is so much variety? So, all the more reason to stick to casual relationships with 7-10 women that last for however long they last and for whatever purposes. Nothing more than that. Who cares? I don’t want to be tied to any one of these people for anything other than their good company and of course sex. I can accept a certain amount of emotional baggage or drama, to keep it short, but it’s all about the value that they add to my life. Y…	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 08:11 PM
0	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? Yeah, I do all of those things. I think I work pretty hard and use my free time very meaningfully, but I'm not here to prove myself to you. It's just an empowering mindset, I guess. Sort of like women with their "queen" or "diva" shit. Of course, I'm just one person of many, certainly not without imperfections. Thank you, sir!	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 07:48 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? Amen. I love the mindset.	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 06:51 PM
2	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? I agree with everything you said wholeheartedly, especially the edit. It's like another user said, in other words, aim high. I've also heard something similar from men who've had a high stream of 9 or 10 women. The smallest beta behavior can be enough to have them "next" you. It's actually why I decided to make this post. It's crazy to think that a woman can entirely lose interest in you over one thing, like they're God's gift to the world or something. So, I asked myself, is it even worth it to…	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 06:50 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? There must just be an equally large amount of shitty women out there that give the majority a bad name. I'm not going to sit here and say I feel that all women are spawn of Satan or anything, of course. Some are just kind of foul, right? It's comforting to hear that you've had an opposite experience in meeting many women of substance. Thanks	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 06:39 PM
2	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? An important detail I mistakenly left out is that my co-worker meant it in terms of marriage. Though, also sex, if I remember correctly. She let him take her out a few times, to his fancy restaurant, and he overall treated her very well, but she never fucked him. Though, sure, some women will have sex with a guy just so he'll continue to be a provider. Story as old as time.	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 05:45 PM
2	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? I get what you're saying entirely, bro. Be smooth with it. Act like I don't even care that they're hot. They want to fuck me. I'm the prize. Me. And, yeah, have fun with it. This subreddit isn't all bad. Thanks, man	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 05:37 PM
2	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? I mean, I'm only human. I can see myself getting attached to the right girl. Though, at the end of the day, TRP is always in the back of my head when I'm dealing with women. I might miss her in the sense that she's a good lay, cooked, cleaned, and wasn't a headache to be in the same room with. Emotionally attached? Cry? Feel like I "lost" her? You can't lose what was never yours. She wasn't mine. It's just my turn. And, honestly, I can have a great time all by my damn self. I'm also curious, wha…	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 05:29 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? As you should. Only the best. Carry on.	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 05:20 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? Shoot for the moon. You'll land among the stars, at least. Yes, aim high. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Thank you for reinforcing this in my mind. Edit: Fun-ny fact from our former president. He wasn't without his becoming features, to say the least.	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 05:19 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? Would you mind expanding on this further? I think we'd all appreciate it. Solid content.	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 05:18 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? I definitely see this too. In fact, I've suffered from it in the past. My LTR was lesser than me on the SMV, but I had a lot of baggage and things I still need to work on, to be totally honest. This can go both ways, though, right? In finding a girl with self-esteem issues, is lazy, or what have you. It all depends on what you want. Life partner, fuck buddy, emotional tampon...	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 05:17 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? This is going to help me remember it a lot more.	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 04:59 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? Thanks for all of your responses, guys! It’s very helpful. I think I’m just gonna go for the the best women I can get. 7-10, clean, and okay to be around. I won’t worry too much about the rest. I was curious if it’s easier to deal with a woman that’s a 7 versus a 10, but I’ve honestly had tons of experiences with 5’s and 6’s that act like they’re goddesses, so I can imagine it’s the same as the number goes up. I should have realized. Though, at the same time, your responses make me feel as thoug…	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 04:12 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? You think high value women are prevalent? What’s one place you’d suggest looking? Genuinely curious.	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 04:04 PM
3	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? Yeah, my co-worker was describing the perfect guy for her one day and, at the end of it all, it turned out that she’s not at all willing to entertain the idea of sleeping with the man simply because he’s too short. Like, 5’6”. It blew my mind, because everything she had said about him made it seem like he was the perfect catch, then... nope. Just one thing can be a huge turnoff for a woman. Though, recall the need for strong frame, work on the things you can, have an abundance mentality and know…	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 03:57 PM
1	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? So, on average of the women you’ve been with, you’d say that the 9’s or 10’s have more attractive personalities?	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 03:52 PM
23	Does anyone “date down” because it’s easier? Yeah, I was going to mention that, when 5’s and 6’s are acting like they’re much higher on the SMV, you can imagine how 9’s and 10’s behave.	/r/askTRP	07/05/21 04:59 AM
16	I have no desire to date/marry a woman and want to smash escorts for the rest of my life. Is there anything wrong with that? This is a perfect of example of someone who didn’t read the sidebar. Please, pay attention. I can tell you that what you are pursuing is really not the answer and that I have a strong feeling that you will be severely disappointed in the long run, and for a multitude of reasons. Though, I’m not exactly here to lecture you. Genuine attraction or desire cannot be bought with money. Part of the experience is being able to form an intimate connection with a woman that you’re greatly attracted to, th…	/r/askTRP	23/04/21 08:19 AM
127	You Must De-Value Beauty In Order To Increase Your Value To Women "Ignore her beauty. The man who trains his mind to seduce the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female, will magically transform his interactions with women. Lose their awe of beauty, in turn their powerlessness under its spell. This will help you acquire the right frame of mind to stop using the words 'hot, cute, gorgeous, or beautiful' to describe girls who turn you on. Instead, say to yourself, 'she's interesting' or 'she might be worth getting to know.' Never compl…	/r/TheRedPill	22/04/21 01:07 AM
6	I fucked up, need help on rectifying the situation, confessed I like a coworker. Own it. Carry yourself like a boss. “Hey, no worries. I thought I’d shoot my shot, is all. Thanks for your concern, but I promise, I won’t lose any sleep tonight.” Be cheeky about it when you say it. Like, you don’t care, because you don’t, or shouldn’t. Who gives a fuck? What are you gonna do, apologize for it, go over the top with it, knowing she’s playing you, or, worse, get upset at her for stringing you on? Are you going to kill yourself? No, none of those things. Don’t be silly. Keep worki…	/r/askTRP	19/04/21 06:26 PM
3	My first week into taking the red pill Yeah, I guess I forgot to add the /s.... As was told to me when I first took the red pill, read the damn sidebar.	/r/TheRedPill	19/04/21 02:29 AM
1	How do I learn to dress well Inspiration albums from malefashionadvice. Find the content relating to the “Basic Bastard” guide to fashion. It’s a pretty great rundown on the basics of standard male fashion. streetwear might be cool if you’re younger or that’s the sort of look you’re going for. malefashion fits seem to be people who have already developed their own style/styles that aren’t quite the mainstream fashion that most people are looking for. frugalmalefashion to check every once and awhile for good deals. You’ll tr…	/r/askTRP	18/04/21 06:17 PM
3	My first week into taking the red pill ...and I’m pretty sure there’s something similar in TRP sidebar.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/21 06:07 PM
3	How to feel "good enough" for beautiful women? Who cares? A lot of people out there have emotional problems or defects to their character, beautiful women included. That’s not to take a shallow approach and say that everyone’s a piece of shit or that I’m so much better than everyone else. What I mean is that they’re people, just like you, with their own set of pain, problems, and imperfections. What’s more is that a lot of girls out there were just born pretty, nothing more. They don’t eat right, exercise, or have any real goals in life. It’…	/r/askTRP	16/04/21 07:57 PM
5	People shit testing you to get you off center The fact that you’re mindful of these things is a blessing, my friend. Stick with it and you’ll eventually start seeing results, I promise you. I still remember the day I learned how powerful it is to ignore someone or, how I like to put it, answer with silence. It’s like something clicked in my brain and I realized how many times I’d fucked up getting upset with people, explaining myself, trying to come up with a comeback and failing, etc. If someone says something I don’t like, an obvious shit…	/r/askTRP	16/04/21 07:20 AM
39	My game is 10x better with 'ugly' girls. How to apply the same with 'pretty' girls? For real. Some of these girls are pulling off straight up witchcraft on their faces. My girl learned some new makeup tricks from her friend and had me thinking she’s somebody else.	/r/askTRP	16/04/21 02:15 AM
2	We live in a world where simps allow their girlfriends to spread their cheeks on Onlyfans while they cry silently. People pleasing robs men of their personal power. It kills them from the inside out like a vicious cancer. Here is what to do about it. Yeah, much like the rest of our thread. Though, we both seem to enjoy talking, so no worries. Thanks, man!	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/21 03:02 AM
3	We live in a world where simps allow their girlfriends to spread their cheeks on Onlyfans while they cry silently. People pleasing robs men of their personal power. It kills them from the inside out like a vicious cancer. Here is what to do about it. Exactly right, a pimp wouldn’t, and nor would I. Edit: But, I’m just a dude, not a pimp. Though, I can similarly apply it to my life by looking at as, again, a matter of the value she’s adding to my life. If I’m not getting anything out of the situation, then, forget her playing me, I’m playing myself. The fact that it rhymes makes it kind of funny, at least to me, helps me remember it. It’s just like “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” or “if you treat her like a celebrity, she’s gonna treat…	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/21 11:37 PM
5	We live in a world where simps allow their girlfriends to spread their cheeks on Onlyfans while they cry silently. People pleasing robs men of their personal power. It kills them from the inside out like a vicious cancer. Here is what to do about it. A virtue in life is knowing when to read deeply into something and when not. The point is that a woman should be adding value to your life. I don’t know about you, but I’m not trying to run around with OF thots. Though, I took the quote from a video on the rules to the pimp game, so, yeah, in that case, run that cash up and give me my cut, girl.	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/21 11:20 PM
22	We live in a world where simps allow their girlfriends to spread their cheeks on Onlyfans while they cry silently. People pleasing robs men of their personal power. It kills them from the inside out like a vicious cancer. Here is what to do about it. "If she's not laying you or paying you, she's playing you."	/r/TheRedPill	13/04/21 03:03 AM
6	LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to me I like to think of it as my brothers who made some dumbass mistakes with women and are trying to help me avoid going down the same road. Edit: ...but nah, some of y'all are just stupid. Maybe I am too? I really don't fucking know anymore.	/r/askTRP	13/04/21 02:43 AM
1	The reason why they don’t want you to be blunt/straightforward arrogant asshole, because it gets pussies wet. I feel like it’s impossible to be “universally” liked, unless you’re someone with such worldwide stature as Kobe Bryant. I think the point is that you can’t please everyone, and that people who try are more often than not “nice guys” or, yes, beta males. Moreover, a lot of the efforts they put forth in doing so are in sacrifice of themselves, or rather things that end up eating away at their heart and soul in the end. Look to Robert Glover’s book No More Mr. Nice Guy. There’s a good portion of i…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/21 06:32 PM
3	Am I weird for not wanting to fuck most women? No, if something about a girl’s personality turns me off, I can’t. I don’t care how bad she is. Maybe if she didn’t talk, but we all know that’s next to impossible...	/r/askTRP	03/04/21 10:09 PM
3	I can't believe we have steeped so low as men The way I see it, let them simp. More for me. Edit: and some of those guys are so hard to reach anyway. I work with a few simp, white knight, a lady should be treated like a princess type of guys. I’ve tried slipping them bits of red pill in a joking manner, just to see how they take it, and they’ve always been taken aback and tried to argue the point. It strikes me as the “you can’t be helped, if you don’t want to help yourself” sort of things.	/r/askTRP	03/04/21 01:42 AM
1	When should i escalate into violence? Son, if you’ve got a good-looking girl by your side, you’re bound to attract unwanted douchebags looking to make a bitch of you and take “your” girl. Do you want to get in fights every other day, wind up in jail, or the hospital? This isn’t high school. On top of that, toxic women feed off of that shit. They’ll instigate it, even. If the woman is worth a damn, she’ll see reason and not want you to get your teeth kicked in either. Any woman that expects you to “stand up for her” when you have the…	/r/askTRP	31/03/21 02:50 AM
1	Need a reality check. Im about to get cheated on right? This sounds toxic as fuck. Save yourself the trouble and next.	/r/askTRP	29/03/21 03:04 AM
6	TRP has been incorrect about 2 things for me: texting and being honest about other plates/women. I’ve had success in texting several times daily, and with saying who I’ve been with. Your friend must be supremely blessed in other ways/shredded/have a ton of money or something. Every dude I’ve met that acts like this around women gets absolutely no play, except maybe ugly or some old crusty.	/r/askTRP	23/03/21 02:40 AM
4	Dentist told me to consider braces at the age of 35. Not confident about it. My dentist told me straight teeth will get me all the girls.	/r/askTRP	09/03/21 03:21 PM
1	Feelings of Inadequacy due to Salary Just keep grinding, man. You obviously want it. You’re hungry. That’s more than a lot of people can say, content to do things like to sit and watch TV or play video games in their free time, which is fine, if that’s what they want to do. Keep working, keep studying, maintain meaningful hobbies and discover new ones, talk to people every chance you get, be curious, learn things, and, yeah, stay hungry. It does not matter if objectively you are not the best man a woman can get, what matters is tha…	/r/askTRP	08/03/21 04:42 PM
30	Men who have reached the top 10% - do you game/spin plates on easy mode, do women really throw themselves at you or is it still a numbers game with lot of rejections? For real, sometimes I feel like I barely have enough time just for me...	/r/askTRP	15/02/21 01:02 AM
3	12 things men should never apologize for I've been trying my damnedest to work on this over the past year, having spent my life apologizing for everything, the littlest of things, things I wasn't even really sorry for. It was just reflexive. Disgusting. It was explained to me like "apologizing puts you in a position of submission and out of your dominant frame." Now, if I'm truly "sorry" for something (an actual wrongdoing, not just me trying to apease someone else for some shit I'm not actually sorry for), I try to make up for it with…	/r/askTRP	09/01/21 04:58 AM
1	Update: She’s asked me out for ice cream. What should I do? On to the next!	/r/askTRP	17/12/20 05:01 PM
1	Update: She’s asked me out for ice cream. What should I do? How about a new date idea? Tell her she’s coming over and waxing your pole or she can take a walk. That sounds like fun.	/r/askTRP	17/12/20 04:51 PM
1	My gf was easy for other guys but not me A wise man once told me “every woman has a freak in them, but not every woman will freak everybody.” If she’s not fucking you, she’s not into you like that. She won’t let you touch her like that, barely even a hug? Major red flag. She’s playing games with you, dude. She sees you as a friend, at best, if not a beta male provider. Didn’t someone just make a post about how no one’s reading the sidebar? Edit: Read the sidebar.	/r/askTRP	15/12/20 01:29 PM
2	The 'you are the prize' mindset What you’re saying is that you can’t see yourself as the prize without first having had successful relations with women? More simply put, you can’t gain your own approval without first acquiring someone else’s? Correct me if I’m wrong, but that’s how it’s coming across. The goal is to be confident in yourself, regardless of what anyone else thinks or feels of you.	/r/askTRP	06/12/20 02:27 AM
8	The 'you are the prize' mindset To me, adopting the “I am the prize” mindset is something that should occur independent of your success with women. It’s building yourself up in other areas of your life to the point where it’s just one of your core beliefs. Also, if you look at it from the perspective of “I have X amount of women now, so that must mean I’m the prize” I feel like it puts too much value on what women think of you. “Once you stop caring, they start chasing.” I don’t care if I have 10 women or no women, I have to b…	/r/askTRP	05/12/20 05:42 PM
1	No one belongs to anyone, every individual is an individual after all the action. "She's not yours, it's just your turn."	/r/seduction	03/12/20 02:06 AM
3	Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls. I’ve been told that time spent should be 10% learning the theories, then 90% applying them in the field.	/r/seduction	30/11/20 10:01 PM
3	Recovering nice guys: Small acts of self respect Robert Glover. Now, go buy it. :)	/r/seduction	28/10/20 04:26 AM
2	Recovering nice guys: Small acts of self respect Robert Glover.	/r/seduction	28/10/20 04:26 AM
1	Caring to much about women How do you subconsciously think?	/r/seduction	27/10/20 03:23 AM
1	Caring to much about women Try to develop an “I’m the prize” mentality. You shouldn’t be putting so much emphasis on trying to attract a woman, but rather the opposite - they should be working to attract you. Kill the habit by dispelling any thoughts of “I need to do X, Y, or Z to get a woman” as soon as they enter your head. Do things to better yourself and your life for YOU, not a woman, or anyone really. Edit: I won’t say it’s easy, especially at first, because, again, it’s a habit. You need to be reconditioned. Though…	/r/seduction	27/10/20 12:33 AM
1	Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons. I haven’t read this yet, as I need to hit the bed, but going off the title, that’s really all you need to do. Read through some of the top posts here from the past year and start trying to commit their teachings into your daily lives. Though, at the same time, remember that nothing really matters all that much in the end and you just need to have fun with your life. Try to live a movie. You’re the main character. You can’t lose! Easier said than done, sure, but the stuff works when you don’t lis…	/r/seduction	02/07/20 04:43 AM
5	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance You guys really shouldn’t waste your time. Have a good day, miss.	/r/seduction	12/06/20 04:33 PM
4	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance That’s exactly why I would never say it to a woman with any seriousness. Again, I’m on reddit, being a dickhead for laughs (hence the upvotes on my original comment). Don’t be a offended, please. Though, I totally get your frustration. Best :)	/r/seduction	12/06/20 03:08 PM
3	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance I’m sorry, I thought the sarcasm was palpable. Edit: Though, to be fair, there is some truth therein. I genuinely do appreciate more to a woman than any potential sexual offerings. I’m a human being and there’s more to me than my dick and the same for women. I’m just on reddit, being a dumbass, but I’ve got enough responses like this to where my heart feels like I should be sincere for a moment. It’s really just a joke, mirroring the title of the post: a lot of guys here focus more on the end go…	/r/seduction	12/06/20 02:27 PM
3	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance I can never tell when anyone is serious on this sub, myself included.	/r/seduction	12/06/20 12:43 PM
387	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance Is that all anyone really wants? I just want a bitch to cuddle with and talk to at night.	/r/seduction	12/06/20 12:49 AM