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STRATEGYimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:51 PM
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LEVEL UPimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:30 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCEimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:06 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?immortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:04 AM
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REMINDER 👑immortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:14 PM
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LEVEL UPimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:06 AM
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BOOK REPORTimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:05 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:29 PM
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FIELD REPORT immortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:34 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?immortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 11:12 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:32 PM
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BOOK REPORTimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:25 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDimmortallogic/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:57 AM
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They've taken some aspects of stoic philosophy and warped them/taken them out of context. That's he only thing I can think of, but those are not 'red pill truths' they're just misinterpretations of stoicism.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/26 06:37 AM
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Conservative values where he thought that half the population including the person he's dating - is worth less than the other half. Yeah, you missed something.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/26 10:04 AM
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By leaving and respecting yourself by not staying with a male who hates women.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/26 04:19 AM
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Thanks sis I will check it out. I agree that it's a good way to understand where these people operate from, and I'm glad you used it to your advantage!
/r/ExRedPill18/10/25 10:27 AM
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What would be helpful is a post of ex red pill dudes sharing their tactics so women can be aware and detect them early on.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/25 04:47 AM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:48 PM
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You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 12:34 PM
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Lol the western world is anything but civilized, this is becoming increasingly and glaringly clear. The hay day is over for the west. I say this as a Westerner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:14 PM
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By supporting liberal feminism*** Radical feminism aka 'root' feminism, addresses all of these things that libfeminism have touted as empowering etc. It also speaks about the biological realities that women face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:15 AM
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Because society loves to control women and tell them that their only purpose is to get married and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:50 PM
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So he was inept and couldn't read the room and approached anyway? ....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:30 PM
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😍😍 in love with your comment. Just got sterilized two days ago and the feeling of freedom is unreal. Take that, society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:58 AM
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You really want to bring a child into this shit show of a world? If it's a girl you already know what she's up against, and if it's a boy there's a huge chance that even if you try your best to bring him up well, society will fuck him up.... at this point the best thing you can do is protect your children by not having them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:56 AM
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Hang in there sis and keep building your exit plan! It's never too late. Get your ducks in a row, try to put away some money slowly slowly and keep building up your skills. You got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:30 AM
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As someone who has three other female roommates, no kids, no relationship, all the free time and freedom I want, and a good job, while looking at other friends my age (early thirties) now on their first or second kid and playing the game of housewife..... I count my blessings every damn day. Society would crumble if more women realized where the real win was, and that hint hint it doesn't lie in getting married and letting some dude knock you up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:28 AM
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Ok, who's gonna tell her....?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 08:21 PM
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Lol what else do you expect from vice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:17 AM
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Childfreeeeee :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:40 AM
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Not gonna lie, you had me with the title 😂 sometimes I watch makeup videos just to see what some women do, and am always in awe at the time and money they spend on it... and then think in sadness for them that they can't even run their eyes or touch their face for the whole day. Somehow women have been scammed into thinking they must wear pounds of make-up to show up, when men have been taught they are 100% great the way they look, and trends (like beards/facial hair), have even taken it a step …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:46 AM
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God, why are women allowing men to f*** them in the ass?? And why the hell has this become so normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:50 PM
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Lol at how he puts out his hand at the end to shake hers, she pushes it away, then he says "don't shake my hand". LOLLLLLLL dead. Sis GOT it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:59 PM
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Anyone with half a brain has only to walk by women of the night and look at them for about 5 seconds to realize that it is anything but EmPoWeRiNg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:25 PM
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It was probably on hinge then, you know how they like contradictions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:50 PM
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I'd argue in this day and age, in most Westen countries, women can do pre well if they just start to reject all this fairytale love bullshit. Women can get good jobs, be independent, and make a good life if they don't low themselves to get dragged down by men that will suck them dry. But it requires a large scale mindset change on the part of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:23 PM
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Could it be a dude impersonator?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:19 PM
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Women have tried that for years.... It's largely biological, and also no matter how much good socialization kids get from their parents they are going to be affected by outside forces, from an earlier and earlier age (due to the tech revolution, and specifically the internet and smartphones). The best thing a woman can do for both herself, society, and the children themselves, is simply not reproduce. Adopt if you want to, but do not bring new kids into this burning world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:50 AM
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"No Ragrets"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:00 AM
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I honestly recommend every woman on here to go to the redpill sub so you get a better understanding of how these guys think.... And then remember that in varying degrees that are not necessarily as extreme as TRP (the red pill), many guys think this same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:45 AM
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More women (who are not just handmaidens or libfems), need to get in positions of power so they can affect policy and government and ensure men who are violent get the lot they deserve, rather than for example in Texas allowing the punishment for abortion to be higher than the punishment for rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:42 AM
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Reason #3533 not to bring any children into this burning world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:32 AM
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Woooow, who'd have thought? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:18 AM
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Men rarely ever ask women for help without negative intentions. You did the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:14 AM
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Remember that if he respected you he wouldn't ask for things that make you uncomfortable, and that how he acts in bed is telling of what he thinks of you. And over everything, that you should respect yourself rather than disrespect yourself which is what you would be doing if you allowed yourself to be coerced into something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:34 AM
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I truly truly do not understand why any woman would allow anal sex. What about being treated like a dog is appealing? Why are women so bent on disrespecting themselves like that? It blows my mind that this is considered normal by so many, it really does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 10:31 AM
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They're finding out that more women are realizing that financial independence = freedom and women are actually trying to become people these days rather than find a man and live vicariously through him. I am still afraid for the future generations of girls living in this social media and porn fuelled society, but I hope that at least they continue to realize that money = freedom and power and not to give that up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:49 AM
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I keep thinking more and more that the world we live in today is just not conducive to honest, lasting, relationships. There is too much temptation, the culture is too consumerist and throwaway, and social media/ the ICT revolution simply has skewed the way we interact with each other. And I think it will only get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:57 PM
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Lol this is the best description I've heard in awhile 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/21 08:04 AM
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Maybe you could actually make your comment useful and suggest some places they would use, or reasons why you wouldn't recommend it, instead of shitting on this woman who has made an extremely helpful post. Get off your high horse :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:52 AM
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Fuck Botox, it looks terrible imo and completely plastic. Ageing is a natural process, we're supposed to age. Botox/lip fillers and all the rest are just another ongoing waste of money, and pumping foreign chemicals in our bodies can't be healthy, in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:15 AM
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Please get them to read "the gift of fear" if you haven't already. its free online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:31 PM
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😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:41 AM
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Why is she still texting him though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:12 PM
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Ah come on, they're coming up with new material for the dread game they're going to play with all the women that are lining up to date them. Have some empathy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:35 PM
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"a trap that keeps young men from launching their careers". Fuck outta here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 09:33 PM
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Hahah to start with I would recommend not too thick, I should have actually put a small cucumber (gürkchen?). Oh unless you mean in just the case of carrots which would make sense lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:43 PM
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Now if only more women would realize this and not step In to happily be their emotional punching bags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:20 PM
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I saw in another sub a woman talk about how she had to go to a doc appointment and didn't want to take the kid, and her husband/bf asked her why not. She said "would you want to take the kid to your doc appt?" And he quickly said of course not. So she asked "well why would I"? And then described how he had a moment of realization. Many other woman chimed in saying yeah I relate, my husband/bf/whatever doesn't see me as a whole person. I don't understand how women decide to procreate with me like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:18 PM
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I love to see the trend that more and women are realizing this and refusing to provide free emotional labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:13 PM
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Sis, please lose it to yourself, via a dildo or cucumber in a condom, best thing I've done. You can go at your own pace, control everything, and there is no added confusion of feelings etc etc. First time is touted as such a big deal - trust me and lose it to yourself. Hit me up if you want to talk more. Also, you will not lose by having standards, but many others will win by you not having them. Always remember that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:37 PM
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She says its 'just a parody of a meme"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:30 PM
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Go there now and roast here tooooo please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:28 PM
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Went to go roast the person on IG but can't find the account lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:57 PM
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Excellent news, just checked and it's still gone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:54 PM
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I hope you've found your footing and are doing better sis <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:09 AM
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Imo there are two things. The fact that women have to give birth and the fact we are physically weaker. The latter is tough to change (easier if women stop buying in to society telling them to be stick thin), but the former is easier - don't have bio children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:59 AM
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I WISH more women realized and openly acknowledged this. Biology has f'd us over and the only first step to winning is foregoing procreation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:57 AM
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Yup, everything you say is 100% true. Personally, in short, F that. One of the 276474 reasons I refuse to ever have a child and will with 95% never get married to a dude. Time and time again in all countries and cultures and under all circumstances we see this shit, and who comes up short everytime? The women. So glad more and more women are opting out. The safest and best thing for a woman in today's world is to make decent money, live within her means, take care of herself and be there for lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:09 PM
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Report - https://www.unwomen.org/-/media/headquarters/attachments/sections/library/publications/2020/policy-brief-the-impact-of-covid-19-on-women-en.pdf?la=en&vs=1406 Also - this was over a year ago when the pandemic was just heating up - my educated guess is that things have gotten way more severe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:15 PM
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Ladies, as an aside - please never bleach your asshole or let anything enter the hole that is solely there to allow shit to come out of it. If anyone tries to tell you it's 2021 and you're a grandma or vanilla or whatever other shit for not liking anal - tell them to enjoy have things stuck up their shitter and peace out. The amount of stories I've heard about shattered anuses and other things I don't even understand the half of, from having anal, is enough to last a few lifetimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:52 PM
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Huge point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:47 PM
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You should (if it's safe/in a public place). Not only are you standing up for yourself, but for every other woman who may be subject to this shit, because the more it's called out and shamed, the less these pedo's will do it. We're social beings and being publically shamed is a hell of a turnoff for most people. We all know that the moment they have to start paying for their lewd actions they'll think twice before doing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:47 PM
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Good on you sis. GOOD ON YOU. I can guarantee that this loser will think twice before he tries to pull something like that again. Everytime you do something like this, not only are you standing up for yourself (or your sis), but every other woman after you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:45 PM
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LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:41 PM
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Look up to yourself, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:38 PM
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Although everything you say it's true, it's extremely important for this sub to stay on Reddit simply because it's a gem among shit. Yes Reddit it's incredibly misogynistic for the most part, but it's a hugely popular website and therefore accessible and searchable to many women, all if who would greatly benefit from the conversations that this sub spurs. We gotta continue to trekk through the bullshit and stay active in here to reach as many women as possible and effect change (which 100% is fl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:12 PM
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Good for you. I think what most women on here will take from this sub and it's associated mindset is not to bend over backwards for people, to respect yourself and find the strength and inner peace of being independent, improving herself, and taking charge if her life. That's what I'm here to see 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:06 AM
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Someone tell me what the comments are saying please lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:02 AM
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"men are taught to be someone, women are taught to find someone"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:14 PM
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One thing women need to realize is that the vast majority often value respect and power over love, whereas the vast majority of women are the opposite. Most men view romantic relationships through a lens of power and ensuring they have more of it in the relationship, because that's how they have been raised to view relationships (all kinds) since they were young (plus testosterone, etc). Women have been raised to be cooperative, empathetic, etc (also biology obviously), so they view relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:13 PM
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This is a terrible incident no doubt. Are you aware that there are also thousands of women that get acid thrown on them by their husbands each year and rarely face the consequences?
/r/MGTOW202/06/21 04:36 PM
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But, tHeIr FeElInGs aRe VaLiD, stop shaming them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:36 PM
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Women go their own way. Check out the subreddit ("WGTOW" - I'd link it but you cant link subs here), there is alot of overlap between WGTOW and FDS and the women there are awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:10 AM
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Only difference is that the women on the left welcome it because they think they're being inclusive 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:15 AM
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Always cut your parents slack and show lots of empathy if they've taken care of you and raised you well. Generational gaps are HUGE no matter what race/ethnicity you are (of course some more than others, especially if you're an immigrant child). But remember that today, with the IT revolution, globalization, accelerated capitalism, role of women and on and on, our parents were raised in such different worlds. A ton has changed in just a few generations because of technology and the rest, so gene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:29 AM
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Much love sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:08 PM
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Fair enough, thanks for pointing that out. I'll remove it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:27 PM
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Don't forget about AfTeR cArE, lest someone actually realize they've just been abused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:22 PM
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Lol it's a game to them. From a manosphere article: The key for the man is to adopt a posture of blase (it should say blasé) emotional distance alternated with loving tenderness. Too much of either and she’ll run off. They call this "the dread game". Aka what is now known as love-bombing, but in plain terms is manipulation that often turns into abuse. They know. The entire PUA/manosphere industry is based on this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:50 AM
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Yea sis hmu!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:45 AM
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Not a humans rights lawyer and I am caught up for the next couple months, but porn is legit one of my main concerns on life and it keeps me up at night. If you're passionate about making a change maybe we can connect and brainstorm over the next few montha, come up with something then get support from the ladies on here when we have more direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:56 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7ZxRs45tTg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mlUMgZGFCtw Hope you don't mind - going through some old music and i remembered you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 09:13 PM
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https://soundcloud.com/clubtechno/luca-donzelli-vs-armand-van-helden-good-wine-needs-a-painkiller-hermanos-edit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:54 PM
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Can't find the free pdf for that one, if anyone has it lmk and I'll add it to the drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:54 PM
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Thanks for the link sis 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:27 PM
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This shouldn't be surprising, especially with the increased normalization of violent porn. Pleasure and lust are being increasingly tied together, with women as the recipients of the actions. Women need to start putting pressure on governments to regulate this type of porn (start with putting it behind a paywall, and eventually ban it outright... although idk how that actually works in practice because the dark web will find a way). But either way, it needs to be brought up. Governments and scho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:23 PM
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Of course they get upset - noone wants to see a woman thrive alone.... the horror
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 03:18 PM
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For sure sis! Here are some Spotify playlists (not all techno but I hope you find some you enjoy in here!!): https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7FCQySgBBHITeG9ZYXQvlo?si=X0zBI5w2SgCa5_0hD3790g https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3FMoDvseYnB2H9RRzbEXtT?si=SVASJ17kQzaO7oKRKNaeSg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 01:33 AM
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Nah because I have the pdf's all contained in one place, some ladies may be in places they can't download them etc. And I vet each person (past posting on FDS/similar subs) and have taken precautions, it's a separate email from my personal one, specifically for this purpose. Appreciate you looking out though sis 💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:37 PM
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This is why you shouldn't try to be stick thin (and as someone who it's hard to put on weight for, one of the reasons I don't like being so lean). Having strength behind you, part of which is inevitably tied to being a healthy weight, makes it easier to defend yourself. Also one of the main reasons patriachchial standards tell women that stick thin is sExY - so it's harder for us to defend ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:08 PM
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Sidenote - some guys like tiny hands because then their dcks look big in the chicks hand. Saw a meme once from a dudes perspective "when she things I'm being cute when I say let's compare hands, but I'm thinking about how big my dck will look in it". They're not being cute, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 06:03 PM
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I have a bunch of feminist books on a Google drive, happy to share with any of the ladies on here after I look at your history to make sure you are genuine. PM me with your email.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:30 AM
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I have a bunch of feminist books on a Google drive, happy to share with any of the ladies on here after I look at your history to make sure you are genuine. PM me with your email.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:29 AM
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To uphold the patriarchy of course :) I barely watch tv and mainly listen to techno music that has no voices and I'm definitely smarter and better off because of it. You'll get over the depression and it will turn into constant, low level feelings of nihilism and hopelessness, but you'll stop giving an F about what others think, which is freeing. Also, you have us 🤗 and the glimmer of hope that more and more women are waking up and that you can be part of that 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:28 AM
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Noone = men. Start leaving terrible reviews on IMDB and rating shit negative on Netflix, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:25 AM
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Just saw this in the WGTOW sub, so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 05:26 PM
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Almost certain the original post was written by some redpill type dude. Even the lowest if low woman wouldn't say shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:16 PM
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Birthstrike, women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:14 PM
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Most will say they'll stop. The large majority lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:26 PM
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Women can thrive* ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:25 PM
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The pickme author of 50 shades must feel like shit after all the damage that has been done with that plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:21 PM
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And don't be shy to "kInK sHaMe"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:17 PM
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Interesting to hear and so good!! I feel like I hear the side you're talking about, but then also see on SM and other places how girls are becoming increasingly sexualized and buying into the whole porn/sex work/bdsm is empowerment thing, and eating it up like cake. And of course the general pervasion of technology into our lives has changed so much, especially for the younger generations who are with it 24/7 and don't have the perspective that older generations who didn't have the web did What …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:16 PM
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I read it. A year is not enough from a five year relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:11 PM
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Lol I'm dying at this one but I really shouldn't be.... This is really how they talk though :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:08 PM
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Women today are being taught (sponsored by libfeminism of course) that sexual liberation means sleeping around "just like men". But they ignore that we are the ones that bear the consequences of pregnancy and are the physically weaker sex, and not driven by the same hormones (testosterone/dopamine vs. Oxytocin which bonds women to the men they have sex with vs just being a dopamine rush) Actual sexual empowerment for women means access to good health education and services, access and choice to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:56 PM
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If you are just a year out of a long term 5 year relationship, and especially if you're in your twenties, I hiiighly recommend not dating for awhile (at least 6 months to a year) and learning again who you are without someone else, enjoying your company, finding new hobbies, learning what your passions are etc. So definitely go with your idea if taking a break. Honestly, I personally believe that all women in their twenties should remain single for the most part because the independence, self-co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:51 PM
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If you're saying 'im not a catch' because you think you're 'ugly' by conventional beauty standards, absolutely fuck that. If you're saying it because of other reasons and feel you could improve as a person, please do it!! And also you are totally blessed if you are asexual haha. If you want access to a Google drive folder with a bunch of feminism books send me a message with your email and I'll happily give you access (also goes to other ladies here, I'll verify you're genuine by looking at your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:41 PM
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Also, I wanted to thank you for finally being the push that got me to start reading the gift of fear. I've had it and been meaning to start for aaaages, but your comment about how that guy refered to you as 'we" got me curious so I started today haha. What a book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:45 AM
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Argh, annoying you had to do that, but also good because it means they're mad 😉 Lots of love 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:02 AM
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Glad to hear that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:33 AM
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Its nice if you feel you've stepped up after not giving a shit about male approval, however I would definitely urge you to think about if you really do it for 'you'. Why would you need to feel that you have to change the way you look? Or be more confident with makeup everyday or Botox fillers? I hear this argument from many women, but it's important to realize that you have been bombarded with this fake ideal of empowerment with makeup etc. Why don't men do makeup 'for themselves'? Abstract from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:18 AM
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Hi sis, I tried to message you but can't, but wanted to say thank you for the award on the post about speaking confidently 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:13 AM
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It's really saddening that this is a salient issue for so many teenagers. Society has truly failed the youngsters since the advent of social media and the free reign of porn and abuse on the internet. Even the sexual part non withstanding, the amount of truly f'd up shit people have become desensitized to by seeing it presented as innocuous online is insane (seeing dead/totally out of it people on subs, and people joking about it). I don't think people realize how watching this shit is able to r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:21 AM
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You're a G sis. I'm not as badass haha but also super lean but walk around with a don't fuck with me attitude, and can attest it helps alot. My style is also black unisex clothes usually, which I feel is helpful for the look. Self defense training should be be mandatory for all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:03 AM
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It's really saddening that this is a salient issue for so many teenagers. Society has truly failed the youngsters since the advent of social media and the free reign of porn and abuse on the internet. Even the sexual part non withstanding, the amount of truly f'd up shit people have become desensitized to by seeing it presented as innocuous online is insane (seeing dead/totally out of it people on subs, and people joking about it). I don't think people realize how watching this shit is able to r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:57 AM
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Holy shit I just googled it, I didn't know there was a name for this. I've know some people who spoke like this and it's so annoying haha, it didn't strike me that it's intention. It's like Valley girl on steroids or something haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:28 AM
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Thanks so much sis, much love 😘 it can be difficult but with practice, you got this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:34 AM
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While so much dating advice is about pandering to men, playing the supporting role in your own life for a guy Very well said. Such a large part of female socialization is centred around this/finding a man, making concessions on what you want and settling down, with the 'biological clock' held against women like a gun. Too bad so many are opting out, finding out that unmarried and child-free women are the happiest, and that traditional hetero relationships/marriage benefits men waaay more than wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:44 PM
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This is true and useful as well, but in situations that are male dominated the reality is that women need to act in what is typically perceived as confident by males, who are the ones in power. If the difference is between a woman getting a promotion or credit for her own work by acting in more masculine perceived ways of confidence, it's Ultimately a win for her. Also, I argue that downplaying one's own abilities is not a winning forumula in any situation. In terms of not being a rude asshole, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:04 PM
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Absolute pleasure! The more we can help each other the better off we are!! Thank you for your kind comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:23 PM
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Much love sis 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:22 PM
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Ah yes uptalk! I forgot to mention it but it's definitely also key to remember
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:08 PM
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Ohh what's vocal fry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:05 PM
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Lol this is literally the definition of theredpill and redpillwomen here on Reddit. The I don't understand how those women don't get the cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:36 PM
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The picture is already self-explanatory, I'll add my two cents below (notice I didn't say I'll "just" add my two cents below 😉). Women are socialized to be docile and not too sure of ourselves, downplay accomplishments and not come off as cocky. Conversely, men, from a young age, are taught the opposite, and are taught to establish their dominance in a group, toot their horn, etc. This has real repurcussions in the workplace and in other situations, when women may come off as incompetent, unconf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:30 PM
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Can't remember which one of the following videos speaks about this, but Sekhmet Sheowl had a good one where she spoke of this (I usually listen on 1.5 speed haha, I find she talks a bit slow, but she speaks goooold). https://youtu.be/SeXPyc1R_XQ https://youtu.be/J6jB8Nnfghg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:56 PM
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All part of the snowflake generation where everyone is special and gets offended by everything (except the things that are actually offensive usually), without actually doing anything to better themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:14 PM
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Teen Vogue is the plague for young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:03 PM
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I urge everyone to read this essay, just Google: Making Women: A Look at the Darker Messages of Cosmetics Zoe LePage and the pdf is free and it's not a super long read. Or if you want to go further read Sheila Jeffrey's 'Beauty and Misogyny' I have problems with women who say 'i do it for myself' thereby rendering null all societal influence that basically pounds into the heads of girls that we need makeup from the time we're young. It's incredibly time consuming, expensive, and usually bad for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:54 PM
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Glad you brought this up. I've mentioned being modestly dressed as a way to assert dominance in libfem groups and most ripped me apart saying I was victim blaming blah blah blah. I asked some radfem circles if I was (victim blaming) and I was just being blind to it, and someone put it nicely saying 'you wouldn't walk with bacon dangling out your pocket in front of junkyard dogs'. I can also attest to scantily clad women getting the brunt of shitty behavior from men. I remember on one occasion I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:03 PM
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Start vocalizing it by writing reviews on IMDb/etx, and rating them terribly ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:52 AM
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You'd think, and I'm sure some do, to be fair. May also be more dependant on the city. But I'm on some city FB groups, and I see - pretty regularly - posts about someone being harassed and the woman posting says 'and noone else did anything, everyone just stood by and watched'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:56 AM
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Girls need to start carrying weapons and fighting back. I hope tons of girls see this and see the true nature of most guys. They truly don't give a fuck. Even when she gets pushed off the platform, the first thing they do is run. Echoes all the stories I hear of women who see other women (and even men) being harassed by other men, and noone steps in except women. They don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:48 PM
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Nothing to do with watching incest porn, I'm sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:04 PM
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You and me both sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:02 PM
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That wasn't a real WGTOW I'm sorry to tell you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:47 PM
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Feminism books is a good place to start. If you want access to a Google drive folder with some good ones hit me up, I can give you access (goes for anyone else as well, I'll just check your history and make sure you're genuine).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:34 PM
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Exactly. It's insideous. That's part of why we should start weaponizing it back and refuse to reproduce. This world is not the type of world to bring children into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:42 AM
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Texas just approved a bill that would outlaw all abortions once cardiac activity in the fetus can be detected. That usually occurs around six weeks — only two weeks past a missed period, and before most women even know they’re pregnant. It would function as a near total ban on abortion, making no exceptions for rape or incest. In some cases, doctors who need to resolve a patient's miscarriage might also be prevented from doing so Let me repeat that: making no exceptions for rape or incest The fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:32 PM
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They're not saying physical touch anymore ladies, they're now saying "tactile". You've been warned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:30 AM
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https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/relationships/article-women-older-than-65-dont-want-to-live-with-their-partners/ Maybe you've seen this one already but it's about older women who may date but don't want to get married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:46 AM
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Jesus Christ, it's getting worse and worse for Chinese women, and they're bowing out. one month "cooling off" period and a rise in domestic violence and murdering, might there be a connection? dowries still allowed from the bride side but canceled betrothal gifts from the groom's family women now under more pressure to give birth due to declining replacement levels (of course, nothing to do with a policy that for years allowed parents to engage in sex selective pregnancies and abort daughters...…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:42 AM
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Thanks for the reply. From what I understand/hear it's a gradual change that happens slowly so the woman doesn't realize it. That's why its important for women to vet early and continuously and leave at the first sign of red flags. I'll check out Dr. Ramani.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:44 PM
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May I ask why you did all those things, while I'm sure at some point you realized that he was not reciprocating? Did you feel like he was bringing something else to the table/was he financially supporting both or you or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:55 AM
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Couldn't have said it better myself sis 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:49 AM
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Hear f'ng hear sis. I can't wait to be 50 with all that peace and quiet, taking it easy or hanging with my other childfree women homies and just having a ball haha, plus giving EVEN LESS of an F that comes with being a middle aged woman. They know though, that's why all societies are bent on women not unleashing their freedom and living for themselves. The kicker is that childfree women are deemed selfish, yet are often the ones to volunteer, a ton, take care of fam etc. I'm by no means bashing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:33 PM
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Feels like you're taking control of your life after a life of conditioning sis! Huge ups to you!! Definitely travel, it's one of the best experiences ever (I've solo traveled a number of countries and it made me so much more confident in myself, independent, met many cool people etc). And I love your 'what would a man do'. Live you're life, have fun and don't let noone give you shit for your choices! Being a woman in my thirties, knowing I absolutely do not want to give birth to kids (this is tr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:55 PM
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They also don't want competition from women in Medicine who are as apt, if not more. So they are trying to use the only thing they think they have over you - biological differences. I don't think it's inconsiderate in many cases, it's very deliberate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:09 PM
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One of the absolute best things I did in life was stay single for most of my twenties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:02 PM
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Lol this article is so pathetic. "sEx StArTs At ThE sInK"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:03 AM
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Yeah, I once watched a good YT video of someone that detransitioned and talked about how their identities are built on a house of cards and that's why it's so important that they're validated. It's unreal where we've come to as a society. We're good backwards and people are trying to be so open minded that their brains are falling out. And unfortunately it's usually women who lap this shit up, because we're socialized to be so accommodating. It's really insidious stuff, but hopefully the pendulu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:02 AM
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Ah, silly me! How could I forget. And the heels, nails and makeup, of course ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:08 AM
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Woman is a "feeling", didn't you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:37 PM
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I can't wait for him to drop his soap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:24 PM
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Think we can collectively do something about the way the results come up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:35 PM
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Because his intentions were clearly not good. Hence the seclusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:31 PM
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But they won't sis. There was a quote i read once that rings very true: ALL men benefit from the actions of violent men. It keeps women in check. It allows men perform the barest minimum and still feel good about themselves. The existence of violent men grants "good" men awards for basic decency. Violence is the only thing many know - why do you think humankind (led by men for eons) engages in war and nuclear destruction? It's tough for us women due to strength differences, but one thing we can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:25 AM
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Exactly. But unfortunately due to socialization to be docile, along with a lack of testosterone in most women and less upper body strength, this is unlikely to happen. The first step imo is stop reproducing, and taking up more positions in the public spheres, in government and policy, because if laws are enshrined it becomes harder for males to abuse women so freely. For example banning porn on feminist grounds, ensuring a certain percentage of upper management etc is female, and the like. Also,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:21 AM
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Women are too busy fighting for the libfem revolution which, somehow, insidiously, swerved on including women in it ☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:19 AM
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Share the posts sis!! More women need to hear this shit come from the horses mouth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:16 AM
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Had to award this before I even finished reading it, good job sis. More women need to see how many really wear the mask so well, and how women are often too empathetic/have been socialized to think that men feel the same about women that women do about men. Most don't. A woman's emotions during sex and dates is different than what a man feels; My coworkers described women as being susceptible to vibrations and energy where they described themselves as generally not feeling much in the mind. (Oh,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:14 AM
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Sisterhood and women supporting women is probably one of the most dangerous things to patriarchy and why from a young age we are taught to pit ourselves against each other. From fighting over boys, to movies/shows that barely ever pass the Bechdel test, to portraying women as vapid and shallow and b*tchy And catty towards each other. Imagine if the world worked like a sisterhood in the same way it did like a circle jerk boys club? Men would lose most of the power real quick. And no we're not tal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:59 AM
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So what you're saying is - not a chance. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:00 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:59 PM
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It's not curious at all unfortunately. If women are not reproducing and bringing in the next generation of taxpayers and workers/believers if you live in a religious society, and doing a ton of unpaid labor that usually comes with being married, then what is their purpose to society (according to most men)? Do you know that in some countries the rights of women is so curtailed and they are prevented (legally and socially) from working in many jobs and pushed into traditional gender roles so that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:57 PM
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Very important distinction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:19 PM
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also, isn't it funny that male characters written by women are more likable than real men whereas female characters written by men are less likable than real women? lol It's also unfortunate because then it creates a false portrayal of what men are like, then women expect them to be like they saw in the movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:44 PM
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This is extremely important to remember and to bring to the attention of younger women in your life. The cultural misogynistic conditioning is so strong. Also why we need more women to be producers, directors, writers etc, or as an extension basically more women in the public sphere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:42 PM
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Haha I don't think it seems like an MLM? Perhaps if I'd have said "make thousands of dollars a month by checking out this awesome community!"..... Wait, maybe I should say that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:16 AM
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Ding ding ding. Change dating with 'life as it relates to men' and we got a winner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:12 PM
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Is this some sort of sick tik too trend going around? Can we burn the app? Can someone pass me the bleach so I can wash my eyes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:11 PM
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Hopefully evolution will help move the process along for the ones who are 'too strong and macho'. Although it will then be the healthcare workers who we all know are overwhelmingly women, who'll be forced to take care of them. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:08 PM
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Well since we out here with unsolicited opinions - I love when black women wear their hair natural, it looks awesome.Personally I think that when it's straightened/relaxed it takes away alot of the hairs personality. This is a sidenote but I recently saw some videos of black women who dyed their natural hair red and hooooly. Something about the texture of the hair and the color just looked amazing. Rock your natural hair my black sisters!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:06 PM
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Hahhaa. WWJS? Jesus would def check out FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:57 PM
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I'd lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:44 PM
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Haha nice. My style is 'homeless chic', consisting of baggy, unisex clothes mainly in black. I can go to a funeral and go to the techno club right after and I'm well dressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:37 PM
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Just do it, you have nothing to lose. In today's world, the loudest people are the ones who talk and spread BS, so those of us speaking sense should be loud too! Whether they decide to join this way of thinking is upto them, but its up to us to expose them to it at least. Maybe your aunt will wake up 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:52 PM
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Yes exactly, thank you so much. We don't live in a vacuum and as much as we want to be able to wear/do anything we please, the reality is that women have to protect themselves. I made this point about clothing once in a larger post to a women's liberal FB group about how to assert yourself and stay safe in public, and you can't imagine the number of women that told me I was victim blaming. Also, I personally don't want to be "respected" for my body, I want to be respected for my ideas and opinio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:29 PM
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Yes thank you so much for pointing this out, I honestly feel really sorry when I see curvier or women with largers chests for this reason exactly (not for the fact that they are curvy/large chested, but because of the negative and unwanted male attention that often comes with it). As someone with the figure of a skinny teenage boy lol I can't relate firsthand, but it would be cool if some of the curvy women spoke up or maybe made a post about how they address this issue. Your friends should star…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:26 PM
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Lol please do it and tell us the results of people's reactions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:12 PM
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Down for all of this except the "mark his territory" portion. You aren't anyone's property ladies, remember that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:14 AM
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Potentially unpopular opinion, but this is why I believe as women we should not sexualize ourselves, especially in places like the office etc, where we need to come off as competent to benefit. Is it fair that men view women who dress even remotely provocatively as objects? No. But I don't need to tell you that we don't live in a fair world. Putting aside all aspects of misogyny etc that this clearly is, as women we need to learn how to get ahead and also protect ourselves, and unfortunately dre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:12 AM
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It's a pleasure! I felt the exact same initially. I'm the one of my friends that always touts the liberties of singlehood haha so I had to add in that it's not only about dating! I hear you... Unfortunately women have to want to be ready for thinking this sort of way, and that can be tough. But hopefully once they check it out, it will stay in the back of their mind like a niggling truth, waiting to be entertained, even if it's not right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:57 AM
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😘 it ain't much but it's honest work haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:54 AM
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Eyy, great minds think alike my sis!! I'm going to have to check out your comments now :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:53 AM
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We can all agree that FDS has improved and/or made us think more critically about certain aspects of our lives, from how we've been socialized as women, to the relationship that most women have with most men, to the global, societal challenges and unequal grounding that women around the world face on a daily basis. In this day and age, being a "radical" (is it so radical to want basic human right?) feminist, is by many, akin to something derogatory. How did we get here? We know, but many of our …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:06 AM
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Thank you sis!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:42 AM
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"this isn't the flex you think it is" 😂😂 is staying with me for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:32 AM
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At first it kind of hurt, knowing that shrewdness isn't appreciated by men That's because most don't care about you beyond your looks/sexuality and can't fathom that a woman has wit/smarts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:13 AM
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Haha, not us :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:09 AM
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Sis, QQ: how do you get your flair updated? I can't do it manually and I tried messaging the mods but no reply. Tell me the secret, O Disciple 🙏 And, yes, you got it right. I wish you a speedy steralization... Though I know with the situation they're deprioritizing surgeries everywhere because of covid :( I'm 30 and as soon as this hopefully dies down soon I'm going to start looking into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:09 AM
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Jacinda Arden is the leader that always comes to mind. S What an absolutely amazing leader.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:10 PM
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Yes. like get into positions of power to change things. It's already been proven that when women leaders lead they are more empathetic, and when women are involved in negotiations they last longer. It's a no brainer yet here we still are... Because men are too busy swinging their d*cks around wanting power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:04 PM
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I plan to do exactly that - not procreate just to give another worker/taxpayer to an f'd up system, the state, where the slow suicide of all is called "life". Women give and give - their reproductive Labor, their bodies, their autonomy, their emotional labor - for what? For the motherhood penalty, for increasing gender wage gaps, for glass ceilings, for dying younger when they're married/have kids. Why? Women do all this and have no time for anything else, that's why men are still in positions o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:11 AM
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Haha yess!! are you the one who was the first to say aunti-network yesterday?? Love that we're already using it. Edit: just checked - yes you are :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:28 PM
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Haha I knew we'd get some free advertising from that. Welcome sis 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:38 PM
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2 is terrible advice and is a prime example of why in this hyper throwaway society we live in, you will never be satisfied if you're always chasing your next fix. If someone's not showing you interest you should move on and suss out when they're playing games, but having the kind of mindset that there is always someone hotter around the corner is setting yourself up for failure.
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:24 PM
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Ahaa, Auntie Network!! I love this :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:19 PM
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But do you think the steps that are being taken backwards with libfem ideas are going to hinder that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:43 PM
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Don't tell a guy if you are infertile, or have had a tubal litigation etc, as a good rule of thumb. Also, I don't need to say this, bit NEVER let a guy go raw in you, unless obviously you're trying to be pregnant, to which I'd say, please think long and hard about bringing a kid into this sort of world lol. Also, they don't gaf about you and your health, and undersharing is something we'd all do well to remember. As women we often think others have the same good intentions and empathy as us.... …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:22 PM
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Oh girl, I'm in a "womens group" on FB for a big very liberal city and the number of women who excuse terrible behavior, encourage the women to communicate and be empathetic, and defend sex work is just outrageous. They pander to damaging libfem ideals and it can just be pretty maddening. I've dropped some radfem/FDS ideas on there and there was some traction, but often not worth the drones that come to defend illogical ideals. Sad, but the truth. Another reason this community is just amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:20 PM
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I hate that mom's understand they put in so much more work and accept it. Like all those pics that talk about moms being superwomen (they are) and doing 10373+ things at once. But no, women, your power doesn't come from drowning neck deep in things you shouldn't be, and are not even getting compensated for. The trope of husband's being incapable of doing basic things needs to die, and women need to stop perpetuating this ideal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:04 PM
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Big comment. We have to stop letting this stuff slide or they'll think they can keep playing this game. Go on the offensive sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:24 PM
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Why you sorry tho sis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:23 AM
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Lol she's literally wearing a dog collar... Whyyy women >.<
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:59 PM
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Sometimes women are too polite to tell them to stfu. Literally put your hand up like a stop sign, and when they stop, tell them to start talking about something interesting, or tell them you need to leave, or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:58 PM
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100% sis. The older I get and the more I realize not to give a damn what people think, I carry myself with more and more confidence and people, even strangers, notice it. I'm lean and have always been pretty small but when I'm walking in public I carry myself like a 170lb man who is mildly bored at everything around him, with a slightly unfriendly expression (pre masks), and I swear it works wonders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:31 PM
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Lmaoo do it sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:15 PM
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It makes perfect sense. If too many women saw that they are stronger together, as men have built up society so that everything is one big brotherhood, many things would fall. It's a part of an age old strategy of divide and conquer, just like colonialists try to divide different races and put them against each other instead of against the real enemy. Just like capitalists and racists pit working class people against immigrants 'taking their jobs' while it's actually the big MNC's. If women suppo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:28 PM
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Oh 100%. If you act crazy when you need to they will get scared. Sometimes I mutter to myself as I walk by sketchy looking people so I seem sketchier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:23 PM
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I'm not downplaying ANYONE on here that's spoken up. I know that insane things happen to women every day while they are going about their day, and it's absolute bs that a woman should be scared to walk at night because she's a woman. But by that same token, I refuse to not do something because I'm a woman, like take a walk. F that. I know that I may be putting myself at risk, but I take precautions, and knock on wood, I've never gotten in harm's way. I'm aware of my surroundings (not lost on my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:13 PM
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Unless you're Japanese
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:41 PM
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Forreal. We gotta go against our empathetic nature and be selfish. I read somewhere once that when men try to lure women in for kidnapping they'll sometimes act injured or like they need help (men will rarely ever ask women for help unless they're just trying to dump their jobs on the woman), because they know women's maternal instincts will kick in (not all of us are super maternal, but we all know women are on average way more empathetic than men). So yeah.... Be selfish my ladies (except to y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:10 AM
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Honestly, the most liberating thing to do as a woman is to do exactly as you please - not dim yourself down, not act like a bimbo, not be quiet and docile and delicate, be outspoken, be confident, be intelligent, and stand up for your sisters (I swear, the biggest FU to patriarchys ways us a group of strong women together who do not give a flying F or Change their behaviour when there's guys around). The rules are set up to fail us, to make us dependant, weak, trapped, otherwise society would fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:59 AM
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Honestly sis, who cares? Glad you're proud of yourself and are giving the finger to what those dudes have told you to change - don't even spend more time on asking those questions, only gives them more space in your brain that they don't deserve ✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:54 AM
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Haha already there too, but one can ever be too careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 06:00 AM
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Remember firstly that nothing in life lasts. This will help you let go easier when things end.... Remember that any guy you have at any point... It's just for now, it's not forever. Partly why women invest so much of themselves, their time, their lives, their bodies to men, is because we're fed that romantic love is forever. It's bullshit. The only thing thats 'forever' (until you die), is your relationship with yourself. You are the only one that will always be around. So, remember brevity. Sec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:21 AM
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Hear hear sis, that's why it's so important to get this message out. FDS is literally the only mainstream platform I've found where women are saying these things. Libfem is ruining too many.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:09 AM
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Holy shit, I honestly never knew. Every day is another opportunity to hate humanity more. Whyyy do the women put up with it >.< (When they have the option)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:02 AM
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Shit, you serious? I've never heard it but again, not surprised. Nature has f*cked us over, why expect men to be any better, jeeez. The older I get the more confident I am in my decision to never procreate with a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:15 AM
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Hey sis I tried but it says I can't message your account. Hmu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:30 AM
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Why would men want to regulate it? It helps women stay subjugated, frightened, and gets them off. Women need to be firm about not tolerating it, if only these libfems would learn ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:25 AM
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Fuck off, Brian.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:22 AM
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Only when the POC issues are for women (I'm POC btw). For too long women have been fighting everyone else's fights, that's why we never get anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:21 AM
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Oh for sure. IG used to have the feature to see which posts people liked.... Most of the dudes on my feed liked half naked chicks pics. The feature is gone now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:19 AM
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And never will. Amen sis. Gonna get that litigation asap hopefully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:18 AM
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Reason number 7364747 not to have kids, in case you needed one ✌️ The stitches one takes the cake for me, but honestly I ain't even surprised anymore. The depravity has no end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:15 AM
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It's part of this throwaway society we live in where everything is like crack and everyone (almost everyone) is searching for their next hit thinking it'll be better and better. everyone was immediate satisfaction, doesn't want to put in work or invest in important things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:14 AM
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Most women are insanely male identified and are honestly becoming increasingly brainwashed with the insane 'left' agenda which these days is just becoming lunacy under a thinly veiled guise of being 'inclusive'. I used to think I was a lefty but Jesus I must be getting old. Still obviously am for reproductive rights and am not a right winger, but def am getting more conservative (because logic now seems to be labeled as conservative I guess?).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:12 AM
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Do it. I'm thirty and only date younger, around 2-4 years. You can siphon the youth out of them. Haha jks, but really, they're def better. Guys my age look like old men - probably a combination of too much alcohol and too much masturbation/porn. The younger guys will probably get there too... But in my experience they're more fun and they def are hotter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:14 PM
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That was sarcasm :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:05 PM
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But then she would be a gold digger, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:25 PM
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I don't always frame it as FDS but I def am loud about being anti-porn and strong feminist views, being weary of men, sisterhood, being independent etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:35 PM
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Stay single my ladiessss. Or do what you got to do but: don't rely on anyone ALWAYS keep a part of yourself to yourself keep your finances separate ensure you can do everything by yourself and don't slowly slowly start giving away your autonomy and becoming dependant do not let anyone disrespect you or second guess your boundaries, if they do, drop em (keep notes, yes, literal notes, on if something happens that runs you the wrong way... And if these things persist, drop him. I'm not talking abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:26 PM
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😘. The women on here are absolute gold. I hope we can start to do city meetups or something at some point. I need more chicks like y'all in my life lol, it can be so exasperating to talk to friends who are good people, but so brainwashed by societal and patriarchal bs that it becomes tiresome sometimes haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:18 PM
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Agree with this. I keep saying and will keep saying it - These PC predators are trying to be so open minded their brains are falling right out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:10 PM
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Speak up against it, keep being unapologetic about it. Refuse to be silenced, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:08 PM
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I'm not saying anyone atm, but yes when I date it's always around 2-4 years younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:50 PM
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Feminist groups on FB are usually garbage lol, they pander to this BS left right and centre and are the proudest proponents of sex work and the likes. It's honestly better to just let them be. They think if you repeat phrases twice it makes them true "sex work is work" and others they I'm sure you can think of but are currently being heavily censored by Reddit so I won't risk losing my account on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 06:01 PM
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Such a good and true point, about the child labor and sweatshops. So in much the same way, sex isn't empowering because it's "power" that men with real power will let you have. They aren't afraid of you and the power you hold because it's not real This is also so true, which is why Men are so down to support this sex work is work motion. Not only are they then less shamed for being immoral and taking advantage of women, but they're also laughing because they know it's not actual power. I read a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:59 PM
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Oh god. That's the libfem gold statement of our generation. "Sex work is work!!". Nah sis, that's the patriarchal capitalism telling you empowerment is equal to selling your body like a piece of meat. How come sex work isn't work for men? How come being a stripper and having an onlyfans account isn't empowering for men? I don't get how these women don't catch the glaring double standards they so vehemently fight for, not realizing they are causing women to take two steps backwards of the things …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:01 AM
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I'd say selling marriage as something women want more/more beneficial to women is the best one, but this one comes pretty damn close. Cue.... Every single war humanity has ever fought + modern day nuclear weapons which are essentially male world leaders swinging their d*cks around to try and prove dominance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:51 AM
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There are a million things wrong with this site, but it's also important for us to put up a fight and show we will not be crowded put by misogynists. But also, check out pinkpillfeminism on saidit, it is not nearly as active as it was on here, but if more women get on there it can be!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:11 PM
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Also, guys look at is as a power thing tbh, alot of them. I recently saw an IG ppregnancy post of a woman having her second kid and some guy commented "damn, dude is just relentlessly dumping loads in her". That's when you know most guys have been ruined by p*rn, and imo, yet another reason not to have kids ✌🏽the world is such a cesspit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:07 AM
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You honestly need look no further than the multiple pregnant p*rn subs on here... They legit have more subscribers than the pregnancy sub.... The one for pregnant "people" lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:53 AM
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Now can we do something to get rid of the abhorrent porn subs on this largely cesspit of a website?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:50 AM
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The f has the world come to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:49 AM
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Meditations - Marcus Aurelius Cinderella complex - Colette Dowling The beauty myth - Naomi wolf Siddhartha - Hermann Hesse The Alchemist - Paolo Coelho How to be a woman - Caitlin Moran (it's libfem so take with a grain of salt, but she is a brilliant writer and there is some good wisdom) 1984 - Orwell Language and Gender - it's a textbook The second sex - Simone deBeauvoir You of course may have read some of these! Many are pretty depressing tbh, but they have helped shaped my perspective on th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:04 AM
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Loss of morality is a big one. These days you're called bigoted if you go against anything... People trying to be open minded their brains are falling out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:25 PM
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Society tells women they're worthless after their early twenties because they know as women age they stop giving an f And get more powerful i think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:09 PM
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Lol I came here to say just this. I only started really living at around 25 tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:08 PM
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Just respond with "yeah, by other men.... Your point?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:07 PM
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I agree for sure that socialization plays a very big role. But also as time goes on and women reproduce with guys who are macho, dominant etc (because that's what is being fed to women as attractive) it also starts to get further built into biology. Once I saw on a sub (maybe pinkpillfeminism when it was around?) That women could literally make obsolete a portion of the strength difference between men and women over a couple generations of breeding with shorter/skinnier men, but women wouldn't, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:24 AM
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I look at the ones society tells me I should/shouldn't follow because I'm a woman, and then I usually just do the opposite 😁 Also, I try to read alot and not be consumed by the herd mentality and consumerist life... If you want books recs let me know. With the graffiti thing.... I'm not trying to be a hooligan haha but I believe if something spreads a good message it's ok if you gotta wreck a bit of havoc ;) Edit: also, with age and a track record of being able to rely on myself I now look less …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:41 AM
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Thank you! I'll really try to get down to it soon. Hmm, entitlement def plays a role, I agree. However, I truly believe testosterone plays a role. I've heard many many guys talk about how powerful they feel after they have sex (big testosterone release) and there are studies showing that higher levels of testosterone encourage behaviours of dominance. It's also hugely socialization and how men are taught to be entitled as you say, and be dominant and powerful etc. But yeah... I think biology hug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:40 AM
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I really want to make a post about this soon when I get down to it lol, but I've come up with a theory recently. I study international relations and two central theories in IR are realism and liberalism. Realism is about increasing your relative power and position, always staying in your feet and ensuring your state has power over others, not being too trusting, remembering that states who are your friends today can turn into enemies tomorrow, and maximizing your output out of any situation. Lib…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:27 AM
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You're still with him sis? Respect yourself and gtfo outta there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:11 AM
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Because the woman is more vulnerable then, and less willing or able to leave. That gives the man more power over her, and more able to stretch the boundaries. The women has little to no option to defy, and those things become the new norm... Usually meaning the woman putting up with more abuse, etc etc, because she's too stuck or afraid to leave, or simply doesn't have the resources or isn't in the position to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:09 AM
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I don't get messages but when I post on other subs sometimes guys tell me 'i don't speak to people who post on FDS' or the likes. I think it's great - free exposure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:03 AM
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Make it happen girl!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:00 AM
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I love your idea! You can even start super easily like get some of those 'hello my Name is' stickers and decorate them nicely to be attention grabbing! Haha thank you girl, I got tired of following the rules somewhere along the line ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:59 AM
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Do it ladies. I see gross sexist graffiti sometimes and I've resolved to start doing some empowering tags to counter it, spreading the FDS word is part of that plan!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:58 AM
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Heroes don't always wear capes - you the bomb sis keep doing what you're doing 😘 My biggest concern is the poor young girls who are being groomed in such a grossly sexualized society that is literally treating women like pieces of meat and then telling them it's empowering. We can only hope that with our efforts and basic pendulum swinging back tendencies, we can regain some semblance of common sense to women. But on the other hand it does seem like more women in general are waking up to the lie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:49 PM
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Haha as soon as shit opens up I'm def going to start writing r/femaledatingstrategy in women's bathroom stalls. Society ain't looking out for us, we gotta look out for each other. Welcome to the sub and yess please message other women for example who post in the relationship subs, sometimes I just PM them and tell them about FDS and they're super thankful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:23 PM
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Huge comment! Reading a book now called "civilised to death" and it talks about this... How when we changed from hunter gatherer to being sedentary and not nomadic, relations changed in all senses of the world, between everyone, including women and men. One big comment that stuck with me in the book is how everyone had a motive to be kind, look after others, etc, because the group relied on each other, and women wouldn't procreate with males who didn't have those qualities, and as the bearers of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:56 PM
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And roll back the damage that libfem and social media is unleashing on young women these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:53 PM
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I refuse to date older.... Date younger ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:52 PM
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Do you mean less common than you'd think? I've known a few gay dudes in my time and for some reason the fact that they liked dudes romantically seemed to make them want to be more like "one of the bros".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:50 PM
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For men, my motto is guilty until proven innocent, and for women, it's innocent until proven guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:48 PM
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Hear hear sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:24 PM
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"And what can I do better". Ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:21 PM
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Haha yes also Especially because make depravity has become so much more apparent both in the online and teal life spheres, and more women are beginning to connect the dots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:06 PM
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I'm a coO000000l girl!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:38 PM
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Last paragraph is key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:57 PM
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Lol they don't have to carry any of the responsibility, of course they'd be ok with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:56 PM
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Lol you need to look no further than the numbers on the pregnant porn subreddits on here to confirm that. There are also IG accounts where guys are obsessed with seeing women with huge bellies. These guys are mentally stunted lol. Almost every guy I've ever told that I'm not having kids in part because of what it would do to my body (the another part being - why would I bring a child into a cesspit of a world like this), they admitted they wouldn't want to do it either and were extremely glad th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:55 PM
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Shit I'm sorry that happened to you, sounds like a terrible experience. I don't understand all the stories about doctors that belittle their patients, or don't believe them... It just doesn't make sense. All the more reason why we women need to learn to be more assertive. I'm def going to keep my track record of not going haha unless it's absolutely necessary. I want kids under no circumstances so it should be pretty easy! Wish you the best :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:21 AM
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Thanks so much for expanding and explaining all of that. There's so much I don't know lol ... I've never heard of dickmatized and I didn't realize that there is soreness and/or tenderness after. That Honestly doesn't sound appealing at all. I've never liked the idea that I should be the one to be 'entered' and for that reason I've avoided sex. I definitely think that sex is treated way too flippantly for being such an intimate act, and I can understand why it could be overwhelming after. Thanks …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:19 AM
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No worries sis! Yes please, hit me up for sure :) I'll do Reddit back tomorrow haha (just need to clear up some internal space on my phone 🙄)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:16 AM
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Lol yeah.... F that. Took birth control once for acne and it was enough to make me stop and never consider it ever again. Women: take back control of your bodies, it's been long enough. Sidenote: love how birth control onus is always put on women, yet these same f*ckers Take away abortion rights from women who don't want kids. Why aren't more people talking about this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:17 AM
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Ughh why are women so blind to the fact that every f*cking facet of society thrives on pitting us against each other. FFS. As a sidenote - thanks for the free visibility sis ✌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:05 AM
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Because then society would fall from the lack of free reproductive/emotional/all other kinds of labor women do for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:59 AM
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Wow really? Can you expand on that (upheaval/that it upsets a balance) if you don't mind? I don't have sex and don't find appealing the idea of anything inside me and my body having to be the recipient of a penis... I always see it as a power dynamic even if it's simply the biological reality. So I'd be interested to understand your comment more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:58 AM
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I'm not sure about the website but pinkpill is still on saidit! The app is not that nice but it does the job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:53 AM
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Yeah f that. I don't let shit go near any of my holes - and to my sister's - don't let them tell you that you need to. Also, read the book everything below the waist by Jennifer Block - it addresses many things including why you shouldn't allow yourself to get poked and prodded at the gyno, etc. As a 30yr old who's never once been to the gyno (probably should have been at least once to be fair), I was horrified when I looked up some of the instruments mentioned in the book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:19 PM
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Pinkpillfeminism got banned awhile so it makes sense that some subs are becoming more rad haha. Just don't say anything before the losers realize it, get scared, and use their facist tendencies to ban more truths that women are realizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:09 PM
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Nevermind the girls and women forced or coerced into the porn, abused, broken, violated. Nevermind them indeed....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:07 AM
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Lol sis I'm a proud 30yr old virgin. I would highly recommend every single girl/woman lose her virginity to herself via a cucumber or toy. One of the best things I've ever done. Big ups to your niece as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:05 AM
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This was a fantastic lesson, thank you so much. HUGE ups to you, keep us updated on more adventures haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:48 AM
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This is the thing I struggle with a ton as well. I also have seen it as a power play thing and when I've paid in the past (I used to be adamant about paying on first dates, but I should clarify if pay for them too... It was usually dessert or some shit), I would see it as flexing my dominance. Some guys def were surprised and i think also felt that haha, but for others it wasn't a big deal. HOWEVER - what I have learned from this sub is that, yes, for us it's a power play thing etc, but also, if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:43 AM
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For sure 😘 https://www.google.com/amp/s/mobile.reuters.com/article/amp/idUSKBN1ZJ02Z http://www.asianews.it/news-en/South-Korean-radical-feminism:-No-dating,-sex,-marriage-or-children--48879.html https://www.npr.org/2018/07/31/634048279/chinas-marriage-rate-plummets-as-women-choose-to-stay-single-longer There is one amazing one about Korean women who are shunning makeup, dating, marriage, and sex, but sorry I can't find it (here's one about the makeup though) https://youtu.be/r80pp5qSlNo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:08 PM
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It's started in the East Asian countries, other places just need to catch up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:35 AM
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Also funny that it's termed "radical" when women stand up for their basic rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:35 AM
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That why you try and opt out of that shit too :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:34 AM
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Lol "religious" guys shouldn't be having sex before marriage at all. A general good rule is to steer clear of these men, regardless of religion lol. They fuxk around then want to marry a virgin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:33 AM
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And yet millions of women (not counting the ones who are forced into it by religion/culture etc), but one who date terrible guys, STILL choose to reproduce with them? Tbh I feel that biology has fucked women over but also the average woman is too scared to stand in her own two feet and not rely on a man, and take whatever scraps they get... And ultimately, reproduce with these fuxkers. But yeah, the absolute ultimate F you to to society and the patriarchy is to be a childfree, and unmarried woma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:32 AM
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I think this whole post is complete bullshit. No women likes the VuLnErAbIlItY. Many are just too young or have been brainwashed by society into doing anything that pleases their boyfriend or whoever the fuxk he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:00 PM
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Hahahaa this guy is living on planet delusion. Do you think they believe the shit they spew?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:59 PM
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No shit. Guys are not the ones who have to literally give up their bodies for children (and then the rest of their lives more or less) so of course they want them. Why haven't women figured this out yet lol? Biology has fucked us over...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:58 PM
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Honestly ladies, just don't have children, please. Aside from all the bullshit YOU will go through, ask yourself if this type of world is really one you want a child to grow up in? Hint: the answer is a categorical no. Adopt, do something for your community, be there for your fam/friends, travel, nurture your relationships with your sisters, spend on yourself (within reason... don't be superfluous), invest in making yourself smarter/self-development, and I promise promise promise you, you will h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:55 PM
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Lol these suckers will try anything. Bi here and thus sub is absolute gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:49 PM
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I made a comment the other day and am going to make a post here or in GTOW about this. My dream is to build a housing area/or have a condo or something, just for women. Maybe one part for women with children and one for childfree. It would 100% make life easier, especially for single moms. I've heard many mom's on breakingmom say this sort of thing... I would really love to do something tangible with this idea in the future. If you're serious about it and want to chat or exchange ideas over the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:16 PM
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He's so full of shit, can't even string together a sentence without looking down, using filler words, and sounding completely useless throwing around buzzwords. This guy's a fucking CEO?!!!! For fucks sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:01 PM
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Well done on the introspection and figuring out the core cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:52 PM
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Honestly - let them. It would make women as a group all the better imho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:50 PM
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Lol it's a troll looking for fake sympathy, and it's clothed in about 3 levels of attempted sarcasm. Don't even bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:23 AM
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Didn't know who she was, thanks! Insane that the stuff she was saying is literally common sense and she got so much hate and violence for it. Were really living in 1984 out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:13 PM
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Also when they say no drama, it's probably projection because it's unsolicited (who asked about drama?) And they are drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:55 PM
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Of course Feminism needs to be touted as dangerous... What happens when women have more freedom? They stop being handmaidens and providing free labor, society and capitalism suffers, and ultimately, those in control (read: men). So it makes sense that it would be sold as evil. What group in power would want to lose their power? Only idiots! That's why as a good rule of thumb, if society tells you to do something, as a woman, run and do the opposite thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:52 PM
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Lol you would be surprised (or not) at how many subs that are like this and worse on this cesspit of a site. There is a sub called r/banfemalehatesubs that track them all.... Join it and you can help report this vile garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:49 PM
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My dream/goal is to viably start a way to start building dope housing communities for only women. I know communes exist few and far between, but I'd want to do something like a city experience, with a condo just for women. Maybe one part for women with kids and one part for childfree women. I think many women buy into the concept of the nuclear family/marriage but all know they'd greatly benefit from a women only living situation. I've read a few posts on breakingmom that mentioned this.... Only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:39 PM
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The problem is those are few and far between and usually by the time the woman realizes she's been played, she already has given up most of her autonomy and has a couple kids in tow. IF you give such a relationship a shot (you don't know until you commit quite a bit if it's mutually supportive), it's key to keep your autonomy and honestly, I'd suggest not having kids. This cesspit of a world is not one to bring children into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:32 PM
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Ohhhh, he called you a feminist. The ultimate dis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:48 PM
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Libfems think they're so open minded.... But they don't realize their brains have fallen out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:47 PM
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Thank you for saying this!! Used to be the feature that revealed so much. But it's not surprising, IG is total shit now. It's one big ad more or less. Sucks because it's the biggest platform for sharing photography but like anything popular, it's been ruined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:44 PM
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Instagram is a cesspit and has made me lose respect for almost all the people I've dated/ played into it ending with them, because they follow/like pics of half naked chicks. I love photography and post mainly urban photography shots, have no shots of myself. I take damn good photos and remember a few occasions when I'd post one and the dude I was dating wouldn't like it but would like a photo a half naked chick posted. It seems petty, but it's not. Take care of the small clues that show up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:19 PM
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They don't think it's evil, they're scared of it because it teaches women to stand up for themselves. So they say it's evil to try and prevent other women from finding it. I'll tell you for a fact that if you go somewhere public (public women's bathroom is probably the best .... In a train station or something), and write Reddit: femaledatingstrategy in a sharpie, a handful of women who see it and decide to google it, their lives would be changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:16 PM
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Lol look at the number of awards it got... Pathetic. But not surprising, the lengths that guys will go to uphold this sort of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:11 PM
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Why is she talking like that and dressed like a male porn fantasy though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:27 PM
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Be firm, stick with your no's When you say something, don't put too much emotion into it (then you'll be accused of being hysterical), but say it with conviction. If you can, say your piece then extricate yourself from the situation. Speak in a low pitched voice and speak slowly without using filler words like 'like'. Also, in public spaces don't make yourself small, spread out, look confident - it sends off unconscious messages of power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:25 PM
5

Save your future children by not having them, tbh. This cesspit of a world is not one to bring children into.... It's only getting worse. There are so many kids who need homes, consider adoption perhaps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:35 PM
2

Mid 20's. The more time girls spend learning about the world, who they are, who they want to be and the less time they squander it on useless boys, absolutely the better of they will be. Waaay more girls and women would be unafraid of being independent and alone, and be willing to settle. This would be detrimental to the functioning of society and all the unpaid labor women provide. So it's in the patriarchys best interest to innundate girls with the message of childbearer/wife as the only optio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:32 PM
9

Libfem is the worst thing that has happened to the feminist movement, it's like taking 10 steps backward lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:29 PM
11

Being alone is f'n awesome! You have time for hobbies, chilling, nurturing great relationships, and doing anything at the drop of a hat! Don't let society fool you into thinking that as a woman you're a failure if you're alone, it's one of their trump cards and why so many women end up miserable simply because they don't want to end up alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:54 PM
21

These kids are like 13. What has happened to childhood....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:28 PM
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His version of tainted loves pretty good tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:57 PM
2

The way they presented it though was there she was a failure for not having kids and a relationship, that's my problem with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:44 AM
16

100% spot on. And many women still don't realize it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:20 PM
3

I haven't watched all of it but got super turned off when PC turned 40 or something and started lamenting they she wasnt married/with kids. Also, she continually puts up with BJ's bullshit and bails him out of his messes....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 06:16 PM
18

It's not bizarre it's the patriarchy's biggest accomplishment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:48 PM
11

W a l k a w a y s i s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:20 AM
7

Call them out on it... Don't be shy :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:19 AM
35

Biggest FU is definitely not to have kids and not settle down with a dude. Also, being single, happy, successful, with money, and letting other girls/women see that this is a lifestyle that is worth pursuing. Ultimate threat to the status quo of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:13 PM
6

Haha jokes on them, I'm within that age range, single af And happy as I've ever been. They're just scared if more women realize this society would literally break down (read: no more reproduction, no more free unpaid domestic labor, etc). The narrative isn't going to change, it's not in the patriarchys best interest for it to. Its simply necessary for more women to realize the whole marriage/kids/housewife trope simply doesn't work in this new societal culture where most women go 50/50 on work b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:39 AM
3

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:08 AM
14

Lmaoooo underrated comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:12 PM
12

Lol the lip bite at 00.32
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:16 AM
21

Very, VERY well written post. Big ups sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:48 PM
13

Welcome to r/childfree sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:07 AM
71

Or... Just leave them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:47 AM
9

He was playing you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 12:33 PM
1

I also don't believe in ghosting, I think it's a sad side effect of this disposable society we live in and it sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:40 AM
2

Much love sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:17 PM
6

If it works for you, more power to you! But I wrote this in the context of assuming you've already told him these things. And saying 'i'm leaving because you cheated' for example, is one that does not need to be said lol. Why help them figure it out? They'll just find the next woman, not change, but probably learn to hide their sexism, etc better, and waste more of her time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:57 PM
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By walking away and respecting yourself. If you have trouble with this I suggest starting to document times when you feel disrespected/etc, and then if it's not rectified, use that as ammo to leave. Not ammo as in throw all the things they've done to you at them, but ammo as in, breaking the cycle and convincing yourself that you should walk away. Then you just walk, without more of an explanation or sounding like a broken record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:10 PM
21

100%. Don't waste your time on someone if they've repeatedly shown you through actions that they are not worth it/not committed to you/ do not respect you or your wishes, despite what their words tell you. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them" You don't owe anyone shit except yourself (not in a selfish way, but in a way where you need to look out for your own well being). The sooner you learn this and drill it into your head, the easier this all becomes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:00 PM
25

If you're leaving I would assume there is a reason for doing so, and that you've already communicated what the actions/behaviours were that were undesirable. The point here is that when it comes to the point of leaving, you don't need to rehash these issues out, they should have already rectified them, and if they haven't - you're out. Too many women are like broken records, continually communicating to men the same things over and over, and then making excuses for them when nothing changes. Edi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:56 PM
76

Nah don't be - just live and learn sis ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:33 PM
26

What you say is relevant as well, but framing it in terms of power isn't trite... It's how most guys view relationships and so whether you like it or not it's a power game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 02:03 PM
32

I hear you sis and I used to do the same - but realized that they really don't care. I suggest you write these feelings down for yourself and use it as a way to journal the progression, you will be surprised how much you learn and also how much sooner you come to peace. Whether one likes to admit it or not, relationships with men are often a powerplay thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:20 PM
70

Sure - if you tell them they hurt you because of XYZ They have the power of knowing that they a) hurt you and b) How. The way men and women view relationships (of any kind) is usually different. Women emphasize empathy, cooperation, dialogue, etc, while men focus on power, control, tit for tat. Many women try to communicate to a partner/love interest that simply doesn't care. So if a dude shows you how actions, believe him. Don't try to change him or justify your feelings because he doesn't care…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:12 PM
4

I agree that they are evil, but it is not 'their child'. It is more her child, she gestated it for 9 months. That's why the idea that a kid without a father being a bastard is ludicrous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:55 AM
12

Go to saidit - pinkpillfeminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:38 AM
20

Also check out saidit. The pinkpillfeminism sub there is good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:38 AM
23

It doesn't only have to do with the maternal instinct. It also has to do with basic decency and the fact that 90% of porn out there is degrading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:19 PM
78

The best thing you can do as a woman is honestly not have sex in your twenties. "Lose" your virginity to YOURSELF via a toy/cucumber etc. (You're not losing anything, you're gaining it to yourself). I swear, this saved me from so much horror that I see women talk about here and other places (I'm 30 now). I read some of these things and can't remotely fathom how these poor girls would feel or even allow it to be done to them, but then I remember what a fucked up culture and society we live in tod…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:47 PM
3

Barley
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 09:43 AM
42

This is clearly written by a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:32 AM
8

What show is this again?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:00 PM
2

Excellent point regarding the green and red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:35 PM
2

Why do you think they ask the roommate question?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:43 AM
5

Just pm them, some will reply some won't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:52 AM
2

Damn, WGTOW is going to blow your mind.
/r/MGTOW207/09/20 07:31 AM
21

Radfems aren't sex positive, just support actual sex workers (who don't have other options) so they can be protected... radfems are against porn, bdsm, sexualizing oneself, etc. Think you meant libfem, the plague that is currently telling all these young girls to get onlyfans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:08 AM
21

It's called plate spinning. Just be sure not to drain your time and resources on useless guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:38 PM
2

Dope I've requested access :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:18 AM
1

Eh, if they're dicks they will probably disclose that mask or no mask pretty early on. I'd rather everyone be wearing masks in closed spaces at this time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:17 AM
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You should call them out "maybe if you were wearing a mask I'd consider speaking to you for more than five seconds, but you aren't so I'm out. Peace"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:18 AM
3

Hear hear sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:16 PM
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"Mad props to all the women out there who do everything they can to look great - and to the ones who reject the premise of beauty being the sole defining factor of our humanity and value who don’t engage in beauty. Regardless of your decision, I know you’re all out there showing care for yourself and others, and making your communities powerful and excellent places to be." You a true sister <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:45 AM
0

I hear you too but instead of policing words of other women (guys do that enough) why not take the general message and not nitpick semantics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:01 PM
7

Lmao please comment in the YouTube comments and say it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:29 AM
3

This is not blaming. The reality is that this shit happens. She is pointing out the reality of life. Yes, in a perfect utopia men would nod like obedient children and say 'ok, I won't assault/catcall/act entitled towards women going about their day'. This is not a utopia. Noone is saying that the assaulter is not to blame. It's telling women to go against the trope we've been fed all our lives to be weak, docile, etc, and if it's safe to do so, to STAND UP FOR YOURSELF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:22 AM
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This is not blaming. This is telling women to not take shit if they can afford not to. Please, PLEASE, understand the difference people. Of course the onus is still on the assaulter, but women are also socialized to be weak, helpless, rely on others. Of course there will be cases when it's not safe to confront someone, but in a crowded place where you firmly ask someone what they're doing, or hell, even just stare at them with a stank face or narrowed eyes, you are taking some power back. So ple…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:20 AM
2

Amazing! When you make it let us know so we can add to it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:00 PM
6

Underrated comment! The key is self control and thinking with your brain not your heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:52 AM
4

Perhaps you could start a shared Google doc and post questions and then for all the people here who've said you can PM them, they can each put their two cents. I'd be down to contribute to such a document. I love your idea of weekly chats etc, o Personally don't have the time available for it, but another route may be to also start a discord. You can get people by making each member send in a photo of themselves with their username before being allowed to join, then send a one time link to accep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:50 AM
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Hope you also dm'd her about FDS. And lol if you get downvoted on Reddit about anything remotely related to standing up for women/asserting yourself as awomat/encouraging women to stand up for themselves, cue the downvotes. That's how you know you're doing something right ;) perfect response on your part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:47 AM
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Congrats on leaving and never looking back, and most importantly, learning what you did wrong. If I may ask, what exactly made you stay and how did he keep luring you back? From what you say, things were incredibly one sided, so after you caught him doit those things on top of doing everything for him, why did you stay? What were the warning signs that you ignored? Could be helpful for other girls or women in that type of situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:43 AM
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The funny thing is that cougars (women who go for younger men) are hugely in demand and there is a crazy surplus of cubs (the younger men). It's not for everyone and there are if course alot of young guys who are just out there to have sex, but I'm part of some cougar communities (one of them is r/cougarsandcubs here), and there are some young guys who genuinely want older women and treat them like queens. There is still a stigma around older woman/younger man, but really, who gives an F about w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:25 PM
20

Did people say he was the asshole or nah?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:22 PM
4

Be vigilent and get to know your surroundings. Get to know your neighbors if they seem decent, but do not get too chummy with them. Talk to people in the neighborhood to see if there's anything you should be aware of (shady people, shady areas, etc). You can also check to see if there are any registered sex offenders in the area. At night, be diligent and alert, walk with confidence and don't look lost (this applies to walking anytime, really). People look for victims who seem weak/ unsure of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:02 AM
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'the world is rigged' is the truest statement. I would go further to say that as women, be extremely critical if everything you've been taught from classic female socialization. From being a kid playing with dolls and kitchen sets, priming you as a role for being a housewife/mother (which there is nothing wrong with, motherhood is by far the toughest, most selfless, aand most underappreciated job in the ENTIRE WORLD - endless appreciation and love for our moms <3....but how come boys don't get t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:48 AM
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Pink is a G, She's said lots of good things. If anyone hasn't already, watch her video "stupid girls". She once said about Consumerism: "Consumerism diverts us from thinking about women's rights, it stops us from thinking about Iraq, it stops us from thinking" (this was back in the early 2000's I believe)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:46 AM
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There are women in an African country (sorry, I can't recall which one right now) whose babies go hungry because many of their husbands insist that they want to drink their breast milk. It's fucked. Women, if your husband tries this: 1) he's fucked 2) leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:59 PM
1

Did he do alot of that kind of stuff, disregarding and disrespecting you? Why did you stay if you don't mind me asking? Kudos for leaving at the end! I bet you're much happier and smarter now ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:55 PM
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Highlights the importance of working as a group to make changes. At the end the example was that men in France shake hands with men and kiss women but women are expected to kiss everyone. When the women at an office decided they don't want to kiss everyone, they simply stopped, as a group, and that was that. Don't forget that nobody can disrespect you without your consent (except in the obvious cases where women lack basic human rights).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:36 PM
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Whoooot!! Mods thank you for doing a dope job moderating the content on here, we already know these suckers are just waiting for us to slip up so they can ban us, let's keep growing and changing more women's lives!! Also, ladies, don't be shy to PM your fellow sisters to let them know this sub exists. I've gotten many thankful replies from women who didn't realize they were selling themselves waaay too short. We have to look out for each other - the patriarchy/media/shallow, vapid depictions of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:25 PM
15

Remember that many a true word is spoken in jest. Either he'll be an asshole to you he has shitty self esteem and wants you to fix him, or he'll be a drag to be around. All of them are shitty options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:54 AM
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You want a guy not to approach you because he respects another guy more than he respects you saying no? Nah, F that. Learn to be assertive, unapologetic, and smart when you're approached by guys you're not trying to entertain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:52 AM
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Oh they know exactly what they're doing. They just don't care. I made a post about emotional labour that somewhat relates to this, check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:20 PM
11

Libfems "looks like our work here is done"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:22 PM
13

Time, effort, not only valuing you for what you give him, encouraging you to be a better person, encouraging and motivating you toward your passions, not Gaslighting or shutting you down, treating your family and friends well, being a team with you when you are out with other people. Communication, empathy, respect too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:19 PM
22

Lol and the libfems who are now actively working to erode them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:13 PM
3

Lol this comment is so utterly ridiculous and narcissistic and as usual, derails to "wHaT aBoUt MeN". That it doesn't even warrant being talked about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:54 AM
2

Ok, swish water, smile and say "yes my love". Got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:21 AM
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"He's probably laughing at you, sis"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:45 PM
6

F that. Stop apologizing and call them out. 'it seems that although I've told you a number of times before that I don't appreciate this behaviour, you don't seem to care. Are you going to start showing some respect or do you want me to go to HR about this?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:43 PM
1

Yeah I heard that too and it's good she stood up in the face of it, but the fact remains that it was used against her, and is 99% of the time used by men, as an insult against women. Rather than "reclaiming" a derogatory word, why not simply normalize respectful language towards yourself (boss/leader/referring to other women as sisters, etc)? Also, if women normalize its use, then men will think they also have the right to call women b*tches. I get the perceived empowerment of it, but bowing to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:35 PM
2

I see what you're saying, but it's still used as a derogatory term. It's like the s_ _ _ walk claiming to take back the word s_ _ _. But the connotations mainstream still mean what they mean. So while you may feel empowered by it, because societal connotations still exist for it as derogatory towards women, it does little to actually change anything. Stand your ground and be a boss without calling yourself a bitch! Personally, if I see a woman doing something dope but then calling herself a 'bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:49 PM
4

You are a true Gem ;) good on you for calling it out and calling all the males (it was only makes) who supported him saying it was a joke. Ah sorry there was also that one chick at the beginning Sarah. Either way, good for you for not letting they shut slide. After AOC's speech I feel like women's time may FINALLY be coming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:34 PM
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Don't fall into the trap of thinking calling women bitches is empowering, it isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:24 PM
2

Beautiful!! Thanks so much for sharing it!! I might make a post with some great articles I've been collecting at some point down the line, mind if I add this one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:36 PM
5

Show them this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:29 AM
3

Saying I should write an article? ;) Thanks sis, yes, it's the truth. We're just socialized not to notice it... To be nurturers... To be understanding. Check out breakingmom if you want firsthand evidence. But the moment you realize it is the moment you can ensure it doesn't happen to you. Forewarned is forearmed, that's why I wrote this, and that's why we all need to continually critically assess behavior that is sold to us as normal and call it out here and to the other women in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:10 AM
1

Dm'd you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:07 AM
1

To find out - are what types of accounts he follows on social media particularly IG, bring up the topic in casual conversation (damn, what are your thoughts on the rise in cam sites) or something similar. If you find out - dump his ass. Period. Don't allow yourself to be disrespected like that. And please girl, refrain from the phrase "bad bitches" it does absolutely nothing to elevate women. Consider sis, or sister. Women calling themselves/each other bitches/ho's etc is not empowering, it just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:05 AM
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100%!! Good on you sis. I hope and truly believe that this sub is changing women and helping them realize their strength and power, and learn the signs before it happens to them. I honestly think if more younger women/girls were just forearmed with info many would find themselves in less situations where they were taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:10 PM
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I am usually the assertive one/one who takes control, I don't like not being in the driver's seat. But there is a difference between being taken advantage of and being in control, and that's what women need to realize. If all the power is given to the guy then it is also dangerous because the woman is simply left to follow, and get too used to dependance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:59 PM
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Haha the truth is hard but it's better than living a lie right! I plan to make more of these posts with the types of things I've learned over the years. Also, if you're not in PPF yet send me a message and I'll send you the link to ask for mod approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:16 PM
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Welcome to female socialization love ;) Women need to be socialized twice, once by society and then once by ourselves to unlearn all the bullshit we were taught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:12 PM
1

You're very welcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:54 PM
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Good on you for telling her sis! Try to find you a nice white boy or something that will convert haha. Or a muslim convert in london.. I'm sure there exist? Brown guys are usually bad news, due to being babied and having the culture mollycoddle them and praise them for being.... Male. Edit: better yet stay single until you are established and find someone that is actually worth it. 29 and single and loving life (and muslim)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:10 PM
25

Also, unrealistic and unhealthy expectations set by porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:09 AM
1

Also, I personally know a fair number of older (40-60s) childfree women who are also single, and while they sometimes say they've felt lonely now and again they've never regretted not having children, or their lifestyle overall. It's allowed them to travel, progress much further in work, and spend more time with friends/family etc, amongst other things. I'll also add that it's not a zero sum game. There are some women who dream of being moms and wives etc (although this is also very much due, I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 04:04 PM
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For the mainstream, you do have a point in that women tend to look for older men and men for younger women. Personally I go for guys that are younger and I've never had any trouble finding them. The "fate" you describe presupposes that it's resigned to which is not true if it's a desirable option, and also not getting married doesn't at all need to mean celibacy. Lesbianism is also an option for sure/bisexuality. If you visit r/childfree you'll find many older people living very fulfilling lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:57 PM
1

This is changing and also personal preference. As a woman, I wouldn't care if a guy was making less than me. The important point is that it's 50/50 when it comes to the relationship. The issue increasingly is there women and men are both working but women are still putting in a double shift at home. Back in the day men were the primary bread winners and women the primary home keepers. The same roles don't exist to the extent they did in the past. So women are expecting men to put more work it at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:31 PM
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Women also do most of the emotional labor, childrearing if applicable, and work a double shift (disproportionately do more housework than men, despite also working the same hours outside the home). Women are now increasingly able to support themselves rather than rely on men, yet are still putting on more work at home. Men are also increasingly using porn and other types of sexual stimuli outside of the relationship (easier access, etc), which comes with a whole host of problems. Times have chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:28 PM
1

As a single woman in my late twenties I can tell you that this is increasingly not the case. Women rooted in reality are realizing more and more than staying single if often the best option, because the number of lazy, insecure, porn addicted guys out there is rapidly increasing. Women earning their own income is increasing obviously, and the want for kids is decreasing. Women who settle down 90% of the time have to work a double shift, while also having to do most of the childrearing if there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:22 PM
1

It seems like there is a big double standard, you're doing it on him and want him to but he won't. Definitely address it and if he won't please you in the way you want, you should not be pleasing him in the way he wants.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/20 07:20 PM
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I couldn't cross post but it's from r/askwomen "For those of you married, what is one red flag you noticed and let pass before marrying your SO that you deeply regret glazing over?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:25 PM
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'i don't like storing girly stuff' 1st red flag... Girly stuff would make me seem like a girl, and being a girl is the worst possible thing to be perceived to be. It goes downhill from there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 07:40 AM
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Nah the bye adds oomph. You did it right sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 01:26 AM
5

Teach it to all the young girls in your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:20 PM
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Honestly if I had a daughter, as soon as she is old enough, show her evidence. Show her the threads where men totally degrade and day debased things about women. But also give her ways to arm herself, knowledge, enroll her in self defense and above all teach her to be independent and unapologetic. Unfortunately I don't think the world is getting much better in many cases for women, we are making strides but in many cases things are moving backwards, the advent of technology has made Exploitation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:20 PM
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You should obviously reach out to her. Put this woman first like all men put each other first and don't hesitate to call out a woman. You shouldn't even have to ask on this sub tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:17 PM
1

Haha it's fun if you know how to weed out the bs really early on. Ive made some great friends (both female and male) on it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:33 AM
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This is also why I believe women will never truly be free until reproduction and women being the primary caregivers ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:43 PM
10

Don't be subtle sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:34 PM
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There is nothing wrong with being powerful as a woman. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:41 PM
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