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immyownworstenemy/r/askTRP01/09/16 09:24 AM
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So basically you took the concept that "All things being equal, the simplest solution tends to be the best one" and used it to curate a list of existing Red Pill maxims (organised by work/life/play) we can refer to, with an emphasis on how working on our own red pill fundamentals can solve situations, instead of overcomplicated theorycrafting. Pretty handy. I like it when someone takes the time to distil information like this (since it makes reacting to situations easier and faster).
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/16 03:21 AM
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How can you call this guy a friend when he's fucking with your own brother? Ideally, you should get your group to ostracise him, then not let him come back till he shows he can consistently be less of a douche again. If you have a feeling people won't side with you and your brothers opinion on this, then don't try it (it's a risky play depending on how much power you have) and instead try some of the other posted advice.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:24 AM
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Just think of it as long-term hedonism vs short term hedonism. If you pursue some form of self development, you are doing long-term hedonism, because its a slow burn goal to get to a place of good feeling. If you pursue short term hedonism, you are doing the drugs, girls, junk food, whatever. To not choose and instead be inactive/commit suicide hoping for something else to come your way is being indecisive with that choice. You reach the same end result (death) as above no matter what, but with …
/r/askTRP01/11/16 10:00 AM
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Hmm, thanks. Maybe I'm just overthinking it. I'll keep it simple and continue to increase masculine polarity.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 01:43 AM
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What are your thoughts on the viability of an existing LTR for men who: are 'somewhat masculine' because of having applied PUA since day 1, but each day are becoming a more 'true masculine' because of having applied TRP more recently?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 05:38 AM
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Lifting shouldn't be replaced with active self-improvement, you've got to do both, The Red Pill can't give a guy a pass on this, so it can't give you a pass on this either. If you're worried about getting big, as long as you lift only light amounts and ideally also maintain a correct amount of cardio, you won't. You'll just get a sexier, more defined, yet still slim, figure, plus those vital testosterone benefits already mentioned by others that will make leading more natural for you. Many femal…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/16 09:44 AM
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You are really similar to me... bad with the academic system, despite being a smart person, but on the other hand, a naturally skilled person physically (took a guess here). Oh and... I have in the past had a history of depression also.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 04:35 AM
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I normally don't care for Field Reports but this was very entertaining, because it was well written and you focused on the strategy rather than detailing the outcome. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 07:54 AM
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This guys experience speaks volumes. Taking time to find yourself, are you kidding me? I live in a major city in asia and I can say from experience that every foreigner from the west (americans, europeans, etc) that tries to move out there to 'find themselves' just really does it as a mystical FOMO excuse to live a short sighted and hedonistic lifestyle cough Cock Carousel/plating cough. Same thing goes for people that say they need to 'find themselves' when in a relationship too.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:12 AM
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Do not see a marriage counsellor, they will just work on your relationship from a blue pill perspective, focusing too much on either: Sharing Logic Sharing Emotions To fix the problems. Which means you'll lose any power you may even have left. What you'll need to do instead is apply the standard sidebar information asap, as well as slowly but progressively use dread on her over a period of months. Even then, there are no guarantee's though. In addition, from reading your post I suspect that she …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:07 AM
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I have gotten really interested in Network Security recently and I have to say I love this reply. It really reminds me of why I enjoy NetSec and Threat Management stuff right now (because there are many analogies to be found there when dealing with the rest of life). i.e. Ransomware = Family Court Divorce (all your shit gets locked down and you lose half your assets lol)
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:36 AM
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I understand your pain, believe me, but to be honest AWALT until you learn to start passing shit tests. If you just leave her, you will end up finding another woman that gives you this same problem. Instead, it sounds to me like you need to do some more PUA/TRP study. At least train your ability to pass those tests while she's around, and then leave her once youryour game has improved, if you still feel the same way after having adapted and improved.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:25 AM
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Also for location I'm going to keep my advice kinda open (sorry lol) and just say: anywhere that gets her body going with dopamine and/or adrenaline is good. So basically, fun shit, either calm or exciting, is what works.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:18 AM
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Go as far as you can, at all stages. One evening, when I was a virgin, I just literally kept on escalating from first kiss onwards into everything else; and that definitely helped me to build up some confidence as well as setup some good habits. A lot of guys are just too tame and that doesn't work well when it comes to building attraction. However, on the flipside you do also want to be very aware of both the laws in your country as well as her own comfort. Basically you should be a bit extreme…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:14 AM
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I think considering a tenants gender and also considering how much dread to use with them doesn't make you a dick. It's just being more machiavellian than some would be comfortable with. I'm not planning to hurt anyone and I certainly don't want to make a tenant uncomfortable so would only send out carefully considered compliments, haha.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:36 AM
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I am aware that this has been said a few times now in this thread and I see your point about how perhaps even if I were only to throw out a compliment it could backfire. That said, I currently feel that as long as I play safe with my words/body language I can still do it a little though. It doesn't take much to get a LTR hamstering over something.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:32 AM
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Fair point, sounds like a reasonable law in theory, however I'm not from the US and I prefer to listen to Red Pill over certain moral stuff, like the idea of gender discrimination, when it comes to business. So I will probably still just pick whoever is best to live with, which will include considering gender and its effect on my everyday life.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:29 AM
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Thanks, I agree with the improve your career point especially. I know it's even hard to own property these days but part of being red pill is about breaking out of blue pill limitations anyway.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:24 AM
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When I say light dread I just mean for example, complimenting a tenant chick in front of LTR, not much more than that.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:21 AM
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So basically you'd say that overall male logic/honour > female feels, when it comes to this kind of business. Fair enough. I've seen the good and bad for both genders, including men who pay late by AMOGing the landlord (lol not me), so I'm not sure I can look at it that way, but am considering your point.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:20 AM
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because I'm not about the plate life, have already been living with her and she offered to pay for a property for us.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:14 AM
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In this scenario, I am receiving the money so that makes me a landlord.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 02:12 AM
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This is an interesting question for me because I'm trying to set this up myself too, but honestly I feel the answer to it is just to study any articles on the captain/first mate dynamic since that's basically what this is about: getting her to live her life on your terms.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:18 AM
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It's just the way girls tend to think. Sexing means that unless you have 'said' otherwise (but why bother to be honest when you can frame it nonverbally which is easier) they will believe in their mind, but not necessarily 'know' that you are together in a relationship. This is especially true if you do things with them too often, something which is considered a big 'No' for plate status women (as is mentioned in both the sidebar and other PUA materials). I got 'caught' (whatever that means) pla…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:11 AM
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Adapting to shit tests is a very slow process because most of us are very human and are not perfect in every way, so flaws will be found over and over again by others; and as you already know will inevitably need to be dealt with by you in some sort of strategic way. As long as you try to keep track of it, perhaps even by writing it down, at least you won't fall for the same tricks twice and will see fast and real growth that way.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 02:01 AM
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Being top 20% in SMV is not necessarily the same as being top 20% when it comes to game. So achieving and setting up a great lifestyle (which in turn raises your SMV) gets your foot in the door while also making things easier for you, but having great game is key to getting laid. Unfortunately, most the top PUA's probably aren't honest with their lay statistics or just decide not to disclose their numbers at all, but if you want to know how reliable traditional PUA game is for getting laid? I'd …
/r/askTRP25/07/16 06:04 AM
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Thanks dude, I think I'm not getting women to qualify themselves enough so will try revisiting that (I do most the other things you listed). Will definitely check out Sex God Method too.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:40 AM
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Ask yourself this question instead: if you were drowning in pussy, would you still squeeze her into your schedule? If yes, I guess you could fuck around a bit with her. However, please note as a disclaimer that I'm assuming you already fucked ten other women to get over her, as its been a year since you last made contact with each other. If I'm wrong in assuming that, then you should pass.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:29 AM
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Why don't you just go off campus then? Basically, your mistake was becoming known on campus in the first place. Better to travel elsewhere to get laid now.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 05:26 AM
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How did you train them to be less off a prude? I'm interested in hearing any tips because I have had moderate success with things like 'doing' instead of 'negotiating', kino ahead of time, dirty talk, slowing down and then getting them extra hot for me, etc. but I'm curious still as to how users here deal with resistance to the extra kinky stuff (anal/oral/arranging threesomes/etc).
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:23 AM
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This is absolutely my approach too. If a girl asks me to do something for them, I 100% always get the fuck out, even if it's logically quite reasonable, because she asked and therefore I would be supplicating. Whereas if she doesn't ask something of me, most likely I'm 'taking care of everything' (without losing focus on my main life priorities) because it helps me to stay self sufficient internally, while simultaneously demonstrating it too.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 06:26 AM
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I got married recently and although some people may be tempted to say your post may have come to late for me, I think it has come at the perfect time. I really needed a reminder right now that it's okay to be selfish (often labelled as being purely bad/wrong but isn't), as long as you balance it thoughtfully with your longer term goals (optional but wise to consider if you want to grow). Thank you so much for reinforcing such a key lesson that I needed.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 03:48 AM
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