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Why they try to make it so difficult? If you are opposites why date in the first place? If you are unhappy, why not break up? They would rather stay in a relationship they don't enjoy, calling their partners boring on the internet, blaming them for not being the way they would like them to be than take an attitude and break up. They don't even think about how their girlfriends would feel once they find out. What's empathy, right? The dude said he lost a decade of his life? Who forced him to do i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 10:17 PM
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This is exactly what happens. No matter what happens, it's always the woman's fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:21 PM
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I'm so happy for you OP! Green flag posts give me a little bit of hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:06 PM
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So apparently, if you are a feminist you can't want to receive affection and protection from your partner? What do they understand by feminism? Has anyone ever asked s scrote what they think feminism is? I'm curious now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 01:13 PM
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Exactly. That's why I'm single for so long. It is so difficult to find a HVM and there are so many NVM pretending to be HV that, in my opinion, it doesn't seem worth it to keep on searching. To be honest, I have never heard of a HVM in real life. There are men slightly more decent than the average, but in the end they also don't truly respect and love their partners. I'm good and happy being single so I won't waste my precious time trying to find a good men only to find disappointment (at the ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:44 PM
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He probably shares with his bros in a smiling face and a proud attitude, that story of making her bleed more than once. That's how sick they are. Edit for grammar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:20 PM
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I once said this very sentence between women and they told me I was in for being cheated on, can you believe that? Ladies, men cheat even if you let them do whatever they want with you. They're disgusting and disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:12 PM
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Oh yes, I remember way before finding out about FDS how I used to think the problem was with me, like you just described. Family members used to tell me I was bad at choosing men which added to the ideia it was my fault. BS. Those f*ckers know how to pretend to be normal and we were conditioned to overlook red flags from a young age. That's what was actually happening back then. I'm so glad I found this sub. I don't even remember in which sub I was when someone mentioned FDS but I'm so glad they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:05 PM
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Specially because of the vocabulary. I don't think anyone actually shocked would play around with different ways to say "jar of shit".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:54 PM
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I second this. I never thought I'd see a woman say something like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:37 PM
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I'm so grossed out I can't- Why? Just why? I think she needs professional help about this idea of "magical bond". Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:03 PM
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I have a hard time believing this...it's soap opera levels of horrible relationship drama Right? That's what I thought, but I know of a similar case in real life, so I can't totally doubt it. Some people are really, really messed up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:38 PM
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Considering she was the Children's Pastor, it raises so many more questions. Oh. My. I didn't even notice this 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:02 PM
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I don't entirely doubt it because I've seen something similar happen irl in a very messed up family. It all sounds like soap opera material but unfortunately, it might happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:56 PM
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Right? I'm a very family oriented person, which in his eyes is a weakness, so it became my flaw. Once I gifted myself on my birthday with an expensive cellphone. He noticed I was happy and having a nice day so he tagged along and acted so nice the whole time (which is kind unusual, he's normally quiet and doesn't start or keep conversations unless it's about something he enjoys) I ended up buying him the same model as a gift. He didn't buy me anything, not even an ice-cream. He didn't even say t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:52 PM
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Oh, but be sure he was aware it was unfair and would not be okay with it if you were the one spending more in groceries.He was just using you for as long as he could. My brother is a NVM and he does that even with family members. He plays innocent when suggesting things and if people don't pay attention to it he just takes advantage of them. When people realise what he did, he says he didn't force anyone to do anything, and that's it. No making up for his acts, no apologising, nothing. They know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:55 PM
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Why should you have to justify yourself for wanting YOUR PERSONAL information to be deleted from a public search, though? They shouldn't even be sharing it in the first place. That's absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:06 PM
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Oh, I see! That's helpful! Thank you very much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:25 PM
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Oh, that's so interesting!! :D Thank you for telling me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:14 PM
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You're welcome! People shouldn't get so angry about things like this. I see it as a chance to learn and improve my English :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 11:05 PM
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Oh, I see, that makes more sense! Thank you! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:54 PM
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Oh that's right! English is not my first language so sometimes I make some mistakes. Already fixed it! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:43 AM
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No way this actually happens! 😂😂 Aren't they supposed to be the logical sex? 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:36 PM
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No no, paying for a woman's dinner is a big deal. I dated this scrote that would ask for 50/50 every time we went out but regularly told me how he bought drinks for his buddies all the time. Men are shameless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:20 PM
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Oh my. Absolutely everything a man does to a woman is in an attempt to degrade her. Just so messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:06 PM
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"He's not saying this just to be mean. He's not a mean person" Are you sure sis? He's abusing her, destroying her self-steem, blaming her for HIS infidelity and also trying to lower her confidence in parenting. He clearly hates her but don't want a divorce because who would take his late 30s ass and cook, clean and manage a household for him? It's easier to just disrespect her and cheat. Men are lazy creatures. But she can be sure that if a pick me lady in her 20s accepts to be his bangmaid he's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:02 PM
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Men will have sex with a mcchicken sandwich That's what I try to tell women all the time. There are literally men out there f*cking fruits. It's a thing. Having the sexual attention is actually something that disgusts me. Men do not look at women as human beings, they look at women as sex objects. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:41 PM
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Well, she's a woman, it's not like she's a hollow human being walking around just because she haven't finished maturing yet. You might not have figured out yourself by the age of 18 but you surely had a personality. I'm pretty sure she has opinions about things around her, likes and dislikes, an unfinished but existing sense of moral and so on. He could point out how she's funny, or caring and so many other things that makes someone's personality. Which I'm guessing he either doesn't know about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:06 AM
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He probably doesn't even know what kind of person she is besides that she's young and that she was a virgin when they met. Gross. In a normal scenario, how difficult can it be to write a few qualities of someone you love and know for four years?? That "I don't have words to describe what kind of person you are" is bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:47 PM
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Oh that kind of line pisses me off big time. I wouldn't even know how to respond to something like this. I would just feel the blood boiling in my veins. It's HIS responsibility if he hurts himself, not anyone else's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:39 PM
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Exactly this! It's sad to see men use it to emotionally abuse women. It's unconditional love until THEY have to be the ones putting effort and/or tolerating things in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:17 AM
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Well, unfortunately I have never met any funny man. All supposedly funny comments/jokes I have ever heard from a man are based on sex/depravity, so they aren't funny at all to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:43 PM
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Exactly this. I barely read any comments or comment anything anymore on Reddit outside of FDS because of this. I wonder if they really think they're funny because of those ridiculous word plays. Men are not funny. Specially Reddit incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:30 PM
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Omg I can't 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:09 PM
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I'm reading Welcome to Night Vale and although it's supposed to be a weird/funny story, this also sounded so true, so I wanted to share! By the way, the character who's saying that got pregnant from this Troy guy and he left town and vanished for years as soon as he found out, so yeah, unconditional love huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:05 PM
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a softboy is just a fuckboy who will cry in front of you This summarises it perfectly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:50 PM
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I just realized that, yes, they were! One more reason to never doubt my intuition!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:24 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:52 PM
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Exactly this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:47 PM
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Those kind of stories are always so entertaining for me 😂 They feel all cool and powerful when they are the one using women but once it's the other way around they get all pissed and hurt 😂😂 I mean, he really thought he would get the chance of putting her down by telling her later that he didn't like the sex and that he didn't want to meet her a second time, even after using her to get his car started, mind you, but got offended once he found out that SHE didn't want to meet him again and wasn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:43 PM
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It's so great to be part of FDS because we get to realise that you DON'T have to put up with things like that, in fact you SHOULD NEVER. It's sad that we are taught otherwise. The me from a few years ago would be ashamed of nexting someone because they don't fit one of my standards, like being friends with their ex, for example. We are taught that we have to agree with everything and put effort into a relationship (aka do whatever the man wants) for it to work out. I'm so glad I found this amazi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:27 PM
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please be aware that many sperm donors don't tell the whole story when it comes to their health. That's exactly what makes me concerned. Also, I might be wrong but I think personality traits also come along. I've read about it, but I don't know how reliable those articles were. Anyway, I've noticed from watching people around me that even those who were raised with no contact with their fathers tend to act like them sometimes. I'd be concerned of conceiving a kid from a man with anger issues, fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:15 PM
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Right? Lol Most of the posts and comments on Reddit are written by scrotes, either being their disgusting selves or trying to impersonate women. That's precisely why I barely read any posts/comments outside from FDS. In my opinion, this kind of unrealistic posts/comments are made by men trying to make this kind of thing seem normal to any women that might read it. Unfortunately reddit is the scroteland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:50 AM
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He had the audacity to do it twice, what a huge piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:09 PM
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The longer it takes them, the more resentful and cruel they become to their current partner to punish her for their lack of success in that area. It's sick This describes it perfectly! Such sociopathic behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 08:51 PM
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Very often those kind of comments are posted by men trying to normalize shit like this. They are probably trying to convince women it's ok since other women women like it, which is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:07 PM
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She doesn't want to bring it up with with again because it will make him angry and that pissed him off?? She was the one who passed out, the one who was disrespected and even laughed at and she is still worried about making HIM angry. She needs to stay away from him, away from that kind of relationship altogether, and get some self respect. I hope everything goes well for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:40 PM
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Typical reaction when their disgusting "flirting" fails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 02:01 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:44 PM
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Sure thing. If I say anything about NVM/LVM anywhere on Reddit, there's always some scrote who does that. It makes me laugh too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 01:38 PM
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So many mad scrotes with big inferiority complex trying to comment on this post 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 03:02 AM
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I'm literally crying after reading those articles. I'm so so sorry for Indian women. How can a human being say such horrible things? I don't understand it at all. The only way to make they understand what the victims went through is to put them through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 08:10 PM
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So gross, but probably so true 🤢🤮😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:16 AM
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She is not the fox, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 09:57 AM
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It's "Tale of the Nine-Tailed". I haven't finished it yet, but it's nice so far. have you seen Dramaworld??? I haven't yet, will definitely check it out though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 01:37 AM
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Korean dramas usually advocates pick me behaviour and are slowly becoming more an more unwatchable for me. All I can see now are the red flags. So, it's's quite refreshing to see a female main character react like that in dramas. Just for some context, she isn't scared of him at all. She is quite a badass. (Edit for grammar)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:40 AM
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I used to say constantly that if I was gay my love life would be easier, but I realized that many gay woman behave just like NVM so, nevermind that. Still, I think it would be easier to meet a gay HVW than it is to find HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:02 AM
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Funny how who says that are usually leeches just looking for sex. Projection, as always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:39 AM
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I think it's because he found someone to constantly humiliate money wise. Every rich man I have ever met was arrogant and liked to feel superior to other people because they had more money. Maybe that's what he is doing, enjoying to see her struggling to try to keep up with him. He might be a sadist. HVM are very difficult to find. Like stated in the post, having money does not make men HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:36 AM
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Oh my! I feel so sorry for her! It would be great if you could dm her with the FDS link, OP. She surely needs it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:37 AM
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I just told my coworker this the other day. She divorced a NVM a few years back but still has contact with him because of their son with special needs. She told me how the girlfriends/fiances he had since then dislike her and are hostile to her thinking she wants to get back to him whenever she tries to warn them about his NV ass. I told her how unfortunate it is that so many women feel this need to compete with eachother for men when they should be supporting and helping eachother instead. All …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:04 AM
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I had a similar experience and I know how it feels. The anxiety, the shame... We all go through something like that at some point. The important thing is that you learned from experience. I sometimes look back at the decisions I made in the past, my absolute lack of boundaries, and what I take from it is to never do it again. Lesson learned. Don't blame yourself because even women active in FDS sometimes falls into LVM/NVM traps. Be gentle and understanding to yourself. ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:51 AM
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That summarises everything and it's so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:23 AM
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I guess being very direct is the best thing. If you get silence as an answer it really says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 02:18 AM
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Men just aren't stupid. They play stupid, excited, forgetful, teehee, etc. but I'm just not buying it anymore. That is so true. I'm guessing the goal is to exhaust women and make them let it be, since accepting men's lack of effort is less exhausting than repeatedly teaching them the basic. Honestly, men are so lazy and low effort that it's infuriating for me. I don't even feel like wasting my energy with that. At the first sign of laziness I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:58 AM
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That was what I was thinking. I open and/or hold doors for anyone around me. It doesn't matter if I know them or not. It's about politeness. Luckily most people do the same around here. It seems very weird to me though that he doesn't do that to OP. Even if he's not usually polite to strangers, he should at least be polite to her, since they're seeing each other. If he's like that at the very beginning, I can only imagine how worse it will become later on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:48 AM
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They might find your eyes sexy There's no winning against their perverted minds, they're simply gross 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:19 AM
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I can't with this comment 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:42 AM
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Now I use the website unconsentingmedia.org before I start to watch something. It's great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:08 PM
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When people ask me why I'm single I simply respond with "Because I want to." And if they insist in asking why I say "Because I don't have to do something I don't want to, and I don't want to date." The older I get the less patient I have, specially for people I barely know that feel like I HAVE to answer anything they ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:54 PM
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I never watched this one but I used to love My Wife & Kids. A few weeks ago I decided to rewatch a few episodes and it made me disgusted. Too many sex jokes and in this particular episode Jay was heavily drunk when she came home and Michael considered having sex with her even though she was uncounscious because they haven't had sex in a while since Jay decided she wouldn't have sex for 6 months. Not to mention that Vanessa, in that same episode, was requesting sex the whole day multiple times to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:59 PM
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That's something I can't understand too. So many disgusting, old, almost bald men flirting with me and I'm here thinking, why in the world you think someone as gorgeous as myself would even remotely consider the possibility of giving you my number? Why?! They have 0 common sense. They're so entitled they think all women should be fighting to date them even though they have a dadbod, don't wash their hair or brush their teeth or have any hygiene at all lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:00 PM
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That's actually funny for me because I always think something like this 😂 "Feeling very important for someone that can't even clean your ass huh, Squidmark."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:55 AM
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Also, isn't it weird how men think about, talk and if possible would touch their dicks all day long, but most of them don't even know how to properly wash it? If the thing is so important to you, the least you could do is keep it clean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:38 PM
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That is very true. But since men are stupid and think about their penises all they long, any tubular shape can look like a penis in their eyes. They see it everywhere because they think about it all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:05 PM
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This. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:00 PM
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I know this is a rant but the way you worded it actually made me laugh! lol I've noticed this too, absolutely everything in their minds revolves around their dcks. They think about dcks 24/7. It's disgusting and stupid. I can't even imagine women being like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:57 PM
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Exactly. I hate to have to simply ignore those pieces of shit and pretend like they didn't bother me when I really want to insult them, but like I always say, women get quiet when embarrassed, men get violent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:42 PM
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Exactly. This is very sad but very true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:26 PM
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I'll surely look into her songs now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:23 AM
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It's sad that little girls are taught to be constantly aware of dangerous situations instead of boys being taught to be respectful, but I liked to see someone singing about it. It's ridiculous how many scrotes are mad in the comments at every video of this song, when it's only talking about facts. In fact "If your offended by this song, you're clearly doing something wrong".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:22 AM
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Maybe that's because women don't use reddit that much? I don't know. I was ready to uninstall it because apparently you can't even follow a subreddit for funny or cute things without having dozens of disgusting or stupid comments from scrotes. I was so done with it but then I saw someone mentioning FDS and decided to give it a try. FDS is one of the few subreddits I actively follow now, most of the rest is tarnished with scrote comments and useless jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:44 PM
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Well, welcome to reddit. The land of scrotes. I guess you can imagine how happy I was after I found FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:39 PM
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Because how dare you put self respect before their happiness! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:37 PM
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She "stole" "his" furniture because it's furniture that she bought for his place, and so it belonged to the place and therefore him. I probably would laugh at his face for saying such stupidity 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:12 PM
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It's so ridiculous that he treats her body as his property and demands her to change it to his liking. What a piece of shit he is 😡 She should be demanding a six pack in return since he didn't get pregnant. Who wants to bet that he has a dad bod? 🙋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:00 PM
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If they used half the time they normally spend on Reddit to work out they'd have a nice body too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:06 PM
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Everytime I read this sub I realise how men aren't better than a piece of shit. I can't even imagine a woman cornering a scrote for a phone number. Why the hell they think we own them any fcking information? It makes me so pissed 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:50 PM
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Bless her. Every kid should be raised like that. It was infuriating for me to grow up having to accept that I'm supposed to clean the house and cook while my brothers played videogames. Up until this day my adult brothers don't do anything around the house other than messing it up, because they don't feel like they have to clean or at least keep it clean. And God forbid I say something about it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:17 PM
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Here's the link to it from Tik Tok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeqmftmg/ You can download it from the app or use a "Tik tok video downloader"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:01 AM
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Here's the link to it from Tik Tok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeqmftmg/ You can download it from the app or use a "Tik tok video downloader"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:01 AM
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But now she's HIS property! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:48 PM
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Oh my "abuse victim" I'm crying lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:36 PM
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Right? I can't understand that at all! Nobody is asking them to believe. Nobody is asking them to enter the hobby, diet or whatever they don't believe in/dislike. Not your cup of tea? Ok, just move on. I think scrotes are constantly thirsty for attention and this is the only way for them to get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 04:53 PM
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I'm learning so much with this sub, not only regarding LVM but also life. I sometimes forget I don't HAVE to waste my energy responding to questions I don't want to or debating things that won't change. Thanks for the reminder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:34 PM
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They always come with the "AcTUaLly" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:32 PM
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I'm using this with the next person that complains about my accent lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:59 PM
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Feel free to tack on a question of whether you need to provide her with more basic context clues to carry on an adult conversation with you, since just one letter off/one syllable change rendered a word incomprehensible. Oh my, I'm using this from now on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:56 PM
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I'm really interested in the study she mentioned. Does anyone know how to find it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:51 PM
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But why test it if God KNOWS everything? He would know if they really loved him or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:29 AM
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Wait, what? This is sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:31 PM
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In my opinion, both relationships shown in that drama were unhealthy. *** SPOILER ALERT *** The main couple: The female lead met the male lead, didn't like how he lives his life (he didn't want to spend a penny because he was paying for his expensive mortgage, didn't express his feelings properly, etc), got together with him anyway and tried to change his behaviour, which I already think is wrong, but oh well. When they were already kinda dating, when he was already liking her, even though they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:14 PM
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I agree. It makes me disgusted to hear women talk like that because it's clear they don't even respect themselves anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:07 AM
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You wouldn’t have to worry about money if you dated with intention That's so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:02 AM
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Oh my, can you please tell me why you like "Because this is my first life"? Up to this day there is no drama ending I hate more than this one. I'd love to hear your opinion. Edit: Spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:16 PM
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Also that brother didn't help at all. He knows the dude was abusive to his sister and was all polite like "I don't think it's a good time". I'm sick of seeing this kind of "respect" they have for each other even when they know at least of of them isn't worth shit. There were times I had to defend my mother from rude assh0les because all my brother could do was watch and be respectful towards the scrote. Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:14 PM
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There's a scrote in the comments that wrote: "I don't need no man.." except these two blokes right here to help me play this song. I guess I need them. And probably all the men who I'm banking on listening to my music, buying tickets to my show and hopefully buying my guitar. Probably would be up the proverbial creek without them. But, we won't talk about that. I don't know if I should get mad but I just laughed at such stupidity. He completely lost the point LOL She's clearly saying she doesn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:55 PM
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I feel exactly the same. I can feel there's something wrong although I don't know exactly what. 30K is not a small sum of money. It's not something normal to an abusive ex to send this much money solely because he recognizes that he was abusive. Please take care OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:18 PM
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I don't have much experience with it, but I think there are a lot of pick mes and male leads throwing red flags in kdrama, so it's kinda difficult for me to watch. Do you have any good recommendations to help change my bad perception of it? I'm currently looking for something to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:02 PM
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breast envy porn sub You gotta be kidding me. I think I should leave this sub since it's becoming unbearable to me to look at a men's face without feeling pure disgut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:48 AM
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Oh my, just had a look at it. God, I hope I never get to meet a "Nice Guy" like that. I just saw a post about them talking shit for being in the friend zone, saying the woman was "using" man to do everything for her despite knowing she would never date them. Who the hell complains about having a friend?? I'd absolutely love to be in the friend zone of a decent men. With so many men agreeing with that assh0le that said such bullshit confirms that when they are being "Nice Guys", in fact, they're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:43 AM
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now in Russia domestic violence is legal I can't believe I've read this. Society doesn't fail to disappoint me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:19 AM
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I can't get rid of that kwai ad that ALWAYS has a teenager in revealing clothes dancing in front of the camera that's always filming her from a low angle. I feel disgusted. I've selected the option to not see this ad again but Google don't respect me, so now I watch YouTube on the adblock browser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:11 AM
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Wait, what??? I've found out about a lot of weird, messed up things since I joined FDS, and honestly, sometimes I can't believe how much more disgusting men can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:00 AM
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I just listened to a podcast called "We can't consent to this" about it a couple weeks ago. It's sickening how many men were found not guilty for killing women by strangulation claiming it was "consensual rough sex". For anyone interested, here's the link to it: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0Lw0RRAD1N6YvvslMspDCL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:50 AM
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He's barely trying and she's believing him, I can't believe this is real. It makes me really sad to see so many women forgetting to value themselves and thinking that scrotes like him are the best they can find so they should hold on to them for their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:36 AM
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That's right. I'm also trying to remember that even if at some situations I fail to act like I want and should, I should not be angry or frustrated at myself. I'm changing my habits and trying my best at it, it can take some time and it's ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:08 PM
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That's why I love this sub. I wish I had found it sooner, though I'm glad I found it anyways. Those seemingly small details make such a difference. Thanks for reminding me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:04 PM
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Oh my. This is something I NEED to improve asap. Somehow I still have a difficult time being direct in situations like that. I think it's because I'm usually scared of the scrotes physical reactions to rejection. I've heard of some getting violent, some following women afterwards, and the country where I live in doesn't give a shit about stalking, most of the time don't give a shit even at violence itself. I'm really sick of scrotes flirting with me and pretending to not understand when I polite…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:59 PM
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I've been working on it so hard. I talk with confidence and don't use this modifiers anymore and I'm seeing good improvement in stopping with the "smile all the time" thing. I had a lot of intern conflict about smiling all the time because I don't feel like smiling when someone makes a stupid joke, specially a scrote joke, but I automatically smiled politely and at the end of the day I felt awful at myself. Apparently I'm programed to be nice and pleasant to be around instead of showing my own o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:37 PM
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This was the first thing I thought too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:41 PM
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Maybe he is trying that "If I do this very poorly she won't ask me to do it again" shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 01:35 PM
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When do you think this behaviour starts? My mother raised me by telling me "you have to clean the house because you are a girl" while not asking anything from my brothers. Whenever I complained saying that they are human beings too, they eat too and that having something more between their legs shouldn't incapacitate them from doing house chores, she would go mad at me saying I was just trying to avoid my responsibilities and that I was just lazy. It really makes me wonder. Does the way they wer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:20 PM
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We live in a world where single women are seen as failures, even (and especially) if she is single by choice. If that ain't true. I'm so tired of being judged by not wanting a partner, specially by other women my age. As soon as they find out my age the first thing they ask is if I'm married yet and they give me The Look™ when I say no and that I'm not interested in getting married at all. Don't even get me started at how they look at me when I say I'm not dating and don't want to. I mean, look …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:55 PM
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Finally I got an answer! I have been wondering for a while why is that male customers are rude to female employees to the point of punching the table and screaming, but as long as a male employee shows up, they calm down immediately and behave as if they were only upset because the female coworker provoked them. Now I get it. I've been trying to ask it around on reddit in male communities, but guess what? My posts were deleted assuming I was judging all men are like that. I mean, I just asked wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:40 PM
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That's so interesting! I didn't even know something like this exists! It's very simple but seems to work fine. Thank you so much for suggesting it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:51 AM
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Oh I saw that happen once. This guy cheated on his girlfriend with a co-worker of mine and she didn't care about his micro penis because "He's so caring and gentle". Turns out he showed everyone the private videos and photos she sent him while making fun of her. The worst part is that his girlfriend got mad at the said co-worker only and didn't break up with her cheating boyfriend. My coworker learnt a lesson (hopefully) and the other woman definitely needs to learn some self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:06 AM
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I’ve never heard men telling their friends, “ Give her a chance she’s so nice/smart,funny” That is so true but somehow I've never noticed that untill I saw your comment. I'm so used to hear women say that that but never noticed that men don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:55 PM
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