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Where are you located?
/r/seduction19/07/18 02:55 PM
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Still interested in meeting up?
/r/seduction15/07/18 09:52 AM
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Know it’s past the date but happy to meet up!
/r/seduction15/07/18 09:51 AM
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Totally agree-changing your life isn't some big decision to commit to doing , it's the little decisions you make every day to the actual doing
/r/seduction12/01/18 09:07 AM
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Also, some advice I've heard has said if the relationship is important enough to you, let her take advantage of the open part of your relationship first before you do to make her feel like it's not just about you fucking other women.
/r/seduction16/10/17 12:43 AM
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it's a time for vulnerability as well were you can explain your journey to be the man you are today. if she makes fun of you for it, laugh about it and move on. if it bothers you that she doesn't take a (potentially) important part of who you are (your journey of masculinity) seriously, then she's probably not right for you.
/r/seduction23/09/17 01:54 AM
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i can't deny there's a risk living with strangers but ultimately, it's about what you really want because it seems like you'll need to risk or sacrifice something. you can't not live with your parents, not live with roommates, not live alone and not have a lady that wants to live with you. in the past, i've put posts on facebook and put the word out on the street thru friends and always found roomies, especially if your parents still live in the town you grew up in. there's bound to be friends o…
/r/seduction13/09/17 04:28 PM
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Just get roommates
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:48 AM
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nice. i'm a fan of does my pit smell like chloroform to you and I raise my arm
/r/seduction03/09/17 04:48 AM
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On why happiness shouldn't be your goal: https://markmanson.net/stop-trying-to-be-happy Definite a worthwhile goal (a goal that betters you) and work towards it.
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:38 AM
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No you don't need to. You can sit with the reality of uncertainty. That's what I do, and it works for me just fine. Then we both agree we live in a world of chaos. The difference is that I attempt to make order out of the little bit of chaos that is mine whereas you choose to own it however it comes.
/r/seduction26/08/17 02:46 PM
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Exactly. I don't trust my view of myself, why trust a girl's? My mind is great at bullshitting to satisfy my own ego, but a girl's mind is just an untrustworthy, she'll say a bunch of bullshit too. That's exactly the point. You need to come up with some system for sorting out what someone else's mind shits out from your own minds ego protecting bullshit
/r/seduction26/08/17 02:39 PM
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Women don't tell me what I am, hell I don't know what I am. They can think whatever they want, but whatever they say is not a fact, it's just their thoughts. Yes but you're not always viewed the way you think you are. I think I'm super funny but if people don't laugh, then empirically it's not true. Being able to take feedback is important-one part of taking feedback is determining if it's true.
/r/seduction26/08/17 02:24 PM
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1) Find your pathway(s) to unbridled joy and engage on all fronts 2) Find and maintain relationships that nourish and sustain your soul 3) Take care of yourself in body and mind 4) Open up to experience and say ahhh 5) Your ultimate value to others are your skills whether they're social, sexual, intellectual, physical, utilizable-build them and you'll prosper
/r/seduction22/08/17 04:14 PM
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Good job-it's definitely nice to see someone realize that sometimes growth means not smashing when you have the oppprtinity to
/r/seduction24/07/17 01:53 AM
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One I do quite often is go to a park and teach her some camera skills
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:58 AM
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A dead Greek guy can always say it better: "No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it's not the same river and he's not the same man."~Heraclitus You need to recognize that sometimes your emotions lie to you, that because you feel some way doesn't make it true.
/r/seduction23/07/17 02:55 AM
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thanks! i've looked at the walking meditation actually...i try to walk to work in the morning with music and it normally helps.
/r/seduction22/07/17 01:47 PM
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Build good habits. All the changes that have made me the man I am today started from concentrating on making SUSTAINABLE behavioral changes. What makes the three second rule so powerful is when you internalize it and it becomes habit so that you offload the decision making from your conscious. Personally, the bigger changes occurred when I applied the concept to all areas of my life, not just with women and started tackling areas I had always wanted to change but never was able to get to stick, …
/r/seduction21/07/17 12:05 AM
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I have to ask the question, for some of us, is this just a waste of time? For some of us who just creep out/scare the shit out of any women they meet? I've tried meditating but I have alot of trouble just sitting still. I want to give up. But my trouble is the whole point of WHY I need to continue doing it. Being bad at something is no reason not to do it. I am usually seen as sub-human I'm going to venture a guess and say this is how YOU view yourself. People tend to see us the way we see ourse…
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:46 PM
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Pick meetups for things you like to do and find ones that aren't at bars or at least where the central theme isn't alcohol. For example, I run events at bars that I put on meetup but the focus of the event is not drinking but other things. Also, I know you said you want to avoid alcohol culture and you might have a very good reason for it-but if you're reason is just a willpower thing come up with strategies for not drinking (order lime soda/pick a place that's more active so you're not hanging …
/r/seduction16/07/17 06:44 AM
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what we are against is not learning but when the learning takes the place of the doing. does this sound familiar->you read something bad ass, you feel the surge of dopamine, you go back to reading more badass shit. effectively you've gotten the good feeling of doing something badass without actually doing it. i think alot of us are predisposed to overthinking-that's the reason why we're on seddit in the first place
/r/seduction15/07/17 07:09 AM
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seduction is a toolbox. the tools you work on and how you apply them (and to how many women) are completely up to you
/r/seduction15/07/17 06:18 AM
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It depends on what your goals are! If your goal is to desensitize yourself from rejection, work on meeting people cold, if it's a system for bringing women into your life when you don't have others then it's worth it. If you have other ways to meet women or in general don't see any overall value in it then yes it is a waste. Pretty much, if you're cold approaching for the sake of cold approaching, then it's worth it. If you're cold approaching to reach a goal, determine if there's a better way t…
/r/seduction14/07/17 07:33 AM
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The best way to handle this is to replace your current habit with a different one. Currently, it seems like your arc is something like this: Cue:see pretty women Action: do nothing Reward: beat yourself up You need to replace that arc with a better one. A technique that works for me is the chain together small steps as a way to break bad habits to something like this: Stimulus: see pretty woman Action: deep breath Reward: stimulus for next step of chain Stimulus: deep breath Action: first step t…
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:08 AM
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I've been working thru the same issues and here's the strategies I've used in various situations: 1) be responsible: you don't have to get hammered and you can leave at a reasonable hour if you need to get up in the morning. There are of course advantages of being there at last call but you have to weigh against how important what you hope to accomplish the next day is. Sometimes it's okay to nurse a beer instead of heading straight for the shots. 2) pick the days you go crazy: when I go out I k…
/r/seduction03/07/17 05:51 AM
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The ways to move up the ranks are twofold: 1) show up and work hard: People who have gone thru tough training understand that no one is good when they start and that the most important factor is putting in the work. Take your licks, persevere, improve. That earns respect because it is the precursor to skill. 2) take responsibility and take it seriously: you'd be surprised the number of people that just don't want to take responsibility, take responsibility but don't put in the work or don't have…
/r/seduction27/06/17 08:25 AM
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I would suggest splitting up the "virginity" and the "no social life" parts since it seems like you have a bit of work to do and should start by concentrating on developing good social habits in general. Firstly, as most people on this site recommend, join a group with something you're interested in as an easy way to meet people. More importantly I'd say is become part of that community, whatever it is. Go to events, take responsibility in the community such as organizing and in general involve …
/r/seduction11/06/17 05:23 AM
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The best answer is to try a lot of things. If you're not sure where to start, start going more in depth with the things you enjoy. I've noticed the barometer for me is if I enjoy the difficult/process part of improvement-for example, I love music but picked up a guitar and didn't love making it so I moved on to stand up comedy, which I'm not particularly good at but I'm willing to put up with eating shit.
/r/seduction04/12/16 02:41 AM
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Yell at her "Boobs away!" then run directly at her and start shaking her Blobs with your hands
/r/seduction21/11/14 09:48 PM
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Lol at username Op has a misunderstanding of what oneitis is. Oneitis is not about falling for one person but rather about emotional investment. If you invest in a girl more than she invests in you, day after day, week after week....that is oneitis. Entering into a relationship, whether it be seriously dating, fwb, whatever, where both of you have the same emotional commitment is not oneitis, hence why Style doesn't have oneitis as op is suggesting
/r/seduction13/11/14 05:31 PM
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If you've truly given pickup at bars a try (and not just afraid of it), maybe it's time to quit the bar scene and try to meet girls doing the things that you enjoy more. Join a running club, maybe a group related to your work or volunteer-something that gets you out of the house and in places with girls that's not a bar.
/r/seduction02/11/14 01:48 AM
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that's sarcasm-not too hard to tell in text form :0
/r/seduction18/01/14 12:54 AM
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Now, start the time it is
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:13 PM
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being a bad lay can do that too.
/r/seduction12/12/13 12:15 AM
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Your appreciating people part reminds me of one of the best lines from Enders game "I think its impossible to really understand somebody, what they want, what they believe and not love them the way they love themselves." It's a way to approach meeting people that opens the door for truely connecting. Ironic the author is now a homophobic prick, but I digress. Good stuff bro.
/r/seduction06/12/13 10:49 PM
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I"m interested to know how it goes! A week seems to work for me, good luck on your stuff!
/r/seduction01/11/13 12:12 PM
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I used to wear headphones everywhere-walking the block to work, cross town, on the train, subway, in taxis. I think it's that when I listen to music, I do it really intensely, it surrounds me and captivates every fiber of my attention and being and squeezes out everything else. Taking out the headphones really put me squarely into the moment of wherever I was and put me in the frame of mind to seize all the little moments that exist.
/r/seduction01/11/13 12:12 PM
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Firstly, props dude. Is three days really enough? I've been trying gradual, week at a time things. Like approaching women in the street. Week1: Take out the damn headphones (works wonders!) Week2: Approach woman a day without trying to get numbers Week3: Approach a woman a day, go until get number or failure. Week4: Stand up straight Week5: Don't break eye contact first with anyone ..etc, etc.
/r/seduction31/10/13 11:19 PM
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forget about getting laid, just have fun.
/r/seduction09/09/13 09:49 PM
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I see the same kind of results. If I'm hooking up with a girl, she'll say something like "I don't want to have sex" or "I want to slow down" and everytime I'll say "That's ok. I don't want you to be uncomfortable." And I'll mean every fucking word of it. Ironically enough, without the pressure, girls normally will do what they said they wouldn't do previously.
/r/seduction29/07/13 09:00 PM
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I like online dating because it allows me work on actual dating as I also work on my approach game.
/r/seduction14/07/13 05:22 PM
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firefly?
/r/seduction19/06/13 03:23 AM
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i just watched it. fucking powerful stuff.
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:26 AM
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Awesome list. The only thing I disagree with is: don't just make it seem like you're busy: be busy. Whatever you do is important enough to quality as such
/r/seduction28/11/12 01:44 AM
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considering you're asking the question on this particular forum, i'm going to assume you probably want to date. if that is the case then yes, change change change!
/r/seduction26/11/12 10:09 PM
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