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Or get a job in a clothing store and you're forced to approach attractive women all day as your job.
/r/seduction30/12/21 06:06 AM
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It's easier to hold eye contact from far away, harder close up. I would always hold eye contact with my crush from across a large room and then look straight ahead (breaking eye contact) confidently as i started to pass her.
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:49 PM
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At my gym there was a hot girl that was obviously trying to get my attention, like to the point where she'd bring all of her friends to also watch me. Then her friends would push her to come over and ask me out, and she'd chicken out. Problem was, she was young, like 18-20. And I was 30. So I stayed away, pretended not to notice.
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:10 PM
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Consider yourself lucky! I get "What are you studying in school?" almost everyday, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:00 AM
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I personally rate myself an 8, but I get attention all the time from women from 15-40. I don't buy into red pill or alpha stuff, but women seriously treat me different. Most of the women i've dated have been deemed 8/9s i'm not particularly good at game or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 10:17 PM
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I wasn't feminine, but younger I had boyish looks, like a boyband member or something. Then in my mid twenties i got hyper masculine. Now I look super masculine so idk what to make of it. I'm 33 now though, and people think I'm early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 10:07 PM
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I might be a weird example, I feel like I'm peak SMV now at 33, but I'm not rich at all. In my case I looked really young until about 25, then i looked about 18 and now people think i'm early 20s. I get attention from teenagers and 40+ year olds. I feel like in my case I have hit my prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 01:00 AM
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Walk into classes on the first day and sit by the hottest girls. Literally what I did. You always end up talking to them. College is super easy.
/r/seduction23/02/19 05:28 AM
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If you quickly look down after eye contact it's submissive, if you look off to the side super fast it's rejecting/not paying attention, and if you hold eye contact for a few seconds and then look off to the side it's like normal interest.
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:54 AM
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It means it's awkward.
/r/seduction09/02/17 04:25 AM
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If you're attractive you learn this really fast.
/r/seduction02/02/17 09:18 PM
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This is more my point, I was once trying to justify going to get a coffee with a girl I had a small crush on. I ended up deciding against it because I realized that I would hide it from my girlfriend. It's just coffee right? Well I knew perfectly clear that it just wasn't coffee. I was secretly hoping for more even if it wasn't obvious to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 09:45 PM
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Anything you do with someone else that don't want your SO to find out about I would consider cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/15 05:02 AM
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Why would you sympathize with either? I know plenty of beta males that got laid / married, and I know plenty of high achieving women that got married or have boyfriends. I want to marry a high achieving woman because I want an equal. If either of these have trouble with opposite sex it's case by case, it's something going on with them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 09:41 PM
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Both have high school diplomas. I have an associates and I'm working on my bachelors. I take a bit from both TRP and BP and make them my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:43 PM
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I dont think it matters either way, usually the children take the man's last name so it kind of unionizes the family. For me if I had a name like Anthony Weiner I would likely take my wife's name and a let my children take her name too. Though right now I'm very content with my last name, if the woman I decide to marry has a better last name that goes with my name sure, likewise with the children. So for me it's about what feels the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 07:39 PM
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Isn't that what TRP is for? talking about how cool we are?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 04:49 PM
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Same. I'm 29 in college. I look better than 99% of men I come across on campus. I do look young though. I'm not attracted exclusively to college girls, I do prefer them in most cases. 30 year old women are going through my mom asking if i'm single and I'm over here dating 18 year olds. I look better now and get more attention than I ever have in my life (like ten fold), as you can tell my confidence (arrogance) is at an all time high as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/15 09:13 AM
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Knew a girl like this in high school, this was 10 years ago, she's still single. Still has lots of a friends though.
/r/seduction19/09/15 04:16 PM
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It's not really to your benefit, the rules benefit the rule makers. I'm a high quality male, I have options, I'll choose what benefits me and my future children the most. The younger a woman is, the more leverage she has in terms of attracting a high quality mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 11:45 AM
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Damn, that would have been my guess. I'm sorry, I've never experienced anything like this before. I guess if I were you, I'd just keep trying.
/r/seduction04/07/15 02:20 AM
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When I was in high school I dated girls from different schools and different grades. Even if they are in different grades, you're less likely to see them very often versus sitting in class with them every day. Once I liked a girl in my class, but her friend in the same class liked me but I didn't like her friend. So after all the feelings came out, we still sat at the same table the rest of the school year and we didn't have any problems. I don't think it's as big of a deal as you think. Most gi…
/r/seduction04/07/15 02:04 AM
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When women are polled they generally say they want someone at least their height. Many say they don't care. So technically, you'll have less rejections if you focus on women your height and below.
/r/seduction04/07/15 01:59 AM
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I can hold eye contact with any stranger, no matter how attractive. However, if I develop a crush, she could even be a 5/10, I can't keep eye contact very well. It's so awkward for me. If I'm actually having a conversation with them though, I can keep eye contact but at the point that's the least of my anxiety.
/r/seduction03/07/15 11:50 AM
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Oh I see, yeah I'm from the south originally. Tons of backyard fights as a kid growing up, got my ass beat a few times. Won a fight or two, lost many more. My parents had the same mentality, very traditional values as well. I never really saw other cultures growing up, mainly just white people until I moved to California. Now I've been introduced to a new environment, I've embraced multiculturalism and I've kind of left white women behind in the process. I'm really into more traditional women. I…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:01 AM
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I guess I don't have real problems.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:25 AM
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Is this common in your culture? I'm a white guy who is into middle eastern girls, I'm genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 02:08 PM
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I have little sexual interest in any female who has had sex with anyone before me in general.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 02:06 PM
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I'm in full support of this. If I had 10 wives that's like 10 times the income. Divorce me all you want i'll be rich!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 04:42 AM
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I can't even get into experienced girls; like my mind plates them, shelves them, or puts them in the slut category and they never come back. Once a girl isn't seen as innocent to me she'll never be a LTR.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 10:00 PM
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Try reading "how to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnagie, that should get you started. I had your problem when I first moved to LA. You have to be someone people want to be around. I upped my style, I gained confidence, I do all the things someone would do to pick up women. This actually works for more than just women. So I give off cool vibes, seem laid back and relaxed. Also don't do small talk, it's annoying as fuck. No one gives a shit. I saw a guy everyday and we were cool but…
/r/seduction20/06/15 03:37 AM
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I'm broke, my girlfriend makes bank. I live off of her, have for years. I've got her spouting feminist propaganda at anyone who says otherwise. Equality am I right? I went back to college, I work out and spend days on the beach. I have an emergency fund she has no idea about so I have peace of mind. I think maybe some of you are looking at this wrong. You hate the feminists, I embrace them. Their stupidity is meant to be taken advantage of.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 06:37 AM
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My cousin (29M) recently became divorced, he's a fat bald piece of shit (probably a 3 or 4) with 2 children. The second that shit went up on facebook all the baby's mommas and divorced older women started messaging him like crazy. He thought he was so cool. Every girl he showed me was absolute trash, former drug users, all faded shitty tattoos, disgusting. He went on a date with one and she started crying about her daddy problems.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 05:37 PM
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It feels good doesn't it? I have a similar story, popular girl in high school asked me out, I was so excited, she cheated on me, all that jazz. I was really upset about it. Now she's in prison for meth for 10 years and I go to UCLA.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:42 AM
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Not only that, every sex partner a woman has affects on her future children's DNA. Subconsciously we're aware of this as well, promiscuous women are and always have been an evolutionary no go.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 11:40 AM
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yeah I guess it's reiterated here a lot and to an extent it seems like common knowledge by now from my perspective.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 04:55 AM
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What? You guys don't look at women as jobs too? I'm always looking for an upgrade myself. We all top out somewhere. Loyalty is the most precious thing in the world and it's rare these days even among brothers.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 01:58 AM
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No matter if she seems like the sweetest woman you've ever met, there's a man, or a tier of man, who, provided she can get away with it, she will fuck for hours in a broom closet. I'll admit at the drop of a hat, there is a woman out there that can make me cheat. So I can't say I really blame them. I don't see why anyone would be shocked by this.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 12:53 AM
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I use a different account for each sub. Go me.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 12:44 AM
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The way I see it, you shouldn't seek out someone to go on vacations with when you're old. You shouldn't seek out a wife, that's what I don't understand about all these people using online dating to find a wife. If you want a family and a wife, that's your choice, but don't go forcing it. If one of your plates / girlfriends lines up with your beliefs and she fits the mold then LTR her maybe eventually wife her, whatever. The second you go out looking specifically for a wife you'll get burned.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 10:37 PM
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"Why are all the good guys taken?" They're not, they're out there dating younger women because no one wants a 30 something cynical i hate the world bitch. Some of these women think they are on top of the world because they've been riding the cock carousel so long they think they are still a catch. It's a shame for the man that decides to settle for a divorcee, raise someone else's kids, or tolerate a woman like this.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 07:12 AM
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Thanks for your insight. I'm definitely going to read more into this.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:35 PM
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This was what I was thinking, but this begs the question, can the settlor lose the money to a divorce if it's beneficiary is myself?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 11:57 AM
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Well I'm not married, it was basically for future reference. The only way I've heard is overseas banks, I'm sure people wouldn't do that if trusts could solve the problem. I've heard of women taking men's companies, so I'm sure they could get ahold of trusts.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 11:52 AM
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Sorry I'm not entirely familiar with trust funds, but can I set up my own trust fund and keep my wife off of it and use it as a safety in a divorce?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 02:47 AM
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feel bad for my girlfriend's next guy
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:44 AM
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This isn't an ideal scenario, at least in my mind. If your wife loves you more than her children, then what happens if you die young? Will she love her next husband more than your children? What if you can't stand her anymore and you have to get out? I'd rather be married to a good mother than wife. I might be in the minority, but children are more important to me than sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 05:53 AM
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goodluck
/r/seduction17/04/15 06:53 PM
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You really need more time, I depend more on natural situations, I don't try to force it. I'm not a fan of cold picking up. I was in this situation at your age, I saw a cute girl in the hallway. I looked her up in the year book found out her name, observed from afar to see who she hung out with. Found out her friends boyfriend was in my class, I started sitting by him, after we became decent friends I said "have you guys ever heard of this girl named blank?" "she's super cute." They explained how…
/r/seduction17/04/15 06:44 PM
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Regarding being funny; I've got a notepad in my phone, I used to think of witty responses a bit late after a conversation, I started writing them in my phone in 2011. It's over 80 pages now. Writing them not only gives me a huge selection to choose from I also overanalyze situations and common concepts in an attempt to make them funny. Though I'm working to be a comedy writer (I even live in Los Angeles), so this was more about developing it for that sake, not for my wit despite that being a pos…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 08:10 AM
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It varies so drastically, some girls are exactly the same as they were in high school. Others go batshit crazy. Really depends on the girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 08:44 PM
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This 100%, I never felt worthy of female attention despite top 5% women in high school showing interest in me. They would even make the first moves, I would be so insecure I'd fuck everything up and they'd move on thinking I wasn't interested. After I gained confidence in college, it was like I could see in color. I looked around at all the girls checking me out, as I started getting girlfriends they'd point out the attention I was getting. It became even more clearer. Confidence went up more. N…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 11:07 AM
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I've never been friend zoned by a woman, I've became friends with girls before but I usually used them to get to their friends.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:15 AM
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Nah she's not, brought up in a different culture? Yes.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:58 PM
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I'm right there with you, my girlfriend is a physics major who is on her way to working at NASA. I don't get all the games and bull shit with her, I'm above average intellect as well and we're equal in that regard. I actually prefer it that way. I can't stand a ditz. I've always found the smart girls attractive and in my experience they aren't riding the cock carousel. They don't cause drama or argue either.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 10:31 PM
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Surely Pretty Woman wasn't a fluke.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:39 AM
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This happened yesterday, we have three doors to enter our apartment complex. The rules of the complex are don't let anyone you don't know in, so I usually don't. I might bend the rules if I see an old lady struggling to find her keys. Yesterday, a young hot 20 something was standing outside of the front door waiting to get in. She saw me driving in and you could see a sigh of relief. Someone to let her in. I could have easily walked in the side door and she would have never seen me go in. The ot…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:43 AM
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I've met them in libraries, schools, and animal shelters.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:02 PM
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I do on occasion, I'm 28. I'll get high school level infatuation and it usually only happens with a woman that has extremely high value to me. In most cases they are young, like 17 or 18. Virgins, motherly, introverted, nondrinkers, non religious, non feminists. I seem to pick girls like this without realizing it. I imagine if I met girls at bars, or through apps, I'd have no emotional attachment and I'd feel like it's pointless. That emotional stimulation is becoming just as important to me as …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 10:59 AM
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Those perfect guys, if they do exist, want to date maybe the top 1 percent of 30year-old women. Or they want to fuck women 10 years younger.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 07:07 PM
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