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| 4 | Can’t get over approach anxietyI agree with most of the comments here. Just a mindset idea: treat it like a video game where you’re starting at Level 1 and have to gain XP to Level Up. You’re not going to go straight to fight the Dragon. You’ll probably start picking berries, killing rats or something like that. Same here. Just ask for the time, for directions, for advice to anyone (young, old, male, female, other, pets, etc). Cashiers, waitresses, and everyone in the service industry make for great NPCs that you can practice… | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How direct should I be when seeding for a 2nd date?How about a middle ground? You want to know if they'll go out with you again, but in many cases, they won't initiate (for whatever reason). You can start testing the waters by sending a message with a link, comment, or info relating to your first date. If you can make it fun, great. If not, that's ok. If she seems responsive, you can suggest an activity (hopefully, something you know both of you will enjoy). But don't set a date and time unless you're already planning to go by yourself. If she'd… | /r/seduction | 25/01/21 10:46 PM |
| 3 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"Yep. I think being detached from outcome is one of the most important things I learned from Dr. Glover. And it’s something that helps everybody in every aspect of life. I just don’t agree with “don’t say anything”. That’s the main reason I got stuck in the friend zone most of my life. I’ve also been really enjoying being open and clear. It’s just so liberating... | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"Oh, I’m not talking about being desperate. But I don’t see anything wrong with “I like you and would like to take you out.” or “I like how X (thing she’s wearing) looks on you.” As a matter-of-fact thing. An opinion. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"Not necessarily. You can say “I’d love to work with you. If you don’t want to work with me, that’s fine too.” | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 4 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"What’s wrong with saying it directly? | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 12:17 PM |
| 3 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"I’m not sure about assuming they’re into you. I’m not a big fan of assuming. But I do think you do have to take the lead and move things forward yourself until you actually get to rejection (and you might not). Robert Glover talks about “looking for rejection,” which I find a bit extreme. But I do agree with him that most people stop trying because they assume there’s no attraction. Somethings I recently learned is that in many cases your won’t get any sign that you should move forward. So basic… | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 12:15 PM |
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