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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 01:59 AM
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Yea definitely not taking away from the fact that I cheated. But you and many people here talk a lot of sense. I'm pretty sad about it but I think in the back of my mind I know what to do.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 10:43 PM
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In your experience as a physician (if I can ask) : does it happen often that people use their genetic condition as an excuse?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 01:14 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to read and answer my questions. I agree with many people here that I just feel lost and because we've been together so long and built something together it's just hard to let go. Especially when he looks me in the eyes and tells me he loves me. SMH (lol) Thanks for letting me know that there is still someone out there. ​ I think I was addicted to drama but now I was trying to let that go by reading "Mind Over Mood" (which I would like to maybe do a book review for …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 09:34 PM
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I read somewhere. Don't do what "feels" good but what "is" good. Thank you for being blunt.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 08:09 PM
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So my emotions are leading me to a false view of my relationship. Does it happen often where people "click" but then it doesn't work? Or is this a pointless question? Also what does "SMH" mean if I can ask?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 07:58 PM
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Yea the term "death of the relationship" hits me hard. Thank you. I should accept what happened and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 07:56 PM
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I see. Did you learn this through experience?
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 07:55 PM
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Ah. Very good point.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 07:54 PM
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I don't think he's manipulating me. I think we both just don't know how to handle our emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 07:26 PM
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I am slowly coming to this realisation. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 06:55 PM
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I agree this is more than what most would deal with
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 06:54 PM
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I always saw it as him being 100% honest with me. As much as it is brutal. I can understand his mental struggles as well. But maybe I am too understanding? I am not without my faults either of course.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 06:54 PM
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To make this clear: 2 months prior that I went on 3 dates with the guy: emotional cheating. I do not want to hide anything.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 04:51 AM
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Thank you. I'll do my best to be more aware of how he takes me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 11:27 PM
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This is beautifully truthful. Thank you so much. You are right - if I feel it I should express it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 11:26 PM
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He is still very nice with me. I know he is still angry with the whole situation. I think we are healing but the fact that we don't leave the house is not helping him. (No jobs - working on it) Your answer is definitely something to be aware of though.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 11:25 PM
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Thank you for your response. I think I might be just a little scared. But let's get rid of that and I'll continue doing my best.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 11:23 PM
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I tell myself that I am ready because I know this is the only thing that will work. When I feel sad I think about how he's hurt much much more than I am. I do have a really hard time with sadness. When he told me about his outing I was happy he told me but I was sad he felt the need to keep it from me. So like......how would happiness prevail. Our relationship is full of sad and mad history. I guess its just difficult to bring it over to the happier side of things.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 05:48 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Yea there were problems before but after what I did and talking a bit I realised I was stuck in my own mental hell. Honestly if i can pinpoint the biggest issue it was (and still is) communication. I remember I was starting to crack when I couldn't enjoy sex anymore and it just felt like an object going in and out of me. But now it's no better.....anyway I'm trying to be more mature about this but it's obvious then when I feel emotions of sadness they are REALLY strong. As…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 05:45 PM
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I am sad because he felt the need to lie. Not the actual lying because I feel like this is temporary until he feels more comfortable around me. I have no problem with the friend. I am sad he is keeping things from me because of what it means - he doesnt trust me anymore. I hid my feelings from him because there is a common trend that whenever i tell him im sad he gets pissed off. Especially if i cry. But yesterday i noticed it happens when he has to fish it out of me. So i am going to work on ju…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 04:36 PM
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It is very hard. I am working on myself everyday. At this point I'm being patient and just trying to be an easier person to be around. But yea, my SO has strong emotions. I can be totally fine but then he might get mad or sad and he projects his emotions so much I just absorb them and fall into despair.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 04:30 PM
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